I WANNA MOVE BACK HOME TO AFRICA! | THE PAIN OF LIVING AWAY FROM FAMILY | And everything in between

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  • Опубликовано: 23 окт 2024

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  • @emmynot4118
    @emmynot4118 2 месяца назад +5

    To have survived so much and kept your knack for humour makes you an absolute boss lady❤

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂 awhhh thanks so much 🥰 ✊🏾😅

  • @ntsoakimarthateboho4584
    @ntsoakimarthateboho4584 Месяц назад +1

    I can't wait to see God wipe all your tears... you're so kind, undeserving of all this pain! But I'm grateful that you're not crying anymore, we're healing indeed

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  Месяц назад

      @@ntsoakimarthateboho4584 awhhh thank you sis 🤩 😍. God is good.

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 2 месяца назад +5

    You voiced the thoughts of so many people living abroad Sis.One thing we did not understand when moving to these countries is that saving wont be easy because life here has its own challenges.
    Your brother is right,… make a solid plan for say the next 2 years, on how you will save money and start to build some financial stability because being home is better when you also have money .
    When you have something solid set up and when your daughter is in higher education, then you can divide your time between S.A and Australia. It might even mean letting them live with their Dad for 6 months or so , see them weekends, while you work flat out to fix life and make things better for all of you.☺️💫.

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад +2

      Ooooh I love that detailed plan you put down! Love it a lot! Thanks so very much 😅

  • @lhamikala
    @lhamikala 2 месяца назад +2

    I don't know whether to laugh or cry, you are so funny and authentic at the same time.Oh sis I have no words but i feel you, i will be praying that God guides you and gives you peace in whatever direction you choose to take.Nothing is too hard for God.I love you okay?❤

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🥰 Awhh sis thank you so much 🤩. Love you more! Amen! Amen! And amen!

  • @wamegofamodimo1364
    @wamegofamodimo1364 2 месяца назад +1

    I love your honesty. God bless you.❤

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      @@wamegofamodimo1364 Awhhh thank you so much 🤩☺️ 🙏🏾. God bless you too!

  • @MsNcube
    @MsNcube Месяц назад

    Mara wena soo😂😂😂😂😂😂..remember we also came last

  • @nette2144
    @nette2144 2 месяца назад +3

    One day I will be in your studio to discuss all things mental health and pressures to stay in marriages that have become redundant!!
    You are such a good person to attend your MILs funeral. I understand your feeling to return home.

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Would love that very much sis!

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      And thank you! 🫶🏽

  • @nette2144
    @nette2144 2 месяца назад +6

    I apologise for my multiple comments bcos I'm commenting as I listen. 😂😂😂😂😂. As for him being "sweet"😂😂😂😂😂 and saying it nicely😂😂😂😂😂. I am dead.
    Like your kids, mine have no plans of going back home😂😂😂😂. I am also in the same dilemma my sister. 😢😢😢Yoh!
    Raining men and owning a cat😂😂😂...phela these South African men don't want to move here😂😂😂😂. We shall never die alone...never in the name of Jesus. Morena Jesu utlwa dithapelo tsa rona😂😂😂.

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      I loooove your multiple comments! 🤩😍

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 sis they so not wanna move! People keep saying “bring him over” eish! Hahahh we shall NOT die alone 😂😅. We serve no Baal! We serve a Mighty good God! Who loves us so very much 😍🤩. More than we can EVER imagine! 🫶🏽

    • @MsNcube
      @MsNcube Месяц назад

      Even me hle 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nette2144
    @nette2144 2 месяца назад +2

    Hi sis! You have such a beautiful presence and you exhume so much strength. I admire your courage and must say you have done a GREAT job to get to where you are!! I have watched your journey for years now, and I know it has not been easy. Indeed, Modimo o phala baloi!
    I have recommended you to Madam Speaker for an interview on her podcast. Your story will add to the many stories of women who've been on her podcast. It's because of your stories that women like myself have the courage to face adversities and still have hope in God Almighty. Hopefully some day you will have a conference and invite us. You are living your purpose. Challenges can push you into your purpose. Sometimes we don't know that we can fly until we are pushed out of the nest. I love you dearly. God bless you my dear❤❤❤❤.
    PS. I am still praying for the father of your children. God has a way with every person. Having said that, I am scared for his new wife! If he is still not supporting the kids financially, it says a lot about their relationship! Ke nku fela! She has no say. Or le yena ge a na botho ngwanyana o! I could never be with a man and sleep well at night, knowing that he is not supporting his kids, especially if we are living with mine!!! Never!

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Awhhh sis 😢 you made me cry! This is so sweet! Thank you so very much! Oh dear not ready to go ko madam speaker 😁. Perhaps once my book is out.
      Kea leboha hle! Yes I receive di conference what what hahah.

  • @alkebulanafricanconversati1728
    @alkebulanafricanconversati1728 23 дня назад

    Ngoaneso study distance, i live and work in NZ and im currently studying. I never go to Uni, i watch lectures online and attend teams meeting, and u have never failed a course since 2022. So dont give up, go study. That man did you bad but you should strive to change that. Le nna i miss home 🇿🇦. I will be there in December though

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  8 дней назад

      My course is specific and not offered online. Yes I am considering doing a different course. For now though, focusing on generating income. Ke a leboha hle ❤️🙏🏾.

