I'm Christian and found this channel by accident. Very well made and interesting to hear how different religions "work". May God/Allah bless all of you. Salam Aleikum!
I don't know is it permissible or not but whenever I do it I feel very bad after that and thoughts come that i did something terribly wrong so may ALLAH protect me from doing this
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell." Matthew 5:27-30 ESV God's moral law was written on your heart brother. That's why you feel guilty afterwards. Jesus came to renew hearts. He came as a sacrifice so you may be forgiven. Repent of your sins and trust in Christ. I will be the best decision you ever make. Your eternity will thank you :)
I am new to To this religion.. but the moment I started to read the Q’uran I felt a strange since of peace and I’m now looking for more knowledge.... All praises to Allah 🤎
JazakAllah Khairan brother. May Allah bless u. U read Quran properly with It's meaning & all the authentic Sunnah. & if u find anything that u can't understand then discuss with a scholar to clear ur thought. Then follow Dr Jakir Nayak, Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem, Dr Saleh, Mufti Menk, Omar Suleiman, Nouman Ali Khan. If possible u can ask them questions through email. They're great scholars. May Allah guide u & bless u with proper knowledge. . 💙
Brother, learn the Arabic...Recite Quran in Arabic, read translation also but don't forget to recite in Arabic language as u urself Insha Allah will see the good effect on ur Heart when u will recite with the Original Arabic
@PieDiePew nah most Muslims rethink their religion and start to question other religions and atheism and study them then compare and their outcome is what they stick to, that's what i found, as for Muhammad (PBUH) marrying Aisha at such a young age, now in the 7th century, it was allowed and often perceived as normal when seeing someone who had already hit puberty marrying someone of an age that is older than him/herself because it was believed that if someone hit puberty, it means that he/she is not different than one that had already hit puberty long ago,that' that, and also Aisha was already engaged to someone else before marrying The Prophet (PBUH) suggesting she had already been mature enough by the standards of her society to consider marriage for a while...now I know that it may seem strange and I know that you might not accept it, but oh well...may Allah (SWT) guide you into the right path. Peace man!
mostafa zein go ahead and rewatch the video. There is nothing in the Quran or Hadith that says masturbation is haram or says anything about masturbation at all. You do your research too because scholars have disagreed and go with what seems to make sense to you. Allah has made things which are haram clear for us. Good day.
Allah knows best. This is my opinion on it. I grew up thinking it was a sin and a few sites I visited approved this thought of mine. I think it’s a subject that needs more research. I agree with the fact that desires can be very strong. But I also believe that we, the ummah, have to learn to not be driven by desire. And instead think rationally and spend our time wisely. Here are some things i feel are relevant: Leave that which makes you doubt for that which does not make you doubt.” (Recorded in al-Tirmidhi) My mom would tell me the sahabah would abandon many many acts just because they were in doubt about it. She also said that we are all sinners. And if we wouldnt be commiting sins, we would be angels. But what’s important is that we repent. We ask forgiveness and we try to do better. Allah is Al-Ghaffar and Ar-Rahmaan. May Allah bless our hearts, minds and souls and allow them to be open. Allah knows best.
You are ryt brother , and most scholars said it's bad thing and a sin to avoid they have proof from the coran and hadith .besides here's what I'm convinced of,.if you in doubt ask your self is it good or bad definitely it's bad for Allah loves the good things and what's haram is clear and what's halal is clear and between them doubtful matters, as the prophet Mohammed pbuh said.so if you fall in doubtful matters you fall in haram and it's better to avoiddoubtful matters .
@@HinaKhan-np1gb Point no. 1 : When you get these type of feelings always say this (AUZO BILLA HI MINASH SHAITANIR RAJEEM)atleast 10 times, In Sha Allah you will feel normal at that time. 2: If you want to control more and more then please fast, fasting will low your sexual desires. 3: Ask your parents that you want to get married.
I mean, Alcohol is also haram because it can damage the body ie. The liver, as well as the fact that it alters the state of mind, but I could be wrong about this one
Allah says in the Quran, “And spend in the way of Allah and do not throw [yourselves] with your [own] hands into destruction [by refraining]. And do good; indeed, Allah loves the doers of good.” Surah Baqarah (2:195)
Most of the scholars agreed that doing musterbation is a sin. It doesn’t contaminate your heart only but also it pushes you towards other sins. We should avoid this. I'm 26 & unmarried & i rather choose to do fasting than doing musterbation if i feel sexual desire. Allah (ﷻ) knows the best. May Allah forgive us (ameen)
In my opinion when a person is married and not with his spouse for long period and leads to too much mental tension, stress then it might be ok as long it doesn't become habit forming of doing it frequently. This happens to some married people who meet their spouses once a year due to financial commitments. Scholars are divided on it between Haraam and Makrouh.Since no verse in Quran or hadith directly states its haraam, I understand that it becomes situational and subjective...if you are staying with Spouse then its not permitted, if it becomes a addictive habit then as per Islamic principle is Haraam but if its due to staying away from spouse for long time and causes mental tension and in order to release the stress it gives respite to the mind then it should be permissible only if its limited to not being habit forming and also importantly saves from Zina...Zina is committed by only such who are corrupt and don't have fear of Allah....any God fearing Muslim would prefer to die than commit henious sin like Zina and earn Allah's wrath.
@Commentator how much have you studied islam to be so sure of yourself? Those scholars you‘re saying are talking nonsense have studied islam for maany years, intensly. I would think more than you have even studied islam...
Personally speaking , whenever i want to see if something is prohibited , i would ask myself if The prophet pbuh or his family/loyal friends would do it . Definitely not masturbation . It makes a person mentally sick and addicted .
I love your thinking brother...... Even I try the same way of thinking when i am in doubt of something.. Hoping to meet you in Jannah brother .... Inshallah..
I know this addiction is really hard to get over but this urge to masturbate starts suddenly like if you see a scene in RUclips or some insta post So when you see it urges but don’t go to far stop suddenly don’t go watch more just switch off your phone And dont go to washroom at that time just don’t go try to stay in public that time and if you want to go to the washroom come out really quick And know that 1 allah is watching you 2.the angels are recording your deeds 3.and Shaitan is laughing Get to know what time you do it if you have urge to do it at night Do push-ups until you get tired and fall asleep
I have spent 2month without doing it. Just now i felt the desire. But when i decided to read the comments. My desire lowered down. I feel free now. May ALLAH S.W.T Forgive our sins, and give us believing Women. So we avoid this evil. Act. It would not be bad if after you do it you felt like you didnt commited a crime. But everyone feels bad after the act. Though the desire is strong.
those who are looking for yes or no answer isn't gonna get it because there are some deeds that often sit between good and bad i mean haram and halal due the fact that it was perhaps not discussed specifically. however the prophet had urge we muslims to stay clear off these deeds if we really want to strengthen their faith and purify our heart. so ladies and gentlemen of comments readers and writers do what serves you right. Allah knows best.
@@alihyder6877 masturbation is not sexual pleasure, unless sexual thoughts are attached to the act. It's like having a massage. Now is massage prohibited? Of course not! And unless you find a verse explicitly saying masturbation is haram, your opinion is irrelevant.
Everytime I watch a video of Dr. Shabir Ally, I thank Allah (s.w.t.) for blessing us with such a wise scholar. When it comes to topics like this that are not specifically mentioned in the Qur'an or Ahadith, scholars vary in opinion, which is absolutely normal. However most scholars take their opinion and preach it as if it was the absolute and universal truth, whereas Dr. Shabir Ally sheds light on both sides and then sums up the kew points and through critical and logical thinking through his knowledge in Islam tries to determine which option is more reasonable and logical. This sincerity and honesty is really what many lack today. Alhamdulillah for such a beautiful scholar.
He's not a scholar and what he is saying is totally wrong , masterbation is Haram backed up by various hadith ,listen to Sheikh Uthman ,assim Al hakim etc ,don't take knowledge from these westernised so called daes.
As a person who memorized the Quran, I cant really control myself from it. It's so hard to control it. Please how can I stop it. I do just for to control myself from having sex outside marriage. Since I fast Monday and Thursday I can see a little change so please pray for me
Anas Mohammad,you do great by fasting,you would have fasted the entire ramzan and at that time your habit should have gone but if not then try to fast as much as possible which will keep you away from this atleast in day time and increase your Iman and at night, can't you sleep with any of your family member or a good friend?
It happens to me almost everytime I stopped but went back to it and I’m still going through peuberty which is even worse because I get more horny as growing up but then I’ll become normal this is really making me depressed
I'm a senior psychiatrist.... Seen many many young adults having h/of massturbatiin with extreme guilt feeling later often leading to depression and other psychological problems to the verge of suicidal thinking.. If they would have thought that way ie it's though permissible but discouraged and i shd not indulge it long and long but rather take step like fasting and marriage.. May Allah prevent future disaster
@@UmarTahir When one doesn't get clear ones' relationship with God one will remain a lusty person. Lust is way more powerful then dry book"knowledge" and childish sectarian preferences. The fact is the islam doctrine falsely claims "God has no relationships!". So those adhering to the islamic doctrine remain outside of their relationship with God since they deny having one. And thus they're forced to stay within dark and ignorant materialistic relationships.
@@rajarsi6438 The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said that Allah's love is greater than 19 times that of a mother. Islam definitely doesn't encourage love for materialistic purposes. All Muslims are required to make yearly donations from their income, for the sake of their fellow brothers and sisters. So Muslims are supposed to act with love towards each other Addendum: Also, you are allowed to have a sexual relationship with your spouse, but you initiate an oath of loyalty (marriage) to him/her first
As an American converted Muslim there are constant temptations here that lead to it. I do it less but I understand the value of the hijab a lot more now. A lot of American women put everything out there nowadays, especially in the media, and we wonder why there are so many single moms and why society is falling apart.
