I think I heard these tips. Let me know if I missed anything... 1. Glance briefly around the room & see if it's reciprocated. Don't stare. 2. Just say hello. High fives. Cheers. 3. Casual comment about the shared space. Mention something about the bus. The pool. The place. Traffic. Weather. 4. Compliment the person: accessories, clothes 5. Conversation formula: Question + Answer + Statement = Ask a question about their opinion about something, listen & share your own opinion. Magic word = "because" 6. Start with small talk & move to big talk. Share what actually matters to you. 7. Leading with a little vulnerability. Share something emotionally real with you. No facts. What your excited about & what your struggling with.
I would avoid complimenting of superficial things if possible and use trait compliments ie. sense of humor, fashion and style, worldview. Much more powerful.
@@ArtofCharmTV Thanks! Btw, I'm using your podcast for leadership development with my secondary school students in Malaysia. Thanks for the great content!
how to talk break the ice and talk to anyone in this toolbox episode, we cover how important it is to meet new people and be comfortable with small-talk. What are your favorite ice-breakers?
i feel if they made improving your conversation-skills, social-skills, social abilities, part of the education system, it should be mandatory for men but optional for women, because guys, men, are expected to do the heavy-lifting when it comes to social interactions between a man and a woman
when I talk to strangers, why I am thinking about the people who are around me. specially talking to the opposite sex. when I was in United States I didn't had this feeling. but same when I am in India I am little bit shy. I do not come to the point. does country makes different.
I think I heard these tips. Let me know if I missed anything...
1. Glance briefly around the room & see if it's reciprocated. Don't stare.
2. Just say hello. High fives. Cheers.
3. Casual comment about the shared space. Mention something about the bus. The pool. The place. Traffic. Weather.
4. Compliment the person: accessories, clothes
5. Conversation formula: Question + Answer + Statement = Ask a question about their opinion about something, listen & share your own opinion. Magic word = "because"
6. Start with small talk & move to big talk. Share what actually matters to you.
7. Leading with a little vulnerability. Share something emotionally real with you. No facts. What your excited about & what your struggling with.
I would avoid complimenting of superficial things if possible and use trait compliments ie. sense of humor, fashion and style, worldview. Much more powerful.
@@ArtofCharmTV Thanks! Btw, I'm using your podcast for leadership development with my secondary school students in Malaysia. Thanks for the great content!
@@0xJarod Wow that's so cool, wonderful to hear! Thank you!
how to talk break the ice and talk to anyone in this toolbox episode, we cover how important it is to meet new people and be comfortable with small-talk. What are your favorite ice-breakers?
Tips start at 22:13
i feel if they made improving your conversation-skills, social-skills, social abilities, part of the education system, it should be mandatory for men but optional for women, because guys, men, are expected to do the heavy-lifting when it comes to social interactions between a man and a woman
There's a lot about communication both can learn. It's our favorite subject.
when I talk to strangers, why I am thinking about the people who are around me. specially talking to the opposite sex. when I was in United States I didn't had this feeling. but same when I am in India I am little bit shy. I do not come to the point. does country makes different.
Should women do this or only men?
Both, everyone should up their conversational skills.
@@shahqurbanbaba1873 I don't even know what that means, and I guess that's what I get for engaging in the comment section of YT.