It takes a real man to be able to show yourself so vulnerable in the public. I know you've been mugged - but you made one of the most beautiful videos on the internet as a consequence of that. What would be the world like if more people on this planet would open up and show their real self. You're a gift to humanity brother.
There's some synchronicity going on, it would be wild if those muggers were Daniel's former students or siblings of his students. But now there is an amazing (to me at least) new path of content for Daniel (hopefully) to produce for us. :)
@@PsycheOS I've been doing a little research behind the scenes, and I'm pretty sure that I know people who know the guys who mugged me. And there's a good chance I played music for them when they were little children. And I think I will be finding out more of these details soon. Yes, big ironies here... But that's life -- a wild and crazy venture sometimes!!
This reminds me of one time when I came across a young man in a river valley and as soon as I saw him, I knew he was going to do violence to me and kill me. The realization just came over me. I was walking downhill, couldn’t run back uphill to the middle of nowhere. It was an upscale part of town that is usually safe but rather devoid of other people, quiet. He was off the path coming out of the woods towards me and then stopped at the edge of the path so I’d have to pass him. I didn’t even have my cell phone as I’d left it in my car. I asked the Great Spirit to work through me. I walked past him but looked him straight in his murderous, bloodchilling eyes. I said “Hello young man! God bless you!” In a very pleasant, but loud and startling voice. I kept walking briskly, but confidently. He stayed there frozen. It was terrifying the second I was out of his sight I ran like I had never run before. Daniel, oh it broke my heart to see this video title. I am so sorry. You absolutely did the right thing. I am sending prayers of gratitude for you and your many gifts to the world. Please take good care of you over the next little while. We are all very glad you are (physically) unharmed and will pray for your healing ✨
Since you spoke up to your suspected would-be assailant, you removed the target of 'prey' upon yourself. Just acting like prey WILL attract preditors..
Thank you so much for sharing. I believe in the spiritual world and I have experienced things to make me believe that people are filled with demons. I have been approached in dangerous situations where someone was about to attack me and I just would yell out “in the name of Jesus leave!” and they would get terrified and run away. This is where I know Jesus is real and demons are real and demons fear the name of Jesus.
@@sonseraedesigns i have been in similar situations also when something bad happens in my life i would say things like father let there be your will take this cup from me.
I cried listening to you. I was robbed two year ago, the guy took my phone so fast from my hand as I was boarding the taxi. This in itself was not very bad, but the policeman who had the audacity to ask me (so why a girl would be out at 12 midnight?) It was traumatizing more... but listening to you helped me Danie!
Thank you for sharing this. I am very appreciative for your willingness to be open about this. It helps me. Warm hello and BEST WISHES on your healing. Daniel
i’m finding this so late but i’m struggling from being attacked by a stranger and i also got blamed by the detective on my case. i was taking a walk at 1 AM when it happened (insomnia) and he asked if i was hiding details and if this was actually a drug deal gone wrong. He ended it with telling me to stop being out late. my attacker still hasn’t been caught. thank you for sharing, i’m so sorry this happened.
I'm extremely sorry that happened to you Daniel. Edit: what a cruel twist of fate... You've spent many years helping others with their trauma and this is what you get.
Well, life is complex!!! The goal for me is to make good out of this. And already I feel it happening. And I think I will sleep well tonight. I am totally exhausted!!! Warm greetings, and thank you--Daniel
@@dmackler58 warm greetings right back, and we all know you most certainly will make good out of the situation. I can relate on some degree, and find a lot of similarities between us. It took my many years of being burned yet still forgiving them just to be burned again to realize not everyone has the same heart or intentions as I. Thank you again for sharing this with us, I wish you peace and clarity.
Wow. 14 hours is so soon after the event. It is actually a valuable gift for us to listen to you process the experience on camera. There is learning and teaching here for all of us.
Have a progressive recovering of this traumatic experience,it takes two or three months usually,and it is very good for you to talk and cry ,as you know...we are here and it is our privilege to hear to you and send our support and simphaty,you were very brave and made a great analysis on this hard experience ,you are so strong!lot of blessings to you
I experienced this. I was jumped by two guys in Williamsburg at knifepoint and a stun gun back in 2003. I wasn’t sure if I had been sexually assaulted...my clothes were torn off. I was able to escape when pinned on the hood of a car simply because a man rode by on a bicycle, startled my aggressors and then yelled at me to run. I did. Who knows if I’d have made it out unscathed had that person not intervened? I was very calm during the attack. I tried to reason with them. I was 27 at the time. My reaction shocked me. Afterwards, I was angry. I felt violated and alienated. I was so frustrated because it was two African American men and I had racial bias reinforcement after the incident that I had to work through. It made me feel deep shame. We try to make sense of the senseless. I thought it was because I was gay. I thought it was because I was dressed up in a suit. It thought it was because I was white. Maybe it was just bad timing...wrong place, wrong time. I called the police, but was told I needed to go to the precinct. It was after midnight, and I didn’t want to pursue the trauma any further. It took about three months to stop feeling paranoid when I walked home at night, but I continued on my journey of life, determined never to allow someone else’s unresolved trauma to traumatize me. Of course, that was nonsense as I hadn’t even started processing my own childhood trauma! It’s a tricky balancing act, but you will only be stronger for it. I empathize and am available to chat should you ever feel the need or desire to exchange on your healing journey.
I'm really sorry that happened to you, Daniel. I was mugged in an elevator in NYC (I'm a woman) and I was in a robbery in my workplace years later. I just remember screaming in shock in the elevator incident. I was punched in the face out of the blue. When I got to the office where I was doing temp work, I told some of my coworkers, but no one really made a big deal out of it. One woman said "Oh, I thought I heard someone screaming." I didn't file a police report, but I quit the job. The lesson I learned from it was not to worry about hurting anyone's feelings if I felt uncomfortable not riding in an elevator with someone, and wait for the next one instead. Hey, that's life in the big city. I have the right not to put myself in a compromising situation. that outweighs the possibility of hurting someone's feelings. I panicked in an elevator once after that and ran out as soon as the door opened on another floor. If I heard footsteps on a street behind me, I would have to turn to see who it was. I had repetitive thoughts, replaying the incidents over and over again in my mind. You learned situational awareness from this horrible experience. Please stay out of that park at night. I doubt if they are sorry, I'd say that for them it's "Just business". No offense, but for your own safety, please don't wear the hat at night and stay off the phone All the Best, a friend in upstate New York
Yeah, I was mugged from behind. In that moment I felt bad about looking back, I felt I would look paranoid. But you should listen to your gut feeling, instinct. Even if it would make other people "uncomfortable" (if only on your own mind).
@@jenss.3613 Yes, your safety comes first. I felt like you did, not even thinking about the possibility of danger when I got on that elevator. I'd just come back to New York after spending 3 months in a Tibetan Buddist monastery in Scotland, so I wasn't thinking bad things (inner warnings) about people. But we are in this world, as it is, not as we want it to be.
@@jenss.3613 Awful to be mugged from behind. I wish I'd been looking back more, but like you I didn't want to look paranoid and didn't want to make them feel bad. Well, I'll be more self-loving the next time, I hope, and I will look back!! Daniel
My girlfriend and I were robbed by a guy with a gun at a drive through ATM, we were there so she can make a deposit. I saw him a split second in the rear mirror before he showed up on my girlfriend's driver window. He had a mask on, a gun, which he racked in window to show he was serious. I was actually calm and thinking of how I can disarm him, but decided his two handed grip is no go. He took my girlfriend's purse, which have no money, and the car keys, but did not ask for my wallet which had money. I think he did not ask for my wallet was because I was calm the whole time, and looking in his eyes. The real disappointment was when we walked the parking lot to an Alberson's, told the people there we were robbed, absolutely no sympathy from anyone. Geez. When the cops showed, they asked what race was he, don't know. What kind of shoes was he wearing? What? I don't look at shoes. Closure came when a few weeks later. A lady called and I picked up the phone. She asked if my girlfriend is missing her purse. I said yes. She said she found it in her son's room. She cried and hanged up the phone. I didn't think fast enough to ask the lady to send my girlfriend's college ID to us, that's all she wanted since we graduated a couple of years already and it's a keepsake. This was 1998, we didn't have caller ID and I didn't know about *69 then. Next time I get robbed, I am looking at shoes.
