I absolutely loved how informative and real you kept it. You were super clear and straight forward. I've always wanted this with a light weight barbell behind the head, hiding it away a bit. And after watching this i definitely have the courage to do it.
I've done over 20 piercings on my body over the last 20 years just did a top and bottom ladder 5 on each side , you can buy good piercing kits on Amazon, just be steril and clean real good before and after the piercings, wash with warm salt water few times a day keeping clean is the key , and it feels amazing especially when masterbating
I do not condone self piercings. This especially the case when it comes to genital piercings. There are a number of risks involved if you do not have a working knowledge of anatomy. Also, the jewelry in these piercing kits is often the lowest quality stuff on the market.
I've done it today, by myself at home, 0 blood, like not even a drop. I used a torch to find a spot with no blood vessels and it wasn't painful at all! The only thing i felt was friction from the needle going through. Wearing a pretty long (16mm) 1.9mm barbell, hope i'll find a shorter one...
YOU ROCK!!! LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!! Sorry bout the yelling hahaha! But you do rock and are VERY informative! I have given myself 4 ladder scrotum piercings. All from your information. And they have healed, are straight, and never got infected! I had the prop equipment is one reason professional needle 10g, slotted forceps, sterile gloves sterile everything. Thank you my friend! My girl loves them! OH , you mentioned silicone lubricant in this video. Yes I have a deep shaft reverse PA, have used silicone lube with great results and no negative effects!
Glad to help but understand I don't suggest piercing yourself. Either way I'm glad to her it turn out well. Also thank you for sharing your experience with silicone lubricant. It's on my research list and your input is helpful. Thank you for watching and sharing your experience.
Body Piercing & Tattooing of course! Yes I know about the self piercing my friend. I have done so for many years, but I do agree. With out tons of research like I have done, and also safety yes DO NOT pierce yourself!
I had this done back in 99 in front of alot of people at a tattoo convention. No one else would get it done so I had a f it moment. Man did it trip me out but really not that bad like he said in the video. I think other people watching reactions were better than my reaction 😅. I did not even keep it a year but was a fun conversation topic and reason to show people your junk at parties or festivals. Hahaha +1 life experience I don't regret.
Late to the party here, but it's absolutely a conversation piece. That was the only time people were like "wait I want to see!". It was always a little awkward, but fun. I just showed enough for them to see. There's a certain "shock factor" to it. It really didn't hurt. I did the piercing myself (proper equipment, sterilization, etc) but I don't think I captured enough skin so I pulled it after being worried about it tearing out (ouch).
I’m considering getting 3 under and 3 on top. Would you recommend letting the bottom 3 heal 6-8 weeks or the complete 6 months. Then get the top? Any thoughts or concerns on a piercing like this?
I've got a 3/4" dia. 00G. CBB frenum piercing that's about 15 years old and I love it, but occasionally the weight can get uncomfortable so I swap it out with a straight barbell for a couple of days.
Oh lovely I just looked it up cause I saw the title and was unfamiliar. Wish I would have waited until you mentioned the type of piercing. I suppose it's still good to know? 😂
Yes I've began to go through the genital piercings. Will be covering one a week through late September. Then will move on to different subject with the pros and cons. The Body Piercing Basics series will continue to be on general piercing topics.
Hey DaVo, another excellent video topic 👍🏽 I've been considering getting a frenum ladder piercing for quite awhile but haven't attempted to get it done due to the timing/healing process involved. (Already have an Apadravya. For a number of years now) I had to learn an unfortunately painful lesson during my healing period of my Apadravya....😖⚡⚡ basically was a bit too impatient and wanted to try it out. But lesson learned 😂👍🏽
Frenum piercings tend to be an easier heal. However, holding off and being gentle is best regardless of the piercing. Timing us always important when getting a new piercing or piercings. Often people don't consider lifestyle changes that can impact healing. It why I prefer to get pierced in the winter when I'm less active and stay home more often.
So I got one a month and some change ago. We had to go back and re-pierce it because it was off, that was 2 days ago and it’s off again.... idk really what to do. Give it up and just do a lorum or something or try for round three.
The swelling can sometimes make the piercing seem like it isn't straight. Also the body will often migrate the piercing to where it feels most comfortable. However the migration usually doesn't happen in a few days. Meaning your piercer maybe placing the piercing off. In some cases what looks straight when you are flaccid doesn't when you are erect.
Body Piercing & Tattooing ah ok makes sense. Any advice on what to do? Honestly I think ima gonna leave it but idk of lady’s are going to appreciate the crooked bar lol
Great videos! I keep reading that this piercing frequently migrates out and that it doesn’t last long. You didn’t list it as a con, so I’m curious your thoughts. Thanks
Went through a metal detector on the way to mexico. Junk area kept going off, finally I was "dude.... it could be my piercing." Got a disgusted look and a "just go" lmao. Guess they figured "let the mehicanõs deal with this freaks pierced pecker" lmao
Usually it shouldn't set it off. Either the metal detector was set up wrong or you might want to check the quality of your jewelry. Are you a 7 Seconds fan?
