Are all of your memories real? - Daniel L. Schacter
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- Dig into the psychology of how memories are susceptible to false information and why we shouldn’t treat them as truth.
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In a 1990’s study, participants recalled getting lost in a shopping mall as children. Some shared these memories in vivid detail, but there was one problem: none of these people had actually gotten lost in a mall. They produced these false memories after psychologists told them they’d gotten lost and parents confirmed it. So what’s going on? Daniel L. Schacter explores the fallibility of our memory.
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I watch these videos to try and fall asleep, I end up questioning my existence for 2 hours straight in bed.
Bruhh, it's only been an hour. What planet are you from lol
The fact that TED liked this shows that they approve of this lol
SAMEEEEE but not 2 hours straight.
Me: watching this past my bedtime
DON’T YOU DARE EDIT YOUR COMMENT!
The older I get , the more clearly I remember things that never happened
~Mark Twain
As clear as a whisky glass after gobbling down it's supposed content with a light swirl on the bottom. Or was it on the floor? (feeling tired even when far from London).
Or did they?
@@jadaabbygale4002 *VSauce music starts*
ouh good one
According to the Quote Investigator, Twain make a similar remark, but it humorously conveyed the opposite idea:
When I was younger I could remember anything, whether it had happened or not; but my faculties are decaying, now, and soon I shall be so I cannot remember any but the things that happened. It is sad to go to pieces like this, but we all have to do it.
Later, "the things that happened" was somehow altered to "the things that _never_ happened." It isn't clear if Twain, his biographer, or someone else made the change.
That's a very aggressive way to give someone a lollipop.
Yeah.
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I had something similar:
I was talking to my parents about that time when i was younger and was sitting on the back seat of my dad's bicycle during a ride and got my right ankle caught in the back-wheel's chain which was extremely painful that i cried out so much. I even remember how my dad reversed the bike to un-tangle the flesh caught in it and how i was sitting on the curb crying after taking off my socks and asking for a band-aid.
I also remember how weeks later in kindergarden when we were going to our mid-day nap a teacher asked me about that scab on my ankle when i was walking to my bed in slippers. I even recall later on one morning when my dad took me to the kindergarden nurse and how much it stung when she was applying anti-septic solutions on the scab.
Then my parents said that it actually happened on my brother, not me. I was so astonished.
Even after you learned, do you still remember like that?
@@cloudberry7241 Yes I still do! The memories are still so real to change, there's so much detail, even the clicking sound of the bike chains when it was reversing. Its stored in my memory in a First Person perspective so I still can't fully accept it being fake, plus I wasn't with my brother on that day and he's 3 years older than me, so where did the kindergarten details come from? I guess I'll never know.
What if your parents are having false memory😂.
@@DC-zh5qs Ahaha..
@@zhangao4530 If you were child, it may have affected more maybe. I just lived something like that recently. We have been in a cafe with my sister and mom and they had told me something they had lived in that cafe i guess, then i remembered it like i lived it totally recently and told them i was there too, which was wrong..
Now imagine you are a lucid dreamer and you can't tell which memory was from your dream and which is real.
Stop making it worse!!
We share memories with other people though and they remember it too.But they don't remember some memories which we remember damn.
What are the two things that biases our memories according to the video?
I am able to lucid dream and I dream every single night. There were a couple of occasions, especially when I was a child, when i was very sure it was not a dream but a real memory. For example, I saw a housefly with a body bigger than a basketball when I was out playing near my house. Even right now as I am older, I can logically say that was a dream, but yet I can't fully get rid of the feeling it was actually real.
Moral is: it's okay to rely on our memories a lot, but just remember that it's not foolproof 😄
@@whatislife4987 please reply According to the video how can one doctor become biased in his judgement?
Someone told me once that everytime you have a memory, you are actually remembering the last time you remembered it- not the moment itself. So overtime they can slowly morph
I heard that too and it scares me
Studies have shown that memories can be lost over time, but later they can reappear. This would be pretty unlikely if we were remembering our last memory and not the event itself
@@mattrogers5188 maybe both can happen...
