Girls when they friendzone you: "I don't wanna ruin our friendship. What we have now is special..." Girls when they see you moved on: "Hey, I think our friendship should be more than what is it now..."
Because they believe they have claim on a person and are very competitive even though they don't want you they don't want you to be with anyone because you are their territory in their mind.
This exact situation happened to me right before I met my wife. To be honest the girl who attempted to friend zone was bad, I mean a 10 esthetically,. But she would only date ballers. So I flipped the script on her, I passed her to my best friend's little brother. I am not sure if he smashed or not but he soon grew tired of her and cut her off as well. 3 years later she comes into town, telling me she's got the bad boys out her system and that she talked to her parents and agreed she should be with me and that she loved me. As soon as she gave me a chance to speak. I told her I was engaged to be married and she totally lost her shit!!! I mean she went totally bonkers to the point I thought she may try to harm herself or me so I left and never spoke to her again.
Good same thing friendzoning me while still fornicating is beyond me but i ain the last man for loose lips. Found my wife and she notice the phone calls died. She left a message and said whe love me i said to myself i love me too.. Dont ever let a female put in a shelf. Only time to collegue a female is if youre getting money togetherin business or she got what you need. Your female friend i your spouse..
I used to work with a woman that friend zoned me. It sucked because I was genuinely interested in her on so many levels. She had a boyfriend at the time and she would complain to me about him only to keep dealing with him. Once I moved on and started dating someone I could tell that our energy wasn't the same. Some time later she had a baby by the dude only to find out that he had a whole family and she was the sidechick. Once I met my now wife she reached out saying that we should give it try now and I told her that time has passed and I had moved on. Bottom line, women only want u when they can't have u. They could have the man that's going to treat them right but they choose to keep their options open. If u can't see the value in me someone else will and by the time I wake up, it's too late. I've been with my wife for 15 years now and the last time I checked the chick that friend zoned me years ago is still single with multiple kids by multiple men. If u knew better you'd do better
@@ebaron5145 The way you break out is refusing to stay there. When a woman gives you the "I have only seen us as friends" speech, tell her friendship is not enough for you and you walk away and let her see you dating someone else. Don't be surprised when all of a sudden you got sexy to other chick.
Me and friend was like that. I didn't know I was her best friend. She wanted to date . She had a childhood friend .he hated my guts for no reason. He found out and immediately dated and married her .forced her to cut ties . Little over a decade I ran into her about get into my car and she's exiting and she spotted me first. Telling me about what happened had children got divorced. Entire time. My hand stuck in my pocket 😂 my ring .and she wanted a go . Told her I'm happily married .respond I don't see no ring ? Mu hand is stuck. So I finally said forget it torn my pocket .Sametime my wife comes walking up .I introduced her . Told hee. You thought I'll be just waiting . Other people. I drove away after Telling her it's nice seeing her. Eyes was watering when finally seen my ring and wife.
Yes, they do. If they were successful in getting married to a sports player or something, they wouldn't be running back. That's the desperation after realising where her life is going.
Yeah was in a remotely similar situation. Something long distance with a girl who definitely didn't like me as much as I liked her. Her communication was very spotty. We met up a few times but it never felt like we could take a step forward. And her communication was bad and she would often have excuses for not meeting up. Despite us talking on the phone or facetime. Finally I had had enough so I stopped reaching out. And she didn't hit me up. It's been 6 months and I never texted or called her again and I feel so much happier and better mentally
@user-wb8rq2ve6l I've taken my own advice on this issue and it led to the love of my life in the form of my late wife and the mother of my children. Sadly, she's been gone 4 years now but there's another possibility coming I hope. A new woman is entering my life and she seems to be sweet and lovely in the soul.
Now this looks and sounds so familiar, like really something from my life. Long story short, I married the the one that didn't friend zoned me. What a wonderful upgrade.
Yeah don’t waste your time on friend zone girls , unless they’re really just a friend . If you have any romantic feelings move on , that stuff causes only bad feelings .
