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  • @Ghostwritertt
    @Ghostwritertt Год назад +6

    I was a drug addict for many years , drug dealing, involved in alot of violence, gambling addict, issues with alcohol.. changed my life , drug free for 14 years, gambling free, don't smoke or drink anymore amd now I work as a substance misuse worker with addicts , helping them change their mindset. I'm also part way through my degree im doing to become a counsellor..i suffere with depression and anxiety but manage it muself through fitness and diet and setting goals. if you have the right mindset and determination you can do and be anything you want to be.. keep up the good work venis 💪❤️

    • @davidhealy7171
      @davidhealy7171 Год назад +1

      Fair play to you mate. Thank you for your transformation and service to others.

    • @wired2780
      @wired2780 Год назад +1

      👊💯

    • @Ghostwritertt
      @Ghostwritertt Год назад

      Thanks guys 💪❤️

  • @FlammableHector
    @FlammableHector Год назад +1

    That's it .
    I'm done.
    Needed to see this video at this stage.
    Been addicted to destruction for far too long .
    Thankyou paul,
    I'll try my best.
    Family forever ❤

  • @rp-em4hj
    @rp-em4hj Год назад +8

    I wish I had these meetings when I got clean 20 years ago. Really struggling now with mental health it's just has hard to fight this. But one thing about recovery is you become good at the fighting. This is just the next chapter. Stay strong everyone.

    • @craigburns5016
      @craigburns5016 Год назад +4

      Same here pal, no NA or AA when I straightened up. People have more chance of getting clean now. One thing I have noticed though, rehab seems to keep you with the idea that you are always going to be in recovery. I feel like I beat my demons and now I'm an ex addict. It's an unusual mind set to believe you will always be the man you were yesterday. I know I'm not.

  • @createabullz
    @createabullz Год назад +3

    One of the hardest things about addiction is seeing the places u used to get onit or them faces u used to get onit with can even be a good mate or a pub

  • @l6outinthestix46
    @l6outinthestix46 Год назад +2

    Not a good life is it the lifestyle kills you not the drugs your a good bloke now thats all that matters you only get one mother

  • @markh2615
    @markh2615 Год назад +1

    Great to hear Paul , keep doing what your doing cos it works 💯
    One day at a time , Brilliant 👏🤞👏🙏

  • @ady8084
    @ady8084 Год назад +2

    Been there myself Paul, I was on gear for over 25 years mate. I can relate to almost everything you've just said, crack is a very naughty drug it takes away everything that's good or positive in life. I was addicted to both crack and heroin, then methadone which was every bit as bad as the heroin if not worse, certainly more difficult to get off as the withdrawals are more extreme. Thankfully I've been clean now for about five years but the temptation of that pipe is always still there.

  • @peternufc1981
    @peternufc1981 Год назад +1

    It’s a total nightmare being addicted to drugs I feel much better giving them up

  • @letshearyourside9115
    @letshearyourside9115 Год назад +2

    Proud of you pal..we’re human we all make mistakes learn and grow 🙏🏻

  • @k.a1764
    @k.a1764 Год назад

    Good honest man whos turned his life round but doesnt hold back on what hes done in the past respect mate

  • @paulbutler6984
    @paulbutler6984 Год назад +1

    A recovering addict Paul not an addict anymore . Your someone to look up to now mate. I for one love your honesty . Top man

  • @justonsullivan3807
    @justonsullivan3807 Год назад

    All the best Paul. Lots of luv from Florida. 🙏🇺🇲🗽🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🙏

  • @BestHeelInBusiness
    @BestHeelInBusiness Год назад +4

    Thanks for this Paul I 2 am a recovering Alcoholic and drug addict. Responsibility and accountability are now my most used words. I'd love to speak to you sir our story is so similar

  • @00000Rueda00000
    @00000Rueda00000 Год назад

    Good message well put across Paul.

  • @michaelwilson4316
    @michaelwilson4316 Год назад

    BRILLIANT paul.....you have been honest of what grug u was takin..I'm 46 dont live far away frm mboro.. I'm yorkshire..I still struggle abit...put what u have just said on here is brilliant..the fifht side I only skim over coz I candle handle myself so it not new..but I've really changed my tune on u for. Been so honest..take care

  • @leccy9901
    @leccy9901 Год назад

    Well done to you, Paul. Btw It was nice seeing that video of your daughter you put up. I bet that family unit keeps you going. Your daughter is a very beautiful little girl. Keep up the good work, big man.

