Disclaimer: While this is commonly associated with sociopaths and other dark triad personalities, not all people with personality disorders will exhibit these behaviors, and sometimes even individuals without such disorders, but maybe have sociopathic traits, can engage in these manipulative tactics too. This video is not intended to demonize anyone but to keep everyone informed about these manipulation tactics. Our goal is to promote awareness and understanding to help protect against harmful behaviors in relationships.
Some sociopaths can be very charismatic. They have a special ability to charm people and put them in a trance. To other people it may seem as though you’re under some sort of spell.
They really don’t. Anyone can be infatuated by anyone for any given reason, but they really don’t have a special and disproportionately charming ability.
@@sigur95 Many narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths are known to charming and charismatic. That's how victims end up trapped in the trauma bond. It creates cognitive dissonance. As an example, I recommend watching interviews of the serial killer Ted Bundy.
Timestamps 1). They always say what is correct 0:44 2). Fake-emotions 1:45 3). A lack of a real attachment system 2:52 4). They keep you talking 3:26 5). Love bombing 3:56 6). Hot and cold 4:31 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Absolute truth. I am sociopath who does hate hurting people, because I reflect dark feelings to myself. I never had any friend who could constantly stay with me for 3+ months, I am unreliable, and only those who understand that sometimes I just fold into nowhere - I'm fine, I will be back if needed, only they could be my friends. I dissapear for a month, and then I'm back as if nothing actually happened. It's very very important to your health to stand aside sociopaths when you feel like you got close to them in relationship, but they seem to not care or see. It's dangerous not only to people who's in contact with sociopath, but to sociopaths as well, if they are HSP, etc.
0:45 1. They always say what is correct 1:46 2. Fake emotions 2:53 3. A lack of a real attacthment system 3:26 4. They keep you talking 3:57 5. Love bombing
Honestly i do have people pleasing tendencies which sometimes can look like these symptoms, such as well the "love bombing" when i try my best to please someone, or even trying to i guess "overreact" when in reality im not that interested, or even making up white lies or sugarcoating just so i dont hurt someone 😭
i think neurotypical people give fake compliments too. or they give compliments like "i know this makes people feel good, so i'll say it" to be kind without actually believing what theyre saying
yeah I think that this generalized image is more of an example of ambitious and persuasive sociopaths, but the reality is that most sociopaths don't really do this often, because it's easier for them to just openly express their feelings, which will often make them appear aggressive and selfish, not charming
this helps me understand what NOT to do and how to connect better as an aspd patient. (Genetic trait on my fathers side, but only i have the same diagnosis out of my siblings) Thanks for the informative video ❤ I work every day to try to better myself, and the channel is great for this.
As a fellow autistic, I look at this list, and what I see is a lot of masking. That's probably why you're connecting with this list. But, from my perspective, it's a bit like... just because you have a fever, doesn't mean you have a cold (could be a UTI, tonsilitis, inner ear infection, etc). There's lots of reasons to mask, and sociopathy is just one of them. So masking does not automatically equal sociopathy. I hope this helps. Also, @psych2go, what are the chances of us getting more autistic content? I feel like a decent chunk of your viewer base is liable to either be autistic, or associate with people who are. And unfortunately enough, we're still living in a world where we are misunderstood a lot, and the burden of communication often solely falls on us--and we often do not have self-advocacy skills (they really should teach that as a core class in primary education).
You can sift through the charm yourself (if you have experience). It's kind of like the "pied piper's song", once you know it, it doesn't effect you as strongly anymore. You just have to remain calm and realize everything they do is fake, a disney villain level ploy, an illusion to con you, or reality fabrication for their personal benefit. (everything they do is to win or gain for themselves) Also, realize that everyone else around you will probably still be charmed. Friends, family, even your own dog will love them. That's just how it is. A good example of this is "ressa tessa, who the f did I marry?" tik tok story (on youtube too). Her hubby is a sociopath.
I never knew that I might actually be a sociopath, half of these I do by.. learning how to survive in this place. I doubt I will get a proper medical test for it but this video did made me think
Bro… I do almost all of these things 😭 I adapt to peoples personalities, I’m straight forward, I have other people talk their talk and don’t say much, I might subconsciously fish for compliments( I say might because I always give little snacks or candies to people and they constantly compliment me) my mother says that I’m highly manipulative during family therapy but I’m not really sure, I close off any emotions I don’t want to feel at any time, and some more things but I forgot them lol. Am I cooked 💀
I mean, it may not necessarily be that. I let people talk all the time and I'm just too afraid to speak my mind. Sometimes I just wanna be alone and I'll often isolate when I can. But then again, I'm always shy.