It doesn't work quite like that. We have 2 types of memory, short term and long term. To transfer a memory from short term (those recent memories that will soon be forgotten, such as what you ate for supper 10 days ago)to your long term memory, the great film you saw ten days ago ,you have to re remember/live it. And not just the once,because the more times you re remember, the more that memory becomes encoded into your brain, and the longer it will last. That's a main part of why repetitive learning actually works, no matter how down on it many people are today
that's why when I want to remember a dream, I try to "wake up slowly" and recall the details again and again. I feel like copy/pasting memories from ram to hard disk xD
I know most people can remember dreams without any effort, but I can't, and this is what works for me.
Plot twist, their parents didn’t want to admit they lost their children at the mall 🤷♂️
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Well, then there was a very active old man with a flannel shirt, saving all those kids by finding them... Santa Claus?
LMAOO
Damn, I think I can't even trust myself anymore these days...
relatable
You should watch/read about magic trick, or watch the National Geographic show Brain Games, that will destroy your trust in your own judgement.
@@ThapeloMKT HAH!! That's so true...
_Mommy?_
same🤣
i am having an inner conflict now
this is why it’s so important to journal once in awhile your thoughts/opinions and feelings during different periods in your life. so when you look back you can activity see what was going on and what you were thinking at any given moment.
I’ve always been a maladaptive daydreamer and i find myself with this question a lot. I know that I’ve imagined so many things throughout my life that i often struggle to remember and distinguish between what actually happened and what I imagined.
I know what you mean .. totally .. i have to keep my daydreaming in check so that I don't actually lose track of reality lol ( ahem ahem ..inception ..if you know you know) ..
But my daydreaming episodes are so much more fun than reality it's kinda sad .. so even i get confused on what actually happened when it happened and which details to trust
Same here. Even though I haven't lost the track of reality, that's because of my family members or friends. I daydream when I'm alone.
oh my god me too, i always find that when i’m imagining things i can feel the actual emotions that i would feel if it was happening and when i came back to ‘reality’ i would be so confused as to why it wasnt happening
same i experience this too
Me: why are some of my memories fake
Brain: Understandable, have a good day
Osman Aden
Nobody:
Teacher(gives a homework)
My brain: (re-create)
Me:F-
people choice to remember something they like... trust me... alot of people try to play long game since they think people would forgot.. i don't.... since i keep all their message...
니기루 was it 1887? No no I remmeber it being 1776
WAIT WHAT IT WAS 1736
Lucid dreams and rpgs.
@@sammythehamster9093 yup
It is scary how past exists only in our memories and even a part of it might not be true. Really poses the question if the past really happened or not ?
If you’re young enough, part of it can exist in memory cards and hard disk storages
I mean technically nothing could be real and everything could be a lie but I guess of this is our reality we might as well live it
This sounds like a reference to 1984
last thursdayism..
The universe was created last thursday
Now *this* is an interesting topic I'd like school to talk about.
If you have a good teacher, you should ask them questions like this whenever it seems reasonable.
Yep
It is because there is no reason why these memories are created. Students would be disappointed and the teacher would waste her time.
We discussed this very topic in psychology
Ikr rather than talking about why mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell.
I have a great childhood memory (about 10yo) of reading one of my first fantasy books. It has a specific scene - a shipwreck on a stormy sea. I was reading it during a rainy vacation in a camp by the lake. I was on a porch and it was pouring all around me. Some raindrops even fell on the pages and I thought - this moment complements this book very nicely. It is very vivid memory and great reading experience.
Twenty years after that I look at the book again and found out that it was first published about two years after that vacation :-).
HOLYYYY... maybe it was a different publishing company? maybe it's the mandela effect? maybe you time / dimension traveled if that's even possible??
Whaaaaat dam
@@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 stop with ur bs bro, no such thing as a mandela effect, people just have bad memories
@@greatmusic142 yeah there is, the mandela effect is just bad memory
TED-ED: Are all your memories real?
