Blue October's Hate Me is.... (Reaction!)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 янв 2025

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  • @clarisaexplainsitall79
    @clarisaexplainsitall79 4 месяца назад +39

    As a recovering addict, this one always hits hard. I lost my mom in the midst of my addiction, and sadly she never saw me clean again. Today, I'm 15 years clean. Her death was my catalyst for change.

    • @Matpan730
      @Matpan730 2 месяца назад +1

      That's amazing ❤ keep being the strong, beautiful and courageous person you've become! I'm still not quite there yet but comments like your's really really push me to work harder on my sobriety. Thank you for this comment. You have no idea how much I needed to read this right now. I hope you're doing wonderful and living a happy and healthy life because you deserve it

    • @crzyking6821
      @crzyking6821 2 месяца назад +1

      @Clarisa Mad Love and Respect Lady Your Strength is to be Admired!! Stay the course. Peace ✌🏽!!

    • @Courier_Eris
      @Courier_Eris 12 дней назад

      Congratulations on your sobriety

  • @cuteclilali7
    @cuteclilali7 4 месяца назад +47

    I found your reaction because every few months I search for Blue October reactions to see if anyone recently discovers them! I love this band & love watching others fall in love with them too

    • @rendrumstv
      @rendrumstv 4 месяца назад +3

      I do exactly the same! My top band! I've seen them live 6 times and met them all them times! Most incredible humans in the world!

    • @IndyColt92
      @IndyColt92 3 месяца назад +1

      I do the same.

    • @roxisandidge3893
      @roxisandidge3893 3 месяца назад +1

      Me too

    • @sonjadroppa2644
      @sonjadroppa2644 3 месяца назад +1

      Same

    • @empyrealone
      @empyrealone 2 месяца назад +1

      Same

  • @CindyStumpp
    @CindyStumpp 3 месяца назад +8

    My son is an addict who I love with all my heart. It has now become “our song”. It is his ringtone on my phone. Unfortunately, I am waiting for him to get to the clarity moment of this song.

  • @ElizabethLOhrn
    @ElizabethLOhrn Месяц назад +1

    First timer here, to Blue October. The lyrics are so powerful - an addict trying to figure out how to make the pain go away for those he loves. I then went to listen to "Home" - what a complete change in the writer's life. That, too, is a wonderful song - about growing up/into adulthood and the responsibilities it entails. Thanks for the intro!

  • @Leasagreen
    @Leasagreen 15 дней назад +2

    This song has always touched me. I have hated myself ever since I knew what hate was. If it weren't for the people in my life, that would be hurt if I wasn't here, I wouldn't be. I have wanted to go to bed and never wake up since I was approximately 8 years old. I have prayed not to wake up. As I got older and got married , I struggled with addiction, hoped for an od, or whatever. Then I thought about how I would feel if my husband were to pass, and I could never put him through the hurt of losing me. I almost died several times from health issues, I saw how it tore him to pieces, and it hurt me so bad that I hurt him. I just felt and still do feel so alone most of the time and unloved that I want to check out. I snap out of it when I look at him or his pictures on my phone. I know if I lost him, I would be gone. I could never survive losing him. He is my best friend and husband. I would be lost without him.

  • @davemckinney6555
    @davemckinney6555 4 месяца назад +17

    My son committed suicide 5 years ago. I've never had an addiction issue, but this song hits different now than it did when it first came out. I know it's not about me, but I constantly second-guess and wonder what else I could have done to help him. I hope he's found more peace where he is now than he felt when he was here.

    • @AngB517
      @AngB517 4 месяца назад +1

      From a mama, with Bipolar, Anxiety and PTSD, of 2 sons to another parent of a son, the second guessing and what could I have done is the overwhelming majority feeling. It's hard boulder to get off your back, please chip it away. ❤‍🩹💜💙
      If you listen to Linkin Park, One More Light is about more than Chris and Chester, it was written for one of their long time team member who passed from cancer. However, it can be just about anything..the same with So Far Away by Avenged Sevenfold.

    • @mikenastasi8927
      @mikenastasi8927 4 месяца назад +1

      So sorry for your loss.

