"I am 92 years young" "Always a survivor, never a victim" "You can't forgive without anger" "I am selfish! I wat to live a good life, enjoy it. If I was sitll angry with the nazis, I would still be a prisioner" Wonderful woman, no doubt.
Thankyou. I lost my mother as a kid. She had squizofrenia and came from a poor family of alcoholics. She chose the dark path and had a horrible life. She was abusive and abandoned me, as she could not take care of no one. I asked for adoption at 11 and terrified of all I witnessed as a kid I did not understand the whole thing until now, 31 I’m starting to grieve properly. Not only my loss.. I lost my whole family.. but also her life.. grieving my mothers life.. and knowing every human is in a battle.. and we don’t know what is inside a humans soul , every action is a consequence of something deeper and isolated suffering in a persons soul. I wish I could do something to change the events of her life, my life, my sister life.. but I can not, and the pain is just pouring out through my eyes.. tears and tears.. I didn’t find yet a proper therapist with the required depth to support this level of pain. Everyone seems so scared of seeing another human crying in desolation.. but it’s the only way as you said. I guess only people who went through the darkest paths or witnessed the darkest in humans.. only those can understand… forgiveness, compassion.. I’m so sorry for anyone suffering. Myself included. I’m so thankful for your video and wisdom.. it really really helps.. thankyou so much 🤍
My son died 8 years ago at the age of 5. My sister, my only sibling and my best friend died the same week 4 years after my son. I can attest to what this lovely lady says. When you walk through the valley of the shadow of death, do not pretend you are not there. You are there. Feel it every step of the way. It will be pure suffering and sorrow. But keep walking. Keep walking because I promise you will slowly begin to see the rays of sunshine. They will be few and far between for a long time but keep going. One day you will realize that you are exiting the valley of the shadow of death. That is not to say you don’t miss and long for your loved ones. You do and you always will. But you will live again and you will be stronger than you could ever imagine. Bless all who are in the midst of deep grief. My heart goes out to you.
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I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter Annabel February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 17 years old son Clark and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again!
Finally someone that tells us that rage is good. Most tell us to be at peace, acceptance, flower power and move on.....finally someone validates that what I am going through is sane and not that I am a bad person for feeling it. Thank you
So true.Anger and rage has been villainized, when anger is a necessary primal human emotion that must be felt in order to transcend.First feel the anger, just dint stay in it forever.Then you must learn to let it go with forgiveness so you can move on.
I loved watching this and discovery her. I love that she is so validating of feelings.. I too get frustrated when people try and tell me to just move on, just look on the bright side.
I think rage is often a sensation that is justified. However, I think it is important to be aware of this rage and find a proper outlet, rather than let it take over. It's really difficult tho.
yes i have always been afraid of rage too and thought telling someone to express their rage and anger was completely nuts but hearing it from this woman has enabled me to process and view it from a different angle because she is calm and understanding so i trust her. i think i trust her very much so if she says that it is good then i will trust in her decision and that it isn't scary, it adds some understanding and compassion to it which i never got before.
“That little girl is never going to be the same. She’s going to be stronger.” Such hopeful words after losing my father unexpectedly yesterday and way before his time. Thank you so much for this video. I wish you health and happiness.
I am so sorry for your loss, as an internet stranger all i can do is offer my condolences. May he rest in paradise, and may you and your family heal. Best of luck, and wishes.
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“It’s okay to be angry. It’s okay to legitimize that anger. But be careful how long you hold onto it. You got to go through the anger and through the valley of the shadow of death, just don’t camp there or set up house there.”
What an amazing woman - the personification of strength and resilience. I can only wish to have half the perseverance this woman possesses. I will never the be same after my losses but I am and will be a survivor.
I met Dr Elger today. And it was a great honor to shake her hand. As I looked into her eyes, I could see an immense power but with a deep compassion and a tenderness that was palpable. I am forever grateful for this opportunity. I'll remember today for the rest of my life.
Social media, cancel culture, cyber bullies, school shootings, police brutality, racial oppression, global pandemic, to this cannot and should not ever compare to the depths of horror this woman and millions and millions endured within a single generation. Her words will never adequately sum the human beings who went through such a thing...there aren’t words I know that ever truly describe the wretchedness of what happened. I am so sorry to everyone who must survive this world, but I am thankful and blessed to have you with us.
"Never Forget the heroes of the 1915s to the 1940s" I am ever so blessed and grateful for the many men and women who sacrificed their lives for this present day. As such, I live my life full of gratitude, awareness, clarity and compassion. God bless Dr Edith Eger =) Much love and blessings
What an insensitive comment. Families of police brutality victims and coronavirus victims have every right to be angry at their government and to grieve
I cry everyday for my son.. I beat myself up that I didn’t say I LOVE YOU. it’s going be one year since his death. February 29 2020 . Someday I will see you again son🥲
@Chris Johnson words are important but it’s often actions that speak the loudest. Someone can say whatever they want but their behavior shows true feelings and intent. The quote is from Buddha and what he is saying is that you will always see how a person truly feels for you by the actions they take towards you as opposed to the words that may come from their mouth.
