An Introvert Goes To A 3-Day Music Festival By Himself
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- Опубликовано: 15 май 2019
- Victor (IG: @victorlpham) ventures on a solo journey to break out of his introverted shell and explore the wonders of Electric Daisy Carnival in Las Vegas for three full days of music, magic, and memories.
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This is basically a sad boi tribute to his ended relationship. Proud of him to have gone alone though.
Jada Wong ❤️
Hey, hes at least getting out there.
can't even imagine how painful it would be to go after a breakup with someone you had always gone with. It's just such an emotionally overwhelming experience
@@okitasan exactly
so many people are goofing on him for bein sad over his ex but honestly i feel like we should be collectively proud of him for simply having the strength to go at all. Well done man 👏👏
1 thousand likes but no replies? Ok
I went to EDC last year hoping I would run into my ex one last time. I did and it was the saddest moment that year. Next time I go I won't be focused on a corny love story, I'll be focused on my own story
I'm glad you had a blast at EDC, I'm going to Ever After in Toronto but I'll be going to EDC 2020. Hopefully I'll see you there with your Go Pro
I am not scared of going out and going to these places alone, I just feel awkward when other people are in groups and I am alone 😐
same
Take 1 ecstacy pill and everyone there is your friend 🤣
im an introvert, & i just died at the thought of this
Cicely925 seriously, my anxiety quadrupled
Soooo many people looking at me I'm looking for the nearest exit.
Same
I’m a introvert but I try to push myself to not be and I always get rewarded when I push myself! Don’t listen to your anxiety or your bed trust me
Same
Next: Extrovert stays isolated from social interaction for 3 days.
Well I think that would be a good idea. I think it's important to work with both solitude and connection 😁
Tronizer TRUEEEEEEEEEEE
Yo I'm an introvert but I would not be able to survive 3 days isolated, hell no!! 😂
No human alive would like that
@@candiceparker6847 Try 3 years
I always admire someone pushing their limits, great work my dude. Nothing new happens in your comfort zone 🌻
EDC is probably the best festival you could go to alone , make ALL DA FRIENDS FEEL ALL THE FEELS
I'm an introvert and let me tell you, I've been to a festival by myself once. A friend I was to go with stood me up and I didn't want to sell my ticket or anything because my fav artists were performing, so I went alone! And apart from this huge fear somewhere inside of me at the beginning, I had the time of my life and have never had more fun than at that time! 🔥
Yep, I’m an introvert too and I’ve gone to several concerts by myself lol
@@nashi._.7563 is it easy to jump in to other people’s conversations?
@@syncops834 you'd be surprised man some people are very nice & accepting that they would talk to you as if they've known you for years , others might just stare at you weirdly like if you did something wrong
How did you approach people?
Yeah I used to be an introvert, and I go to about 10 festivals alone a year
I'm an introvert, and this would make me nervous as heck if it happened to me. I find it funny that he's doing it.
I would stay in a far far corner
@@elizabowman9739 same here.
I would be hella nervous too. Lmao
Well His Getting Paid Extra!🖒
@@RoyHoy for sure.
Not all introverts are shy. Introversion and shyness are not always interchangeable!
No but they often come as a package deal and it sucks
That's true......shyness & being an Introvert Aren't the same. Introverts just like thiet own space.
Classic introvert here...people also confuse introverts with being anti-social. Not the case...
Omg thank you. Being introverted is not defined as being shy or not wanting to socialize!!
I am a shy extrovert and everyone assumes I'm an introvert. Being an introvert doesn't mean you're shy and being an extrovert doesn't mean you're always loud and charismatic.
Stop this is introvert abuse
murry but buzzfeed need content and tears of their employees
@@paulescalona9153 lmaoooo thats true
this makes me genuinely happy for him sometimes doing your own thing in the presence of others, is enough! as a fellow introvert.
live.love.mellissa
Agreed 🙂👏
Dude. Let her go. Don’t give an ex the power to dictate your experience and your enjoyment.
It’s a process, sometimes moments come up and surprise you like the songs he’d sing with his ex, and you have to ride out that bitter sweet feeling
But then again u should give an x the power to enhance the experience 😏
You can’t make someone let them go, they have to let themselves forget their ex. When you love someone you can’t just turn it off, especially not after loving them for so long.
Dude, let him feel his feelings.
Way easier said than done
I can’t even leave my bed
Same
So was this an introvert breaking out of his shell or just post break up therapy for this dude?
clearly he's an introvert he can't do anything with out her because introverts always have to depend on some one else to feel comfortable in the real world.