When you get friend zoned, don't keep trying with the woman. Ask her out, when she says no, immediately move on and go for someone else. Because if she doesn't want you, you're wasting your time. She is using you just like she will use most other men. Friend zoned only benefits her, not you.
Around 2012, I finally bought a house, on my own as a single guy. A few months after that, all these party girls I knew in high school suddenly started DMing me on Facebook. Yeah, it was nice to reconnect and I went out with a few of them but decided to pull back because I was spending way too much money on outings. A really nice one, who married one of my friends, reached out to me and told me ALL those girls were trying to get with FOR MY HOUSE. Started “interviewing” each of them and they were ALL divorced with kids. They didn’t want ME. They wanted the house I would have brought into the relationship with me. Am open to date a single mom but I HIDE the fact I’m a homeowner now.
Run from single moms. You will never be on their priority list but they will demand that you put them and their kids #1. Also, single moms will expect you to be their personal ATM. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
This actually happened to me. When i told her i found someone, she got emotional and said “but i thought we…” i stopped her and said you repeatedly said you will never get with me. In fact, you accentuated the (never), making it clear it will never happen. About 4 months ago, i found out she was going out with someone, without even telling me, and i’m suppose to be her close friend or quote on quote “Twin”. So i ignored her for 2 weeks until i finally responded with an out lash. I told her you was never a friend to me and you played way too many games. You know what’s funny? We were actually talking in the beginning, and i even made 2 songs for her, while she entertained it. Fellas, if she ever wants to just be your friend, just move on, because sometimes their intentions isn’t pure. I was used, and still kinda healing from the situation.
Women in general are like this, ones you showing her attention or show her interest… she takes it for granted and pushes you away… as soon as you start distancing yourself from her to be seeing another lady, she starts to show attitudes acting like now she needs you. 😂
The thing about women like her (and people in general), it’s very rarely about wanting you all of a sudden. It’s about not wanting anyone else to have you.
This has happened a couple times over the years for me personally. Back in college it was one chick that I liked for years. She absolutely would give me no play more than friendship. As soon as I started to date one of her friends which I didn’t even know was her friend at the time. She started to act weird. She started to flirt & started to be super nice to me. She would try to go out of her way to speak to me when I would run into her. She found out me and her friend slept together, and it got back to her. She tried to mess it up then told her friend the one I slept with called me and told me what she said. I kept it real with the chick I was talking too and told her me and her never hooked up or it was even on that kind of time. The chick who wasn’t interested called me later and said what do you mean that you never try to talk to me and that she friendzoned me and don’t forget it. She called her self, checking me. I blocked her on all social media and from my phone. I still was kicking it with her friend & even smashed her and her apartment when they became roommates with 2 of there other friends.
@@manman3792 yeah don’t get me wrong. I still see her from time to time every now and then. She has two kids now, she has gotten bigger and honestly she’s still a huge party girl. She has tried to ask me to hang out, but I still just tell her I’m busy now. She has asked some of my friends what do I have against her and I don’t have anything against her. I just kept it real and told one of my friends that I’m just not interested in being nothing more than a friend with her. It’s kind of funny how it all worked out but at the same time you shouldn’t have people in your life that honestly doesn’t add any kind of value to yours. So at the end of the day, it is what it is. But I learned a long time ago. Everyone doesn’t deserve your time or energy. I hope the best for her and her kids as a single mom but if she would’ve made better choices she wouldn’t be a single mom now.
I had a girl get weird on me. We had been out like once or twice not even any place an official date would take place. She would say stuff like "I don't need friends, I need a boyfriend". And I would be like don't you need to be able to be friends and like the person you end up with. She ended up snapping on me and technically we weren't even dating officially. So like 12 months go by and out the blue I get a phone call "Heeeeyyyyy, so I just wanted to reach out and say what's up, see how you doing." She went on to say that she thought back on some of the stuff I said and said she wanted to see if we could maybe give it a go. I responded back that I had just gotten engaged. Lost her shit on me lol
Never understood the rejection and outright hostility to the idea of being friends before being significant others since the qualities that make someone a good friend are the same ones that make someone a good partner and are down right necessary for a long term commitment.