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
Lost my mom Nov 22’…double cancer…grieving, hurting and feeling orphaned. I’ve actually lost 5 people in force years, including both parents…😢 Love to all those who are experiencing any kind of pain or grief. ❤
Sending you love, and strength. I lost my mom 6 months ago, a couple of years ago my dad walked out on us - I know how painful it is. You are not alone ♥
My mother died a few days after I turned 29, and my dad disappeared without a trace before I was 30. I was very close with them. I’ve been stuck and lost for 22 years. You are helping me. I’m listening to your book, at the advice of a friend. Thank you. Thank you, you are a treasure.
@@englishguy1985 Hi, there and thanks. It’s titled ‘The Gift’. She also has another book 📖 called ‘The Choice’. They are both sold on the Amazon Kindle Bookstore site. 😊🙏🏾💜
Dr. Edith Eva Eger I am battling having OCD and a part of my OCD has to do with germs and diseases. I have chronic insomnia and because I have to work off and drive when I know it’s not safe to drive because I’ve had no sleep. As I listen to you I think somehow I will survive all of us too, because my situation is so much less than you went through.
This lady is quite unique! She is amazing and I have drawn so much from her experience. Dr Eger’s book “The Choice” is one of the most valuable books that I have read. It’s her biography. If it was made into a film, no one would believe it! Rock on Dr Eger, you are precious!
I came across Edith's book by chance, the same day my doctor sent me on sick leave for exhaustion. Within one year I lost my father, and almost two other family members. Both very close calls. I crashed. I've been bad reader most of my life. At the age of 33 I can barely recall reading a single book from start to end in the past 10 years. By chance I entered a book store and was drawn to the cover of Edith's book. It spoke to me, pulled me in, until I just read the last page. I think I cried every time I picked this book up. Though filled with tragedy it gave me hope, and often gave me the feeling of a warm embrace. I'm immensity thankful to Edith and everyone who made this book possible, and go Edith who keeps inspiring the world to embrace the process of grief, and to choose life.
Edith, reading The Choice has helped me tremendously. I’m walking through life now knowing if you could move through such atrocities, I can move through whatever feels hard or unjust in that moment. I’ll never forget you or your story. Thank you.
Thank you Dr Eger, you are such an inspiration. What a journey and the work that you are still doing, helping so many. I am a psychotherapist and currently reading your book the Choice ... it's amazing... I'm learning so much from you.... again, thank you! 🙏
She experienced as a young girl the worst that a human being can . . . seeing and knowing that your parents and friends are being led to their death (the gas chamber). This experience made her strong and a survivor but what a high price to pay. So sad. Love you and bless your heart.
I am reading Dr. Edith Eva Eger's book The Choice (I'm half-way through). I'd never heard of her before, and as I am recovering from COVID-19 and having lost my mother and two uncle to the same Coronavirus within two weeks I feel depressed. But reading Dr. Eger's words of wisdom and seeing her here for the first time, I feel like she's beaming the light at the end of the tunnel, for me and I'm sure for many others. Dr. Eger, you're the Angel Gabriel that Dr. Gabby was for you at the time you were recovering from Auschwitz, and after meeting the Angel of Death; J. Mengele. God Bless you Dr. Eger!
Everyone should read The Choice! I couldn't get it out of my head every day while reading it and for weeks after finishing. I was so moved by her courage and unwillingness to be defeated that it led me on my own healing journey. Many thanks Dr. Eger for sharing your story and being an incredible inspiration for healing!
You are an incredible inspiration so humbled to be able to sit and listen to your horrific story and how strong you've had to be to overcome adversity thank you for giving me and so many others strength today!!!
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
What an amazing lady!!! What a testimony. To go through all of that, and still inspire people.... Wow!!! I'm still trying to find my way after my son's suicide, it will be five years on November 9 I am still broken and shattered.
@@JesseDCS1 It's easier said than done. No words will be enough to tell a parent how to overcome the grief which you must have felt every moment in the past five years. May your son's soul rest in peace.
She would actually still empathize with you. You should read her memoir. Your experience is just as real to you and she’s also very open about her familial dysfunction, and loneliness, which all came before the war, and started in her own home with her family. Don’t compare your suffering to other’s. That’s not how to come out of it.