U do kno what this verse means. This verse means to lower ur gaze from women eg looking at a women's back or breasts this doesn't relate to masturbation
AsSalama'laikum dear brother and sister. Thank you Shiek! I always find your answers to be well-balanced. The idea of scholars answering people's questions should not be to SHAME them! I take histories and perform physical exams on patients. When questioning them about sensitive issues (e.g. drug use, sexual activity, mental health issues, etc.), I TRY to be aware that our conversation may be embarrassing to the patient. Thus, I attempt to be gentle in answering questions they may have. I notice that you do the same when answering questions. JazakAllahkhair! 😊❤☝🏾️
Mastuebation is not haram or halal it is simply a life hack. It's the addiction that is sinful. Overall, Masturbation can ease stress doing one-two times a month is good. Doing it Everyday leads to psychological difficulties like anxiety and depression that's when it hurts your body mentally and becomes a sin.
but doing it one to two months time is almost impossible. It's addictive and before you know it, you'll be fapping away 3 times a day. I'm on day 18 nofap, best I've felt in a long time. May Allah lead us to the straight path, Insha Allah.
@@umarhussain5192 Ye bro we shouldn't I'm addicted now and this is due to my unfortunate past. I regret doing it for "fun" because now it's an addiction and hard to stop. Insha Allah, I'll try my best. Best of luck brother.
Both fornication and masturbation are sinful, harmful and detrimental to one’s spirituality and physical well being. One should avoid all sin and not try to justify a sin as being less detrimental. Almighty Allah states “Success is really attained by the believers …. who guard their private parts except from their wives or from those (bondwomen who are) owned by their hands, as they are not to be blamed. However, those who seek (sexual pleasure) beyond that are the transgressors” (Quran 23:1-7)
I've been on this for many a times it makes your heart ,brain shrink ina sense and its unnatural and makes you unstable , Do five times prayer and fight until you feel that is only temporary until marriage insha Allah'✌🏽✊👍🏼
@@PheonixStarsx It is terrible. Masturbation is not a thing you want to get into. On the surface it seems harmless and fun but when you get addicted it can cripple you
@@PheonixStarsx There is a reason why over a million people are on nofap, yet only 1% is able to break free. The same reason why only 1% of the world s rich. Correlation? I think so.
I don't know whether prohibited or not But its definitely a sin Reason: We suffer from an immediate guilt and regret in our hearts after doing it...also nobody does it when they are happy and having a good day It's a high dopamine injector Just like alcohol,drugs and slot machine Inshort it becomes an addiction And anything addictive is absolutely not a good thing And ofcourse it requires you watch vulgar things My dear friends trust me, quitting this has tons of psychological and real world benefits...if you don't believe me watch some Ted talks
It doesn't require you to watch things. Though I agree it feels like a sin. Though there is nothing that says it is so.... We are basically just making up our own rules now?
@@talyakus3139 You are Just Making Excuses Because You Are Addicted To It And You Dont Want to StoP.. And now listen.. there is a lot of difference between these 2 things.. after a lot eating we feel ashamed nothing else... after doing suxh a act like masterbation.. we feel like we did a sin and its really terrible and we want that Allah Forgive us.. and Its written in Quran leave everything in which you have doubt that it is a sin like sahaba gave UP Many a things just bcz if it.
Most people do it without watching vulgar things. But the problem is that what’s the point in having reproductive parts that already cause a satisfactory sensation when you can’t do it yourself??
@@adriandavid970 the worst part is...we are always in front of Allah or in other words Allah is always watching no matter what so yeah... Kinda scary to me now ._.
I m recently following Islam. Reading through stuff to understand. What I can say on this based on my experience..Masturbation dilutes mental energy and focus ..Over masturbation has temporary impact on nervous system untill body refills the fuel...On the other hand if stimulation for ejection is reduced or less then Focus increases and Gives back an energy to keep one mentally stable..
Thank you for the interesting Q&A. I must say this is the first time I hear this opinion vs the traditional opinion that this act is haram except in certain conditions. Most of the time people get married to channel their sexual needs, but the event of Covid 19 where lockdown occurs and many married people are seperated from each other due to travel restrictions makes this issue relevant to some people again.
I am so glad someone is talking sense. Thank you so much. I am a practicing muslim and even tough I have unshakable trust in Islam Quran and Prophet, certain ideologies of Islam "example this myth sorrounding masturbation and how it is prohibited in Islam" really disappoints me. They literally make me think twice if i am following the right sect or not. However, watching this video has made me so positive. It have really boosted my trust in my religion and most important, helped me respect my body even more. Thank you. ❤️
Plz don't do it.this habit lead me to pronography.now I have trouble with my wife sexually.beacuse of this sin Allah punished me with diseases.this interfered with my studies and work.lost lot of health bcoz of this habit.plz always take advice from expert scholars and not everybody else.this leads to addiction any addiction is difficult to leave. Wait for your time to get married.this habit lead me negligence in worship.
Stop! Allah doesn't punish one with diseases. It's not a punishment astaghfirullah it's a test. How old are you?! Do you not even understand Islamic teachings??
I’m going to share my own experience because maybe it’ll help someone else, as a woman masturbation can be EXTREMELY helpful and cleansing in a way, it’s also an amazing stress reliever :) Allah knows best but from what I’ve experienced and interpreted myself, I believe it’s okay as long as you don’t take it to extreme and do it too much. Once a week for example is fine, I don’t see how this will bring evil into your life like some of the comments are suggesting. It’s also much better than going out and relieving your sexual desire with another person that you’re not married to.
Yeah you are absolutely right nowadays you can't get marry at young age before that you have to build you career for your well being And as we know every person has his or her sexual desires which may lead them to do sin but if mastubrating is the only way to protect yourself from this then I mean why not you aren't doing anything wrong or revealing yourself to other it has no harmful effects that's my opinion 🙂
Masturbation in a healthy amount helps loosen up dirt and build up that can lead to irritation and infection. It can also facilitate a healthy introduction to sexuality and preparation for a future partner. Ive seen too many cases where people are raised with sex as a boogeyman and end up either rushing into marriage because theyve built up sex into this giant grand thing, or being terrified of ever having to do it because its this giant negative thing. In the end, we should be teaching young people about consent, healthy sexuality, and sexual health. Kids will be kids with this, and an ummah whos had an experience of feeling shame for thier sexuality is more likely to leave or have a bad marriage. And if you dont masturbate, please make sure you get everything when you wash yourself.
Any action or activity that end up causing harm to your either psychologically , physically or spiritually is a sin..common sense/ logic helps you to understand.
@@gentlepengua5651 the fact that your comparing masturbation to sugar really shows how badly you want masturbating to be halal. Masturbation makes your body release Dopamine and endorphin which can cause addiction lets compare cocaine and masturbation shall we.
@@gentlepengua5651well, sugar and bread are FOODS. These can, with the right amount - be beneficial, whilst ANY amount of nicotine is bad for your organs.
Context is everything. No one could avoid committing sins big or small but as much as it is not OK to masturbate by watching porn it's even worse if you sin without masturbating... Sinning is as much as easier to cover it with other rewards. That's called justice... No one pays for another sin. Everyone is responsible for their own.. Only Allah knows what's in your heart... Everyone can lie but no one can escape Allah. If you added lies to another lies, they only multiply... The same way with every word and action we give and take. Religion is so beautiful
I’m a Christian Catholic and I don’t see this subject in the Holy Bible but trained in counselling all needs to remember ADDICTION. Christian Catholics say it’s a no NO! We must reach Holiness and masturbation brings in “BAD THOUGHTS” right! That is a start of lowering yourself. 🙏✝️ Your body is your temple, Holy Bible.
Masturbation is not big sin compared to sins that some Muslims know that treating wife rudely, using her like toy and as free servant for household work,, hitting her,,torturing her for dowry ,,,, marrying other women without permission,,,, telling abuse words,, hitting,,etc ..many Muslim men know that treating wife badly is definitely most haram ...you are killing her for ur needs..but they just ask forgiveness from Allah but do haram things 😢😢😔😔😔. please treat your wife like a human,,not like a free servant..even if you are poor be sincere to her... India has low divorce rate ..that doesn't means all married women's are happy Please respect girls,,,don't flirt ,,bcz u also have mom and sister ..and remember one thing especially for those men who torture your wife's: remember Allah is watching you,,,and you have to face Allah on judgement day. And everyone has to face Allah on judgement day.... Hitting is easy but facing Allah anger is not easy ..... Don't tell yourself as Muslim if you hit women...bcz Islam doesn't support domestic violence especially against wife and children...
Masha Allah Dr shabbir sahab is my favourite scholar....I follow him and his preachings ...I love to watch all your videos...They are full of knowledge. ...
Point no. 1 : When you get these type of feelings always say (LAHAUL WILA QUWAT ILLA BILLA HIL ALIUL AZEEM) atleast 10 times, In Sha Allah you will feel normal at that time. 2: If you want to control more and more then please fast, fasting will low your sexual desires. 3: Ask your parents that you want to get married.
I am distressed. So much. I fast I don't remember how much fasting I have done . I did zikr I did exercise , I did dawaah everything to get rid of this bad habit but it is sticky. I am now depressed and can't hold on to Islamic rulings altogether. I am now not praying anymore because I can't hold on to the rulings . It is something I can't do.