Moving on from a girl who friend-zoned you is the best thing a guy can do for himself and his mental health. Why would a guy want to constantly hang around someone who doesn’t reciprocate his feelings? All that’s gonna do is flush his self-esteem down the toilet. Plus, when a girl says “Let’s just be friends”, it’s just a copout on her part and to justify in her mind that what she’s doing is right and that she’s letting you down gently by telling you that. 9 times out of 10, they don’t even mean it anyway. It’s just their way of getting you out of their way so they can make room for a guy they actually like. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, but the sooner a guy can accept this, the better off he will be. “Let’s just be friends” is just girl code for “I don’t find you attractive”. If a girl ever said that to me in the past, it was always goodbye. I never accepted being locked away in the friend zone. I just moved on. It was better for my mental health and self-esteem.
@ Right! No point in hanging around a girl who doesn’t wanna be with you. It’s better if you just move on, go your own separate way, and forget about her. Any girl who says that to you should automatically disqualify her from having a special place in your life.
5:08 Bro never tell your side piece where you and your main piece are going and when you're going to be there. Thats how situations can happen. Now Vanessa will think you cheating on her Elhadj. Make it right with your side piece so that you don't end up in a situation.
@2:46 to be fair, that was one of the WORST attempts at trying to show his romantic interest to the girl. Ofcourse she turned you down trying to appeal to her logical mind like that. "We're getting older so we should get romantically involved." Huh?
Once you friend zone me it's a wrap it don't take 4 yrs to know you want it to be more . I've been there B4 . Had to let her know she had a chance multiple times and she lost out
The thing that never makes sense to me is how when women say to men that if a woman rejects you, you should politely accept it and move on. Then when you do, suddenly they get up in their feelings. Or when women say “Men shouldn’t break a friendship with a woman just because she doesn’t want a relationship with him.” So what is the man supposed to do? Bottle up his feelings, I thought that women said it’s unhealthy for men to do that.
It's funny when women only want you exclusively when you get in a relationship or about to get in a relationship love the content dawg and I appreciate the new content as well and if a woman don't want you in a relationship and put you in the friend zone cut her off and find a woman who wants to make it official with you 💯💯💯👍
And a bit of advice don’t fall for it. At first it will be nice but she will go right back to not feeling it again and then you would have given up something nice to try it with her and fail.
Life hack: when i meet a girl I'm interested in, I'm telling her right away. If she is not interested i delete her contact and live my life like before. I keep the romance only for the relationship, if there is a valuable one.
Yeah it takes time to get out the simp phase. But I commend him for wanting a relationship even though it’s a skit lol after 2 years time invested I’m out ✌🏾
You don’t need one, trust me, you know the answer to your question already. Women were clout chasers before the word clout became popular. In general, people want someone that is already wanted by someone.
There is chaos and uncertainty in the chase. They want to be in competition with others for power and dominance because it's the only way they will feel actually good about themselves without the attention and praise of others. They feel like God's when multiple men chase after them as some grand prize to be won
Funny but I've been there myself 😂😂😂😂😂 the switch up be crazy the moment you mention another girl and how quickly they want you when another girl comes into the picture 😅😅😅😅
Note to self never reveal information. All it takes for her to ruin it is to show up and act like shes the girl youve been sleeping with. Trust and believe she will do that just to make sure the girl you want is disgusted with you.
Yo literally almost every single time. This is actually one of the LEAST toxic ones. IRL they don't just be stalking you. They actively will try to cause problems with the other woman. Meet her and once she notices the flirty vibes between the 2 of you she looks for the smallest things to cause issues and decide she hates them
You see I learned my value a long time ago. That’s when I realised I could reverse the friend zone. Now I just sit back and see which one puts the highest bid in for my attention at the weekend.
She Wouldn’t Have Even Gotten This Far With Me, She’s Asking Too Many Questions, I Woulda Shut It Down Right After Telling Her The Girls Name. Shawty Ain’t Finna Make Me Late.
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I saw almost this exact script last month from another channel. Steal much?
@@themoretruthfultruth f*** u talking bout?
Girls when they friendzone you: "I don't wanna ruin our friendship. What we have now is special..."