If you feel them then yes they are. She tells us to validate our feelings, to dare to feel them without judgement. They get bigger and disproportionate only when we dismiss, minimise or invalidate them. Her compassion is boundless and amazing, so go cry, scream and laugh and dare to feel honestly, and heal and move on ❤️
@@JesseDCS1 I can only send you huge hugs. I can’t imagine how you must feel, but I hope that you can find your space to cry and rage for as long and as loud as you need, and that somewhere in that you can find your love and compassion for yourself, your son and your family. I am so very sorry. ❤️
Edith you fill me with AWE. I'm so inspired since I read your book with your teachings and your compassionate view of the world and people, I hope more people are touched by your message as I was because it was truly inspiring and somehow resonated with me so much, the style of your writing I suppose made me feel like you were talking to me as the reader. I hope to be as wise as you one day :)
I heard this amazing woman at a church gathering many years ago, and her life story and how she dealt with the trials she went thru impressed me to the core.... never to let people or circumstances control you, as mostly we have no control over external circumstances or people’s actions, but the only thing we can control is our reaction to them. Dr Eddy is an inspiration and truly is a human being who has and is still making a difference in this world. God bless her!
I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter Annabel February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 17 years old son Clark and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again!
Beautiful strong smart lady. People go listen to her full talk on the Lewis howes (the school of life) amazing and inspiring talk, just go listen. 😊 Thankyou for sharing Dr sending you love and peace 😘🥰
I wrote two books. The first was everything I learned while I was going through my journey to become a Licensed Professional Counselor. The second one focused on the topic of Post Traumatic Growth. I was so happy when a colleague recently recommended this book. I listened on Audible. It's one of the best books I've ever read. I understand why it has 15,000 five-star reviews. Thank you Dr. Eger, for allowing your pain and your journey to be a beacon the whole world. You are a resilient and incredible women. God bless you.
Dear Dr. Eder, when I read your book I was extremely touched by your words full of kindness, hope and peace. Thank you very much for it. I will never forget you. Your power and your kindness are helpful for me and my life.
This woman is so brilliant. I haven't seen this video but saw her on Oprah. She truly turned her life around and it could have ended so differently. She has much to say and I honor her for her choosing to take something so horrific and choose a different path for herself.
Thank you. This is very important during this time, when our freedom is being threatened. People need to learn from history. May we all heal and become free and never allow such a heartbreaking experience to happen again.
Yeah real smart comparing this pandemic with Nazis. By the way both my beloved parents died from covid19 so I found her talk about death, loss and being a survivor really inspiring but not in the the same way that you did... Right now There's an hole in my heart, and I'm angry with people like you who diminishes the real danger of this virus and on doing so allow the spread of the vírus. Because of people like you my parents got sick and died and now I will never see my dear mom and dad again in my life. You disguss me. Really. But I have to absorb this lady life lessons and try to move forward. Not to move on. Because I will always miss my parents.
I struggle with the rage. What I could do and what I couldn't when it came to my son. He was severely disabled and I fought for him every minute until the end. I hope to forgive myself someday!
Sorry for your loss Amanda. Most people know how it is to take care of another person that can't take care of themselves. You can suffer through Caretaker fatigue, Negative emotions. Through the struggle you develop such a intimate relationship with the person you care for. You know them so well.. It really sucks to lose them. They are you life. Everything changes when you lose them. They are your world then you are left with nothing. You wonder if you made the right decisions for them. It hurts to see a decision you made cause someone you love so much pain. Making medical decisions for yourself is one thing but for a child you can hurt more then them. I want Thank you for the sacrifice you made in your life. It shows how much you loved your child. It was not easy but you did your best.
@@amandaadamson2254 When you are ready it may help you to share to someone close to you that you can trust. All we can do is our best. It doesn't always go as planned. I hope you can find peace in your heart. I just lost my 93 year old father last week. I was his caretaker. His last days he was bedridden unable to talk. It was so difficult but rewarding at the same time. I think about what I should have done and shouldn't have done. I gave it my all. I need to forgive myself also.
Dr Egger is an inspiration to help us turn a light in the tunnel of darkness, it wont take away the grief but it will teach you how to become stronger, and make the best of your life.
Thank you for this very personal talk and advice, Dr. Eger. I've already shared this with my mom, my bff, and my sister. Thank you for the gift of your knowledge. I feel much love and gratitude for you.
I just do not think that as I go through year 6 of grief, I’m getting better or getting stronger. But I want to get better and stronger. It’s just a long arduous journey that really wears you down.
Listening to her stirred up the emotions that I used to feel about myself, but just learned to let go. Her words are so reassuring, calming and comforting for a person feeling lost and don't know what to do. 😞
Edith you’re such an inspiration. Your book I bought, it’s compelling, your courage is admirable. Thank you for sharing your ‘tools’, I take it with me for life. Love Jo.
Thank you so much, dear Eva. You're a beautiful soul who is speaking at the right time and at the right place at the time as THIS! May God bless you always and keep you!