@@GMATPrepVideos brother nobody is saying to oppress your desire, just use it in a halal way, And this is a trap of shaitaan, shaitan never come and say don't pray, firstly he would say after azaan u have so mùch time now, just do what u r doing. Then he would say ohhh u forget about namaz, now next time pray... Then he will say don't repent, allah will not forgive u, u made a very big mistake... Now he would say don't pray because u have already made mistake and further u won't get anything from Allah. Allau says in Qur'an: DO NOT FOLLOW THE FOOTSTEP OF SHAITAN. (Above given illustration is footstep of shaitaan) Allay further says: NEVER GIVE UP ON ALLAH'S MERCY I am sure u get here in the same way I stated above illustration. .. So pray always pray and give sadqah (sadqah breaks the jaws of shaitaan)
@@Al_3abbas what if i repent to Allah and not doing masturbation,music,swearing and other sin and trying my best not to delete all my deeds? I have addiction to masturbation but im trying my best to stop it and not leaving the 5 daily prayers you never know there will be a big test that can ruin your current deeds and gain alot of sins thats why im hoping the end will come soon
🤣🤣 it's not different thoughts brother, let me explain....it's dopamine, certain activities like workout, masturbation, drugs, even tasty food, releases dopamine in your mind, your brain will slowly start craving for dopamine and asks you to do those tasks again and again, that's when you become addicted to that activity.....it's in your hands to control it..... quitting completely is not the correct solution, you don't quit eating coz you're getting fat, you just control your eating...same way, if you control your masturbation, it's healthy
Praise be to Allah. The first hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5066) and Muslim (1400) from Ibn Mas‘ood, who said: We were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), young men who had nothing of wealth. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s chastity. And whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.” The second hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5030) and Muslim (1425) from Sahl ibn Sa‘d: A woman came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), I have come to give myself to you (in marriage). The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) looked her up and down, then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) lowered his head. When the woman saw that he had not made any decision about her, she sat down. A man among his companions stood up and said: O Messenger of Allah, if you have no need of her then marry her to me. He said: “Do you have anything?” He said: No, by Allah, O Messenger of Allah. He said: “Go to your family and see if you can find something.” So he went, then he came back and said: No, by Allah, O Messenger of Allah, not even a ring of iron, only this izaar (lower garment) of mine - Sahl said: he did not have a rida’ (upper garment) - and she may have half of it. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “What will she do with your izaar? If you wear it she will not have anything of it and if she wears it you will not have anything of it. The man sat down, and after he had sat for a long time, he got up (to leave). The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw him turning away, and he ordered that he be called to him. When he came, he said: “What do you know of the Qur’aan?” He said: I know Soorah such and such and Soorah such and such - and he listed them. He said: “Do you recite them by heart?” He said: Yes. He said: “Go. You have been given her (in marriage) for what you know of the Qur’an.”
Nowadays our life is full of temptation and it's hard to get married as there aren't many pure people left to choose from, I believe fasting is a way of control your desire or in other word will stop you from doing the action of zina at the time of fasting, which is mashallah is great but after the fasting finishes the urges will kick in, so what to do? It must be a way to release something ... you can't fast for 24/7
Almighty Allah states “Success is really attained by the believers …. who guard their private parts except from their wives or from those (bondwomen who are) owned by their hands, as they are not to be blamed. However, those who seek (sexual pleasure) beyond that are the transgressors” (Quran 23:1-7)
When you quote a verse please quote the whole verse ! not what you want to emphasize! Its misleading..People like me who are lazy and full of confidence get misinformed by those broken quotes!
You probably shouldn't do it but we are only human and sometimes we give in. People who are saying its haram or it's not haram shouldn't be saying something Allah swt hasn't specifically told. Us. Common sense for me may not be the same for someone else so we can't use this as an argument for or against. Seek forgiveness from Allah and try your best not to do it sincierly. We live in different times now where our imagination and desensitisation of our mind is far beyond our prophets time. You can only do your best from your heart I think everyone deep down knows when they have transgressed so seek refuge and forgiveness from Allah. Most gracious most merciful.
Lol I'm certain in the Quran it states not to force beliefs on others and ones sins are private between themselves and Allah, also only specific authority figures can exact punishments
Since our scholars have not reached a unanimous conclusion yet, avoiding it is the best option. And besides, as Muslims we all believe that ALLAH is watching us all the time. So the question is, if ALLAH sees you performing this act, is it something to be proud of or something to be ashamed of? At least for me, it wouldn't be something I'd feel proud of.
Allah knows best Guys it’s actually very simple, masturbation is haram and we are straying away from Allah everytime we sin. It’s really not easy to quit masturbation. Pls dua for me!
"Truly, to a happy state shall attain the believers: those who humble themselves in their prayer, and who turn away from all that is frivolous, and who are intent on inner purity; and who are mindful of their chastity." (Holy Qur'ān 23:1-5) "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and to be mindful of their chastity: this will be most conducive to their purity - [and,] verily, God is aware of all that they do." (Holy Qur'ān 24:30)
فَمَنِ ابْتَغَىٰ وَرَاءَ ذَٰلِكَ فَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْعَادُونَ But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors; (Al-Mu'minun 23:7). The verse is telling us that we should not seek to execute our sexual desires beyond what previous verse allows! إِلَّا عَلَىٰ أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ غَيْرُ مَلُومِينَ Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, for then, they are free from blame; (Al-Mu'minun 23:6). Therefore, I can't see why we hit behind the bush while it is clear to us. Actually, whenever I do, I develop sense of guilty and my heart says to me that it is not right! Also my level of spirituality drops. It tempts me to do other nasty things. I am trying hard to escape it. You can practice the sunnah of prophet Muhammad (pbuh). He taught us that if sexual urges arise, we should marry if we can or fast as measures to guard our private parts. He never gave "that" as an alternative. I should say that what is harmful for our health, our psychological well-being, our spiritual well-being etc, is nothing but the work of sheitun! Allah(SWT) knows the best. May Allah guide us. Ameen. Please avoid as much as you can. May Allah forgive me and you all.
Basically it's up to you to decide if it is permissable The only issue it that it can damage you as a person and make you do things that definitely aren't permissable if you aren't careful If you do choose to do so don't worry about blindless and such it's actually good for many biological reasons If you believe you'll grow addicted if you do so or you have become addicted either don't do it anymore or forcefully limit doing it no matter what But it'd probably be better just to wait till marriage because then you aren't really restrained and can enjoy the real deal with your spouse
Good response Dr. Shabir. I didnt think of it that way. But I still think it can lead to other sins like missing prayers etc. And even becoming an addiction, so in that manner I think it needs to be controlled. But overall good explanation!
Bruh it doesn’t take 5 hours to masturbante. Everything can you make you miss prayers. It’s as saying that eating food can be haram because you can miss prayers
I think his video is not complete. He missed out too many important things. Also, he said something about it doesn't affect your health... hmmm 🤔 I'm not too sure about that.
@@mr.darknight416 what do you mean by control it? Once a month? Twice a year? I would say it's still bulshi ht and sinful so it will be better if you Stop it completely rather than just controlling it. 👍
He is saying that there are no scientific evidence that makes this practice prohibited or any evidince from Qur’an that makes this prohibited. I do believe what he saying is right. Because of his knowledge.
Surah Muminoon (The believers) And they who guard their private parts(23:6) Except from their wives or those(slave-girls) owned by their right hand for indeed, they will not be blamed -(22:7) But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors -(23:8) The fact that the verses mention “who ever seeks beyond that” Is proof that masterbation is “beyond that” and those are the transgressors.
Even outside of islam everyone says that masturbation can be very harmful to the body psychologically and spiritually, so try your best to abstain from it
I don't know much about religion or hadith or anything, but as I was listening to this, it reminded me of the ruling on eating pork. Eating pork is clearly Haram. BUT when a person is faced with a situation where he has no other options (there are no other halal food that he can eat) then it becomes Permissible for him to eat pork ONLY to relieve him of his hunger (and not to indulge in eating pork or to eat it because he likes it). Is it perhaps a similar kind of ruling on masturbation? That masturbation might be makrooh or mubah when there is no other Halal option and in order to avoid fornication or to relieve oneself of the 'burden of lust/desire' or if he fears 'illness' befalling him, and NOT in order to indulge in it or to take it lightly. This comparison kind of makes sense to me... Allahua'lam....
It is generally prohibited according to the Hanafi and Hanbali madhaahib, unless one fears adultery or fornication, or is under the desire pressure, in which case, it is permissible to seek a relief through masturbation. It is prohibited all the time according to the Maliki and Shafi`i madhaahib.
Let’s end the Christian v Muslim debate: both are right and God chose/allowed you to believe the way you do so that you may turn inward on your own journey so as to grapple with Him about it, not to cause dissension between you. In the end truth will be revealed no matter what. When the Lord comes back whether you believed or not, He will give you a chance to believe through your SEEING the truth if you didn’t already have FAITH of the truth. Because some will need to see with their own eyes. And that’s ok. So spend more time getting closer to God and doing good rather than trying to prove who is right or wrong. As long as it depends on you, be at peace with one another.
Jazak Allah khairan. I could have benefited from knowing this during my teenage years. It would have saved me many years of false guilt and emotional self-torture. It is a relief to see this. Instead I had to learn about such matters from random websites claiming to be "Islamic" which were citing random hadiths with unverified chains of narration for their fatwa. The reason for this is our parents are too embarrassed to talk about this subject.
Stick to your strong topic dear sheikh and avoid fiqhi questions,unless you want to whole heartedly dedicate your time to researching the fiqhi aspects of our religion.
@@teodortheentertainer6082 it's easier to say. When you have anxiety and stress from a long day due to different matters and you can't marry because you are too young then what should we do?
@@bleach--__--2493 so if its not a religious movement, how is it still a sin? I'm soooo confused if it's not, this guy is saying it's not a sin and ur saying it is wth
There are no clear outlines for it and a lot of people that says it is a sin is citing what Dr. Shabir said. There is not enough study for it and there isn’t a clear verse or saying of the prophet (pbuh). What is not clearly stated isn’t sinful, however one can argue that to “get off” one needs sexual imagination which violates the soul and is a sin. The act itself isn’t a sin but your intentions and purpose of it can be sinful depending on the individual. Conclusion is, there are no clear line if it is a sin or not and telling people it is without proper studies/evidence is wrong and vice versa. Make your mind up by doing salah and asking Allah swt to guide you to the right path and research deeply into it (not only taking other people’s conclusion) look at their arguments properly and cross reference them. Also scientifically there are benefits in masturbation but also there are benefits on abstaining from it. This topic needs to be more researched and discussed as many people just assume one or the other when in reality the argument is inconclusive. Just ask yourself and be sincere on why you are doing it (if you are going to do it, I’m not saying you will) and ask Allah swt for guidance. May Allah swt guide you in search of the answer to your question(s). Allah knows best.
Brother if you honestly are looking for answers then atleast listen to 3-4 scholars before making up your mind. Because scholars are human they can also be wrong that's why always listen multiple opinions. (Eg: Nouman, Mufti Menk, zakir naik ,etc
Sheikhs way of seeing things.. Not whimsically but with solid references in the background.... laudable though we don't know the fiqh issue etc... Anyway even if permissible to be discouraged
His answer is correct in no clear restriction but he is looking at only one aspect of it. From the comments, there is so much more to it than simply a little beat the bishop. Why do people feel guilt, what happens when it gets addictive and leads to certain naughty webistes ?