@@BodyPiercingTattooing word, I didnt care about the hassle, it's just standard barbell. So unless the standard ones u can buy are fake who knos? I kno theres no signs as to being off from standard surgical steel like every barbell u can buy. Am I a 7secs fan? I'm no hipster whom uses band names as a tag unless it's one I like, so punkers have to walk together to rawk together lol 🤘🤘🤘🎸🎸
@@xx7secondsxx usually low carbon shouldn't set off metal detectors. I been a fan since the 80s, to this day every time I see a bands name spray painted on a wall the lyrics, We will attack in red and black Cover the buildings, the walls and the street We will attack in red and black Graveyard graffiti this whole fucking city
No mention of the potential MIGRATION? And, what ga you'd suggest using for this piercing to sustain the Evotion Bijou cage's shifting and weight successfully for years? Finally, do they close up quickly if jewelry is taken out?
Since the jewelry is made of low carbon materials, it will not set off metal detectors that are calibrated to detect weapons. Since weapons are high carbon materials. I wear a lot of large jewelry and have never set one off. Of course my belt buckle and even the buttons on my Levi 501 jeans will but not my jewelry.
so... am back.. got a frenum today and it's not where I want it, is it ok to just remove the bar? let it heal and learn for the next time... cheers! by the way, didn't hurt, tattoo needle nip.
Just had three done. Walk in the park. My piercer is fantastic. All the advice up front. Great during. Lots of after care advice. Get it done guys. Wife loves it.
Why thank you and we don't plan on going anywhere unless we run out of topics. I'm glad that you are enjoying them. What did you think of the sound quality? I'm testing out a new set up and audio editing program. I'm not sure if the noise reduction was clean enough.
I'm guessing that you are asking if you could do in the same way a frenium is placed. Basically horizontal to the long side of the penis. I'm not sure it would heal and it seems like it might be more prone to rejection.
It's why I include it in my consultations. People usually seem more focused on how long they have to wait to have sex than what they need to protect the piercing from infection. I understand that if your are in a monogamous relationship suddenly having to use a condom can be a pain. However, if you are not, you should be using one anyway.
hi mate, you asked about silicone-based lubricant after a genital piercing: it is not recommended! when healing you MUST use a latex condom even for oral sex, silicone can break down the molecular structure of the condom and can allow microbes to infect the area, once a germ gets IN, its almost impossible to get it OUT without interrupting the natural healing process by causing an excess of white blood cells to the area. silicone as a molecule is also very small and has a tendency to GROUP together to create a conglomerate of oily water-proof gunk within the piercing itself, which can solidify and cause all sorts of nasty problems. put simple: KY jelly or a pure water-based lubricant is the ONLY go to :) thanks for the videos, love your content and dedication to the industry
It all comes down to anatomy. Usually the length is 1/2 - 3/4. After the piercing is healed, a slightly short post can be worn. The jewelry should be 12g or thicker.
I just had this piercing done, the 10g needle looked scary as fuck!.. but it was basically painless, no blood at all. I'm 20 mins post piercing and I can barely feel it, I wouldn't call what I can even feel pain.
If you go to my website, link in the description there are a few photos of the piercing. I'm trying to keep this within the RUclips policies. Though this video and its content is educational, it's a grey zone with visual content.
Body Piercing & Tattooing, Thanks for the links. I had hoped that drawings and diagrams would be within google standards. I do appreciate you continuing to make use of this medium, in spite of the exasperating limitations, even on badly needed educational content.
@@DrChaad you're welcome. The goal is creating a resource for those new to it and sharing my knowledge. There are, a few other good sources on here too. But often they are buried deep below the fashion based personal experience videos with the attractive 20 something vlogger. Not saying there is anything wrong with that but too often they have huge gaps in their knowledge. Basically, most of the videos we are putting up are much like the conversations we have every single day in the studio.
@@DrChaad yes its usually located on the bottom of the penis. In its natural state it directly below the urethra. When the person is circumcised, it has been detached or removed. Tho ugh sometimes it can be pounced under the skin in the middle of the triangle of the gland. Basically right where Prince Albert piercing are done. In fact, when they are pounced the PA is done to one side or other. Usually the side that the person is "dressed".
Are there any difference between the frenum and lorum piercings that I should know about? I know the lorum is more at the base/top of sack but I am just curious if healing, and everything is about the same?
It's debatable that a lorum has more in common with a scrotum piercing than a frenum. I have been considering doing a pros and con on the lorum and may do so this week. The biggest differences are that the lorum can heal well with a ring and is through a natural fold of skin. Unlike the frenum or the scrotum where the area is flat.