Girls when they see you moved on: "Hey, I think our friendship should be more than what is it now..."
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Women act like that because they lose their free resource (you).
@@jaysmith3257 YUP! So glad he never took her to that 'relationship restaurant' after saying she didn't wanna 'ruin what they have as friends'
Because they believe they have claim on a person and are very competitive even though they don't want you they don't want you to be with anyone because you are their territory in their mind.
Women get in line when they see other women competing for u.
This exact situation happened to me right before I met my wife. To be honest the girl who attempted to friend zone was bad, I mean a 10 esthetically,. But she would only date ballers. So I flipped the script on her, I passed her to my best friend's little brother. I am not sure if he smashed or not but he soon grew tired of her and cut her off as well. 3 years later she comes into town, telling me she's got the bad boys out her system and that she talked to her parents and agreed she should be with me and that she loved me. As soon as she gave me a chance to speak. I told her I was engaged to be married and she totally lost her shit!!! I mean she went totally bonkers to the point I thought she may try to harm herself or me so I left and never spoke to her again.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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😂😂 she will come back
Gosh I love happy endings
Good same thing friendzoning me while still fornicating is beyond me but i ain the last man for loose lips. Found my wife and she notice the phone calls died. She left a message and said whe love me i said to myself i love me too.. Dont ever let a female put in a shelf. Only time to collegue a female is if youre getting money togetherin business or she got what you need. Your female friend i your spouse..
The problem is some men and women simply don't LIKE you, they like BEING LIKED by you. Major difference.
In the words of Wesley snipes from demolition man exact de mondo lol
Hit the nail on the head with that one. 👍🏿
The Attention is Like Gold
See, up until now, no one has ever been able to put it in this perspective that I can understand until you brought it up. Thank you for that!😊
It’s even worse when they already have someone, but still want to keep you as a “back up plan/ security blanket”.
I used to work with a woman that friend zoned me. It sucked because I was genuinely interested in her on so many levels. She had a boyfriend at the time and she would complain to me about him only to keep dealing with him. Once I moved on and started dating someone I could tell that our energy wasn't the same. Some time later she had a baby by the dude only to find out that he had a whole family and she was the sidechick. Once I met my now wife she reached out saying that we should give it try now and I told her that time has passed and I had moved on. Bottom line, women only want u when they can't have u. They could have the man that's going to treat them right but they choose to keep their options open. If u can't see the value in me someone else will and by the time I wake up, it's too late. I've been with my wife for 15 years now and the last time I checked the chick that friend zoned me years ago is still single with multiple kids by multiple men. If u knew better you'd do better
But you knew she had a boyfriend already
You are one of the few that broke out of the “friend zone”. Good for you!
@@kamikaziblack He's probably young...she was hot...and her emotional complaining/conversation got him hooked.
@@ebaron5145 The way you break out is refusing to stay there. When a woman gives you the "I have only seen us as friends" speech, tell her friendship is not enough for you and you walk away and let her see you dating someone else. Don't be surprised when all of a sudden you got sexy to other chick.
Not really. A lot of people know better but still make a lot of bad decisions. Why? Because it's always about them. That's how you consistently lose.
She thought she could keep him on the shelf until she was "desperate" enough to "settle" for him. Ya snooze ya lose...
Me and friend was like that. I didn't know I was her best friend. She wanted to date . She had a childhood friend .he hated my guts for no reason. He found out and immediately dated and married her .forced her to cut ties . Little over a decade I ran into her about get into my car and she's exiting and she spotted me first. Telling me about what happened had children got divorced. Entire time. My hand stuck in my pocket 😂 my ring .and she wanted a go . Told her I'm happily married .respond I don't see no ring ? Mu hand is stuck. So I finally said forget it torn my pocket .Sametime my wife comes walking up .I introduced her . Told hee. You thought I'll be just waiting . Other people. I drove away after Telling her it's nice seeing her. Eyes was watering when finally seen my ring and wife.
Bro, gave her more information than he should have.
Just leave her and go now
Yea, standing there to explain himself like a teenager to his mother makes us understand why he is in the friendzone in the first place.🤣
Damn right he did.
