this might be out of Aimen's comfort zone but i'd love a video on how daughters are treated differently to sons in Desi households - particularly when daughters sacrifice THE MOST for their parents.
Men and women can definitely NOT be just friends. There will come a time when one will end up catching feelings. It's how we're conditioned to be. Anyone who says otherwise is just lying to themselves and craves attention to want to have the other gender around for validation and its mostly women who preech this idea of "hes just a friend" but have them around to boost their own confidence. If you think you have a friend thats a guy, and it's all platonic. It's probably because he's lying to you and hasnt told you how he feels. Stay safe, yall.
agree 100% that men and women can't be friends (they can be colleagues with boundaries but not more than that in my opinion), it's bound to happen that one side will catch feelings, it's just how we are built psychologically
I've been following you guys for like 8 years. Its amazing how your content evolved with time, yet the joy of watching you guys never got old. Chai talk hits the same way chai does. You can take it while doing something else and it makes the matter at hand bearable. I'm doing my STATS homework right now and listening to you two talk is really helping. I love the fact that you guys talk about things that brown kids can't even imagine asking about to their parents, and its really amazing listening to perspectives from two different generations. Love you guys
I feel like you guys are the American-version of desi households. My parents migrated from Pakistan to the UK and we are their first gen born kids and it's so strange yet relatable to see the dynamics and mentality is exactly the same regardless of moving to the US or the UK!
Having friends of the opposite gender is haraam. You cannot go out watch movies have dinners go shopping all of these are essentially dates. Mama jee imagine wajeeh had a wife and she went on a day out shopping and movies with her male "friend" or even shared her feelings and worries in life. This is all intimate stuff. If a girl doesn't like hanging around girls then there is something deeply wrong with her especially if she then turns her attention to having lots of male friends. And vice versa for guys.
Salaam guys, so heres my pov, men and women cannot be friends as it is forbidden in ISLAM. So lying is haram but its ok for a man and woman to be friends? Come on Aunty you can not pick and mix what you want, Islam is a complete and perfect way of life as you know and we should follow it as best as we can. Other than that keep your chai talks coming Wajeeh something to look forward to on the wknd✌️
Mama jee never lived with inlaws and did whatever she want in her life even now she does and talk however she wants. Infront of everyone she publicly humiliates her husband yet papa jee never says anything. Idk then why mama jee wants to control her kids and imposing her thoughts on them
@31:30 Basically, shes safeguarding herself by putting it out there in the open in front of his wife. It's kind of like an indirect way of letting them know that, she cannot be messed with inappropriately. And it doesn't matter how nice or respectful a man can appear, sometimes we truly don't know their actual intentions. So its always important for a woman to just be mindful and guard these things.
I agree wajee, you shouldn't be so carefree when it comes to your wife. And I don't agree on friendship between male and female...also shouldn't prolong marriage...if you find the one pursue it with marriage
At this point of my life not a lot of things keep me hooked but this podcast is just so wholesome it’s a part of my Sunday reset sometimes I save it just to watch it on my work breaks when I don’t get a chance to watch it on the weekend thank you for sharing these moments with us much love from Ohio 🤍🤍🤍 MAMA JEE WON THE RAPID FIRE 😂😂
Guys and girls can be friends as long as there is no physical attraction on either end and theres a boundary. If you're in a relationship and your partner has a "best friend" of the opposite gender, that's something to think twice about imo because you and your partner should be each other's best friends before anyone else
Hey i think having ur mom on the podcast is wonderful and i like her opinions. I think it would be really cool if you can try to bring other people we havent heard from on the podcast to see their opinions on certain topics.
@46:00 As an Indian, I will tell you Mama Jee, that actually still isn't considered "normal" in India - that's just how Bollywood and Mumbai like to paint things. But Mumbai is only 1% of India. The rest of India has a mind of their own , and each and every state upholds their own cultural values and traditions. So don't be fooled by those stupid Netflix shows or movies - those are made by Bollywood movie industry people, so they're only going to show their own showbiz perspective of life, not capturing the reality from actual people living there.
I love your content Wajeeh! It literally tells how far you’ve come as a person. On another note maybe you’d know, look up maternal narcissism if you’re struggling with boundaries and all and unable to understand the process or why or what you feel when your mom behaves a certain way!