We won’t be able to tell from a paragraph. It’s time to do some hard introspection. Not sure how true it is, but I think these personality types can fool therapists too.
Hey friend, you are not necessarily a sociopath. You might be people pleasing, which is a coping mechanism, specially if you went through some kind of neglect or trauma during childhood.
Yeah it’s funny you mention how people mistake autism of sociopathy. A buddy of mine with the burger syndrome has had multiple accounts of sociopaths opening up to him for mistaking him as one of their own.
C’est normal ! Cette chaîne n’aime pas les critiques 😂😂😂 Du moment que tu les critiques, soit t’es sociopathe ou narcissique ! 😂🤣😂 Je crois qu’ils sont complètement paumés ! Ils ne savent plus où ils sont 😂😂 Ils ont vraiment besoin d’aide mentalement 😂😂
As an ENFP, it's virtually impossible to be sociopathic.. I've tried. I've tried not to care about others and focus on myself, but its like trying to get same polar magnets to touch. 😢
Another ENFP here. You're just not damaged enough. With lack of love and filled with hatred that fuels your creative evilness. It's still a care but in reversed, if you know what I mean.
I’ll keep this in mind let’s hope these videos keep getting better I might binge all of these manipulation videos thanks for helping me understand these methods so I can use them more and accurately I don’t know what I’d do without you
So if I appear as very friendly, accepting, and open-minded, and always center conversations around the other party, while also lacking any real empathy, does that make me a sociopath or just an introverted goblin
Sociopathic goblin XD But seriously - motives are the most important here. Introverts just try to be polite. Psychopath try to take over the world. Sociopath can try to make some plots
There are 2 kinds of empathy. Emotional kind of and cognitive kind of. One can be a sociopath but choose to do the right thing using cognitive empathy. But it might be hard if the sociopath isn't self aware. And without self awareness it is hardly possible to change behaviour bc one wouldn't see why or when. Also, a sociopath sees relationships transactionally. If they give something you also give them something what they value in return. Excitement would be a good one bc they struggle with boredom and would do anything to balance it out.
Tbh I'm incredibly hot and cold, but it's not intentional per se. Me being cold is either because 1) I have no social energy left or 2) I trust you to know me well enough, to know that I care about you and don't want to leave you even if I'm silent for some time. Might still be a bit callous though, because I do know people can get worried because of me taking so long to answer. But my goal isn't to get them worried, and if I notice they do, I answer sooner to reassure them that I'm still there. Socialising just tends to be somewhat exhausting.
As a sociopath, stuff like this is both very comforting, and painful at the same time. I am guilty of many things in this video, but I obviously don’t do these things out of malice. I don’t love bomb, or play into peoples wants on purpose, and I don’t just do it to gain a edge over then or anything, I do genuinely care for the people I do this with, and this is simply how I behave, because I know it makes them feel better, even if it “isn’t” really me. Which is another thing that is strange, I can’t say when I behave to someones wants that im fully “pretending” or “not being myself”, because in a way, that pretending is who I am. It’s a pretty damning thing to struggle with when im alone, who I “actually” am. In truth, I have not the damnest idea, I could answer questions about myself sure, but those answers may change based off how im feeling in the moment, or simply because ive been around different people recently. Im not really sure why im ranting here or for what purpose, not like anyone will see this anyways, but I did want to try to give my view. I honestly hate being this way, and struggle with a lot of self hatred. Even in moments like this, It almost feels like im putting a act on to myself, in some strange way that im really not sure how to describe.
I relate to this quite a lot, especially the part about the “pretending”/“not being *myself*” is truly a part of who I am. Also with the not doing it purpose, I do it on purpose because I care about or like somebody so that they will like me and be able to open up more, which makes it easier to know the right things to say to support them. Reason being empathy is very much on a switch for me and I tend to think through emotions instead of feeling them properly.
human behaviour is not that simple to understand it's very ambigious and just having some traits doesn't really make them a manipulative sociopath...people are just people with all range of emotions and traits so please don't form assumptions about anyone based on your knowledge you gained from this video.. But anyways great video as always♥
It’s misinformation ! How can you even see that ? 😂🤣😂 It’s totally manipulation ! Watch different perspectives about them by Micky Atkins, notsoErudites ! You will see 😂😂
I relate to these traits soo much, I use them to my advantage in my everyday life. When I was younger I couldn't get the attention from girls that I wanted, now I can get them do all of my wants.
Can you make a video like this on narcisism as well? Because people don't understand narcisism as a mental disease but mostly throw the word without knowing it, this video is really good in breaking down sociopathy!.