I went in to get one from a highly rated place last week. She took sbout a 30 second look, said it was too tight and that was that. Didnt take any time to explain jack. I disagree, and have a consultation with another parlor scheduled that has a high rating. Is that very common? And if it proves to be true, what alternatives would you suggest? I really dont think she is right though.
No that is not very common. The second parlor may be able to help you better. It is possible she may have less experience doing male genital piercings and didn't feel confident doing it. Thank you for watching!
@@BodyPiercingTattooing she seemed suprised when I told her that when I scheduled the second appointment. Thank you very much for all of the info. Im enjoying the info even on piercings I will never have.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing was able to get it done at the new place. The lady was great to deal with, almost no pain. Really appreciated your answer and information. Wish we weren't 1300 miles away.
I've got a unanswered questions about genital piercings that are healthy and Heald I have a Jacobs ladder and a dydoe piercing in the middle not on both sides is it possible to ware any types of different condoms
I got a question about frenum piercings that has started to make scar tissue on one side the exit hole. I asked this to the piercing studio who did it, too. The scar tissue is quite visible and it used to hurt at times. This happened after oral sex and intercourse for about a month ago. After that I bled on the inside. I changed to a longer bar and for a while there was discharge from it. Now there isn't anymore. The piercing feels and looks healthy (at least with the longer bar I got pierced with) (Note that I haven't been sexually active since I got problems). The color of the scar tissue is a little bit lighter than normal tissue. When I contacted them it wasn't bleeding so changing to a longer bar I did myself without asking. Their advice was to take up the jewelery a couple of days to hope that the scar tissue goes back, then take it back in. What's your opnion about this? Is there a chance the scar tissue will get smaller? In march I will have had this piercing for two years.
It sounds like it's the reaction to trauma. Either from the jewelry being too tight or sex without a condom. It sounds like the piercing may have torn. Has it gone away?
Hi. It's healthy now. It was probably trauma after sex. I was advised to stretch to 8 g (3,2 mm) and change to a shotter😢bar with a little bit of space from the hole on each side, so I did. It was really hard and painful but I almost never feel anything from it anymore. Granted, I haven't had sex, only pleased myself, but it could hurt even from that before.
New Subscriber here. I'm on the fence of getting a PA or the Frenum. This would be my first ever. My frenum goal would be the ring that goes over the top of the head and obviously through the pierced hole underneath. Is this wise? or should I just go curve barbell? I really want the PA but not sure if I can live with sitting to pee going forward
The piercing isnt too bad.... like ears or anything else, gauging.... omfgawd! I skip sizes always. Tried to go from a 12 to an 8! Just by pushing the barbell through.... (were unaware of tapers) The pain.... omfg. I almost blacked out, to be safe before I almost passed out I popped the original 12 in to avoid any closure just incase I passed out for a while. No bueno
If the piercing is a traditional one that is inside the foreskin behind the tendon and through the webbing, a ring or straight barbell is best. It all comes down to your anatomy and how tight the foreskin is. If it is outside of the foreskin, a standard straight barbell is best.
I had a pair of frenums done 6 weeks ago at 6G, and planning to size up to 4G soon. (No problems at all, other than the initial ouch). What is opinion of gauging to 2G?
I would give your body a great deal more time to produce tissue. At 6 weeks, I doubt the piercings are healed and have not seasoned enough to consider stretching. I think you may find the 2g jewelry is a bit heavy but give your body time and it shouldn't be an issue.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing Thanks for the reply, and I am not looking to size up to 4G for another month or more. Thanks for the advice, and I will see how the move up goes before considering any larger sizing. I am using titanium, so the weight is moderate for continuous wear. Currently, the healing is going very well, and I am very pleased with the dual frenum. I plan to perhaps reinstall the 6G bars at some time to continue a ladder. Regards
Yes the Titanium will be lighter but there will be a noticeable difference. Just listen to your body and give it time. Nothing is worse than damaging a healed piercing.
hello, i'm brazilian and i'm sorry if it's misspelled because i'm using google translator. i have had a frenum for about 1 week, i haven’t had sex using it, and honestly i'm scared, could someone with the same piercing take the doubt out of whether i should really be scared? Thank you very much in advance
6 months, I have never wore a rubber before, I once stuck them on a girlfriend’s toes, plus I don’t want to block the skeet, I won gold at the Winter Olympics in the skeet competition, it was cold out, but I sent that skeet flying.
Great video thank you for posting this. Im wanting to get a ladder done. But I have a question. Does this style of piercing have any affect when a man is flasid? Like does it tend to keep the penis in a bigger state or would it cause it to be smaller?
I think there is always a level of awkwardness. However, an experienced piercer knows how to put their clients at ease. For most people having a conversation about something other than the piercing helps. Talk music, movie, TV shows, cars, gadgets, etc... It seems strange but it helps a lot.