Me(at 3 am): I don't need sleep, I need answers.
Me 😭😭😭
Ong 😭
My family treated me poorly when I was younger and I’ve always had memories where I felt so alienated and I grew up holding that grudge and pain and felt unworthy and now they tell me when I open up to them that none of those emotional abuse happened.
Now I can’t come to terms with my past confused as to what had happened and how i really felt.
If all experiences have the same theme then it might be true. There are sadly parents who emotionally manipulate their children. Your experiences might actually have happened.
It's possible to feel alienated even if they didn't mistreat you. They may have simply been too busy with the other stuff in their lives to notice how unhappy/struggling with school/lacking in friends you were.
In fact THEY may have been struggling at the time, perhaps with their relationship, and either have chosen to forget that bad time ,or still feel to ashamed to admit it to you . Parents are just as prone to mistakes and failures as anything one, even though, when we are children they seem to know everything. I think your only answer is to perhaps have counselling, and learn to accept your childhood pain. Then you might find it possible to forgive them,even if you are only forgiving them for not understanding you. In holding on to that bewildered child you hurt yourself. l know, l'v been there.
It's Trauma you carry the more you talk about it the better understanding you have to cope. Don't let anyone tell you you shouldn't and didn't feel the way you did. You are not alone. They will never understand what they put you through, but im glad you let them know. That's strong of you🙏💪 Sorry you are going through this.. you are not alone ❤🌻.
I am trying to cope with the same situation. More power to you. I Pray we can both overcome this 🖤
Same. One of my parents and a sibling have some very different memories than me and my other parent. I know at least one thing I remember is true, because I found a photo that supports my "narrative". However, when I showed that photo to my sibling, they insisted it was an isolated incident, and only happened that one time.
If you can't afford a licensed, professional therapist... I really recommend getting some distance when family tries to gaslight you like that.
If your family makes you feel unworthy for how you feel about your childhood... That isn't a kind of family you need to stay in contact with. It's not healthy.
The family you are born into is a starter pack. You can make a better one out of friends. Love isn't always enough, respect needs to be earned (even parents need to earn it first!) and respect can be lost. And it's alright to let go.
I hope you are well❤
sometimes I'd have dreams of random, obscure things, then they happen from hours to weeks to even years later. I like to think that my brain is really good at guessing things will happen because of the infinite possibilities and how much patterns are in my daily life
The brain recieves 100% of the environment all the time but only consciously processes a very small amount of it during the day.
Everything we dream is what we really experienced but didnt process in the event. That's why at night we remember more. Dreams are memories randomly activating in a sequence so that we can make sense of the day.
Imagine eating a lollipop that never existed
Hey, all the flavor with no calories
fr this happened to me 🥴
@A D. lmaooooo
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Now imagine having your parents use this as an excuse that they never mistreated you and that you only imaginend them abusing you and have it as a false memory
Lol you mean gaslighting ????
Can you guys talk about suppressed memories? I had one and it was an odd experience. A term with someone’s name triggered the memory and it caught me off guard. I like how you guys explain things. Keep up the great work!
You know, 2020 would be the year I learn that all my memories are fake and I've actually been living in some kind of VR game this whole time. 😅
Take the headset off Avery, your family is waiting.
@@David.d.d.d I've always had this thought that we're actually in a coma or sumn, and when you hear someone call your name but actually no one did, its your loved ones talking to you to wake up in your actual reality; idk i just have this feeling
crazy for myself
9 second old comment wtf
Edit: ur comment is a cool concept but that’s also weird.
But I had that thought many times when I was a 4 year old dunno why
Lol the current VR technology is far from this real...
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I used to have these very vivid dreams when I was three to four years old. In the dream I would ask people if I was dreaming. Sometimes in real life I would ask real life people if I was dreaming and for a while I didn't know the difference between reality and a dream.