I am nifan from india, i had do (mas.) this from my age 12 to still Present 24. I feel so bad,sad,depressed and strengless after did this so, I highly recommend not to do this caz it will make addicit you soon....i wanna relief from this addiction please readers pray to help me...may allah bless us in the rigth path ameen ameen ya rabalalameen...
I repented to Allah, I quite smoking after 2.5 years immediately with succes Stop listening to music with succes took distance from bad friends, got a good Muslim brother as a friend now, I pray 5 times a day and every single night I pray Fajr in the masjid and I borrowed the Quran from the mosque in Dutch leanguege to understand it and am reading it daily 1 BIG PROBLEM is here I have a masturbation problem I really hate it I promise not to do it again and am genuine when I say it but then a weakness falls on me and beastmode goes on and nothing cares and I do it and after am done I say stagfurillah WHY DID I DO IT pfffff I feel like this will ruin all my good deeds, and intentions does someone has good advice PLEASE HELP ME
Same problem bro......as it is but ill miss fajr facing ths problem....i cme here fr...this sin really wipe our deeds? I saw .. Earlier video..the saikh says (scary hadith) but he dsnt mention any proof..im confusing cn u hlp..me?
Get a wife ! And if you can't find one, keep doing the good you are doing. Yes, at times, you may fall, but Gd sees your heart, your struggle. Get up and continue the fight. The worse you can do is stay down defeated and reject Gd. Keep STRIVING against these lustful thoughts and you will it becomes easier after time. Most importantly, pray.
but imam shafi also said that if some one says it is halal then no one can critizie this person because they are just thoughts of scholars its up to you what you belive.
I was a bit startled by how short and sweet and logical this was. Thank you. So would we categorize masturbation as "neutral" or "discouraged"? Maybe it's contextual. For some it can become an addiction, in which case it may very much be "sinful" in its effect. But I appreciate this reminder that only Allah the Majestic and Sublime can declare a thing haram.
Brother Shabir Ali is very Factual and knowledgeable. Very few scholars are close but only layman mouthing narratives that has been taught to them and accepted without research
@@laylakk9568 Let Nera share her situation. Talking about the human body shouldn't be such a taboo. It's as if you guy's don't trust yourselves together which I must say is a dirty minded rule in your religion.
Wow this IS an interesting topic Dr. SHABIR, we are glad you have gotten your PHD and are still waiting for the debate with you and CHRISTIAN PRINCE !!
I once checked that it is somehow healthy but it will cause addiction, the choice comes to you, personally, I don't do it because I don't see the point in it
It releases dopamine, its good for you psychologically and physically, and emotionally... So I dont know why it is haram. Ofc you can do it only once in a while.
@@eliasziad7864 thats the reason why people dont like it.the dopamine part. By the time of marriage,your husband or wife will not be able to satisfy you as much as you satisfied yourself.smokes and drug dealers also get dopamine. It’s dangerous when you get dopamine from the wrong things.also it will discoruage people from getting married sinse you please yourself.
I'm Christian and found this channel by accident. Very well made and interesting to hear how different religions "work". May God/Allah bless all of you. Salam Aleikum!
Dat Pepe Thank you and walaikum salam.
Dat Pepe lol nice profile
@@Sonic-or9jc Haha thank you!
@@eazy3852 it's nice to know people can respect each others religion and not comment slurs and whatnot
thank you
I don't know is it permissible or not but whenever I do it I feel very bad after that and thoughts come that i did something terribly wrong so may ALLAH protect me from doing this
Ameen
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“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell."
Matthew 5:27-30 ESV
God's moral law was written on your heart brother. That's why you feel guilty afterwards. Jesus came to renew hearts. He came as a sacrifice so you may be forgiven. Repent of your sins and trust in Christ. I will be the best decision you ever make. Your eternity will thank you :)
@@spcnetwork8278 exactly
@@spcnetwork8278 Jesus was God reincarnate in the flesh and he lived a perfect life so that we would know the way
I am new to To this religion.. but the moment I started to read the Q’uran I felt a strange since of peace and I’m now looking for more knowledge.... All praises to Allah 🤎
Really?! Omg mashallah im very happy to hear that! May allah guide us ❤️❤️☪️💕
JazakAllah Khairan brother.
May Allah bless u.
U read Quran properly with It's meaning & all the authentic Sunnah. & if u find anything that u can't understand then discuss with a scholar to clear ur thought.
Then follow Dr Jakir Nayak, Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem, Dr Saleh, Mufti Menk, Omar Suleiman, Nouman Ali Khan. If possible u can ask them questions through email.
They're great scholars.
May Allah guide u & bless u with proper knowledge. . 💙
May Allah make you better Muslim
May Allah bless you
Do research bro..
I am Hindu but I am blessed with Quran bismillaha e Rahman e rehaman ... I am not separated from Allah by Reginal politics ...
You can learn more about islam. And in sha Allah u will find the truth in islam.may Allah give u hidayah. Ameen.
Brother, learn the Arabic...Recite Quran in Arabic, read translation also but don't forget to recite in Arabic language as u urself Insha Allah will see the good effect on ur Heart when u will recite with the Original Arabic
You guys are really forgetting the topic here
its bismillah hir rahman nir rahim brother
@@halalhomer moon and star is not a symbol of islam stop using it
Always remember that you are not alone ALLAH is with you ,all the time
Allah is the greatest.
In islam it tell us don’t be ashamed of asking and teaching
So there is no problem that a women ask that question
chawan BLINK did anybody say something? No, thats what i thought
@PieDiePew nah most Muslims rethink their religion and start to question other religions and atheism and study them then compare and their outcome is what they stick to, that's what i found, as for Muhammad (PBUH) marrying Aisha at such a young age, now in the 7th century, it was allowed and often perceived as normal when seeing someone who had already hit puberty marrying someone of an age that is older than him/herself because it was believed that if someone hit puberty, it means that he/she is not different than one that had already hit puberty long ago,that' that, and also Aisha was already engaged to someone else before marrying The Prophet (PBUH) suggesting she had already been mature enough by the standards of her society to consider marriage for a while...now I know that it may seem strange and I know that you might not accept it, but oh well...may Allah (SWT) guide you into the right path.
Peace man!
@PieDiePew oh and side note, taking all known accounts and records of Aisha's age at marriage, estimates of her age range from 9-19.
chawan BLINK but is masturbation haram please tell me
mostafa zein go ahead and rewatch the video. There is nothing in the Quran or Hadith that says masturbation is haram or says anything about masturbation at all. You do your research too because scholars have disagreed and go with what seems to make sense to you. Allah has made things which are haram clear for us. Good day.
My tip : just think that shaytan is laughing at u while doing that
Thank you this actually helped me 😂😂
Thanks
I think if you doing it without lust in your Mind and for medical purpose it will be ok
Easy for you when women laugh at yours all the time.
Lol that worked
Allah knows best.
This is my opinion on it. I grew up thinking it was a sin and a few sites I visited approved this thought of mine. I think it’s a subject that needs more research. I agree with the fact that desires can be very strong. But I also believe that we, the ummah, have to learn to not be driven by desire. And instead think rationally and spend our time wisely.
Here are some things i feel are relevant:
Leave that which makes you doubt for that which does not make you doubt.” (Recorded in al-Tirmidhi)
My mom would tell me the sahabah would abandon many many acts just because they were in doubt about it.
She also said that we are all sinners. And if we wouldnt be commiting sins, we would be angels. But what’s important is that we repent. We ask forgiveness and we try to do better.
Allah is Al-Ghaffar and Ar-Rahmaan.
May Allah bless our hearts, minds and souls and allow them to be open.
Allah knows best.
Ameen
Ameen
I see your point of view friend, but if the act of masturbation is ambigious and not backed up by a lot of research it doesn't make it permissible.
You are ryt brother , and most scholars said it's bad thing and a sin to avoid they have proof from the coran and hadith .besides here's what I'm convinced of,.if you in doubt ask your self is it good or bad definitely it's bad for Allah loves the good things and what's haram is clear and what's halal is clear and between them doubtful matters, as the prophet Mohammed pbuh said.so if you fall in doubtful matters you fall in haram and it's better to avoiddoubtful matters .
ruclips.net/video/SS8ZEBr6sKo/видео.html
Dear brothers and sisters please pray for me to stop this addiction
May Allah forgive us.
I will pray
One prblm fom me also when i see my owm body parts then my private parts activate how to control....these all
@@HinaKhan-np1gb I didn't understood what did you said ? 🥴
@@muhammaduzairshahid3410 have you understood what Miss. Hina khan wants to say
@@HinaKhan-np1gb Point no. 1 : When you get these type of feelings always say this (AUZO BILLA HI MINASH SHAITANIR RAJEEM)atleast 10 times, In Sha Allah you will feel normal at that time.
2: If you want to control more and more then please fast, fasting will low your sexual desires.
3: Ask your parents that you want to get married.
The harm is more emotional and psychological than biological.
what a statement
btw impressed by the statement
And Spiritual at most I would say
I mean, Alcohol is also haram because it can damage the body ie. The liver, as well as the fact that it alters the state of mind, but I could be wrong about this one
You need to list the harms, not just say there are harms. BTW, emotional problems for one person may not be emotional problems for others.
Masturbation needs sexual imagination..and might lead to other bad sins
It's prohibited
Allah Knows best
surensalh when u say it may lead to other bad sins what do you mean
As a christian. I agree
Allah knows best. did he say masturbation is prohibited or are you putting your words in my lords quotes
Not masturbating creates increased sexual urge. That could lead to sever crimes n "bad" sins
@@lordfazz hey, genius put forward your proof, do you have a research that has been done somewhere?
Allah says in the Quran, “And spend in the way of Allah and do not throw [yourselves] with your [own] hands into destruction [by refraining]. And do good; indeed, Allah loves the doers of good.” Surah Baqarah (2:195)
Tq for telling me bcoz my friend which is also Muslim does it
But I don't do it
I just find answer for this
This ayat also holds against smoking cigarettes or anything we do with our hands (literally or metaphorically) that can destroy oneself. Allahu Alam.
