I think the issue is that it's a guy with tattoos or just guys in general around kids in a public setting women view as creepy behavior. It's a double standard rather than about race. Women can have ill intentions just as easily as the male counterpart but are automaticly viewed as innocent unlike men.
@YonYuyu Racism exists everywhere. They're just words mostly. But if Black culture is going to keep supporting thug culture and having their BLK women keep becoming single-mothers, then this will keep going on. This is what generational poverty is.
I admit tattoos aren't always nice things to look at, but just because you see a person with tattoos, it doesn't make them dangerous or a thug. You should never judge someone before you get to know them. I hope Rebecca's character Barbara learns this lesson.
@@BobTheAnimeDudeBecause our bodies are gifts. And from what I believe bodies are like a church. We respect and take care of our bodies. And having tattoos are like putting graffiti on a church building. I don’t have anything against tattoos, they’re fine, I just don’t prefer having them. Having tattoos are not bad to have but they aren’t the best to have.
Not really... she was calling him a freeloader and realized not only is he not a freeloader, he's her husband's boss. So it's more so her traditional American marriage mindset forced on other people because she's finally happy her husband will be making six figures so she can start buying more shit. 😀🤣 She was just scared the bag would taken from her if her husband lost his job because of her negligence.
@@dreajpIf a woman is working and her man is staying home, he is a free loader. If a man is working and his wife is staying home she is not a free loader. 🧐🤔🤔
@@TheLastAatroxMain Women were traditionally not given the right to depend on themselves financially and had to stay at home where traditionally men were expected to work and provide. But I see nothing wrong with a man staying home while wife works as long as he takes care of domestic work, because, after all, if he worked and she stay home he would expect her to take care of the home.
That's the problem with these videos. A sad backstory shouldn't be needed; you just shouldn't treat people badly because of how they look no matter what they or their loved ones have been through. It shouldn't matter if they're rich; just don't mistreat people. THAT'S an actual life lesson!
Pretty sure the sad backstory didn’t convince the Shity acting Racist lady her losing the six figure check when she realized she was disrespecting the checkbook was 😂😂😂😂
As a dad, with 16 tattoos...who also owns a business.....and has been side-eyed and misjudged so many times (not that I care) this was an amazing video too watch. DM is the man. He gets a lot of really good life points out there. Head them folks.
The kindest spirits knew the most pain sometimes. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing, but being a good judge of character means staying away too. Some people aren't strong enough to stay around after ....this gentle giant has my respect even if it is a skit.
My dad has alot of tattoos but he's not a bad guy. He's taken care of me ever since I was a baby and he took me in and raised me when my Mom couldn't. I'm forever grateful for him being in my life as my dad, always. Never judge someone before getting to know them.
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom at least you have a dad to take care of you. I never had a dad growing up and my parents divorced when I was 5 I lived with my mom my whole life. ❤ And I haven’t seen my dad for years ever since.
@@DickInbaus69420 How so? I would say that family is about love, not blood. Family isn't about having the same DNA, blood, or last name... it's about the amount of love you share with one another. And if you were a decent person, you would know that.
The more you judge others, the more you judge yourself. By constantly seeing the bad in others, we train our minds to find the bad. This can lead to increase in stress. Stress can weaken the immune system and cause high blood pressure, fatigue, depression, anxiety and even stroke.
don´t tell that to people in the security business, they only have that first impression as indicator.... and there is nothing bad about being quick to judge someone, as long as you can as quickly correct that judgement upon learning more....
"Depending on one's state of mind, even Hell can be enjoyable"- Tsunesaburo Makiguchi. We all suffer in our own way. But it's through that suffering that we raise both our own spirit and empathy. We aren't alone, when it comes to the hardships of reality.
I checked your channel and you seemed like a really positive person I really liked the quote ❤ I will subscribe, cause now days my life needs such a positivity
I know this is a different mom, but isn't it a turn of events how she went from having a daughter who gets judged by her appearance, then she goes around judging others?
@@bhavanijayant526 just like with all types of personalities out there, karen is a metaphor in a way for the type of personality they have, genuinely most of them are stuck up,too full of themselves and quite bitchy but to answer your questions there's a lot of them out there .