Oh man I'm so glad yall made this because I've been having some moments where it seriously feels like I'm skipping into alternate timelines and it's really nice to know that I'm not just going crazy 😅
Me thinking that I studied for a test
Reality:False Memories
False memories are what the "Mandela Effect" is all about.
Mengele effect
@@ivanttosuckyourblood what
@@jackanderson313 Joseph Mengele, the Angel of Death
@@saminhaque13-52 i just search his name his a natzi doctor Right ?
Yos
I sometimes recall vague "memories" that I can't tell whether I actually experienced or saw in a dream
Saaaame
SAME!!!!!
Hypothesis: One quarter of the participants remembered an event that has never happened.
Counter hypothesis: The event of getting lost happened. One quarter of the parents forgot or did not admit.
2:28
"Our current opinions, feelings, and experiences can bias our memories of how we felt in the past"
I want my memory to forget all the incident happened in 2020 🥺
Ted Ed: Are all of your memories real?
Me:Yeah! I didn't download my memories from chrome.
My mom helped with the study talked about at the beginning of the video! She's told me about it many times, and it's interesting every time. I'm glad Ted is letting more people know about it. Also that she is slightly in Ted Ed video is awesome!
I moved from my old house to this current one in january 2003, I was 9 at the time. I have clear memories of watching the "Bring me to life by Evanescence" and "Toxic by Britney Spears" music videos in my old bedroom, even though that's impossible since they were released later on 2003 and 2004, respectively. To this day I still can't get over the fact that those memories are fake, they are SO clear in my head. It bothers me to know that many other childhood memories I have might also be fake or somehow altered.
Maybe its 2004 or 2005 were the time you listen to the music in the same place. But because its the same place were you're 9 you'll assume that you listened to the music in year 2003
Still, the best thing about memories is making them.
3:05 is the same reason why a football match that we know who wins doesn't give the same joy anymore.
I didn’t think this was even a thing unless someone was brain washed or if an event happened when someone was very young. Learn something new every day from this channel.
0:24 me who has actually gotten lost in a mall: 👁👄👁
Are you sure about that? I'm just saying.
This is super interesting! I accidentally learned about this from a very early age, because I had memories when I was very little from when I was even younger that were completely impossible like flying and going to an indoor play place where they had live monsters chained down to the floor. I was maybe like 6 or 7 and I remembered these happening when I was 3 or 4 and I think I was vaguely aware these weren’t things that could really happen, but I wasn’t quite sure and was confused, so at some point I asked my parents and they told me it was probably a dream I was remembering, but for years and even now looking back, the experiences feel indistinguishable from any other memory, except for the fact that I know those things couldn’t have possibly actually occurred. To add to the confusion, even now I have a lot of dreams that are almost realistic save for one off detail like flying or having a pet I’ve never owned, and often times the dream will include a vague sense that this was something I’d dreamt about or experienced before and somehow forgotten and just remembered again. Anyway, stuff like that can usually be distinguished by obviously provable things that couldn’t be true, but I wonder how many more have been about things that were completely inane and believable enough that there was simply no reason to bother questioning it, so it just became a fact to me.
This kind of explains why people believe fake news. Also, people want to go with the flow, rather than stand out. So, a person will lie than rather feeling uncomfortable or like an outsider
Thx for making me question EVERYTHING
I always feel like cramming these videos to impress others with my new knowledge
Thank you for the existential crisis 🙏
"The most important thing I learned on Tralfamadore was that when a person dies he only appears to die. He is still very much alive in the past, so it is very silly for people to cry at his funeral. All moments, past, present and future, always have existed, always will exist. The Tralfamadorians can look at all the different moments just that way we can look at a stretch of the Rocky Mountains, for instance. They can see how permanent all the moments are, and they can look at any moment that interests them. It is just an illusion we have here on Earth that one moment followsanother one, like beads on a string, and that once a moment is gone it is gone forever. 'When a Tralfamadorian sees a corpse, all he thinks is that the dead person is in a bad condition in that particular moment, but that the same person is just fine in plenty of other moments. Now, when I myself hear that somebody is dead, I simply shrug and say what the Tralfamadorians say about dead people, which is "so it goes."'
