28 BROWN AND UNMARRIED
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- Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2019
- #browngirlproblems #unmarried #almost30
For the brown girls out there close to 30 who are still unmarried - you're not alone.
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My parents all my life: NO BOYFRIEND ALLOWED
When I turned 25: where's your husband?
Hahahaha right xD
😂😂😂😂
YES! All my life: No talking to boys When I turned twenty one: you are closed minded if you arent into arranged marriages... ummm no bye, peace out
So true ! I regret not using my college days to meet someone. I was like: "boys? Um no. I'm not talking to them." 😒😒😒😒😒
I’m not Muslim and my parents went from zero to Where are our grandchildren? They don’t even care if I’m married.
I once had a guy say to me " ill marry you although you are 25 and I can find much younger girls" lool
I'm glad I showed him the EXIT door 😂
LOSER!
Ugh. There were some proposals that came for me that made my skin crawl. One guy came for a visit, towards the end i came and sat in the room with him to say salaam/small talk (parents were in the room too) and as he was getting up to leave he looked me up and down slowly, and said "she will do" (in English, and again in Urdu) ... I was a bit taken aback. It was gross. Kind of a good thing though bc that comment/attitude sealed his fate in my parents eyes as being a non-contender.
Sometimes it's good to get a glimpse of what the bad options are!
@@AliceOfWonders OMGG yikes
noor un nisa moin such an idiot!
But 25 is still very young, I don’t understand are they all pedos?
noor un nisa moin Good for you!
I feel like brown girls have a very negative outlook on marriage in general. We are surrounded by unhealthy marriages, were the woman almost always seem to get the short end of the stick. Every time I look at the marriages of my relatives or even my own mother, I get reminded that I would rather die alone, than live a life like that.
Take from an irishwoman all marriages are like that, women put up with alot here and the catholic church pushed for us to be married, my mum was married at 17 l wont do it, l wont submit my soul to marriage to be a slave
Yes better to die alone and happy than married and miserable .. that’s my slogan haha
Madeleine Ramsey Me too I would rather die alone than getting married. I don’t find anything about marriage. Knowing that you would be the only one taking care of the house, the kids and cleaning while the husband is just scratching is butt, expecting you to take care of him (in and out of bed). I do think it’s sad to die alone but it’s still better than going through all of this. It’s no surprise that most divorces are initiated by women.
THANK YOU!! Oh my god I could not stand to ever get an arranged marriage. Almost all the women in my family got married as a teenager, some as old as 14. I’ve promised myself to never end up like any of them, because a lot of them were too meek and shy to speak out against their husbands who are usually hot heads. I’d rather die than end up like them. If I were to get married, I would wait until I’m 30.
yeah, i've seen what pushing people who dont know each other or even like ezch other can do... escpecially to the woman who is almost always the one who has to endure so many things because divorce would be a disgrace for her,... i'll also prefer to die alone that to live in hell with someone i dont want to
As a 27 year old Nigerian girl, I just want to say, stay strong comrade.
i feel you, my sister
@Supreme Snek Yea, comrade, like fellow equal human being stuck in a system that has to go through similar bullshit in life.
@Supreme Snek Jesus - the chuds just literally appear anywhere now, don't they? LOL
Same
Girl I'm there with you. I'm 29 this year and most of my friends are married with kids. I dont get any pressure from my family and I'm grateful for that but there's pressure from every one else (including myself). As a Nigerian, 29 is the new 37
Sometimes I think aunties pressure us young women to get married so that we can be as miserable as they are in their own marriages.
Thank you. I was about to say the same thing. I saw them in an unhappy marriages and decided to stay away. Then, they dont understand why i dont want to get married. Not to be rude, but sometimes i feel like answering back that i just dont want to turn into any of them when i get older.
Miss Fadillah
Lmao same !
Fatima
Definitely true! Most of these aunties are miserable and want the same for us
Honestly.
😫😫
When i read “ brown and unmarried” i said ohhh this poor girl must be tormented by the aunties lol
Haha yes. Brown aunties are more curious about knowing who the father of our children would be than us
just ignore 'em, ladies.
My twin used the same trick and now she's happily married away from all that aunty-attack!
You shud marry
Shahad Moeen 😂... 😭😭😭
The desi auntie torment is so real. Even for us “half” brown girls. Maybe twice as bad. If one more auntie suggests Shadi.com I’m going to 🤯
@@LeftCoastCommons Then marry. Its good for you
I’m dead “jaan” or “John”
Mom to high school me: No girlfriend. Don't get some girl pregnant.
Mom to me now: Where are my grandchildren.
These stories isn’t specific to brown people. These stories apply to majority of Muslims.