Charles -- thank you for sharing this. I found it very helpful. I also could remember ALMOST NOTHING about what the robbers were wearing. Jackets, I think! I couldn't remember colors or anything. Mostly I remember the look in their eyes. That's where I was looking the whole time. I send you a warm hello. Daniel
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Poor baby, you are such a gentle soul, Daniel. When you broke down, I did too. I'm so glad you are a therapist and understand all this stuff. You are in my prayers.
awwww! thanks Alex! well, I was a therapist, and at one level I understand it, but to be honest to be in the VERY middle of it makes it a lot harder to understand, at least to understand with perspective.
@@dmackler58 I’m from east harlem and I hear you. Things have gotten pretty ruthless in the city as of late. I used to walk around with a “tough guy” scowl just to avoid getting messed with and thankfully it worked. However it came at the cost of others being afraid of me because of the vibe I put out... so just do you Dan! No matter what. The city needs people like you especially in these times. Be safe and much love brother!
I had an abuse situation not so long ago which led to panic and a hospitalization. I would like to deal with extreme situations more like you did Daniel.
So sorry this happened to you Daniel and thank you for reaching out. I can relate to your situation in that I had been chased in my car one time by someone with a huge amount of road rage when I unintentionally made a turn in front of him when he was coming up a blind hill while going over the speed limit. He literally swung his car around and chased me to a restaurant parking lot where I got out of my truck as he pulled up to me and then got out of his car- eyes bulging and cussing away. After his rant, I thought he was finished, but as I turned to get back in my truck he slugged me in the jaw, knocking my glasses off and then left. It took months to get over that experience. Again, so sorry you are shaken by this situation, Daniel. I sincerely wish you healing.
I am sorry that assaults such as this, are taken so lightly by our society. (Especially our Authorities.) Yes, We All make mistakes and fall short. However, our Responses to Error are way out of control! Far too Quick and Aggressive. We must Nurture rather than Cast Out. Patience... People are Hurting everywhere. We used to show concern and compassion for others. We worked hard to make an honest living and pitched in when neighbors were hurting. We respected one another's property and persons. We spoke of Morals and Virtue... and God. We were Proud of our Country and It's People... HAS EVERYONE FORGOTTEN? Virtual HUG to All reading this. Never give up Hope.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍❤🧡💛💚💙Love & Light
I also want to do a follow-up video or two on this -- assuming I feel a lot better in a few days or weeks. That's my goal. Thank you Ms. Rocky. -Daniel
Daniel, I wish I could hug you. You're so strong and have had so many interesting experiences. Your stories help me grow and hearing you talk about how you reacted in this situation impresses me. I feel like I would get myself jumped in a situation like this as I have a mouth on me. I'm proud of you. Also, it sounds like these guys have insecurities about their height and strength. You're clearly the stronger person.
@@dmackler58 no need to thank me you have been so brave opening up about this and I'm really struck by how vulnerable and compassionate you are as a human. I hope you take some time for yourself and remember that none of this is your fault. 🌹
I felt love and admiration for you. You are committed to kindness. I was mugged 20 years ago. i haven't recovered. Through the lens of my childhood traumata. Your honestly and vulnerability inspires tenderness in me.
Even though it's been a number of years since you were a victim of this awful crime, l feel if l could ld like to give you a big hug. Your openness, vulnerability and fragility is a breath of fresh air. Thank you, l hope time, reflection and telling people about your experience has been an aid in healing from the trauma.
Seemingly, the interaction with the jogger and the police was much worse than the interaction with the robbers. Goes to show the absolute desolation our society rots in and how people have forgotten what it means to put oneself in the other's shoes. I hope you heal from this traumatic event and I pray I don't ever have to experience the worst of what this inhumane world has to offer.
@@daliborjovanovic9488 I'm amazed at how many kind people are on this channel. I mean, I shouldn't be amazed because I've been reading the comments for years, but...it's just that I'm in a more hurt place today, and all these comments are just lovely. So thank you!
@@dmackler58 and today we are here for you.With your pain and fear,to help you carry it through😊 Much love and compassion once again. Please do a folow up video in a couple of days to see were you are.
I am stunned that you had the guts to ask for your driver's license. I found this the most impressive part. Thanks for sharing this terrible incident and how you handled it. I appreciate your ability to touch so many different angles and draw conclusions despite your obvious stress response and sleep deprivation. Kudos to you, wishing you all the best, Daniel!
Exactly Deborah - My martial arts teachers always told students to give muggers what they want but the ley point is to throw the stuff away from you then run in the other direction. Don't be proud to hang on to your stuff. THis will buy you some extra time - Don't get into a fight if you can avoid.
I'm so sorry for you. This made me cry. Such honest real vulnerability and the way you handled them. Thank you for reaching out and sharing your traumatic and dramatic experience in real time with us Daniel. I truly think it will help in your healing process. My belief is you need to vent, and I certainly want to listen and support you after all you do for me and the many others your've met on your journey in life. So glad you did not get hurt! You take care and stay safe. I love your hat btw. Be well, sleep well - big virtual hug 🤗
Thank you for sharing this. It's amazing to me just to hear that other people have gone through similar things. It makes me feel so much less alone. Warm hello. Daniel
How awful! You have all my empathy. I'm so glad you weren't hurt physically. You are better than those people 10 times over, you are the bigger man. When you said "I almost went into therapist mode, I almost just sort of talked to them calmly," and "it felt like I was dealing with two human beings" it really told me a lot about your character. You are a good, powerful, and radiant person, and those who did this to you deserve more than a calm talk. Thank you for sharing this, it may help others who've been in the same situation not feel alone.
i am so sorry this happened to you Daniel! i can't even imagine how frightening and traumatizing that must have been--you are SO brave to have remained so calm and articulate in that moment; i am just so glad you are safe (and upset that the police weren't a bit more empathetic and understanding to your situation)!! also, that after such a terrifying, violent experience you are still able to see the humanity in those men and express empathy for them--you are so much better than most of us! and those folks on those forums are RIGHT! it is never okay to victim blame someone--*they* chose to rob you! you have every right to calmly walk through your neighborhood without the expectation of violence and theft from others--it's all on them! we can only be so cautious, and ultimately can't control if others choose to hurt us or not. ): i hope you're getting/have gotten some rest and sleep now, and that through verbalizing & expressing your thoughts and emotions to us it can jumpstart your healing from this! i wish you well~
Thank you for being vulnerable and raw in this video. It is appreciated, even if you feel like it's not polished and "perfect." After an experience like this, it definitely does not need to be perfect.
😮 Hope you are ok dude...I 've been mugged in the past. Yes. It IS traumatic. Go easy on yourself. ..and I'm NO pushover..believe me! Be on guard for PTSD....you know how it works mate . :/
I'm sorry you went through this, it's definitely not your fault that this happened. Your lovely hat is special and you should be able to wear what you want without being targeted. No one but those guys knows why they chose to mug you or anyone. You have every right to cry or feel shaken up over something like this, I think anyone would feel traumatized about it. I was shot at several times while out for a walk by a complete strange, never found out why he did it. I'm just grateful I wasn't hurt but it was very traumatic for me, I had nightmares about it for several weeks and have never returned to the area even a year later. I can't imagine how much more violated I would have felt if I had been robbed. I'm glad you weren't hurt. It's also good that you have some insight on troubled people who hurt others from your background as a therapist. Please try to be gentle with yourself because it really is a lot to go through and you know trauma (if it happens) can show up in a lot of different ways. Wishing you the best on your healing.
There a martial art called "Systema" that is not only about combat but also has a big psychological aspect like dealing with fear, being able to be relaxed in tense situations (whether a fight or work), how to relax other people, move softly through situations (both physically and spiritually) as not to scare or anger people or harm yourself. Very interesting sutff, its helped me much more than psychologists ever have, might be worth to check it out.
Wow! What a nightmare! You dealt with it beautifully! I wanted to reach in through the screen and give you a hug. You are a wonderful person! I hope you slept well and feel more settled. No wonder the initial brutality triggered you back to remembering your childhood trauma with your father, that was a very strong trigger (being attacked suddenly out of nowhere!) . I also think, like the policeman said, that you will be ok. You have dealt with this brilliantly. Thank you for sharing your bravery and vulnerability with us ❤️ keep safe and be well
I disagree. I don't think we attract them as much as they are constantly looking for someone to abuse, and eventually one of us will cross their path. Those who know the secrets to filter them out will repel them while those who don't know the secrets give off the clues abusers base their decisions on to "choose" their targets. The first clue in their favor is that you're isolated and trapped in their presence without resources to escape them.