I am literally knitting my sweater and listening to the podcast its amazing. Love mama jee. And definitely mama jee won the hamper....really wanna listen to your life story ka ap america kaisay aain....ap ka liya kitna muskil tha....akelay kaisay sambhala sab. Also really wanna listen to your poetry someday .. May Allah bless you and thankyou for making my day
Is no one gonna address the sexist comments again? Implying that women are incapable of having intellectual and serious conversations and all they apparently talk about are superficial or frivolous topics. Absolutely disgusted by their attitude.
Mama Jee, you shine brighter than a star ❤ Sometimes in life, we need to talk less and hear more , therefore today im all ears 😂loved today's podcast ❤️ 💙 💖
Mamaji you are a loving and caring mom. Please let you adult kids live their life. They are responsible, caring and respectful boys. You are putting too much pressure on them. And trust me it’s going to be very bad idea to live with your daughter in law under same roof. The relationship will become toxic and you will lose your son.
@21:00 omg I can relate to Mama Jee soooo much. I could never connect to those girl "cliques." Sameeee exact way as Mama Jee omg. I can't deal with gossip, drama, etc. I always searched for a more diverse group of friends. 😂
Wow i am a lot of the time on the side of Mama her but on this point of getting nikkafied I am totally on the side of Wajeeh! Muslim Parents expect you from being away from sins (and that’s right!) but if you want to go the right path and you want to get married they come with a whole bunch of excuses: “You are too young” “He/She is not from our Culture” “They don’t have a degree” “Just wait we will see” “No we want to decide” Etc. It’s so so hard for the youth to go the halal way. And that is so so sad!!! Like Wajeeh said, the shaitaan really gets a opportunity to create Fitnah in your mind. That’s really a global problem of the Muslim community especially when they live in the western society! That needs to get fixed asap!!
Just wanted to correct your mother on her statement about lying - you can't be a good* muslim and lie, lying doesn't mean you're no longer a muslim rather it's a sin you need to ask forgiveness for.
I love mama jee. I really do. But her comment on not enjoying her friendships with other women because they discuss petty topics and just gossip was somewhat offensive. It was a little misogynistic. Women can be intellectual and discuss world matters, politics, and deep topics too. Regardless, I love both of you.
yes I agree, there are plenty of women who are intellectuals and talk about other things besides gossip, clothes etc so I think she shouldn't be generalizing
Wajeeh buy ur mom a gift she deserves it specially if you going for the Egypt trip she will be worried for you back at home look after ur mom she's a diamond trust me in that
Mama jee talks so much sense that it blows me. I'd say she needs to preach Pakistani parents. Love you mama jee, absolutely love your personality. Please let us know when you come to London would love to meet you ❤
Wajeeh you are right, you are not the husband, but your dad needs to pick up the slack now. It’s interesting to see that even though you and Ahmed are boys, your dad is still like that. Because we are all girls and dad has been emotionally unavailable too. Not sure why that is.
@22:60 Yes, she's absolutely 💯 right. Because without respect, there's no guard. Especially for women. A man can easily prey on a woman if there's no respect there. I am a very friendly person and I've had situations where some weird creeps would try to take advantage of my (initial) kindness, but that's when I set thm straight. That's when I'm like, HOLD UP, and my sherni comes out, lol 😂💯
Hello I dont agree with mama jee male and female becoming friends like example if a guy and a lady dating and the lady have a male friend you know wajeeh his there to take over the moment they break up specially if his the advisor you know that by ur self because for the male he already have created his own feelings by him self for her while she doesn't know
Its crazy to see a desi mom so modern yet so desi at the same time 😅
I actually like that. So many people think being modern, is losing your individuality.
Exactly…
Its crazy to see how woke and libreal Wajeeh is
this might be out of Aimen's comfort zone but i'd love a video on how daughters are treated differently to sons in Desi households - particularly when daughters sacrifice THE MOST for their parents.