We should give our parents some break. Imagine what they went through. Some were just pushed into marrying at 17!...When I turned 20 I was told your grandma already had 2 kids by now. Of course it was joke...and my parents didn't push marriage on me. But imagine the lives of our mothers and grandmothers. I think we just have to tackle our parents sensitively, and our parents need to do that with us.
Hanunie Hanujie I’m haitian and these stories apply to all non American parents.A Haitian girl who’s 28 and has never been married is looked at in a negative light.
@@sareeyemanusqaame8723 Also in many non muslim people and non strictly western peoples that happens too -like in balkans, latin america etc.
@@askalal9444 nobody held them at gunpoint though
Unfortunately it doesn't end there. Once you get married it's whens the baby coming.
Nabeelah Ismail
And then the husband ends up despising you after the baby. He stares at other women.
Cincinnati Reds
Men’s nature is to desire as many women as possible doesn’t matter if he’s married and a father. I won’t shame men for what they naturally feel. Men also view a lot of pornography. It’s just in a mans nature and he’s tied to it. This is why a woman should marry a financially stable man, if he decides to cheat, atleast she will have secured the bag 💰 for her children. When a woman is married to a broke man and he cheats on her, she’s set herself up for failure.
@Cincinnati Reds what a beautiful story of your parents. Thanks for sharing 🤗
And then if you have only one child its another problem. People will always talk no mattet what. So just leave everything to Allah (S. W. T) and keep praying for the best in everything of life.
Cincinnati Reds that’s so sweet your parents marriage and their love story
Your life isn’t an audition for you to be someone’s wife
That's a literary quote right there.
That's the biggest bs I've heard today. lol
UNITED MONEY spot on
@@hanzalaomar3234 are you insane?!
Hajar Oz what made you say that?
Family rushed my sister into marriage at 22 and they wound up divorcing at 30. She followed all the traditional advice. By the end she grew unhappy and he just wanted the green card. it’s been a few years since they divorced and since then he bought a house, lives with his mom, he’s older but marriage is still possible for him. my sis is still single in her mid 30s and struggling to support herself. So all y’all blaming the girl for taking time to decide, do you really blame them when the repercussions are far more damaging and long-term for them than for men?
edit: he just got remarried! new wife is getting that visa now too
Im sorry to hear that..what green card are u in USA and he was from outside?
Vamp Dee Yes USA, idk what kind of green card. Yes he was from outside
@@bindu996 i asked cos i met a guy online he a muslim 15 years younger than me.. Im here in US.. Im trying to know if he just wants a green card.. He from middle east
Vamp Dee I’d be very cautious with that
@@bindu996 i will, thank u
Brown 33 single and living on my own. I won’t get married unless I fall in love. It hasn’t happened yet so am just waiting.
Allah will provide. 🤷🏽♀️
You go girl .. even if you get married late and can’t have kids adoption is beautiful and it’s better to wait for a genuinely good person than to throw yourself away to some egotistical loser ... ❤️💪🏾
And hey, even if you never get married that doesn’t mean you still can’t have a fulfilling life ☺️
Getting married shouldn't be an ultimate goal according to me, just happens eventually if you meet the right partner. Judging someone regarding on their marital status is just absurd..
@@MR-zq5gt Also not an obligation to have kids do whatever you want
Hey i know another woman like you. She was above 30 and independent. She got a good and well-off husband
TAKE YOUR TIME BECAUSE LITERALLY AFTER YOU ARE MARRIED YOU JUST SIT THERE LIKE OH OK I'M MARRIED AND NO ONE HANDS YOU A MEDAL OR A PRIZE OR ANYTHING OK
Hahahaha this is so accurate
😆😆👍🏽
This should be in every woman's bathroom. 👏
No , they’ll start with the “ are you expecting yet “ and the niikah was less than two weeks ago. You can’t even sneeze without them assuming. Somali here by the way , the eldest of three daughters and the last to get married. You can’t imagine the things people where saying about me not only amongst my people but also the Muslim community in general.
Sisters you have to believe in the All mighty. HE is the All knowing.
@@Naayaah.s1471 gosh 😆 I have a somali canadian friend and she shares dramatic stories of why she dsnt wanna get married.She wud so laugh readin ur comment
"They have very high verification of who he is, he cannot lie" *Shows picture of Shah Rukh Khan* 😂
That was literally the best part
The age 41 years and her mom approving it is what shocked me
@Jesus is not The son of GOD I meant her mom showing Shahrukh khan's bio. What are you referring to?