Good to know after the corona virus I grew up to be a sociopath. But it's not my fault I don't feel strong emotions anymore and have to fake it for people
“Don’t assume someone’s a sociopath based on a single trait or observation” we need dumb asses like you to go to school for longer periods of time bc the listening skills and retention of memory skills are clearly lacking
Hey, I am undergoing therapies for depression and depression related other issues. I have noticed that I am showing all these characteristics strongly, it's not on purpose, it's like a reflex. Can someone help me figure it out? I am on a road to fixing myself. Thank you
idk about the compliment thing. compliments feel like an obligation to respond back. i've been told before "you don't really take compliments well." they don't particularly feel good, but i will admit it feels good if it's on something i care about and feel proud of.
wowwwwwww i thought he was like a narcissist perhaps.. but all these traits is exactly what i experienced since last december to last week.. i always feel restless and like my body is in survival mode and i cry all the time thinking if something is wrong with me or i did something wrong.. he gives reassurance but his actions show otherwise.. he says one thing but his action is saying different things.. and he said he's not a good communicator but he seemed to be using his words fine.. it's his actions that doesn't aligned.. ofc im self reflecting if i accidentally do this to anybody, as far as i can think of, i think there hasn't been anyone im not genuinely want to be in connection with.. but at least with this guy,i actually noticed the lovebombing pretty soon like in two weeks.. so i didn't let myself get too attached.. glad i was aware bc even not feeling attached much, im still so miserable..cant imagine if i had let all my guards down
What if someone feels emotions but only when it’s something that affects them? Like…not being sad for others but being sad for yourself if something bad happens to YOU? Just trying to figure out what this person is. Or is that just narcissism?
@@lumin6464 well yes I’m saying in the context of this video though…would a sociopath not be a sociopath if they felt strong emotions but only towards themselves?
3/6 Things not on the list: I feel emotions, often too much. I don’t know how to play hot and cold and I wouldn’t like to play it. Things on the list: I am quite assertive when it comes to my own opinions but will mostly agree when I don’t think bad of the person’s own opinions even if they aren’t inherently in line with my own. I’ve kept others talking as I thought I’m more the silent, listening type. I love complimenting people and the way they react. Hmmm Interesting
If there is one reason why Sociopaths can manipulate you by letting you do all the talking is because everybody can get caught up in talking about themselves. It's not just a rude gesture to make the conversation always about you. It's also going to backfire if you're going to tell a sociopath all about who you are so they can have enough information on how to really manipulate you. You need to be careful not tell them too much and give them the chance to tell about themselves, or at the very least, leak out some hints that you can use to know if you're dealing with a sociopath.
sociopathy is a very broad term, a weird behavior learned through trauma so it can be literally anything, it not like a disease you can diagnose, it can be a dangerous criminal or a women who always cheats in relationships, or thief who never changes no matter how many chances you give - just translate it as "pathological social skills ". Basically anything that's not acceptable in society goes under sociopath label (at least that's how it started out). You know that toxic woman you think you can fix - sociopath.
I'm a sociopath I guess, I had a feeling it wasn't normal to do this. Other people have genuine emotions whereas I can only fake feel it. I wish I could feel the emotions like how others experience it and react genuinely like them, it gets tiring always being in a 'role'.
Patrick Bateman is a psychopath, though. And most of these signs are more of psychopaths than sociopaths, but that’s because even the term sociopath is better seen than being a psychopath, because of the whole serial killer monster evil stereotype of it. Not saying that these signs can’t determinate a sociopath, but, even the comments agree, that this type of sociopathy (is that a word?) isn’t really common and not talked about often, because most sociopaths aren’t like this, and care less about charming people, fitting in in a group and all that. Because psychopaths and sociopaths tend to have similarities (lack of genuine empathy and lack of regret and others ) and every case is unique, nowadays you’re more drawn to simply be diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder rather than specifically a sociopath or a psychopath
I relate to three of these traits, but I am also just rather afraid of my self and also playing the warm cold game with my self, as I don't get much attention, so keeping my self entertained
I think a lot of people missed the point that sociopaths aren’t evil. They are humans like every other human. The stigma of these labels and past bad encounters with some troubled people has made people ig confused? Or bias idk can’t find the right word for it.
I definately do some of these, but I'm autistic and was caught with that very early. I find NTs love talking about themselves so much that it's hard not to do the fourth thing a lot. Fake emotions are needed sometimes because a lot of people are really stupid about their real beliefs (like anti-vax people that are not due to legit conditions or allergies). Seriously, otherwise, I'd sometimes be way to tempted to just literally slap sense into people if I didn't fake some other emotion to hold down that thought.
