Why you can't attract a high value man. 1) You are flimsy with your boundaries. 2) You are too available. 3) You have a bad attitude towards men. 4) You exhibit off putting masculine traits. 5) You're hung up on your ex. 6) You keep playing mind games. 7) You're not a high value woman. 8) You're self absorbed. 9) You are the pursuer. 10) You have terrible friends.
I was a terrible girlfriend. Jealous, doubtful,loud,abusive ,unkept & everything you can think of. But over the years I have worked so much on myself and is now settled with a wonderful gentleman. If I hadn’t recognised my withdraws I wouldn’t be able to find the one with whom I can settle down and live an elegant life. Ladies, recognise your flaws & correct it day in and out with each relationship you got. Including yourself . Good luck!
The key to attracting high value..is to be high value.. you attract what you are to yourself..you get what you accept..it’s really just that simple ..most people are just delusional about what and who they really are.
Video was amazing. Ladies, I would also add to points#10. If you are looking for relationships advice on a potential suitor/ or husband. You should hire a professional marriage counselor or speak to a therapist about it. Do not ask your “friends” about their opinions on your future or soon to be husband. Discuss those concerns that you have to a professional or pray and fast about it. And Ask God for discernment.
THISSSS!!!! also i would say that pre-marriage couple therapy would help so much and show particular problems each person have and also the ways to solve it BEFORE saying “YES”
That is excellent advice. A lot of people assume you just know what kind of person you should marry. In fact that's the best way I know of to really screw it up. The ideas I have when I married was to start wrong and it shows in my own marriage. I simply didn't know what I was doing.. I am so pleased that young ladies like you are like you are employing sensible approaches to life-and-death cool approaches to life in general. Also, that gorgeous British accent doesn't hurt!! Keep going Vivian. You make me proud.
My father taught me to never wait more than 15 minutes for someone. I practiced this throughout my dating. It works. But it’s hard to do. An example would be that you are waiting in a restaurant. If the person doesn’t arrive within 15 minutes, you get up and leave.
So true. A date showed up an hour late. I was already gone! He never called to say he was running late. I don't understand such inconsiderate behavior!
Last year I watched this video, and didn’t get anything out of it, because I was a mess, always meeting the wrong men, and couldn’t understand, until I talked to God. And he began showing all the things I was doing wrong, and had a lot of mental trauma growing up. I’m now working on myself, and I can come back to this video and understand all she’s saying is so true.🙏🏽❤️
Having a woman like Vivian is equivalent to winning a 200 million dollar lottery. I can't stop watching her speak since i bumped into her Vlog. Am envious.
I prayed my husband into my life. And he always tells me I'm the best thing that happened to him. I'm glad I naturally and unknowingly integrated some of Vivienne's points into my life before I knew what it was. But I do see things and hold values that are a little old fashioned even if I'm only in my late 30's. Traditional, classy elegant ways never go out of style!
1. Flimsy with your boundaries. Create firm boundaries and be strict with them 2. You’re too available. 3. You have a terrible attitude about men. 4. You’re still hung up on your ex. 5. You exhibit off putting masculine traits. Eg. Profanity, binge drinking, being physical or violent, yelling, sleeping around, competing with men. Love can’t operate with ego. 6. You keep playing mind games. 7. You aren’t a high quality woman yourself. 8. You’re self absorbed. Don’t be vain and conceited. 9. You are the purser, and you’re aggressive with it. 10. You have terrible friends. You’re a product of the ppl you spend a lot of time with. Always take accountability first before expecting anything.
Your natural hair is beautiful. I would encourage you to wear it more often. We need more representation of colored ladies demonstrating that our natural hair does not subtract from our ability to look, feel, and be elegant.
I am a man following you from Yaounde Cameroun in Africa I found the video so interesting that I shared it with all my sisters , thanks a lots and keep on doing the good job
Thankfully God blessed me with a good marriage but I will confess my biggest struggle has been being too masculine in disagreements with my husband. It came from being bullied a lot as a child and growing up around very masculine friends who came from single parent homes. It was like I had to stand up for myself since I was so gentle and soft. Over time I came off rough and aggressive sadly it’s been my biggest struggle. I now have two little girls and I’ve been intentional about how to handle conflict. I don’t want to teach my girls that poor behavior.