That part took me out😭😭😂🤣
I cackled when I saw that
Is ANYBODY here going to admit that this is a SICKENING reality that needs to BE CHANGED and not just laughed at 😫😫😫
Well people in the West try to stick up for the girls who are going threw this but then are called racist/ phobic for pointing out the glaring issues
Honestly it is changing.. we need more girls like Taz (and me) who will refuse to get married just to appease the parents. This is a generational thing so it can't change overnight.
Yes it’s fit Hispanic and African American culture too in my fam they marry at 21
@@ms.honiqualisha4529 You are exactly right.
@@ms.honiqualisha4529 maybe because the "people in the west" do not consider social nuances and also add a heavy dose of saviour complex to that
Please dont get married just because u r being pressured to. My parents did the same with me at 25. Now at 30, the past 5 years have just made me bitter towards them and life in general. Get married only when u feel u r ready to, and only to someone with whom u can visualize yourself, not to someone whose “biodata” appeals to the parents.
In sha Allah u will find ur perfect match :)
How is life now? Any improvement?
My question is why cant you be single and happy instead of married with kids and unhappy and unhealthy with confused and unhappy children.
Just to satisfy society?
sarwat 13 sing it
Precisely @sarwat
Imagine when your old and alone lol
@@muslimproudtobe
Either way gonna be alone
Kids are gonna grow up and have their own life
And the relationship w. the significant other could not last b/c of a speration or death
A relative of mine had a very controlling husband who forced this lady not to meet any of her friends or family after they got married in their 20s. This lady was 87 when her husband died and she just said "finally I'm free". She spent the rest of her life, five years, meeting people all the time. So imagine what it's like to feel like being in prison for decades.
Before marriage: go travel with your husband
After marriage: no time
It's only no time to travel when kids are in the picture. Before kids traveling is very easy.
And no money, especially if you have kids
@@katielarsen2630 exactly
Feteh Freundschaft have you ever travelled with little kids? Its not enjoyable. Like at all. Lol
Feteh Freundschaft well that explains it.
I have never ever related more to anything my entire life...🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm also 28, brownish and unmarried. The worst is when they ask me why I'm not married yet like I can purchase a husband at the nearest target and I'm just...not. Like we're not against marriage but we're not gonna marry anyone just to please you smh 🤣
I’m 28 too and ive had offers but im too picky. Everyone should have standards tho. Id rather be single than to say I settled
EXACTLY!!
yess 28 unmarried brown girl club
I'm waiting for the WhatsApp group
are you girls married now
Married people tell me all of the time... “Don’t get married.”
Ashley Britney Altamirano im married for 7 years now. I love my marriage, but i wont tell people to get or to not get married. My happy/bad marriage doesnt necessarily mean others would experience the same thing. So, dont listen to people, listen to ur heart (and brain) :D
This 😂
Seriously don't do that to poor singles lol
Me too..my older bro be like dont get married
This is so relatable. This horrible treatment of unmarried women & girls needs to end.
@@drgarad who are you to tell what someone else should be doing
@Mohamed Saad shut the fuck up you creep
@Mohamed Saad what if she doesn't want to have children? And why should she think of being wanted by men and not just live as she wants?
@Mohamed Saad got married at the age of 32 I'm 34 now and pregnant and im proud of myself and my brown skin that doesn't crack more then I was 18. Please u go get married
@Mohamed Saad She better be 18. lol you cant handle a mature female.
It's better to wait and get married in your own time then be with an abusive narcissist. Trust me.
Getting married early is such a boomer thing. Life gets boring as fuck trashy. Now, as a dude, I'll never get married.
But I see women around me single in their 40s, and 50s...having a milf fetish, I often spend time with them. One thing I can tell you, it's MUUUUCH harder and sad and downright pathetic for a woman to be single than for a man.
...well, it's actually wonderful for a man. But women take it so hard. Miserable
Tiba Mahmood That is true and I hope you are OK. I'm not Muslim but I was with an abusive narcissist so I know what they can do.
@@EV-EV-EV you sound like a classic incel. I know you are living in the old age. But its 2019, about to be 2020. There are women who dont want to be married or have kids and are living their best life. I know, i know: shocker!
The Girl yea, no feminist. I fuck around shit ton of chicks, to know them better than they know themselves. The "muh rich successful single in 40s!!! 😭😭😭" women are unbelievably sad lonely, and quiet frankly...damages goods.
Go ahead for the damaged goods like and keep lying to yourself, and to others..and to your therapist as well(my cousin's an therapist and she tells me almost 90% of her female clients in their 40s are pathetically depressed because of loneliness and no men want to actually marry and spend time with them.. the ones that do manage to get a guy usually get the most weakest of cucks who make them more sad. The good and sensible guys don't marry women over 23.