I've noticed that in other videos from this channel, they usually talk about "you" having those symptoms, but when they are talking about more stigmatised mental disorders, such as narcissism or aspd, they say "they" may have these symptoms. It can be quite a harmful mindset to have
Hello, I never commented on a video before, I wanted to request a video about how this sort of personality could be treated please. I've been isolating myself in a tremendous self reflection when I identified with something around de dark triad, and I'm trying to get professional help for my, recently acknowledged, low empathy. I never noticed that the things I do for the others had more to do about my expectations that could benefit me insted of genuine interest for the other, like being loved, and I don't think I should be ashamed of me in such a negative way since I also tricked Myself with a false narrative
I feel I act sociopathic, because I do... A lot of these, and it's strange. Probably result of just, being plainly antisocial, but yeah, it feels strange.
Disclaimer: While this is commonly associated with sociopaths and other dark triad personalities, not all people with personality disorders will exhibit these behaviors, and sometimes even individuals without such disorders, but maybe have sociopathic traits, can engage in these manipulative tactics too. This video is not intended to demonize anyone but to keep everyone informed about these manipulation tactics. Our goal is to promote awareness and understanding to help protect against harmful behaviors in relationships.
I DIDNT WATCH THIS CHANNEL IN A WHILE AND THE GUY VOICE KINDA JUMPSCARED ME 😰
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@@canadaisntreal Same!! I wasn't expecting that
@@canadaisntreal
Dark tetrad.
Some sociopaths can be very charismatic. They have a special ability to charm people and put them in a trance. To other people it may seem as though you’re under some sort of spell.
I agree! ❤
have you ever seen this sort of thing...?
They really don’t. Anyone can be infatuated by anyone for any given reason, but they really don’t have a special and disproportionately charming ability.
@@sigur95 Many narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths are known to charming and charismatic. That's how victims end up trapped in the trauma bond. It creates cognitive dissonance. As an example, I recommend watching interviews of the serial killer Ted Bundy.
Timestamps
1). They always say what is correct 0:44
2). Fake-emotions 1:45
3). A lack of a real attachment system 2:52
4). They keep you talking 3:26
5). Love bombing 3:56
6). Hot and cold 4:31
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank youu💙
@@clumsyloner not a problem
Thank you!😢
@@niasiamack9333 happy to help 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I thought this was the average human being lmao
As soon as they play the hot and cold game it’s very important to go non contact with them.
Absolute truth. I am sociopath who does hate hurting people, because I reflect dark feelings to myself. I never had any friend who could constantly stay with me for 3+ months, I am unreliable, and only those who understand that sometimes I just fold into nowhere - I'm fine, I will be back if needed, only they could be my friends. I dissapear for a month, and then I'm back as if nothing actually happened. It's very very important to your health to stand aside sociopaths when you feel like you got close to them in relationship, but they seem to not care or see. It's dangerous not only to people who's in contact with sociopath, but to sociopaths as well, if they are HSP, etc.
0:45 1. They always say what is correct
1:46 2. Fake emotions
2:53 3. A lack of a real attacthment system
3:26 4. They keep you talking
3:57 5. Love bombing
👁️👄👁️ I’d say I kind of act like that but I guess without the 3???
Idk
4:32 6. Hot and cold
Thanks 👍🏻
Sociopaths using faking charm to blend in? Looks like now, I have to question every compliment I’ve ever received.
Honestly i do have people pleasing tendencies which sometimes can look like these symptoms, such as well the "love bombing" when i try my best to please someone, or even trying to i guess "overreact" when in reality im not that interested, or even making up white lies or sugarcoating just so i dont hurt someone 😭
or don’t take compliments personally
You care about the compliments you receive? You're a sociopath.
@@TamWam_if ur consciously trying to not hurt someone then you’re probably a good person
i think neurotypical people give fake compliments too.
or they give compliments like "i know this makes people feel good, so i'll say it" to be kind without actually believing what theyre saying
I feel like this video describes very ambitious sociopaths, rather than the everyday expressively selfish sociopaths.
yeah kind of, they do mention that this kind of sociopathy is rare
😢
yeah I think that this generalized image is more of an example of ambitious and persuasive sociopaths, but the reality is that most sociopaths don't really do this often, because it's easier for them to just openly express their feelings, which will often make them appear aggressive and selfish, not charming
this helps me understand what NOT to do and how to connect better as an aspd patient. (Genetic trait on my fathers side, but only i have the same diagnosis out of my siblings) Thanks for the informative video ❤ I work every day to try to better myself, and the channel is great for this.