I love how you acknowledge that God has blessed you despite your flaws…sometimes after I watch all these videos showing me how to work on myself I collapse and tell God that I do all this work on myself but can still end up in an the undesirable situations I have been in the past if his grace doesn’t come through for me …😭😭
I learned to listen to understand not to respond. I have to pray and im learning that i don't have to be right on small things. I tell myself you don't have to be right because if i do i have win the fight, but lost the war. I found when i present things to God when im upset he shows me when im wrong or he changes my husband. Its hard but when i remain humble the lord fixes the situation. I can't do certain things anymore so i rely on my husband for a lot. I am accustomed to doing things myself now i have to let him lead. But i choose to change its my responsibility to be the best version of myself. The lord told me to focus on him and change. Im working on my physical appearance and my health. Continue to be accountable to your self and watch video s like this even if your married.
Wow! The first point!!! I was just thinking about that today. Having boundaries with the kind of men we let into our space and give our time to. Very important to know what one wants as an elegant woman. Writing the traits you want down helps to guide relationship decisions.
I love everything about your channel. You ,your advice , your face your hair the fashion I love it all. This is exactly what the community needed a refined and refreshing take on elegance and class. Thank you for your presence
Viviane, You put your intellect, wisdom and grace into this video. It is poignant in every way. This comes from a woman who is in her 60s and recently no longer married. Your points can give us a map as to where we need to improve whilst taking stock in those aspects of ourselves that we have already developed or learnt from, those which we can feel good about. A multitude of thanks for your efforts on our behalf.
Your video literally points directly at me over the years I am exhibited high level of masculine turn off it almost robbed me off my relationship to the glory of God the second half of 2022 has a different turn on me since I discovered your channel on this platform thank you so much mam you have made me realize a lot of unattractive traits in my life and you have changed my life😍 much love from Nigeria🇳🇬
Thank you dear , as a widow this may not be applicable as she has a responsible especially when she has a child or children to take care of, I use myself as example infact as my new status what I try to do is put in my best towards my family and Job and try to learn other skills or add to my educational value. Is not easy but do we have a choice
Your comment is refreshing and a good reminder to all of us not to stress 💗 can you give some advice on how you remind yourself of this or other tips? I need to learn...
#5 was tough for me to change as I work in a male dominated field and was bullied growing up so I developed a shield. Professionally I excelled and the bullies left me alone, however I seemed to start attracting immature and irresponsible men. On top of that I realized that I was emotionally unavailable and hated being vulnerable. By the grace of God I was able to heal and not soley depend on self-preservation to protect myself.
Wow this video is amazing! I’m a highly successful man and every point you make here is spot on! This should be mandated viewing for every young lady. Thank you!!
Thank you for this upload! You hit upon several important topics. Your list was confirming to me. I am reflecting fondly upon my undergraduate years as I attended an all female college and was taught to fine tune my soft skills while also pursuing my own academic career. Now, as an International educator, I have shared many of your tips with a few female colleagues I've met throughout my journey as they all want a high value, "just right" man, yet the way they've gone about trying to procure a high quality man typically yields only a "just right now" kind of situation.
You thank us for watching your videos...We should be the ones thanking you for uploading them. Thank you ma'am for all you do. Your impact is very evident and I'm grateful.
Ordinarily,it will be a woman to be complimentary on your astounding salutary and operant advice, however as a man, let me be the first to be eccentric in my male/masculine conclave and say "salute". I hope all the ladies listening to you out there will be receptive of your well-researched content. You have efficaciously hit the nail on the head, ma'am. "Bravo".
@14:16 here is another persepective! I know a lot of people confuse this for being a narc, however, there is a difference between being a narc, and being traumatized and seeking relief. I know a lot of people who are "self-absorbed" cause they are venting.
A lovely and very informative videi, as always. Though I'd disagree with promiscuity being a masculine trait. It's more of a instinctual thing, just of slightly varying degrees between sexes. I'd also point out that men who are promiscuous aren't really high-caliber nor masculine in the traditional sense of the word either. Preserving virtue is a masculine trait (from the perspective of leadership and authority) and thus, men who dishonor both their and their (sexual) partners bodies are not masculine. I'd call that trashy behaviour rather than strictly masculine. It hurts both men and women to act in such a way.
