@@LynetCEshun My younger sister and our grandmother were literally BFFs. When they were out shopping and going to lunch together, it was as if two young friend girls were just hanging out. And yes indeed, BigMa and my sister talked about EVERY!! THING!! GRAPHICALLY!! I couldn’t hang. I’m from the previous era before my sister and I couldn’t ever allow some of the stuff they freely talked about leave my lips in my grandma’s presence 🤯 My sister was an emotional wreck when our BigMa died August 22, 2013💔
@@kayshawnsimmons6822 right talkn about " i love you fam and everything fam"...FOH !!! be quick to use you take advantage of you , abuse you and everything else !!
Nope it is not the favorite just the one got talked about an used an said he was the favorite cause he took care of her Naw not the favorite cause the stuff my husband with through he shouldn't have Not been the favorite.Just speaking from personal experience nope Nothing about that experience said favorite
Nope. It's disrespectful to his grandmother memory. I loved my grandma was there when she died and I will not let no niqqa in my family disgrace her memory or funeral because it's not about you.
The sad thing is, they jump up quick to silence him but minded their business when people were taking advantage of grandma. Y’all want decorum here but had none when she was alive.
Fake same thing they did when my grandma pass.. stole her money get mad at her if she don’t give it to them but where they are when she need something done or a drink of water no where to be found…. Rubbish
@@deborahisrael1927 I think he was saying that when his grandma was alive; no one came to help her. And now they're all lined up at the funeral... I may be wrong but that's what I heard.
Funerals are NOT for the dead!!! They are supposed to be a message to encourage the living to be better people before they pass. Now, in MY eyes, he did just that!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hey I feel them. I did the exact thing 21 years ago at my grandma's funeral...and closed her coffin and pushed out down the aisle while telling the preacher to shut this shit down...my grandma said she didn't want nobody hollering lying and crying at her funeral..I did what she asked....
LMAO! You're the best!!! I absolutely Love you for that and don't even know you! My Gramms passed when I was 39 1/2.... yes I count that 1/2. Only time.i didn't live with her was the 5 years I spent in the military. She is my favorite Human Being ever.... My goodness i miss her. . .and I know she's still looking out for me.
Shuler, I used to work at a funeral home. Claws and teeth come out when it is time to pay using insurance money. They fight over insurance money and the possessions of the deceased. Evil lurks in these people's hearts. God take the wicked out of this world (Psalm 37). Some of the die horrific deaths. People better repent and end their foolishness.
Yes! My grandmothers brothers let their wives take everything from my grandmother's room and house. Sold her home and wouldn't let us buy it. Then, wanted to keep the profits between them including my grandmother's portion. That should've went to my father. Luckily my great grandparents had an ironclad will. Death brings out the WORST in people.
I spoke at my best friend's funeral a few years back at the request of his wife and told the audience to answer three questions...1...did you love him, 2...did you visit or call him or his wife through this Cancer journey...3...did you pray for him. If you didn't do all three during his life, especially while he was sick then what support are you going to give his wife and kids now that he is gone? He is in a place of peace and love without pain or hurt and here some of you probably looking forward to the repass. GOD watches everything and how you treat people in life will be how you are treated when it's your turn. Love is not like old luggage to be thrown around. Care for it, love properly and without want of reward and that love will carry you to the end of time. Needless to say some people loved it and some people didn't. I slept good regardless especially knowing that my friends wife and kids loved it and I still talk to them weekly and they are forever family. This young man spoke his truth. His way. No need to play games anymore.
This really hit home....My daddy passed away with several neighbors and family members owing him large sums of money. My daddy was so kind, and occasionally I had to play "bill collector" when certain folks had "amnesia" when it came time to pay him back. At his funeral, after I gave my tearful remarks, I wiped my eyes, and held up the calendar my Daddy used to mark who owed him, with the amounts and due dates circled. I didn't call out any names. I just simply said, "I'll be in touch". I got a few eyes rolls from the guilty parties...but I didn't care. (Don't mess with with Daddy.) We went on with the service. It was beautiful. 💕
Dear lord I know that's right. Except my daddy didn't get around to putting it on paper. He just told me. So I had to let it go but you should have seen the hypocrites. Showing up and showing out .People are something
If she is rolling over smiling in her grave how is she in heaven?!? The dead is Dead and doesn’t know NOTHING! If you die in CHRIST JESUS then we are Resting; awaiting upon his return.
@Tracy-qv8if I just said this to my dad this week😂 If ppl come in my face abt how he meant so much to him. Did you check on him when he was breathing😂 and don't ask me for NUTHINNN!
I did the same at my grandmother’s funeral. I sacrificed career and all to take care of her. It was videotaped and live online for all to see and hear. It was quiet as a graveyard at midnight 🕛! They knew not to say sh!t!!!
You are one that wait for somebody to get up and you are ready to let them know to sit their $5 a** down before you make change.😂🤣 You are the realest👍🏾
Didn’t matter with us. Lady was a bitter witch, and I didn’t attend the funeral.lost no sleep. That was in 86 when I was 12. Others didn’t go either, including at least one, or two of my uncles. Very little crying. Now 36 years later they wanna turn her into a queen who treated everyone with respect and dignity. I’m the only one - other than my uncle whose not going to hell. Because we tell them truth. The rest going to hell for creating lies. She was s bitter 🦇 . It is what it is. Be honest
Say it again. The main ones saying go get him and went up to get him we’re the culprits. Don’t touch him let him speak. If it had been me the fallout would have been different….DON’T TOUCH ME…There would have been a laying of hands …lmao
Thats how my children's father is he's the only one out of all ten kids that does anything for his mama he goes and takes her trash out for her takes her grocery shopping takes her to the thrift stores when she wants to go he's a good man gives her money when she needs it tells her don't pay me back you just keep it Mama
Awe that's very sweet of him. He is a good man then an he s honoring his Mother. So many people now don't respect their parent's or their elders period. When I was growing up we was taught respect an love to love our parents an family.