What’s shocking is that we have a world now where videos like these are necessary to educate people. I had the exact situation as the Sensei in a martial arts club…….many times! Sometimes having to “explain” to a nonbeliever that what they saw in front of them was not what they prejudged.
Judging someone by their appearance doesn't show what kind of person that man or women is... But it does show wat kind of person you are...i was tought from a young age to always respect everyone no matter where they are from ir what they look like... And to never judge someone based on their appearance.
This video, was so beautiful! You might think, that just because, a person has tattoos. You might assume, that the person, is a criminal! But, in reality, that person might be, one of the nicest people, whom you've ever met! Never judge someone, before you get to know them! Anyways, good video, Dhar! Love from Florida, East Coast, United States!
When I watched this it brought meaning to how our minds runaway with curiosity, of who some of us really are, and instead of checking someone else, we should check ourselves, it all go back to being raised up the right way, please don't judge, and if your wrong take your pride put it aside, peace, and prosperity.
You are right dhar, u should never judge anyone before u get to know them and their personality, and do not assume so quickly u never know someones life until u walk a mile in their shoes
This kinda stuff used to happen to me all the time,I don’t have tats but I’m a 6ft 230lb black man,I can’t even go to the mall without someone following me,damn shame🤦🏽♂️
The only parts I find hard to believe are the security guard not seeing Ray, and John not seeing Ray. He seems very hard to miss in that setting with all of those smaller women and kids, and then him and Barbara standing facing each other. The whole video, and the message... 🔥
“When you judge someone based on their appearance, it doesn’t define them. It defines you.” I truly and strongly believe in that. Nobody deserves to be judged. Whether if it’s the color, or whatever. Nobody should ever be judged. Powerful message. 💜🙏🏼💪🏼💪🏼
@@blackman96ify that’s not how it works lol, u could get arrested for that. Sure she was being an asshat but it doesn’t give anybody the almighty right to blackmail lol
You have got to be kidding right? That was litterally the 38484728495884 version of the same crappy video that has no meaning or any life changing advice all it teaches kids is that you should not think massive black men are dangerous 💀💀
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Dhar love you videos keep going 🫶🫶❤️😊
I did
ok
This woman though 🤦
I can't wait for Jay and Mikey Episode 8
Even after an apology, I have no pitty for people like her. God bless you 👍🏾.
we should love one another ❤and realize that we all have flaws and that we should learn from them
@@thatomanaka323 Who said I don’t? Thanks for the PSA though. I said I’d have no pitty. God bless you and Jesus loves you too ❤️
agreed with you.. we don't need another karen
People like her don't exist in real life
@@iDrunkRSdefinitely drunk
Dhar’s moral of the story: You can treat people like crap, but if only if they’re rich you have to apologize for how you treated them.
Perfect perspective👌 😂
Good!!
Define perception
For real
Fr they never apologize unless they do something for them or become successful
As a black man it's always hard to face the fact racist actions is fear.
I think the issue is that it's a guy with tattoos or just guys in general around kids in a public setting women view as creepy behavior.
It's a double standard rather than about race.
Women can have ill intentions just as easily as the male counterpart but are automaticly viewed as innocent unlike men.
I see your victim card hasn't expired.
@@butwhole4186It’s not a victim card it’s the truth…quit acting as if these situations don’t happen in real time.
@YonYuyu Racism exists everywhere. They're just words mostly.
But if Black culture is going to keep supporting thug culture and having their BLK women keep becoming single-mothers, then this will keep going on. This is what generational poverty is.
@@erikwilliam1254of course it's race in this video ate you blind. Ur white right
I'm so happy to see Mr. Smiley chill
Fr
Ikr
you gotta see the poor kid video
"When you judge someone based on their appearance, it doesn't define them. It defines you." Big facts! 💯
@@DickInbaus69420 Imagine having the name you have.
Imagine being an npc
@@Tyrone_Smith991 Imagine being cloned.