At 55 I have given up on finding a man. They seem to want beautiful and slim or just sex.many want women to be mum to look after them or they have been taken to the cleaners by divorce...sob!
I love that you pictured Iman and David Bowie/Jones. David frequently said that he went after Iman with everything he had. She knew her value and did not make it "easy."
Please do a video on what to do if your husband has gone downhill, drinks, doesn’t care about his appearance anymore , looks at porn. Especially in a lengthy marriage with children. This can be a real problem for some. Thank you elegant friend💜
Very Helpful. Would you be so kind as to bring us your views on how Elegant ladies should dress and carry themselves while traveling? Thank you in advance for your consideration and assistance.
U r doing very well my sister keep up the good work i hope your husband is treating u like crown jewels because thats what u are i hope u have health and strength and prosperity for u and your family
Thank you Vivian for your insight videos. Please make more videos regarding woman's accountability in the dating and relationship scenarios. I think that we need to be more aware of our role for ourself, our partner/husband and our surroundings. We can say what we want to receive, but what are we putting on the table and why are we worthy of what we want. Keep it up Viviane. Keep elevating us.⚘
hiiiiiii I'm a new women to your channel and I'm very interested In your education videos....I belive all women one day say they are in the need of change and I'm one of them I'm hopeing I learn and change myself into a better women with your videos thank you
I have a question about point number 9-don't pursue. I agree that women should not be the pursuer and I never plan to pursue any man high value or not. But I also like to be continuously pursued by men I am dating or have an interest in me. How do I allow myself to be pursued without it being interpreted by them that I am playing a game?
A high Value married man does NOT cheat on numerous women, does not cheat others in business, does not see all females as bait. Lives by the Commandments.
Hearing that being available means I’m not desirable really hurt. I’m not sure if that’s true for everyone. I have turned down many suitors since my last relationship didn’t work out. But you’re right about not getting over the ex (he has not moved on) but the amount of love, time and energy I invested him i honestly don’t want to think about seriously investing in someone else.
Hello mam, wow what statements in this video. For me as a man, I can only confirm these statements. Unfortunately, there are too many men who themselves do not know how a gentleman or nobleman moves or behaves. Thank you for the video. Many greetings Lutz
There are also out there men with great successful careers that appear quality, but have nothing of quality once you have spent time with them, sometimes years before uncovering who their true nature are
Fantastic content, very good presentation, lovely and inspiring host. At my age, this remains quality advice, and I share your content with my daughters and nieces. Thank you 💝 💚
Thank you so much for this it's highly appreciated ❤.Could you please do a video on how to be a great conversationalist specifically making recommendations on articles,podcasts,books or interviews. I think it could help put us blooming elegant ladies one step ahead especially in having impactful conversations in various environments. Thank you🤗
I think reading different stuff that doesn't relate to your career helps with broadening one's views. Being up to date with Current Affairs. Travelling also brings exposure and can kick-start conversations. Reading novels and not forgetting participating in at least one physical activity makes one interesting when having conversations.
Thanks so much for this wonderful advice. Please can you make a video on how to act elegantly when someone looks down on you interms of heigt, colour, race and things that are natural and cannot be changed. 🙏❤️
Why you can't attract a high value man.
1) You are flimsy with your boundaries.
2) You are too available.
3) You have a bad attitude towards men.
4) You exhibit off putting masculine traits.
5) You're hung up on your ex.
6) You keep playing mind games.
7) You're not a high value woman.
8) You're self absorbed.
9) You are the pursuer.
10) You have terrible friends.
👏 well taught
Thanks for summary!
1.....2.....6.....7 definitely need to work on that....9....
Thanks for this beautiful reminder 💝
Sounds like most of the men
I was a terrible girlfriend. Jealous, doubtful,loud,abusive ,unkept & everything you can think of. But over the years I have worked so much on myself and is now settled with a wonderful gentleman. If I hadn’t recognised my withdraws I wouldn’t be able to find the one with whom I can settle down and live an elegant life.