You are 100% correct I’m proud of this brother... I can relate to what he saying 100% people was lying at my mothers funeral and I wanted to get up and say something so bad
True the moment you speak the truth ALL of a sudden you're evil 🤦 AND it's not what you said it's how you said it... Bishhh shut TF up because no matter how it's delivered you're not going to want to hear it especially when so many fake friends and fake family members make you believe you're Right.
If that lady talking about "go get him" telling me to go and get him off the stage all I'm gonna do is stand right next to him and say "Gon head I'll protect you from em while you read them all" He a real one 💯
When grandmother was in the home I was the only grandson that went to see her every wk out 30 grandchildren,even my aunt who took everything her sons didn't even bothered to go,and grandma didn't make a will,I say to myself I didn't work for her money so I can't be upset,my grand die 2012 and I haven't talk to that aunt since then,my other aunt told me got a tax bill £190 000.00 I shout out praise the lord no bad deeds go unpunished,I think alot of grandchildren have a grandmother story to tell RIP 🙏🙏🙏🙏⚘⚘⚘
Samething happened at my uncle's funeral when my cousin got up and told everyone how shallow my aunt was and how bad she treated my uncle during his battle with cancer and he exposed her so badly she left the church i love when people tell the truth at funerals and show how fake some people are
They should have let him finish because he was telling the truth! I hate this world sometime because people much rather hear a pretty lie than an ugly truth.🤦🏾♀️smh
I wanted so bad to say something like this at my mother’s funeral, but I chose to focus on her and keep it classy. Family will take you there though. Especially the ones who always have their hands out but never contribute.
I felt the same way at my mom going home service , kept my silence and till this day keep my distance from those gold (n)diggers, money hungry that called themselves family 💯💯😂😂😂
I'm so sorry for your loss. I kept it classy at my Mother's celebration too. My Mother's great grandchildren didn't even come by to see if she needed a glass of water. But always had their hands out for something. It's really a shame. May God bless you real good.
@@marysimmons9502 I'm so sorry for your loss. My cousins did the same to my wonderful grandparents over 30 years ago and it still haunts me to this very day.
Good for him, Grandma knew he would SETTLE ALL DEBTS at her funeral. Nobody wanted to help out when Granny was alive but crying at the funeral ... Shame on all hypocrites!!! (R.I.P Granny) Someone stood up for you.
This would be me. People kill me at these funerals falling inside the casket, rolling on the floor, and screaming. Grandma would be proud that he spoke the truth.
This should happen more often. Speak the truth and shame the devil. Don't mistreat people when they're alive and in their death pretend to have cared. In the future, if I ever attend a funeral and go up to the pulpit, record my speech because it should be time stamped. All spirits of pretenders will be exposed. 🤷🏿♀️
Honestly, I sometimes wonder why relatives even come to the family funerals. These were the same ones who always wanted you helping them out, but when you needed their help, they were no where to be found, period!
if you look at it in anger, that's how it seems. You have to remember you dont know everyone's personal life. Rumors dont equal accuracy. I've SEEN my family through the years break up and break down and break apart. Often times, the ones that got talked about who didnt help out after they've been helped etc..those people were struggling themselves. Sure the few times so done else saw them, they LOOKED like they had money or whatnot, but reality is they were faking it. Keeping themselves clean, not letting someone know l the troubles, keeping head up...often times it was the grandma or auntie that was doing the giving that was telling them to do all that. Dont worry about payingback. keep your head up. Dont let everyone know what you're doing and what you're going through. Some of my family moved away. I'm one of them now, but when I wasyounger, we had family that moved states over. I rememwbe hearing people talk down on them about how they rarely visit or doanything. Problem with that, they never contacted the people either to even let them know what was happening. But on Christmas or Thanksgiving they would visit, and I'd be in the back room with my great grandmother, and shed have a sit down talk with everyone who she hasnt seen in a while. And she was catching them up with what was going on, calming them down when theycried. Telling them it was ok. She knew no one told them and that they have a family and situation in which they couldn't just pick up and leave every other weekend. Some people are building their own families and that has ups and downs of it's own. There are definitely people who just use and nothing more than that. But in my family, the ONLY people I've seen do that are the druggies. Everyone else that I've seen, simply nust caught up in life struggles. Uos and downs as well as the giver telling them dont even worry about it. Just get their life straight. And stop letting people see them down. If you don't hear those details. see those interactions, I can see how you can get angry when all you see is the person helping but rarely, if ever, giving back. I'd like to say that MOST families are like mine.
I had to do the same thing at my mother AND baby brother’s funeral, so many lies were told during the time they passed and I had to set everybody straight because I was beneficiary for both of them!
Girl they didn’t let me speak at my brother funeral. But that’s alright. I haven’t forgotten about all the clout chasers and all the fake love. I had to lick my wounds first but I touched on it a bit today, which is his birthday. I don’t want him to feel like his big sis letting this shit slide. I haven’t. He been working hard keeping us safe.
My mom is the type of person to pretend she had a close relationship with everyone at their funeral. People I know she hasn’t spoken to more than twice in the last two years, she suddenly has a story about how she was talking to them just last week and they were always close. Hate that BS.
Fake as I dont know what ha ha. No disrespect to your mom I dont know her but I feel you on that fakeness. That's why I dont get along with most people to my fault cause I cant tolerate that fake stuff and it causes people to call me antisocial. My mom is similar
This is actually refreshing. We went to my husband’s uncle funeral and we were all looking at each other like “Who are they talking about?” “He was a good husband and father”, my ass. Tell the truth and shame the devil. I didn’t think he was going to name names though. Lol
@Angela Lee I buried my father in January 2019 my 4 daughters knew I wanted to address some old wounds about my dad's family so BEFORE the funeral my daughter rolled one I had to sit there and listen to that yap yap yap about what a great man he was but I didn't say a word 🤣😌😤 I'm so GLAD I didn't embarrass my daughter's at their grandfather's funeral and in retrospect dem folks was probably expecting me to act a fool...
