My bully used to laughed at me because he discovered my mom is a cook at our local restaurant. For context, my mom was just helping her cousin with the restaurant. Our family isn't in desperate need of money, she worked because her cousin begged her to. I got teased relentlessly by him and his group until one day I snapped and he stopped making fun of me. 10 years had passed, I saw him opening a stall selling street food near my house
This is one of many reasons why bullying should be diagnosed and treated early instead of the denial we all experience: “he’s just a kid” “boys will be boys/girls will be girls” “it’s just a phase”.
Its more of a "boys will be boys" than it will ever be a "girls will be girls". You see a boy being noisy and annoying and the adults will just "heh boys" but when a girl is being like that she'll be called unlady like bruh
I was bullied from 6th to 8th grade by the same group of 3 girls. Their bullying would range from verbally antagonisitic to destroying my personal property (art, homework, my notes, even sabotage my sheet music) to actual assault and battery against me. She punched me in the kidney, choked me out and dragged me by my neck across a campus courtyard using my shoulder bag, and even tied to jump me off campus in my own fucking neighborhood IN FRONT OF MY FRIEND AND HER SISTER IN LAW. Forever thankfull for SIL because she got the attention of a cop as they put their hands on me, an easy open and shut assault case. ONE WOULD THINK BUT NO. The cops dismissed the whole incident as "childish banter" so my mom lawyered up and went to the police with copies of every single report i made against my bully and her stupid clique. Thats when they finally took it seriously and filed the report, which she then took to the school with our lawyer and strong armed them into changing my entire schedule so we would be on opposite ends of campus at all times and never cross paths. "Thats the best we can offer" is what the school said. In 8th grade my bully was finally expelled because she threw a desk at a teacher. Not because 20 other students came out about her antagonizing and assaulting them.
@@Diane_Lynam--2023 yeah they didnt give a single shit about the bruises on my arms, back, ribs, the marks on my neck from being dragged across a courtyard. And nearly all the kids in my classes called me a snitch and ostracized me for reporting the assaults. And i was told by the counselor (who seemed to be the only person who gave a shit but couldnt do anything because she was just a mental health counselor) to report incidents as soon as they happened regardless of if it would make me late to class. But teachers didnt bother to check with said counselor about that and i was constantly getting marked late or truant. Fucking stupid that i was the one getting punished by teachers and harassed by other students for standing up for myself. EVEN THE FUCKING DEAN OF THE SCHOOL WAS UNFAIRLY PUNISHING ME AND TARGETING ME FOR STUPID SHIT. It was like he was mad my mom lawyered up and threatened to sue the school and district for allowing me to be assualted to the point serious bruising was happening.
Unfortunately this is one of those opposite situations. When I was in third grade I was bullied by almost everyone in class for being fat and quiet there was only one boy in that class that was ever nice to me. We shared the same classes for 2 years and he was my only friend and supportive help when I broke my leg. He had moved to the school in the district over after that year so I didn't see him again until late high School but I never forgot him. Just a year ago he died on active firefighter duty. I didn't even really know the guy but I still cried. The world lost another kind soul that day.
I will never forget driving to work one morning when I was 22 listening to a local radio station for our small county & hearing the name of a guy that had been in my class. He wasn't necessarily my bully because 90% of my class had been my bully, he was just one of the many but hearing his first & last name which was a very distinctive first & last name & that he'd been arrested for rape of a minor. It was like all the blood in my body ran to my face at once. I was driving on this long winding road that runs next to the Cowlitz river & I had to pull over for a minute. I asked one of my friends if she'd heard about it & she said her & her husband had been sitting in their living room that evening & it came on the local news. Her reaction was similar to mine, it's such a combination of ha karma's a bitch then oh I might be sick I sat next to that person then oh my God is that why they school hopped so much there's so many questions, it's overwhelming. I'm 42 & it's still crystal clear. The town I live in is so small we have one 4 way stop, no stop light. A few years ago a guy from my older sister's class was arrested for murdering his neighbor with a hammer "because she was rude". He'd moved away but when the name of your tiny obscure town hits headlines you can't miss it
@@CJFellowServant4288you think that disgust & sadness just escaped my mind? The poor girl was 14 years old. Imagine you found out your neighbor or co-worker was a rapist, if you're trying to say you wouldn't immediately think of all the times that person was close to you or possibly touched you even if it was just a handshake you are full of shit
@@loveyourselfplease6842 nah, i live near a town that, no joke, had a new person being caught for pedophilia at least one a week, for nearly a year in total about 200 people were arrested in that small town of just over 1,500 people, not to mention the crack problem
@@karolinasoblinskyte1795 I got both of those growing up, and I hated it so much. The only reason I was ok with the first one for so long was because I was able to turn the bullying on the bully and get him to leave me alone, but now I realize that could've gone very wrong. The second one never worked, cause they would still poke at me until I snapped, and one of them even made fun of me for being on my period, after looking at me from under the table (I struggled with keeping up with pads back then)
Met my bully only once since high school. We were at a bar and he recognized me and offered to buy me a beer. I was confused and asked what he was up to. He said "we were kids who didn't get along, but that's in the past." I told him, "You're not the one who gets to decide that."
Yeah, it's interesting when those who created problems years before behave like 'nah, it's not worth it living in the past, you should get over it'!! 😯😯 Erm... what about FU?
I sincerely think you should have told him a bit on how you felt, how he hurt you to make him see what he has done to you, he seemed to have changed as a person, while disregarding what happened is bad he was rather nice to you showing that he wasn't the kid that once bullied you back then, people can change to the better really you just gotta give them a chance.
@@davefalcon3712 Gonna have to disagree. One beer does not absolve what he did. I only said he bullied me, I did not go into detail on how he got all the teachers to turn against me and nearly caused me to fail in 2 different classes. If my older siblings had not been on good terms with the principal, he would've sided with those 2 teachers and I would've been suspended or expelled, or at least forced to repeat those classes. He was not "rather nice" when we met again. We had one conversation and all he did was try to absolve himself of any wrong doings. Rather than changing, he just matured enough to realize he couldn't navigate life making enemies the way he did in high school. Also, it had only been like 3 years, so even if he had changed, it wasn't this massive gap, he was old enough when was a bully to know it was wrong but he still chose to act that way. In response to your suggestion to "give them a chance" I will leave you with the same words. You don't get to decide that.
I (a girl) had multiple guys beat me and insult me throughout my childhood. Whenever I complained to my mom about it she would say: "Oh, they just have a crush on you." And if the girls did any of that they were just jelaous. Thank god I did not believe her. She just doesn't realise that people are sadists an enjoy making others' lives miserable.
Sadly for some of them it's really that way though. To which I'm not saying their behaviour is justified, but kids are weird and will often hurt who they like because they don't know any better. Jealousy or crush on someone is two of the reasons why someone is a bully aside from being genuinely a piece of sh*t. So it's hard to tell when they are kids. They might have really bullied you because one or two of them liked you and didn't know how to be honest about it (which of course doesn't justify the behaviour), funnily enough one of my bullies was soon discovered to be doing it because he had a crush on me. Useless to say that once he was called out on the bullying and realised how much of a piece of sh*t he was he tried the normal approach of talking and trying to make me laugh but at that point I simply ignored him and wouldn't answer any of his conversation attempts, only a few times but not in a overly friendly way. (Censoring because of RUclips)
@@cheese-and-ricemooney7487 I don't think anyone had a crush on me at that time because I myself was really weird and had a melon cut. One of the boys who bullied me the most was supposed to go to jail for beating someone up when he was in high school, but somehow managed to avoid it. I am still labeled as weird even by the people who don't know me, but at least I am an adult now and don't have the need to play with the kids or hang out with someone just so I'm not completely alone. I finally made piece with the fact that having no friends is much better than being friends with people who don't respect me.
I'm gonna be real, I don't know what I was expecting but it wasn't *that* wonder if there was any correlation between behavior before and after the bully left?
@You-vv1xv Embezzlement is basically the theft of money/property by someone in a position of trust over those assets. An example would be if you were sent to the bank by the boss with money to be deposited for the business, and then some of the money "accidentally" ended up in your bank account it would be considered embezzlement.
My first bully was a boy and we were in kindergarten through first grade. He was just an a$$! Tripping me, spreading rumors about me, doing overall bad things to others and then telling the teachers I did it. When the principal wouldn’t listen to me (bc he was a misogynist and ‘boys will be boys’) my mom transferred me to another school. Apparently my bully had forgotten all about me because when we got to high school, he kept hitting on me. I never told him my name and just ignored him so I guess he thought I was playing ‘hard to get’ 🤢 It wasn’t until our sophomore year when we had a class together and he heard my name during roll call. He was like, “That’s a pretty name,” and I told him “That’s not what you said when you would purposefully mispronounce it and scream it in my face.” That was when it clicked and he went so red in the face. 😂😂😂
Haha there were two guys who bullied me sometimes; one was minor bullying and the other a bit more. Well both of them tried to hit on me after high school but they knew exactly who I was 😂 I’ve known one of them since before kindergarten, I clapped for him when he popped in the toilet at daycare! I said no.
I’m a female, my bully (not anymore) is a male. He would publicly bully me. Push me in the hallways, tell me to unalive myself, cyberbully me, he called me a wh0r3 once cuz I had a crush on one of his friends. Last year I found out that he was in court for sexual harassment against another girl. I was happy that he got what he desserved
How the fuck do you guys get crushes on friends of terrible people? If they are friends, they'll be equally bad! 🤦 Someone in another post commented: "hot guy = Noddle brain" and I start to believe that it may be true for lots of people...
@@godnyx117that’s not how it works lol. A friend of a bully could have sympathy on you and it doesn’t mean that it’s fake and they hate you too “because their friends do”.
All these bullying stories make me realise i had a really easy life as everyone was pretty nice to me, you guys went through so much and it definitely isn't as easy as it sounds.
Not exactly a school bully, but my ex when we were both 17 used to get me to stop taking birth control. He was in the military and frequently brought his gun around me. He was a funny guy, kind and polite otherwise. Fast forward 10 years later he’s in jail for sex offender crimes. Some of the most gut wrenchingly awful ones. There are always signs.