Stay sensible, stay traditional. Don't follow the society and become a "fuck practice hag" in her 30s and 40s.
Yes! Most narcissists are men too. Dont settle. Broke and egotistic men are abusive dustys.
I’m 21 and my family already started “the pressure method " ...
Sh*t same.
Alhamdulilah im not the only one 😂😂💔
@@sophiabenani5236 lol goodluck siz
Lolol
Are u male or female?
Uff, it’s always “get married” and then “why’re you not pregnant” and THEN “oh now you have one baby, when can we expect the next one?” Smh
"I can't have more children, I literally almost died giving birth to this one"
"So, I hear what you are saying, buuut when are you having the next one because it is awfully selfish to your child not to give him siblings.."
"I almost died! My husband almost became a single father of one! Do you want him to be a single father of two! The doctors say next time both me and the baby will likely die before I give birth!!"
"Yeah but no, that won't happen. You'll magically be safe. So, when are you giving your child a sibling?"
Not me, but someone I met once. Her relatives would not accept that she had health issues that made it too dangerous to have more children...
A HA I whole heartedly think Desi’s are toxic as heck when it comes to married life or life in general. It’s never your decision to get married or have kids, it’s always someone else’s decision.
Don’t let culture get to you Tazzy
May Allah make it easier for you.
Always remember you are more than somebody’s wife
Everyone has its own value...no one is more than anyone in this world
sxsp30
Men have all their life to marry, women don’t. We have biological clocks.
@@lavish_1717 neither do men. If a guy who's 70 marries a 20 its actually disgusting
Abdirahim Mohammed
It may be disgusting but he’s able to be a father at any age. Women have lesser chance of that and men aren’t valued upon beauty.
@@lavish_1717 This is why women need to stop the nonsense especially in Babylon aka West/America. Men can have as many women as he wants. BUT he has to be able to afford it not just have fun, we all want fun.
The biggest contradiction of Muslim families, when you are younger they tell you to never talk to boys and if you do, just talk about formal things and when you get older than twenty-five they haunt you with the question when are you getting married, how am I supposed to marry while I don't know how to keep a real conversation with men ? lol
preach fatima!
Truth .. even for Christian women lol.. my mom is the same way and is shocked that I don’t have a boyfriend or plans to get married lol oh well I’ll be the crazy old maid with lots of plants lol.. nah I’m in nursing school and I plan to serve my community as much as I can...
Madeleine Ramsey I’m in a similar situation. I also want to help people as much as I can, so I’m studying to become a PA. Good luck with nursing school.
@Anne Yessssss 🙌
"What's a brown woman without her *IZZAT* "
Well i wasn't ready to be targreted like this as an arab girl...
You will be okay manal. Live your life on your on terms. There is no manual always good to have standards than to settle and be unhappily married. #ResistThePressure
Who's here after she got married 😂
When you’re a teen: you’re too young to date smh
When you’re over 21: are you dating anyone? Where’s your husband?
When I was a teen my dad tried to beat up a boy I liked because he found out I was on birth control. Now they ask when I'm getting pregnant. Neverrrrrrrrr
This girl is funny charismatic and knows how to act
I’m 29 and European and I get a lot of comments for not being married. Everyone is concerned oh how women should live their lives.
Thelondonbadger , that is not true, people do not care for women, they consider us vulnerable , that is why the family feels responsible for us and they want to free themselves of that burden and find a guy on whoom they can ‘’bestow’’ that heavy load on, that is how I see it. Maybe you feel this way, that nobody gives a s*it about men, because you don t have siblings, or maybe your relationship with your family is not that tight, I constantly think about the wellbeing of my siblings, they are the most important people in my life.
Thelondonbadger , dude, you are so full of hate, my family does not put pressure on me to marry, it is just the society, I am 28 , working as a medical doctor, having my own place, paying for my expenses. I never said that a wife should not have her own income!!! I live in a country where it is expected to marry at a certain age, if not it is believed there is something wrong with you as a woman. It is also dangerous to live alone. Parents usualy want to know that you are secure, that you are protected.
I’m Polish and this is still incredibly ACCURATE ! My mom always goes on about how at my age (I’m 26), she was married and already had a kid.
How's the pressure now?
Slavic aunties would never act like that !!
You confused your mom with Albanian or Turkish aunties maybe 🤔
did you put cameras in my house? bc this is exactly what im dealing with every day since i turned 25 😂
Join the club 😂
You can’t win can you! Either you got married too fast or not fast enough. Wish everyone would just mind their own fucking business 😤
That's the problem with man made culture.