@@ztzepert3381 I see what you did back there.
Most of the scholars agreed that doing musterbation is a sin. It doesn’t contaminate your heart only but also it pushes you towards other sins. We should avoid this. I'm 26 & unmarried & i rather choose to do fasting than doing musterbation if i feel sexual desire. Allah (ﷻ) knows the best. May Allah forgive us (ameen)
Actually most of the scholars have stated masturbation as haram. May Allah SWT guide this akhi
I’m 13
Its completely haram
In my opinion when a person is married and not with his spouse for long period and leads to too much mental tension, stress then it might be ok as long it doesn't become habit forming of doing it frequently.
This happens to some married people who meet their spouses once a year due to financial commitments. Scholars are divided on it between Haraam and Makrouh.Since no verse in Quran or hadith directly states its haraam, I understand that it becomes situational and subjective...if you are staying with Spouse then its not permitted, if it becomes a addictive habit then as per Islamic principle is Haraam but if its due to staying away from spouse for long time and causes mental tension and in order to release the stress it gives respite to the mind then it should be permissible only if its limited to not being habit forming and also importantly saves from Zina...Zina is committed by only such who are corrupt and don't have fear of Allah....any God fearing Muslim would prefer to die than commit henious sin like Zina and earn Allah's wrath.
@Commentator how much have you studied islam to be so sure of yourself? Those scholars you‘re saying are talking nonsense have studied islam for maany years, intensly. I would think more than you have even studied islam...
Personally speaking , whenever i want to see if something is prohibited , i would ask myself if The prophet pbuh or his family/loyal friends would do it .
Definitely not masturbation . It makes a person mentally sick and addicted .
I love your thinking brother...... Even I try the same way of thinking when i am in doubt of something..
Hoping to meet you in Jannah brother .... Inshallah..
Tashrif Newaz inshallah we meet in jannah i my brothers
Count me in😁
Well then you're committing shirk, instead of listening to Allah swt.
@@bobjones-hs5nc how is he actually committing shirk? 🤔
I'm a christian and this is by far the most helpful video I've found on this topic. Thank you. God bless your efforts.
I know this addiction is really hard to get over but this urge to masturbate starts suddenly like if you see a scene in RUclips or some insta post
So when you see it urges but don’t go to far stop suddenly don’t go watch more just switch off your phone
And dont go to washroom at that time just don’t go try to stay in public that time and if you want to go to the washroom come out really quick
And know that
1 allah is watching you
2.the angels are recording your deeds
3.and Shaitan is laughing
Get to know what time you do it if you have urge to do it at night
Do push-ups until you get tired and fall asleep
I have spent 2month without doing it. Just now i felt the desire. But when i decided to read the comments. My desire lowered down. I feel free now. May ALLAH S.W.T Forgive our sins, and give us believing Women. So we avoid this evil. Act. It would not be bad if after you do it you felt like you didnt commited a crime. But everyone feels bad after the act. Though the desire is strong.
those who are looking for yes or no answer isn't gonna get it because there are some deeds that often sit between good and bad i mean haram and halal due the fact that it was perhaps not discussed specifically. however the prophet had urge we muslims to stay clear off these deeds if we really want to strengthen their faith and purify our heart. so ladies and gentlemen of comments readers and writers do what serves you right. Allah knows best.
Ibrahim Faisal thank you so much
Sexual pleasure out of marriage is prohibited
Ali Hyder not to be rude but how do you know
@@alihyder6877 masturbation is not sexual pleasure, unless sexual thoughts are attached to the act. It's like having a massage. Now is massage prohibited? Of course not!
And unless you find a verse explicitly saying masturbation is haram, your opinion is irrelevant.
I’m going through puberty and don’t know what’s right so can we do it but just not thinking of sexual thoughts?? Plz reply and show me the right waay
Everytime I watch a video of Dr. Shabir Ally, I thank Allah (s.w.t.) for blessing us with such a wise scholar. When it comes to topics like this that are not specifically mentioned in the Qur'an or Ahadith, scholars vary in opinion, which is absolutely normal. However most scholars take their opinion and preach it as if it was the absolute and universal truth, whereas Dr. Shabir Ally sheds light on both sides and then sums up the kew points and through critical and logical thinking through his knowledge in Islam tries to determine which option is more reasonable and logical. This sincerity and honesty is really what many lack today. Alhamdulillah for such a beautiful scholar.
Opinion of Mr. Shabbir is less accurate than any of the four Imams .
He's not a scholar and what he is saying is totally wrong , masterbation is Haram backed up by various hadith ,listen to Sheikh Uthman ,assim Al hakim etc ,don't take knowledge from these westernised so called daes.
@@aamirsajad Where are the hadiths and how do you know they're true
@@princess_selfimprovement Read the tafseer of Surah ma'arij verse 29-31. You will understand.
So true
As a person who memorized the Quran, I cant really control myself from it. It's so hard to control it. Please how can I stop it. I do just for to control myself from having sex outside marriage. Since I fast Monday and Thursday I can see a little change so please pray for me
Same position you are in brother. Inshallah we will combat this sin, I am making duah for you.
That's amazing , you memorized the entire quran? How long did it take you?
Anas Mohammad,you do great by fasting,you would have fasted the entire ramzan and at that time your habit should have gone but if not then try to fast as much as possible which will keep you away from this atleast in day time and increase your Iman and at night, can't you sleep with any of your family member or a good friend?
Me too but i think u should marry if you are capable and pray for allah to help u stoping such like this bad deed
It happens to me almost everytime I stopped but went back to it and I’m still going through peuberty which is even worse because I get more horny as growing up but then I’ll become normal this is really making me depressed
I'm a senior psychiatrist.... Seen many many young adults having h/of massturbatiin with extreme guilt feeling later often leading to depression and other psychological problems to the verge of suicidal thinking.. If they would have thought that way ie it's though permissible but discouraged and i shd not indulge it long and long but rather take step like fasting and marriage.. May Allah prevent future disaster
Interesting point. So you would say that if it's helping someone, it can be permissible. That makes sense
@@UmarTahir When one doesn't get clear ones' relationship with God one will remain a lusty person. Lust is way more powerful then dry book"knowledge" and childish sectarian preferences.
The fact is the islam doctrine falsely claims "God has no relationships!". So those adhering to the islamic doctrine remain outside of their relationship with God since they deny having one. And thus they're forced to stay within dark and ignorant materialistic relationships.
@@rajarsi6438 The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said that Allah's love is greater than 19 times that of a mother. Islam definitely doesn't encourage love for materialistic purposes. All Muslims are required to make yearly donations from their income, for the sake of their fellow brothers and sisters. So Muslims are supposed to act with love towards each other
Addendum: Also, you are allowed to have a sexual relationship with your spouse, but you initiate an oath of loyalty (marriage) to him/her first
Umar Tahir who is mohammad(pube)?
@@teddayer6523 he is the last messenger from the almighty God allah
As an American converted Muslim there are constant temptations here that lead to it. I do it less but I understand the value of the hijab a lot more now. A lot of American women put everything out there nowadays, especially in the media, and we wonder why there are so many single moms and why society is falling apart.
I guess there is a verse "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze as it is purer for them ." ALLAH knows best ,
Lower their gaze... right where the breasts are? Might not be the better option, lol.
U do kno what this verse means. This verse means to lower ur gaze from women eg looking at a women's back or breasts this doesn't relate to masturbation
kwpp7 that’s not what he meant
Jesus is the son of God
No. According to the Quran, he was the son of mariam (as) and a messenger of Allah
AsSalama'laikum dear brother and sister. Thank you Shiek! I always find your answers to be well-balanced. The idea of scholars answering people's questions should not be to SHAME them! I take histories and perform physical exams on patients. When questioning them about sensitive issues (e.g. drug use, sexual activity, mental health issues, etc.), I TRY to be aware that our conversation may be embarrassing to the patient. Thus, I attempt to be gentle in answering questions they may have. I notice that you do the same when answering questions. JazakAllahkhair! 😊❤☝🏾️
Thank you Shaikh Shabir for speaking the truth and thanks to many of the followers for their deep and smart comments
Allah knows best.
@@hussy4477 of course it's haraam
AlhamduliLah
Mastuebation is not haram or halal it is simply a life hack. It's the addiction that is sinful. Overall, Masturbation can ease stress doing one-two times a month is good. Doing it Everyday leads to psychological difficulties like anxiety and depression that's when it hurts your body mentally and becomes a sin.
Well said
but doing it one to two months time is almost impossible. It's addictive and before you know it, you'll be fapping away 3 times a day. I'm on day 18 nofap, best I've felt in a long time. May Allah lead us to the straight path, Insha Allah.
Aun Maqsood I read this quran or hadith reference where even men shouldn’t been touching themselves it is only for the wife
@@umarhussain5192 Ye bro we shouldn't I'm addicted now and this is due to my unfortunate past. I regret doing it for "fun" because now it's an addiction and hard to stop. Insha Allah, I'll try my best. Best of luck brother.
Mark Lo don't encourage me dude
Both fornication and masturbation are sinful, harmful and detrimental to one’s spirituality and physical well being. One should avoid all sin and not try to justify a sin as being less detrimental.
Almighty Allah states “Success is really attained by the believers …. who guard their private parts except from their wives or from those (bondwomen who are) owned by their hands, as they are not to be blamed. However, those who seek (sexual pleasure) beyond that are the transgressors” (Quran 23:1-7)
Enjoy your prostate cancer
@@mmohon93 What where in the hell did you read in that short info he mentioned??
As salaamu alaikum akh....i understand what you are saying, but what is the tafsir on this ayah? And are you a student of knowledge?