"There are always signs... But we ignore them!" Here, finished it properly for you! I suppose other than "nice" and "polite", he was also tall, cool and a sexy "bad boy". 😉
My bully picked on me for 6 months. She would steal and hide my chair and books, put tacks on my chair, pull my chair out from under me as I was sitting down, trip me on the stairs, and verbally abuse me, amongst many other things. We had a few classes together and she would torture me in every one.....one of them was Home Ec. I had 6 minutes to get from the far northern end of the school on the ground floor where the gym was, to the far southern end of the ground floor to my locker, then to the far northern end of the 3rd floor for biology after gym class. Since I have asthma, I was often forced to finish running before I could leave, so I was frequently late for biology. This day she decided to mess with me at my locker because she knew the biology teacher was going to give me detention if I was late again. The lockers had combination locks that automatically locked when you shut the door, so they had to be unlocked again to reopen it. She slammed the locker shut 3 times, and each time I had to unlock it again. The 4th time she kicked me in the butt knocking me into the locker to shut it, and I had finely had enough. I I whirled around and clocked her soundly on the jaw knocking her to the ground. Just as I did that, the Home Ec. teacher came down the stairs and saw the punch land, but hadn't seen anything else. Needless to say she marched us both up to the principle's office. As we sat in chairs on opposite sides of the office's reception area, the teacher was in talking to the principle for quite awhile before he called US in one by one to give our side of what happened. When it was my turn, he asked me what had happened, and I told him that she had kicked me into the locker, and I hit her back. He said: "Then you admit to hitting her?" I replied: "No, she KICKED me FIRST, and I hit her BACK." Him: "So you DID hit her." Me: "No, I hit her BACK, she kicked me, and I hit her BACK." Rinse and repeat a few times before he dismissed me to sit back in the office to await how he was going to handle it. He ended up suspending her, and simply warning me to report any future problems instead of handling them myself. Come to find out the teacher had told him the girl had been bullying me for months. She had told him: "I don't know what she did to finely get Julie to react like that, but with what I've seen her put up with from that girl for the last 6 minths, it had to have been REALLY bad." The principle also talked to the biology teacher and told him to give me some leeway under the circumstances. And assigned me to the other gym teacher who let me forgo participating in class and just write an essay on sports instead because of my asthma. Back then (50 years ago) doctor's notes were only considered suggestions, and teachers could ignore them if they wanted.
@@unusuariocualquiera2149 That's actually the edited for length version. I have an excellent memory, I can quote entire conversations pretty much verbatim even decades later. This one stood out since it was the only time I was ever sent to the office for anything not having to do with school itself (grades, homework, tardiness, or absences).
In middle school my bully would call me names and made it to where nobody sat with me at lunch, play with me in PE. He was so loved by everyone in our class and i was an easy target. I remember my mom came to eat lunch with me and she didnt understand why i wasnt sitting with my friends we went to church with. I couldn't tell her because that god fearing jerk told the girls not to talk to me and that he and the guys would pick on me and stole my things out of my locker when we were in gym. he was killed by a drunk driver summer of 8th grade. The school was crushed, i was glad i didn't have to deal with him in highschool
I was bullied from 6th grade till 8th by the same guy calling me a fat cow mooing at me every time I would walk by and would say the whole ground was shaking(and I am under weight for my age) normally i would ignore it and go on but the other day he still kept on so I waited for him outside the cafeteria then chased him then started to beat the crap outta him I was suspended for 2 weeks he came back with a black and and the left side of his face bruised he hasn't said a word or even looked at me , since.
At primary school I was bullied by another girl. When she was adult, her baby was stillborn. Died inside her, she had to give birth to a dead baby in order to get it out of her body. Wouldn't wish that on anybody. The girl who bullied me in secondary school ended up as a haggard, stressed, hassled mother. I pitied her. Poor souls,both.
I was bullied until high school, and he bullied me for having a birth mark. Then, he got in a crash, and got a scar right by the area I had the birth mark- I started pushing back at him and he shut up, and we ignored each other.
Mine was a boy 2x my size. Teachers didn't stop him, but one would let me leave out a back door to get a headstart walking home so he couldn't push me in this 6ft ditch or the woods we had to walk near. In middle school he also got his older sister to help corner and attack me. My clueless parents and principals said he probably was harmless and couldn't express a crush. 6 years of this. 🙄 In our senior high scool year, he was arrested and sent to federal prison for putting a bomb in the girl's bathroom. Never understood wth we went on lockdown in classrooms instead of evacuation over a credible bomb threat!
@@HelloIAmNextToYouIn this case, it was important to note, because their concerns were dismissed because the bully was a boy. There’s major misinformation that a boy teasing, and/or bullying girls, means they have a crush on them. (Which most of the time isn’t true, and is only used to excuse the bad behavior.)
@@legendarybubbles4567 that’s the opposite form what I’ve heard, I heard people say that if a girl is rude a to a guy then she likes him. And I’m not talking about crushes, idc about that. I’m saying that there’s no need to be so specific about gender
I would be called hateful names, get pushed around, and have trash thrown at me. Every single one of my bullies now has a family and are living their best lives. I'm still stuck alone, but now with an added fear of people.
I have this condition that makes my eyes wiggle. When I was a kid, my head would shake as well. Wherever I went, I was bullued for it. Not once, at any age, did I just take it. I stood up for myself and fought back every time. It made me into the strong-willed man I am today. Kids are cruel and will single others out if you have anything about you that stands out. How you deal with them is up to you. Roll over and submit, or stand your ground and fight.
My ex bully ended up studying a technical degree and I ended up going to university to study to be a teacher, when at school she said that she was going to study at the most expensive university in the country and that I was going to be good for nothing because my parents were not rich, but it turns out that she was the one who didn't have money and I ended up with a scholarship
My bullies are living good lives, have good careers and my former best friend turned bully from elementary got married and had a baby. I'm struggling with my autism to the point that I'm afraid of going into stores while knowing I'll never be able to work full-time or part-time, or live by myself without at least half a year of getting used to doing the chores. I need accommodations on everything, I'm on government benefits under the participation law, never had a job before bc I can't have a job *and* go to college at the same time, I'm self concious as fuck, depressed and *so* angry at everything and I regularly see my former bullies around town, laughing and meeting up and I just get angrier when I see that those years of them bullying me have had no effect on them like it did on me. Y'all, while I wanna say thank you for the advice, please don't try to give me more. I don't need it. This was just a post to vent and to show others that maybe they're not so alone as they may think. Also, telling me (I have) to change is quite insensitive. The majority of this comment is about my autism, a disability that I unfortunately can't change without a brain transplant or meds.
Hey I'm sorry you are going through all that you are and have went through. I myself was a bullied child now grown and what I will say paved the way towards me reclaiming my life. You're sadly right. None of those bullies will ever care about the damage they did but that is where you decide if they were able to move on you shouldn't waste another second on letting them still win every day you wake up hating them for what they did. You deserve a happy life. I believe you are very much capable of achieving this, autism and all. Do well for you and enjoy this life in whatever way you can because it goes by too fast to worry even worry about others ❤ I hope you find healing soon
Am in a similar situation. Just take each day as it comes. A lot of people on the spectrum struggle with work, so don’t put yourself down for something that isn’t your fault. Take some time to focus on self care and what makes you feel good about yourself. As for the former best friend thing, I somewhat know how that feels.
The biggest bully I had personally was a special ed kid who once we got to highschool, apologized deeply and wanted to be friends instead, he figured out if he kept the way he was, he wouldn’t get far. By the end of the first high school year everybody was good friends with him.
I was bullied at 5 years old at school. It happened only one year but it makes my self esteem so low. He would push me and ruined my work at school. One time he push me on the floor during a prayer. I was so scared and told my mom. My mom's a techer and maybe she has a bad day at school but I will never forget her answer. She told me, " Its just your mind". Later at 4 grade, almost the whole class started teasing and making fun of him. And our teacher found out that some of our classmates were cyberbullying him. I only know about thid when the teacher announced it at class and bring the students who bullied him to the principal's office. This is the biggest karma I've ever experience.
My female bully became a highschool pregnancy with a former classmate. They didn’t want to get married but they did and I’m happy their marriage actually worked out. My two male bullies they both grew up and stopped acting like assholes because it was no way to live. They lived very healthy adult lives both married one became a farmer and the other a pastor out east. I just want to live my best life by doing as good as they are.
In primary school there was a kid who would always hit me, who was much shorter than her. She would smack and bruise me, quite badly as well and was always rude. She always acted so sweet and polite around teachers, and I could've told them, but I was never that type of person. One day, she dislocated my arm and got no blame. I think the teachers always knew, but couldn't punish her cause she would always cry when receiving the smallest punishment or a slight graze on the knee. This was in grade 6 by the way, imagine a grade 6 bawling her eyes out because of a bruise! Worst of all, she thought I was her friend and made ME deal was all of HER problems, since I was the 'smart kid'. She always treated me as a baby, not listening to me and not taking me seriously. Every time she opened a thermos lid my hand was too small for she would brag about it. Once, a wasp landed on my lunch and guess what? She was so petrified that she pushed me toward it. She screamed at the sight of a butterfly. She told me to kill it. This doesn't even scratch the surface of what she did to me, and I'm sorry for going on about this, but I guess I just needed to vent a little.
Damn I'm so sorry about all that. People like that suck, the girl and the teachers for doing nothing because they were scared of a tantrum. It sounded like you needed to let it all out, do not worry about going on about it ❤
I was always bullied because I had long hair and I was a boy and because of my nationality. He always called my "indian chick girl" and I was sure that i'm ending this and the next day stood up for myself. I telled the principal what he did and he got suspended for a week. My mom found a new job and so I had to change schools. I was so happy back then. Stand up for yourself! Believe in yourself!
I was bullied in pre kindergarten by two six graders. Once I got to Jr high I went from a shy chubby kid to an all district football player and state level power lifter. Eventually I had my chance for revenge but really life was far more brutal to them than I ever could.
One of them committed suicide after years of living like a bum. The other one has lived his whole life doing nothing but odd jobs and living in the margins of society. You should know that I never held a grudge, I only got even when the opportunity came up and I was standing up for someone else being taken advantage of by these people
Not really someone who bullied me specifically, but a student who was generally awful to anyone he could speak to in middle school. Not sure where he is now, but he didn't come back to school after being arrested for sexually abusing his younger brother. Always tried to be nice to them despite the bad vibes they gave off, now I tend to trust my instincts a bit more.
I didn't really have a bully, but I did have a really annoying 'friend' that lived right across the street from me. If memory serves he nearly got sent to juvenile hall, didn't make it into college, joined the army, got his shit together, and is now married with a kid. Not sure how well he's doing in his job, marriage, or as a father though.
Was bullied from the beginning of Kindergarten to the end of middle school by twins. Years later I found out their father was extremely abusive. Despite what they did to me I couldn't stay mad at them.
She was the worst one of my bullies in middle school and had a pick me mentality. Once we got to high-school though I saw her getting harassed by some of the older guys in high-school (like sophomores and I think one junior). I may not have liked being bullied by her but she didn't deserve that kind of torment. I knew 2 of the boys from elementary school (grandma was the teacher's assistant for their 1st and 5th grade class and I knew their parents) so I marched over to ask what they were doing. They were shocked to see me and before they could say anything I asked them how their parents were. They said fine and awkwardly left her alone. After that we were a bit more civil with each other. She helped me through a bad break up junior year and we still keep in touch through FB
The bully in my school was actually pretty nice regularly, but he had anger issues. He would get mad and the class would have to leave the room while he calmed down. In grade six he was expelled from our school. It turned out that his father was in the army and was abusive to him and his brother
@@HakunaMatata-gr9mm met accidentally. No one knew I was back from the military, he came in shopping at the place I was working. Still, really cool of him though.