That is definitely a terrifying experience, Daniel. It is most certainly a traumatizing experience. Glad you're ok and that you weren't harmed thank goodness. What an incredible story and how you so expertly and intuitively diffused the situation, so much so that one of them even gave you back your license and your wallet!! It's amazing how you handled the situation. And it's totally natural that you would feel emotional after this happened - it's absolutely a traumatizing and frightening experience. But I also think you're feeling emotions come up too because of how they softened a bit and showed their human side to you because of the way you handled everything. From being robbed to actually bringing out their humanity and having a human connection. You definitely have a gift, Daniel. It really is a fascinating story! P.S. I also think they use the angry hate-filled face and rageful voice because they know it's effective in scaring people into giving up their wallet.
@@dmackler58 Very happy to hear that! I also just want to add that probably more emotions will come up here and there as you process what happened and that's totally natural too. Just be patient and compassionate towards yourself when emotions come up in the future, it's just part of the process. I know you know all of that but it never hurts to be reminded, especially after a trauma.
Thank you for sharing this, for being vulnerable. I am so so happy to know that you exist in the world, you’ve helped me so much. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m so happy that you are safe and well.
I was a manager of a DVD rental place held up at knife point years ago. It was crap but I always keep my eyes more open now. I'm sorry you experienced this again but THANK YOU for sharing as bravely as this. Braver than standing up for yourself is standing up for others and supporting them like this with hard experience sharing. Big hug from me mate and sleep well. 👍 Spring is coming with the sun ☀️
So sorry this happened to you, Daniel. I've watched your videos pretty regularly this past year and this one was definitely the most powerful. You're so candid and vulnerable in your videos that it's almost like we get to know you, and so to see this feels like seeing that a friend has just gone through something awful. Wishing you the best. - Jimmy
Daniel, your ability to be so empathetic is admirable. It's what this world needs more of. The understanding that these guys were hurt themselves somewhere in their lives, is what will allow you to heal. I am so sorry, hope you can feel safe again soon. Thank you for making this important video, it will help many.
That could’ve gone badly. I think you handled it as compassionately and as true to yourself as you could in this mugging. That’s what we love about you - along with your courage and advocacy for the wounded, misguided young perpetrators. I am sorry that happened to you, but I am so glad you are alive and safe. It also breaks my heart to hear that you cannot feel safe in your own city at night. I was sad to hear you blaming yourself - clearly it wasn’t your fault. I do hear the disappointment in humans and feeling devalued all around. May your experience and reflections help change our collective karma.
I am sorry that this happened to you Daniel, it sounds horrible and terrifying..You didn't deserve this :( I am so glad you are OK physically!! I am sending lot of hugs :) I hope you will feel more safe soon and you will be able to sleep better
Brother, I have been watching your shit for some time now (I have posted some of your deep thoughts on fb because I relate). I have had scenarios like this in my life, you have zero to be embarrassed about... YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! We are citizens, not soldiers. We are awakened, but danger will lurk always around us. I am happy you are safe from the situation.
It really takes a strong person to be this vulnuable. I really admire your spirit Daniel, it seems like you have been through a whole lot of shit, but you really turned those experinces into something constructive, you are awesome! We need more people like you 💪💪
In my city we have a lot of cellphone/laptop robberies. I'm always wary of using technology in public unless I have to...I think it's very attractive to muggers.
@@dmackler58 Definitely. Don't be too hard on yourself. I've luckily never been mugged myself but I have done things in risky situations that made them riskier. An emotional cost and a (relatively) minor financial cost is pretty much the best case scenario in this sort of situation. I'm glad you are physically alright and that they didn't go further than grabbing you. Being hit in the head could have caused brain damage (look at boxers, football players, and professional wrestlers), or they could have gone even further. Glad you shared your story with us. Shows courage and strength. I think you handled yourself well the way you talked with them. Better than I would have.
It's almost impossible for someone who has not lived through a violent attack to truly understand the emotional distress involved. You have done an amazing job here to help others really feel what it is like.
Yes -- strangely I feel so much more open and empathic to people who have been victims of a violent attack. I have been a victim of violence at other times in my life (even as an adult) but this was in some ways the scariest, and also such a reminder of my own vulnerability and mortality. Thank you for your message ohsweetmystery. Daniel
So sorry Daniel, I’m so grateful you are OK! I’m grateful for all your experiences that helped you minimize what could’ve happened. Your StreetSmarts... I’m grateful they did not hurt you please take care yourself... Thank you for the video
Also, i hope you stop blaming yourself soon, because I've always felt that "be aware of your surroundings" is such a load of bs! It's just an excuse to victim-blame, for the most part. It's like telling a woman, don't wear a tight dress. Most of the time, if you become aware there's a bunch of guys following you, there's not much you can do. If those guys already made up their minds that they want your phone, you are powerless to change that, no matter how super duper aware of the fact you are. Maybe you can be less surprised by the attack, but you can't prevent the attack just by being aware. Unless you start running every time you suspect an attack coming, but then you'll be doing a whole lot of running, preventatively, just because you can't be 100% sure :)
Love the sentiment...if it were me, I'd probably want to wait a couple of days, and go out then. But everyone is different I guess! So you aren't wrong either. Hope that makes sense? 💜💗
Daniel, so sorry you experienced this scary incident but thank you for sharing it so fully with us. Your many years of self exploration and insight into yourself and people have really enabled you to bring so much understanding and dimension to what happened, even so immediately afterward. I hope you have a good night's sleep and continue to feel better as the days unfold.
Man I'm glad you're okay! That sounds horrifying.. And I'm really sorry you had that experience with the cops and 911 on top of everything >_> hope you can heal from this, glad that you shared this
@@dmackler58 Haha! I only listened to half of the video as I am out running errands lol. I will still contribute! People care about you and your work. You have my sincere condolences!☀️
I can understand completely why you're feeling vulnerable. I'm amazed you can talk about this so soon. You kept your humanity, amazingly enough, in the midst of crisis and to people who harmed you, even if temporarily - and you kept your clear thinking! Great job! Btw, I'm thinking you may know that the shaking comes from the adrenaline flowing through your body. It's too bad you didn't feel much compassion from the police, but I think you're right that certain people who are police need to act routinely and learn how to eliminate suspects first and then relax a little. It's actually not implausible that people wld pretend to be mugged esply since you got your DL back and walked with them a ways. I suppose it's possible that people can make a false report so one gets reimbursed for any missing money, plus whatever money is stolen that any thieves got away with, and then split the reimbursement 3 ways. However, that they stay so close to your house is so strange. I'm glad you told them how it wasn't nice. What if you had actually played your guitar for them back when they were kids??? That wld be wild! Maybe the one guy recognized you from the neighborhood and knows you are a kind person. Unfortunately, we can never let our guard down. They were lying in wait. Then can around you once your guard was down. They sound very practiced.
I am horrified at the thought of someone harming another human being. At this time, I give you support, but I cannot delve into this video right now bc I'm in tears. What is done against one, is an act against all of humanity. Forgive me for my sensitivity; I can not cope with this news. I am deeply saddened.
Your childhood reaction helped you actually. I think they would beat you up if you would act tough or be more aggressive. I think right now its new but after few weeks you will be fine.
I’m crying watching this. The part about the license is sad. There’s so many desperate people now due to the collapse of the world’s civilization. But somehow you made humanity manifest because you are truly human and a warrior of light. Peace and love to you, you are beautiful.
I am so sorry that this traumatic and violent experience happened to you. I trust that you know the best way to self-care and thank you so much for sharing your perceptions and feelings.
Daniel, you mean to me a lot even we do not know each other. You are here for us trying to help and teach and share. There are days when just your voice calms me down and I like to watch your videos over and over... All I can say, I'm far, but with you. This is the only thing I can provide you in this difficult time. I fully believe you are surrounded by good souls and hopefully you are getting good wibes from comments. Take care. Peter
Being mugged is kind of a routine here in Brazil. No one deserves this. You will pass through this horrible experience Daniel. You are lucky to live in a safe country. Morshoa :)
Thank you. I had a couple of experiences of people trying to rob me in Brazil, but I ran away in one case, and talked my way out of it in another. I was lucky then. Just not last night!!! Brasil---saudade!!!