And so on."
" 'Where am I?' said Billy Pilgrim.
'Trapped in another blob of amber, Mr. Pilgrim. We are where we have to be just now- three hundred million miles from Earth, bound for a time warp which will get us to Tralfamadore in hours rather than centuries.'
'How-how did I get here?'
'It would take another Earthling to explain it to you. Earthlings are the great explainers, explaining why this event is structured as it is, telling how other events may be achieved or avoided. I am a Tralfamadorian, seeing all time as you might see a stretch of Rocky Mountains. All time is all time. It does not change. It does not lend itself to warnings or explanations. It simply is. Take it moment by moment, and you will find that we are all, as I've said before, bugs in amber.'
'You sound to me as though you don't believe in free will,' said Billy Pilgrim.
'If I hadn't spent so much time studying Earthlings,' said the Tralfamadorian, 'I
wouldn't have any idea what was meant by "free will." I've visited thirty-one inhabited
planets in the universe, and I have studied reports on one hundred more. Only on Earth is there any talk of free will.' "
- Slaughterhouse-Five
Kurt Vonnegut
#JusticeForSushantSinghRajput
#JusticeForOurPhoton
Thanks
Interesting
Einstein said that there is only present.
@@_pollux7696 What isn't true, and what's not false? Everyone's right in their own ways, and then there's the truth, absurd and beautiful. It depends on how you see it, perspective is the only thing that matters, dear. Yeah, it might be true, if there's a truth, there might only be the present, but wouldn't it be interesting if it was the other way??? It's all in the ways of seeing, and therein lies the ways of being....
#JusticeForSushant
@@Transcendingmuse my perspective is that it make sence to cry for the death of someone you held dear, because you don't care they died, you care about the fact that you will never see them again
This is why I’m glad I’ve kept diaries & journals that date back over 35 years. This way I don’t have to guess if certain memories are true or not. I constantly write things down & re-remember certain memories to objectively analyze the for errors, so I know I can trust my memories. I also have a partial photographic memory which helps a lot too. A good way to tell if a memory is “real” or not is if you feel a sensation like a synapse firing in your brain, when you associate an object, or other stimulus to a memory. The brain remembers sensors like this, as it is a part of the brain evolved to protect us from danger, to either repeat or not repeat certain action. Therefore in most cases this “feeling” can be relied upon. Always look back on your memories, just make sure to leave those “rose tinted glasses” on the coffee table where they belong. 🙂
I've also been writing everything down for the past 38 years and have a partial photographic memory. I often wonder if the two are somehow connected. Maybe through the process of recording information, we have trained our brains to remember this data!
Shows how temporary our thoughts, memories and emotions are. You can change them with some courage and conviction. You are happy and no matter what nothing can disturb you, just know this!
I think the reason this happens is because our brains are so good at picturing and imagining things that when ppl especially parents or family member tells u something happened your brain imagines what there telling u so well that u actually believes it even if it was true or not
2:52 this little joke had me laughing crazy, kudos to animators.
After the Accident -
Doctor- Do you know me?
Me- I don't believe on memories...
My big sister's ex boyfriend has been suffering from confabulation disorder. He used many kinds of false infos and it overwhelmed my sister.