Yeah, bullies are "interesting" to say the least. Not all of them wants to actually bully you, they do as a kid most of the time for their own issues at home, insecurities etc. because they don't have something you have which they might wish to have. Of course I'm not justifying bullies, but I never resented the two people that bullied me and they turned out to be nice people after being addressed/called out. They had no reason to be friendly with me after the bullying, to be fair the being called out could have made them even more aggressive and hateful towards me but I knew one of them well (we lived in the same building) her family situation wasn't the best and her bullying wasn't really harmful to me (plus while I was usually quiet sometimes I did answer back, so most of the times it resulted in her pushing my pencil case off the desk, I ignored her which made her either give up because I wasn't reaction or sometimes I told her pick it up, most of the times she didn't however I didn't either so she really didn't have any other way to bully me given the most she did is throwing the pencil case down and ignore me for the rest of the day and sometimes she would pick it up herself) however she wasn't exactly called out on that, she eventually stopped on her own and after that she was actually really friendly and she isn't a bad person, her bullying was never actually harmful and soon I discovered it was most likely because of her situation at home which was similiar to mine but I was doing better in general because despite the lack of a father figure I still had my Grandpa and in general my father being missing didn't affect my growth that much, I wasn't sad or in need of a dad because I had one in a way even if it was my Grandpa. It was a case of two similiar situation which turned better for one and worse for the other, plus the place we lived in wasn't really the best given the drugs and attempted murders around the area. Eventually she ended up pregnant at 16 or something. The second bully to be fair was really all words about me being fat which wasn't true. I won't say I had the physique of a model in middle school, but at the time I had the average weight of every middle school student, if not even a bit underweight but not in a concerning way. So once again I ignored it because it didn't affect me much, well, at one point it did make me want to not go to school and I remember crying to the principal but I know it never got physical and while it did affect me a little at the the time soon after the issue was resolved I pretty much didn't care anymore and went on with my life. One of the two bully stopped talking to me at all. The two bullies (who were friends) stopped talking to each other as well and I also noticed that the second bully behaved way differently when alone/the other bully was absent, making clear he was acting the way he did to fit in. When B1 was absent B2 was friendly and in general funny, when the two stopped talking to each other after being reported to the principal B1 never spoke to me or B2 again. As for B2 he got really clingy, to the point were a few of my friends said he might have had a crush on me and constantly joked around about how he liked me. From my side instead I would simply stay quiet and not answer him when he tried to engage in conversations or being touchy like poking or tickling, when he complimented my shoes or whatever (that was after he got called out for bullying) so it was clear whatever reason he had to be mean it was because B1 affected his behaviour, if I skipped gym he would sit down next to me and try to have a conversation which I ignored. Eventually I did answer him sometimes but I don't remember much of it so I'm not sure how many times we actually had conversations but when I think back about him I surprisingly have positive feelings about him and the calling names he did doesn't affect me much, in fact I wouldn't really be unhappy if we happened to see each other again because he was a funny guy overall once he actually started to behave as the real him. I could reach him out myself but I don't really want to, given I'm afraid he turned out in someone I wouldn't really like to talk with. Not because of him possibly being rude but because we have no common interests between each other so we wouldn't know what to talk about, plus most of the time if you write back to a guy you don't see in years they will assume it's just to date or get romantically involved so to avoid that awkward conversation I just don't XD Either way the point is, I'm not justifying bullying but some of them really are just nice people in bad environments or influences. The only reason I don't resent those two is because what they did doesn't exactly make me angry or uncomfortable. To me it was nothing because they were two dumb ways of bullying, I did cry because of one but thinking back about it I don't even know why I did, I know however that it definitely wasn't because of him. I think I was more scared of the principal than the bullies to be fair, I most likely cried because she was scary and thought I was in trouble or something, but of the bullying I pretty much couldn't care less given it didn't really affect me. So once more it depends on the person, situation and how serious the bullying is.
Lucky. I'd dare to bet my bullies wouldn't even recognize me, nor feel remorse for what they did. Worst thing is the bullying never stopped even once. It went on by new ones at work until 2k21.
I was bullied for looking different (I was a refugee and looked different from everyone in my new area.) I still tried to be friendly with everyone. This one boy just endlessly teased me sometimes pull my hair and commented on my skin colour and just overall being mean. It wasn't help by me being an otaku at a time where anime just wasn't that popular yet. At the end of 9th grade finishing middle school I helped my bully with school and at the graduation he gifted me a manga and said that he was sorry for bullying me. Never met him again ever since but I was glad for the experience and lessons I've got from him.
My bully was terrible. He had an entire gang just to bully kids in my middle school. He did the classic Disney bully things such as shoving me into a locker and taking my lunch money. Eventually he said to me “I am going to unalive you!” He said that as a prank. Then he pulled out a pair of scissors with the plastic handles missing. Then he got interrogated by officers and he was terrified. He was frozen in fear. I was used to being by officers so I was not scared. He was not arrested but given a warning that if he does anything else like that he will be sent to prison.
When I was in kindergarten there was this girl who would always bother me and call me names because I was chubby. As we both grew older, we were also put into the same classes, and things just got worse and worse, to the point where I didn't even want to go to school anymore. I've never been a violent person, quite the opposite actually, but there was one day when I was just done with her. So I grabbed my notebook and hit her in the face with it as hard as I could. The thing that surprised me the most is that I didn't get suspended or anything, but she did, after I told them the things she had done of course. After that she didn't bother me anymore and actually considered me her friend, for some reason, so I just went along with it. Eventually we were put into different classes, but I still come across her sometimes during recess. She looks a lot more mature now to call it somehow, and I'm glad she's doing better.
I was bullied a lot, but the worst was 7th grade. She turned many of my friends against me. They would corner me at school and threaten to hurt me. I was undersized and timid at the time. My parents kept saying 'they're jealous ' and dismissing my concerns. Fortunately, in 8th grade they seem to have moved on to other hobbies. 😂 I kept to myself mostly that year Come high school, my bully approached me and apologized, explaining what was going on in her life and how she was always angry. I was an easy target. We became best friends and I named my first born after her. We have drifted apart in the years since, but we are still friendly when we see each other.
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There was someone that insulted me to my face. Later I found out he got one of my friends pregnant and she had an abortion and was depressed all Summer. What a piece of trash that boy was.
She got beat tf up by all her bfs who were drug dealers. Always skipping school and had black eye and swollen lips. Just saw shes pregnant. Still, no one deserves to be treated that way. I truly hope she gets out of those bad situations for her child.
Maybe you should become friends with her MY OPINION she could have been a bitch cause of all her bfs or maybe she’s a bitch in general i would be friends as cause I like really sympathetic like really but she could just be a bitch in general and would spread rumors if you do become friends try to watch your back never let her know anything personal like normal friends she could do something bad with your words AND NEVER TAKE ANYTHING FROM HER you probably 100% know everything I’m saying already cuz this talk is boring
In third grade, a kid called me a "bitch" and told me to "fuck off". And my friend (who was in the same class) grabbed his collar and shoved him against the wall, asking him to repeat thst again, before the teacher came in and me and my friend complained to the teacher about it and he ended up getting suspended for one day from school.
as someone who was a bully at one point, karma hit me HARD. it wasn’t to the point of going on the news, but it was pretty awful. it wasn’t even being humiliated or something, it was just guilt. it still eats me up inside to this day. i’m amazed how she’s still my best friend. to all the bullies out there, there are better, more beneficial ways to free those trapped emotions and insecurities. trust me, almost everyone around you is probably feeling the same thing, just handling it in a different way. please don’t stay on that dark path. it leads to anywhere but peace.
Glad you changed your ways ❤ the fact you feel guilt and regret means you are a good person. People CAN change sometimes it takes alot of hardwork and therapy. Proud of you 👏
@@godnyx117 no, she knows that i’ve changed and am a better person now. she’s not the kind of person to stoop to that level, she’s told me herself. if she wanted revenge, she would’ve gotten it already.
Those who bullied me, some of them became my friends and apologized and even one of them got married and I was invited :) and the rest forgot or didn't want contact with me
my bully was a girl and she was very relentless she bullied me kindergarten through all of middle school and because i have ADHD sometimes i just say what i hear so sometime near the end of middle school and she came over to bully me and this was the first time i really studied her figure so because of my ADHD i just blurted out what i saw and said “you’re flat chested” her face immediately turned and she just broke down and i tried profusely apologizing and she just started saying that the reason she’s been bullying me all those years was because she wasn’t confident about her looks and just said “what? but you’re literally the most beautiful girl in school?” then i realized what i just said and just walked away and thats how i solved my problem
This gotta be the most blatant example of "In order to confuse your enemy, you must confuse yourself first" I've ever seen LMAOO 😭😭😭 I'm so sorry you got bullied, that shit can leave lifelong scars. Glad you manage to solve it... in the most adorably dork way possible 😭❤ Respectfully; a fellow confused ADHD dork.
It wasn't a bully but a guy apologized to me for always groaning over the top loudly when I was picked to be on his team. His daughter had come home in tears because someone did the same to her, he remembered that he ALSO did that. He spotted me at Walmart and apologized to me, "I didn't think about how it made you feel, but seeing my own kid in tears about what I used to do gave me the kick in the butt to make things right." I shook his hand as a way of forgiving him.
I was bullied from first grade to 11th grade most of my bullies are dead. I'm from that generation that we all died young my brother was one of my biggest bullies. He was a drug addict. He died 50 days after our mother, my dad died back in 14. Mom was my savior but now I have a daughter who is about to be 18 and a husband is wonderful. Another one stole my father's money from him gave me Eyoma. My aunt was a bully his sister, both of them all the cousins, but my in-laws are relatively comfortable. I live pretty good for working minimum wage. My husband makes a little bit more by no means wealthy but we're happy.
