Rejection for Your Protection: Being Stood Up May Actually Be Good for You!

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
  • Being stood up happens in the dating game, but sometimes it can end up being for the best. We discuss when we’ve been flaked on and what we learned from it. Plus, would you attend a wedding if you didn’t believe the marriage would last?
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Комментарии • 46

  • @phuntsokd
    @phuntsokd 2 года назад +38

    Long story short, I got stood up on NEW YEAR EVE. We were dating. He said he will pick me up at 10pm so we could spend count down together. Guess what? Every 30 mins he said he is on his way.. but he never showed up. It broke my heart! I was all ready to go.. I felt so embarrassed in front of my friends. I will never forget that.

    • @meaganbianca2978
      @meaganbianca2978 2 года назад +9

      That isn’t just a average getting stood up story. That was extremely mean! Good thing though you started the new year without him because he sounds evil.

  • @acarringman9076
    @acarringman9076 2 года назад +23

    Jeanie is so reflective and well-spoken

  • @The_Avery
    @The_Avery 2 года назад +38

    I got stood up in a very high-end restaurant, I looked bomb AF ngl!!! He never showed up and long story short I hooked up with this gorgeous server and he made the night a lot better 😝🤣

    • @michellearianna4403
      @michellearianna4403 2 года назад +5

      Girl!! 🤣😂

    • @kattodoggo3868
      @kattodoggo3868 2 года назад +4

      Girl !!!!!! 🤣😂

    • @The_Avery
      @The_Avery 2 года назад +3

      @@kattodoggo3868 What can I say he got a tip and so did I 😜😂😂

  • @damfad6028
    @damfad6028 2 года назад +31

    I miss tam tam

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 года назад +18

    Loni is right when saying how a relationship starts is a big tell. Cant build a strong house on a weak foundation.
    Tamara story of getting stood up was so cute. Any dude who would stand Tam up is an idiot. It’s crazy to think someone as beautiful as her goes through the same as us average women.

  • @ismahanm1118
    @ismahanm1118 2 года назад +25

    lol I feel Loni but I wanted to hear the rest of what Jeannie was going to say.

  • @kwonhoeshi79
    @kwonhoeshi79 2 года назад +33

    Miss this dynamic

  • @chimkasii
    @chimkasii 2 года назад +9

    I miss Loni and Tamera's Friendship 🥺

  • @tiarawashington5952
    @tiarawashington5952 2 года назад +17

    It's not about supporting the Marriage its about supporting the FRIEND! If it works or not that's on them. 👰🤵

  • @nivyrivera
    @nivyrivera 2 года назад +13

    Why go to the wedding if you don’t approve. 😐

    • @savanahcurrie9176
      @savanahcurrie9176 2 года назад +5

      To support your friend 🤷🏽‍♀️ even if i don’t like my friends man let’s say and i don’t think necessarily they should be getting married I’m still going to go and support my friend because it’s what she wants to do & it’s her life, i love her regardless.

    • @rebeccat6825
      @rebeccat6825 2 года назад +2

      The food

  • @zearlmanningjr1864
    @zearlmanningjr1864 2 года назад +2

    "Aww-HELL-Nah ..I wanna refund"
    -Jenie's mood after Adrienne's wedding story was Hilarious

  • @celebritypress9958
    @celebritypress9958 2 года назад +5

    I'm the 1st one here❤💃💃

  • @courtneybrown1162
    @courtneybrown1162 Год назад +1

    He broke my heart. He contacted me on a dating site, began talking to me. All of a sudden, went ghost, then told me he wasn’t ready after I opened my heart to him, and almost fell in love. Hurts.

  • @dianeakaliza961
    @dianeakaliza961 2 года назад +3

    Tamera will forever be my favorite. But of course I also love you ladies.

  • @iamporshalove
    @iamporshalove 2 года назад +5

    Tam looks stunning!

  • @tisch9233
    @tisch9233 2 года назад +19

    I Wisched they would Bring Up the old questions and discuss Them

    • @amandachatindo3954
      @amandachatindo3954 2 года назад +4

      Right!A segment where they revisit these topics and they checj if they still feel the same on the respective topics.

    • @lesleyaguila5322
      @lesleyaguila5322 2 года назад

      How you can tag them so they can see this great idea????

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 2 года назад +1

    That’s true, some women just want to be married just to be married.. they want the ring, wedding, children so bad and to be chosen, and they can’t see straight… and it can be some bum. So focused on the wedding and not the marriage. Women make such big deals over the wedding and marriage thing.. why I don’t get it! I don’t think you should be tied to some other person for the rest of your life I mean.
    I got stood up, but the guy turned out to be married so hallelujah, I dodge a bullet. My ex stood me up for an event and he didn’t pick up the phone. Long story short.. he had another woman. Everything fell apart in his face. I’m just not dating, well I’m not dating specific men. Men play too many games they just do.
    Tamara is so innocent ☺️ awweeeee. Cancers and their discernment and being psychic. Men take advantage of sweet girls.

  • @TheBritfashionista
    @TheBritfashionista 2 года назад +4

    Yea Im sorry thats one thing I wont ever get why people are so much in a rush to get married. Like I dont understand. You have contractual siging an agreement with this person. To me its like taking out a loan that you'll have to keep paying until it goes away. Like no, Im good on waiting until the right person comes along.

    • @柔安-q4i
      @柔安-q4i 2 года назад

      Yessss

    • @zearlmanningjr1864
      @zearlmanningjr1864 2 года назад

      What you're saying is true ..its the "until it goes away." that is hilarious

  • @dinajones2761
    @dinajones2761 2 года назад +15

    Lonnie and her made u stories 🙄

    • @ariaxrose1
      @ariaxrose1 2 года назад +4

      I thought so with the last story about someone nit holding their peace 😂 strange how she only remembered it right at the end

  • @adelitenyamhanga7823
    @adelitenyamhanga7823 2 года назад +6

    This is why they were not invited to Jeanie's wedding

    • @zaraaaaaa4733
      @zaraaaaaa4733 2 года назад +1

      Or it was on corona times

    • @zearlmanningjr1864
      @zearlmanningjr1864 2 года назад

      Audience all together (...Ohhhhhhhh..murmur amongst yourselves...) lol

  • @annahhouanche2165
    @annahhouanche2165 2 года назад +5

    Woowwww second one here 💗💔🥰

  • @dilveensingh2806
    @dilveensingh2806 2 года назад +1

    Thank you So Much

  • @iamjayfill6992
    @iamjayfill6992 2 года назад +4

    Y'all know this is old episodes

  • @dreanicole4374
    @dreanicole4374 2 года назад +1

    LONI FACE IS BEAT ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @aminatakamara1727
    @aminatakamara1727 2 года назад +3

    This is an old episode

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 2 года назад +1

    Loni.i can't support ur out town country place wedding

  • @lubnan08
    @lubnan08 2 года назад

    I agree with Loni this time. But sometimes it is complicated not to attend if it's family.

  • @mio8008
    @mio8008 2 года назад

    Oops I stood someone up - that's the best thing that happened to me in that relationship.

  • @hanaarizk9336
    @hanaarizk9336 2 года назад +7

    I miss Garcelle.

  • @GyrlBlaque
    @GyrlBlaque 2 года назад

    Grandma Dress

  • @8luvbug
    @8luvbug 2 года назад

    5:15