I won't be going to my dad's funeral if he passes before me. I refuse to sit through he wa a good man BS. He was an abusive hateful man to his wife, side chicks, kids and girlfriends
@@swiftkarma4436 I get it! I refuse to support lies, untruths, wear a mask etc.. I have been resented & hated for standing on truth. Guess what, at the young age of 70... NO REGRETS! 😆
I LOVED EVERY SECOND OF THAT! 😂😂😂😂 Sometime you need to call these hypocrites OUT, right where they stand! Every one of us have some family members who NEVER called the deceased, NEVER came by to visit or so much as wrote a letter to them, but at the funeral they are the MAIN ONES screaming and crying and trying to climb in the casket with them!
I saw this on IG and the back story behind this is that one of the family members he named, his uncle stole the money that the grandmother had saved up for her funeral and used it for his wedding. She saved up more money and someone stole that too. Then he tried to do a go fund me to pay for the funeral. This young man did exactly what she would have wanted him to do, tell the truth about how they treated her. This had to be grandma's baby and he's making her proud. He definitely broke some generational curses even though they sat him down.
No matter what happened and went on in there family,. Grandma has forgiving them and she is at peace, and those who didn't do right by her shall stand accountable and rep what they sow.
I feel you Young “Man”. Your GrandMama Raised a “Man”, an Honest Man within whom she has to have exceptional pride. You stood Up for Her, Spoke the Truth that She Carried knowingly to her Grave. She not here to tell you, so I will… I am exceptionally proud of you!!
That’s exactly how I feel about some of my siblings. Only come crying when our mom goes to the hospital. After that it’s back to business as usual. I feel your pain baby!!
@@melmel3703 I couldn't, either. Had to rely on Shuler's commentary and the action in the video, especially where you see someone going to the podium to shut him down. 👀👂🏽
Lol...yep !! My great-grandmother left some notes for my uncle to read at her funeral, so he had to read off the names of people who never paid her back, but was always telling her that they loved her.....I was not expecting that.....🤣😂🤣🤣 !!!
I’m the type of relative that would stop the women from stopping him. Let the boy speak his piece and grieve. People need to be called out on their BS sometimes. As he said “y’all sitting her acting like y’all Carr about my grandmomma but y’all don’t”
That's what I just said 👏🏽👏🏽 🗣️Let 'em speak! I ain't about to go get him! I know things gotta be decent and in order in the church, but we're not finna sit here and act fake and phony. Grandma gone (R.I.H.) so this might as well come out. We don't gotta be nasty, but let's talk about it 🤷🏾♀️
Unless grandma specifically said to call out family at her funeral and kick out people he didn’t like, this is the most disrespectful thing I’ve seen. How can a funeral for her be turned into family history night at the Apollo?
@@mrmitchell9142 He’s a kid, clearly. Not everyone can control their emotions. Maybe it just came to a head when he was speaking and could see the people there being fake. As you said we DONT know what his gran told him to do, but I personally ain’t mad at it and would not have stopped him. Grieving takes many forms
This helped me alot for my mother funeral. I band both my brothers and there wives. My brothers took for my mother and I was the only one took family leave and came back to NY 2 years to take care of mama. Told my family who thought I was wrong to take their ass home (at the church) kiss my ass. I had guards for there safety I was packing.
That was Grandma's baby 🍼 right there she raised him and know's everything because Big Mama told him . Yes indeed my baby right next to me watching t.v. my kids went on with they life all I have is my baby. He told me Granny I'm never going to just leave you 💗 My Grandson graduated last year and is a working young man . They should've let him talkand get the truth of his chest .
This is sad but true. My grandfather left land to his children. Some of them tried to sell it immediately after he died. My father is keeping the land instead.
I like how the lady was agreeing at first. And then said go get him. She must've been on the list too.😂
Righttttt😂😂😂😂
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Facts.
She was thinking hurry up before he call my name 😮
Yup😭
he understood the assignment....shots fired....this the grandbaby that knew all of grandma business
Definitely always one of us. I'm definitely proud of him
Because Grandma's ALWAYS tell everything to their grandchildren. You BEST know that to be true.
@@LynetCEshun My younger sister and our grandmother were literally BFFs. When they were out shopping and going to lunch together, it was as if two young friend girls were just hanging out. And yes indeed, BigMa and my sister talked about EVERY!! THING!! GRAPHICALLY!!
I couldn’t hang. I’m from the previous era before my sister and I couldn’t ever allow some of the stuff they freely talked about leave my lips in my grandma’s presence 🤯
My sister was an emotional wreck when our BigMa died August 22, 2013💔
ME AF 🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣
ME AF 🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣
Respect to him. Nobody wanna help take care of grandma but everyone wanna cry when she's gone
They tried to stop him when he called him out.
Girl! If this ain't the truth!!! 💯 And then wanna claim that she left them this and that after she's gone! 😳🤥😡🤯
Because the "ATM" is gone
That part there!
@@kotijohnson2429 this!!!
Folks will shut down some *truth* with the quickness. He called them out and named names! LOL! Love it!
The truth hurts! If you are offended, you are the culprit.
His grandma raised him from birth. He is hurt and couldn't keep it in. Well done. Some family members be the biggest hypocrites.
That was grandma baby.
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Crocodile tears, being phony af
@@kayshawnsimmons6822 right talkn about " i love you fam and everything fam"...FOH !!! be quick to use you take advantage of you , abuse you and everything else !!
@@dominicbrogsdale3348 the Lord sees the fake ish, and I bet they was going thru her ish the night after the funeral
He CLEARLY was the favorite grandson! Defending Grams til the end!