He didn't bother me, but he did harass other people. Usually by shoving and the usual gay slurrs. Never changed in high-school. Don't know about college. I did see him instacart in my store months ago but he looked way different, like thinner. He was friends with a good coworker of mine. I asked the coworker what he was up to and it took some prying but apparently he insulted the wrong person one day. He was jumped and "made to be a f***ot*". So yeah
I moved to Belgium, got bullied relentlessly for having a different accent (im originally from The Netherlands, so we spoke the same language, just different accents) for years, my parents used to say that he was probably gay and just liked me. So over the years i would always say "hes probably gay and very miserable" to myself whenever he did something to bother me. Years later i learn from a mutual friend that the bully had posted something on his instagram telling everyone that he was gay. Bro i laughed my ass off when i heard that. All those years ago my parents were correct. 😂 Side note: i have nothing against gay people, just thought it was incredibly funny
My bullies used to make fun of me for being from the poorer part of town and "a weird kid". I haven't really seen them in 5 years, but I know a few things from my former classmates. Two of them are in university postponing or failing their exams, but stuck because their parents expect them to be uni graduates. One had to drop out due to him failing the same exam too often. The last on basically got cut off by his parents and works a retail job now. Meanwhile I am in uni, no failed exams, writing my bachelors thesis next semester. So I am doing better and will be doing better than them 😋
I was bullied by a different person every year from kindergarten to fifth grade. I ran into one of those bullies in high school when we both were on prom committee. She was super sweet to me, which was bizarre. I talked to my parents about it and my mom said “Oh, [bully’s last name]. You mean the girl you pushed into a locker?” I was shocked, because I don’t remember getting into any fights with the girl. Apparently, the reason I had a different bully every year was because I beat up the person bullying me. I didn’t remember any of them besides the fight in kindergarten. Presently, the girl on prom committee works at my bank and has a lovely son. I wish nothing but the best for her.
I had no bully but a person who bullied people constantly in my school moved to a ghetto city and ended up being shot and killed after he had tried sexually assaulting a gang leaders sister
I remember the two that bullied me a bit, one of the guys ended up sitting on the railroad tracks and waited for a passing train, the other guy no idea whats going on with them but they were depressed about losing their best friend. When you bully people you isolate yourself and feeling that lonely takes you to dark places.
"He just likes you" 💀 the amount of times that I was told that as a kid is insane. I would come back from recess crying because a boy was making fun of me because I was born with a disability and when I told my teacher she would just go "He just likes you" thats not ok.
I had this happen once, he bullied my friend mostly, and he was a narcissist. Found out he was in trouble with the law via the radio, and he was living in another country at the time. I told my friend and she was speechless.
Honestly i feel like this would be my bully too. He was the worst and i had to work with him as well. He s*xually harassed me at work and bullied me at school. I was so happy when i found out he had moved far away from my state. Tho sometimes i want to find him online and brag about my relationship because he would always call me fat and ugly.
I had a bully in 4th grade of elementary school that I despised. Fortunately he didn't do anything extreme like other bullies that are mentioned here, but he was seriously an asshole. He was forcefully moved to special ed school at one point (in my country, special ed school's are for delinquents, dunno if that's how it is abroad). We ignored each other after elementary school. I'm in my 4th year of highschool now. One day, while walking through his neighborhood, I saw a big graffiti on a wall of a building that sayed: "(the bully's full name) IS A PEDOPHILE". Come to think of it, I haven't seen him in the neighborhood for a year or so... 🤔 No freaking idea what's happening in his life, but it's not too pleasant, it seems.
My friend had a bully in school, he was the class clown type and he was a huge asshole. He would constantly push my friend around calling her "gay" and the f slur constantly. Also one year I did a presentation on my future passion, which is sewing and dress making, and he was laughing in the back of the classroom making me shut down and not even finish my presentation. When I got into highschool I didnt see him a single time, later that school year I found out he left the district because he was getting bullied for having two moms. He had a bisexual mom and a lesbian mom, his bisexual mom had him with another man who was almost 30 years older than her and ended up marrying a woman not too long after. He constantly talked about it super loudly in class so I thought people didn't care, but boy was I wrong. Do you guys he deserved to be bullied? I still dont know what to think of it to this day...
I once had a bully. Her name was Sarah. She was really annoying and just an overall bad person. Her bullying was on and off- one day she’d be fine, but the next she’d be calling me names. She ended up moving to America 2 years after she came to our school (I think her parents were military) and I am very happy without her.
i had a bully like this, he slammed my locker shut on my head while i was grabbing my books and i got a severe concussion and it triggered double vision. its been about 5-6 years, ive had a surgery and im scheduled to have another because my double vision will not go away. they never did anything to him aside from put us in seperate classes.
I'm so sorry. I know what's it like to have people treat u badly. Lucky my life turned out great. I went through a lot of good and bad. It hurts but best thing hold on to ur empathy, compassion, forgiveness and don't feed into the bad. I know easier said than done but I've been there. Please don't give up on urself 😊
That's horrible and school's really suck at dealing with actual problems. Y'all care about what I wear, when I'm at school, etc. But, y'all never acknowledge the real world problems. It's ridiculous. I'm really sorry he caused that for you. He should be in jail and everyone involved with solving the conflict should be fired for doing a poor job of keeping you actually safe.
@@maxolotl.mp3I feel so bad but schools are just bullies best friends teachers do nothing almost every adult does nothing that’s at school some parents brush it off only one who cares is yourself I once was assaulted had red on my neck no one cared complained got called a snitch anyway hope your doing well and have a good surgery best of luck to you!
I had no bullies in elementary school, but my bullying in middle school is currently so bad i almost ended it. If’n you’re suicidal, get help. Don’t let it get bad. I thought i was being a little bitch when i told my parents about it and now i feel better.
I had a lot of bullies, but there was this one bully who was the worst of them all. He moved and attended my elementary school back when we were in second grade. I didn't do anything but he would be mean to me, stalk me at recess, and call me names. At some point in fifth grade he threatened to kidnap me, throw me in the back of a car, and drive us both off a cliff, he also looked at me before making a slicing motion across his throat. I was afraid of him, he knew this and took joy in it. I only had one person who was willing to stick up for me, this person was my best friend, and my bully hated her for it. My parents knew how bad he was, which is why when I saw him at a museum one day I was able to tell my parents because he was already making me uncomfortable, so my parents and I left. My parents, alongside my fifth grade teacher, did everything they could to make sure I didn't get any middle school classes with him. Guess what? The school ended up making me have all my classes with him. My parents argued with the principal about it, before the principal decided that I would be too much trouble for those teachers and changed my classes instead of him, although I still had homeroom with him. Fortunately my years of being bullied by him would end though, as he moved five months before sixth grade ended. I don't know what he's doing now, but all I know is that he's another school's problem now. I should also mention that his parents also enabled his behavior, and dismissed his behavior as him having ADHD and "Oh he just likes you".
One of my really really mean bullies from Junior high, she ended up with breast cancer and lost both her breasts. Karma has a way of paying back those that are mean eventually...
bruh i have no idea what happened to my bullies lmao, they kinda just disappeared. ig my sister used to bully me, like she used to spread rumours about me, beat me, make fun of me to make friends, etc. she ended up as an abusive junkie and a leech. she beat up my mum a few times and still screams at my mum until she gives her money and also she tried to stab me. she is a bottle girl working at a club where everyone bullies each other, and she spends everyday either passed out or screaming at my grandma, mum, and i. idk 0/10 would not want to be her sibling again
My bully used to laughed at me because he discovered my mom is a cook at our local restaurant. For context, my mom was just helping her cousin with the restaurant. Our family isn't in desperate need of money, she worked because her cousin begged her to. I got teased relentlessly by him and his group until one day I snapped and he stopped making fun of me. 10 years had passed, I saw him opening a stall selling street food near my house
😂 karma did him good , i wonder if u give him any snarky comments now😂
Actual UNO reverse
Bro put marshmallows in toothpaste
Is there something wrong with being a cook? Is it a low job in society? 👨🍳🤌🏻🧪
Fr like dude at least u r a chef brh
A CHEF
In a public space
Idk what everyone's problem is@@Whiskers--5
This is one of many reasons why bullying should be diagnosed and treated early instead of the denial we all experience: “he’s just a kid” “boys will be boys/girls will be girls” “it’s just a phase”.
I have never heard someone say girls will be girls only boys will be boys
Its more of a "boys will be boys" than it will ever be a "girls will be girls".
You see a boy being noisy and annoying and the adults will just "heh boys" but when a girl is being like that she'll be called unlady like bruh
Yeah, the problem is. The people who have the power don't care...
Complete BS needs to be handled immediately
Agreed, everyone cares so much about gender noe
I was bullied from 6th to 8th grade by the same group of 3 girls. Their bullying would range from verbally antagonisitic to destroying my personal property (art, homework, my notes, even sabotage my sheet music) to actual assault and battery against me. She punched me in the kidney, choked me out and dragged me by my neck across a campus courtyard using my shoulder bag, and even tied to jump me off campus in my own fucking neighborhood IN FRONT OF MY FRIEND AND HER SISTER IN LAW. Forever thankfull for SIL because she got the attention of a cop as they put their hands on me, an easy open and shut assault case. ONE WOULD THINK BUT NO. The cops dismissed the whole incident as "childish banter" so my mom lawyered up and went to the police with copies of every single report i made against my bully and her stupid clique. Thats when they finally took it seriously and filed the report, which she then took to the school with our lawyer and strong armed them into changing my entire schedule so we would be on opposite ends of campus at all times and never cross paths. "Thats the best we can offer" is what the school said. In 8th grade my bully was finally expelled because she threw a desk at a teacher. Not because 20 other students came out about her antagonizing and assaulting them.
Bro WHAT- DANG THIS SCHOOL DOESNT CARE
Yea no they don’t
At all and it’s fucked up as hell
Antinatalism is the only way!
You were getting ASSAULTED & yet they did not care! I swear this is a trend in these stories... Feel so sorry for you dude..
@@Diane_Lynam--2023 yeah they didnt give a single shit about the bruises on my arms, back, ribs, the marks on my neck from being dragged across a courtyard. And nearly all the kids in my classes called me a snitch and ostracized me for reporting the assaults. And i was told by the counselor (who seemed to be the only person who gave a shit but couldnt do anything because she was just a mental health counselor) to report incidents as soon as they happened regardless of if it would make me late to class. But teachers didnt bother to check with said counselor about that and i was constantly getting marked late or truant. Fucking stupid that i was the one getting punished by teachers and harassed by other students for standing up for myself. EVEN THE FUCKING DEAN OF THE SCHOOL WAS UNFAIRLY PUNISHING ME AND TARGETING ME FOR STUPID SHIT. It was like he was mad my mom lawyered up and threatened to sue the school and district for allowing me to be assualted to the point serious bruising was happening.
Unfortunately this is one of those opposite situations. When I was in third grade I was bullied by almost everyone in class for being fat and quiet there was only one boy in that class that was ever nice to me. We shared the same classes for 2 years and he was my only friend and supportive help when I broke my leg. He had moved to the school in the district over after that year so I didn't see him again until late high School but I never forgot him. Just a year ago he died on active firefighter duty. I didn't even really know the guy but I still cried. The world lost another kind soul that day.
It's always the kind people who leave first.
Antinatalism ftw!!!
the fact that he became a firefighter on top of that speaks volumes about the kind of selfless person he was. may he rest in peace.