Yeah I know right. I would have just got my charger and left.
I would've given her a new location 😂😂😂😂
They never know what they have until they lose it.
Right 💯
Yes, they do. If they were successful in getting married to a sports player or something, they wouldn't be running back. That's the desperation after realising where her life is going.
Yeah was in a remotely similar situation. Something long distance with a girl who definitely didn't like me as much as I liked her. Her communication was very spotty. We met up a few times but it never felt like we could take a step forward. And her communication was bad and she would often have excuses for not meeting up. Despite us talking on the phone or facetime. Finally I had had enough so I stopped reaching out. And she didn't hit me up. It's been 6 months and I never texted or called her again and I feel so much happier and better mentally
The pain in her voice alone lol
😂😂😂
Its funny when they don't want you before, but when you move on with someone else then they get MAD SALTY. TOO LITTLE, TOO LATE BABY😂😂😂
@@jqjamescan’t make this shit up make it make sense 🤦🏾♂️
Best relationship advice is to like the ones that like you back.
True. If you date women who like you first you end up spending a lot less money and end up doing a lot less work.
The Greatest advice ever
Exactly; choose those women who choose you!
@@paulsanjurjo4390 that's what my dad used to say
@user-wb8rq2ve6l I've taken my own advice on this issue and it led to the love of my life in the form of my late wife and the mother of my children. Sadly, she's been gone 4 years now but there's another possibility coming I hope. A new woman is entering my life and she seems to be sweet and lovely in the soul.
Now this looks and sounds so familiar, like really something from my life. Long story short, I married the the one that didn't friend zoned me. What a wonderful upgrade.
Yeah don’t waste your time on friend zone girls , unless they’re really just a friend . If you have any romantic feelings move on , that stuff causes only bad feelings .
When you get friend zoned, don't keep trying with the woman. Ask her out, when she says no, immediately move on and go for someone else. Because if she doesn't want you, you're wasting your time. She is using you just like she will use most other men. Friend zoned only benefits her, not you.
Date better females. She actually might hop on. You have to put her in the right priority. Babes who feels you should be ahead of her.
That part
Using u meaning her backup plan if her options are limited
As Doc Love says...one chance per girl per lifetime. If she says no, then it's no forever. Move on.
Around 2012, I finally bought a house, on my own as a single guy. A few months after that, all these party girls I knew in high school suddenly started DMing me on Facebook.
Yeah, it was nice to reconnect and I went out with a few of them but decided to pull back because I was spending way too much money on outings. A really nice one, who married one of my friends, reached out to me and told me ALL those girls were trying to get with FOR MY HOUSE.
Started “interviewing” each of them and they were ALL divorced with kids. They didn’t want ME. They wanted the house I would have brought into the relationship with me.
Am open to date a single mom but I HIDE the fact I’m a homeowner now.
Well, that last sentence highlights your problem man. DO NOT be open to date a single mom
Run from single moms. You will never be on their priority list but they will demand that you put them and their kids #1. Also, single moms will expect you to be their personal ATM. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
Bro don’t date single moms. Just don’t. Plenty of women with no kids out there.
@@VonGoldfinger
He's not in position to not date single mom.
He's not good looking enough and seem over 30, so yea single mom are his options.
@@Ludo045lol what? He’s over 30, so? Women love older men. He’s an average man with good finicial responsibility. He will be fine
You don’t have to explain nothing to her my guy just walk off & get the other girl
Like seriously
Real
This actually happened to me. When i told her i found someone, she got emotional and said “but i thought we…” i stopped her and said you repeatedly said you will never get with me. In fact, you accentuated the (never), making it clear it will never happen. About 4 months ago, i found out she was going out with someone, without even telling me, and i’m suppose to be her close friend or quote on quote “Twin”. So i ignored her for 2 weeks until i finally responded with an out lash. I told her you was never a friend to me and you played way too many games.
You know what’s funny? We were actually talking in the beginning, and i even made 2 songs for her, while she entertained it. Fellas, if she ever wants to just be your friend, just move on, because sometimes their intentions isn’t pure. I was used, and still kinda healing from the situation.