Imagine being everywhere
That is some powerful wisdom there
That man seems so sweet, i feel like everyone deserves a not a dad like him, but a FATHER like him. He would be the best dad ever!
i want him to be my daddy 😋
Huh. Same thing bro... Dad and father??? and then u said He would be the best dad ever..
@@damiandio130facts😂😂
5:38 I would’ve lifted a finger alright and it wouldn’t have been nice one…
@@RyanLai-j6e same
I admit tattoos aren't always nice things to look at, but just because you see a person with tattoos, it doesn't make them dangerous or a thug. You should never judge someone before you get to know them. I hope Rebecca's character Barbara learns this lesson.
Jesus loves you all and may God bless ya❤❤❤
@@Jesussaves852 Thank you.
@@DickInbaus69420 First part, honestly true, but how are tattoos bad.
Tattoos aren’t bad to look at tho
@@BobTheAnimeDudeBecause our bodies are gifts. And from what I believe bodies are like a church. We respect and take care of our bodies. And having tattoos are like putting graffiti on a church building. I don’t have anything against tattoos, they’re fine, I just don’t prefer having them. Having tattoos are not bad to have but they aren’t the best to have.
People like her do not change that quickly or easily.
They carry,their opinions, judgements and hatred like a badge of honor.
The peace the calmness the understanding and immeasurable patience. Humble spirits can be humbling.
Moral of the story, no need to apologize unless the person you insulted is rich. Great message 👍
😂😂😂
Not really... she was calling him a freeloader and realized not only is he not a freeloader, he's her husband's boss. So it's more so her traditional American marriage mindset forced on other people because she's finally happy her husband will be making six figures so she can start buying more shit. 😀🤣 She was just scared the bag would taken from her if her husband lost his job because of her negligence.
@@dreajpIf a woman is working and her man is staying home, he is a free loader. If a man is working and his wife is staying home she is not a free loader.
🧐🤔🤔
@@TheLastAatroxMain
Women were traditionally not given the right to depend on themselves financially and had to stay at home where traditionally men were expected to work and provide.
But I see nothing wrong with a man staying home while wife works as long as he takes care of domestic work, because, after all, if he worked and she stay home he would expect her to take care of the home.
I don’t think she is racist, she really want him but does not know how to say it. Why else she keeps following him everywhere.
9:18 That little *“Ain’t that right, Barbara?”* had to be the most _subtle_ hint of personal _sass_ I’ve _ever_ heard in my life 💀👌🏽
I loved it!!!
@@marianolan4138Me too
I love how Barbara never knew until now that John was an employee for Raymond lol
People Need To Mind They Own Business. And Ray Is So Humble This Is A Tear Jerker.
8:55 you bought your wife a a “carf”?
Phhhhfffffffffff
Phhhhhhffffffffffffff
Phhhhhfffffffffffff
Pphhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff
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0:45 Ain't *NO WAY* that guy has a chance against him💀
😂
Who doesn't has a chance the security guard or the dad?
@mmmmm he's saying the Dad could beat up the security gaurd
Thank u bro.
2:30 THATS WILD ASF 💀💀💀💀💀
4:57 Ray was " brother ehhh what's the brother ehhh"
Your you so funny I amsot died
That's the problem with these videos. A sad backstory shouldn't be needed; you just shouldn't treat people badly because of how they look no matter what they or their loved ones have been through. It shouldn't matter if they're rich; just don't mistreat people. THAT'S an actual life lesson!
Pretty sure the sad backstory didn’t convince the Shity acting Racist lady her losing the six figure check when she realized she was disrespecting the checkbook was 😂😂😂😂
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What's crazy is that there are really people out there like her...😮
As a dad, with 16 tattoos...who also owns a business.....and has been side-eyed and misjudged so many times (not that I care) this was an amazing video too watch. DM is the man. He gets a lot of really good life points out there. Head them folks.
nice car in the pfp
@@SatisfactionVIPyea
They’re not talking about the tattoos they’re talking about the skin color💀
Fr bro
Tbf she’s talking about both negatively
That’s racist-
go
@@ILUV.HAZBIN.AND.HELLUVAnah rlly😂 ?