Rip😢❤
Omg same and the fucker up part as I wasn't " fat" untell I left school 💀 never went back people are brutal
May he rest in peace. ❤💕
I will never forget driving to work one morning when I was 22 listening to a local radio station for our small county & hearing the name of a guy that had been in my class. He wasn't necessarily my bully because 90% of my class had been my bully, he was just one of the many but hearing his first & last name which was a very distinctive first & last name & that he'd been arrested for rape of a minor. It was like all the blood in my body ran to my face at once. I was driving on this long winding road that runs next to the Cowlitz river & I had to pull over for a minute. I asked one of my friends if she'd heard about it & she said her & her husband had been sitting in their living room that evening & it came on the local news. Her reaction was similar to mine, it's such a combination of ha karma's a bitch then oh I might be sick I sat next to that person then oh my God is that why they school hopped so much there's so many questions, it's overwhelming. I'm 42 & it's still crystal clear. The town I live in is so small we have one 4 way stop, no stop light. A few years ago a guy from my older sister's class was arrested for murdering his neighbor with a hammer "because she was rude". He'd moved away but when the name of your tiny obscure town hits headlines you can't miss it
Wow. Just wow.
@@CJFellowServant4288you think that disgust & sadness just escaped my mind? The poor girl was 14 years old. Imagine you found out your neighbor or co-worker was a rapist, if you're trying to say you wouldn't immediately think of all the times that person was close to you or possibly touched you even if it was just a handshake you are full of shit
@@loveyourselfplease6842 nah, i live near a town that, no joke, had a new person being caught for pedophilia at least one a week, for nearly a year in total about 200 people were arrested in that small town of just over 1,500 people, not to mention the crack problem
Must have been terrible being around such person
That hammer story... Is something that happened in my tiny obscure town... Um... I wonder if it is the same town? That would be crazy...
then don't forget whenever you tried to tell someone "He only picks on you because he LIKES you!"
That worse than say "just ignore and bully will go away", but it does not work.
@@karolinasoblinskyte1795 I got both of those growing up, and I hated it so much. The only reason I was ok with the first one for so long was because I was able to turn the bullying on the bully and get him to leave me alone, but now I realize that could've gone very wrong.
The second one never worked, cause they would still poke at me until I snapped, and one of them even made fun of me for being on my period, after looking at me from under the table (I struggled with keeping up with pads back then)
Met my bully only once since high school. We were at a bar and he recognized me and offered to buy me a beer. I was confused and asked what he was up to. He said "we were kids who didn't get along, but that's in the past."
I told him, "You're not the one who gets to decide that."
Yeah, it's interesting when those who created problems years before behave like 'nah, it's not worth it living in the past, you should get over it'!! 😯😯 Erm... what about FU?
"You're not the one who gets to decide that"
OOOOH I FELT THAT!
I sincerely think you should have told him a bit on how you felt, how he hurt you to make him see what he has done to you, he seemed to have changed as a person, while disregarding what happened is bad he was rather nice to you showing that he wasn't the kid that once bullied you back then, people can change to the better really you just gotta give them a chance.
@@davefalcon3712
Gonna have to disagree. One beer does not absolve what he did. I only said he bullied me, I did not go into detail on how he got all the teachers to turn against me and nearly caused me to fail in 2 different classes. If my older siblings had not been on good terms with the principal, he would've sided with those 2 teachers and I would've been suspended or expelled, or at least forced to repeat those classes.
He was not "rather nice" when we met again.
We had one conversation and all he did was try to absolve himself of any wrong doings. Rather than changing, he just matured enough to realize he couldn't navigate life making enemies the way he did in high school. Also, it had only been like 3 years, so even if he had changed, it wasn't this massive gap, he was old enough when was a bully to know it was wrong but he still chose to act that way.
In response to your suggestion to "give them a chance" I will leave you with the same words. You don't get to decide that.
get over it
I (a girl) had multiple guys beat me and insult me throughout my childhood. Whenever I complained to my mom about it she would say: "Oh, they just have a crush on you." And if the girls did any of that they were just jelaous. Thank god I did not believe her. She just doesn't realise that people are sadists an enjoy making others' lives miserable.
Sadly for some of them it's really that way though.
To which I'm not saying their behaviour is justified, but kids are weird and will often hurt who they like because they don't know any better.
Jealousy or crush on someone is two of the reasons why someone is a bully aside from being genuinely a piece of sh*t.
So it's hard to tell when they are kids.
They might have really bullied you because one or two of them liked you and didn't know how to be honest about it (which of course doesn't justify the behaviour), funnily enough one of my bullies was soon discovered to be doing it because he had a crush on me.
Useless to say that once he was called out on the bullying and realised how much of a piece of sh*t he was he tried the normal approach of talking and trying to make me laugh but at that point I simply ignored him and wouldn't answer any of his conversation attempts, only a few times but not in a overly friendly way.
(Censoring because of RUclips)
@@cheese-and-ricemooney7487 I don't think anyone had a crush on me at that time because I myself was really weird and had a melon cut. One of the boys who bullied me the most was supposed to go to jail for beating someone up when he was in high school, but somehow managed to avoid it. I am still labeled as weird even by the people who don't know me, but at least I am an adult now and don't have the need to play with the kids or hang out with someone just so I'm not completely alone. I finally made piece with the fact that having no friends is much better than being friends with people who don't respect me.
@@Milivojechoban Hey, can you please give me some life advice, ma'am?
@@MilivojechobanDid you draw your own profile picture?
@@TheFunnyDictator Just ask
I'm gonna be real, I don't know what I was expecting but it wasn't *that*
wonder if there was any correlation between behavior before and after the bully left?
Bro probs had a crush on her lowkey
@@samanthejordan that’s NOT how crushes work
@@Strawberrykoalsome crushes, not all. a crush shouldn't be relentless bullying for years and years on end
@@samanthejordanthat's counterproductive and disgusting. bullying will not make people like you.
@@haley2833 bro why am I being attacked like it was me🤨💀I literally said bro had a crush it’s not that deep why you so pressed
I had a bully coworker. Just found out he got caught embezzling & went to prison. 😉
Justice was Served!!!
@@ThatElmTreebut not for her
what does embezzling mean?
@@You-vv1xv stealing money from companies
@You-vv1xv Embezzlement is basically the theft of money/property by someone in a position of trust over those assets.
An example would be if you were sent to the bank by the boss with money to be deposited for the business, and then some of the money "accidentally" ended up in your bank account it would be considered embezzlement.
WE GETTING STALKED WITH THIS ONE🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
"YOU GET WHAT YOU F***IN' DESERVE!"
-Joker
My first bully was a boy and we were in kindergarten through first grade. He was just an a$$! Tripping me, spreading rumors about me, doing overall bad things to others and then telling the teachers I did it. When the principal wouldn’t listen to me (bc he was a misogynist and ‘boys will be boys’) my mom transferred me to another school.
Apparently my bully had forgotten all about me because when we got to high school, he kept hitting on me. I never told him my name and just ignored him so I guess he thought I was playing ‘hard to get’ 🤢
It wasn’t until our sophomore year when we had a class together and he heard my name during roll call. He was like, “That’s a pretty name,” and I told him “That’s not what you said when you would purposefully mispronounce it and scream it in my face.”
That was when it clicked and he went so red in the face. 😂😂😂
Damn, you go girl!!!
What's your name if I may ask?
@@ThatElmTreefr
Haha there were two guys who bullied me sometimes; one was minor bullying and the other a bit more. Well both of them tried to hit on me after high school but they knew exactly who I was 😂 I’ve known one of them since before kindergarten, I clapped for him when he popped in the toilet at daycare! I said no.
first grade ☠️
I’m a female, my bully (not anymore) is a male. He would publicly bully me. Push me in the hallways, tell me to unalive myself, cyberbully me, he called me a wh0r3 once cuz I had a crush on one of his friends. Last year I found out that he was in court for sexual harassment against another girl. I was happy that he got what he desserved
How the fuck do you guys get crushes on friends of terrible people? If they are friends, they'll be equally bad! 🤦
Someone in another post commented: "hot guy = Noddle brain" and I start to believe that it may be true for lots of people...
@@godnyx117 well his friend was nice to me, we would chat in class and he even said that I didn’t deserve the bullying that I get
@@AliixHitoshi Doesn't matter. It was still his friend.
@@godnyx117not how it works lil kid
@@godnyx117that’s not how it works lol. A friend of a bully could have sympathy on you and it doesn’t mean that it’s fake and they hate you too “because their friends do”.
All these bullying stories make me realise i had a really easy life as everyone was pretty nice to me, you guys went through so much and it definitely isn't as easy as it sounds.
For homeschoolers, this is called “siblings”
Not exactly a school bully, but my ex when we were both 17 used to get me to stop taking birth control. He was in the military and frequently brought his gun around me. He was a funny guy, kind and polite otherwise. Fast forward 10 years later he’s in jail for sex offender crimes. Some of the most gut wrenchingly awful ones.
There are always signs.
A bully nonetheless.
That's not a kind and polite man
"There are always signs... But we ignore them!"
Here, finished it properly for you!
I suppose other than "nice" and "polite", he was also tall, cool and a sexy "bad boy". 😉
@@godnyx117wtf ??
@@godnyx117 You win the Olympic medal for jumping to conclusions
My bully picked on me for 6 months. She would steal and hide my chair and books, put tacks on my chair, pull my chair out from under me as I was sitting down, trip me on the stairs, and verbally abuse me, amongst many other things. We had a few classes together and she would torture me in every one.....one of them was Home Ec.
I had 6 minutes to get from the far northern end of the school on the ground floor where the gym was, to the far southern end of the ground floor to my locker, then to the far northern end of the 3rd floor for biology after gym class. Since I have asthma, I was often forced to finish running before I could leave, so I was frequently late for biology.
This day she decided to mess with me at my locker because she knew the biology teacher was going to give me detention if I was late again. The lockers had combination locks that automatically locked when you shut the door, so they had to be unlocked again to reopen it. She slammed the locker shut 3 times, and each time I had to unlock it again. The 4th time she kicked me in the butt knocking me into the locker to shut it, and I had finely had enough. I I whirled around and clocked her soundly on the jaw knocking her to the ground.
Just as I did that, the Home Ec. teacher came down the stairs and saw the punch land, but hadn't seen anything else. Needless to say she marched us both up to the principle's office. As we sat in chairs on opposite sides of the office's reception area, the teacher was in talking to the principle for quite awhile before he called US in one by one to give our side of what happened.
When it was my turn, he asked me what had happened, and I told him that she had kicked me into the locker, and I hit her back. He said: "Then you admit to hitting her?"
I replied: "No, she KICKED me FIRST, and I hit her BACK."
Him: "So you DID hit her."
Me: "No, I hit her BACK, she kicked me, and I hit her BACK."
Rinse and repeat a few times before he dismissed me to sit back in the office to await how he was going to handle it.
He ended up suspending her, and simply warning me to report any future problems instead of handling them myself. Come to find out the teacher had told him the girl had been bullying me for months. She had told him: "I don't know what she did to finely get Julie to react like that, but with what I've seen her put up with from that girl for the last 6 minths, it had to have been REALLY bad."