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That's right tell the truth baby, you still got grandma back
CLEARLY!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nope it is not the favorite just the one got talked about an used an said he was the favorite cause he took care of her Naw not the favorite cause the stuff my husband with through he shouldn't have Not been the favorite.Just speaking from personal experience nope Nothing about that experience said favorite
Go get him, go get him… NO, let him finish the truth!! Folks mad because they’re the guilty ones! 🙏🏾
yep... yep
Right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Yes, “Go get him, go get him”. 🤣🤣🤣🤣⚰️⚰️⚰️
Nope. It's disrespectful to his grandmother memory. I loved my grandma was there when she died and I will not let no niqqa in my family disgrace her memory or funeral because it's not about you.
When my mom died everybody wanted to cry, then tried to take half of her belongings. It’s a sick world we live in.
That’s what mine did
I've been fortunate that this has never happened in our family
I feel like that is why my brother leaves his kids at my mom's house to slowly take over it
I hate that. 😖
@@natureboygolfer Yet...
He broke a Generational Cycle with this one we need more truth seekers
Mama mia... like the old folks use to say (tell the truth snaggle tooth & ur jawbone wont lie)..lol😅
And truth speakers 🔊 @mama Mia 🤣🤣😅
No lies
Amen.... I love it
@@smittyb9418 we always said tell the truth and shame the devil 💪🏽💯
Grandma wouldn't let him say it before, trying to keep the peace. Its OPEN SEASON now!
Its open casket now😂😂😂🍿🧃
@@corlos19 🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Lol
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The sad thing is, they jump up quick to silence him but minded their business when people were taking advantage of grandma. Y’all want decorum here but had none when she was alive.
Fake same thing they did when my grandma pass.. stole her money get mad at her if she don’t give it to them but where they are when she need something done or a drink of water no where to be found…. Rubbish
@@lexxgal2344 it's happens so often to ppl it's ridiculous.
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Just said 👍❤️
Absolutely!
Death brings out true colors
Always.
When shit hits the fan
He calling out all Big Mama backstabbers.
He got Big Mama dancing her way into Heaven.
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Right this this is the definition of I got yo back Big Ma 2 death do u part🤣🤣🤣
This has to be Big Momma's favorite grandson.
Wish i could find the video because i couldn't hear nothing he said😞
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@@deborahisrael1927 I think he was saying that when his grandma was alive; no one came to help her. And now they're all lined up at the funeral... I may be wrong but that's what I heard.
These kids ain’t playing no games. They see the truth and will speak on it.
Tell the truth and shame the devil is what he did and why they jumped up there and took the mic👹🤛🤡🤛💯
That's are children of today!💯
That Part 🗣️🗣️🗣️
Nah! We're just a lost and broken culture. We'll say and do just about anything!
Bible said through the mouth of babes.
Funerals are NOT for the dead!!! They are supposed to be a message to encourage the living to be better people before they pass. Now, in MY eyes, he did just that!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
AGREED!
Yes indeed!
Exactly! lol I was sitting up at my grandmas funeral crying when my brother whispered to me why you crying she didn't even like you 🤣🤣🤣
@@Nokzima 😔😂😂
@@Nokzima I'm dead🤣🤣🤣
He definitely delivered a message. He had her back and that's good.
The truth is the truth, and it’s always the truth teller who is considered the “trouble maker.”
He is I, and I m him!🤣
Yep I used to get in trouble
The truth ain't nothing but the mothereffin truth. IJS
Yes that’s what they say but tell it any
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Well he’s not wrong the big hypocrites pulled up at the funeral and never called his grandma once to check on her and be there for her
how they gonna get him off the stage when they the ones who made him get up there smh that's what they get
Sara.... now that's the REAL truth!!!🤔
@@RICKEYDD Right!!!😅 because he was about to call their name they was one of the people!!!!🤫🤭😏😅
Am I the only one who has no idea what he said?
@@vinniedupree6315 no cause I didn't hear anything he said myself 😂
This is how funerals go. A real one speaks the truth.
Exactly I don’t see the problem. Give me my mf flowers while I’m here
You are absolutely right!!!👍
The truth cuts deep…….to the bone
Right
There’s ALWAYS THAT ONE!!!!
Hey I feel them. I did the exact thing 21 years ago at my grandma's funeral...and closed her coffin and pushed out down the aisle while telling the preacher to shut this shit down...my grandma said she didn't want nobody hollering lying and crying at her funeral..I did what she asked....
Proud of u
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"...nobody hollering, lying and crying;" that part!
LMAO! You're the best!!!
I absolutely Love you for that and don't even know you!
My Gramms passed when I was 39 1/2.... yes I count that 1/2.
Only time.i didn't live with her was the 5 years I spent in the military. She is my favorite Human Being ever....
My goodness i miss her. . .and I know she's still looking out for me.
That's what's up. You did not play about your Granny.
Speak alittle truth and the whole world go crazy. -Ice Cube
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Dough Boy
YOU SHOULD RUclips GINO JENNINGS, NOW HE MAKES THE WORLD GO CRAZY
@ I absolutely agree with you 💯
@@Andsheflew88 yes he does. A man try to stab him at the gas station because he said Gino caused his wife to leave him
Three types of people that tell the truth drunks, kids, and angry people.
Facts 💯
Nd don't forget... Honest people.
Speak
Man you right sir, peace & prosperity to you
Truth.
He was calling out names…you can hear her, go get him, go get him. She knows her name was on the roll call.
🤣🤣🤣yep
Exactly what I SAID 🤣😂
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Hahahahaha!
Yep 😂😂😂😂
Shuler, I used to work at a funeral home. Claws and teeth come out when it is time to pay using insurance money. They fight over insurance money and the possessions of the deceased. Evil lurks in these people's hearts. God take the wicked out of this world (Psalm 37). Some of the die horrific deaths. People better repent and end their foolishness.
Yes! My grandmothers brothers let their wives take everything from my grandmother's room and house. Sold her home and wouldn't let us buy it. Then, wanted to keep the profits between them including my grandmother's portion. That should've went to my father. Luckily my great grandparents had an ironclad will. Death brings out the WORST in people.
I feel like grandma would approve of this!