7 mins in the podcast…Mama is a little calmer today and in a happy mood so far 😂
Men and women can definitely NOT be just friends. There will come a time when one will end up catching feelings. It's how we're conditioned to be. Anyone who says otherwise is just lying to themselves and craves attention to want to have the other gender around for validation and its mostly women who preech this idea of "hes just a friend" but have them around to boost their own confidence. If you think you have a friend thats a guy, and it's all platonic. It's probably because he's lying to you and hasnt told you how he feels. Stay safe, yall.
agree 100% that men and women can't be friends (they can be colleagues with boundaries but not more than that in my opinion), it's bound to happen that one side will catch feelings, it's just how we are built psychologically
I've been following you guys for like 8 years. Its amazing how your content evolved with time, yet the joy of watching you guys never got old. Chai talk hits the same way chai does. You can take it while doing something else and it makes the matter at hand bearable. I'm doing my STATS homework right now and listening to you two talk is really helping. I love the fact that you guys talk about things that brown kids can't even imagine asking about to their parents, and its really amazing listening to perspectives from two different generations. Love you guys
I feel like you guys are the American-version of desi households. My parents migrated from Pakistan to the UK and we are their first gen born kids and it's so strange yet relatable to see the dynamics and mentality is exactly the same regardless of moving to the US or the UK!
Wajeeh picturing Mama Jee's college experience in black and white was hilarious!
I feel bad for Mama Jee.. if she got love from her husband she wouldn’t be so dependent on her kids
Having friends of the opposite gender is haraam. You cannot go out watch movies have dinners go shopping all of these are essentially dates. Mama jee imagine wajeeh had a wife and she went on a day out shopping and movies with her male "friend" or even shared her feelings and worries in life. This is all intimate stuff. If a girl doesn't like hanging around girls then there is something deeply wrong with her especially if she then turns her attention to having lots of male friends. And vice versa for guys.
Salaam guys, so heres my pov, men and women cannot be friends as it is forbidden in ISLAM. So lying is haram but its ok for a man and woman to be friends? Come on Aunty you can not pick and mix what you want, Islam is a complete and perfect way of life as you know and we should follow it as best as we can. Other than that keep your chai talks coming Wajeeh something to look forward to on the wknd✌️
Exactly.
they have a lot of impressionable young muslim viewers, i’m surprised they’re speaking misinformation
I love listening to the podcast while driving back from work
Mama jee never lived with inlaws and did whatever she want in her life even now she does and talk however she wants. Infront of everyone she publicly humiliates her husband yet papa jee never says anything. Idk then why mama jee wants to control her kids and imposing her thoughts on them
Lol!!! Wajeeh saying “I can’t fill the husband spot for you”. 13:30
Men and women cannot be friends. This is something that is forbidden in Islam and it is forbidden for a reason. It is not about being old school.
i’m genuinely so surprised that this is the only comment addressing this because i was actually shocked
It’s crazy how much I relate. I’m Guyanese & Hindu with a traditional mother that mostly everything was taboo and not talked about.
@31:30 Basically, shes safeguarding herself by putting it out there in the open in front of his wife. It's kind of like an indirect way of letting them know that, she cannot be messed with inappropriately.
And it doesn't matter how nice or respectful a man can appear, sometimes we truly don't know their actual intentions. So its always important for a woman to just be mindful and guard these things.
I agree wajee, you shouldn't be so carefree when it comes to your wife. And I don't agree on friendship between male and female...also shouldn't prolong marriage...if you find the one pursue it with marriage
No Mama Jee, please just be as you are!!! I love how open and free you are with your thoughts!! ❤❤❤
At this point of my life not a lot of things keep me hooked but this podcast is just so wholesome it’s a part of my Sunday reset sometimes I save it just to watch it on my work breaks when I don’t get a chance to watch it on the weekend thank you for sharing these moments with us much love from Ohio 🤍🤍🤍 MAMA JEE WON THE RAPID FIRE 😂😂
There’s a term in psychology called emotional incest. Read into it
Lowkey does sound like it sometimes 🙈
When mama jee talks about her uni and top teachers 😂😂😂 love her energy
Honestly I really like your podcast. It’s a full family pack!!!