The principle also talked to the biology teacher and told him to give me some leeway under the circumstances. And assigned me to the other gym teacher who let me forgo participating in class and just write an essay on sports instead because of my asthma. Back then (50 years ago) doctor's notes were only considered suggestions, and teachers could ignore them if they wanted.
50 years?!
@@unusuariocualquiera2149 Yes, this all happened when I was about 15..... I'm 65 now.
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@@juliebaker6969 HOW, HOW DO YOU REMEMBER THINGS THAT LONG AGO?! I CAN'T EVEN REMEMBER WHAT I ATE FOR BREAKFAST 2 DAYS AGO
@@unusuariocualquiera2149 That's actually the edited for length version. I have an excellent memory, I can quote entire conversations pretty much verbatim even decades later. This one stood out since it was the only time I was ever sent to the office for anything not having to do with school itself (grades, homework, tardiness, or absences).
It’s so annoying when people think that
In middle school my bully would call me names and made it to where nobody sat with me at lunch, play with me in PE. He was so loved by everyone in our class and i was an easy target. I remember my mom came to eat lunch with me and she didnt understand why i wasnt sitting with my friends we went to church with. I couldn't tell her because that god fearing jerk told the girls not to talk to me and that he and the guys would pick on me and stole my things out of my locker when we were in gym. he was killed by a drunk driver summer of 8th grade. The school was crushed, i was glad i didn't have to deal with him in highschool
Happy for ya bro
That was not what I was expecting
Dude was killed by the totally most mentally stable man after it walks out of the bar
I mean, yea I’d be relieved too but dang that’s overkill
I don’t condone the guy just
That seems a tad much
Understandable tho
I was bullied from 6th grade till 8th by the same guy calling me a fat cow mooing at me every time I would walk by and would say the whole ground was shaking(and I am under weight for my age) normally i would ignore it and go on but the other day he still kept on so I waited for him outside the cafeteria then chased him then started to beat the crap outta him I was suspended for 2 weeks he came back with a black and and the left side of his face bruised he hasn't said a word or even looked at me , since.
As you should
He called you the cow and then became the cow 😂 deserved
@@anyamai1346 Haha good one 🤣🤣
Shows you that boys are coward. They pick on someone who is weak instead of strong.
The minute you raise a fist back, they turn tail and run
Lmao
One of my bullies had moved schools in high school ended up getting treated exactly how he treated me… karma is a bitch and my favourite one
At primary school I was bullied by another girl. When she was adult, her baby was stillborn. Died inside her, she had to give birth to a dead baby in order to get it out of her body. Wouldn't wish that on anybody. The girl who bullied me in secondary school ended up as a haggard, stressed, hassled mother. I pitied her. Poor souls,both.
If i get bullied im backtalking them
I was bullied until high school, and he bullied me for having a birth mark. Then, he got in a crash, and got a scar right by the area I had the birth mark- I started pushing back at him and he shut up, and we ignored each other.
Mine was a boy 2x my size. Teachers didn't stop him, but one would let me leave out a back door to get a headstart walking home so he couldn't push me in this 6ft ditch or the woods we had to walk near. In middle school he also got his older sister to help corner and attack me. My clueless parents and principals said he probably was harmless and couldn't express a crush. 6 years of this. 🙄
In our senior high scool year, he was arrested and sent to federal prison for putting a bomb in the girl's bathroom. Never understood wth we went on lockdown in classrooms instead of evacuation over a credible bomb threat!
Why is everyone in the comments saying ‘oh yeah my bulky was a boy/girl” like whatever there sex is, it’s still bad
@@HelloIAmNextToYouIn this case, it was important to note, because their concerns were dismissed because the bully was a boy.
There’s major misinformation that a boy teasing, and/or bullying girls, means they have a crush on them. (Which most of the time isn’t true, and is only used to excuse the bad behavior.)
@@legendarybubbles4567 that’s the opposite form what I’ve heard, I heard people say that if a girl is rude a to a guy then she likes him. And I’m not talking about crushes, idc about that. I’m saying that there’s no need to be so specific about gender
WAIT A BOMB HOLY SHIT
@@themarkerchannel3170 Hey, is that Spider-Man in your PFP, man?
I would be called hateful names, get pushed around, and have trash thrown at me. Every single one of my bullies now has a family and are living their best lives. I'm still stuck alone, but now with an added fear of people.
Damn...
I have this condition that makes my eyes wiggle. When I was a kid, my head would shake as well. Wherever I went, I was bullued for it. Not once, at any age, did I just take it. I stood up for myself and fought back every time. It made me into the strong-willed man I am today.
Kids are cruel and will single others out if you have anything about you that stands out. How you deal with them is up to you. Roll over and submit, or stand your ground and fight.
My ex bully ended up studying a technical degree and I ended up going to university to study to be a teacher, when at school she said that she was going to study at the most expensive university in the country and that I was going to be good for nothing because my parents were not rich, but it turns out that she was the one who didn't have money and I ended up with a scholarship
KARMA!
My bullies are living good lives, have good careers and my former best friend turned bully from elementary got married and had a baby. I'm struggling with my autism to the point that I'm afraid of going into stores while knowing I'll never be able to work full-time or part-time, or live by myself without at least half a year of getting used to doing the chores. I need accommodations on everything, I'm on government benefits under the participation law, never had a job before bc I can't have a job *and* go to college at the same time, I'm self concious as fuck, depressed and *so* angry at everything and I regularly see my former bullies around town, laughing and meeting up and I just get angrier when I see that those years of them bullying me have had no effect on them like it did on me.
Y'all, while I wanna say thank you for the advice, please don't try to give me more. I don't need it. This was just a post to vent and to show others that maybe they're not so alone as they may think. Also, telling me (I have) to change is quite insensitive. The majority of this comment is about my autism, a disability that I unfortunately can't change without a brain transplant or meds.
Hey I'm sorry you are going through all that you are and have went through. I myself was a bullied child now grown and what I will say paved the way towards me reclaiming my life. You're sadly right. None of those bullies will ever care about the damage they did but that is where you decide if they were able to move on you shouldn't waste another second on letting them still win every day you wake up hating them for what they did. You deserve a happy life. I believe you are very much capable of achieving this, autism and all. Do well for you and enjoy this life in whatever way you can because it goes by too fast to worry even worry about others ❤ I hope you find healing soon
Believe in yourself maybe they changed you should changed too
Am in a similar situation. Just take each day as it comes. A lot of people on the spectrum struggle with work, so don’t put yourself down for something that isn’t your fault. Take some time to focus on self care and what makes you feel good about yourself. As for the former best friend thing, I somewhat know how that feels.
Karma is a bitch, they will get their visit trust me
@@rroyal7496 most insensitive comment award goes to you
Justice was in fact not served. Those innocent children.
If you get bullied 1 v 1 that’s a skill issue
The biggest bully I had personally was a special ed kid who once we got to highschool, apologized deeply and wanted to be friends instead, he figured out if he kept the way he was, he wouldn’t get far. By the end of the first high school year everybody was good friends with him.
how tf did u get bullied by a special ed kid
Being a pedo is crazy 💀
I was bullied at 5 years old at school. It happened only one year but it makes my self esteem so low. He would push me and ruined my work at school. One time he push me on the floor during a prayer. I was so scared and told my mom. My mom's a techer and maybe she has a bad day at school but I will never forget her answer. She told me, " Its just your mind". Later at 4 grade, almost the whole class started teasing and making fun of him. And our teacher found out that some of our classmates were cyberbullying him. I only know about thid when the teacher announced it at class and bring the students who bullied him to the principal's office. This is the biggest karma I've ever experience.
My female bully became a highschool pregnancy with a former classmate. They didn’t want to get married but they did and I’m happy their marriage actually worked out. My two male bullies they both grew up and stopped acting like assholes because it was no way to live. They lived very healthy adult lives both married one became a farmer and the other a pastor out east.
I just want to live my best life by doing as good as they are.
In primary school there was a kid who would always hit me, who was much shorter than her. She would smack and bruise me, quite badly as well and was always rude. She always acted so sweet and polite around teachers, and I could've told them, but I was never that type of person. One day, she dislocated my arm and got no blame. I think the teachers always knew, but couldn't punish her cause she would always cry when receiving the smallest punishment or a slight graze on the knee. This was in grade 6 by the way, imagine a grade 6 bawling her eyes out because of a bruise! Worst of all, she thought I was her friend and made ME deal was all of HER problems, since I was the 'smart kid'. She always treated me as a baby, not listening to me and not taking me seriously. Every time she opened a thermos lid my hand was too small for she would brag about it. Once, a wasp landed on my lunch and guess what? She was so petrified that she pushed me toward it. She screamed at the sight of a butterfly. She told me to kill it. This doesn't even scratch the surface of what she did to me, and I'm sorry for going on about this, but I guess I just needed to vent a little.
How tf did a short a$$ person in PRIMARY SCHOOL dislocate your arm bro? I hope im not sounding rude, asking this, but like..
Damn I'm so sorry about all that. People like that suck, the girl and the teachers for doing nothing because they were scared of a tantrum. It sounded like you needed to let it all out, do not worry about going on about it ❤
I was always bullied because I had long hair and I was a boy and because of my nationality. He always called my "indian chick girl" and I was sure that i'm ending this and the next day stood up for myself. I telled the principal what he did and he got suspended for a week. My mom found a new job and so I had to change schools. I was so happy back then. Stand up for yourself! Believe in yourself!
I was bullied in pre kindergarten by two six graders. Once I got to Jr high I went from a shy chubby kid to an all district football player and state level power lifter. Eventually I had my chance for revenge but really life was far more brutal to them than I ever could.
Now I'm curious, may I ask what happened to them?
One of them committed suicide after years of living like a bum. The other one has lived his whole life doing nothing but odd jobs and living in the margins of society. You should know that I never held a grudge, I only got even when the opportunity came up and I was standing up for someone else being taken advantage of by these people
PRE K by two SIXTH GRADERS? That’s like a seven year difference
Same when I was in pre kindergarten I got bullied by a 5th grader
Not really someone who bullied me specifically, but a student who was generally awful to anyone he could speak to in middle school. Not sure where he is now, but he didn't come back to school after being arrested for sexually abusing his younger brother.
Always tried to be nice to them despite the bad vibes they gave off, now I tend to trust my instincts a bit more.
I didn't really have a bully, but I did have a really annoying 'friend' that lived right across the street from me. If memory serves he nearly got sent to juvenile hall, didn't make it into college, joined the army, got his shit together, and is now married with a kid. Not sure how well he's doing in his job, marriage, or as a father though.
Was bullied from the beginning of Kindergarten to the end of middle school by twins. Years later I found out their father was extremely abusive. Despite what they did to me I couldn't stay mad at them.