I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter Annabel February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 17 years old son Clark and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again!
This lady is so awesome and strong. That was a very very inspirational speech and one of the best I have ever heard. God bless Edith. My name is also Edith!
Thank you. This is exactly the message I need to hear right now. I’ve experienced tremendous loss recently and I was feeling sad, frustrated, hurt... and now anger is surfacing. I don’t like feeling these negative emotions. But I recognize it is essential for me to experience these emotions in order to get to a place of forgiveness and feeling better and stronger again. Thank you for sharing this message. 🙏💗🙏
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
I admire you so much Dr. Edith!! I am reading your first book. The Choice, and i am crying and happy for you!! You CHOSE to make your life what you wanted!!
Thank you. You inspire me to grieve, truly feel and have purpose and joy. I've read The Choice and The Gift. They will be books that are gifts to give to others.
Beautiful. I eventually always try to look for a silver lining no matter what the loss or disappointment was when I feel ready. The entire process helps to build our character and to develop more compassion for others. Recently I lost the ability to safely do many of my favourite things: dancing; riding, and hiking. I am able to walk a few miles now and dance a little but not like I used to due to osteoporosis. But I hope I will again but in the meantime I am now learning to do something different with my horse even if I cannot ride her I want to keep her.
Dr Edith, Just want to let you know every word you said touched the right chords in my mind. Your efforts to do good at this age as well for me has made a lot of difference. I wish I could meet you. Hold your hands and tell you that you are an angel. Everytime I feel my life is getting difficult, I think about what you have gone through, and in that difficult moment too I feel grateful to God. I wish you a good and easy life ahead. Lots of love.
"I am 92 years young"
"Always a survivor, never a victim"
"You can't forgive without anger"
"I am selfish! I wat to live a good life, enjoy it. If I was sitll angry with the nazis, I would still be a prisioner"
Wonderful woman, no doubt.
Thankyou. I lost my mother as a kid. She had squizofrenia and came from a poor family of alcoholics. She chose the dark path and had a horrible life. She was abusive and abandoned me, as she could not take care of no one. I asked for adoption at 11 and terrified of all I witnessed as a kid I did not understand the whole thing until now, 31 I’m starting to grieve properly. Not only my loss.. I lost my whole family.. but also her life.. grieving my mothers life.. and knowing every human is in a battle.. and we don’t know what is inside a humans soul , every action is a consequence of something deeper and isolated suffering in a persons soul. I wish I could do something to change the events of her life, my life, my sister life.. but I can not, and the pain is just pouring out through my eyes.. tears and tears.. I didn’t find yet a proper therapist with the required depth to support this level of pain. Everyone seems so scared of seeing another human crying in desolation.. but it’s the only way as you said. I guess only people who went through the darkest paths or witnessed the darkest in humans.. only those can understand… forgiveness, compassion.. I’m so sorry for anyone suffering. Myself included. I’m so thankful for your video and wisdom.. it really really helps.. thankyou so much 🤍
My son died 8 years ago at the age of 5. My sister, my only sibling and my best friend died the same week 4 years after my son. I can attest to what this lovely lady says. When you walk through the valley of the shadow of death, do not pretend you are not there. You are there. Feel it every step of the way. It will be pure suffering and sorrow. But keep walking. Keep walking because I promise you will slowly begin to see the rays of sunshine. They will be few and far between for a long time but keep going. One day you will realize that you are exiting the valley of the shadow of death. That is not to say you don’t miss and long for your loved ones. You do and you always will. But you will live again and you will be stronger than you could ever imagine. Bless all who are in the midst of deep grief. My heart goes out to you.
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this was beautiful. thank you. hope you're doing fine now
Beautiful thank you so much 🙏❤️
😘💞🙏 Thank you. Wish You lots of Light, Love and comfort.
so beautiful - truly beautiful....... you moved me to tears....... horribly wondrous..... bless you - thank you......
Thank you. The best 14 minutes we have spent on social media. " No one can take away from you what you put in your mind."
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Yes
“There’s no grieving without feeling. Give yourself time to feel the feelings.” Learning to feel.
I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter Annabel February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 17 years old son Clark and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again!
Finally someone that tells us that rage is good. Most tell us to be at peace, acceptance, flower power and move on.....finally someone validates that what I am going through is sane and not that I am a bad person for feeling it. Thank you
So true.Anger and rage has been villainized, when anger is a necessary primal human emotion that must be felt in order to transcend.First feel the anger, just dint stay in it forever.Then you must learn to let it go with forgiveness so you can move on.
I loved watching this and discovery her. I love that she is so validating of feelings.. I too get frustrated when people try and tell me to just move on, just look on the bright side.
I think rage is often a sensation that is justified. However, I think it is important to be aware of this rage and find a proper outlet, rather than let it take over. It's really difficult tho.