  • @michaelwilson4316
    @michaelwilson4316 Год назад

    This is the most humbler side I've ever hear toy spk pall uve got to of done it to talk about it..brilliant ❤ i 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @namelinzinaw3564
    @namelinzinaw3564 Год назад +1

    Best thing i ever done getting clean well into 20 years now xx

  • @paulscads3408
    @paulscads3408 Год назад

    Nothing but respect and bless you for sharing this... God bless Paul 🙏

  • @mjrestorations
    @mjrestorations Год назад +1

    First time I have heard you talk about your past paul 🙏 bless mate you are the best person to be able to talk and tell these kids how bad and where it all ends up .. God bless paul keep up the good work 🙏❤

  • @brianhogan6672
    @brianhogan6672 Год назад +2

    U r a good lad paul takes a man to admit to your many fans me included

  • @tomn7300
    @tomn7300 Год назад

    Great story Paul, top man

  • @mick100ism
    @mick100ism Год назад +1

    I really enjoyed listening to you, and being so honest about your past, it's awe-inspiring how you've changed your life around.

  • @markwyliee13
    @markwyliee13 Год назад

    I think if you really want the help it is there, you first have to face the fact you are an addict but more importantly if you put as much effort into participating in meetings as you would have done say trying to score during a "dry spell" you won't go far wrong brother. Shout out to your mum she sounds an inspiration !!

  • @leeryan925
    @leeryan925 Год назад

    Absolutely solid video fella 💯👊🏽

  • @darrelw6246
    @darrelw6246 Год назад +1

    Very well put indeed 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @nickallen2279
    @nickallen2279 Год назад

    Paul, godspeed......your openess is inspiring.....a little lost for words as i connect with every single point you make.....but still striving to follow through.......keep posting boss.......it helps us.👌🖐👐

  • @Brownie167
    @Brownie167 Год назад

    What a true inspiration you are, MR. V . YOU should be around every school in the United Kingdom telling all the school kids your story .. Well Done 👏

  • @jamierawlings-bx2pb
    @jamierawlings-bx2pb Год назад

    Takes a Real man to do what your doing paul respect to you big lad!

  • @johnb5586
    @johnb5586 Год назад

    Well said Paul

  • @chriswilcox7828
    @chriswilcox7828 Год назад

    I just love honesty I'm sure you understand it's important in certain circumstances not many make it as we pay a high price for our poor choices and the sad part is we don't see at the time we have to mess up often so we learn

  • @chriswilcox7828
    @chriswilcox7828 Год назад

    I really respect the critical work you do for me I see a priceless gentlemen in you and I am also able to look into the mirror and love who I am

  • @AndreaMclaughlin-r4h
    @AndreaMclaughlin-r4h Год назад +1

    Big up venis love you bro

  • @michaeldurham3822
    @michaeldurham3822 Год назад

    The best video I’ve watched from this guy 👏👏

  • @JonnyRatclffe3467
    @JonnyRatclffe3467 Год назад

    good video that was 👍

  • @rhysb5459
    @rhysb5459 Год назад

    We recover the person that we were intended to be 🤝

  • @davidpears5715
    @davidpears5715 Год назад

    Mint video that pal ! ❤

  • @JonboyMck
    @JonboyMck Год назад

    Ur a good man paul

  • @dazheadlam9786
    @dazheadlam9786 Год назад

    Massive respect Paul

  • @dmasiodnmiod
    @dmasiodnmiod Год назад +3

    I've done 40 days atm

  • @Lfcwalters
    @Lfcwalters Год назад

    I’ve never suffered with addiction well maybe gambling but still being the last fool at party’s and carrying on when everyone had stopped and your story’s so familiar but so glad I came across you pal

  • @lewiswright6569
    @lewiswright6569 Год назад

    Inspirational words bro ! 🙏

  • @leejohnmusicblog1276
    @leejohnmusicblog1276 Год назад

    Great talker mate
    One of the good ones on here

  • @FrancoJJameson
    @FrancoJJameson Год назад +1

    It's a lifelong struggle isn't it Paul, having a purpose to get out of bed everyday plays a big part in scaffolding recovery.

  • @craigphillips9383
    @craigphillips9383 Год назад

    I was brought up anti drugs, then had a bad accident, broke both my femur when i was 19. In hospital I was on epidural in my spine and had morphine on tap through a blue machine/dispenser. Then when i learned to walk and left hospital i was on liquid morphine and dihydracodeine, since then ive battled addiction. Ive had 7 years clean, relapsed, now on 1year clean. I know its gping to be a battle til i die