  • @chrissie1936
    @chrissie1936 2 месяца назад +1

    I am mourning that loss of my home SA ....immigrating is not Pap and Vleis ..Me too am planning to go back home

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      @@chrissie1936 eeeh sis! It’s the absolute pits sometimes!

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      @@chrissie1936

    • @chrissie1936
      @chrissie1936 Месяц назад

      Feeling lost most of the time ..not a sense of belonging...back home you walk differently because that's were your umbilical cord is buried...your grounded ...here I totally feel as if I don't belong I've tried ...and the culture ...miss just going to get Amagwenya ...Kota iyooooo

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  Месяц назад

      @@chrissie1936 yoooo sis!!! I get the “you walk differently” part! 😭

  • @memmyhlahane4032
    @memmyhlahane4032 2 месяца назад +1

    Love you too Mahali

  • @thotyelwamangcala2655
    @thotyelwamangcala2655 2 месяца назад

    I love your honesty yazi. My xhusband was in UK for about 2 to 3 yrs, he came back with all the negatives about Africa, crime and poverty etc and me who never left SA i didnt know it was this bad. And then we expect you when you back to be rich, imagine living abroad and come back the same as us. Through your videos i have learnt a lot about Europe and Africa.

  • @mafumane3739
    @mafumane3739 2 месяца назад

    I know all things will work together for you re good. God lead you Mahali

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Amen! Amen! And amen!

  • @mafumane3739
    @mafumane3739 2 месяца назад

    Wisdom of God needed more than anything in this situation kannete

  • @phoebeseleseng7801
    @phoebeseleseng7801 2 месяца назад +1

    "South Africa is raining me"😂😂😂

    • @nette2144
      @nette2144 2 месяца назад

      @@phoebeseleseng7801 Ausi...yoh! Rain rain rain🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

  • @tshepisomoseme4242
    @tshepisomoseme4242 2 месяца назад

    May the good Lord help you make the best decision for you & the kids.

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      May He indeed! 🙏🏾 Thank you sis ❤

  • @TheDufteLady
    @TheDufteLady 2 месяца назад

    Is this the new Studio?wow love love it😊

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Noooo! I was in South Africa. I do say in the video. I live in Australia 🇦🇺.

  • @siphokazimbelu1035
    @siphokazimbelu1035 2 месяца назад +1

    Hayi sana I was like this😂😢☹️😭💔🤣🤣 while watching this.

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      @@siphokazimbelu1035

  • @nette2144
    @nette2144 2 месяца назад

    I loooooove your authenticity ngwaneso...❤❤❤❤❤❤. When are we catching up?

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Ao hle Nett-nett! On my way to the airport 😩.

    • @nette2144
      @nette2144 2 месяца назад

      @@LethoHali Travel safely. You'll find me here in Oz. Praying for travel mercies and clarity of thought. Love you loads..❤❤❤

  • @shirleymlombo2913
    @shirleymlombo2913 2 месяца назад

    Dilemma indeed. In SA, you need money to live a comfortable life. Money for private medical care, private security, private pension etc.

  • @MsNcube
    @MsNcube Месяц назад

    Mara mogirl 😂😂😂you should have gone for BBL ,bones out due to starvation .. am loving your story

  • @theoinakale8066
    @theoinakale8066 2 месяца назад

    I love your strength 🫠❤️

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much sis! Tis God honestly. 🥹

  • @mafumane3739
    @mafumane3739 2 месяца назад +1

    I love you But God loves u more😂

  • @mphomolopa5073
    @mphomolopa5073 2 месяца назад

    Love you more❤

  • @mafumane3739
    @mafumane3739 2 месяца назад

    Joooo Bathong hle, it’s difficult decision to make

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Yooo hle! It’s so so heavy!

  • @homegrown-stuff
    @homegrown-stuff 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @mafumane3739
    @mafumane3739 2 месяца назад

    It’s hard to be far from home, le jwale o na le matla

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Yooo hle ausi! 😢

  • @precioustshabangu3437
    @precioustshabangu3437 2 месяца назад

  • @AugustinaMethuko
    @AugustinaMethuko 2 месяца назад

    Yoh! This is a real dilemma my sister. I understand you very well. It's a big decision to make.
    All the best for you❤

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much 🥺.

  • @alkebulanafricanconversati1728
    @alkebulanafricanconversati1728 23 дня назад

    Sesotho sa hao se monate.

  • @makgotsoshupinyaneng4059
    @makgotsoshupinyaneng4059 2 месяца назад

    Ska ipherekanya gal, things will fall into place, Modimo o tlo etsa tsela, as for Raining Men, i beg to differ, 😂😂😂

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali  2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 I know SA women don’t agree but that’s been my experience 😅. And my Lesotho friend agrees kikik.

  • @mafumane3739
    @mafumane3739 2 месяца назад

    Wisdom of God needed more than anything in this situation kannete

  • @dmatlala7116
    @dmatlala7116 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