True
@@naimb3375 search up tafsir
I've been on this for many a times it makes your heart ,brain shrink ina sense and its unnatural and makes you unstable ,
Do five times prayer and fight until you feel that is only temporary until marriage insha Allah'✌🏽✊👍🏼
Umm ? How is touching your body unnatural ? This is your OWN body
@@PheonixStarsx It is terrible. Masturbation is not a thing you want to get into. On the surface it seems harmless and fun but when you get addicted it can cripple you
@@PheonixStarsx There is a reason why over a million people are on nofap, yet only 1% is able to break free. The same reason why only 1% of the world s rich. Correlation? I think so.
You don't seem to understand biochemistry or bio-psychology.
How did you stop @sumith
I don't know whether prohibited or not
But its definitely a sin
Reason: We suffer from an immediate guilt and regret in our hearts after doing it...also nobody does it when they are happy and having a good day
It's a high dopamine injector
Just like alcohol,drugs and slot machine
Inshort it becomes an addiction
And anything addictive is absolutely not a good thing
And ofcourse it requires you watch vulgar things
My dear friends trust me, quitting this has tons of psychological and real world benefits...if you don't believe me watch some Ted talks
It doesn't require you to watch things. Though I agree it feels like a sin. Though there is nothing that says it is so.... We are basically just making up our own rules now?
you also do regret when you eat a lot and your stomach is bloated but thats not forbidden is it ? 💀💀💀
@@talyakus3139 You are Just Making Excuses Because You Are Addicted To It And You Dont Want to StoP.. And now listen.. there is a lot of difference between these 2 things.. after a lot eating we feel ashamed nothing else... after doing suxh a act like masterbation.. we feel like we did a sin and its really terrible and we want that Allah Forgive us.. and Its written in Quran leave everything in which you have doubt that it is a sin like sahaba gave UP Many a things just bcz if it.
Most people do it without watching vulgar things. But the problem is that what’s the point in having reproductive parts that already cause a satisfactory sensation when you can’t do it yourself??
im addicted to water :p
Don't do anything that you wouldn't do in front of God.
That’s the problem we don’t see not hear god, so we a lot of people don’t care what they do in private
This is illogical, that would mean you have to refrain from burping, farting, urinating and shitting.
@@beardrn In those case you don't have a choice .
So that means don't make love to your wife, right? Because I wouldn't do that in front of God either...
@@adriandavid970 the worst part is...we are always in front of Allah or in other words Allah is always watching no matter what so yeah...
Kinda scary to me now ._.
I m recently following Islam. Reading through stuff to understand. What I can say on this based on my experience..Masturbation dilutes mental energy and focus ..Over masturbation has temporary impact on nervous system untill body refills the fuel...On the other hand if stimulation for ejection is reduced or less then Focus increases and Gives back an energy to keep one mentally stable..
Believe me it's Haram
I agree. Masturbation is better than having premarital sex. The sexual desires comes when someone is in their teenage and they are not able to marry.
even at 23 u cant get married today
I'm a Christian, I used to watch Dr. Shabir videos...and I like the way his explainations..
appreciate that we Muslims like to see Christians adopting similar teachings in both faiths.
Thank you for the interesting Q&A. I must say this is the first time I hear this opinion vs the traditional opinion that this act is haram except in certain conditions. Most of the time people get married to channel their sexual needs, but the event of Covid 19 where lockdown occurs and many married people are seperated from each other due to travel restrictions makes this issue relevant to some people again.
Buddy ask it to a Mufti. It's haram with no conditions .
It is haraaam, ask the poople of knowledge and notthe students
It's haram in Christianity too not the mustrubation itself.
But the thought it is required to bring the arosul.
It's distractive to the soul/spirit.
I am so glad someone is talking sense. Thank you so much. I am a practicing muslim and even tough I have unshakable trust in Islam Quran and Prophet, certain ideologies of Islam "example this myth sorrounding masturbation and how it is prohibited in Islam" really disappoints me. They literally make me think twice if i am following the right sect or not. However, watching this video has made me so positive. It have really boosted my trust in my religion and most important, helped me respect my body even more. Thank you. ❤️
HI dear
Ma sha Allah SIR ,MAY ALLAH GIVE YOU PROGRESS
Johny bravo
Plz don't do it.this habit lead me to pronography.now I have trouble with my wife sexually.beacuse of this sin Allah punished me with diseases.this interfered with my studies and work.lost lot of health bcoz of this habit.plz always take advice from expert scholars and not everybody else.this leads to addiction any addiction is difficult to leave. Wait for your time to get married.this habit lead me negligence in worship.
may your problems be solved with
ease :)
May Allah make Ease in your all affairs..
can i ask what type of diseases u got
Stop! Allah doesn't punish one with diseases. It's not a punishment astaghfirullah it's a test. How old are you?! Do you not even understand Islamic teachings??
If you have wife, you can neutralise your desire with wife. But unmarried people can't live without masturbation.
My Allah SW forgive us
I’m going to share my own experience because maybe it’ll help someone else, as a woman masturbation can be EXTREMELY helpful and cleansing in a way, it’s also an amazing stress reliever :) Allah knows best but from what I’ve experienced and interpreted myself, I believe it’s okay as long as you don’t take it to extreme and do it too much. Once a week for example is fine, I don’t see how this will bring evil into your life like some of the comments are suggesting. It’s also much better than going out and relieving your sexual desire with another person that you’re not married to.
ruclips.net/video/HY7t91VCAfQ/видео.html
U should watch it.
& may Allah guide us.
I agree, it's good if you dont get too addicted
Yeah you are absolutely right nowadays you can't get marry at young age before that you have to build you career for your well being
And as we know every person has his or her sexual desires which may lead them to do sin but if mastubrating is the only way to protect yourself from this then I mean why not you aren't doing anything wrong or revealing yourself to other it has no harmful effects that's my opinion 🙂
@salman yusuf bro calm down its medicated safe and in excess each and everything is bad
disagree...as a Muslim we have quit this sin. ..we should try hard
Finally a scholar with a brain and logic.
Masturbation - if it prevents adultery then possibly it's acceptable but it's hard to Justify - May God protect us and any wrongdoing!
Masturbation in a healthy amount helps loosen up dirt and build up that can lead to irritation and infection. It can also facilitate a healthy introduction to sexuality and preparation for a future partner. Ive seen too many cases where people are raised with sex as a boogeyman and end up either rushing into marriage because theyve built up sex into this giant grand thing, or being terrified of ever having to do it because its this giant negative thing.
In the end, we should be teaching young people about consent, healthy sexuality, and sexual health. Kids will be kids with this, and an ummah whos had an experience of feeling shame for thier sexuality is more likely to leave or have a bad marriage.
And if you dont masturbate, please make sure you get everything when you wash yourself.
My tip: do fasting every Monday and Thursday . Pray salah 5 a day read quran after every salah ❤
Please can some one make dua for me bcs im very addicted to this bad thing im trying my best to stop
Get married as soon as possible.
no dua can save you. u r a true sinner
Any action or activity that end up causing harm to your either psychologically , physically or spiritually is a sin..common sense/ logic helps you to understand.
Wise words.
@Commentator It causes addiction - addiction always leads to harm psychologically and physically
@@Kakeshii It doesn't cause addiction as long as you keep it moderation. That's like saying Sugar is haram, or bread is haram.
@@gentlepengua5651 the fact that your comparing masturbation to sugar really shows how badly you want masturbating to be halal. Masturbation makes your body release Dopamine and endorphin which can cause addiction lets compare cocaine and masturbation shall we.
@@gentlepengua5651well, sugar and bread are FOODS. These can, with the right amount - be beneficial, whilst ANY amount of nicotine is bad for your organs.
Please and please pray for me as I m addicted to this 😭
Make dua and inshallah Allah (swt) will guide you
Same bro
I recommend you to fast as much as possible and I recommend you to try to fast continously for two months (this will change your life inshaAllah)
@Abhimanyu nope i tried my best but it’s impossible 😞😞
😂
Thank you for your vids, they really help clarify various topics- seriously considering reverting, just continuing to learn before i take Shahadah
How is it going dear friend. Just wondering if you converted?
Context is everything. No one could avoid committing sins big or small but as much as it is not OK to masturbate by watching porn it's even worse if you sin without masturbating... Sinning is as much as easier to cover it with other rewards. That's called justice... No one pays for another sin. Everyone is responsible for their own.. Only Allah knows what's in your heart... Everyone can lie but no one can escape Allah. If you added lies to another lies, they only multiply... The same way with every word and action we give and take. Religion is so beautiful
I’m a Christian Catholic and I don’t see this subject in the Holy Bible but trained in counselling all needs to remember ADDICTION.
Christian Catholics say it’s a no NO! We must reach Holiness and masturbation brings in “BAD THOUGHTS” right!
That is a start of lowering yourself. 🙏✝️ Your body is your temple, Holy Bible.
Masturbation is not big sin compared to sins that some Muslims know that treating wife rudely, using her like toy and as free servant for household work,, hitting her,,torturing her for dowry ,,,, marrying other women without permission,,,, telling abuse words,, hitting,,etc ..many Muslim men know that treating wife badly is definitely most haram ...you are killing her for ur needs..but they just ask forgiveness from Allah but do haram things 😢😢😔😔😔. please treat your wife like a human,,not like a free servant..even if you are poor be sincere to her...
India has low divorce rate ..that doesn't means all married women's are happy
Please respect girls,,,don't flirt ,,bcz u also have mom and sister ..and remember one thing especially for those men who torture your wife's: remember Allah is watching you,,,and you have to face Allah on judgement day. And everyone has to face Allah on judgement day....
Hitting is easy but facing Allah anger is not easy ..... Don't tell yourself as Muslim if you hit women...bcz Islam doesn't support domestic violence especially against wife and children...
Masha Allah Dr shabbir sahab is my favourite scholar....I follow him and his preachings ...I love to watch all your videos...They are full of knowledge. ...
The Sheikh's wise, and dare I say, commonsensible, understanding of this matter is much appreciated.
Salam.
Alhamdulilah & may ALLAH forgive us all
Point no. 1 : When you get these type of feelings always say (LAHAUL WILA QUWAT ILLA BILLA HIL ALIUL AZEEM) atleast 10 times, In Sha Allah you will feel normal at that time.
2: If you want to control more and more then please fast, fasting will low your sexual desires.
3: Ask your parents that you want to get married.