@@lobsterbalelegesse9919 So how are you liking Venus? You know, since you're from an alien made culture.
Haha, all the non married girls watching this video, now you know whats coming lol
Turning 28, Somali 🇸🇴 and unmarried. I get comments such as: you are expired, your ovaries are weakening or menopause approaching wtf you doing??!! . 😂
@Luka why tf do u have to comment something like that
Incognito 🤐🥀 those people who pressure you to marry actually care about you. You don’t know me and most likely you don’t care about me but honestly I would tell you to heed their advice. They actually have your best interest at heart.
Maadaama aad somali ila sheegatay aan kaa dhaadhiciyo waxaan aamin sanahay
1. Dad kaas ku riixahaya Waa dad ku jecel oo bad baadadaa rabah oo diidan in aad gablantoh ka badan dad ka qalaad oo kuu camirahayah oo kaa dhigahayah in aad saxan tahay.
2. Don’t be led astray by these people who will support you with likes on your comment or encourage you with their own comment 1. They will not go home with you nor will they care for you at an old age. I advise you to condemn their wrong ideology they are trying to plant in your head they only want to lead you to a misery. My advice to you as a somali to another somali please rescue your self and get children ASAP even 2 or 3 and don’t take comfort from these misleading commentators.
Wish you the best
Luka I’m somali and I know I’m more intelligent than you and your momma combined. Stupid fool!
@Luka funny about the IQ, most of the doctors in the UK are somali. So are you saying we're hiring low IQ ones?
@Luka whatever Somalis are gorgeous better than the receding chins white people have.
I am 35 and not married... Not the end of world... Hugs from Portugal
‘You can travel with your husband when you get married’ HAHAHAHAHAHA SOOOO ACCURATE
The photo of SRK... I'm dead!
The ultimate catfish is any big Bollywood actor.
That sent me 🤣
I was dying too
Ultimate
@Unapologetic White Male, Proud Colonizer EW an incel
I'm not brown but I had a brown boyfriend when I was between 26-28 years old and he was 3 years older than me. I always looked younger than I actually am but he started to treat me like some old piece of thing and he basically just wanted to have fun with me while waiting to get married to some almost-child cousin back in his country.
But at 29 I eventually met a 6 years younger man and we got married after 3 months and we moved to other country. When I went for holidays alone back in my country,guess who found me in a supermarket? Ex brown guy lol He went to talk with me thinking I would be desperate at that point and I simply pointed the ring on my finger "I'm a married woman,we have anything to talk". It was such an amazing moment ahaha 😂 His face was priceless btw
I love this story 🤣 can I ask where you met your now husband?
I LOVE this. 🤣 What a Queen. 👸
Love it!
Jesus you trapped a 26 year old to marrying some old 30 year old (you). What a waste for that guy he gets some old woman expired 30 year old
@@firepillow 30 isn't old. At all. And the age difference between 26 amd 30 is only 4 years...pretty insignificant.
28, brown from Philippines and unmarried. Yes? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️ Lets make a cult sister! 😂😂😂 cult of sisters of unmarried muslimah! 🤣🤣🤣
I'm here for it.
When is the WhatsApp group coming?
I was activley looking from the age of 26 - it was sooo draininggg, and then alhamdulillah I found someone suitable at age of 33. Got married at 34. Been married for over a year and now I'm 36🙈. Trying to get pregnant but docs said my egg bank is low, life life life 😣 still alhamdulillah for everything 🤗
may Allah make ease for you and grant you pious and righteous children.
Hopefully you get kids. I myself think that if I have kids I will screw them up as bad as me so I don’t want them. Already I’m not even an adult yet but my mom is already taking about grandkids.
My mum had my sister at 37! InshaAllah it’ll happen for you. Whatever’s best 😊
I can relate. But I don't want children.
How does your husband feel about your fertility issue? Does he still want children or does he accept it might not happen?
Relatable, true, and funny.
I’m almost 28 Egyptian, unmarried. Never been in a relationship or even in love, because of course according to the way my parents raised me that’s haram( until they decide that it’s not anymore) so when they show concern I LET THEM KNOW!
And I don’t take shit from aunties
Even as a guy your story rings true
so you are not allowed to marry in your age? I dont get it...
I’m 30, born in 1989.. Canadian Pakistani and not married! And i hear it all
Even canadian citizenship does not help nowadays. Lol
IJAZ AHMED 🤣🤣🤣
Pakistani girls are beautiful lol
@Sinjin Smythe I dont think so as it is more of like finanical issue where marriage and growing a family is becoming hard. Pakistanis girls are not as much trouble makers as other like white etc.