No there is no reason to wait that long. Most people are having sex within a week or two. You however will need to practice safe sex for six months and I would suggest waiting until it feels good. If there is discomfort, stop and rest and try something else.
Body Piercing & Tattooing Thank you so much for the response and information. I’ve read from multiple sources that this was not the case but then a piercer told me that and it really worried me.
I am a lesbian and neither have a penis or find it sexual, but omg I am surprised anyone would want this and just had to keep watching because I find piercings so interesting
When it comes to genital piercings, regardless of sex or sexual orientation, I is often a very personal motivation. The most common are increase sensation, personal sense of beauty, they just love piercings and/or a reclaiming or sign of ownership, of one's own body.
My ex had this (I think). Bottom towards the base. Just 1 large gauge one with a straight bar. What's the average size the pierce with?. Let me tell you what! That shit would rip the hell out of me I'm pretty sure he was a sadist. It was in the worst spot. Not fun.. Std check! Not only a sadist but apparently a cheater so I'm glad you preach safe sex. Good old clap👏👏. Now here's the cringe part, when he first got in done we lost the jewelry and instead of risking it closing HE PUT A NAIL IN IT... YEP! *shiver*
Yeah sounds like not the best partner or example of someone who is pierced. Usually a frenum or lowrenum is pierced at 12g or 10g. There shouldn't have been pain. Usually the jewelry is smooth and without sharp edges. Yes, I clearly state the risk to stds not only on here but during the consultation and aftercare.
I absolutely loved how informative and real you kept it. You were super clear and straight forward. I've always wanted this with a light weight barbell behind the head, hiding it away a bit. And after watching this i definitely have the courage to do it.
I happy to hear that you enjoyed and found the video helpful. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.
I am glad that I found this video. I am seriously considering this piercing. Thank you!
You're welcome and I'm glad to hear you found the video helpful.
DO IT!!!
I've done over 20 piercings on my body over the last 20 years just did a top and bottom ladder 5 on each side , you can buy good piercing kits on Amazon, just be steril and clean real good before and after the piercings, wash with warm salt water few times a day keeping clean is the key , and it feels amazing especially when masterbating
I do not condone self piercings. This especially the case when it comes to genital piercings. There are a number of risks involved if you do not have a working knowledge of anatomy.
Also, the jewelry in these piercing kits is often the lowest quality stuff on the market.
Good choice brother... i got it 2 weeks ago... youll get lots of compliments 😎
I love this video series. Had a PA and Lorum done and always follow the advice here. Getting a frenum soon.
Good luck with the frenum and let us know how it turns out.
"Though I am very sexy" I wish I had that kind of self confidence
I don't know if it's all self confidence as much as my general self love and my willingness to live forever or die trying.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing i love you mate, what an answer
I've done it today, by myself at home, 0 blood, like not even a drop. I used a torch to find a spot with no blood vessels and it wasn't painful at all! The only thing i felt was friction from the needle going through. Wearing a pretty long (16mm) 1.9mm barbell, hope i'll find a shorter one...
YOU ROCK!!! LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!! Sorry bout the yelling hahaha! But you do rock and are VERY informative! I have given myself 4 ladder scrotum piercings. All from your information. And they have healed, are straight, and never got infected! I had the prop equipment is one reason professional needle 10g, slotted forceps, sterile gloves sterile everything. Thank you my friend! My girl loves them! OH , you mentioned silicone lubricant in this video. Yes I have a deep shaft reverse PA, have used silicone lube with great results and no negative effects!
Glad to help but understand I don't suggest piercing yourself. Either way I'm glad to her it turn out well.
Also thank you for sharing your experience with silicone lubricant. It's on my research list and your input is helpful.
Thank you for watching and sharing your experience.
Body Piercing & Tattooing of course! Yes I know about the self piercing my friend. I have done so for many years, but I do agree. With out tons of research like I have done, and also safety yes DO NOT pierce yourself!
I went to get mine yesterday, it was a small pinch that was very quick. It was tender for about 30 minutes after that I couldn’t feel any pain.
Congratulations on your new piercing!!! Thank you for sharing your experience and watching.
I had this done back in 99 in front of alot of people at a tattoo convention. No one else would get it done so I had a f it moment. Man did it trip me out but really not that bad like he said in the video. I think other people watching reactions were better than my reaction 😅. I did not even keep it a year but was a fun conversation topic and reason to show people your junk at parties or festivals. Hahaha +1 life experience I don't regret.
Yup never as bad as you think or as it looks. Thank you for sharing your experience and watching.
Late to the party here, but it's absolutely a conversation piece. That was the only time people were like "wait I want to see!". It was always a little awkward, but fun. I just showed enough for them to see. There's a certain "shock factor" to it. It really didn't hurt.
I did the piercing myself (proper equipment, sterilization, etc) but I don't think I captured enough skin so I pulled it after being worried about it tearing out (ouch).