    • @MrChrischugg
      @MrChrischugg 17 дней назад +1

      My son died of suicide also and I feel the same way. I'm sorry for your loss

  • @chrisklema9992
    @chrisklema9992 4 месяца назад +6

    Blue October is so raw. Justin sings his whole life story. Hate me is from early on, and Home is from a time later. Every song in between is a chapter that lead to him at "Home". Full of ups and down, as with any life. I think you'll love how positive "Fear" is, but there are just so many great songs. They are always good live too.

  • @Everything_is_Fine217
    @Everything_is_Fine217 4 месяца назад +9

    These guys are so underrated. That live concert (Texas 2015) was amazing! Several songs from the live from Texas show worth checking out... Light you up, worry list, the feel again.

    • @DaveBaldwin1
      @DaveBaldwin1 4 месяца назад +1

      Agreed they are underrated but the fans they do have are vehement. Saw Justin at a concert once with just him and another guy, each with an acoustic guitar. No other instruments. It was phenomenal. It was an intimate setting with very few dry eyes in the place.

  • @flowrpeace
    @flowrpeace 4 месяца назад +4

    This song stuck with me years ago as I was in an extremely dark place struggling to keep going and family could only say just pull yourself up by the bootstraps and pull yourself out of it. People have no clue how hard it is to drag yourself out of that dark hole. Years of a dealing with depression, psych meds, stints in the psych ward, but I made it. Occasionally you still feel the pull of sinking into that place again and you know you have to fight to go the other way as you know you won’t make it out again. You felt like a disappointment, failure and that your family just hated you and what you were putting them through. But they just couldn’t grasp that it was just out of your control and you just wanted it to all stop, no matter how it stopped, you just wanted peace of mind, even if it meant no longer being. I’m glad I made it as a lot don’t. This song just spoke to me and still does.

  • @manatime1653
    @manatime1653 4 месяца назад +6

    Just saw them live. Had a meet and greet with them and it was amaaaaazing! They clearly love their fans.

  • @maureendalby3588
    @maureendalby3588 4 месяца назад +7

    Thanks for introducing great music to us who watch. I’ve never heard them before. These are struggles in every family and I’m totally into it.

    • @RichardPlunkett-qf7de
      @RichardPlunkett-qf7de 4 месяца назад +2

      Fall down the Blue October rabbit Hole you will not be disappointed.

  • @sh00k0nez28
    @sh00k0nez28 4 месяца назад +4

    Great band see them every time there in New York so many great songs his live performances are incredible his song are amazing my favorite band idk where to start just go down the rabbit hole you won’t be disappointed

  • @amybensyl9734
    @amybensyl9734 4 месяца назад +22

    I start most days with Blue October's Fear. It eases my crazy anxiety.

  • @sonjadroppa2644
    @sonjadroppa2644 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m here because I’m a fan of Blue October. And watching people experience them for the first time makes my heart happy

  • @karenhickey1086
    @karenhickey1086 4 месяца назад +9

    I feel that the video for this one you should watch even if it's alone.. the visuals help put the lyrics into perspective.. Awesome reaction!!

  • @StevenW3644
    @StevenW3644 4 месяца назад +2

    Last minute always hits me. Struggles are brutal with mental or addiction and its toll on families & friends. Keep up the fight like you said!

  • @MrNormanJackson07
    @MrNormanJackson07 4 месяца назад +3

    Blue October is my fav band of all thime..THEY ARE SO MUCH BETTER LIVE. Good on cd EMOTIONAL AND RAW LIVE... ive seen them 4 times . I was at this concert

  • @AngB517
    @AngB517 4 месяца назад +6

    The official video is another level to the song, that's him and his mom in the video at the end. The Live in Texas version is beautiful. I have Bipolar and Justin Furstenfeld also has it, and I can hear in the songs if he's up down or stable, it's strange but it happens. Anything off the Foiled album is great. *Home, Not Broken Anymore, & Fear* are astonishing songs. I'd dance in the kitchen with my sons to Home ...you have to watch the official video for it, really brings in the family.
    He has such a powerful unique voice, that it can at times cause the goosebumps and chills. I use music as part of my therapy, and their songs are on different playlists. Mental health is a hard journey, you might as well have some fricken awesome soundtracks on that journey.
    The recording you heard at the start is an actual message his mom left him on his machine.
    He did a short album for Stephenie Meyer to go with the Twilight Saga

  • @BrookePS23
    @BrookePS23 4 месяца назад +6

    My favorite song of theirs is Fear!! 🤩 It’s beautiful!! I highly recommend it!