when i was about 4 years old, i got a cat that wouldnt stop purring when it went to sleep, so since it curled up with me i pet it and probably passed out while doing so. Because my little tiny baby toddler brain couldnt understand the line between "what i was doing before i fell asleep" and "what i dreamed about which was relevant to what i was doing before i fell asleep," i was convinced for a solid 3 - 6 years that i stayed up for 2 days and 2 nights petting a cat sleeping with me. yes, i shared this with everyone i met when i was that age and it is a scourge upon my brain every time i think of it
Ted ed: not all of your memories are real
My brain: understandable, have a nice day
This is literally "trust no one, not even yourself"
I’ve always had a memory of a teddy bear I lost when we were moving houses as a kid, I even remember where I looked to find it, though I could not. I had a drawing of that teddy bear and apparently no one in my family has memory of that teddy bear even though I have talked about it all my life, I made a memory of a picture and I have always thought it was real, got shocked when my mom told me…
when I was a kid I fell off my bike without a helmet and got a concussion. I passed out and remembered nothing about the day for years. after people told me what happened over and over again I started "remembering" what happened. I now have a full picture in my mind of that day and what happened. I even "remember" me passed out in the back of my dads car. its pretty cool to know that my mind just made this up and that its not an actual memory. the brain is crazy
I feel like this is why it's so easy to be gaslit. We KNOW we can't always rely on our memories, so we sometimes lean on others' memories to supplement ours. Though sometimes we are lied to...
"The more you love a memory the stronger and stranger it"
Can anyone elaborate this quote....
This is how I interpret it, the more you love a particular memory of yours the more you mix in favourable things into that particular memory. In the end, you simply believe that that particular memory is real because you have repetitively tried to keep or recall that memory without filtering the fake from truth it becomes so vivid.
@@freezepaladin your answer make sense 👍👍 glad to hear it...
makes me think about the False Memory Syndrome that occurs in sci-fi novel called Recursion
Just when I’m having an existential crisis, Ted-ed suddenly asked me this question. Great.
As someone who remembers lots of irrelevant things that happened in life, I am now concerned half of my memories might be false and kind of affected by the fact that I will never know how many are actually fake, but even more worried and curious about whether the past really matters today
If you remember movies or songs you heard, then the memories are true. Plus old photos and your family members/friends may help.
The way you feel. Or theperspective you have in the moment, covers your memory (which is often just an image, or maybe even a sense of the situation, like emotions .. but these senses can be overwritten by the way you currently feel)
The chance of thunderstorms goes up as possibility gets more likely... Until eventually it reaches 100%.
"Memory is deceptive because it is colored by today's event" - Albert Einstein
One of my favourite examples is watching foreign movies with native language subtitles. I always remember that movie as being in English, with the actors speaking English and even recall quotes from the movie in English spoken with their voices, despite the fact they weren’t speaking English and I was just reading subtitles when I watched, but the memories of the movie are in English, not memories of the subtitles.
I’m not sure if this is the same thing but this happened:
I distinctly remember that as a kid I was staring at the roller coaster known as the intimidator but there was another one behind it called the Crane. It was bright green and had a similar structure. One long hill, a top hat and a seemingly straight drop where (unlike the intimidator) it seemed to have descended underground.
The odd thing about this roller coaster is that it was almost never in operation and now that I think about it, if it were real it would’ve been built right on top of the parking lot if the location I remembered was accurate.
I remember having a urge to ride it but I was also so scared to ride it and I remember it was visible from Snoopy Land just like the initmidator.
Even more odd, everyone discussed wanting to ride the intimidator with a burning passion but no one seemed to mention the crane in the time I remembered it. Only when I brought it up did people seem to discuss it but they discussed it negatively.
Years later I went back to carowinds but there was no trace of the crane. I remember a friend telling me that the crane was taken down due to it constantly breaking down at the top and even on other parts of the roller coaster. I looked this up for confirmation but found nothing about the crane on the news and just shrugged it off.
Years later during my sophmore year I suddenly recall the crane and asked my friends about it since I always wanted to ride it. They looked at me with perplexed faces and asked me “what’s the crane?” I then recounted that it was an older bright green roller coaster that was right next to the intimidator that got taken down because it kept breaking down. My friends told me that that roller coaster doesn’t exist and they asked if I was confusing it with the fury since the time I remember first seeing the roller coaster seemed to match almost perfectly with the time the fury was first being built or maybe was already completed. I said it wasn’t because the roller coaster was specifically bright green and looked identical to the intimidator but was a hundred feet taller. They insisted it didn’t exist so I looked it up and got confirmation they were correct.