Good luck on your journey:)
This animation is sooo good, I like how their just people
I feel disturbed by the fact i done almost all without thinking much bout it til i watched this
I do have autism just not on the strong end
Same
I'm the same except not autistic, just don't worry about it.
As a fellow autistic, I look at this list, and what I see is a lot of masking. That's probably why you're connecting with this list. But, from my perspective, it's a bit like... just because you have a fever, doesn't mean you have a cold (could be a UTI, tonsilitis, inner ear infection, etc). There's lots of reasons to mask, and sociopathy is just one of them. So masking does not automatically equal sociopathy. I hope this helps.
Also, @psych2go, what are the chances of us getting more autistic content? I feel like a decent chunk of your viewer base is liable to either be autistic, or associate with people who are. And unfortunately enough, we're still living in a world where we are misunderstood a lot, and the burden of communication often solely falls on us--and we often do not have self-advocacy skills (they really should teach that as a core class in primary education).
I even considered myself sociopath for few years, so I propably know a bit about how you feel
Same, but not neurodivergent as far as I know
Sociopaths actually have an infinite aura in charming people
You can sift through the charm yourself (if you have experience). It's kind of like the "pied piper's song", once you know it, it doesn't effect you as strongly anymore.
You just have to remain calm and realize everything they do is fake, a disney villain level ploy, an illusion to con you, or reality fabrication for their personal benefit. (everything they do is to win or gain for themselves)
Also, realize that everyone else around you will probably still be charmed. Friends, family, even your own dog will love them.
That's just how it is.
A good example of this is "ressa tessa, who the f did I marry?" tik tok story (on youtube too). Her hubby is a sociopath.
OMG FURINA!! THIS VIDEO GOT POSTED RIGHT AS MY BOYFRIEND WOKE UP AND HES OBSESSED WITH FURINA!!
I never knew that I might actually be a sociopath, half of these I do by.. learning how to survive in this place. I doubt I will get a proper medical test for it but this video did made me think
Bro… I do almost all of these things 😭
I adapt to peoples personalities, I’m straight forward, I have other people talk their talk and don’t say much, I might subconsciously fish for compliments( I say might because I always give little snacks or candies to people and they constantly compliment me) my mother says that I’m highly manipulative during family therapy but I’m not really sure, I close off any emotions I don’t want to feel at any time, and some more things but I forgot them lol.
Am I cooked 💀
I mean, it may not necessarily be that. I let people talk all the time and I'm just too afraid to speak my mind. Sometimes I just wanna be alone and I'll often isolate when I can.
But then again, I'm always shy.
We won’t be able to tell from a paragraph. It’s time to do some hard introspection. Not sure how true it is, but I think these personality types can fool therapists too.
Hey friend, you are not necessarily a sociopath. You might be people pleasing, which is a coping mechanism, specially if you went through some kind of neglect or trauma during childhood.
Oh, that's literally me, lol. @@ana-6127
Tbh I know im not a sociopath bc im emotional as hell but i still do some of the things you do. So its not entirely a sociopathy thing
Yeah it’s funny you mention how people mistake autism of sociopathy. A buddy of mine with the burger syndrome has had multiple accounts of sociopaths opening up to him for mistaking him as one of their own.
C’est normal ! Cette chaîne n’aime pas les critiques 😂😂😂
Du moment que tu les critiques, soit t’es sociopathe ou narcissique ! 😂🤣😂 Je crois qu’ils sont complètement paumés !
Ils ne savent plus où ils sont
😂😂 Ils ont vraiment besoin d’aide mentalement 😂😂
@@Polza-sd1sm are you delulu
@@danishhaikal2839 People who use the word "delulu" are much further out than those who give an inappropriate answer :'D
@@ezcomeezgo9215 lol that's the only way to respond to a complete weirdo
@@danishhaikal2839nope, just French.
This is actually so true and i relate to all of these
As an ENFP, it's virtually impossible to be sociopathic.. I've tried. I've tried not to care about others and focus on myself, but its like trying to get same polar magnets to touch. 😢
Enfj here, and same!
As an INTJ sociopath is my leitmotiv
@@IRDGAF111 lol
Another ENFP here. You're just not damaged enough. With lack of love and filled with hatred that fuels your creative evilness. It's still a care but in reversed, if you know what I mean.
I’ve encountered this one too many times. It’s creepy! Thankfully now I know the signs and cut it off once I can confirm what I’m dealing with.