I'm glad you are OK and well done for talking about it I'm sure it will help you have given so much of your self to us I hope you receive some comfort from our comments, sending you love and virtual warm hugs 🙏🏼💋❤️
Damn, this is an unfortunate story! I think the police might have been acting like that because they see it every day. It's a routine occurrence - sorta like how a dentist views cleaning teeth. And they know that there isn't much they can do about it, so everyone is just there to hangout and chat, all thanks to you lol. I don't know how I'd react to being mugged, but after listening to your story it made me think about the fact that most of us in the modern world aren't exposed to the most raw force of nature: physical violence. For example, I've never been punched in the face. I don't know how I'd react. I live in a world where words are used to settle disputes - but of course this is a very artificial and human constructed world that exists only because we outsource our physical protection (police officers). Your experience reveals that underneath the thin veneer of "peaceful" human behavior lies the world of getting what you want by use of physical force, and it's a scary world where words matter little...the same set of rules that animals abide by.
Yes. Thank you Zane. I haven't been punched in the face in a long time. More than 20 years. It wasn't fun. I cried a lot afterward. Life can be very primal sometimes. Daniel
Daniel, thank you so much for your strength in sharing this story and your genuine feelings about what happened to you. You are a living example of a healer who has been deeply wounded and has found compassion and insight in the inhuman thing that happened to you. Recently, I had a friend whom I cared for very much turned on me in a hurtful and vicious way. It was horrible. I was heartbroken and, for some reason, I can hear that same heartbreak in your experience too. I’m also a therapist. Please take good care of yourself for the next while and, if you can, be around those whom you love and trust until the pain subsides.
Public servants not interested in helping a victim !!! That turns my stomach !!! I recommend ID Shield protection ( it’s ten dollars a month ) for identification protection
Thank you so much Daniel. I got mugged this afternoon and still feel panic. While I feel my self blaming starts to kick in - why was I so careless, why didn't I ignored the red flags - your video saved me from self-sabotage. It'd not my fault. And I am OK not be able to work after the incident.
Oh!!!!! I am wishing you the best, and it was definitely not your fault! I hope you can take care of yourself. And muggers are horrible human beings. Daniel
Shocked and very sorry for what happened but you faced and digested the experience in a great way. Sometimes shit just happens and this kind of craziness is part of our sick traumatized society. Very happy you weren't phisically hurt. Some deep breath of disbelief and time for grieving. Greatest and warmest affection form Spain. Thanks so much for all you share, Daniel.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that, Daniel. You handled a difficult situation well. Take extra good care of yourself this week. Wishing you healing and strength!
Hi Daniel, thanks for being so brave and vulnerable by sharing this with us. It made me reflect on the time I was mugged when I was 18, having just left home to go to University. At that point in my life, I was so dissociated from my childhood that I didn't even feel any fear when two men cornered me and threatened to stab me if I didn't give them my wallet and phone. After they left, I stood in the road for what felt like ages in absolute confusion, not just that I had been mugged, but that I didn't even feel a thing. It creeped me out that I could be so calm in such a situation, and I think this was one of many warning signs over the next year that showed me just how split off I was from my real emotions. I'm still very much a work in progress, but I've grown so much since then emotionally (although I still feel as if my healing journey has only just started), and I just want to say that your videos, books have helped me so much, so thank you once again for everything that you do! Keep being you, the world could do with more people like you. Hope your week goes well, and please know that the videos you post really matter! Thanks.
Thank you Benoit. I so appreciate that you've shared that story here. It really makes me thinking. This mugging was a real chance for me to learn many things. An awful experience, but I believe good can come from it somehow! Daniel
It takes a real man to be able to show yourself so vulnerable in the public. I know you've been mugged - but you made one of the most beautiful videos on the internet as a consequence of that. What would be the world like if more people on this planet would open up and show their real self. You're a gift to humanity brother.
Thanks Tom. Wow. I appreciate this. Daniel
Tom, you read my mind!
There's some synchronicity going on, it would be wild if those muggers were Daniel's former students or siblings of his students. But now there is an amazing (to me at least) new path of content for Daniel (hopefully) to produce for us. :)
@@PsycheOS I've been doing a little research behind the scenes, and I'm pretty sure that I know people who know the guys who mugged me. And there's a good chance I played music for them when they were little children. And I think I will be finding out more of these details soon. Yes, big ironies here... But that's life -- a wild and crazy venture sometimes!!
Love this comment! Love to see male vulnerability e.g. strength.
I think making a video like this is a perfectly reasonable way to deal with your trauma.
Thanks. I think it is part of my healing. I actually feel much more empowered having made this video public.
@@dmackler58
It takes courage.
@@bernadettebockis4120 agreed
This reminds me of one time when I came across a young man in a river valley and as soon as I saw him, I knew he was going to do violence to me and kill me. The realization just came over me. I was walking downhill, couldn’t run back uphill to the middle of nowhere. It was an upscale part of town that is usually safe but rather devoid of other people, quiet. He was off the path coming out of the woods towards me and then stopped at the edge of the path so I’d have to pass him. I didn’t even have my cell phone as I’d left it in my car. I asked the Great Spirit to work through me. I walked past him but looked him straight in his murderous, bloodchilling eyes. I said “Hello young man! God bless you!” In a very pleasant, but loud and startling voice. I kept walking briskly, but confidently. He stayed there frozen. It was terrifying the second I was out of his sight I ran like I had never run before.
Daniel, oh it broke my heart to see this video title. I am so sorry. You absolutely did the right thing. I am sending prayers of gratitude for you and your many gifts to the world. Please take good care of you over the next little while. We are all very glad you are (physically) unharmed and will pray for your healing ✨
Thank you for sharing this Adelle. So scary. I admire you!!!!!!!
Since you spoke up to your suspected would-be assailant, you removed the target of 'prey' upon yourself. Just acting like prey WILL attract preditors..
Thank you so much for sharing. I believe in the spiritual world and I have experienced things to make me believe that people are filled with demons. I have been approached in dangerous situations where someone was about to attack me and I just would yell out “in the name of Jesus leave!” and they would get terrified and run away. This is where I know Jesus is real and demons are real and demons fear the name of Jesus.
@@sonseraedesigns i have been in similar situations also when something bad happens in my life i would say things like father let there be your will take this cup from me.
Thank God that you survived that murder attempt that only happened IN YOUR MIND.
I'm sorry this happened to you. You are a beautiful soul.
thank you!
Agreed 🙏
I cried listening to you. I was robbed two year ago, the guy took my phone so fast from my hand as I was boarding the taxi. This in itself was not very bad, but the policeman who had the audacity to ask me (so why a girl would be out at 12 midnight?) It was traumatizing more... but listening to you helped me Danie!
Thank you for sharing this. I am very appreciative for your willingness to be open about this. It helps me. Warm hello and BEST WISHES on your healing. Daniel
@@dmackler58 sorry this happened to you, to you also Ms. Rocky. Some cops are so rotten.
I'm sorry that happened and the polices reaction people really don't care about women
Ugh, victim blaming at its finest. People can’t deal with the problem so they decide you’re the problem 😭
i’m finding this so late but i’m struggling from being attacked by a stranger and i also got blamed by the detective on my case. i was taking a walk at 1 AM when it happened (insomnia) and he asked if i was hiding details and if this was actually a drug deal gone wrong. He ended it with telling me to stop being out late. my attacker still hasn’t been caught. thank you for sharing, i’m so sorry this happened.
Negotiations with Robbers !!! Like something in a movie !!!
You were violated !!! No wonder you are grieving !!!
THANK YOU Deborah!!!!
I'm extremely sorry that happened to you Daniel.
Edit: what a cruel twist of fate... You've spent many years helping others with their trauma and this is what you get.
Well, life is complex!!! The goal for me is to make good out of this. And already I feel it happening. And I think I will sleep well tonight. I am totally exhausted!!! Warm greetings, and thank you--Daniel
@@dmackler58 warm greetings right back, and we all know you most certainly will make good out of the situation. I can relate on some degree, and find a lot of similarities between us. It took my many years of being burned yet still forgiving them just to be burned again to realize not everyone has the same heart or intentions as I. Thank you again for sharing this with us, I wish you peace and clarity.
Wow. 14 hours is so soon after the event. It is actually a valuable gift for us to listen to you process the experience on camera. There is learning and teaching here for all of us.