I was perplexed and insisted it was real and they asked me if I confused the location and recommended I look up the roller coasters at six flags. None fit the description and the crane didn’t exist there either. I looked up every possible lead:
1. Bright green roller coaster at carowinds
2. Roller coaster at carowinds taken down (this brought up an older roller coaster but it didn’t match the one I was looking for)
3. The crane
4. The Craig (because I also remember it having that name)
5. All rollercoasters at carowinds to ever exist
As far as the searches were concerned, the crane didn’t even exist and if it did it was probably wiped off the face of the earth and everyone’s memory which is completely unlikely but it’s just astonishing to think that I gaslit myself into believing the intimidator had a sister roller coaster and my brain came up with an explanation to why it was gone which likely convinced me it existed at some point.
That’s my misremembering story. Funny how the mind can work.
I’ve always found this really weird, but I’ve noticed that a lot of people get mad when you say you forgot something, particularly neurotypical people seem to be very upset if they asked you to do something but you forgot to, even if it’s unimportant or mundane. They act as if you did it on purpose just to spite them or make their life more inconvenient.
I’m neurodivergent, so i suspect my experience of memory and thought is different than “normal”, so I wanted to ask this: Do neurotypical people have the ability to forget on purpose? Or, more generally, do neurotypical people have any control over their memory at all? Because I certainly do not, to me remembering something is the roll of a dice, and the only way I can alter my chances from 50/50 to like 67/33 is by outside resources like lists, timers, giving commonly used items their own dedicated spot, etc.
TL;DR: do neurotypical or “normal” people have any direct control over what they do and do not remember, without the use of things like timers and lists?
Quite early this time.
_The music is quite scary_
Same
Same
Yeah we nees to learn more lol
Yeah
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Our memories are surprisingly bad and our brains "rationalize" things all the time. I'd be surprised if most memories remained unaltered for long!
The fact that I forgot that I've watched this video is frightening me 😌
I know someone who does this. He speaks of things that happened between us….and I know for a fact that he is mistaken. Some of them are things I would never do in the first place. Certainly not “all the time”, as he asserts.
I realize that we all have “fake memories” to an extent, because they all have our own personal beliefs and emotions woven in; but some are mildly distorted and some are heavily distorted, or possibly even fabricated altogether. The mind is a complex and curious thing.
I have often questioned memory and am amazed by how often my daughters have a recollection of events that is different from mine, but their memories are consistent with each other.
Is this perspective? Or have they discussed an event and hence created a 'new' memory? Or are we all wrong?
Before my father died of Alzheimer's, many people commented on how his short term memory was poor, yet he appeared to have a clear memory of events from his childhood. I was sceptical about the old memories. Yes, the places and people were real, but there wasn't any way of determining the accuracy of the actual memory. Maybe those memories were false. We'll never know.
i had a bad childhood, and when i moved out from my home, i made myself some good memories , and i keep telling people my good made up memory , it kinda worked for me.... i have no regrets, and sometimes i forget that i had this past...
When I'm working on a long test that ends abruptly: 1:57
I would love to know how we have convos with "3" of ourselves?? The outer, the inner, the other???
U have this too???? I thought I was crazy
I also talk to my 2 selves!!
Oml- yes!
Same here Welp!
I have 2 though not 3
I have a condition, my memories never go away, I remember everything since I was a toddler, meals, date times, every conversation, names, classes, books, etc.. Nothing goes away, it's a nightmare!!
I meet people for the first time and when I look at them closely my memory tells me I have met them somewhere before but meanwhile I haven't even seen them before
2:16
That was funny
I also do the same when I didn't understand most of the things😂
What is this music? I'd love to listen to it alone in my room while sitting in the dark sometime. Idk its giving me that vibe.
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My memories:
10% study/knowledge
40% life
50% dreamssss✨
Idk why but I remember all my dreams quite well👁️👄👁️
The one memory i had that i suspected was a dream, because some of the things in it seemed off, actually turned out to be true. I found video evidence 25 years later.