  • @justinc882
    @justinc882 7 дней назад

    This is my favorite band. If you ever get a chance to see them live it's an amazing show.
    Justin also frequently does acoustic tours called the open book
    It's basically a story teller session where he explains the origins of the songs and performs. One of the top 3 shows I've ever seen

  • @BlueWoodStudios
    @BlueWoodStudios 4 месяца назад +2

    My friend showed me this song, I never heard of Blue October. She cried when showing me it, and I didn't listen to the lyrics enough I was just vibing to the music. However after relistening to it, it was way more beautiful.

  • @StevenW3644
    @StevenW3644 4 месяца назад +1

    Such a powerful song with life & how precious with ups & downs! He last bit with screams chills me. Great review and you always are great!

  • @legal_addiction62
    @legal_addiction62 4 месяца назад +3

    OMG First turned onto Blue October in 2007 with "Calling you" obsessed with

    • @betmo
      @betmo 3 месяца назад

      me too!

  • @halcyonpoet
    @halcyonpoet 2 месяца назад

    I listened to them while my little brother was recovering from his addictions and I listen to them now that we lost him 2 years ago from those same addictions, far too soon. To everyone still here and fighting, please keep going.

  • @abdab7
    @abdab7 4 месяца назад +2

    Blue October are one of my favorite bands! Home and King (live) are my favorites. Fear and Hate Me too. They're great live.

  • @kimberlydee3007
    @kimberlydee3007 4 месяца назад +5

    New listener here. Love blue October. U are really taking me back...❤

  • @pams1324
    @pams1324 2 месяца назад

    I grew up listening to 60’s, 70’s rock and every decade since. I have got to say these guys can absolutely stand with all those older great bands. Love them.

  • @jlynn4061
    @jlynn4061 4 месяца назад +1

    My favorite band. I have the lyrics from Graceful Dancing tattooed on my shoulder. My anthem after my brother died…

  • @Drummer2585
    @Drummer2585 2 месяца назад

    I been listening to Blue October like 10 + yrs you will not be disappointed if you dive into them they are an excellent band

  • @rozequinn1519
    @rozequinn1519 4 месяца назад +2

    Also love their song
    Into The Ocean ❤️

  • @DystOptimist
    @DystOptimist 4 месяца назад +1

    I deal with the same condition the lead singer deals with (bipolar disorder). Some days the pain is so bad and pit so deep the only thing that keeps me breathing is that I cannot make the ones I love hurt. I fear what happens when they go away.

  • @pmv1969
    @pmv1969 4 месяца назад +2

    Next month, I will have 28 years of sobriety and it wasn’t until I got clean that I got diagnosed with a mental health condition. This song always hits home.

  • @jesska16
    @jesska16 4 месяца назад +2

    The video of this rips my heart out everytime.

  • @TeamUSAFortSenitel
    @TeamUSAFortSenitel 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for reacting to my favorite band, they are amazing live. Not sure what else Mikey has requested but I suggest Fear, either the acoustic version or the official video, both are great. This was the first song Justin, the lead singer, wrote after going thru treatment. Love their song "Home" as well, there are sooo many of their songs that I love and only a few that I could go without. Can rarely say that about any group.

  • @jamesonyates2388
    @jamesonyates2388 4 месяца назад +3

    There's a live acoustic video out there where it's just him and a single guitar playing that is fantastic. It's much slower and much deeper.