Ladies, recognise your flaws & correct it day in and out with each relationship you got. Including yourself .
Good luck!
Thank you for your refreshing honesty!!I'm on a similar journey of personal growth
Yes this is so true Sister. I'm trying to work on my anger issues, also I recently started my feminine journey.. wish me luck 💗🌺
@@ayushmitachakraborty3414 Good luck to you. It’s a first step towards being elegant.
Ugh me too 😢
I feel like once they get sex those true colors show
The key to attracting high value..is to be high value.. you attract what you are to yourself..you get what you accept..it’s really just that simple ..most people are just delusional about what and who they really are.
Thankyou Universe for EVERYTHING
Video was amazing. Ladies, I would also add to points#10. If you are looking for relationships advice on a potential suitor/ or husband. You should hire a professional marriage counselor or speak to a therapist about it. Do not ask your “friends” about their opinions on your future or soon to be husband. Discuss those concerns that you have to a professional or pray and fast about it. And Ask God for discernment.
This
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This! Involve God in every big decision. Friends aren't the ones in a relationship with him so they can't possibly know if he's best for you.
THISSSS!!!! also i would say that
pre-marriage couple therapy would help so much and show particular problems each person have and also the ways to solve it BEFORE saying “YES”
That is excellent advice. A lot of people assume you just know what kind of person you should marry. In fact that's the best way I know of to really screw it up. The ideas I have when I married was to start wrong and it shows in my own marriage. I simply didn't know what I was doing.. I am so pleased that young ladies like you are like you are employing sensible approaches to life-and-death cool approaches to life in general. Also, that gorgeous British accent doesn't hurt!! Keep going Vivian. You make me proud.
My father taught me to never wait more than 15 minutes for someone. I practiced this throughout my dating. It works. But it’s hard to do. An example would be that you are waiting in a restaurant. If the person doesn’t arrive within 15 minutes, you get up and leave.
So true. A date showed up an hour late. I was already gone! He never called to say he was running late. I don't understand such inconsiderate behavior!
Unless they call with an explanation
Last year I watched this video, and didn’t get anything out of it, because I was a mess, always meeting the wrong men, and couldn’t understand, until I talked to God. And he began showing all the things I was doing wrong, and had a lot of mental trauma growing up. I’m now working on myself, and I can come back to this video and understand all she’s saying is so true.🙏🏽❤️
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I have never seen a person with such a high EQ, love and blessings.
Having a woman like Vivian is equivalent to winning a 200 million dollar lottery. I can't stop watching her speak since i bumped into her Vlog. Am envious.
"do not allow bad soil prevent to you from growing new you foliage"
Thank you, Miss Vivienne 💜
Well said.
I prayed my husband into my life. And he always tells me I'm the best thing that happened to him. I'm glad I naturally and unknowingly integrated some of Vivienne's points into my life before I knew what it was. But I do see things and hold values that are a little old fashioned even if I'm only in my late 30's. Traditional, classy elegant ways never go out of style!
I’m a single man and all I have to say is, I pray to God above to marry a woman exactly like you!
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😂😂😂
❤❤
1. Flimsy with your boundaries. Create firm boundaries and be strict with them
2. You’re too available.
3. You have a terrible attitude about men.
4. You’re still hung up on your ex.
5. You exhibit off putting masculine traits. Eg. Profanity, binge drinking, being physical or violent, yelling, sleeping around, competing with men. Love can’t operate with ego.
6. You keep playing mind games.
7. You aren’t a high quality woman yourself.
8. You’re self absorbed. Don’t be vain and conceited.
9. You are the purser, and you’re aggressive with it.
10. You have terrible friends. You’re a product of the ppl you spend a lot of time with.
Always take accountability first before expecting anything.
2,3,5,9 ugh
Your natural hair is beautiful. I would encourage you to wear it more often. We need more representation of colored ladies demonstrating that our natural hair does not subtract from our ability to look, feel, and be elegant.