I’m considering getting 3 under and 3 on top. Would you recommend letting the bottom 3 heal 6-8 weeks or the complete 6 months. Then get the top? Any thoughts or concerns on a piercing like this?
I would give it about 13 weeks between. If the first set feel good at 8 weeks, there shouldn't be an issue with doing the second set.
I've got a 3/4" dia. 00G. CBB frenum piercing that's about 15 years old and I love it, but occasionally the weight can get uncomfortable so I swap it out with a straight barbell for a couple of days.
I've done the same with my PA. Putting in lighter jewelry off and on when it got uncomfortable.
I just got three done today I also have an apadravia. The frenum piercing was a walk in the park compared to an apadravia
Oh lovely I just looked it up cause I saw the title and was unfamiliar. Wish I would have waited until you mentioned the type of piercing. I suppose it's still good to know? 😂
Yes I've began to go through the genital piercings. Will be covering one a week through late September. Then will move on to different subject with the pros and cons. The Body Piercing Basics series will continue to be on general piercing topics.
Hey DaVo, another excellent video topic 👍🏽 I've been considering getting a frenum ladder piercing for quite awhile but haven't attempted to get it done due to the timing/healing process involved. (Already have an Apadravya. For a number of years now) I had to learn an unfortunately painful lesson during my healing period of my Apadravya....😖⚡⚡ basically was a bit too impatient and wanted to try it out. But lesson learned 😂👍🏽
Frenum piercings tend to be an easier heal. However, holding off and being gentle is best regardless of the piercing. Timing us always important when getting a new piercing or piercings. Often people don't consider lifestyle changes that can impact healing. It why I prefer to get pierced in the winter when I'm less active and stay home more often.
So I got one a month and some change ago. We had to go back and re-pierce it because it was off, that was 2 days ago and it’s off again.... idk really what to do. Give it up and just do a lorum or something or try for round three.
The swelling can sometimes make the piercing seem like it isn't straight. Also the body will often migrate the piercing to where it feels most comfortable. However the migration usually doesn't happen in a few days. Meaning your piercer maybe placing the piercing off. In some cases what looks straight when you are flaccid doesn't when you are erect.
Body Piercing & Tattooing ah ok makes sense. Any advice on what to do? Honestly I think ima gonna leave it but idk of lady’s are going to appreciate the crooked bar lol
To be honest, I don't think they will even notice.
Body Piercing & Tattooing hahaha ok thanks man.
You're welcome and thank you for watching.
Great videos! I keep reading that this piercing frequently migrates out and that it doesn’t last long. You didn’t list it as a con, so I’m curious your thoughts. Thanks
Went through a metal detector on the way to mexico. Junk area kept going off, finally I was "dude.... it could be my piercing." Got a disgusted look and a "just go" lmao. Guess they figured "let the mehicanõs deal with this freaks pierced pecker" lmao
Usually it shouldn't set it off. Either the metal detector was set up wrong or you might want to check the quality of your jewelry.
Are you a 7 Seconds fan?
@@BodyPiercingTattooing word, I didnt care about the hassle, it's just standard barbell. So unless the standard ones u can buy are fake who knos? I kno theres no signs as to being off from standard surgical steel like every barbell u can buy.
Am I a 7secs fan? I'm no hipster whom uses band names as a tag unless it's one I like, so punkers have to walk together to rawk together lol 🤘🤘🤘🎸🎸
@@xx7secondsxx usually low carbon shouldn't set off metal detectors.
I been a fan since the 80s, to this day every time I see a bands name spray painted on a wall the lyrics, We will attack in red and black
Cover the buildings, the walls and the street
We will attack in red and black
Graveyard graffiti this whole fucking city
😂😂
No mention of the potential MIGRATION? And, what ga you'd suggest using for this piercing to sustain the Evotion Bijou cage's shifting and weight successfully for years? Finally, do they close up quickly if jewelry is taken out?
What about metal detectors? What do you have to do at the airport?
Since the jewelry is made of low carbon materials, it will not set off metal detectors that are calibrated to detect weapons. Since weapons are high carbon materials. I wear a lot of large jewelry and have never set one off. Of course my belt buckle and even the buttons on my Levi 501 jeans will but not my jewelry.
I have a 6g Apadravya, really considering having this one done right underneath
so... am back.. got a frenum today and it's not where I want it, is it ok to just remove the bar? let it heal and learn for the next time... cheers! by the way, didn't hurt, tattoo needle nip.
Great video. I’m in on the 2nd November for 3 in one sitting. Thanks for the advice!!
Good luck with your piercings and let us know how it goes.
Just had three done. Walk in the park. My piercer is fantastic. All the advice up front. Great during. Lots of after care advice.
Get it done guys. Wife loves it.
Any particular information different with reguards to this piercing places on the top of the shaft compared to its more common placement on the bottom
The top tends to have more contact with clothing.
I just want to let you know that i really enjoy your videos keep up the good work.