  • @lesliebates22
    @lesliebates22 4 месяца назад +2

    Beautiful reaction

  • @cklux2011
    @cklux2011 4 месяца назад +2

    The Feel Again /Stay from the same concert is just as powerful. No one sings their emotions better than Justin Furstenfeld.

    • @kiddoiam
      @kiddoiam 4 месяца назад

      I can't get through that version live without bawling my eyes out. Justin poured his soul into that song.

  • @willmcloughlin8264
    @willmcloughlin8264 4 месяца назад +3

    Welcome to the Blue October rabbit hole!

  • @scottstrasser
    @scottstrasser 2 месяца назад

    27 years sober and this song brings a tear to my eyes every time.

  • @joshuagrotting6077
    @joshuagrotting6077 4 месяца назад

    I haven’t heard this song for a few years now. Instant tears in my eyes. Man.

  • @ernestsantana449
    @ernestsantana449 4 месяца назад +1

    King, Hope your happy, Ugly Side, Inner Glow, 18th Floor Balcony, HRSA. All these are amazing songs.

  • @tinamailhiot6788
    @tinamailhiot6788 3 месяца назад

    My all time favorite band. I cry every time I hear this one.

  • @terrylewis_
    @terrylewis_ 4 месяца назад +1

    Love Blue October!! My favorite song of theirs is "Into the Ocean" -- but this is up there too. Also their lives are incredible, especially their more current stuff they have definitely improved over the years IMO.

    • @terrylewis_
      @terrylewis_ 4 месяца назад +1

      Two Live Versions:
      ruclips.net/video/IWknk9hlQ0w/видео.html
      An Acoustic Live:
      ruclips.net/video/6phgPv23x5U/видео.html

  • @planthungry
    @planthungry 4 месяца назад

    Blue October is my fave band. They have some of the best lyrics. Love them. I hope you dive in and listen to more.

  • @robertdegrazia9668
    @robertdegrazia9668 4 месяца назад

    Moving, believable, important. Great singer. You feel the pain.

  • @RichardPlunkett-qf7de
    @RichardPlunkett-qf7de 4 месяца назад +1

    Considering what Mikey sent you I'm thinking he requested this The Feel again and The Worry List. All very raw and emotional songs. Justin has a way of capturing emotion in his music like no one I've ever seen. I'd definately would reccomend the acoustic version live of Bleed Out. Much love to my Blue Family. Loved the reaction and your channel.

    • @TeamUSAFortSenitel
      @TeamUSAFortSenitel 4 месяца назад +2

      The acoustic version of Bleed Out is so emotionally beautiful.

    • @mikenastasi8927
      @mikenastasi8927 4 месяца назад +1

      I requested this, Fear & The Worry List.

  • @DanielTreadwell-x3m
    @DanielTreadwell-x3m 4 месяца назад +1

    This guys voice is amazing!!

  • @betmo
    @betmo 3 месяца назад

    ooohh....i love blue october ❤ calling you is great...and into the ocean...my faves...justin has a way of pulling you in and keeping it real

  • @jimthomas5265
    @jimthomas5265 11 дней назад

    Blue October, my favorite band. The best band you never heard of

  • @jmac7947
    @jmac7947 4 месяца назад +3

    Please do Fear by them. Justin is one of the best ever at expressing the anguish of the soul.

  • @pamalapaulo2931
    @pamalapaulo2931 4 месяца назад

    As a functioning alcoholic I can relate to this song. Have had many ups and downs due to my addiction and a lot of self-hate. But I can only go forward and not look back, but there have been many times where I accept my mistakes and the hate that comes with it ….if that makes sense.

  • @mikenastasi8927
    @mikenastasi8927 4 месяца назад

    Thank you. Great reaction! Looking forward to your reactions to Fear & The Worry List.

  • @AAA-o4g
    @AAA-o4g 4 месяца назад +1

    Genesis - Firth of Fifth - Seconds Out album - Live

  • @dannyb539
    @dannyb539 Месяц назад

    Think you would like the acoustic version too. You can really hear the pain in his voice.

  • @Cosmic_Observer33
    @Cosmic_Observer33 2 месяца назад

    I watched your reactions to tool. Good stuff. Continue with the blue october rabbit hole. Specifically the boy who argued with a tree live songs.