Amazing video, much love and respect for your content 💚🌱
I’ll keep this in mind let’s hope these videos keep getting better I might binge all of these manipulation videos thanks for helping me understand these methods so I can use them more and accurately I don’t know what I’d do without you
Just gonna apreciate how quickly my eye caught that Furina plushie. These small references in the videos are perfect
So if I appear as very friendly, accepting, and open-minded, and always center conversations around the other party, while also lacking any real empathy, does that make me a sociopath or just an introverted goblin
Sociopathic goblin XD But seriously - motives are the most important here. Introverts just try to be polite. Psychopath try to take over the world. Sociopath can try to make some plots
There are 2 kinds of empathy. Emotional kind of and cognitive kind of. One can be a sociopath but choose to do the right thing using cognitive empathy. But it might be hard if the sociopath isn't self aware. And without self awareness it is hardly possible to change behaviour bc one wouldn't see why or when. Also, a sociopath sees relationships transactionally. If they give something you also give them something what they value in return. Excitement would be a good one bc they struggle with boredom and would do anything to balance it out.
On today's episode of, "Am I A Sociopath, Or Is It Just Autism?"...
Tout ce qu’ils racontent sont faux ! Faites attention ! Et je ne suis pas la seule !
The art is way too good, subscribed!
Positions of power is where you will find the most sociopaths and psychopaths
Well, this will help me write my book 😂. I was writing it and this just popped up. I’m on page 27 out of 600, it’s going to take forever to finish.
Y’all should do a video about the effects of being raised in a hoarder house
Tbh I'm incredibly hot and cold, but it's not intentional per se. Me being cold is either because 1) I have no social energy left or 2) I trust you to know me well enough, to know that I care about you and don't want to leave you even if I'm silent for some time.
Might still be a bit callous though, because I do know people can get worried because of me taking so long to answer. But my goal isn't to get them worried, and if I notice they do, I answer sooner to reassure them that I'm still there.
Socialising just tends to be somewhat exhausting.
Great work giving the sociopath blue hair!
Everyone in America looks like that right now, going for the Joker look and lifestyle
Thank you for the consistent uploads!!
You give the best information and clues ngl ,
And you made my day by the furina plushie
No amount of love bombing will make me stick around once you go hot and cold I will go cold ❄️🥶 forever
As a sociopath, stuff like this is both very comforting, and painful at the same time. I am guilty of many things in this video, but I obviously don’t do these things out of malice. I don’t love bomb, or play into peoples wants on purpose, and I don’t just do it to gain a edge over then or anything, I do genuinely care for the people I do this with, and this is simply how I behave, because I know it makes them feel better, even if it “isn’t” really me. Which is another thing that is strange, I can’t say when I behave to someones wants that im fully “pretending” or “not being myself”, because in a way, that pretending is who I am. It’s a pretty damning thing to struggle with when im alone, who I “actually” am. In truth, I have not the damnest idea, I could answer questions about myself sure, but those answers may change based off how im feeling in the moment, or simply because ive been around different people recently. Im not really sure why im ranting here or for what purpose, not like anyone will see this anyways, but I did want to try to give my view. I honestly hate being this way, and struggle with a lot of self hatred. Even in moments like this, It almost feels like im putting a act on to myself, in some strange way that im really not sure how to describe.
I relate to this quite a lot, especially the part about the “pretending”/“not being *myself*” is truly a part of who I am. Also with the not doing it purpose, I do it on purpose because I care about or like somebody so that they will like me and be able to open up more, which makes it easier to know the right things to say to support them. Reason being empathy is very much on a switch for me and I tend to think through emotions instead of feeling them properly.
Classic "now i am considering myself" moment😂
human behaviour is not that simple to understand it's very ambigious and just having some traits doesn't really make them a manipulative sociopath...people are just people with all range of emotions and traits so please don't form assumptions about anyone based on your knowledge you gained from this video..
But anyways great video as always♥
It’s misinformation ! How can you even see that ? 😂🤣😂
It’s totally manipulation ! Watch different perspectives about them by Micky Atkins, notsoErudites ! You will see 😂😂
Woah, I’m early! ❤
Now I knew it.. I have been manipulated by one guy...he got the all same quitlity said in the video...😩🌻✨
2:11 furinaaaa also the topic about sociopaths are pretty interesting
I relate to these traits soo much, I use them to my advantage in my everyday life. When I was younger I couldn't get the attention from girls that I wanted, now I can get them do all of my wants.
like what
@@m420-nd1if 🙄 It should be very obvious... I treat them like my person pet assistants 🤭.
@@mbbuckets4509Sure you aren't taking your vengeance on the wrong ones?
@@mbbuckets4509 Lame
@@mbbuckets4509 You are one fucked up little dude.