You made two songs for her 💀
@@TheFictionalRealmofJamal1017 😂
Facts. That's a user right there. Want all the perks of being in a relationship, but doesnt want to commit to actually being in one with you.
@@aijunky 💯💯💯 she wanted 2 for the price of 1. Then tries to hit me with her logics, and i told her there isn’t any logics over emotions.
Women in general are like this, ones you showing her attention or show her interest… she takes it for granted and pushes you away… as soon as you start distancing yourself from her to be seeing another lady, she starts to show attitudes acting like now she needs you. 😂
Never take people for granted. You don't know what you got till it's gone.
Those are girls. A real woman gone love that interest and she’ll reciprocate it
@@azarur15z16yeah, let's start splitting hairs. 🤦
It's not that she wants him now, she just doesn't want him to give someone else the attention she's been getting.
Bingo
Yup women hate losing the energy that man provides. So while she doesn’t want him, she doesn’t want anyone else to have him either…
@@Mayonidas05Very leechy.
The thing about women like her (and people in general), it’s very rarely about wanting you all of a sudden. It’s about not wanting anyone else to have you.
She got no right to be mad if you friend zone somebody they can go talk to somebody else you missed your chance girl you gotta let it be
This has happened a couple times over the years for me personally. Back in college it was one chick that I liked for years. She absolutely would give me no play more than friendship. As soon as I started to date one of her friends which I didn’t even know was her friend at the time. She started to act weird. She started to flirt & started to be super nice to me. She would try to go out of her way to speak to me when I would run into her. She found out me and her friend slept together, and it got back to her. She tried to mess it up then told her friend the one I slept with called me and told me what she said. I kept it real with the chick I was talking too and told her me and her never hooked up or it was even on that kind of time. The chick who wasn’t interested called me later and said what do you mean that you never try to talk to me and that she friendzoned me and don’t forget it. She called her self, checking me. I blocked her on all social media and from my phone. I still was kicking it with her friend & even smashed her and her apartment when they became roommates with 2 of there other friends.
I believe every word you are saying. That’s how these chicks are
@@manman3792 yeah don’t get me wrong. I still see her from time to time every now and then. She has two kids now, she has gotten bigger and honestly she’s still a huge party girl. She has tried to ask me to hang out, but I still just tell her I’m busy now. She has asked some of my friends what do I have against her and I don’t have anything against her. I just kept it real and told one of my friends that I’m just not interested in being nothing more than a friend with her. It’s kind of funny how it all worked out but at the same time you shouldn’t have people in your life that honestly doesn’t add any kind of value to yours. So at the end of the day, it is what it is. But I learned a long time ago. Everyone doesn’t deserve your time or energy. I hope the best for her and her kids as a single mom but if she would’ve made better choices she wouldn’t be a single mom now.
Few things make a man more sexy than when he's dating a woman's friend or sister.
I had a girl get weird on me. We had been out like once or twice not even any place an official date would take place. She would say stuff like "I don't need friends, I need a boyfriend". And I would be like don't you need to be able to be friends and like the person you end up with. She ended up snapping on me and technically we weren't even dating officially. So like 12 months go by and out the blue I get a phone call "Heeeeyyyyy, so I just wanted to reach out and say what's up, see how you doing." She went on to say that she thought back on some of the stuff I said and said she wanted to see if we could maybe give it a go. I responded back that I had just gotten engaged. Lost her shit on me lol
Never understood the rejection and outright hostility to the idea of being friends before being significant others since the qualities that make someone a good friend are the same ones that make someone a good partner and are down right necessary for a long term commitment.
When she Walk She Be Poking 😂
LMAO fr fr 😂😂😂😂
Alternate title: When the girl who friendzoned you loses an orbiter.