Why thank you and we don't plan on going anywhere unless we run out of topics. I'm glad that you are enjoying them. What did you think of the sound quality? I'm testing out a new set up and audio editing program. I'm not sure if the noise reduction was clean enough.
I can hear it just fine .
Glad to hear. Been learning Adobe Audition and was worried that the audio might be a little too loud.
Your videos are priceless! Keep up the awesome work you do! Liked and subscribed!
Thank you, we plan an on continuing. Thank you for the like and hope enjoy all the content to come.
your videos are great! Very informative and entertaining.
I'm glad you are finding them both entertaining and educational. That's our goal here.
Is it possible to get a vertical foreskin piercing on the up side of the penitentiary?
I'm guessing that you are asking if you could do in the same way a frenium is placed. Basically horizontal to the long side of the penis. I'm not sure it would heal and it seems like it might be more prone to rejection.
When you said 6 months and having to use a condom that made the decision for me 🤣 liked the video though definitely informative
It's why I include it in my consultations. People usually seem more focused on how long they have to wait to have sex than what they need to protect the piercing from infection. I understand that if your are in a monogamous relationship suddenly having to use a condom can be a pain. However, if you are not, you should be using one anyway.
Just got it today and didn’t hurt at all
They tend to be me of the least painful male genital piercings. Congratulations and here's hoping for an easy heal.
hi mate, you asked about silicone-based lubricant after a genital piercing: it is not recommended! when healing you MUST use a latex condom even for oral sex, silicone can break down the molecular structure of the condom and can allow microbes to infect the area, once a germ gets IN, its almost impossible to get it OUT without interrupting the natural healing process by causing an excess of white blood cells to the area. silicone as a molecule is also very small and has a tendency to GROUP together to create a conglomerate of oily water-proof gunk within the piercing itself, which can solidify and cause all sorts of nasty problems. put simple: KY jelly or a pure water-based lubricant is the ONLY go to :) thanks for the videos, love your content and dedication to the industry
Thank you for verification of what I already suspected.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing not a problem, you asked, i answered :)
really enjoyed the information with a serious approach unlike most peoples reaction to the conversation
Thank you and I'm glad to hear that you are enjoying the videos and finding them helpful.
What’s the typical price I live in Kansas City and I’m thinking of getting this piercing done or maybe traveling to Iowa to get it done?
I charge $80 with basic jewelry. So roughly $70-100 is a good average depending on the jewelry.
Body Piercing & Tattooing thank you!
You are welcome and thank you for watching.
I know everyone is different but would u recommend a shorter stem barbell or longer?
The length depends on the anatomy and the length of the piercing. It should be slightly loose when erect. Straight barbells are the best option.
I am in Bullhead City, Arizona. Where do u recommend i go in this town?
I have no idea. Sorry don't know anyone there. Do you research, ask around and you should be able to find a skilled and experienced piercer.
What is the typical length of the piercing? I see a lot about the ga. but that's it.
It all comes down to anatomy. Usually the length is 1/2 - 3/4. After the piercing is healed, a slightly short post can be worn. The jewelry should be 12g or thicker.
I just had this piercing done, the 10g needle looked scary as fuck!.. but it was basically painless, no blood at all. I'm 20 mins post piercing and I can barely feel it, I wouldn't call what I can even feel pain.
Thank you for sharing your experience and watching.
May we ask the placement? Top, bottom, side?
Could you please show us a diagram of what and where this frenum or frenulum is ?
If you go to my website, link in the description there are a few photos of the piercing. I'm trying to keep this within the RUclips policies. Though this video and its content is educational, it's a grey zone with visual content.
Body Piercing & Tattooing,
Thanks for the links. I had hoped that drawings and diagrams would be within google standards. I do appreciate you continuing to make use of this medium, in spite of the exasperating limitations, even on badly needed educational content.
@@DrChaad you're welcome. The goal is creating a resource for those new to it and sharing my knowledge. There are, a few other good sources on here too. But often they are buried deep below the fashion based personal experience videos with the attractive 20 something vlogger. Not saying there is anything wrong with that but too often they have huge gaps in their knowledge.
Basically, most of the videos we are putting up are much like the conversations we have every single day in the studio.
Body Piercing & Tattooing,
From most web web sources, there are 2 or 3 frenula in the mouth, plus at least 1 on both male & female genitals.
@@DrChaad yes its usually located on the bottom of the penis. In its natural state it directly below the urethra. When the person is circumcised, it has been detached or removed. Tho ugh sometimes it can be pounced under the skin in the middle of the triangle of the gland. Basically right where Prince Albert piercing are done. In fact, when they are pounced the PA is done to one side or other. Usually the side that the person is "dressed".
Are there any difference between the frenum and lorum piercings that I should know about? I know the lorum is more at the base/top of sack but I am just curious if healing, and everything is about the same?