LOL!! 🤣🤣
me2....
She said go get him.... Lol oooo we .. she knew .. lol
Me too!
You can tell he was raised by Grandma from a baby!
It's always that one grandchild that has been just waiting to let everyone have it. I am her.
Get'em!!!😆😆😆
I know I recognized you Michelle. Classmates @ Sterling HS.
@@student5673 well hopefully, you will share who you are, and I hope all is well in your life.
I got busy at my mother's funeral no filter I spoke Mama's peace my peace and Mama's truth
@@denisegriffin4343 people will take you there! Especially family.
I would have had to hold back my laughter. The fakeness amongst family is comical at times. He knew we wasn't going to have this opportunity again.
Exactly get it off ya chest and put it out there
The word "fake" has become pretty generic and overused.
But regardless of my opinion, I somewhat agree.
Thank you ❤️
Did you hear the lady holding the camera say " go get em go get em"
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I spoke at my best friend's funeral a few years back at the request of his wife and told the audience to answer three questions...1...did you love him, 2...did you visit or call him or his wife through this Cancer journey...3...did you pray for him. If you didn't do all three during his life, especially while he was sick then what support are you going to give his wife and kids now that he is gone? He is in a place of peace and love without pain or hurt and here some of you probably looking forward to the repass. GOD watches everything and how you treat people in life will be how you are treated when it's your turn. Love is not like old luggage to be thrown around. Care for it, love properly and without want of reward and that love will carry you to the end of time. Needless to say some people loved it and some people didn't. I slept good regardless especially knowing that my friends wife and kids loved it and I still talk to them weekly and they are forever family. This young man spoke his truth. His way. No need to play games anymore.
Auntie has his back, cosigning and shit, until he started naming folks. She was about to be on that list.
Exactly
Sooooon as he started naming names... she knew her # cld be up any second 🤣😂😂 GO GET HIM!!!
Yesssss👏👏👏
Okay! 🤣
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The way he walked up to the pulpit swinging his arms was a clear sign he was about to drop a whole bag of dimes.
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😄Exactly!
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You right and exact! Body language says everything!!!
naw he ain't dropped them dimes he hit them in the face with them
This really hit home....My daddy passed away with several neighbors and family members owing him large sums of money. My daddy was so kind, and occasionally I had to play "bill collector" when certain folks had "amnesia" when it came time to pay him back. At his funeral, after I gave my tearful remarks, I wiped my eyes, and held up the calendar my Daddy used to mark who owed him, with the amounts and due dates circled. I didn't call out any names. I just simply said, "I'll be in touch". I got a few eyes rolls from the guilty parties...but I didn't care. (Don't mess with with Daddy.) We went on with the service. It was beautiful. 💕
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I know that's right baby !!!💚👑💚
Dear lord I know that's right. Except my daddy didn't get around to putting it on paper. He just told me. So I had to let it go but you should have seen the hypocrites. Showing up and showing out .People are something
My condolences and kudos to you for continuing to handle your father's business
Sorry for your loss. But... You did the right thing. I would of done the same. 💯
That's a real Grandson. 👍👍👍
Grandma is rolling over smiling in her grave at her grandson SALUTE FAM!!!!
You already know who her favorite was!!! He wasn't having it lol
If she is rolling over smiling in her grave how is she in heaven?!? The dead is Dead and doesn’t know NOTHING! If you die in CHRIST JESUS then we are Resting; awaiting upon his return.
Fasho!
Granny ain't Rollin she holdin lol
They should have let him talk. Grandma is speaking through him.
That's what I said to
Excellent point sister. Right on.
She definitely was
Very well said
On this episode of "Family Feud",
Jamal raise hell while Grandma smiling in heaven.
Teller babyyyy.....in grandma voice. I love it
@Hjc Ceril p
Spill all the tea brother
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My daughter said she got me. She said anybody who wasn’t for me in life can’t be at the funeral. I believe her too 😂
That's what I told my husband. If you weren't there for me in life, you won't be there for me in death.
Same here you can be here now or disappear later. I definitely love my mom and that is definitely me.
@Tracy-qv8if I just said this to my dad this week😂 If ppl come in my face abt how he meant so much to him. Did you check on him when he was breathing😂 and don't ask me for NUTHINNN!
He understood the assignment. Grandma told him to say that. She wrote it down and made him memorize it. 🤣
Lol, memorize it.
I Salute him for speaking the Truth. The one's he was calling out is the one's crying and snot slanging all over the place.
Yep! The main ones acting and cuttin up.
Ann If you ain’t telling the truth I want to thank okay PERIOD
Dayum... Not snot slanging 😂😂😂 but you are absolutely right 😜
@@julandaclark8586 and would have the nerve to ask you if you have any tissue? Using up all the Ushers Kleenex.😂😂🤣
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Her last words to him were "Baby......tell the truth"
I read this in the grandma from Soul Food voice 😂
@@teafoster5643 That's Miss Irma P. Hall! I LOVE HER!😂
Perfect visualization!😂😂😂😂
And he did 👏👏👏
The way he walked up on there… I knew it was gone be good
I did the same at my grandmother’s funeral. I sacrificed career and all to take care of her. It was videotaped and live online for all to see and hear. It was quiet as a graveyard at midnight 🕛! They knew not to say sh!t!!!
AMEN!!😓😢🐝💪
God bless you, and compensate for your sacrifice. Grandmas are gems
You are one that wait for somebody to get up and you are ready to let them know to sit their $5 a** down before you make change.😂🤣 You are the realest👍🏾
Get em all at once 👌🏾😂😂😂
We need footage😂😂🍿🧃
For everyone taking from Grandma or not treating her right, let this be a lesson to you. What’s done in the dark will come to the light.
This is def me. I surely said I would call out my cousins. I do for my grandparents soooo much, but as for the other two 😏 they do occasionally!!!