Not every sociopath is a bad person , but every psychopath is
90% sure psychopathy is defined by a total absence of emotions from birth, and not by being evil
Not Dexter, lol
@@Nola5427 haha we can make exception
@@lumin6464 i think most distinguishable is lack of guilt and fear, which honestly... ought to feel awesome being a God.
Look, we need help, online social media is raising men in hate and women in fear, things are going from bad to worst.
Ce sont des choses comme ça qui mettent les gens cons dans la haine et ils ne savent ! 😂😂
Connais toi, toi même ! Fais ce qui te rend heureux ☺️😉
How is that related to the video?
Hate and fear are interchangeable
I can't thinking about
I've considered the possibility of myself being a sociopath while watching, then realized I'm a horrible actor
Can you make a video like this on narcisism as well?
Because people don't understand narcisism as a mental disease but mostly throw the word without knowing it, this video is really good in breaking down sociopathy!.
I really don't know that I am a sociopath after seeing this video I know that I am sociopath this video is helping me
Makes more sense
Guess who found 2 sociopaths in their lives ❤❤❤
Good to know after the corona virus I grew up to be a sociopath. But it's not my fault I don't feel strong emotions anymore and have to fake it for people
Gotcha. Don't trust or hang out with anyone as they all could be secretly evil. Thanks RUclips, you know how to keep people on your platform.
“Don’t assume someone’s a sociopath based on a single trait or observation” we need dumb asses like you to go to school for longer periods of time bc the listening skills and retention of memory skills are clearly lacking
Guilty about something?
"is there someone in your life that you suspect might be a sociopath?"
Yeah, me.
I’m surprised you didn’t use Char Aznable for this one, but perfect video as always!
Thank you.
2:12 furina plushie!!?!?!?
Hey, I am undergoing therapies for depression and depression related other issues.
I have noticed that I am showing all these characteristics strongly, it's not on purpose, it's like a reflex.
Can someone help me figure it out? I am on a road to fixing myself. Thank you
Excellent work psych2go
My friends significant others, damn. I should have trusted my gut instead of self gaslighting.
I will use these lessons to better manipulate my enemies!
Using the tactics for a great cause.
@@Psych2go I will rule the world!
2:10 I may be a sociopath, but I will always genuinely love Furina
Thanks, now I get checked for sociopathy
Thank you, I have learned something important...
Wow so I'm a sociopath
Me tooo😅
@@Rapaidcooling congrats
Oh no i think i am too 😅
@@quanghuypham5098 wonderful😍
Yeah me too
I just noticed my behavior is getting closer and closer to that of a sociopath.
DEATH NOTE REFERENCE THUMBNAIL
Wait, people just automatically have empathy? The hell??
idk about the compliment thing. compliments feel like an obligation to respond back. i've been told before "you don't really take compliments well." they don't particularly feel good, but i will admit it feels good if it's on something i care about and feel proud of.
wowwwwwww i thought he was like a narcissist perhaps.. but all these traits is exactly what i experienced since last december to last week.. i always feel restless and like my body is in survival mode and i cry all the time thinking if something is wrong with me or i did something wrong.. he gives reassurance but his actions show otherwise.. he says one thing but his action is saying different things.. and he said he's not a good communicator but he seemed to be using his words fine.. it's his actions that doesn't aligned.. ofc im self reflecting if i accidentally do this to anybody, as far as i can think of, i think there hasn't been anyone im not genuinely want to be in connection with.. but at least with this guy,i actually noticed the lovebombing pretty soon like in two weeks.. so i didn't let myself get too attached.. glad i was aware bc even not feeling attached much, im still so miserable..cant imagine if i had let all my guards down
2:11 HELP MY BABY FURINA OMG😭😭
Ah yes my favorite emotion to use in social situations: Roblox Man Face
I think this is what really happened with me... I couldn't understand for months and may be years .. but now I do .
Can you please make a video about manipulative parents plzzzzzzzzzzz❤
Yep! We have one on toxic parentings. Did you get a chance to watch it?
2:54 Is that an among us figure chilling? 😂
is nobody going to mention the man face at 2:20?
Wow, so my ex was a sociopath. I knew it. 😅
What if someone feels emotions but only when it’s something that affects them? Like…not being sad for others but being sad for yourself if something bad happens to YOU?
Just trying to figure out what this person is. Or is that just narcissism?
it’s the absence of empathy
multiple conditions can come with that particular quality
@@lumin6464 well yes I’m saying in the context of this video though…would a sociopath not be a sociopath if they felt strong emotions but only towards themselves?