It's debatable that a lorum has more in common with a scrotum piercing than a frenum. I have been considering doing a pros and con on the lorum and may do so this week.
The biggest differences are that the lorum can heal well with a ring and is through a natural fold of skin. Unlike the frenum or the scrotum where the area is flat.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing thank you for answering! If you make a vid I will definitly watch
I'll add it to the list. I
Welp. I was gonna get my frenum done. Then he said no bodily exchange for 6 months. 😢.
That doesn't mean no sex, it means sex with a latex barrier only.
I went in to get one from a highly rated place last week. She took sbout a 30 second look, said it was too tight and that was that. Didnt take any time to explain jack. I disagree, and have a consultation with another parlor scheduled that has a high rating. Is that very common? And if it proves to be true, what alternatives would you suggest? I really dont think she is right though.
No that is not very common. The second parlor may be able to help you better. It is possible she may have less experience doing male genital piercings and didn't feel confident doing it. Thank you for watching!
@@BodyPiercingTattooing she seemed suprised when I told her that when I scheduled the second appointment. Thank you very much for all of the info. Im enjoying the info even on piercings I will never have.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing was able to get it done at the new place. The lady was great to deal with, almost no pain.
Really appreciated your answer and information. Wish we weren't 1300 miles away.
I'm happy to hear that it was helpful.
Congratulations on your new piercing. Hopefully you have found someone closer.
Does this piercing grow out? I read somewhere that it only lasts 1 year??
You may see some migration but they rarely reject completely. The key is having the correct jewelry and placement.
Awesome video...very informative!!!
Thanks and happy to share the knowledge.
Does size really matter with these type of piercings? Aswell with girth
Dude this is a great video
Thank you and I'm glad that you found the video informative.
I've got a unanswered questions about genital piercings that are healthy and Heald I have a Jacobs ladder and a dydoe piercing in the middle not on both sides is it possible to ware any types of different condoms
I got a question about frenum piercings that has started to make scar tissue on one side the exit hole. I asked this to the piercing studio who did it, too. The scar tissue is quite visible and it used to hurt at times. This happened after oral sex and intercourse for about a month ago. After that I bled on the inside. I changed to a longer bar and for a while there was discharge from it. Now there isn't anymore. The piercing feels and looks healthy (at least with the longer bar I got pierced with) (Note that I haven't been sexually active since I got problems). The color of the scar tissue is a little bit lighter than normal tissue.
When I contacted them it wasn't bleeding so changing to a longer bar I did myself without asking. Their advice was to take up the jewelery a couple of days to hope that the scar tissue goes back, then take it back in. What's your opnion about this? Is there a chance the scar tissue will get smaller? In march I will have had this piercing for two years.
It sounds like it's the reaction to trauma. Either from the jewelry being too tight or sex without a condom. It sounds like the piercing may have torn. Has it gone away?
Hi. It's healthy now. It was probably trauma after sex. I was advised to stretch to 8 g (3,2 mm) and change to a shotter😢bar with a little bit of space from the hole on each side, so I did. It was really hard and painful but I almost never feel anything from it anymore. Granted, I haven't had sex, only pleased myself, but it could hurt even from that before.
Very good video. Great job.
Thank you and I'm glad you enjoyed the video.
:-)
New Subscriber here. I'm on the fence of getting a PA or the Frenum. This would be my first ever. My frenum goal would be the ring that goes over the top of the head and obviously through the pierced hole underneath. Is this wise? or should I just go curve barbell? I really want the PA but not sure if I can live with sitting to pee going forward
The piercing isnt too bad.... like ears or anything else, gauging.... omfgawd! I skip sizes always. Tried to go from a 12 to an 8! Just by pushing the barbell through.... (were unaware of tapers)
The pain.... omfg. I almost blacked out, to be safe before I almost passed out I popped the original 12 in to avoid any closure just incase I passed out for a while. No bueno
Yes no skipping and give it plenty of time between stretchings. Tapers do make it easier as long as you don't push it.
Do it hurt if so how long.?
Not nearly as much as you would think and usually only a few seconds. After that it will be tender to the touch for up to around 5 days or longer.
Curved short barbells after healed piercings are best, atleast what I prefer!🤘🤘🤘🎸🎸🎸
It varies. Some people don't like the flip flop.
What about going to a swimming pool after the complete healing process of course
It is completely fine because the piercing is no longer an open wound.
Would you recommend straight or curved barbell for uncircumcised? Thanks
If the piercing is a traditional one that is inside the foreskin behind the tendon and through the webbing, a ring or straight barbell is best. It all comes down to your anatomy and how tight the foreskin is.
If it is outside of the foreskin, a standard straight barbell is best.
I had a pair of frenums done 6 weeks ago at 6G, and planning to size up to 4G soon. (No problems at all, other than the initial ouch).
What is opinion of gauging to 2G?