She was the worst one of my bullies in middle school and had a pick me mentality. Once we got to high-school though I saw her getting harassed by some of the older guys in high-school (like sophomores and I think one junior). I may not have liked being bullied by her but she didn't deserve that kind of torment. I knew 2 of the boys from elementary school (grandma was the teacher's assistant for their 1st and 5th grade class and I knew their parents) so I marched over to ask what they were doing. They were shocked to see me and before they could say anything I asked them how their parents were. They said fine and awkwardly left her alone. After that we were a bit more civil with each other. She helped me through a bad break up junior year and we still keep in touch through FB
The bully in my school was actually pretty nice regularly, but he had anger issues. He would get mad and the class would have to leave the room while he calmed down. In grade six he was expelled from our school. It turned out that his father was in the army and was abusive to him and his brother
Honestly, out of all the stories, that is the only one that actually makes sense.
“I’ll take things that never happened for 4 points”
as soon as i heard “to catch a predator” i knew it was over 😭
He's currently in med school. He apologized to me for everything he did the first time we saw each other after graduation.
Wow.. Did he comes to talk to you.. Or met accidentally
@@HakunaMatata-gr9mm met accidentally. No one knew I was back from the military, he came in shopping at the place I was working. Still, really cool of him though.
Yeah, bullies are "interesting" to say the least.
Not all of them wants to actually bully you, they do as a kid most of the time for their own issues at home, insecurities etc. because they don't have something you have which they might wish to have.
Of course I'm not justifying bullies, but I never resented the two people that bullied me and they turned out to be nice people after being addressed/called out.
They had no reason to be friendly with me after the bullying, to be fair the being called out could have made them even more aggressive and hateful towards me but I knew one of them well (we lived in the same building) her family situation wasn't the best and her bullying wasn't really harmful to me (plus while I was usually quiet sometimes I did answer back, so most of the times it resulted in her pushing my pencil case off the desk, I ignored her which made her either give up because I wasn't reaction or sometimes I told her pick it up, most of the times she didn't however I didn't either so she really didn't have any other way to bully me given the most she did is throwing the pencil case down and ignore me for the rest of the day and sometimes she would pick it up herself) however she wasn't exactly called out on that, she eventually stopped on her own and after that she was actually really friendly and she isn't a bad person, her bullying was never actually harmful and soon I discovered it was most likely because of her situation at home which was similiar to mine but I was doing better in general because despite the lack of a father figure I still had my Grandpa and in general my father being missing didn't affect my growth that much, I wasn't sad or in need of a dad because I had one in a way even if it was my Grandpa.
It was a case of two similiar situation which turned better for one and worse for the other, plus the place we lived in wasn't really the best given the drugs and attempted murders around the area.
Eventually she ended up pregnant at 16 or something.
The second bully to be fair was really all words about me being fat which wasn't true.
I won't say I had the physique of a model in middle school, but at the time I had the average weight of every middle school student, if not even a bit underweight but not in a concerning way.
So once again I ignored it because it didn't affect me much, well, at one point it did make me want to not go to school and I remember crying to the principal but I know it never got physical and while it did affect me a little at the the time soon after the issue was resolved I pretty much didn't care anymore and went on with my life.
One of the two bully stopped talking to me at all.
The two bullies (who were friends) stopped talking to each other as well and I also noticed that the second bully behaved way differently when alone/the other bully was absent, making clear he was acting the way he did to fit in.
When B1 was absent B2 was friendly and in general funny, when the two stopped talking to each other after being reported to the principal B1 never spoke to me or B2 again.
As for B2 he got really clingy, to the point were a few of my friends said he might have had a crush on me and constantly joked around about how he liked me.
From my side instead I would simply stay quiet and not answer him when he tried to engage in conversations or being touchy like poking or tickling, when he complimented my shoes or whatever (that was after he got called out for bullying) so it was clear whatever reason he had to be mean it was because B1 affected his behaviour, if I skipped gym he would sit down next to me and try to have a conversation which I ignored.
Eventually I did answer him sometimes but I don't remember much of it so I'm not sure how many times we actually had conversations but when I think back about him I surprisingly have positive feelings about him and the calling names he did doesn't affect me much, in fact I wouldn't really be unhappy if we happened to see each other again because he was a funny guy overall once he actually started to behave as the real him.
I could reach him out myself but I don't really want to, given I'm afraid he turned out in someone I wouldn't really like to talk with.
Not because of him possibly being rude but because we have no common interests between each other so we wouldn't know what to talk about, plus most of the time if you write back to a guy you don't see in years they will assume it's just to date or get romantically involved so to avoid that awkward conversation I just don't XD
Either way the point is, I'm not justifying bullying but some of them really are just nice people in bad environments or influences.
The only reason I don't resent those two is because what they did doesn't exactly make me angry or uncomfortable.
To me it was nothing because they were two dumb ways of bullying, I did cry because of one but thinking back about it I don't even know why I did, I know however that it definitely wasn't because of him.
I think I was more scared of the principal than the bullies to be fair, I most likely cried because she was scary and thought I was in trouble or something, but of the bullying I pretty much couldn't care less given it didn't really affect me.
So once more it depends on the person, situation and how serious the bullying is.
Lucky. I'd dare to bet my bullies wouldn't even recognize me, nor feel remorse for what they did. Worst thing is the bullying never stopped even once. It went on by new ones at work until 2k21.
@@raineblackstar3522Hey, are you okay now?
I was bullied for looking different (I was a refugee and looked different from everyone in my new area.)
I still tried to be friendly with everyone. This one boy just endlessly teased me sometimes pull my hair and commented on my skin colour and just overall being mean.
It wasn't help by me being an otaku at a time where anime just wasn't that popular yet.
At the end of 9th grade finishing middle school I helped my bully with school and at the graduation he gifted me a manga and said that he was sorry for bullying me.
Never met him again ever since but I was glad for the experience and lessons I've got from him.
I'm sure nobody from school would apologize to me. They probably think I deserved the way I was treated.
Had me at “To catch a predator“
All my bullies got away with it and lived better lives than me.
This the type of story captain holt would use as a lesson towards jake 💀💀💀
Rip Andre Braugher
Brooklyn 99 !! Such a good show, r.i.p Andre Braugher
I’m LITERALLY watching Brooklyn 99 in the background as I’m looking at the comments LMAO. RIP Andre Braugher :(
“he would make me trip by sticking out his ohio rizzler mewing gyatt”
Omg fr, I love Brooklyn 99!
My bully was terrible. He had an entire gang just to bully kids in my middle school. He did the classic Disney bully things such as shoving me into a locker and taking my lunch money. Eventually he said to me “I am going to unalive you!” He said that as a prank. Then he pulled out a pair of scissors with the plastic handles missing.
Then he got interrogated by officers and he was terrified. He was frozen in fear. I was used to being by officers so I was not scared. He was not arrested but given a warning that if he does anything else like that he will be sent to prison.
The teachers unlike usual dealt with him
When I was in kindergarten there was this girl who would always bother me and call me names because I was chubby. As we both grew older, we were also put into the same classes, and things just got worse and worse, to the point where I didn't even want to go to school anymore. I've never been a violent person, quite the opposite actually, but there was one day when I was just done with her. So I grabbed my notebook and hit her in the face with it as hard as I could. The thing that surprised me the most is that I didn't get suspended or anything, but she did, after I told them the things she had done of course. After that she didn't bother me anymore and actually considered me her friend, for some reason, so I just went along with it. Eventually we were put into different classes, but I still come across her sometimes during recess. She looks a lot more mature now to call it somehow, and I'm glad she's doing better.
I was bullied a lot, but the worst was 7th grade. She turned many of my friends against me. They would corner me at school and threaten to hurt me. I was undersized and timid at the time. My parents kept saying 'they're jealous ' and dismissing my concerns.
Fortunately, in 8th grade they seem to have moved on to other hobbies. 😂 I kept to myself mostly that year
Come high school, my bully approached me and apologized, explaining what was going on in her life and how she was always angry. I was an easy target. We became best friends and I named my first born after her. We have drifted apart in the years since, but we are still friendly when we see each other.
bullies are imbeciles with zero courage
Hey, can you please give me life advice?
How do I get married and have kids?
@@TheFunnyDictatori’ll give you advice
@@TheFunnyDictatorto get married study well study really well if you study now the future will be you laughing and enjoying if you laugh and enjoy now your future will be hard and tough so study well join some kind of good job as a pilot of the IAF recommend you to join the airforce and just by your status many women will love you
When I'm in the line competition, but my opponent is a reddit user
There was someone that insulted me to my face. Later I found out he got one of my friends pregnant and she had an abortion and was depressed all Summer. What a piece of trash that boy was.
She got beat tf up by all her bfs who were drug dealers. Always skipping school and had black eye and swollen lips. Just saw shes pregnant.
Still, no one deserves to be treated that way. I truly hope she gets out of those bad situations for her child.
Maybe you should become friends with her MY OPINION she could have been a bitch cause of all her bfs or maybe she’s a bitch in general i would be friends as cause I like really sympathetic like really but she could just be a bitch in general and would spread rumors if you do become friends try to watch your back never let her know anything personal like normal friends she could do something bad with your words AND NEVER TAKE ANYTHING FROM HER you probably 100% know everything I’m saying already cuz this talk is boring
I love it when my feelings are validated sometimes the world truly does have justice
In third grade, a kid called me a "bitch" and told me to "fuck off". And my friend (who was in the same class) grabbed his collar and shoved him against the wall, asking him to repeat thst again, before the teacher came in and me and my friend complained to the teacher about it and he ended up getting suspended for one day from school.
That took a real dark turn, golly
as someone who was a bully at one point, karma hit me HARD. it wasn’t to the point of going on the news, but it was pretty awful. it wasn’t even being humiliated or something, it was just guilt. it still eats me up inside to this day. i’m amazed how she’s still my best friend. to all the bullies out there, there are better, more beneficial ways to free those trapped emotions and insecurities. trust me, almost everyone around you is probably feeling the same thing, just handling it in a different way. please don’t stay on that dark path. it leads to anywhere but peace.
Glad you changed your ways ❤ the fact you feel guilt and regret means you are a good person. People CAN change sometimes it takes alot of hardwork and therapy. Proud of you 👏
I'll be honest. She probably isn't. You think she is but deep down, she is waiting for the right moment to get revenge. Watch your back kid!
@@godnyx117 You're the type of person to tell a schizophrenic person that you're in their walls
@@mr.switchblade604 Congratulations! You won the Olympics for making stupid examples that are wrong and don't even fit!
@@godnyx117 no, she knows that i’ve changed and am a better person now. she’s not the kind of person to stoop to that level, she’s told me herself. if she wanted revenge, she would’ve gotten it already.