The 9 year old son reference omg I can't 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
mama jee is so desi yet so modern at the same time
Guys and girls can be friends as long as there is no physical attraction on either end and theres a boundary. If you're in a relationship and your partner has a "best friend" of the opposite gender, that's something to think twice about imo because you and your partner should be each other's best friends before anyone else
Hey i think having ur mom on the podcast is wonderful and i like her opinions. I think it would be really cool if you can try to bring other people we havent heard from on the podcast to see their opinions on certain topics.
Wajeeh! Chai Talk is not Chai Talk without Mama ji! 😂❤
@46:00 As an Indian, I will tell you Mama Jee, that actually still isn't considered "normal" in India - that's just how Bollywood and Mumbai like to paint things. But Mumbai is only 1% of India. The rest of India has a mind of their own , and each and every state upholds their own cultural values and traditions. So don't be fooled by those stupid Netflix shows or movies - those are made by Bollywood movie industry people, so they're only going to show their own showbiz perspective of life, not capturing the reality from actual people living there.
I love your content Wajeeh! It literally tells how far you’ve come as a person. On another note maybe you’d know, look up maternal narcissism if you’re struggling with boundaries and all and unable to understand the process or why or what you feel when your mom behaves a certain way!
I love mumma jee and the bond she shares with adorable and humorous wajeeh❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love y’all, enough division between you guys, create more unity!! I like how you are lightening the mood :)
Love to hear her perspective on marriage, do’s or don’t in marriage
this was one of the best episodes so far!!! mama jee has came so far
I wish I could speak to my mom like this! 😢
I am literally knitting my sweater and listening to the podcast its amazing. Love mama jee. And definitely mama jee won the hamper....really wanna listen to your life story ka ap america kaisay aain....ap ka liya kitna muskil tha....akelay kaisay sambhala sab. Also really wanna listen to your poetry someday
.. May Allah bless you and thankyou for making my day
My mom asked if I have boyfriend but she would not let me breathe in the direction of boys in college 😅😅🤣🤣🤣
Lovely episode, time flies with you both ❤
Mama Jee you look so beautiful with your hair in a ponytail. Just looking like a wow! It suits you a lot
Are mama gee and papa gee divorced? She said a few things that highlighted her not being happy in the marriage
Is no one gonna address the sexist comments again? Implying that women are incapable of having intellectual and serious conversations and all they apparently talk about are superficial or frivolous topics. Absolutely disgusted by their attitude.
Mama Jee, you shine brighter than a star ❤
Sometimes in life, we need to talk less and hear more , therefore today im all ears 😂loved today's podcast ❤️ 💙 💖
Mamaji you are a loving and caring mom. Please let you adult kids live their life. They are responsible, caring and respectful boys. You are putting too much pressure on them. And trust me it’s going to be very bad idea to live with your daughter in law under same roof. The relationship will become toxic and you will lose your son.
@21:00 omg I can relate to Mama Jee soooo much. I could never connect to those girl "cliques." Sameeee exact way as Mama Jee omg. I can't deal with gossip, drama, etc. I always searched for a more diverse group of friends. 😂
Yup, me too
Wow i am a lot of the time on the side of Mama her but on this point of getting nikkafied I am totally on the side of Wajeeh!
Muslim Parents expect you from being away from sins (and that’s right!) but if you want to go the right path and you want to get married they come with a whole bunch of excuses:
“You are too young”
“He/She is not from our Culture”
“They don’t have a degree”
“Just wait we will see”
“No we want to decide”
Etc.
It’s so so hard for the youth to go the halal way. And that is so so sad!!!
Like Wajeeh said, the shaitaan really gets a opportunity to create Fitnah in your mind.
That’s really a global problem of the Muslim community especially when they live in the western society!
That needs to get fixed asap!!
that ponytail on her is 🔥, a high one next
Mama Jee gets only prettier ❤❤❤
Wajeeh i know you edit but mama jee makes the content. She deserves to be reimbursed 😊
Just wanted to correct your mother on her statement about lying - you can't be a good* muslim and lie, lying doesn't mean you're no longer a muslim rather it's a sin you need to ask forgiveness for.