Didn’t matter with us. Lady was a bitter witch, and I didn’t attend the funeral.lost no sleep. That was in 86 when I was 12. Others didn’t go either, including at least one, or two of my uncles. Very little crying. Now 36 years later they wanna turn her into a queen who treated everyone with respect and dignity. I’m the only one - other than my uncle whose not going to hell. Because we tell them truth. The rest going to hell for creating lies. She was s bitter 🦇 . It is what it is. Be honest
Amen!
Yeeeeeees gurl!!.
😂😩 it was the “Go get him, go get him” Nah what better place for him to tell his testimony before the Lord in the pulpit. 😂
Say it again. The main ones saying go get him and went up to get him we’re the culprits. Don’t touch him let him speak. If it had been me the fallout would have been different….DON’T TOUCH ME…There would have been a laying of hands …lmao
Exactly Yaya 😊👌🏿👌🏿🙌🏿😂😂
@@ThatsSoTonya yes lord 😂😂😂😂💪🏾💪🏾
Amen
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NOT ONLY DID HE UNDERSTOOD THE ASSIGNMENT HE GRADUATED WITH HONORS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not only did he UNDERSTAND the assignment ... Lord help us !!
I'm so sick of this phrase "understood the assignment". I miss originality.
@@glen5084ma'am leave.go look up colloquialism then NEVER EVER COME BACK
Thats how my children's father is he's the only one out of all ten kids that does anything for his mama he goes and takes her trash out for her takes her grocery shopping takes her to the thrift stores when she wants to go he's a good man gives her money when she needs it tells her don't pay me back you just keep it Mama
Awe that's very sweet of him. He is a good man then an he s honoring his Mother. So many people now don't respect their parent's or their elders period. When I was growing up we was taught respect an love to love our parents an family.
@@cynthiaparris7549 But did your parents love and respect you? Many of ours DID NOT. Just praise God you were blessed.
Yes my parents showed love an respect an I understand a lot of children are mistreated, but me n my sister's wasn't.
That’s so sweet
@Singing Quarterback What a lovely thing to say 🙏🏿
People don't like honesty. That brother was being honest as hell. People rather be fed sugarcoated BS it is what it is.
You are 100% correct I’m proud of this brother... I can relate to what he saying 100% people was lying at my mothers funeral and I wanted to get up and say something so bad
Okay.
True the moment you speak the truth ALL of a sudden you're evil 🤦 AND it's not what you said it's how you said it... Bishhh shut TF up because no matter how it's delivered you're not going to want to hear it especially when so many fake friends and fake family members make you believe you're Right.
@@FaithAndLoveFaithAndLove wow, so true a bunch of soft a$$ people.
That Part 👀
If that lady talking about "go get him" telling me to go and get him off the stage all I'm gonna do is stand right next to him and say "Gon head I'll protect you from em while you read them all" He a real one 💯
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When grandmother was in the home I was the only grandson that went to see her every wk out 30 grandchildren,even my aunt who took everything her sons didn't even bothered to go,and grandma didn't make a will,I say to myself I didn't work for her money so I can't be upset,my grand die 2012 and I haven't talk to that aunt since then,my other aunt told me got a tax bill £190
000.00 I shout out praise the lord no bad deeds go unpunished,I think alot of grandchildren have a grandmother story to tell RIP 🙏🙏🙏🙏⚘⚘⚘
Samething happened at my uncle's funeral when my cousin got up and told everyone how shallow my aunt was and how bad she treated my uncle during his battle with cancer and he exposed her so badly she left the church i love when people tell the truth at funerals and show how fake some people are
They should have let him finish because he was telling the truth! I hate this world sometime because people much rather hear a pretty lie than an ugly truth.🤦🏾♀️smh
Mmmm absolutely!
Exactly. Let him finish so they all can be called the fuck out.
They were scared that they were next to be called out.
@@sanatryalawrence7906 Exactly. Because if you didn't think your name was on his list, you'd be more interested in finding out who's all on it.
Right on!
I wanted so bad to say something like this at my mother’s funeral, but I chose to focus on her and keep it classy. Family will take you there though. Especially the ones who always have their hands out but never contribute.
I felt the same way at my mom going home service , kept my silence and till this day keep my distance from those gold (n)diggers, money hungry that called themselves family 💯💯😂😂😂
And they were probably the first ones to grab a plate at the repass!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I kept it classy at my Mother's celebration too. My Mother's great grandchildren didn't even come by to see if she needed a glass of water. But always had their hands out for something. It's really a shame. May God bless you real good.
"Always have their hands out but never contributes!!" Love how you said it!
@@marysimmons9502 I'm so sorry for your loss. My cousins did the same to my wonderful grandparents over 30 years ago and it still haunts me to this very day.
This is just what needs to happen at funerals ,tell the truth and shame the Devil.😃 Amen.🙏🏿
What in the “truth shall set you free” is going on here? 😂
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Amen
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Right! 🤣🤣🤣
*He just set himself free from the family.*
I told the truth at my mother's funeral and they were furious. Needless to say I walked out with my head held high and not a care in the world
As you should!
Same here 👌🏽
I don’t see no wrongs here
Good for him, Grandma knew he would SETTLE ALL DEBTS at her funeral. Nobody wanted to help out when Granny was alive but crying at the funeral ... Shame on all hypocrites!!! (R.I.P Granny) Someone stood up for you.
The definition of "He Understood His ASSIGNMENT!!! 😂😂😂 Grandma is well pleased❤❤❤
Yes she is😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I appreciate his honesty. Gra'ma taught him to tell the truth, shame the devil.
Wonderful! 🙌🏽
This would be me. People kill me at these funerals falling inside the casket, rolling on the floor, and screaming. Grandma would be proud that he spoke the truth.
😂😂😂”Falling inside the casket”!!!
I like his honesty and his grandmother might have told him to say that for her.. And he kept his word... Lol...
Yea I can hear a older person say baby when I pass or if something happens I don't wont none of them crying over me call they ass out at the funeral
@@kasimahollis5063 right I seen it done
Exactly 💯
Especially if you're really close to your Gram. I know mine left clear instructions.