I am distressed. So much. I fast I don't remember how much fasting I have done . I did zikr I did exercise , I did dawaah everything to get rid of this bad habit but it is sticky. I am now depressed and can't hold on to Islamic rulings altogether. I am now not praying anymore because I can't hold on to the rulings . It is something I can't do.
@@GMATPrepVideos brother nobody is saying to oppress your desire, just use it in a halal way,
And this is a trap of shaitaan, shaitan never come and say don't pray, firstly he would say after azaan u have so mùch time now, just do what u r doing.
Then he would say ohhh u forget about namaz, now next time pray...
Then he will say don't repent, allah will not forgive u, u made a very big mistake...
Now he would say don't pray because u have already made mistake and further u won't get anything from Allah.
Allau says in Qur'an: DO NOT FOLLOW THE FOOTSTEP OF SHAITAN. (Above given illustration is footstep of shaitaan)
Allay further says: NEVER GIVE UP ON ALLAH'S MERCY
I am sure u get here in the same way I stated above illustration. ..
So pray always pray and give sadqah (sadqah breaks the jaws of shaitaan)
AlhamduliLah
The end times..Darn it. Time where people consider evil as good and good as evil
Thats a great news for me i hoping 😥the end times will come soon so i can get out from this earth test.. and go to jannah..which is way more funn
@@niickniick5839 how do you know for sure you're going to Jannah?
@@Al_3abbas what if i repent to Allah and not doing masturbation,music,swearing and other sin and trying my best not to delete all my deeds? I have addiction to masturbation but im trying my best to stop it and not leaving the 5 daily prayers you never know there will be a big test that can ruin your current deeds and gain alot of sins thats why im hoping the end will come soon
@@Al_3abbas or what if we got the big test(such as the dajjal trial) and we accidentlly commite shirk by THAT BIG TRIAL THINK ABOUT IT...
@@Al_3abbas look at dr shabir he might fallen to hell due to his false statment look what this curse world did to this innocent dr..
Mastibation causes different thoughts in the minds so therefore should he avoided
To you not to everyone idiota
🤣🤣 it's not different thoughts brother, let me explain....it's dopamine, certain activities like workout, masturbation, drugs, even tasty food, releases dopamine in your mind, your brain will slowly start craving for dopamine and asks you to do those tasks again and again, that's when you become addicted to that activity.....it's in your hands to control it..... quitting completely is not the correct solution, you don't quit eating coz you're getting fat, you just control your eating...same way, if you control your masturbation, it's healthy
@@dudeitsme5753 i think you right brother
Masha Allah. I always seek the opinion of Dr. Shabir Ali on complicated matters. Thank you all.
Praise be to Allah.
The first hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5066) and Muslim (1400) from Ibn Mas‘ood, who said: We were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), young men who had nothing of wealth. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s chastity. And whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”
The second hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5030) and Muslim (1425) from Sahl ibn Sa‘d: A woman came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), I have come to give myself to you (in marriage). The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) looked her up and down, then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) lowered his head. When the woman saw that he had not made any decision about her, she sat down. A man among his companions stood up and said: O Messenger of Allah, if you have no need of her then marry her to me. He said: “Do you have anything?” He said: No, by Allah, O Messenger of Allah. He said: “Go to your family and see if you can find something.” So he went, then he came back and said: No, by Allah, O Messenger of Allah, not even a ring of iron, only this izaar (lower garment) of mine - Sahl said: he did not have a rida’ (upper garment) - and she may have half of it. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “What will she do with your izaar? If you wear it she will not have anything of it and if she wears it you will not have anything of it. The man sat down, and after he had sat for a long time, he got up (to leave). The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw him turning away, and he ordered that he be called to him. When he came, he said: “What do you know of the Qur’aan?” He said: I know Soorah such and such and Soorah such and such - and he listed them. He said: “Do you recite them by heart?” He said: Yes. He said: “Go. You have been given her (in marriage) for what you know of the Qur’an.”
how do these hadith help us? weve read it 1000 times. it does not tell us if masturbation is haram or not,
Now everything make sense lol
Land ofJannah I agree, this Hadith indicates that marriage must be mutually beneficial for both parties instead of the ruling in mastrubation.
@@kyzersoze8408 Didn't the Hadith say Prophet Muhammad PBUH married a 6 year old?
Nowadays our life is full of temptation and it's hard to get married as there aren't many pure people left to choose from, I believe fasting is a way of control your desire or in other word will stop you from doing the action of zina at the time of fasting, which is mashallah is great but after the fasting finishes the urges will kick in, so what to do? It must be a way to release something ... you can't fast for 24/7
Zikr
Tazboy can you show me an evidence about the say zikir if you can't married? Jazak allah khayran
Roflmao
Muhammad Dawood Akhalwaya oh my Allah, who am I to justify or not to, I was just commenting, I am not a scholar,
But people who fast still do it
Almighty Allah states “Success is really attained by the believers …. who guard their private parts except from their wives or from those (bondwomen who are) owned by their hands, as they are not to be blamed. However, those who seek (sexual pleasure) beyond that are the transgressors” (Quran 23:1-7)
This says it all
Is it haram or halal?
@@bibbubbob6030 haram.
When you quote a verse please quote the whole verse ! not what you want to emphasize! Its misleading..People like me who are lazy and full of confidence get misinformed by those broken quotes!
Bib bub Bob
Some scholars say it is haram some say it’s not but makruh but there is no clear consensus and usually it’s halal until it’s proven haram
You probably shouldn't do it but we are only human and sometimes we give in. People who are saying its haram or it's not haram shouldn't be saying something Allah swt hasn't specifically told. Us. Common sense for me may not be the same for someone else so we can't use this as an argument for or against. Seek forgiveness from Allah and try your best not to do it sincierly. We live in different times now where our imagination and desensitisation of our mind is far beyond our prophets time. You can only do your best from your heart I think everyone deep down knows when they have transgressed so seek refuge and forgiveness from Allah. Most gracious most merciful.
Jazak Allah
Extremely true. Its frustrating to keep repeating these sins though.😔
Lol I'm certain in the Quran it states not to force beliefs on others and ones sins are private between themselves and Allah, also only specific authority figures can exact punishments
🤔So is it haram to do masturbation??
Since our scholars have not reached a unanimous conclusion yet, avoiding it is the best option.
And besides, as Muslims we all believe that ALLAH is watching us all the time. So the question is, if ALLAH sees you performing this act, is it something to be proud of or something to be ashamed of? At least for me, it wouldn't be something I'd feel proud of.
Allah knows best
Guys it’s actually very simple, masturbation is haram and we are straying away from Allah everytime we sin. It’s really not easy to quit masturbation. Pls dua for me!
"Truly, to a happy state shall attain the believers: those who humble themselves in their prayer, and who turn away from all that is frivolous, and who are intent on inner purity; and who are mindful of their chastity." (Holy Qur'ān 23:1-5)
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and to be mindful of their chastity: this will be most conducive to their purity - [and,] verily, God is aware of all that they do." (Holy Qur'ān 24:30)
YA ALLAH (assawajel) we beg you to show mercy upon us
Its haram. But if someone will fall into zina than in that situation he only can do it. According the hanafi school
Wrong there's no such Fatwa in any of the four schools
فَمَنِ ابْتَغَىٰ وَرَاءَ ذَٰلِكَ فَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْعَادُونَ
But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors; (Al-Mu'minun 23:7). The verse is telling us that we should not seek to execute our sexual desires beyond what previous verse allows!
إِلَّا عَلَىٰ أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ غَيْرُ مَلُومِينَ
Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, for then, they are free from blame; (Al-Mu'minun 23:6).
Therefore, I can't see why we hit behind the bush while it is clear to us. Actually, whenever I do, I develop sense of guilty and my heart says to me that it is not right! Also my level of spirituality drops. It tempts me to do other nasty things. I am trying hard to escape it.
You can practice the sunnah of prophet Muhammad (pbuh). He taught us that if sexual urges arise, we should marry if we can or fast as measures to guard our private parts. He never gave "that" as an alternative.
I should say that what is harmful for our health, our psychological well-being, our spiritual well-being etc, is nothing but the work of sheitun!
Allah(SWT) knows the best. May Allah guide us. Ameen.
Please avoid as much as you can.
May Allah forgive me and you all.
Basically it's up to you to decide if it is permissable
The only issue it that it can damage you as a person and make you do things that definitely aren't permissable if you aren't careful
If you do choose to do so don't worry about blindless and such it's actually good for many biological reasons
If you believe you'll grow addicted if you do so or you have become addicted either don't do it anymore or forcefully limit doing it no matter what
But it'd probably be better just to wait till marriage because then you aren't really restrained and can enjoy the real deal with your spouse
Lol, no.
He never answered the question like all his other videos. He's always playing safe. No backbone
Good response Dr. Shabir. I didnt think of it that way. But I still think it can lead to other sins like missing prayers etc. And even becoming an addiction, so in that manner I think it needs to be controlled. But overall good explanation!
Bruh it doesn’t take 5 hours to masturbante. Everything can you make you miss prayers. It’s as saying that eating food can be haram because you can miss prayers
I think his video is not complete. He missed out too many important things. Also, he said something about it doesn't affect your health... hmmm 🤔 I'm not too sure about that.
@@mtalk828 it doesnt tho, as long as u have it under control. Like everything else, u can hurt urself with almost anything if u over do it.
Mat R I mean anything that is too much can hurt you, you’re never suppose to have so much with anything at all.
@@mr.darknight416 what do you mean by control it? Once a month? Twice a year? I would say it's still bulshi ht and sinful so it will be better if you Stop it completely rather than just controlling it. 👍
Whatever the conclusion is.. getting this question asked by a sister is uncomfortable on a million different levels...
It’s hella messed up
Sorveel no it’s not tbh she’s asking a question that many ppl want answers to
So true
And the answer wasn't good, I still don't know why masterbaiting is bad
So you a homosexual and want to discuss sexuality with a man? EWWWWW....
He is saying that there are no scientific evidence that makes this practice prohibited or any evidince from Qur’an that makes this prohibited. I do believe what he saying is right. Because of his knowledge.