Moving on from a girl who friend-zoned you is the best thing a guy can do for himself and his mental health. Why would a guy want to constantly hang around someone who doesn’t reciprocate his feelings? All that’s gonna do is flush his self-esteem down the toilet. Plus, when a girl says “Let’s just be friends”, it’s just a copout on her part and to justify in her mind that what she’s doing is right and that she’s letting you down gently by telling you that. 9 times out of 10, they don’t even mean it anyway. It’s just their way of getting you out of their way so they can make room for a guy they actually like. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, but the sooner a guy can accept this, the better off he will be. “Let’s just be friends” is just girl code for “I don’t find you attractive”. If a girl ever said that to me in the past, it was always goodbye. I never accepted being locked away in the friend zone. I just moved on. It was better for my mental health and self-esteem.
Power n wisdom
@ Right! No point in hanging around a girl who doesn’t wanna be with you. It’s better if you just move on, go your own separate way, and forget about her. Any girl who says that to you should automatically disqualify her from having a special place in your life.
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It's the slick tongue Dominican...she always low key talks shit, frowns, and shames El Hadj.
😂😂
Looks good doing it too
“she’s bad !” best friend didn’t like that Good job bro🤜🏽🤛🏽💯
There's a lot of truth to this situation. "They don't want you, but they don't want anyone else to have you." Like, wait, what?!?!😏
They want you available for what they need. Some other woman threatens your available time.
*_Why_* does he keep turning back around?? KEEP WALKING!! 🤣
5:08 Bro never tell your side piece where you and your main piece are going and when you're going to be there. Thats how situations can happen. Now Vanessa will think you cheating on her Elhadj. Make it right with your side piece so that you don't end up in a situation.
I don’t think she’s his “side piece”, but just a friend.
She ain’t a side piece she is a friend not a piece at all
Looking good my guy… I never said this, but you’re acting has leveled up as well
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@2:46 to be fair, that was one of the WORST attempts at trying to show his romantic interest to the girl. Ofcourse she turned you down trying to appeal to her logical mind like that. "We're getting older so we should get romantically involved." Huh?
Over the years I’ve learned exclusively has to be her idea or else you risk her feeling smothered or “confused”
Omg I thought I was the only one who noticed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂that approach was terrible
They never miss the water till the well run dry
Nah, I felt her pain man.
And I loved it.
Once you friend zone me it's a wrap it don't take 4 yrs to know you want it to be more . I've been there B4 . Had to let her know she had a chance multiple times and she lost out
El said she poking when she walk 😂😂
“You know how we getting older” come on yang😭
The thing that never makes sense to me is how when women say to men that if a woman rejects you, you should politely accept it and move on. Then when you do, suddenly they get up in their feelings. Or when women say “Men shouldn’t break a friendship with a woman just because she doesn’t want a relationship with him.” So what is the man supposed to do? Bottle up his feelings, I thought that women said it’s unhealthy for men to do that.
This one hit home. Literally happened to me. Just let it be known from the start and take your ball and go home before it gets this far.
Check your GPS and you’ll see the friend zone is all one way streets, bro.
Bros, never stay in the friendzone. You get put there move on immediately
It's funny when women only want you exclusively when you get in a relationship or about to get in a relationship love the content dawg and I appreciate the new content as well and if a woman don't want you in a relationship and put you in the friend zone cut her off and find a woman who wants to make it official with you 💯💯💯👍
And a bit of advice don’t fall for it. At first it will be nice but she will go right back to not feeling it again and then you would have given up something nice to try it with her and fail.
Don’t tell them anything. It’s non of your business friend.
Congratulations you played yourself shawty😂
Life hack: when i meet a girl I'm interested in, I'm telling her right away.
If she is not interested i delete her contact and live my life like before.
I keep the romance only for the relationship, if there is a valuable one.
Please make a series of this 🙏🏿
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When she walking, it be pokin ??
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El is a genius for that one
If "I don't want you, but also don't want anyone else to have either" was a person 😂 😂
Fellas if she says wait wait, that’s your queue to keep walking otherwise they think they got you
4:49 I almost lost it 😂😂😂
They a couple when he knows he's worth all of a sudden 😂😂
You had your chance baby girl, now just stay being friends 😂
my man stood up
She sure doesn’t seem to like having him in the friend zone
Where you watching from?
Azerbaijan… I’m kidding. Iowa.