"it's time to hold urself accountable" felt that
Good luck with that!🤨😉😮💨😒🙄🤣
I am a man following you from Yaounde Cameroun in Africa I found the video so interesting that I shared it with all my sisters , thanks a lots and keep on doing the good job
Thankfully God blessed me with a good marriage but I will confess my biggest struggle has been being too masculine in disagreements with my husband. It came from being bullied a lot as a child and growing up around very masculine friends who came from single parent homes. It was like I had to stand up for myself since I was so gentle and soft. Over time I came off rough and aggressive sadly it’s been my biggest struggle. I now have two little girls and I’ve been intentional about how to handle conflict. I don’t want to teach my girls that poor behavior.
I love how you acknowledge that God has blessed you despite your flaws…sometimes after I watch all these videos showing me how to work on myself I collapse and tell God that I do all this work on myself but can still end up in an the undesirable situations I have been in the past if his grace doesn’t come through for me …😭😭
Valuable share...Thank you.
The fact that you are aware of this says so much. Maybe you can try and pause before responding. We can learn new behaviors. You’ve got this.
I learned to listen to understand not to respond. I have to pray and im learning that i don't have to be right on small things. I tell myself you don't have to be right because if i do i have win the fight, but lost the war. I found when i present things to God when im upset he shows me when im wrong or he changes my husband. Its hard but when i remain humble the lord fixes the situation. I can't do certain things anymore so i rely on my husband for a lot. I am accustomed to doing things myself now i have to let him lead. But i choose to change its my responsibility to be the best version of myself. The lord told me to focus on him and change. Im working on my physical appearance and my health. Continue to be accountable to your self and watch video s like this even if your married.
Wow! The first point!!! I was just thinking about that today. Having boundaries with the kind of men we let into our space and give our time to.
Very important to know what one wants as an elegant woman. Writing the traits you want down helps to guide relationship decisions.
I love everything about your channel. You ,your advice , your face your hair the fashion I love it all. This is exactly what the community needed a refined and refreshing take on elegance and class. Thank you for your presence
Viviane, You put your intellect, wisdom and grace into this video. It is poignant in every way. This comes from a woman who is in her 60s and recently no longer married. Your points can give us a map as to where we need to improve whilst taking stock in those aspects of ourselves that we have already developed or learnt from, those which we can feel good about. A multitude of thanks for your efforts on our behalf.
Your video literally points directly at me over the years I am exhibited high level of masculine turn off it almost robbed me off my relationship to the glory of God the second half of 2022 has a different turn on me since I discovered your channel on this platform thank you so much mam you have made me realize a lot of unattractive traits in my life and you have changed my life😍 much love from Nigeria🇳🇬
In my humble opinion, this is your best video you have done ❤️💐
This woman is speaking truth.
I love femininity so much, it gets me so much assistance, I literally don't stress over anything 🥰
Thanks for this video Viv 🥰
Thank you dear , as a widow this may not be applicable as she has a responsible especially when she has a child or children to take care of, I use myself as example infact as my new status what I try to do is put in my best towards my family and Job and try to learn other skills or add to my educational value. Is not easy but do we have a choice
I needed this tonight!!!
Your comment is refreshing and a good reminder to all of us not to stress 💗 can you give some advice on how you remind yourself of this or other tips? I need to learn...
#5 was tough for me to change as I work in a male dominated field and was bullied growing up so I developed a shield. Professionally I excelled and the bullies left me alone, however I seemed to start attracting immature and irresponsible men. On top of that I realized that I was emotionally unavailable and hated being vulnerable.
By the grace of God I was able to heal and not soley depend on self-preservation to protect myself.
Wow this video is amazing! I’m a highly successful man and every point you make here is spot on! This should be mandated viewing for every young lady. Thank you!!
Spot on about educating girls.. but, where are the standards of moral decent values taught to young girls/boys? MaybeSunday school? 😋
I'm learning and developing myself so much this year
Thank you for this upload! You hit upon several important topics. Your list was confirming to me. I am reflecting fondly upon my undergraduate years as I attended an all female college and was taught to fine tune my soft skills while also pursuing my own academic career. Now, as an International educator, I have shared many of your tips with a few female colleagues I've met throughout my journey as they all want a high value, "just right" man, yet the way they've gone about trying to procure a high quality man typically yields only a "just right now" kind of situation.