@Sinjin Smythe lol! But why are these girls unmarried then? Finanical stability > Cousin beauty 😉
I have one aunt who's still single and she is the only one who doesn't pitty me for not being married. In fact she was always encouraging me to educate myself and get a decent job to be able to support myself.
😂😂😂 so relatable African parents be like that too😅
Irish ones to, they say things like if you dont get married soon we might not live that long and wont see it, pure full on guilt trips lol
Russian ones too. But mine are not. However, other relatives are bad
@@KateeAngel Hi I heard that Russians are more traditional. From what age are they expected to marry over there?
Ropafadzo Manyowa I know right
I think it's the parents in general. Greetings from Slovakia
"jaan jaan ...jaan jaan ya JOHN!! ....JOHN SMITH!" LMFAO
I was 27 when I got married but people made me felt I was 38 or more that time 😂😂😂
I am almost 38. So....
I'm 28, "brown" and unmarried like you. However, my mother wants me to move out, but I don't want to yet lol. It's comfortable living at home. It's cheaper, I don't have to make food so often, and it's reassuring living with someone rather than alone...
I cried because this is so relatable 😂😂
I'm 28, unmarried, live with my parents, are you meee???
Like seriously. Especially the stuff about the coworker. My white coworkers just don’t understand. LOL
Hifives you - we are both you!
All us single ladies need to be our own Kris Jenner...'Your doing great, sweetie'.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ahhahahahhaahahhahahahhahaha
When Auntie read "BIOMOLECULAR PYSCHPSIOLOGY" outloud, I started screaming with laughter and had to walk away from my phone.
The transition from Jaan to John has me dying!!!!!!
Barely 26, Nigerian and unmarried 🤷🏿♀️. I know it's going to get worse.
Well I've blocked all my aunties and nosey family members. Also, at family gatherings I just say hi and go. I never ever sit with them.😂
hahah me too!
blessing! Tradition of toxic gibberish and wasting time must finally end!
I mean... I had thoughts about that... They have 0 hobbies...
My personal positive experience was a family member who turned the tables and made super good topics very attractive, such as talking about instruments, books, theatre, cultural stuff, gardening. So none of them were talking about "family private matters" anymore, except of those bitter ones, who have 0 say even in cultural topics in general. Those you can really ignore.
I’m Arab and this is just too accurate!
Arabs are too beautiful to not have a husband lol
Arabs don't slut around, unfortunately.
Even the ones who are born and brought up in the west don't slut around. Even the non religious ones.
The only ones who slut around are Tunisians and some Lebanese
@@EV-EV-EV uh what's your point? are you saying sleeping with who you want is wrong? it's 2019 ffs
@@aara2460 what time has to do with it ??? wrong is wrong in the past ,present or future otherwise please tell when will killing some be okay?
@@user-gj3jn6gg3p I cant believe you're comparing MURDERING SOMEBODY to just sleeping with who you want. you're sick. sex is natural, as long as there's consent it is ok. it never hurts anybody so why are you acting like it does.
Middle eastern parent be like no boyfriend 5 years later get married
Hahahhaah I'm brown 39 & single mom & 2 daughters.. Unmarried.
And 32 and unmarried over here. :) You're not alone. Too bad we can't hang out!
Lol me too girl!
31 and unmarried! Lol
@Mohamed Saad whatever Allah swt has planned for you will happen. Who are you too say they won't find someone? Who are you?
23 and unmarried
@Mohamed Saad 😂😂😂 you are definitely mgtow probably some short ugly man. I know biology pretty well and it's true fertility peaks at late 20s early 30s ... But that doesnt mean they can't find kids, find love and be married. Your mixing up a lot of stuff here. Their are people who get married in their 30s and 40s. I got married at 30 ffs. Your generalizing every woman. I can say the same for men and their low sperm counts 🤢
I’m 29 not married it’s ok, live AS you like.
Khaleel Shorafa for man is ok for Woman’s not ok because no nobody marry him so yeah
Not true! The most attractive women font marry at freaken 19 because they know theyre worth and know theyll find. I noticed its the ugly women marrying at like 19 because they know they have no shot! So they rush marriage because theyre full if red flags! Nothing rushed in life turns out good! Food, hair, makeup, driving,etc
Yeah but for you to say that as a boy is much easier for these women stuck in the pressure and expectations of their culture! (Not to say you shouldn’t have said it cus if that’s your opinion and/or you want to encourage her and you happen to be a boy I mean... but it seems unfair that boys seem to have an easier time to find out what they really want from life before rushing into marrying out of being expected to do so than women.)