I would give your body a great deal more time to produce tissue. At 6 weeks, I doubt the piercings are healed and have not seasoned enough to consider stretching. I think you may find the 2g jewelry is a bit heavy but give your body time and it shouldn't be an issue.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing Thanks for the reply, and I am not looking to size up to 4G for another month or more.
Thanks for the advice, and I will see how the move up goes before considering any larger sizing. I am using titanium, so the weight is moderate for continuous wear.
Currently, the healing is going very well, and I am very pleased with the dual frenum. I plan to perhaps reinstall the 6G bars at some time to continue a ladder.
Regards
Yes the Titanium will be lighter but there will be a noticeable difference. Just listen to your body and give it time. Nothing is worse than damaging a healed piercing.
hello, i'm brazilian and i'm sorry if it's misspelled because i'm using google translator.
i have had a frenum for about 1 week, i haven’t had sex using it, and honestly i'm scared, could someone with the same piercing take the doubt out of whether i should really be scared? Thank you very much in advance
If the piercing was done correctly and you use a condom, you should be fine.
6 months, I have never wore a rubber before, I once stuck them on a girlfriend’s toes, plus I don’t want to block the skeet, I won gold at the Winter Olympics in the skeet competition, it was cold out, but I sent that skeet flying.
So maybe I should just buy a collar for it, I wouldn’t want it to get infected n fall off, I would be extremely disappointed lol
Well it comes down to this, do you want an easy heal or would you rather get an infection?
Take care of your piercing and it will be with you for tte rest of your life. The healing period is so short compared with how long you will enjoy it.
Would this piercing be affected if you get in a random ass street fight ?
Pretty much any piercing could be effected by that. I would suggest avoiding them.
Great video thank you for posting this. Im wanting to get a ladder done. But I have a question. Does this style of piercing have any affect when a man is flasid? Like does it tend to keep the penis in a bigger state or would it cause it to be smaller?
Everything works the same as it did before. The jewelry will be loose fitting when flaccid but other than that there will be no change.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing awesome thank you for the timely reply
You are welcome and thank you for watching.
How do u make sure it’s not awkward between you and your piercer?
I think there is always a level of awkwardness. However, an experienced piercer knows how to put their clients at ease. For most people having a conversation about something other than the piercing helps. Talk music, movie, TV shows, cars, gadgets, etc... It seems strange but it helps a lot.
7 months late, but I find having something of a relationship with the piercer helps. I have been pierced 12 times and he's done 10 of those.
I was told by a piercer that with this piercing you can’t have sex for 4 months. Is this true? Thank you for any help.
No there is no reason to wait that long. Most people are having sex within a week or two. You however will need to practice safe sex for six months and I would suggest waiting until it feels good. If there is discomfort, stop and rest and try something else.
Body Piercing & Tattooing Thank you so much for the response and information. I’ve read from multiple sources that this was not the case but then a piercer told me that and it really worried me.
Glad to help. Of course you should still practice safe sex for six months.
Does this piercing keep the foreskin retracted?
No with someone who is not circumcised the piercing is done with a ring or smaller jewelry that set inside the foreskin.
How can I keep the jewlry in? I have a 4mm barbell with 10mm balls but it still falls out.
Would 12mm balls help with the?
I would suggest larger balls or going to thicker jewelry.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing how will a thicker barbell help?
I'm btw uncircumsized
The larger jewelry will increase the size of the balls and the jewelry will fit tighter.
I am a lesbian and neither have a penis or find it sexual, but omg I am surprised anyone would want this and just had to keep watching because I find piercings so interesting
When it comes to genital piercings, regardless of sex or sexual orientation, I is often a very personal motivation. The most common are increase sensation, personal sense of beauty, they just love piercings and/or a reclaiming or sign of ownership, of one's own body.
Great video! Question: when piercing is done does the penis have to be erect?
My ex had this (I think). Bottom towards the base. Just 1 large gauge one with a straight bar. What's the average size the pierce with?. Let me tell you what! That shit would rip the hell out of me I'm pretty sure he was a sadist. It was in the worst spot. Not fun.. Std check! Not only a sadist but apparently a cheater so I'm glad you preach safe sex. Good old clap👏👏. Now here's the cringe part, when he first got in done we lost the jewelry and instead of risking it closing HE PUT A NAIL IN IT... YEP! *shiver*
Yeah sounds like not the best partner or example of someone who is pierced.
Usually a frenum or lowrenum is pierced at 12g or 10g.
There shouldn't have been pain. Usually the jewelry is smooth and without sharp edges.
Yes, I clearly state the risk to stds not only on here but during the consultation and aftercare.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing He is an awful human. It was at least a 10g. But the balls would snag for lack of better words.
@@got2surf90 yeah that sounds like it wasn't size correctly or it was lower grade jewelry.
@@BodyPiercingTattooing I'm thinking sized then. It didn't extend passed his width though