First point was always me,but I have learned to set my boundaries and stick by them🤗🤗you look lovely with your natural hair Vivian ❤️❤️
What kind of boundaries did you set?
‘Good thoughts become things!!’ YES! Full of wisdom always Vivienne ❤️ xx Joanne
From Egypt i say thank u thank u lovely woman , u changed all my mindset ❤❤❤
You thank us for watching your videos...We should be the ones thanking you for uploading them. Thank you ma'am for all you do. Your impact is very evident and I'm grateful.
APPLAUSE!!! All great points to attract not only ‘high caliber’ men but also a good man who you both can build a high caliber life with 😊
Ordinarily,it will be a woman to be complimentary on your astounding salutary and operant advice, however as a man, let me be the first to be eccentric in my male/masculine conclave and say "salute". I hope all the ladies listening to you out there will be receptive of your well-researched content. You have efficaciously hit the nail on the head, ma'am. "Bravo".
😊
Even her livestreams are so put together! 👏
This was a very good video! Thank you for taking the time to make it. Very helpful information for women everywhere! Thank you sooooo much!
@14:16 here is another persepective! I know a lot of people confuse this for being a narc, however, there is a difference between being a narc, and being traumatized and seeking relief. I know a lot of people who are "self-absorbed" cause they are venting.
It's so lovely to see you with your own hair. You look so fresh faced and youthful.
We missed you! I have been feverously checking for a new video since last week. Now I am all smiles.
Wow you look so much prettier and younger as a natural
This video hits hard. Very eye-opening, thank you!
Oh my gosh! I always thought I was elegant and high caliber, but I had never thought about several of your points!
This video was so real yet respectful
Now things are truly getting clearer for me. Knowledge truly is power. Well done Vivian 👍.
A lovely and very informative videi, as always.
Though I'd disagree with promiscuity being a masculine trait. It's more of a instinctual thing, just of slightly varying degrees between sexes.
I'd also point out that men who are promiscuous aren't really high-caliber nor masculine in the traditional sense of the word either. Preserving virtue is a masculine trait (from the perspective of leadership and authority) and thus, men who dishonor both their and their (sexual) partners bodies are not masculine.
I'd call that trashy behaviour rather than strictly masculine. It hurts both men and women to act in such a way.
I agree👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
💯👍🏾
Thank you Vivienne. Very informative video. I will definitely review as I know I am guilty of some.
I love this channel I’ve been binge watching I love it. Thank you for sharing such valuable information.
At 55 I have given up on finding a man. They seem to want beautiful and slim or just sex.many want women to be mum to look after them or they have been taken to the cleaners by divorce...sob!
I love this particular topic. Thank you so much, I'm still working on myself, I have stop pursuing him
Wow, you are a piece of art! I appreciate your effort and time.🥰🥰
I love that you pictured Iman and David Bowie/Jones. David frequently said that he went after Iman with everything he had. She knew her value and did not make it "easy."
Please do a video on what to do if your husband has gone downhill, drinks, doesn’t care about his appearance anymore , looks at porn. Especially in a lengthy marriage with children. This can be a real problem for some. Thank you elegant friend💜
Your husband may be depressed.
I needed this so badly😅. Bless you ❤️
This has been a good message to the right person at the right time.thank you so much dear.
Great points. Love the way you speak. You are Beautiful inside and out. God bless you and your family 💛
This was perfect I really needed to hear these truths thank you!
Very Helpful. Would you be so kind as to bring us your views on how Elegant ladies should dress and carry themselves while traveling? Thank you in advance for your consideration and assistance.
Hi dear thanks for your comment. I have a video titled 'How to Travel with proper decorum, class and elegance'. I hope this is helpful to you xx
@@WomanOfElegance Absolutely. Thank you Darling 😊 💓
I love that travel video by Ms. Vivienne . I learnt alot. I will never travel shabby again😅😅
Vivian, so many hard truths in only one video! It hurts! Thank goodness I scheduled my new set of therapy sessions
Your videos are always top-notch!! Thank you.🙏
Thank you! I love how specific this is. I love knowing exactly what areas I need some work in.
Thank you sister. You're awesome!!!👍
needed this soo much thank you ✨💗🙌🏾
Absolutely love this video!! Really made me reevaluate my mindset and the image I am putting out. How do we become more feminine?