Illmee Illmee Lol or forced to be married. Just saying. Some parents are VERY insecure and some girls are just too innocent. As for men who are 29 and single, from what I’ve seen even men who are 40 get to marry a poor 20 year old cause it’s a world for men.
@@EditsByJan Care to explain that to my parents, family, extended family and community?
I'm 29 and unmarried. I've never been in a relationship and have always kept everything halal Alhamdulillah. But I'm so lonely. I pray Allah SWT guides me to the right spouse. I have been so patient I know He will reward me immensely.
lol I'm nearly 60 and not married. Their brains would melt :P I love the Shah Rukh Khan photo. So many folks marry before they're really ready and it never works. I'm proud you're doing you! May everything be smooth and go well!
Tasneem's boss is Owen Wilson.
Hahaha I can’t omg 😆 😂😭
Beverly Huttinger is he white??
@Sarah Retro would that be a problem?
@@originalbabygal what's that got do with anything my husbands white it's just skin smh
Beverly Huttinger
How old is he ?
Same with being almost 30, Egyptian and unmarried 😅
I thought dudes were thirsty over there what happened?
@@lobsterbalelegesse9919 They are but women still have standards.
@Mohamed Saad lol it goes both ways. It's easy to get a man, getting a good one is harder. A lot of men want a wife who fulfils traditional female roles yet they don't even fulfil traditional male roles. If you want a woman who cooks, cleans and looks after the children all day, then you should at least have a decent job.
@Mohamed Saad 😒 "Hypocritical con artists"- what a positively charming description.
I believe a man should have good job BEFORE considering marriage. He should *already* have the ambition/self-motivation to succeed in his work-life for HIMSELF not just for a woman. Ambition is a very attractive trait.
Also I don't know why men prize virginity so much but virgins are not at all hard to find in Muslim countries, if that's what you like.
@UNITED MONEY It's good that you're not a hypocrite like a lot of men; who want a virgin wife but go whoring around themselves.
36 and not married...it's scary sometimes, but it's naseeeeeb girls, no need to worry.
37, not married.happy and content with being single alhumdulillah
"you'll travel with your husband" lmaoo my mother used to say the same thing.... so I decided that I'll become a steward :)
Well played
I feel you girl! I am bengali 33 and not married and no one lets me forget it😊.
Taleya I am a Bengali too. Do you live in Bangladesh?
I live in Bangladesh... Let's get married
I want your dad's eyeliner and eyeshadow.
I think the RUclips algorithm is actually a brown aunty... I mean how does it even know that I am brown, born in 91 and unmarried.
Girrrrrllllllll much love to you! As Indian in the same situation i totally get you! In fact im 32, and imagine the pressure! Hahaha
My parents were ok with boys. But i have friends who have been yelled and blackmailed abt not talking to boys, the day they reach 23 yrs plus suddenly they are being pressured to marry a random guy...
Patriarchy my dear... clearly women were treated like commodities, and the modern woman just wont have it 😄👻
this is a truthful comment
Thelondonbadger I don’t even think they can at this point, cause of the “oh it’s cultural” narrative. I needs to be done from within.
Every time you do a video that’s “you” i.e where you talk about things that you feel about on a personal level, i just pause and marvel over how smart your humour is. The quality of this video was insane! Never stop. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I second this one, tazzy is very creative, mashallah
I third this? YES, Couldn’t agree more with this comment mA.
Bushra Baig thank you so much 😭😭😭
The picture of SRK on the guy's paper made me snort lollll "this is not catfish"
15 years: "STAY AWAY FROM BOYS!"
16 years: "STAY AWAY FROM BOYS!"
17 years: "STAY AWAY FROM BOYS!"
18 years: "why u not married yet???"
18 is a baby
*Picture of Shah Rukh Khan* this is not catfish. This is um- they- in the whatsapp group they have very high verification of who he is..ok? So he cannot lie😂😂😂
I died
I'm 53 and single so there's no hope for me. Your videos are brilliant and your observations are spot on. Keep up the excellant work.
Never say never! You might find the right person who is in the same situation as you.
That is the reason why u shud get married in 20s
@@syedhammadahmed508 maybe there's a reason why she couldn't you can tell she has been waiting for someone but noone wanted her at the time so be positive ,l💞🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼💞🌼🌼🌼🤮🤔💪💪💜💜😤😤😊✳️🤡😤😄😘😘💖💪💜💜😤
@@yumnaibrahim4045 Just check the comments. Women think they reach 30s and not married and consider it thier achievement. If u have the attitude like this, u will not get married anytime soon them
@@syedhammadahmed508 no one needs to get married
The QUALITY of this video montage
I'm almost 23 and everybody is worried about my marriage. I mean WTF!!!!