  • @cuteclilali7
    @cuteclilali7 4 месяца назад +3

    Also I think you should react to their song Light You Up (the official live video)

  • @Jasoncremeans73
    @Jasoncremeans73 4 месяца назад +1

    My mom loved me no matter what. I hated myself no matter what. I will miss her no matter what. I will love her no matter what. I will try to love myself no matter what, for her.

  • @Jennifer_615
    @Jennifer_615 4 месяца назад +2

    I know everyone saying watch the video so if you do know the mother didn't die his addiction did and that's what he "buried". But they are AMAZING live always!!!❤

    • @mikenastasi8927
      @mikenastasi8927 4 месяца назад +1

      The video is misleading, which is why I requested this live version.

    • @Jennifer_615
      @Jennifer_615 3 месяца назад

      The live is so much better too ❤ ​@@mikenastasi8927

  • @kevinehle6637
    @kevinehle6637 4 месяца назад +1

    Yes, the music video was rhe way to go for this song. It tells the story visually.

  • @jdiddy65
    @jdiddy65 Месяц назад

    Just take a listen to an acoustic version of this song. Talk about feelings... It will blow your mind it's so good! It's so raw and real.

  • @riffdagg6701
    @riffdagg6701 25 дней назад

    Criminally underrated band

  • @hollyjulia22
    @hollyjulia22 4 месяца назад +1

    Love your reaction!! Can you please visit more Blue October?

  • @ozziedelreal3260
    @ozziedelreal3260 Месяц назад

    The reason people are stuck is not because they can't or don't know how to love themselves. They are capable of love, including loving themselves. The key that no one knows including the sufferers themselves is that subconsciously they feel, they know they shouldn't be loved, they don't want to be loved so they self destruct. Self destruction is self destruction in all forms and shape you can imagine. You have to develop the skills to be able, capable of tapping into your subconscious, it's very rare, many, most can't and never will.
    Even once you do, when you're finally able to see it, comprehend it where do you go from there, how do you fix it. Then another percentage of people that get there can't go past that level. I tell my son, life are levels, you're always wanting, should want to level up. People get stuck on forgiveness, I did for many years and I didn't figure it out until just now, this very moment. We aren't God, we aren't God to forgive anyone else including ourselves. Forgiveness is for God and if you don't believe in God then forgiveness is for life. Once you finally see that you can move forward like a weight lifting away. You let forgiveness go to focus on what you want to be, who you truly are so that you can conduct yourself, move in that manner to continue to level up so that one day God, life forgives you. What does that look like, you keep moving through it all, like the waves of the ocean. Understanding that waves aren't a separate part of the ocean they move with the ocean because they are the ocean. Like my favorite philosopher Alan Watts said "you are a function of what the universe is doing in the same way that a wave is a function of what the whole ocean is doing" you simply move on and if God, life doesn't ever get to a point where it forgives you then it doesn't, you live until your last breath, and that's it

  • @mrsdracon9799
    @mrsdracon9799 2 месяца назад

    Wonderful rabbit hole to travel down

  • @legal_addiction62
    @legal_addiction62 4 месяца назад +1

    Songs kinda crazy good.. fantastic voice❤

  • @timothyweston3601
    @timothyweston3601 4 месяца назад +1

    Fear is another deep song from them.

  • @jeromiemunoz2920
    @jeromiemunoz2920 4 месяца назад

    I don't know why but he reminds me of Cat Stevens when he sing the slower parts. Never heard of this band or song but it hits hard!

  • @sandy2953
    @sandy2953 4 месяца назад

    i like live versions but this is one you need to see the video it is so well done and really drives home what the song is all about

  • @randywenrick2393
    @randywenrick2393 4 месяца назад

    Awesome like always.

  • @walker1089
    @walker1089 4 месяца назад

    RED CLAY STRAYS - drowning. Broooo it’s a HIT!