Watch all her previous videos
Woman of Elegance, thank you for this!!!
GosH!! I can watch you all day and everyday. Thanks so much for these tremendous tips
Love your content. Much love from Jamaica🇯🇲
U r doing very well my sister keep up the good work i hope your husband is treating u like crown jewels because thats what u are i hope u have health and strength and prosperity for u and your family
Loving the bun!
You attract who you are 📌
All this is true after you get your own life in order first. You are your own biggest project you will ever have. # self growth.
Thank you Vivienne 😊 we love you!
Viviane- Thank you so very much for your love & wonderful advice. You are so right on the mark. I love you dearly 💕
Thank you Vivian for your insight videos. Please make more videos regarding woman's accountability in the dating and relationship scenarios. I think that we need to be more aware of our role for ourself, our partner/husband and our surroundings. We can say what we want to receive, but what are we putting on the table and why are we worthy of what we want.
Keep it up Viviane. Keep elevating us.⚘
So true, love the video.
hiiiiiii I'm a new women to your channel and I'm very interested In your education videos....I belive all women one day say they are in the need of change and I'm one of them I'm hopeing I learn and change myself into a better women with your videos thank you
Thank you for your great advice Ms. Viviane. This is so much needed.
Never allow a mere mortal to dictate ur life
Allow the man to lead
Love cannot operate with ego
Thank you so much Vivienne, I enjoyed these video so much
Everything you said is true 100%...God bless you plenty. 👍
Wow yeah I need to correct myself. Thank you for explaining this .😮
Thank you so much Vivienne.
Very insightful.
This is really very educative!
Yes Vivian, I just like watching and listening to your videos.
I have a question about point number 9-don't pursue. I agree that women should not be the pursuer and I never plan to pursue any man high value or not. But I also like to be continuously pursued by men I am dating or have an interest in me. How do I allow myself to be pursued without it being interpreted by them that I am playing a game?
A high Value married man does NOT cheat on numerous women, does not cheat others in business, does not see all females as bait. Lives by the Commandments.
Hearing that being available means I’m not desirable really hurt. I’m not sure if that’s true for everyone. I have turned down many suitors since my last relationship didn’t work out. But you’re right about not getting over the ex (he has not moved on) but the amount of love, time and energy I invested him i honestly don’t want to think about seriously investing in someone else.
Vivienne, I love your hair. This are gems of wisdom. Thanks.
The best is yet to come.
Thanks Viv! ❤️ God bless you for this 🙏
Thank you😍😍the video was amazing .
fit, feminine, friendly, thats it
Hello mam,
wow what statements in this video.
For me as a man, I can only confirm these statements.
Unfortunately, there are too many men who themselves do not know how a gentleman or nobleman moves or behaves.
Thank you for the video.
Many greetings
Lutz
Amazing piece. Thanks for sharing!
There are also out there men with great successful careers that appear quality, but have nothing of quality once you have spent time with them, sometimes years before uncovering who their true nature are
This was the whole truth and nothing else but the truth... thanks much.
Fantastic content, very good presentation, lovely and inspiring host. At my age, this remains quality advice, and I share your content with my daughters and nieces. Thank you 💝 💚
Thank you so much for this it's highly appreciated ❤.Could you please do a video on how to be a great conversationalist specifically making recommendations on articles,podcasts,books or interviews. I think it could help put us blooming elegant ladies one step ahead especially in having impactful conversations in various environments.
Thank you🤗
Hawu Gabhisa, you are also here 🇿🇦
I think reading different stuff that doesn't relate to your career helps with broadening one's views. Being up to date with Current Affairs. Travelling also brings exposure and can kick-start conversations.
Reading novels and not forgetting participating in at least one physical activity makes one interesting when having conversations.
I have listened to so many advice's but this is the best of them all.
Thanks a lot Vivian for this content 😊! It talks to me a lot 👌!
Thank You so much! The best chanel ever! ❤
Thanks so much for this wonderful advice. Please can you make a video on how to act elegantly when someone looks down on you interms of heigt, colour, race and things that are natural and cannot be changed. 🙏❤️
Loved this video! Thank you so much!