People often leave out that rage comes before forgiveness, and moving on.
yes i have always been afraid of rage too and thought telling someone to express their rage and anger was completely nuts but hearing it from this woman has enabled me to process and view it from a different angle because she is calm and understanding so i trust her. i think i trust her very much so if she says that it is good then i will trust in her decision and that it isn't scary, it adds some understanding and compassion to it which i never got before.
“That little girl is never going to be the same. She’s going to be stronger.” Such hopeful words after losing my father unexpectedly yesterday and way before his time. Thank you so much for this video. I wish you health and happiness.
I am so sorry for your loss, as an internet stranger all i can do is offer my condolences. May he rest in paradise, and may you and your family heal. Best of luck, and wishes.
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Seeing at how wonderful you are, i am sure he is ❤
Deepest condolences to you and your family.
From a stranger in Ireland.
Thank you very much. I lost my mom at the beginning of april from Covid. She was 55 and I am 23. I am taking your advice to the heart.
I lost my mom in August from Covid as well. She was 53 and I am 32. I understand how you feel. I’m praying for peace and joy for both of us
I lost my father to Covid this month-- he was 84 and I am 35: my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
I lost my wife to COVID in January. I feel for all of you. My psyche is one long scream.
I lost my mom when she was 55 and I was 25 but that was more than 30 years ago. I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a mother at any age is difficult. 💔
“It’s okay to be angry. It’s okay to legitimize that anger. But be careful how long you hold onto it. You got to go through the anger and through the valley of the shadow of death, just don’t camp there or set up house there.”
What an amazing woman - the personification of strength and resilience. I can only wish to have half the perseverance this woman possesses. I will never the be same after my losses but I am and will be a survivor.
Jesus Christ... The density of wisdom in this 15 minute speech is just too much. I am so glad I found this woman.
I met Dr Elger today. And it was a great honor to shake her hand. As I looked into her eyes, I could see an immense power but with a deep compassion and a tenderness that was palpable. I am forever grateful for this opportunity. I'll remember today for the rest of my life.
Social media, cancel culture, cyber bullies, school shootings, police brutality, racial oppression, global pandemic, to this cannot and should not ever compare to the depths of horror this woman and millions and millions endured within a single generation. Her words will never adequately sum the human beings who went through such a thing...there aren’t words I know that ever truly describe the wretchedness of what happened. I am so sorry to everyone who must survive this world, but I am thankful and blessed to have you with us.
"Never Forget the heroes of the 1915s to the 1940s" I am ever so blessed and grateful for the many men and women who sacrificed their lives for this present day.
As such, I live my life full of gratitude, awareness, clarity and compassion.
God bless Dr Edith Eger =)
Much love and blessings
She says in her book the choice that the pain people experience isnt any less than hers and not to diminish what we experience or what we feel.
If she, a true survivor understands the necessity of not grading the inhumanity a human being suffers-why don’t you?
What an insensitive comment. Families of police brutality victims and coronavirus victims have every right to be angry at their government and to grieve
This woman is a gift to humanity.
I cry everyday for my son.. I beat myself up that I didn’t say I LOVE YOU. it’s going be one year since his death. February 29 2020 . Someday I will see you again son🥲
@Chris Johnson Please remember what Edith says....love is what you do; not what you say.
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Say I love you out loud to him now, he hears you, he knows. You will meet again.
@Chris Johnson words are important but it’s often actions that speak the loudest. Someone can say whatever they want but their behavior shows true feelings and intent. The quote is from Buddha and what he is saying is that you will always see how a person truly feels for you by the actions they take towards you as opposed to the words that may come from their mouth.
I listened to her like she's my grandmother. Thank you. Thank you so much. You don't know how much i needed to hear that today. Thank you Ted talks.
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
Lost my mom Nov 22’…double cancer…grieving, hurting and feeling orphaned. I’ve actually lost 5 people in force years, including both parents…😢
Love to all those who are experiencing any kind of pain or grief. ❤
Sending you love, and strength.
I lost my mom 6 months ago, a couple of years ago my dad walked out on us - I know how painful it is. You are not alone ♥
You are the candle in the dark, Éva! Much-much Love from Hungary!
I totally agree with you, amazing Lady. After so many pain, She is so pure and wise. God Bless Her 🙏😍🌹
My mother died a few days after I turned 29, and my dad disappeared without a trace before I was 30. I was very close with them. I’ve been stuck and lost for 22 years. You are helping me. I’m listening to your book, at the advice of a friend. Thank you. Thank you, you are a treasure.