First she was racist and rude and apologized💀 LIKE PLS her husband needs a divorce😭💀
2:30 “her own people” 😧
@@cvndyxc PEOPLE ARE SO CRAZY THESE DAYS 😭😭
@@cvndyxcnah that was crazy
@@Ronaldo78982fr
Yes they do
“when you judge someone based on their appearance, it doesn't define them. It defines you” factss 💯💯
Real
Can I just say how it's ludicrous how someone would go as far as Barbara to harass someone
No this!! Every episode she’s in…I’m here like “is she sticking to the script orrrrr”😂😂
There are people like this in real life unfortunately. Not many but still
It happens though. And sadly there are people like that on both sides. It makes me angry and sad at the same time.
And yet it happens every 👏🏾 single 👏🏾 day 👏🏾
The kindest spirits knew the most pain sometimes. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing, but being a good judge of character means staying away too. Some people aren't strong enough to stay around after ....this gentle giant has my respect even if it is a skit.
I have respect for this gentleman about how patient and calm he was. I feel so sorry for him. He’s a kind man who doesn’t deserve that.
Hi Mr smiley
Nahhhhhhh💀💀💀💀
Fr🌚🌚
Huh
LOLL
Jit trippin💀🤣
"Never judge someone before you get to know them." This video had an amazing message! Keep up the good work! Thanks Dhar!
npc
Actually sometimes you have to judge them by there cover
there is nothing bad about being quick to judge someone, as long as you can as quickly correct that judgement upon learning more....
sometimes
@@Aekhlaqiedits ikr like someone coming to you with a gun and then you say never judge someone before knwoing them
My dad has alot of tattoos but he's not a bad guy. He's taken care of me ever since I was a baby and he took me in and raised me when my Mom couldn't. I'm forever grateful for him being in my life as my dad, always. Never judge someone before getting to know them.
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom at least you have a dad to take care of you. I never had a dad growing up and my parents divorced when I was 5 I lived with my mom my whole life. ❤ And I haven’t seen my dad for years ever since.
Don't judge a book by its cover before you get to know them
i’ll never judge you
@@rxplyzx Same
@@natefsultan7692 yes defently
….
I Agreed
Family isn’t about blood, it’s about love
Real
Half true half wrong
True
@@DickInbaus69420 How so? I would say that family is about love, not blood. Family isn't about having the same DNA, blood, or last name... it's about the amount of love you share with one another. And if you were a decent person, you would know that.
@@DickInbaus69420family isn’t about blood, it’s about love.
The more you judge others, the more you judge yourself. By constantly seeing the bad in others, we train our minds to find the bad. This can lead to increase in stress. Stress can weaken the immune system and cause high blood pressure, fatigue, depression, anxiety and even stroke.
4:15 BRO WAS SERIOUS AND DIDNT CARE😭😭
Let’s just appreciate how Dhar man opens up to random people they just met
"Barbara, get in the car. We'll discuss this at home."
John at Home: I want a divorce.
You never know what someone is going through and even though he has tattoos it doesn’t make him any less worthy of respect 😢
I dont think they were hiding him for his tattoos cause he doesn’t have many I think it’s cause he’s black
*judging
Tattoos can tell a story, think of Moana
@@fkromo ur very wise :)
so true! :D
it sounds like you are a good person🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
She is a really good actor ❤
Lol basically a karen getting humbled in the biggest way.
At 8:49 you bought your wife a carf
The moral of the story is don’t judge somone by there appearance
don´t tell that to people in the security business, they only have that first impression as indicator....
and there is nothing bad about being quick to judge someone, as long as you can as quickly correct that judgement upon learning more....
09:01 Barbara said ‘you bought your wife a carf CARF?
7:40 some people dont change
7:55 are you serious right now
Ishowspeed says that lol😂
These speed clones are crazy 😂
"Depending on one's state of mind, even Hell can be enjoyable"- Tsunesaburo Makiguchi. We all suffer in our own way. But it's through that suffering that we raise both our own spirit and empathy. We aren't alone, when it comes to the hardships of reality.