I can remember all my dreams too
And the I'll be like let's not think abt it's just a lie
I have the connection of my memory with the past and you do not want to get rid of it and live in it and evaluate now on the basis
holy moly, the music makes it feel like a big story is being told, like Lord of the rings or harry potter. I love it.
It's called "Forgetting" and it could change the memory of an event drastically by making your brain imagine something that has be "forgotten"
The brain tries to fill in the gaps with plausible sequences of events
i remember getting stuck in a mall because my grandpa walked away then these two old men came up to me and were like "ay u lost" and they were rly nice and they brought me back to my grandpa by the entrance
The BGM and Sound-Effect are amazing🙀
This is leterally me. When I to example looses my keys I think lie "hmmm did I put it into my bag" and then I produce a fake memory that make sure that it is there but then when I look it's not there
Yes! Same here!
I even simply to let myself not worry about something, (because I’m sure I’ll never remember to do it and get confused) and create a false memory simplifying what I need to do! I end up remembering the false version....😅
When I was little, I drew a beautiful scarecrow. The scarecrow was also riding a skateboard. But when I took this drawing with me to play in the park, the wind took it away. When I told this to my mother years later, she said that I had forgotten many of my toys in the park, but I had never lost anything like this. I was very surprised because I was remembering all the details of this memory that did not actually exist.
In my experience, I have this sort of random going in my mind that I just created a memory that never happened. I'm still aware it isn't real, but me creating that kind of memories aren't intentional
it's just automatically there in my head.
Just in time for me to have a Existential Crisis.
I can confuse between a dream and actual events that happened in my life but thinking someone else's experience as my own? Seeing a picture and thinking I've been there? Nope.
what are we without memories? if everyone in the world went to a festival, no cameras, and they all described it differently, who's to say what was real? anything- ANYTHING could happen. memory is fascinating. TED! DO A VIDEO ON THAT
“our memories are sometimes unreliable”
and that’s why studying a day before the test never helps me 😂
Am I even real
idk if this was a fake memory but it was like a memory/delusion/dream of me waking up and believing that i had been shot in the head and survived. it did fade after a few minutes tho. to my memory it was based off some kind of article or something about a man who had been shot in the head by his wife while he was asleep, and managed to survive, waking up and complaining about a headache.
I had something similar too
I got this one memory,bout me as a child, around 5'ish, playing around with a cutter and its caused my left hand to bleed. My grandma was shocked when she saw me and immediately take care of my hand. I remember sleeping on a bed ,with my hand completely wrap up.
And then when I was around 13, I remembered this story and asked my grandma about it, she tells me it's true and even showed me the scar in my left hand. And after that, this story is forgotten.
Now ,this memory suddenly popped up in my head,yet I can't ask my Grandma anymore cause she's already passed away. Still not sure if its real or just a fake memory.
Thanks for reading tho. Have a nice day♡
Me: exists
Ted vids: make me contemplating my whole life
I sometimes feel that I have seen some people before in tv or movies when I really haven't .
I always love learning from this channel,because like most,it makes me happy (accordingly of the time.)
Ah yes, my daily dose of existential crisises.
I watch Ted Ed when I get to high idk why but the narrators voice calms me so much
I searched for this video because I remember almost every event in my life I'm 54 years old and I remember as far back as my crib at about 8 or 9 months old. I remember my first birthday, people that my mother knew when I was a toddler, when I told her all the names of the people years ago she was astonished. But recently I have been weaning myself off of a pill for nerve pain called gabapentin / neurontin which I think affects the central nervous system. For the past several months I started having little memories of a complete different life and reality and it's kind of scary. They are memories that last about 30 seconds but I feel the memory more than I relive it in my mind it's a very very strange.
The fact that I always thought I did get lost because my sister was playing hide and seek with me and some lady did something. My mind is blown, thanks TedEd you're the best 🤠👍
This is why I have to make notes and posts with pics to help me know what memory of the subject is real or fake.