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Hope you are healing ❤
what comes OUT of your body doesnt hurt...what you keep in does. This WILL BE ON MY SAVED LIST❤💔💔💔💔❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Not why me...what now❤
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sooooooooo beautifully said..... xx
What an extraordinary woman! My doctor recommended that I read your book 📖 to help alleviate my depression. Thank you! 💜
It's an amazing book! Hope you're doing better each day! ❤️
What is the title of the book? Please and thank you 😊
@@englishguy1985 the choice is dr egers memoir of her time in auschwitz and the gift is her other book 😊
@@englishguy1985 Hi, there and thanks. It’s titled ‘The Gift’. She also has another book 📖 called ‘The Choice’. They are both sold on the Amazon Kindle Bookstore site. 😊🙏🏾💜
Ya I finished it
The Choice
Dr. Edith Eva Eger I am battling having OCD and a part of my OCD has to do with germs and diseases. I have chronic insomnia and because I have to work off and drive when I know it’s not safe to drive because I’ve had no sleep. As I listen to you I think somehow I will survive all of us too, because my situation is so much less than you went through.
Listening to Dr. Edger today has left me! I lost two brothers 3months apart.
Awesome speech!
This lady is quite unique! She is amazing and I have drawn so much from her experience. Dr Eger’s book “The Choice” is one of the most valuable books that I have read. It’s her biography. If it was made into a film, no one would believe it! Rock on Dr Eger, you are precious!
I came across Edith's book by chance, the same day my doctor sent me on sick leave for exhaustion. Within one year I lost my father, and almost two other family members. Both very close calls. I crashed. I've been bad reader most of my life. At the age of 33 I can barely recall reading a single book from start to end in the past 10 years. By chance I entered a book store and was drawn to the cover of Edith's book. It spoke to me, pulled me in, until I just read the last page. I think I cried every time I picked this book up. Though filled with tragedy it gave me hope, and often gave me the feeling of a warm embrace. I'm immensity thankful to Edith and everyone who made this book possible, and go Edith who keeps inspiring the world to embrace the process of grief, and to choose life.
Edith, reading The Choice has helped me tremendously. I’m walking through life now knowing if you could move through such atrocities, I can move through whatever feels hard or unjust in that moment. I’ll never forget you or your story. Thank you.
I needed to hear this wisdom after losing my son suddenly and unexpectedly. Such inspiration. Thank you ♥️🙏
Me too and this has been so helpful. ❤️
Thank you Dr Eger, you are such an inspiration. What a journey and the work that you are still doing, helping so many. I am a psychotherapist and currently reading your book the Choice ... it's amazing... I'm learning so much from you.... again, thank you! 🙏
She experienced as a young girl the worst that a human being can . . . seeing and knowing that your parents and friends are being led to their death (the gas chamber). This experience made her strong and a survivor but what a high price to pay. So sad. Love you and bless your heart.
God bless You.
Polish man from Ireland
This woman is a pure wisdom. Thank you Edith Eva!
I am reading Dr. Edith Eva Eger's book The Choice (I'm half-way through). I'd never heard of her before, and as I am recovering from COVID-19 and having lost my mother and two uncle to the same Coronavirus within two weeks I feel depressed. But reading Dr. Eger's words of wisdom and seeing her here for the first time, I feel like she's beaming the light at the end of the tunnel, for me and I'm sure for many others. Dr. Eger, you're the Angel Gabriel that Dr. Gabby was for you at the time you were recovering from Auschwitz, and after meeting the Angel of Death; J. Mengele. God Bless you Dr. Eger!
Thank you for this powerful talk. It covers your history and the present in a way I didn't think possible.
Thank you for your beautiful words of wisdom. I do believe suffering brings you strength.
Thank you Dr.Eger. I`ve just finished reading your book and it touched me deeply. Greetings from Argentina.
Everyone should read The Choice! I couldn't get it out of my head every day while reading it and for weeks after finishing. I was so moved by her courage and unwillingness to be defeated that it led me on my own healing journey. Many thanks Dr. Eger for sharing your story and being an incredible inspiration for healing!
And her next book the gift
Have you guys read the dancer of auschwitz? Wow! Its amazing it shook my grounds for good.
Hello danar
How are you doing today?
I am left speechless by this woman's words. I am moved.
Me 2.
You are an incredible inspiration so humbled to be able to sit and listen to your horrific story and how strong you've had to be to overcome adversity thank you for giving me and so many others strength today!!!
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
Amazing, what a talk. It shakes your inner being and forces you to think "are my problems that big ?"
What an amazing lady!!! What a testimony. To go through all of that, and still inspire people.... Wow!!!
I'm still trying to find my way after my son's suicide, it will be five years on November 9
I am still broken and shattered.
@@JesseDCS1 It's easier said than done. No words will be enough to tell a parent how to overcome the grief which you must have felt every moment in the past five years. May your son's soul rest in peace.