From North Côte d'Ivoire, Africa 😊
Germany 🇩🇪
NYC gang
The Caribbean
Congratulations, you played yourself…
It took bro 4 years to move on😂
Yeah it takes time to get out the simp phase. But I commend him for wanting a relationship even though it’s a skit lol after 2 years time invested I’m out ✌🏾
He just wasted time there, you came for your charger after getting it get out. You don't owe her any question/answer time/session
Exactly the same things mate, I’m smiling way too hard 🤣
She's asking way too many questions, I wouldve been gone.
4:53 the look on his face spoke VOLUMES 😭
My boy just walk off and shut the door behind you 😂 you don’t owe her an explanation
Her loss, his gain 😂
Turn this into a series. Mikey & Wyatt are on their channel doing the same thing.
The goat posted🔥🔥🔥
My dude, this should have been over at 0:13. To hell with that friendzone s*****
I want a female perspective on why they think like this… 😂
You don’t need one, trust me, you know the answer to your question already. Women were clout chasers before the word clout became popular. In general, people want someone that is already wanted by someone.
You want one? Read "the manipulated man" by Esther Vilar. She tells you what it is. Rarest gem from a woman.
Oh so you wanna be lied to
There is chaos and uncertainty in the chase. They want to be in competition with others for power and dominance because it's the only way they will feel actually good about themselves without the attention and praise of others. They feel like God's when multiple men chase after them as some grand prize to be won
"The Manipulated Man," by Esther Vilar. God-tier read! Comments are disappearing...
Funny but I've been there myself 😂😂😂😂😂 the switch up be crazy the moment you mention another girl and how quickly they want you when another girl comes into the picture 😅😅😅😅
That's right, wait until you get old and no one else comes your way. Man ain't wasting time
Keep it coming bro. Love the new look. Enjoying these videos 🎉😂
It’s her loss, you did nothing wrong lol
This is every "nice guys" fantasy
She minds her business. Hint, hint.😉 Nah. She didn’t get it.😂
When I tell you self sabotage is real
This is a great video all your new videos i enjoy watching elhadj tv 😊
Her plotting at the end 😂
They Know What they have, They Just don't Know when that Ship Sailed On. 😅
Note to self never reveal information. All it takes for her to ruin it is to show up and act like shes the girl youve been sleeping with. Trust and believe she will do that just to make sure the girl you want is disgusted with you.
If she in your house doing stuff and she ain't with you then she ain't worth it
Love from Gambia🇬🇲🇬🇲❤❤❤❤
It’s funny you went back 4 years ago without the dreads 😂 please bring more of these videos bro
Don't overthink it😂😂
I remember her from Dhar Mann lol she’s a legend n good actor
She just jealous because she is losing her backup plan and she is alone
Binoculars in a movie 😂😂😂😂😂.....ruuuuuuunnn!!!!!!
yeah man
Glendale is a very beautiful city.
I enjoy the pain in her voice 😂😂
This happens way more often than you may think 😂😂😂
As soon as you choose them, they no longer want you. Don't fall for it.
Yo literally almost every single time. This is actually one of the LEAST toxic ones. IRL they don't just be stalking you. They actively will try to cause problems with the other woman. Meet her and once she notices the flirty vibes between the 2 of you she looks for the smallest things to cause issues and decide she hates them
You see I learned my value a long time ago. That’s when I realised I could reverse the friend zone. Now I just sit back and see which one puts the highest bid in for my attention at the weekend.
No lies detected; this is what they do...😆😅😂🤣
GET YOUR PASSPORT...BROS.
I love your skits
She Wouldn’t Have Even Gotten This Far With Me, She’s Asking Too Many Questions, I Woulda Shut It Down Right After Telling Her The Girls Name. Shawty Ain’t Finna Make Me Late.
Boy bck w the content LESSGOOO!!!
You can only friendzone yourself. If she ain't feeling you, charge her to the game and keep it moving.
This is a really good skit.
Im glad I watched this. Going through this right now. Not even hanging with anybody but the chick don't like im not hanging out with her
2:46 nah but that was weak as hell Elhadj 😭