Bleach there is search it up
He is right that there is not enough evidence to say it is wrong
Apparently there is a hadith which says the masturbators hand will be pregnents on the day of judgement . But don t know if it sahih.
I heard theres hadith that Allah swt will not look at person who married( i think word nikah is in hadith)with his/her hand.
@@QasimAli-bc2vc no this is Zaif hadith
To prove it Haram..
Surah Muminoon (The believers)
And they who guard their private parts(23:6)
Except from their wives or those(slave-girls) owned by their right hand for indeed, they will not be blamed -(22:7)
But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors -(23:8)
The fact that the verses mention “who ever seeks beyond that”
Is proof that masterbation is “beyond that” and those are the transgressors.
Even outside of islam everyone says that masturbation can be very harmful to the body psychologically and spiritually, so try your best to abstain from it
Who said that?
That’s just not true
May Allah swt protect us from such misguided people
Yes, people like you
I don't know much about religion or hadith or anything, but as I was listening to this, it reminded me of the ruling on eating pork. Eating pork is clearly Haram. BUT when a person is faced with a situation where he has no other options (there are no other halal food that he can eat) then it becomes Permissible for him to eat pork ONLY to relieve him of his hunger (and not to indulge in eating pork or to eat it because he likes it). Is it perhaps a similar kind of ruling on masturbation? That masturbation might be makrooh or mubah when there is no other Halal option and in order to avoid fornication or to relieve oneself of the 'burden of lust/desire' or if he fears 'illness' befalling him, and NOT in order to indulge in it or to take it lightly. This comparison kind of makes sense to me... Allahua'lam....
masturbation is not a physical need like hunger
Assalamuilaykum Warrahmutulahi Wabarakatuhu🙏 I hope everyone is doing well and stay blessed.
It is generally prohibited according to the Hanafi and Hanbali madhaahib, unless one fears adultery or fornication, or is under the desire pressure, in which case, it is permissible to seek a relief through masturbation. It is prohibited all the time according to the Maliki and Shafi`i madhaahib.
Let’s end the Christian v Muslim debate: both are right and God chose/allowed you to believe the way you do so that you may turn inward on your own journey so as to grapple with Him about it, not to cause dissension between you. In the end truth will be revealed no matter what. When the Lord comes back whether you believed or not, He will give you a chance to believe through your SEEING the truth if you didn’t already have FAITH of the truth. Because some will need to see with their own eyes. And that’s ok. So spend more time getting closer to God and doing good rather than trying to prove who is right or wrong. As long as it depends on you, be at peace with one another.
Jazak Allah khairan. I could have benefited from knowing this during my teenage years. It would have saved me many years of false guilt and emotional self-torture. It is a relief to see this.
Instead I had to learn about such matters from random websites claiming to be "Islamic" which were citing random hadiths with unverified chains of narration for their fatwa. The reason for this is our parents are too embarrassed to talk about this subject.
Wait, so it’s not haram right? Just to make sure
ABDUL cherchar I don’t know. I’m so confused
@@leun6768 No your sexual desire will be with you your entire life, the only way to solve it is to get married.
@@reezis1619 Even as a baby?
ABDUL cherchar it’s haram
Awesome. Nice channel. Subscribed
AllAH forgive us😭😭😭🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Amen
Simple solution to avoid Zina of every kind is to fast and have good friend circle who practice 5 times salah
Jesus says whoever looks Upon A woman lustfully has already committed adultery in his heart
Stick to your strong topic dear sheikh and avoid fiqhi questions,unless you want to whole heartedly dedicate your time to researching the fiqhi aspects of our religion.
Ya Allah hame iss buree kamo se bacha ne ke taufik aata farma ; Ameen
I like do that 1 time a week cause of puberty makes it impossible to not do it but I feel like I'm being punished every time I do it
@Mohammed Hijab if I do this if I beg God to forgive me am feeling like God not forgive me so some days I return to this sin again
You are commiting a sin, and just a wrong uncontrolled act which weakens your spirit. Besides it is haram. Stay away from it.
@@teodortheentertainer6082 it's easier to say. When you have anxiety and stress from a long day due to different matters and you can't marry because you are too young then what should we do?
@@tahirmaxudi1416 Various sports, arts, chess, there are plenty of things to keep your mind busy with.
IM SO CONFUSED IS MASTURBATION A SIN OR NOT EVERYONE IS SAYING DIFFERENT ANSWERS ALLAH PLEASE HELP ME
It is a sin. It violates the soul watch videos on NOFAP which is a movememt to stop masturbating and talks about benefits of quitting.
Its not a religious movement btw
@@bleach--__--2493 so if its not a religious movement, how is it still a sin? I'm soooo confused if it's not, this guy is saying it's not a sin and ur saying it is wth
There are no clear outlines for it and a lot of people that says it is a sin is citing what Dr. Shabir said. There is not enough study for it and there isn’t a clear verse or saying of the prophet (pbuh). What is not clearly stated isn’t sinful, however one can argue that to “get off” one needs sexual imagination which violates the soul and is a sin. The act itself isn’t a sin but your intentions and purpose of it can be sinful depending on the individual. Conclusion is, there are no clear line if it is a sin or not and telling people it is without proper studies/evidence is wrong and vice versa. Make your mind up by doing salah and asking Allah swt to guide you to the right path and research deeply into it (not only taking other people’s conclusion) look at their arguments properly and cross reference them. Also scientifically there are benefits in masturbation but also there are benefits on abstaining from it. This topic needs to be more researched and discussed as many people just assume one or the other when in reality the argument is inconclusive. Just ask yourself and be sincere on why you are doing it (if you are going to do it, I’m not saying you will) and ask Allah swt for guidance. May Allah swt guide you in search of the answer to your question(s). Allah knows best.
Brother if you honestly are looking for answers then atleast listen to 3-4 scholars before making up your mind. Because scholars are human they can also be wrong that's why always listen multiple opinions. (Eg: Nouman, Mufti Menk, zakir naik ,etc
Sheikhs way of seeing things.. Not whimsically but with solid references in the background.... laudable though we don't know the fiqh issue etc... Anyway even if permissible to be discouraged
His answer is correct in no clear restriction but he is looking at only one aspect of it. From the comments, there is so much more to it than simply a little beat the bishop. Why do people feel guilt, what happens when it gets addictive and leads to certain naughty webistes ?
I am nifan from india, i had do (mas.) this from my age 12 to still Present 24. I feel so bad,sad,depressed and strengless after did this so, I highly recommend not to do this caz it will make addicit you soon....i wanna relief from this addiction please readers pray to help me...may allah bless us in the rigth path ameen ameen ya rabalalameen...
I repented to Allah, I quite smoking after 2.5 years immediately with succes Stop listening to music with succes took distance from bad friends, got a good Muslim brother as a friend now, I pray 5 times a day and every single night I pray Fajr in the masjid and I borrowed the Quran from the mosque in Dutch leanguege to understand it and am reading it daily 1 BIG PROBLEM is here I have a masturbation problem I really hate it I promise not to do it again and am genuine when I say it but then a weakness falls on me and beastmode goes on and nothing cares and I do it and after am done I say stagfurillah WHY DID I DO IT pfffff I feel like this will ruin all my good deeds, and intentions does someone has good advice PLEASE HELP ME
Same problem bro......as it is but ill miss fajr facing ths problem....i cme here fr...this sin really wipe our deeds? I saw .. Earlier video..the saikh says (scary hadith) but he dsnt mention any proof..im confusing cn u hlp..me?
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Get a wife ! And if you can't find one, keep doing the good you are doing. Yes, at times, you may fall, but Gd sees your heart, your struggle. Get up and continue the fight. The worse you can do is stay down defeated and reject Gd. Keep STRIVING against these lustful thoughts and you will it becomes easier after time. Most importantly, pray.
Edit: It’s makrooh.
Even non Muslims are against it. So, personally it’s better not to do it.
but imam shafi also said that if some one says it is halal then no one can critizie this person because they are just thoughts of scholars its up to you what you belive.
I was a bit startled by how short and sweet and logical this was. Thank you. So would we categorize masturbation as "neutral" or "discouraged"? Maybe it's contextual. For some it can become an addiction, in which case it may very much be "sinful" in its effect. But I appreciate this reminder that only Allah the Majestic and Sublime can declare a thing haram.
Brother Shabir Ali is very Factual and knowledgeable. Very few scholars are close but only layman mouthing narratives that has been taught to them and accepted without research
It helps me sleep better & it helps with period cramps.
@@laylakk9568 why not? I'm being honest, & I'm seeing a lot of comments saying masturbation is evil, however it actually has health benefits.
@@neragato5960 are u women
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Let Nera share her situation.
Talking about the human body shouldn't be such a taboo. It's as if you guy's don't trust yourselves together which I must say is a dirty minded rule in your religion.
@@laylakk9568 Taboo's in Islam is just a pre-excuse to separate men and women from being mature.
Nera Gato 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Wow this IS an interesting topic Dr. SHABIR, we are glad you have gotten your PHD and are still waiting for the debate with you and CHRISTIAN PRINCE !!
Who the hell is he...Baseless to talk
Shaikh it's something prohibited cuze it makes you ending up the sexual life with your self without getting married. It's harmful and disaster.
@tah nos Shaikh is Religous scholar in islam
I cant believe people are debating whether masturbation is halal or haram lmao
Saying masturbation is permissible is totally wrong. Check the evidence from the major scholars including Imam shafiee. Don’t take fatawaa from him.
I once checked that it is somehow healthy but it will cause addiction, the choice comes to you, personally, I don't do it because I don't see the point in it
I wish I started out like you.
It releases dopamine, its good for you psychologically and physically, and emotionally... So I dont know why it is haram. Ofc you can do it only once in a while.
@@eliasziad7864 wait I thought he said it wasn’t haram ?!?
@@eliasziad7864 thats the reason why people dont like it.the dopamine part.
By the time of marriage,your husband or wife will not be able to satisfy you as much as you satisfied yourself.smokes and drug dealers also get dopamine. It’s dangerous when you get dopamine from the wrong things.also it will discoruage people from getting married sinse you please yourself.