I love mama jee. I really do. But her comment on not enjoying her friendships with other women because they discuss petty topics and just gossip was somewhat offensive. It was a little misogynistic. Women can be intellectual and discuss world matters, politics, and deep topics too. Regardless, I love both of you.
yes I agree, there are plenty of women who are intellectuals and talk about other things besides gossip, clothes etc so I think she shouldn't be generalizing
I really like mama ji ❤
MORE EPISODES PLEASE WAJEEH
Got so much to learn from mama jee from this Chai Talk
mama g’s end notes made her win the hamper
Haniyah if you're listening look at " THE WAJEEH" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
Top everything. Top university, top of the class 🤣Just love her!
Wajeeh buy ur mom a gift she deserves it specially if you going for the Egypt trip she will be worried for you back at home look after ur mom she's a diamond trust me in that
I agree, in general, desi parents delay nikah!
I love your mom!!! Omg her comments 😂😂😂😂
I love this look mama jee 💗
Look forward to your episodes every Sunday 🫶🏽
I love mama gees curiosity 😂 god bless her💗
Just 1 minute since I started watching, Mama jee looking stunning today.. 10 years younger for real♥️♥️🧿🧿 Mashallah mashallah nazar na Lagey 🩵🩵
I've never imagined myself listenning to a podcast but you guys made it perfectly thanks for sharing these amazing memories with us❤️❤️❤️
Man, this episode was fire as usual 🙌💯🔥
Mama jee is the winner always
Mama jee talks so much sense that it blows me. I'd say she needs to preach Pakistani parents. Love you mama jee, absolutely love your personality. Please let us know when you come to London would love to meet you ❤
Just disagree on boundaries with kids stance 😷
Who makes the chai? Where does it go? Are there refills we don’t see? These are the questions I wonder when watching 😅
Majee was she was wearing saree so pretty !!!!awesome video❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😊😊😊😊
No shes not. Shes wearing shalwar kameez
Ohhh ok !!!!
I’m watching from Lahore, Pakistan .
Mama you’re looking really young with this type of hairstyle
Mama jee won ❤❤❤
When Mama jee said, "Shame on you guys" to Wajeeh😂
Omg love it wajeeh your sooooo right the parents become sooo weird then it’s no nikaah I agree with wajeeh
I love Mama Jee so much 💞 big hug from Indonesia 🤗🥰
Haha I hope hania and wajeeh at least go on a date
Them mamas jee ❤❤❤
Congratulations for 1 year in the beautiful house 🏠
I Always watch full episodes 😊
Wajeeh you are right, you are not the husband, but your dad needs to pick up the slack now. It’s interesting to see that even though you and Ahmed are boys, your dad is still like that. Because we are all girls and dad has been emotionally unavailable too. Not
sure why that is.
Mama jee Superstar!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤ shout out from NJ.
Yes they can
Mashallah mashallah a beautiful podcast ❤ 😍 ♥ 1
That thing about Karan Johar was so funny 🤣
MA SHA ALLAH love their relationship
Wajeeh Mama jee won know buy her gift whatever she want ❤😊😅
I am a big fan of mama jee❤❤
@22:60
Yes, she's absolutely 💯 right. Because without respect, there's no guard. Especially for women. A man can easily prey on a woman if there's no respect there. I am a very friendly person and I've had situations where some weird creeps would try to take advantage of my (initial) kindness, but that's when I set thm straight. That's when I'm like, HOLD UP, and my sherni comes out, lol 😂💯
Mama jee I love your suits.
And im from FSD, Pakistan 😂 mama jee u love ❤️
Baji which college were you in I am from pindi as well I was in waqar un nisa college
Wajee. You have won jannat. Allahhamdullah
Loving the pony mama jee
HOME TOUR PLEASE
Hello I dont agree with mama jee male and female becoming friends like example if a guy and a lady dating and the lady have a male friend you know wajeeh his there to take over the moment they break up specially if his the advisor you know that by ur self because for the male he already have created his own feelings by him self for her while she doesn't know
wajeeh remember shahrukh khan and kajol mmake love look easy lmao
Haha Wajeeh- I’m not up for sale 😂
24:40 Ay kurri ty myry payar ech khatam ay, ay kidry ne jan lagi... 😅😅😅😅
how were you able to afford a house in LA?
Dude man get marry please listen to ur mom and dad
Wow how pretty does mamajee look with her hair in a ponytail.