  • @theoracleofmakeup8061
    @theoracleofmakeup8061 Год назад

  • @darrenjames5795
    @darrenjames5795 Год назад

    Yeah I can 💯 resonate with this story m8. your mind and body looks strong and healthy now and your on right path. Ego is the killer of us all.
    I me self have done drugs since 13 on and off.
    Never full addiction but as the British life style is there is drink and coke round every corner and my binges where heavy also.
    But it was effecting family and my business at times.
    So been fully clean for 1 year now and I would never be going back to it, held me head high and said to every one I’m done with pubs and party’s and dnt invite me. Was hard a first but now life is just bliss.
    I think also m8 that lads like us are not build for this society we were properly worriers in past life and would done well in the older day. This way of living is not true to us and this is why people are forever numbing there selfs even if it’s with lots of coffee, sugar, takeaways… I honestly think people like that dumb down feeling to hide the true

  • @ianlindsay8577
    @ianlindsay8577 Год назад +1

    Very brave telling your story u must of been to hell and back to come through it makes u appreciate life when you live a clean life

  • @Man19893
    @Man19893 Год назад

    Hope ya well bro try be strong for your family yeah 🤜🏻🤛🏻💙

  • @natureisallpowerful
    @natureisallpowerful Год назад +1

    You know what always makes me laugh Paul, people who sniff coke and slag crack/heroin addicts off. I know many a man who were and still are undercover pipe fiends lol
    Thanks mate relate to the struggle and Insanity ❤

  • @boxingmonthly
    @boxingmonthly Год назад

    may Allah bless you and your family

  • @colininthebubble2924
    @colininthebubble2924 Год назад

    Paul give me a shout if you want a proper pad sesh dude
    Doing it proper you are 🙏

  • @wired2780
    @wired2780 Год назад

    I was like that don’t tell anybody I was era on council estates everybody knows ya business 😂

  • @derryshorts3811
    @derryshorts3811 Год назад

    possibly ADHD. l am 44 years old, my beautiful boy has been diagnosed ASD ( Autism spectrum disorder) and lm on pathway for diagnosis for ADHD.

  • @reeee4vhjk
    @reeee4vhjk Год назад +3

    Decca is calling fck out of you right now on his live he is obsessed with You

  • @createabullz
    @createabullz Год назад +1

    There’s 2 kinds of addicts tho bro the ones in denial and the ones that know they have a problem

  • @andyh1353
    @andyh1353 Год назад

    Drink drug and gambling problem over ere funking hard work trying to break the habits I've had since teenager

  • @thetruththewayandthelife803
    @thetruththewayandthelife803 Год назад

    When was the last session and do you get offered it alot ?

  • @Brummieinrecovery
    @Brummieinrecovery Год назад

    Great to hear this can relate a lot..god bless ya don't go off RUclips again mate..I'm an alcoholic in recovery over 3 years sober now best decision I ever made..just a quick question mate being in narcotics anonymous does that mean alcohol is out of bounds aswell as alcohol was also a gateway for other substances for myself just always been curious as as I only attended A.A myself but I imagine it's total abstinence the same as myself 👍🏻

  • @Beasy01
    @Beasy01 Год назад

    Thats some chin!!😮😮😮😮

  • @bradleyedwards8510
    @bradleyedwards8510 Год назад

    Im still a addict but I’m not addicted.

  • @Trenrabbit
    @Trenrabbit Год назад

    Mate are lifes sound a lot like but the only difference is no thing working for me I may not be as bad now ..but still doing but shit ..am me I mate I believe people are born with it

  • @chriswilcox7828
    @chriswilcox7828 Год назад

    I never got on with the false pedeler the Na message was jaundice in Leicester last time I went the main weknd meeting the main guy was asking me to score for him I was so messed up by it but as it you I will try again

  • @avid-my3ik
    @avid-my3ik Год назад

    Paul u was always there u did not see it

  • @Beasy01
    @Beasy01 Год назад

    Where is your mate DC on a proper bender this time i hear ????

  • @tonytigervarley
    @tonytigervarley Год назад

    Crack is very more-ish 💯

  • @Beasy01
    @Beasy01 Год назад

    narracasisistic individual you are taking your clothes off after the DC DH fight😂😂😂 ohh look at me dougie im strong me 😂😂😂😂

  • @timmyeldridge313
    @timmyeldridge313 Год назад

    Boring

  • @TmB799
    @TmB799 Год назад

    🙌🙏👊👍💯💯

  • @smokey4395
    @smokey4395 Год назад

    DAY2 of fucking the green off out my life and man this shit is crazy hard man but better times ahead # ONE LIFE LETS LIVE IT PEOPLE ❤️

  • @ryansmith7987
    @ryansmith7987 Год назад

    That was really good content. Were you fighting K1 while you were using or clean Paul?

  • @Anthony-z8c6p
    @Anthony-z8c6p Год назад +1

    You know pal my son got killed try walking in my shoes if that's your problem threaten people good luck