Thank you George. I felt ambivalent about sharing it, but now I'm glad I did! Warm greetings. Daniel
Have a progressive recovering of this traumatic experience,it takes two or three months usually,and it is very good for you to talk and cry ,as you know...we are here and it is our privilege to hear to you and send our support and simphaty,you were very brave and made a great analysis on this hard experience ,you are so strong!lot of blessings to you
thank you Sonja!
I experienced this. I was jumped by two guys in Williamsburg at knifepoint and a stun gun back in 2003. I wasn’t sure if I had been sexually assaulted...my clothes were torn off. I was able to escape when pinned on the hood of a car simply because a man rode by on a bicycle, startled my aggressors and then yelled at me to run. I did. Who knows if I’d have made it out unscathed had that person not intervened? I was very calm during the attack. I tried to reason with them. I was 27 at the time. My reaction shocked me. Afterwards, I was angry. I felt violated and alienated. I was so frustrated because it was two African American men and I had racial bias reinforcement after the incident that I had to work through. It made me feel deep shame. We try to make sense of the senseless. I thought it was because I was gay. I thought it was because I was dressed up in a suit. It thought it was because I was white. Maybe it was just bad timing...wrong place, wrong time.
I called the police, but was told I needed to go to the precinct. It was after midnight, and I didn’t want to pursue the trauma any further. It took about three months to stop feeling paranoid when I walked home at night, but I continued on my journey of life, determined never to allow someone else’s unresolved trauma to traumatize me. Of course, that was nonsense as I hadn’t even started processing my own childhood trauma! It’s a tricky balancing act, but you will only be stronger for it. I empathize and am available to chat should you ever feel the need or desire to exchange on your healing journey.
Wild. I am so sorry to hear this. Thank you for sharing this -- and for your kindness. I appreciate it so much. Daniel
I am sorry this happened to you! As Daniel said,” It wasn't your fault”!
@@ola6482 Yes!!
Really sorry to hear this! You are such a genuinely nice person
thank you Alan!
I'm really sorry that happened to you, Daniel. I was mugged in an elevator in NYC (I'm a woman) and I was in a robbery in my workplace years later. I just remember screaming in shock in the elevator incident. I was punched in the face out of the blue. When I got to the office where I was doing temp work, I told some of my coworkers, but no one really made a big deal out of it. One woman said "Oh, I thought I heard someone screaming." I didn't file a police report, but I quit the job. The lesson I learned from it was not to worry about hurting anyone's feelings if I felt uncomfortable not riding in an elevator with someone, and wait for the next one instead. Hey, that's life in the big city.
I have the right not to put myself in a compromising situation. that outweighs the possibility of hurting someone's feelings.
I panicked in an elevator once after that and ran out as soon as the door opened on another floor. If I heard footsteps on a street behind me, I would have to turn to see who it was.
I had repetitive thoughts, replaying the incidents over and over again in my mind.
You learned situational awareness from this horrible experience. Please stay out of that park at night. I doubt if they are sorry, I'd say that for them it's "Just business". No offense, but for your own safety, please don't wear the hat at night and stay off the phone
All the Best, a friend in upstate New York
Thank you friend! Wow -- intense experience. I appreciate what you've said, very much. Daniel
Yeah, I was mugged from behind. In that moment I felt bad about looking back, I felt I would look paranoid. But you should listen to your gut feeling, instinct. Even if it would make other people "uncomfortable" (if only on your own mind).
@@jenss.3613 Yes, your safety comes first. I felt like you did, not even thinking about the possibility of danger when I got on that elevator. I'd just come back to New York after spending 3 months in a Tibetan Buddist monastery in Scotland, so I wasn't thinking bad things (inner warnings) about people. But we are in this world, as it is, not as we want it to be.
@@jenss.3613 Awful to be mugged from behind. I wish I'd been looking back more, but like you I didn't want to look paranoid and didn't want to make them feel bad. Well, I'll be more self-loving the next time, I hope, and I will look back!! Daniel
Two against one. Those guys are cowards.
I know right.
My girlfriend and I were robbed by a guy with a gun at a drive through ATM, we were there so she can make a deposit. I saw him a split second in the rear mirror before he showed up on my girlfriend's driver window. He had a mask on, a gun, which he racked in window to show he was serious. I was actually calm and thinking of how I can disarm him, but decided his two handed grip is no go. He took my girlfriend's purse, which have no money, and the car keys, but did not ask for my wallet which had money.
I think he did not ask for my wallet was because I was calm the whole time, and looking in his eyes. The real disappointment was when we walked the parking lot to an Alberson's, told the people there we were robbed, absolutely no sympathy from anyone. Geez. When the cops showed, they asked what race was he, don't know. What kind of shoes was he wearing? What? I don't look at shoes.
Closure came when a few weeks later. A lady called and I picked up the phone. She asked if my girlfriend is missing her purse. I said yes. She said she found it in her son's room. She cried and hanged up the phone. I didn't think fast enough to ask the lady to send my girlfriend's college ID to us, that's all she wanted since we graduated a couple of years already and it's a keepsake. This was 1998, we didn't have caller ID and I didn't know about *69 then.
Next time I get robbed, I am looking at shoes.
Charles -- thank you for sharing this. I found it very helpful. I also could remember ALMOST NOTHING about what the robbers were wearing. Jackets, I think! I couldn't remember colors or anything. Mostly I remember the look in their eyes. That's where I was looking the whole time. I send you a warm hello. Daniel
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Poor baby, you are such a gentle soul, Daniel. When you broke down, I did too. I'm so glad you are a therapist and understand all this stuff. You are in my prayers.
awwww! thanks Alex! well, I was a therapist, and at one level I understand it, but to be honest to be in the VERY middle of it makes it a lot harder to understand, at least to understand with perspective.
The way you told this story was beautiful and authentic, I was hooked from the beginning and I'm sorry this happened to you
Thank you Jimmy.
Dang man. Feel better !
Thanks Serg!
@@dmackler58 I’m from east harlem and I hear you. Things have gotten pretty ruthless in the city as of late. I used to walk around with a “tough guy” scowl just to avoid getting messed with and thankfully it worked. However it came at the cost of others being afraid of me because of the vibe I put out... so just do you Dan! No matter what. The city needs people like you especially in these times. Be safe and much love brother!
@@luxeterna000 ah!! wild times in NYC. greetings from downtown, Serg!
I had an abuse situation not so long ago which led to panic and a hospitalization. I would like to deal with extreme situations more like you did Daniel.
Scott, I am wishing you the best. I have many experiences in my past where I did not deal with things so well. Painful to remember... Daniel
@@dmackler58
We all have those times we wish we could live over and do differently.
@@waynemizer4912 so true!
So sorry this happened to you Daniel and thank you for reaching out. I can relate to your situation in that I had been chased in my car one time by someone with a huge amount of road rage when I unintentionally made a turn in front of him when he was coming up a blind hill while going over the speed limit. He literally swung his car around and chased me to a restaurant parking lot where I got out of my truck as he pulled up to me and then got out of his car- eyes bulging and cussing away. After his rant, I thought he was finished, but as I turned to get back in my truck he slugged me in the jaw, knocking my glasses off and then left. It took months to get over that experience. Again, so sorry you are shaken by this situation, Daniel. I sincerely wish you healing.
I am sorry that assaults such as this, are taken so lightly by our society.
(Especially our Authorities.)
Yes, We All make mistakes and fall short.
However, our Responses to Error are way out of control!
Far too Quick and Aggressive.
We must Nurture rather than Cast Out. Patience...
People are Hurting everywhere.
We used to show concern and compassion for others.
We worked hard to make an honest living and pitched in when neighbors were hurting.
We respected one another's property and persons.
We spoke of Morals and Virtue...
and God.
We were Proud of our Country and It's People...
HAS EVERYONE FORGOTTEN?
Virtual HUG to All reading this. Never give up Hope.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍❤🧡💛💚💙Love & Light
Wow!! VERY INTENSE. awful experience. I am sending you healing vibes!!! And thank you very much!
Daniel, that really sucks that that happened to you. My heart goes out to you.
Thanks Stephanie!!
You took something so bad and turn it to good, helpful and kind. Thank you for this video
I also want to do a follow-up video or two on this -- assuming I feel a lot better in a few days or weeks. That's my goal. Thank you Ms. Rocky. -Daniel
Daniel, I wish I could hug you. You're so strong and have had so many interesting experiences. Your stories help me grow and hearing you talk about how you reacted in this situation impresses me. I feel like I would get myself jumped in a situation like this as I have a mouth on me. I'm proud of you.