She would actually still empathize with you. You should read her memoir. Your experience is just as real to you and she’s also very open about her familial dysfunction, and loneliness, which all came before the war, and started in her own home with her family.
Don’t compare your suffering to other’s. That’s not how to come out of it.
If you feel them then yes they are. She tells us to validate our feelings, to dare to feel them without judgement. They get bigger and disproportionate only when we dismiss, minimise or invalidate them. Her compassion is boundless and amazing, so go cry, scream and laugh and dare to feel honestly, and heal and move on ❤️
@@JesseDCS1 I can only send you huge hugs. I can’t imagine how you must feel, but I hope that you can find your space to cry and rage for as long and as loud as you need, and that somewhere in that you can find your love and compassion for yourself, your son and your family. I am so very sorry. ❤️
Edith you fill me with AWE. I'm so inspired since I read your book with your teachings and your compassionate view of the world and people, I hope more people are touched by your message as I was because it was truly inspiring and somehow resonated with me so much, the style of your writing I suppose made me feel like you were talking to me as the reader. I hope to be as wise as you one day :)
I heard this amazing woman at a church gathering many years ago, and her life story and how she dealt with the trials she went thru impressed me to the core.... never to let people or circumstances control you, as mostly we have no control over external circumstances or people’s actions, but the only thing we can control is our reaction to them. Dr Eddy is an inspiration and truly is a human being who has and is still making a difference in this world. God bless her!
I am so very sorry 4 what they put u thru. GOD BLESS U ALWAYS😀
Bless you woman.
Dr Edger thank u so much I listen to this over and over and it is helping me.. be strong and of good courage tu.
A brilliant, resilient lady ❤️ what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger 👍
I adore you Edith
Dr. Eger has brought so much learning and peace to my life!
Bless you, dear lady.
Thanks for this opportunity to hear from you
Such a terrible experience that built a strong character. Keep up the good work!
Thank you! We are all survivours.
I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter Annabel February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 17 years old son Clark and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again!
Beautiful strong smart lady. People go listen to her full talk on the Lewis howes (the school of life) amazing and inspiring talk, just go listen. 😊
Thankyou for sharing Dr sending you love and peace 😘🥰
I wrote two books. The first was everything I learned while I was going through my journey to become a Licensed Professional Counselor. The second one focused on the topic of Post Traumatic Growth. I was so happy when a colleague recently recommended this book. I listened on Audible. It's one of the best books I've ever read. I understand why it has 15,000 five-star reviews. Thank you Dr. Eger, for allowing your pain and your journey to be a beacon the whole world. You are a resilient and incredible women. God bless you.
Hello luci
How are you doing today??
I'm so sorry for what you and your loved ones went through. God bless you for sharing your strength.
Thank you...
Thank you so much! You are truly inspiring! Total respect for you. God bless you!
Dear Dr. Eder, when I read your book I was extremely touched by your words full of kindness, hope and peace. Thank you very much for it. I will never forget you. Your power and your kindness are helpful for me and my life.
This woman is so brilliant. I haven't seen this video but saw her on Oprah. She truly turned her life around and it could have ended so differently. She has much to say and I honor her for her choosing to take something so horrific and choose a different path for herself.
I love this woman. She is a life saver.
The dancer of auschwitz book needs to be read by everybody. Its amazin how much a person can endure.
Thank you. This is very important during this time, when our freedom is being threatened. People need to learn from history. May we all heal and become free and never allow such a heartbreaking experience to happen again.
Well Said
Yeah real smart comparing this pandemic with Nazis. By the way both my beloved parents died from covid19 so I found her talk about death, loss and being a survivor really inspiring but not in the the same way that you did... Right now There's an hole in my heart, and I'm angry with people like you who diminishes the real danger of this virus and on doing so allow the spread of the vírus. Because of people like you my parents got sick and died and now I will never see my dear mom and dad again in my life. You disguss me. Really. But I have to absorb this lady life lessons and try to move forward. Not to move on. Because I will always miss my parents.
I struggle with the rage. What I could do and what I couldn't when it came to my son. He was severely disabled and I fought for him every minute until the end. I hope to forgive myself someday!
Sorry for your loss Amanda. Most people know how it is to take care of another person that can't take care of themselves. You can suffer through Caretaker fatigue, Negative emotions. Through the struggle you develop such a intimate relationship with the person you care for. You know them so well.. It really sucks to lose them. They are you life. Everything changes when you lose them. They are your world then you are left with nothing. You wonder if you made the right decisions for them. It hurts to see a decision you made cause someone you love so much pain. Making medical decisions for yourself is one thing but for a child you can hurt more then them. I want Thank you for the sacrifice you made in your life. It shows how much you loved your child. It was not easy but you did your best.
@@Handlegrip Thank you so much for your reply, few people understand what I went through. I only hope I will forgive myself someday.