2:17 he was so nice even after what she said❤❤❤
Don't judge a book by it's cover since everyone has his/her own painful story ,thanks Dhar for this amazing video
I checked your channel and you seemed like a really positive person
I really liked the quote ❤
I will subscribe, cause now days my life needs such a positivity
@@DickInbaus69420Nobody asked for you to be born.
My opinion doesn't need to be asked
I just wanted to say that and I did
Thanks for your awesome reply BTW ☺️
Never Judge a book by its cover. Great video Dhar!!
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why are you in all of the comment section
You never know how a person life is until you step in there shoes
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I love when she called to cops on that poor man😃
Are you serious right now? ☹️ 7:47
Bros becomin ishowspeed
I know this is a different mom, but isn't it a turn of events how she went from having a daughter who gets judged by her appearance, then she goes around judging others?
You should never ever judge someone by their looks. Thank you for spreading this Dhar ❤
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That's why I'm so nice to others. No matter what. What goes around, comes around.
0:58 "If you don't get out, I'll have security come and take you out."
...He looks like he could easily fold the security guard in half...😭
Fr tho 😂😂😂
For real🎅🏿
We’re not just telling story’s we’re teaching Karen’s lessons
What is dhar mann's obsessions with karens?
@@bhavanijayant526 there are too many of them in real life....
@@Metzwerg74 are there?
@@bhavanijayant526 just like with all types of personalities out there, karen is a metaphor in a way for the type of personality they have, genuinely most of them are stuck up,too full of themselves and quite bitchy but to answer your questions there's a lot of them out there .
@@bhavanijayant526 to put it simple....
YES!
2:03 i thought the video will end right after that
Same
there isn’t the so you see though 😭
His old ones would
Same 😅
The fact that he’s so nice too 😭😭
4:23 Cookies N Cream and Mint are both my favorites as well😊😊
2:40 he looking like he about to beat mS KaReN up
Never judge some one based on their color, religion or the skin color.
What do you mean color?
just delete "never"
@@Great_Gamer2500 💀 ✋
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@@TrashAshEdits
It’s another way of saying race
@@Great_Gamer2500LMAO
6:46 the eye brow raise😂😂😂
Erm what du phuk
Never accuse anyone of stalking kids based on their appearances
@@DickInbaus69420 tell me its a joke
@@DickInbaus69420 then you prob do that as well
Never judge a book by its cover it only defines you not them.THANS DHAR FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO U TEACH MANY PEOPLE LESSONS THANK U SO MICH!!
I don’t judge books by their cover I judge it by the first page 😢
“First page” made my jaw drop 💀🔫
What’s shocking is that we have a world now where videos like these are necessary to educate people.
I had the exact situation as the Sensei in a martial arts club…….many times! Sometimes having to “explain” to a nonbeliever that what they saw in front of them was not what they prejudged.
Never judge someone before u get to know them
Judging someone by their appearance doesn't show what kind of person that man or women is... But it does show wat kind of person you are...i was tought from a young age to always respect everyone no matter where they are from ir what they look like... And to never judge someone based on their appearance.
This video, was so beautiful! You might think, that just because, a person has tattoos. You might assume, that the person, is a criminal! But, in reality, that person might be, one of the nicest people, whom you've ever met! Never judge someone, before you get to know them! Anyways, good video, Dhar! Love from Florida, East Coast, United States!
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so true tbh
that's enough commas, pal
There's a command every single word
Don’t judge someone, before u meet them!
When I watched this it brought meaning to how our minds runaway with curiosity, of who some of us really are, and instead of checking someone else, we should check ourselves, it all go back to being raised up the right way, please don't judge, and if your wrong take your pride put it aside, peace, and prosperity.