Rut row raggy.
I delved itoo deep into the rabbit hole again!
Now I think I'm potentially a sociopath
3/6
Things not on the list:
I feel emotions, often too much.
I don’t know how to play hot and cold and I wouldn’t like to play it.
Things on the list:
I am quite assertive when it comes to my own opinions but will mostly agree when I don’t think bad of the person’s own opinions even if they aren’t inherently in line with my own.
I’ve kept others talking as I thought I’m more the silent, listening type.
I love complimenting people and the way they react.
Hmmm
Interesting
If there is one reason why Sociopaths can manipulate you by letting you do all the talking is because everybody can get caught up in talking about themselves. It's not just a rude gesture to make the conversation always about you. It's also going to backfire if you're going to tell a sociopath all about who you are so they can have enough information on how to really manipulate you. You need to be careful not tell them too much and give them the chance to tell about themselves, or at the very least, leak out some hints that you can use to know if you're dealing with a sociopath.
sociopathy is a very broad term, a weird behavior learned through trauma so it can be literally anything, it not like a disease you can diagnose, it can be a dangerous criminal or a women who always cheats in relationships, or thief who never changes no matter how many chances you give - just translate it as "pathological social skills ". Basically anything that's not acceptable in society goes under sociopath label (at least that's how it started out). You know that toxic woman you think you can fix - sociopath.
Wow maybe i am one. it's just I cant trust anyone, better off to pretend.
Meh I wouldn't say I'm sociopath but 1:49 relatable.
Same 💀
Ha! My self esteem is way too low for tricks like these! I'll just assume everyone is making insincere compliments!
Me and my BPD thoughts: now, now, let's see if you're a sociopath.
nope compliments feel annoying
Sociopaths can't be controlled
Please talk about hypergamy.
Sociopaths are just people who are not the same as people who are not sociopaths.
Well said!😊
Am I...!?
I'm a sociopath I guess, I had a feeling it wasn't normal to do this. Other people have genuine emotions whereas I can only fake feel it. I wish I could feel the emotions like how others experience it and react genuinely like them, it gets tiring always being in a 'role'.
I do these unintentionally (except for no.3 I dont do that)
Patrick Bateman is a psychopath, though. And most of these signs are more of psychopaths than sociopaths, but that’s because even the term sociopath is better seen than being a psychopath, because of the whole serial killer monster evil stereotype of it. Not saying that these signs can’t determinate a sociopath, but, even the comments agree, that this type of sociopathy (is that a word?) isn’t really common and not talked about often, because most sociopaths aren’t like this, and care less about charming people, fitting in in a group and all that. Because psychopaths and sociopaths tend to have similarities (lack of genuine empathy and lack of regret and others ) and every case is unique, nowadays you’re more drawn to simply be diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder rather than specifically a sociopath or a psychopath
I relate to three of these traits, but I am also just rather afraid of my self and also playing the warm cold game with my self, as I don't get much attention, so keeping my self entertained
Damn, i thought i'm on Rufus Stories channel for a moment there
So what is genuine sociopathic charm?
I think a lot of people missed the point that sociopaths aren’t evil. They are humans like every other human. The stigma of these labels and past bad encounters with some troubled people has made people ig confused? Or bias idk can’t find the right word for it.
I definately do some of these, but I'm autistic and was caught with that very early.
I find NTs love talking about themselves so much that it's hard not to do the fourth thing a lot. Fake emotions are needed sometimes because a lot of people are really stupid about their real beliefs (like anti-vax people that are not due to legit conditions or allergies). Seriously, otherwise, I'd sometimes be way to tempted to just literally slap sense into people if I didn't fake some other emotion to hold down that thought.
I've noticed that in other videos from this channel, they usually talk about "you" having those symptoms, but when they are talking about more stigmatised mental disorders, such as narcissism or aspd, they say "they" may have these symptoms. It can be quite a harmful mindset to have
Hello, I never commented on a video before, I wanted to request a video about how this sort of personality could be treated please.
I've been isolating myself in a tremendous self reflection when I identified with something around de dark triad, and I'm trying to get professional help for my, recently acknowledged, low empathy.
I never noticed that the things I do for the others had more to do about my expectations that could benefit me insted of genuine interest for the other, like being loved, and I don't think I should be ashamed of me in such a negative way since I also tricked Myself with a false narrative
So... Im a sociopath?
I feel I act sociopathic, because I do... A lot of these, and it's strange. Probably result of just, being plainly antisocial, but yeah, it feels strange.
I'm a sociopath and i'm very observative... So... Why there is 6 signs instead of 5? That's annoying