Also, it sounds like these guys have insecurities about their height and strength. You're clearly the stronger person.
Awww. Thank you Donny!!!!
You have helped me tremendously by sharing your experience. I am so sorry this happened to you. I'm so glad you are safe now. Bless you.
thank you!!
I am so sorry to hear you went through this Daniel. Sending you good thoughts and strength during this time.
thank you!!!!!!
@@dmackler58 no need to thank me you have been so brave opening up about this and I'm really struck by how vulnerable and compassionate you are as a human. I hope you take some time for yourself and remember that none of this is your fault. 🌹
@@pinkythepolarbear5272 thanks Pinky!
I felt love and admiration for you.
You are committed to kindness.
I was mugged 20 years ago. i haven't recovered.
Through the lens of my childhood traumata. Your honestly and vulnerability inspires tenderness in me.
Thank you Jacques. I am wishing you the best. I appreciate very much what you shared. Daniel
Even though it's been a number of years since you were a victim of this awful crime, l feel if l could ld like to give you a big hug. Your openness, vulnerability and fragility is a breath of fresh air. Thank you, l hope time, reflection and telling people about your experience has been an aid in healing from the trauma.
Seemingly, the interaction with the jogger and the police was much worse than the interaction with the robbers. Goes to show the absolute desolation our society rots in and how people have forgotten what it means to put oneself in the other's shoes. I hope you heal from this traumatic event and I pray I don't ever have to experience the worst of what this inhumane world has to offer.
Thank you Omar. Warm greetings to you!
9:24 💔🥺😭
You’re too good for this world, Daniel.
I’m so terribly sorry that this happened to you!!! Please take good care of yourself.
Thanks Emmie. I appreciate it.
I feel so sorry that this happened to you Daniel.My empathy goes to you buddy.
Sleep well,rest,be kind towards yourself.You need that right now.
thank you -- I agree!!!! hoping for a good long night of sleep tonight. all these kind comments is helping me feel much happier, to be honest.
@@dmackler58 i'm glad that i can help in any way dear Daniel😊
You're on a safe place right now.Just settle in and rest.
@@daliborjovanovic9488 I'm amazed at how many kind people are on this channel. I mean, I shouldn't be amazed because I've been reading the comments for years, but...it's just that I'm in a more hurt place today, and all these comments are just lovely. So thank you!
@@dmackler58 and today we are here for you.With your pain and fear,to help you carry it through😊
Much love and compassion once again.
Please do a folow up video in a couple of days to see were you are.
@@daliborjovanovic9488 yes!
You got Robbed but you are still here with us!! Thank you for being so strong!
Thank you No Name!
I am stunned that you had the guts to ask for your driver's license. I found this the most impressive part. Thanks for sharing this terrible incident and how you handled it. I appreciate your ability to touch so many different angles and draw conclusions despite your obvious stress response and sleep deprivation. Kudos to you, wishing you all the best, Daniel!
Thanks Sandra. I appreciate this!
Love to you, Daniel. You are brave for making a video right after the trauma while you are still reeling from it. I respect your honesty and courage.
thank you Kate! I wasn't 100% sure how I felt about doing it, but as it turns out (so far) I'm glad I did it. Daniel
The Reality is: Two against One, you were smart to surrender the cash and phone and cards.
Exactly Deborah - My martial arts teachers always told students to give muggers what they want but the ley point is to throw the stuff away from you then run in the other direction. Don't be proud to hang on to your stuff. THis will buy you some extra time - Don't get into a fight if you can avoid.
Yes!!
Thankyou Daniel for being a human being.
You're welcome - and back at you! Daniel
I’m so sorry this happened to you Daniel, it makes me so sad that good people like you are victimized 🥺❤️
ahh! thanks Mimi!!
I'm so sorry for you. This made me cry. Such honest real vulnerability and the way you handled them.
Thank you for reaching out and sharing your traumatic and dramatic experience in real time with us Daniel. I truly think it will help in your healing process. My belief is you need to vent, and I certainly want to listen and support you after all you do for me and the many others your've met on your journey in life.
So glad you did not get hurt! You take care and stay safe. I love your hat btw.
Be well, sleep well - big virtual hug 🤗
Thank you Pamela!!
So sorry to hear that:( I could only imagine how terrifying it was for you. I’m sending you a big hug 🤗
Thank you Sanela!
So sorry to hear this happened to you. Happened to me about a year ago, still a ton of work to do for me to get better. Wishing you the best my friend
Thank you for sharing this. It's amazing to me just to hear that other people have gone through similar things. It makes me feel so much less alone. Warm hello. Daniel
I'm so sorry this happened. Hope you recover quickly.
thank you Georgia!
@@dmackler58 You are welcome.
How awful! You have all my empathy. I'm so glad you weren't hurt physically. You are better than those people 10 times over, you are the bigger man. When you said "I almost went into therapist mode, I almost just sort of talked to them calmly," and "it felt like I was dealing with two human beings" it really told me a lot about your character. You are a good, powerful, and radiant person, and those who did this to you deserve more than a calm talk. Thank you for sharing this, it may help others who've been in the same situation not feel alone.
thank you Rumin. I appreciate your words.
i am so sorry this happened to you Daniel! i can't even imagine how frightening and traumatizing that must have been--you are SO brave to have remained so calm and articulate in that moment; i am just so glad you are safe (and upset that the police weren't a bit more empathetic and understanding to your situation)!!
also, that after such a terrifying, violent experience you are still able to see the humanity in those men and express empathy for them--you are so much better than most of us!
and those folks on those forums are RIGHT! it is never okay to victim blame someone--*they* chose to rob you! you have every right to calmly walk through your neighborhood without the expectation of violence and theft from others--it's all on them! we can only be so cautious, and ultimately can't control if others choose to hurt us or not. ):
i hope you're getting/have gotten some rest and sleep now, and that through verbalizing & expressing your thoughts and emotions to us it can jumpstart your healing from this! i wish you well~
Thank you Kyla!
Thank you for being vulnerable and raw in this video. It is appreciated, even if you feel like it's not polished and "perfect." After an experience like this, it definitely does not need to be perfect.
Ah -- I hope so!! Greetings Thor!
😮 Hope you are ok dude...I 've been mugged in the past. Yes. It IS traumatic. Go easy on yourself.
..and I'm NO pushover..believe me!
Be on guard for PTSD....you know how it works mate . :/
thank you so much Realtownboy!!! I appreciate this. Daniel
@@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 thanks!
I'm s sorry this happened to you, Daniel. Glad you are alive.
Thank you Snow Leopard!
I'm sorry you went through this, it's definitely not your fault that this happened. Your lovely hat is special and you should be able to wear what you want without being targeted. No one but those guys knows why they chose to mug you or anyone.
You have every right to cry or feel shaken up over something like this, I think anyone would feel traumatized about it.
I was shot at several times while out for a walk by a complete strange, never found out why he did it. I'm just grateful I wasn't hurt but it was very traumatic for me, I had nightmares about it for several weeks and have never returned to the area even a year later. I can't imagine how much more violated I would have felt if I had been robbed.
I'm glad you weren't hurt. It's also good that you have some insight on troubled people who hurt others from your background as a therapist. Please try to be gentle with yourself because it really is a lot to go through and you know trauma (if it happens) can show up in a lot of different ways. Wishing you the best on your healing.
Wow -- intense! Thank you swansong. wishing you only the best. Daniel
There a martial art called "Systema" that is not only about combat but also has a big psychological aspect like dealing with fear, being able to be relaxed in tense situations (whether a fight or work), how to relax other people, move softly through situations (both physically and spiritually) as not to scare or anger people or harm yourself. Very interesting sutff, its helped me much more than psychologists ever have, might be worth to check it out.
Thank you C! I will check it out.
Yes, systema is a badass.
Systema is a a scam
Wow! What a nightmare! You dealt with it beautifully! I wanted to reach in through the screen and give you a hug. You are a wonderful person! I hope you slept well and feel more settled. No wonder the initial brutality triggered you back to remembering your childhood trauma with your father, that was a very strong trigger (being attacked suddenly out of nowhere!) . I also think, like the policeman said, that you will be ok. You have dealt with this brilliantly. Thank you for sharing your bravery and vulnerability with us ❤️ keep safe and be well
Awwwww! Thanks Elizabeth. -Daniel
It seems people who want to help others attract people who want to use/abuse them. I think it's a vibe that really sticks out for users/abusers.
but why, is it like that i wonder
interesting point. thank you for sharing Tilini.