You are right dhar, u should never judge anyone before u get to know them and their personality, and do not assume so quickly u never know someones life until u walk a mile in their shoes
Amen god bless you❤
This kinda stuff used to happen to me all the time,I don’t have tats but I’m a 6ft 230lb black man,I can’t even go to the mall without someone following me,damn shame🤦🏽♂️
Hey don't feel bad brotha, keep your head up and walk proudly. You didn't do anything wrong but being a man. Stay strong, stay safe and keep it 100%
@@mikewilliams-qf4xv
Right on 👍🏽
The grandma part made me cry 😢 😭
Pretend this is on SNL and you'll laugh your ass off 😂😂
The only parts I find hard to believe are the security guard not seeing Ray, and John not seeing Ray.
He seems very hard to miss in that setting with all of those smaller women and kids, and then him and Barbara standing facing each other.
The whole video, and the message... 🔥
Imagine the things Ray had to go through to have that level of patience
Lol omg it's amazing how angry this made me lol that man had some bloody resilience lol loved how he kept his cool!
you should never judge someone based by their face body gender or race everyone should be treated the same this is a very good lesson for everyone
True 👍
I Agree
Moral of the story: don’t judge a book by its cover or who knows it might be your partner’s boss haha 😂😂
😂😂😂
Karma has a way of coming around
6:38 the grandma says i love you
Wait i also said that😂😂
It's nice seeing Moses Jackson play someone other than a security guard or military guy. Instead, he is a loving dad in this video.
Don't judge someone before you get to know them
“When you judge someone based on their appearance, it doesn’t define them. It defines you.” I truly and strongly believe in that. Nobody deserves to be judged. Whether if it’s the color, or whatever. Nobody should ever be judged. Powerful message. 💜🙏🏼💪🏼💪🏼
We got dhar on a hand these videos make me smile these help me with my temper thanks 👍🤘❤
W video guys never judge someone before you get to know them
It was too beautiful! And the dad seemed so genuine! I totally loved it! Thank you for sharing this beautiful message today, Dhar! Love you!❤❤❤
Yea black fathers like this are very common.
Dhar always makes my day. I ❤ it
Dhamn 💀💀💀💀💀
Jee thanks
@Dicklnbaus69420 nobody asked for you existence either
Dhamm Mann
9:53 after all that you wanna ask him that 💀 nahhh jit tripping
Fr
3:17 WHO gonna hire you with them tattoos???
9:10 VP tryna figure out what the hell is going on
9:20 well bc ur rich I think ur a good man
Cannot wait to watch this new video, love how you are tackling the action of not judging a book by it’s cover ❤
It’s an old video
Jesus loves you all and may God bless ya❤❤❤
Mhm.
its a repost
@@Ehathwk what do you mean
6:11 the cop took his hat off and the grandma started crying xd
that means someone they’re related to died
If I was him I’d give John two options: either lose his job or divorce her and keep his job, either way something needs to happen
Haven’t u ever heard of forgiveness and second chances her apology was real
That’s blackmailing tho
@@lyndawebster6840 don’t care, it’s easy to say “I’m sorry” without consequences, learn it
@@low_instinct_ life ain’t fair 🤷♂️
@@blackman96ify that’s not how it works lol, u could get arrested for that. Sure she was being an asshat but it doesn’t give anybody the almighty right to blackmail lol
Damn yo I normally don’t get caught up in stuff like this but I enjoyed that. I was all in my feels 😂
9:01 when he said mmm that got me cracking up 😂
As the old saying goes, don’t judge a book by its cover. Tattoos aren’t my style, but I don’t judge people who have them
Moral of the story: It is important not to judge others before getting to know them. You will only have yourself to blame if you are wrong.
This is why we should never judge others before we get to know them, because we don’t know how much they really been through.
3:24 no he didn’t say baby daddy😂 Miss had to correct him😂
Can you just take a moment to appreciate how much dharman puts in Effort in his videos Thank you dhar man for putting Effort into your videos
Lmfao yeah
he legit already did this video just different seens same people smae kids everything
You have got to be kidding right? That was litterally the 38484728495884 version of the same crappy video that has no meaning or any life changing advice all it teaches kids is that you should not think massive black men are dangerous 💀💀
I didn't know it takes effort to copy the same video just with different character and story
Poor mun
The jerk kept getting closer to him and told him to back off and Ray wasn't even walking towards her. Plus, Ray seems like a spectacular father. 💖😁