Speak your truth man, as someone who's family took care of grandma when the other family went on vacation and lived their best life I feel it
That’s right! The truth is welcomed! We need more people like him telling the truth!!
This should happen more often. Speak the truth and shame the devil. Don't mistreat people when they're alive and in their death pretend to have cared. In the future, if I ever attend a funeral and go up to the pulpit, record my speech because it should be time stamped. All spirits of pretenders will be exposed. 🤷🏿♀️
I'm sure his grandmother was smiling down on him like that's momma's baby. Fine young man right there. She may now rest in peace.
Honestly, I sometimes wonder why relatives even come to the family funerals. These were the same ones who always wanted you helping them out, but when you needed their help, they were no where to be found, period!
Amen an amen again😇
To get a plate of that food, and socialize, that is how they do.
Amen to that!!
if you look at it in anger, that's how it seems. You have to remember you dont know everyone's personal life. Rumors dont equal accuracy.
I've SEEN my family through the years break up and break down and break apart.
Often times, the ones that got talked about who didnt help out after they've been helped etc..those people were struggling themselves. Sure the few times so done else saw them, they LOOKED like they had money or whatnot, but reality is they were faking it. Keeping themselves clean, not letting someone know l the troubles, keeping head up...often times it was the grandma or auntie that was doing the giving that was telling them to do all that. Dont worry about payingback. keep your head up. Dont let everyone know what you're doing and what you're going through.
Some of my family moved away. I'm one of them now, but when I wasyounger, we had family that moved states over. I rememwbe hearing people talk down on them about how they rarely visit or doanything. Problem with that, they never contacted the people either to even let them know what was happening. But on Christmas or Thanksgiving they would visit, and I'd be in the back room with my great grandmother, and shed have a sit down talk with everyone who she hasnt seen in a while. And she was catching them up with what was going on, calming them down when theycried. Telling them it was ok. She knew no one told them and that they have a family and situation in which they couldn't just pick up and leave every other weekend.
Some people are building their own families and that has ups and downs of it's own.
There are definitely people who just use and nothing more than that. But in my family, the ONLY people I've seen do that are the druggies. Everyone else that I've seen, simply nust caught up in life struggles. Uos and downs as well as the giver telling them dont even worry about it. Just get their life straight. And stop letting people see them down.
If you don't hear those details. see those interactions, I can see how you can get angry when all you see is the person helping but rarely, if ever, giving back.
I'd like to say that MOST families are like mine.
I know his grandmother is proud of him standing up for his grandmother 🙏🏽
I had to do the same thing at my mother AND baby brother’s funeral, so many lies were told during the time they passed and I had to set everybody straight because I was beneficiary for both of them!
My condolences to you and your family
I hope everything is straightened out now
Damn right!!!
@@glorymosbyfloyd3878 Thank you! No, I am loving my estranged family from a distance for MY PEACE & Sanity….
Girl they didn’t let me speak at my brother funeral. But that’s alright. I haven’t forgotten about all the clout chasers and all the fake love. I had to lick my wounds first but I touched on it a bit today, which is his birthday. I don’t want him to feel like his big sis letting this shit slide. I haven’t. He been working hard keeping us safe.
@@BlitzoSuck33 Happy Birthday to your Brother, make he Rest in Power…
See he is the new generation the old generation would just talk behind family back… I’m glad he told them to their face
I couldn’t understand a word he said but “Philistine you one” 😂😂😂
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Me either
Me either, but I got the gist of what he was saying at the end!!!
I thought I was the only one!
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My mom is the type of person to pretend she had a close relationship with everyone at their funeral. People I know she hasn’t spoken to more than twice in the last two years, she suddenly has a story about how she was talking to them just last week and they were always close. Hate that BS.
Exactly, why do they do that?
That's why I don't go, to many lies
Fake as I dont know what ha ha. No disrespect to your mom I dont know her but I feel you on that fakeness. That's why I dont get along with most people to my fault cause I cant tolerate that fake stuff and it causes people to call me antisocial. My mom is similar
This is actually refreshing. We went to my husband’s uncle funeral and we were all looking at each other like “Who are they talking about?” “He was a good husband and father”, my ass. Tell the truth and shame the devil. I didn’t think he was going to name names though. Lol
The naming names tho..
@Angela Lee I buried my father in January 2019 my 4 daughters knew I wanted to address some old wounds about my dad's family so BEFORE the funeral my daughter rolled one I had to sit there and listen to that yap yap yap about what a great man he was but I didn't say a word 🤣😌😤 I'm so GLAD I didn't embarrass my daughter's at their grandfather's funeral and in retrospect dem folks was probably expecting me to act a fool...
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I won't be going to my dad's funeral if he passes before me. I refuse to sit through he wa a good man BS. He was an abusive hateful man to his wife, side chicks, kids and girlfriends
@@swiftkarma4436 I get it! I refuse to support lies, untruths, wear a mask etc.. I have been resented & hated for standing on truth. Guess what, at the young age of 70... NO REGRETS! 😆
Salute. I seen a bunch of times how people front at funerals. I can never be against truth being told. Even when it hurts.
I LOVED EVERY SECOND OF THAT! 😂😂😂😂
Sometime you need to call these hypocrites OUT, right where they stand!
Every one of us have some family members who NEVER called the deceased, NEVER came by to visit or so much as wrote a letter to them, but at the funeral they are the MAIN ONES screaming and crying and trying to climb in the casket with them!
He was the grand baby Big Mama could most definitely and did count on!!!
"Wearing Granddaddy military clothes...You ain't even been in the military." Baby I hollered. So True.
I saw this on IG and the back story behind this is that one of the family members he named, his uncle stole the money that the grandmother had saved up for her funeral and used it for his wedding. She saved up more money and someone stole that too. Then he tried to do a go fund me to pay for the funeral. This young man did exactly what she would have wanted him to do, tell the truth about how they treated her. This had to be grandma's baby and he's making her proud. He definitely broke some generational curses even though they sat him down.