@@amandaadamson2254 When you are ready it may help you to share to someone close to you that you can trust. All we can do is our best. It doesn't always go as planned. I hope you can find peace in your heart.
I just lost my 93 year old father last week. I was his caretaker. His last days he was bedridden unable to talk. It was so difficult but rewarding at the same time.
I think about what I should have done and shouldn't have done. I gave it my all.
I need to forgive myself also.
I'm reading her book, "The Choice" right now. I'm only in the foreword and introduction and I can't stop crying! 😭😭😭
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God bless her. Best advice so far.
Dr Egger is an inspiration to help us turn a light in the tunnel of darkness, it wont take away the grief but it will teach you how to become stronger, and make the best of your life.
Reading "The Choice" . What an incredibly eye opening book. Makes me so greatful for what I have, because of those that suffered.
What a sweet strong lady 😭
Thank you, Dr. Eger.
Thank you grandma ❤ your words and message cost an arm a leg.
What?
Thank you for this very personal talk and advice, Dr. Eger. I've already shared this with my mom, my bff, and my sister. Thank you for the gift of your knowledge. I feel much love and gratitude for you.
This is life changing , hardcore truth and hits on every point in the soul , mind and even today’s current events. This is a must watch for everyone
Happy birthday 93 years old
God bless you Dr Eger, awesome wisdom you shared with us... ❤
I just do not think that as I go through year 6 of grief, I’m getting better or getting stronger. But I want to get better and stronger. It’s just a long arduous journey that really wears you down.
Thank you so much for your strenght and advice❤Love from Janine, The Netherlands
I literally just finished reading the choice
Such a sad sad story
But thank you Dr Eger for sharing your story and strength❤️
Dr. Edith Eva Eger, thank you so much for sharing!
Listening to her stirred up the emotions that I used to feel about myself, but just learned to let go. Her words are so reassuring, calming and comforting for a person feeling lost and don't know what to do. 😞
Edith you’re such an inspiration. Your book I bought, it’s compelling, your courage is admirable. Thank you for sharing your ‘tools’, I take it with me for life. Love Jo.
Thank you, your my light in my darkness, 💋💝
Thank you so much, dear Eva. You're a beautiful soul who is speaking at the right time and at the right place at the time as THIS! May God bless you always and keep you!
Thank you! Your amazing.. God lead me to you! I am working on going through the shadow. Bless you
I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter Annabel February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 17 years old son Clark and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again!
I love you, Dr. Eger! You are so inspiring! ❤️
This lady is so awesome and strong. That was a very very inspirational speech and one of the best I have ever heard. God bless Edith. My name is also Edith!
You are Super ! ! ! May your Life be Better and You will have Good Health and Longevity . God bless You and your Family . ❤️
This lady is amazing and such a good role model. What a lovely lady. Thank you.
Yes Mam. Thank you for your courage to talk about.
You, Ma'am, are a Genius! Thank You for your words! GOD BLESS!🙏❤🇺🇸
Thank you. This is exactly the message I need to hear right now. I’ve experienced tremendous loss recently and I was feeling sad, frustrated, hurt... and now anger is surfacing. I don’t like feeling these negative emotions. But I recognize it is essential for me to experience these emotions in order to get to a place of forgiveness and feeling better and stronger again. Thank you for sharing this message. 🙏💗🙏
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
Hello katie
How are you doing today?
Thank you wonderful lady
God bless you. I’m so sorry this happened to you.
oh my God, this was fantastic. Thank you for your insights.
Just finished your book truly inspiring! Thank you so much for writing this book.
I admire you so much Dr. Edith!! I am reading your first book. The Choice, and i am crying and happy for you!! You CHOSE to make your life what you wanted!!
Thank you. You inspire me to grieve, truly feel and have purpose and joy. I've read The Choice and The Gift. They will be books that are gifts to give to others.
Beautiful. I eventually always try to look for a silver lining no matter what the loss or disappointment was when I feel ready. The entire process helps to build our character and to develop more compassion for others. Recently I lost the ability to safely do many of my favourite things: dancing; riding, and hiking. I am able to walk a few miles now and dance a little but not like I used to due to osteoporosis. But I hope I will again but in the meantime I am now learning to do something different with my horse even if I cannot ride her I want to keep her.
You will :)
Truly wonderful and SO HELPFUL.
May you be richly BLESSED....Carmel
Dr Edith, Just want to let you know every word you said touched the right chords in my mind. Your efforts to do good at this age as well for me has made a lot of difference. I wish I could meet you. Hold your hands and tell you that you are an angel. Everytime I feel my life is getting difficult, I think about what you have gone through, and in that difficult moment too I feel grateful to God. I wish you a good and easy life ahead. Lots of love.
Thank you Dr. Edith...
Thank you so much Edith.