I disagree. I don't think we attract them as much as they are constantly looking for someone to abuse, and eventually one of us will cross their path. Those who know the secrets to filter them out will repel them while those who don't know the secrets give off the clues abusers base their decisions on to "choose" their targets. The first clue in their favor is that you're isolated and trapped in their presence without resources to escape them.
That is definitely a terrifying experience, Daniel. It is most certainly a traumatizing experience. Glad you're ok and that you weren't harmed thank goodness. What an incredible story and how you so expertly and intuitively diffused the situation, so much so that one of them even gave you back your license and your wallet!! It's amazing how you handled the situation. And it's totally natural that you would feel emotional after this happened - it's absolutely a traumatizing and frightening experience. But I also think you're feeling emotions come up too because of how they softened a bit and showed their human side to you because of the way you handled everything. From being robbed to actually bringing out their humanity and having a human connection. You definitely have a gift, Daniel. It really is a fascinating story!
P.S. I also think they use the angry hate-filled face and rageful voice because they know it's effective in scaring people into giving up their wallet.
Thank you Juliana. I appreciate the mirroring you provide. It helps me. Daniel
@@dmackler58 Very happy to hear that! I also just want to add that probably more emotions will come up here and there as you process what happened and that's totally natural too. Just be patient and compassionate towards yourself when emotions come up in the future, it's just part of the process. I know you know all of that but it never hurts to be reminded, especially after a trauma.
You inspire me to continue healing traumas and to strive to be a gentle human being who feels.
thanks Scott. I appreciate your words. Daniel
Thank you for sharing this, for being vulnerable. I am so so happy to know that you exist in the world, you’ve helped me so much. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m so happy that you are safe and well.
Thank you Rose! I appreciate this.
I was a manager of a DVD rental place held up at knife point years ago. It was crap but I always keep my eyes more open now. I'm sorry you experienced this again but THANK YOU for sharing as bravely as this. Braver than standing up for yourself is standing up for others and supporting them like this with hard experience sharing. Big hug from me mate and sleep well. 👍 Spring is coming with the sun ☀️
Thank you Trevor. I so appreciate hearing others' experiences. Wishing you the best. Daniel
So sorry this happened to you, Daniel. I've watched your videos pretty regularly this past year and this one was definitely the most powerful. You're so candid and vulnerable in your videos that it's almost like we get to know you, and so to see this feels like seeing that a friend has just gone through something awful. Wishing you the best. - Jimmy
Thanks Jimmy. It's strange, because I felt weird about this video -- like it was too raw. Maybe in some cases that's a good thing! Daniel
Daniel, your ability to be so empathetic is admirable. It's what this world needs more of. The understanding that these guys were hurt themselves somewhere in their lives, is what will allow you to heal. I am so sorry, hope you can feel safe again soon. Thank you for making this important video, it will help many.
That could’ve gone badly. I think you handled it as compassionately and as true to yourself as you could in this mugging. That’s what we love about you - along with your courage and advocacy for the wounded, misguided young perpetrators. I am sorry that happened to you, but I am so glad you are alive and safe. It also breaks my heart to hear that you cannot feel safe in your own city at night. I was sad to hear you blaming yourself - clearly it wasn’t your fault. I do hear the disappointment in humans and feeling devalued all around. May your experience and reflections help change our collective karma.
thank you T Pham. I appreciate your words!!
I'm so sorry Daniel... I'm glad you're ok
Thanks nad ya!!
Ugh. So sorry this happened.
thank you!
I am sorry that this happened to you Daniel, it sounds horrible and terrifying..You didn't deserve this :( I am so glad you are OK physically!! I am sending lot of hugs :) I hope you will feel more safe soon and you will be able to sleep better
Thank you 9Gatta!! I am sleeping better already (though a nightmare last night).
Brother, I have been watching your shit for some time now (I have posted some of your deep thoughts on fb because I relate). I have had scenarios like this in my life, you have zero to be embarrassed about... YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! We are citizens, not soldiers. We are awakened, but danger will lurk always around us. I am happy you are safe from the situation.
Thank you very much, Sean! Warm greetings. Daniel
AWWWW!!!! I love you Daniel!!! You're not weak, you're resilient.
You are a wonderful person, sending you love and kindness ❤️
awwww, thank you.
I am sad to learn that such an awful thing has happened to you, Daniel. I appreciate the way you are processing it, thank you for sharing. Take care
thank you Helen. You're welcome!! Daniel
Hope you feel better soon
thank you Sedan!
It really takes a strong person to be this vulnuable. I really admire your spirit Daniel, it seems like you have been through a whole lot of shit, but you really turned those experinces into something constructive, you are awesome! We need more people like you 💪💪
In my city we have a lot of cellphone/laptop robberies. I'm always wary of using technology in public unless I have to...I think it's very attractive to muggers.
Agreed. Usually I'm a lot smarter than that. But I let my guard down last night... And it caught up to me. A chance for me to learn!!!
@@dmackler58 Definitely. Don't be too hard on yourself. I've luckily never been mugged myself but I have done things in risky situations that made them riskier. An emotional cost and a (relatively) minor financial cost is pretty much the best case scenario in this sort of situation. I'm glad you are physically alright and that they didn't go further than grabbing you. Being hit in the head could have caused brain damage (look at boxers, football players, and professional wrestlers), or they could have gone even further. Glad you shared your story with us. Shows courage and strength. I think you handled yourself well the way you talked with them. Better than I would have.
@@AdairZionist I so agree!!! thank you. and I think slowly I will be less hard on myself.
It's almost impossible for someone who has not lived through a violent attack to truly understand the emotional distress involved. You have done an amazing job here to help others really feel what it is like.
Yes -- strangely I feel so much more open and empathic to people who have been victims of a violent attack. I have been a victim of violence at other times in my life (even as an adult) but this was in some ways the scariest, and also such a reminder of my own vulnerability and mortality. Thank you for your message ohsweetmystery. Daniel
I love you Daniel---thank you for caring so much about other people
Aww! Thank you.
So sorry Daniel,
I’m so grateful you are OK!
I’m grateful for all your experiences that helped you minimize what could’ve happened.
Your StreetSmarts...
I’m grateful they did not hurt you please take care yourself...
Thank you for the video
Thank you Brad. Man, wild times!!!!!! I appreciate what you say. Greetings brother! Daniel
Also, i hope you stop blaming yourself soon, because I've always felt that "be aware of your surroundings" is such a load of bs! It's just an excuse to victim-blame, for the most part. It's like telling a woman, don't wear a tight dress. Most of the time, if you become aware there's a bunch of guys following you, there's not much you can do. If those guys already made up their minds that they want your phone, you are powerless to change that, no matter how super duper aware of the fact you are. Maybe you can be less surprised by the attack, but you can't prevent the attack just by being aware. Unless you start running every time you suspect an attack coming, but then you'll be doing a whole lot of running, preventatively, just because you can't be 100% sure :)
Yes -- smart comment. Thank you.
Thanks for sharing. I feel invincible too but this is a good wake up call how vulnerable we can be and when we let our guard down.
Awe Daniel, big hugs ...go outside barefoot ...soles to soil 🍃❤🌱👣🌱
Nice!! Thank you!
@@dmackler58 you're welcome ❤being grounded daily is a static/stress/anxiety detox ...Earth=hEart🌱👣🌱
Love the sentiment...if it were me, I'd probably want to wait a couple of days, and go out then. But everyone is different I guess! So you aren't wrong either. Hope that makes sense? 💜💗
@@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 Huh? Not sure I follow what you mean? A little cryptic for my tiny mind. :)
Daniel, so sorry you experienced this scary incident but thank you for sharing it so fully with us. Your many years of self exploration and insight into yourself and people have really enabled you to bring so much understanding and dimension to what happened, even so immediately afterward. I hope you have a good night's sleep and continue to feel better as the days unfold.
Thank you Betty!! And I slept 10 hours last night. MOST LOVELY!! Daniel
Embarrassment is controlled vulnerability
At least you didn’t get the shit kicked out of you
AGREED!!!!! So happy I am healthy and physically safe. I've been beaten up before. It's not fun.
Oh wow ! Ignore my other comment to you. Had no idea. Sorry.