It so real
Exactly!!! Those involved are W R O N G!! I can't believe that they had the audacity to attend her services.
Thank you for the backstory. Those people had no shame. Except when he began calling out names!
That's what I should have done at my mother's home going! Called out her grandchildren and my sister!😅😅😅
@@marydavis7978
Was the right time
Why did the woman recording say, "Go get him?" Guessing she didn't want to wait to get called out.
@Vivian Sisk If someone is willing to start a fight over their own dishonesty it's their own fault
Right
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Exactly. She or somebody close was getting ready to get called to the carpet.
@Yah's Isolele 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And for the lady saying, “Okay, okay!” You one. I want to see part two.
It's the "pull your spine out ya ass" immediately followed by "Alright we gonna follow up with a scripture" for me.
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No matter what happened and went on in there family,. Grandma has forgiving them and she is at peace, and those who didn't do right by her shall stand accountable and rep what they sow.
Amen
Amen!
This is truth!!!
They just did 😆 🤣 😂
Yes and as my late grandmother would say " that's right baby".Peace
I feel you Young “Man”.
Your GrandMama Raised a “Man”, an Honest Man within whom she has to have exceptional pride.
You stood Up for Her, Spoke the Truth that She Carried knowingly to her Grave.
She not here to tell you, so I will…
I am exceptionally proud of you!!
I'd also like to say how proud I am of this young man.
He told the _truth_ ❗
Me Too!!!!!!!!
Proud of you and praying for you Now 💕💯🙏🏽❤️
Awsome for this young man!❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽👑
That’s exactly how I feel about some of my siblings. Only come crying when our mom goes to the hospital. After that it’s back to business as usual. I feel your pain baby!!
The "Walk" To The Podium You Can Tell Some TRUTH Was About To Be Spoken
He was swinging them arms like he was almost about to hold back on 'em.
yep they guilty asF for that
King Relly....judging from the way he was walking I thought he was about to cry..lol😅
@@AlexRides808 lol that's a sign that nothing good was about to happen
@@smittyb9418 hahaha he was thinking about how hard he was gonna go on his family
Auntie said go get him go get him, she wanted to take him down before he called her out.
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Exactly I know he heard me say Okay out LOUD😂🤣🤣🤣praise him👏👏👏
I can’t hear anything he’s saying
@@melmel3703 I couldn't, either. Had to rely on Shuler's commentary and the action in the video, especially where you see someone going to the podium to shut him down. 👀👂🏽
@@blackcatlady2172 😂😂😂😂
Lol...yep !! My great-grandmother left some notes for my uncle to read at her funeral, so he had to read off the names of people who never paid her back, but was always telling her that they loved her.....I was not expecting that.....🤣😂🤣🤣 !!!
They should have let him finish. There’s always idiots in a family and they need to be told. Sometimes by the younger folks.
I’m the type of relative that would stop the women from stopping him. Let the boy speak his piece and grieve. People need to be called out on their BS sometimes. As he said “y’all sitting her acting like y’all Carr about my grandmomma but y’all don’t”
That's what I just said 👏🏽👏🏽 🗣️Let 'em speak! I ain't about to go get him!
I know things gotta be decent and in order in the church, but we're not finna sit here and act fake and phony. Grandma gone (R.I.H.) so this might as well come out. We don't gotta be nasty, but let's talk about it 🤷🏾♀️
The truth will always set you free let him speak...
Why wait till she died though? It ain’t the time or the place.
Unless grandma specifically said to call out family at her funeral and kick out people he didn’t like, this is the most disrespectful thing I’ve seen. How can a funeral for her be turned into family history night at the Apollo?
@@mrmitchell9142 He’s a kid, clearly. Not everyone can control their emotions. Maybe it just came to a head when he was speaking and could see the people there being fake. As you said we DONT know what his gran told him to do, but I personally ain’t mad at it and would not have stopped him. Grieving takes many forms
Before the speech, his walk to the podium said It all 🤣
😂🤣 Kept it real
Yes God it DID. I said uh oh
This helped me alot for my mother funeral. I band both my brothers and there wives. My brothers took for my mother and I was the only one took family leave and came back to NY 2 years to take care of mama. Told my family who thought I was wrong to take their ass home (at the church) kiss my ass. I had guards for there safety I was packing.
Let him talk damn it! TRUTH HURTS! Keep standing in truth young King 🤴 👏 😆
No need in anyone being mad with the young man for telling the truth.
ALL of Big Mama's people should've treated her right while she lived.
WOW & He speaking from his truth. +HAVE MERCY !
That was Grandma's baby 🍼 right there she raised him and know's everything because Big Mama told him . Yes indeed my baby right next to me watching t.v. my kids went on with they life all I have is my baby. He told me Granny I'm never going to just leave you 💗 My Grandson graduated last year and is a working young man . They should've let him talkand get the truth of his chest .
As my former English teacher, Mr. Charles Dougar used to say “The truth is the light and the light must shine”🤗🤗😂
Lol... Love this!
It’s the lady whispering Go get him, go get him, go get him for me!!!!!! 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I would've been the only one clapping n cheering him on like that scene in coming to America. Lmao!
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He needed that!! Bless his 💜 I know grandma would have appreciated him takin up for her. I hope they heal and grow from a hard place.
It’s the “go getem go getem “ for me. He gotta be truthful in the Lord’s House ! Let that man stand in his truth lol
That took me out🤣
I am so glad you repeated it because I couldn't hear him. I know grandma is tickled and enjoying it. She's proud of her boy.
If you ever wanted to know just how evil your own family can be, wait until someone dies.
My Lord, my Lord. 😔
Tell me about it.
This is sad but true. My grandfather left land to his children. Some of them tried to sell it immediately after he died. My father is keeping the land instead.
Shots were fired, names were called, and truth was spoken.