Life doesn't start and end in marriage. There's more to life and when it's the right time and when it's destined for us, it'll happen.
Aunties really need to stop pressuring us to get married. Just because y'all had miserable marriages doesn't mean y'all get to drag us in this too. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
I’m 31, Mexican, and not married. Every single reunion is me getting harassed by everyone about not being married or having children. They act like I’m failing my life, like I need to stop being lazy, like I will die miserable and alone. I’m sorry, but that was never my life goals. If that’s you, that’s you. But I don’t want to get married, I don’t want kids. It’s true about the parents not wanting us to be around boys, my parents forbade me from having a boyfriend and the one I did could only spend time with me if they were there. It was stressful so I gave up dating and now they act surprised that I don’t go out with guys. They don’t understand why I am not looking for a partner now they think I’m gay. I also live with my parents still. 🤣😭
I hope things get better for you.
I’m right there with ya sister. One minute my mom is telling me that all the girls my age are getting married and having kids and then I should be doing that, and then the next minute she’s like “you better not be dating anyone and you better be finishing school at this moment I will hit you with the sandal”
"Double masters" lmao so cute
trashlover 38 LMAOOOOO
I'm 23 now. But I do t even want to get married until 30. I want to make sure my mind is in the right spot before I find a partner
32 and unmarried, and very happy with it. people getting divorced left and right, no ones getting along with each other. im doing it in my own pace, thank you very much.
bruh I'm 28 and I know what you mean, IF I'M NOT ASKED WHY I'M NOT MARRIED ONCE DAY I THINK THE UNIVERSE WILL EXPLODE
3:40 Felt this on a spiritual level
This was by far the best video I’ve seen I a lonnnnggggggg time. I’m Muslim but I’m quite opposite I’m told not to have kids & what not. 😂
Don’t know if anyone’s told you this before but you have a great ASMR voice lol
So relatable. It's 2019. Im 28. Born 1991. Brown. Unmarried. 🙂
H Alie same here
Hi5
Mohamed Saad mate just SHUT IT no one wants to hear the trash that’s coming out of your mouth
Mohamed Saad dang! you're such a chauvinistic pig!
@Mohamed Saad you are like parrot repeating what every stupid mgtow say
I’m 28 years old too and I have literally experienced everything in this video and it’s crazy we are all really going through the same things if your unmarried and Asian. This video was hilarious as it was soo true.
First school, being married, having kids, raising the kids, kids grow up and move out, you getting older and die. It's like catalog everyone supposed to follow.
And you realize you re free when you send it all to trash and write your own book cos it s your own life
34 brown , happily to-be-divorced. Got married at 29 under this shit pressure to a completely wrong person as I lowered my standards beyond belief. Doesnot matter what age you are but marry when you want to and not when others want you to. These constant questions become so frequent that we may end up internalizing some of the ridiculousness. The funny thing is for aunties my being divorced is also matter of izzat..
This made me laugh so much!!! Your humour is for me !!!
Damn it's so good to see that I am not alone in this 😂😂.Even when your parents are supportive these relatives /aunties will infect their thought process.
Marrying the right person is more important than marring at right age 😉. Thank you for making this video love from India ❤️
I married young and I'm incredibly happy but this video was absolutely hilarious and perfect. I'm glad that you can relate your experiences with humor, even thought you might be truly frustrated.
What made you marry young?
Now Tazzy is married! This was 11 months ago mashallah. Life is so beautiful
This spoke to MY SOUL. Thank you girl. Thank you
Omg, did no one notice Aunty's glasses?? My mom's glasses be one-legged like that
You are really funny! I was married at 18 and by the time I was 24 I was on the verge of divorce! By the time I was 26 I was divorced. I remarried at 33 to a great guy. Take your time and know for sure that you are mature enough to handle the situations that do arise in marriage!
I am so glad I watched this. I'm crying. I loved your editing, smile, and I have to say you have the most soulful brown eyes. You go girl!
Close the door and open the window, Taz. You're keeping the Auntie network alive: pretty soon they will professionalise and monetize. There'll be hold music...
27. Half brown. Unmarried.
My 21 year old brother is trying to convince me to get married so I won't be alone when I'm 60. I've been engaged twice. I refuse to repeat past mistakes. I know what I need. If it shows up I'll say yes. If it doesn't, I'm comfortable being single.
Not everyone gets married.
And that's FINE.
Thanks for making this, Tasneem! 🙌
As a 20 year old Malawian..... I relate. My parents have started and I haven’t even graduated
But in all honesty..... who wants to be alone?
Why does a marriage have to be unhappy?