Immediately when it said “Catch a Predator” I thought of EDP 💀
Nahhh
Don’t let them see the cupcakes
My “bully” made fun of my physical appearance then had the audacity to ask me out
Those who bullied me, some of them became my friends and apologized and even one of them got married and I was invited :) and the rest forgot or didn't want contact with me
my bully was a girl and she was very relentless she bullied me kindergarten through all of middle school and because i have ADHD sometimes i just say what i hear so sometime near the end of middle school and she came over to bully me and this was the first time i really studied her figure so because of my ADHD i just blurted out what i saw and said “you’re flat chested” her face immediately turned and she just broke down and i tried profusely apologizing and she just started saying that the reason she’s been bullying me all those years was because she wasn’t confident about her looks and just said “what? but you’re literally the most beautiful girl in school?” then i realized what i just said and just walked away and thats how i solved my problem
This happen
@@racist2708 it happen
This gotta be the most blatant example of "In order to confuse your enemy, you must confuse yourself first" I've ever seen LMAOO 😭😭😭
I'm so sorry you got bullied, that shit can leave lifelong scars. Glad you manage to solve it... in the most adorably dork way possible 😭❤
Respectfully; a fellow confused ADHD dork.
Imagine, bullying chickens in kindergarten all the way to middle school, must’ve been a really bored person
lmao
It wasn't a bully but a guy apologized to me for always groaning over the top loudly when I was picked to be on his team.
His daughter had come home in tears because someone did the same to her, he remembered that he ALSO did that.
He spotted me at Walmart and apologized to me, "I didn't think about how it made you feel, but seeing my own kid in tears about what I used to do gave me the kick in the butt to make things right." I shook his hand as a way of forgiving him.
I was bullied from first grade to 11th grade most of my bullies are dead. I'm from that generation that we all died young my brother was one of my biggest bullies. He was a drug addict. He died 50 days after our mother, my dad died back in 14. Mom was my savior but now I have a daughter who is about to be 18 and a husband is wonderful. Another one stole my father's money from him gave me Eyoma. My aunt was a bully his sister, both of them all the cousins, but my in-laws are relatively comfortable. I live pretty good for working minimum wage. My husband makes a little bit more by no means wealthy but we're happy.
He didn't bother me, but he did harass other people. Usually by shoving and the usual gay slurrs. Never changed in high-school. Don't know about college. I did see him instacart in my store months ago but he looked way different, like thinner. He was friends with a good coworker of mine. I asked the coworker what he was up to and it took some prying but apparently he insulted the wrong person one day. He was jumped and "made to be a f***ot*". So yeah
I thought she yelled out loud that last sentence! 😂
I don't even have vindictive feelings for my bully. 'Cause she's a mother of two daughters. I just feel sad that my teenage was spent in depression.
I moved to Belgium, got bullied relentlessly for having a different accent (im originally from The Netherlands, so we spoke the same language, just different accents) for years, my parents used to say that he was probably gay and just liked me. So over the years i would always say "hes probably gay and very miserable" to myself whenever he did something to bother me. Years later i learn from a mutual friend that the bully had posted something on his instagram telling everyone that he was gay. Bro i laughed my ass off when i heard that. All those years ago my parents were correct. 😂 Side note: i have nothing against gay people, just thought it was incredibly funny
Actually, the correct term is "I thought it was comedic irony" 🤓 🤓 🤓
“I am Also Gay but I am Angry”
(Just Joking)
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@@BEARxFPSAlso, what's in your profile picture?
My bullies used to make fun of me for being from the poorer part of town and "a weird kid". I haven't really seen them in 5 years, but I know a few things from my former classmates. Two of them are in university postponing or failing their exams, but stuck because their parents expect them to be uni graduates. One had to drop out due to him failing the same exam too often. The last on basically got cut off by his parents and works a retail job now. Meanwhile I am in uni, no failed exams, writing my bachelors thesis next semester. So I am doing better and will be doing better than them 😋
I was bullied by a different person every year from kindergarten to fifth grade. I ran into one of those bullies in high school when we both were on prom committee. She was super sweet to me, which was bizarre. I talked to my parents about it and my mom said “Oh, [bully’s last name]. You mean the girl you pushed into a locker?” I was shocked, because I don’t remember getting into any fights with the girl. Apparently, the reason I had a different bully every year was because I beat up the person bullying me. I didn’t remember any of them besides the fight in kindergarten. Presently, the girl on prom committee works at my bank and has a lovely son. I wish nothing but the best for her.
The background is so satisfying ngl but these stories are so sad 😢
I had no bully but a person who bullied people constantly in my school moved to a ghetto city and ended up being shot and killed after he had tried sexually assaulting a gang leaders sister
I remember the two that bullied me a bit, one of the guys ended up sitting on the railroad tracks and waited for a passing train, the other guy no idea whats going on with them but they were depressed about losing their best friend. When you bully people you isolate yourself and feeling that lonely takes you to dark places.
It's so wrong that principals and teachers give Bullies passes.
"He just likes you" 💀 the amount of times that I was told that as a kid is insane. I would come back from recess crying because a boy was making fun of me because I was born with a disability and when I told my teacher she would just go "He just likes you" thats not ok.
I had this happen once, he bullied my friend mostly, and he was a narcissist. Found out he was in trouble with the law via the radio, and he was living in another country at the time. I told my friend and she was speechless.
Honestly i feel like this would be my bully too. He was the worst and i had to work with him as well. He s*xually harassed me at work and bullied me at school. I was so happy when i found out he had moved far away from my state. Tho sometimes i want to find him online and brag about my relationship because he would always call me fat and ugly.
I never had a bully…
YET!
When I read the title and saw "karma" and "10" right next to eachother i immediately thought about Rain World
I had a bully in 4th grade of elementary school that I despised. Fortunately he didn't do anything extreme like other bullies that are mentioned here, but he was seriously an asshole. He was forcefully moved to special ed school at one point (in my country, special ed school's are for delinquents, dunno if that's how it is abroad). We ignored each other after elementary school.
I'm in my 4th year of highschool now. One day, while walking through his neighborhood, I saw a big graffiti on a wall of a building that sayed: "(the bully's full name) IS A PEDOPHILE". Come to think of it, I haven't seen him in the neighborhood for a year or so... 🤔
No freaking idea what's happening in his life, but it's not too pleasant, it seems.
My friend had a bully in school, he was the class clown type and he was a huge asshole. He would constantly push my friend around calling her "gay" and the f slur constantly. Also one year I did a presentation on my future passion, which is sewing and dress making, and he was laughing in the back of the classroom making me shut down and not even finish my presentation. When I got into highschool I didnt see him a single time, later that school year I found out he left the district because he was getting bullied for having two moms. He had a bisexual mom and a lesbian mom, his bisexual mom had him with another man who was almost 30 years older than her and ended up marrying a woman not too long after. He constantly talked about it super loudly in class so I thought people didn't care, but boy was I wrong. Do you guys he deserved to be bullied? I still dont know what to think of it to this day...
Seems he was projecting his pain onto you, dunno, not a psychologist.
My bully never got karma. I am miserable and she, well she has a good life with friends.
My bully got 7 years in jail last year after assaulting someone who ended up dying in a gang fight
I once had a bully. Her name was Sarah. She was really annoying and just an overall bad person. Her bullying was on and off- one day she’d be fine, but the next she’d be calling me names. She ended up moving to America 2 years after she came to our school (I think her parents were military) and I am very happy without her.
i had a bully like this, he slammed my locker shut on my head while i was grabbing my books and i got a severe concussion and it triggered double vision. its been about 5-6 years, ive had a surgery and im scheduled to have another because my double vision will not go away. they never did anything to him aside from put us in seperate classes.
I'm so sorry. I know what's it like to have people treat u badly. Lucky my life turned out great. I went through a lot of good and bad. It hurts but best thing hold on to ur empathy, compassion, forgiveness and don't feed into the bad. I know easier said than done but I've been there. Please don't give up on urself 😊
@@deannamassey thanks man i needed that one :)
That's horrible and school's really suck at dealing with actual problems. Y'all care about what I wear, when I'm at school, etc. But, y'all never acknowledge the real world problems. It's ridiculous. I'm really sorry he caused that for you. He should be in jail and everyone involved with solving the conflict should be fired for doing a poor job of keeping you actually safe.
@@maxolotl.mp3I feel so bad but schools are just bullies best friends teachers do nothing almost every adult does nothing that’s at school some parents brush it off only one who cares is yourself I once was assaulted had red on my neck no one cared complained got called a snitch anyway hope your doing well and have a good surgery best of luck to you!
Hire a lawyer to sue for medical expenses from your surgery, recovery, etc The bully/bully’s parents have be held accountable ($).
I had no bullies in elementary school, but my bullying in middle school is currently so bad i almost ended it. If’n you’re suicidal, get help. Don’t let it get bad. I thought i was being a little bitch when i told my parents about it and now i feel better.
Bro was assaulting children in both ways💀
Had a similar experience, but with Facebook and him going to jail for it.
I am so glad my bully wasnt that bad. Jeez. Mine was an ass but we made up and he grew up quite a bit and we still talk every now and then.
I had a lot of bullies, but there was this one bully who was the worst of them all. He moved and attended my elementary school back when we were in second grade. I didn't do anything but he would be mean to me, stalk me at recess, and call me names. At some point in fifth grade he threatened to kidnap me, throw me in the back of a car, and drive us both off a cliff, he also looked at me before making a slicing motion across his throat. I was afraid of him, he knew this and took joy in it. I only had one person who was willing to stick up for me, this person was my best friend, and my bully hated her for it.
My parents knew how bad he was, which is why when I saw him at a museum one day I was able to tell my parents because he was already making me uncomfortable, so my parents and I left. My parents, alongside my fifth grade teacher, did everything they could to make sure I didn't get any middle school classes with him.
Guess what?
The school ended up making me have all my classes with him.
My parents argued with the principal about it, before the principal decided that I would be too much trouble for those teachers and changed my classes instead of him, although I still had homeroom with him.
Fortunately my years of being bullied by him would end though, as he moved five months before sixth grade ended. I don't know what he's doing now, but all I know is that he's another school's problem now.
I should also mention that his parents also enabled his behavior, and dismissed his behavior as him having ADHD and "Oh he just likes you".
I honestly suspected him of being a predator, I just didn’t think he’d be on TV
One of my really really mean bullies from Junior high, she ended up with breast cancer and lost both her breasts. Karma has a way of paying back those that are mean eventually...
But DANM that was brutal for her💀💀
bruh i have no idea what happened to my bullies lmao, they kinda just disappeared. ig my sister used to bully me, like she used to spread rumours about me, beat me, make fun of me to make friends, etc. she ended up as an abusive junkie and a leech. she beat up my mum a few times and still screams at my mum until she gives her money and also she tried to stab me. she is a bottle girl working at a club where everyone bullies each other, and she spends everyday either passed out or screaming at my grandma, mum, and i. idk 0/10 would not want to be her sibling again
Help your mom out damn
She's dangerous
Yeah for some reason I find it unbelievable too .