Expert Advice on Your Relationship Problems [Real Talk Episode 5]

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2023
  • Expert relationship therapists Terry and Belinda Real answer your questions on love, marriage, and dating-with a particular focus on love avoidance.
    Watch now to hear their advice on how to open up the lines of communication with a love avoidant partner, including how to speak so they can listen non-defensively and help you get more of what you want in your relationship.
    We also hear from a love avoidant who deeply fears intimacy. We explore how to work on building self-esteem and healing from past hurts to move toward secure attachment.
    And we dive into questions around navigating mismatched sex drives, a lack of physical attraction for your long-term partner, and how to stay calm and grounded when your parents still speak to you like a child.
    Do you have a question for Terry and Belinda? Submit them here, and yours could feature in an upcoming episode of Real Talk:
    [www.videoask.com/fdm17ho97]

Комментарии • 14

  • @marinayanay-triner3262
    @marinayanay-triner3262 Месяц назад +1

    The two of you together is a dream!

  • @sarahhirsch679
    @sarahhirsch679 7 месяцев назад +6

    I love the way Terri looks at Belinda, even when - or especially when - he completely disagrees with her. It's a "this is my woman" look of deep pleasure. Cherishing in action

  • @The-Aion
    @The-Aion 7 месяцев назад +2

    Terry, I've been following you for years, bought and read most of your books. Whenever you post on YT or IG my wife and I watch it immediately. I've even listened to your talks at the Minnesota Mens Conference, thats actually how I found out about you. Terry you've helped me and my marriage so much. I'm so glad to see Belinda with you for these short talks! Thanks again!

    • @realterryreal
      @realterryreal  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for the kind words and I'm so happy that my work is helping!

  • @MsRadetsma
    @MsRadetsma 8 месяцев назад +1

    What a brilliant episode! Thank you.

  • @amysinger2201
    @amysinger2201 8 месяцев назад +6

    I was really fascinated by your observation about how neglect turns up the volume in the neglected and how it turns into exaggeration, which in turn destroys credibility. Is chronic exaggeration a trauma response?

    • @dank_snugs
      @dank_snugs 5 месяцев назад

      Probably, we are emotionally flooded and in our adaptive child. What do kids do when they feel ignored? Act out!

  • @dank_snugs
    @dank_snugs 5 месяцев назад +1

    The two of you are so delightful to watch together. Mr husband and I both watch😊

    • @paestum70
      @paestum70 3 месяца назад

      🤣🤣🤣 Indeed. Watching them gives an entirely different image of them than they are in real life.

  • @hilarious921
    @hilarious921 6 месяцев назад

    Amazing work.

  • @Kiwiwanderer
    @Kiwiwanderer 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow I love him, I’ve never met or heard Belinda - girl crush ! She’s wonderful, soooo intelligent ,kind, honest and wise.
    She’s kind of a sexy surfer American version of Esther Perel 😍😍

  • @fullarmam2259
    @fullarmam2259 8 месяцев назад +1

    How do you submit questions?

    • @realterryreal
      @realterryreal  7 месяцев назад

      Hi, you can send them to support@terryreal.com and our support team will make sure they get to Terry and Belinda. Thanks!

  • @storoyan
    @storoyan 4 месяца назад +1

    Whoa, Belinda, why assume Christian's lack of attraction is about appearance? For all we know he's gay or not attracted due to personality. Nothing he said suggested this was an appearance issue....