Man I'm glad you're okay! That sounds horrifying.. And I'm really sorry you had that experience with the cops and 911 on top of everything >_> hope you can heal from this, glad that you shared this
Thanks Skee. I'm already healing. I can feeling. And comments like your help! Rather amazing, really. Daniel
Also PS: So sorry about your new license. I will go to your RUclips about page and send a donation to contribute to its replacement. Best wishes 🌱☀️✨
Thanks Adelle -- but I did manage to have them give me back the drivers license! Thankfully I didn't lose that!!
@@dmackler58 Haha! I only listened to half of the video as I am out running errands lol. I will still contribute! People care about you and your work. You have my sincere condolences!☀️
Thank you for sharing with us Daniel. Listening to you is like having the friend I always wished I'd have
Awww -- thanks!!!! Warm hello. Daniel
*hugs* I hope you get support and love, you deserve it. ❤
Thanks Nataly. awww!!! Yes, I am getting support -- things are getting better already.
I can understand completely why you're feeling vulnerable. I'm amazed you can talk about this so soon. You kept your humanity, amazingly enough, in the midst of crisis and to people who harmed you, even if temporarily - and you kept your clear thinking! Great job!
Btw, I'm thinking you may know that the shaking comes from the adrenaline flowing through your body.
It's too bad you didn't feel much compassion from the police, but I think you're right that certain people who are police need to act routinely and learn how to eliminate suspects first and then relax a little. It's actually not implausible that people wld pretend to be mugged esply since you got your DL back and walked with them a ways. I suppose it's possible that people can make a false report so one gets reimbursed for any missing money, plus whatever money is stolen that any thieves got away with, and then split the reimbursement 3 ways. However, that they stay so close to your house is so strange. I'm glad you told them how it wasn't nice.
What if you had actually played your guitar for them back when they were kids??? That wld be wild! Maybe the one guy recognized you from the neighborhood and knows you are a kind person. Unfortunately, we can never let our guard down. They were lying in wait. Then can around you once your guard was down. They sound very practiced.
I am horrified at the thought of someone harming another human being. At this time, I give you support, but I cannot delve into this video right now bc I'm in tears. What is done against one, is an act against all of humanity. Forgive me for my sensitivity; I can not cope with this news. I am deeply saddened.
Thank you Donna. the good news is that I am feeling a lot better already. Slept ten hours last night. Healing!!
Sorry to hear that you were mugged. You are as always being assertive and honest, yet emphathic. Not many people are able to do that. Best to you.
Thanks Michal!!
Your childhood reaction helped you actually. I think they would beat you up if you would act tough or be more aggressive. I think right now its new but after few weeks you will be fine.
Thank you very much. I agree -- and I hope you are right. Warm greetings to you Qais Latif.
Oh, Daniel, so sorry to hear this. Glad you got to process it here with us. Sending hugs.
thank you Ninax23!!!
I wish I could hug you across the internet 💜
awwww!
I’m crying watching this. The part about the license is sad. There’s so many desperate people now due to the collapse of the world’s civilization. But somehow you made humanity manifest because you are truly human and a warrior of light. Peace and love to you, you are beautiful.
Moments like that are always scary, I really hope you can find peace and sleep.
Thank you!!! I'm already feeling a bit better...it's now a little over 24 hours later...
@@dmackler58 I'm glad to hear it!
I am so sorry that this traumatic and violent experience happened to you. I trust that you know the best way to self-care and thank you so much for sharing your perceptions and feelings.
Thanks Ann!
Last time I got robbed, I lay in bed awake all night GROWLING like a beast...fantasising about stomping the guys throat flat.
I appreciate hearing this!!!!!!!
Daniel, you mean to me a lot even we do not know each other. You are here for us trying to help and teach and share. There are days when just your voice calms me down and I like to watch your videos over and over... All I can say, I'm far, but with you. This is the only thing I can provide you in this difficult time. I fully believe you are surrounded by good souls and hopefully you are getting good wibes from comments. Take care. Peter
awww! Thanks Peter!
Being mugged is kind of a routine here in Brazil. No one deserves this. You will pass through this horrible experience Daniel. You are lucky to live in a safe country.
Morshoa :)
Thank you. I had a couple of experiences of people trying to rob me in Brazil, but I ran away in one case, and talked my way out of it in another. I was lucky then. Just not last night!!! Brasil---saudade!!!
I'm glad you are OK and well done for talking about it I'm sure it will help you have given so much of your self to us I hope you receive some comfort from our comments, sending you love and virtual warm hugs 🙏🏼💋❤️
THANK YOU CHARLOTTE!
Damn, this is an unfortunate story! I think the police might have been acting like that because they see it every day. It's a routine occurrence - sorta like how a dentist views cleaning teeth. And they know that there isn't much they can do about it, so everyone is just there to hangout and chat, all thanks to you lol.
I don't know how I'd react to being mugged, but after listening to your story it made me think about the fact that most of us in the modern world aren't exposed to the most raw force of nature: physical violence. For example, I've never been punched in the face. I don't know how I'd react. I live in a world where words are used to settle disputes - but of course this is a very artificial and human constructed world that exists only because we outsource our physical protection (police officers). Your experience reveals that underneath the thin veneer of "peaceful" human behavior lies the world of getting what you want by use of physical force, and it's a scary world where words matter little...the same set of rules that animals abide by.
Yes. Thank you Zane. I haven't been punched in the face in a long time. More than 20 years. It wasn't fun. I cried a lot afterward. Life can be very primal sometimes. Daniel
Daniel, thank you so much for your strength in sharing this story and your genuine feelings about what happened to you. You are a living example of a healer who has been deeply wounded and has found compassion and insight in the inhuman thing that happened to you. Recently, I had a friend whom I cared for very much turned on me in a hurtful and vicious way. It was horrible. I was heartbroken and, for some reason, I can hear that same heartbreak in your experience too. I’m also a therapist. Please take good care of yourself for the next while and, if you can, be around those whom you love and trust until the pain subsides.
Thank you for sharing this, Robert. I appreciate it. Wishing you the best. Daniel
Public servants not interested in helping a victim !!! That turns my stomach !!!
I recommend ID Shield protection ( it’s ten dollars a month ) for identification protection
Thank you so much Daniel. I got mugged this afternoon and still feel panic. While I feel my self blaming starts to kick in - why was I so careless, why didn't I ignored the red flags - your video saved me from self-sabotage. It'd not my fault. And I am OK not be able to work after the incident.
Oh!!!!! I am wishing you the best, and it was definitely not your fault! I hope you can take care of yourself. And muggers are horrible human beings. Daniel
Sorry to hear about this Daniel.
I believe karma is real.
Shocked and very sorry for what happened but you faced and digested the experience in a great way. Sometimes shit just happens and this kind of craziness is part of our sick traumatized society. Very happy you weren't phisically hurt. Some deep breath of disbelief and time for grieving. Greatest and warmest affection form Spain. Thanks so much for all you share, Daniel.
Muchas gracias, Javier. Estoy recuperando ahora. Saludos desde Nueva York. Daniel
oh I'm sorry!
I'm so sorry you had to go through that, Daniel. You handled a difficult situation well. Take extra good care of yourself this week. Wishing you healing and strength!
thank you J.S.!
I don't understand why bad things happen to good people.
Life is so strange!! The goal for me is to become a better person as the result of the bad things...
Things happen to people
Things happen randomly.
Because we don't live in a fair world
Big question! Religious scholars of all denominations, have been arguing over this one for years!
But I hear ya...it sucks.
Hi Daniel, thanks for being so brave and vulnerable by sharing this with us. It made me reflect on the time I was mugged when I was 18, having just left home to go to University. At that point in my life, I was so dissociated from my childhood that I didn't even feel any fear when two men cornered me and threatened to stab me if I didn't give them my wallet and phone. After they left, I stood in the road for what felt like ages in absolute confusion, not just that I had been mugged, but that I didn't even feel a thing.
It creeped me out that I could be so calm in such a situation, and I think this was one of many warning signs over the next year that showed me just how split off I was from my real emotions. I'm still very much a work in progress, but I've grown so much since then emotionally (although I still feel as if my healing journey has only just started), and I just want to say that your videos, books have helped me so much, so thank you once again for everything that you do! Keep being you, the world could do with more people like you. Hope your week goes well, and please know that the videos you post really matter! Thanks.
Thank you Benoit. I so appreciate that you've shared that story here. It really makes me thinking. This mugging was a real chance for me to learn many things. An awful experience, but I believe good can come from it somehow! Daniel