  • @nadinehaney6590
    @nadinehaney6590 4 месяца назад +1

    Ok Sebs, I just watched a new video by Lynard Skynrd's (did I spell that right?) guitarist Johnny Van Sant called Jesus Christ, and it was AMAZING! I always find it so satisfying when those in the rock and country world, after becoming successful, choose at last to profess Christ as Lord. Please watch it, even if you don't do a reaction video.

    • @mikenastasi8927
      @mikenastasi8927 4 месяца назад

      Lynyrd Skynyrd is the correct spelling. Johnny Van Zant isn't the guitarist but the singer and the younger brother of original singer Ronnie who died in a plane crash.

  • @DystOptimist
    @DystOptimist 4 месяца назад

    A suicidal son's plea to his loving mother so he can do what he needs to do without hurting her. He wants to leave but cannot because she still loves him unconditionally.

  • @TheThomasuu
    @TheThomasuu 2 месяца назад

    Sad song but this is some shit that needs to live far past our generations. Gives a lot of people a feeling that they're not alone.

  • @wayneboyd40
    @wayneboyd40 4 месяца назад +1

    Very good

  • @theashrook6129
    @theashrook6129 3 месяца назад

    This is a song that I very cautiously.

  • @OVDOVG01
    @OVDOVG01 17 дней назад

    Home and Happy are my favorite

  • @jackieglascow1593
    @jackieglascow1593 2 месяца назад

    I love Justin and Blue October!

  • @johnroberts5637
    @johnroberts5637 Месяц назад

    Secure a copy of Blue October's "Foiled" album, and listen to it start to finish without interruption. Do it immediately, without delay. It will give the context to really appreciate this song, plus it will introduce you to several more bangers. Thank me later.

  • @CaseyPulpan-ow9ch
    @CaseyPulpan-ow9ch 4 месяца назад

    Hey Sebs, If you get a chance, Imagine Dragons "Demons" and "Believer" are great songs with good messages. Would love to see you react to them. I would watch the music videos with lyrics. Its pretty awesome. One of the few bands out there that I will let my kids listen to because the the Lyrics are clean and meaningful and Music has a distinctive sound.

  • @michaelblazer6826
    @michaelblazer6826 2 месяца назад

    Very good. Please do more Blue October.

  • @linussundlof4334
    @linussundlof4334 4 месяца назад

    You should react to Pünk Flöyd on youtube, a swedish band from a really small village that do pink floyd covers in swedish folkmusic way!

  • @timryckmanii8282
    @timryckmanii8282 4 месяца назад +1

    Please do more Blue. Fear official video. Bleed Out official.

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    @ikhwanchin2998 4 месяца назад

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  • @candaceanderson9517
    @candaceanderson9517 Месяц назад

    I am begging you to listen to Stay from this same concert! Amazing!!

  • @paulashanks3129
    @paulashanks3129 4 месяца назад

    ❤🎉

  • @kimzwolinski9919
    @kimzwolinski9919 4 месяца назад

    You have reacted to their song “Fear”😊

  • @JoostvanPelt-h1o
    @JoostvanPelt-h1o 4 месяца назад

    Dear Sebs, could you ‘do’ two pearls: Dire Straits - You and your Friend- Live On The Night (1992/1993) and check out: Dr Viossy - moonsonata by Ludwig von Beethoven .. both incredible of you ask me. 😊

  • @lindamcmahan977
    @lindamcmahan977 4 месяца назад +1

    Never heard of them

  • @NAFUSO1
    @NAFUSO1 2 месяца назад

    Nice mate, mate. Good yerba?

  • @kenwiberg6517
    @kenwiberg6517 4 месяца назад

    I know it's been a while, since you had a reaction on Dire Straits - how have you not watched Mark Knopfler, play his extended solo on Telegraph Road..... he'll piss you off again, esp sinve you are such a guitar virtuoso......... please, it is more than a simple request by many of the watchers of your previous vids from them....

  • @dmillersmfd
    @dmillersmfd 4 месяца назад

    Stick with their live performances. Ridiculously good

  • @dcmartinez1977
    @dcmartinez1977 4 месяца назад

    Fear by BLUE OCTOBER. Please just put the actual video ❤. Thank you