Carlos Rodriguez u just spit facts that’s how I feel with my girlfriend as an introvert
@@crj789 You must be pretty insecure if you think that's what being an introvert means.
Hugh Jass You must be pretty slow if you couldn’t catch on that he was being sarcastic 😂
@@Angora69100 Damn you're slow. Finish school?
No one is shy or introverted with molly and EDM
Yes I am
need more molly then
I was. And then I took it, and the music and lights started.. and all the sudden I was hugging people and talking to people without a thought. Lol
I prefer being alone in a crowd dancing my ass off. I love watching yall enjoy yourselves...until you ask for my name then I'm like ughhhhhh
@@stitchybob but i want to kno ur name
I literally shed a tear watching your video because I'm also an introvert and I LOVE Porter Robinson, all your feelings are relatable and you're so brave to have gone alone to EDC ! Props to you, thanks for sharing!
This dude is not over his ex 😂
Alexis Telford clearly
okay actually just watched the whole vid, yeah he's not but its a bit sad if anything
That was my first thought 😂
They were together for years i assume it’s harder to get over someone you’ve been dating for years than an SO of a few months
DANIEL V not saying it’s unusual or anything, just stating my observations
Imagine if all the people around him were also introverts
And that's why nobody was talking to each other.
I am
@@recoil53 good luck talking over the music. Damn near impossible 😂
They probably are but they are all trippin on something
This is my nightmare. I'd have a panic attack just thinking about going to someplace like this alone
FrancineHighC As a girl I’d also be crazy worried about my own safety 😩
nahhh, its not that bad
@@BarelyNoticeable dramatic asses
Most people at raves are high anyways so they don’t care if you’re alone xd. Plus, most ravers are actually really nice and very open to making new friends
@@BarelyNoticeable people at EDC are super nice and it's super safe. no one ever hit on me or made me uncomfortable
When buzzfeed literally runs out of ideas, so they torture innocent people.
al13n_ch1ld his courage outweighs your cynicism
al13n_ch1ld facts
Ik that a lot of people are saying that Victor isn’t over his ex. I think it’s amazing he was able to do this by himself and even though thoughts of his gf sucked, he still went and did the best he could. Good job victor ur crazy brave !
That's soo awesome I was there and at the same stages u were at... it gets you so emotional no matter what your going thru! EDC is amazing for anyone
Proud of you for going alone!! EDC is an amazing experience.. I’ve been twice and it’s such a place of love and acceptance.
Do keep going back!!!
Glad he went through with it!! I went myself this year !! And was an amazing experience!!!
I sure hope you guys try it out someday!
This is from EDC 2017... and it was uploaded 2019? 😅
Caspuhz okay that’s what I thought because I don’t remember seeing Zedd and Porter Robinson in EDC this year! And Cosmic Gate does not look like that this year
Thought it was strange to be uploaded on may 16 when the event was may 17-19. Thanks for sharing though
Victor L Pham the video was still beautiful and I agree relevant! I was there also in the crowd watching Porter and the fireworks at the end Made it just that much better :)
Ya, lol, I was gonna say, Illennium played at Circuit Grounds this year, lol
And I was super pissed--I thought I missed Kaskade doing another surprise set this year, esp after his got cancelled 😂😭
I love how open and real you are. I loved this. I hope it encourages other introverts to step out of their comfort zone!
Wow thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing your emotions with the world!
EDC is the best festival in the world 💕 we were at so many of the same sets!! So cool you did it by yourself
Ended up solo at EDC. It was amazing to traverse the stages without having to worry about anyone but yourself.
I used to be an introvert but once you get out of your shell, it’s amazing. I applaud you for going out of hour comfort zone!! Keep going!
I salute you, and that was beautiful ❤️
I'm an introvert who loves EDM & I go to shows by myself all the time! 🌟
Love all the DJs you mentioned here! Madeon + Porter are definitely my favorites
I am so proud of this dude's dedication to being alone and proud!
Proud of you man, break up can be tough especially having to relive all that again. It's hard. Proud of you.
This makes my heart flutter. This is one of my favorite festivals and illenium is one of my favorite djs. I used to always go with people but one year I decide to go by myself. It was the best decision ever.
I’m glad you had a great time man!
Introvert, just broke up, favorite artist Porton Robinson 🤔 sadboi tribute
You know what helps for being out going at EDC..
MDMA
Beautiful. Time will heal you
I love this 😭 good for him!!
The introvert struggle is real! Good on him for putting himself out there. I am in need of a day or two to recover after being out in public.
Brokenhearted Guy: drinks water...kind of reminds me how my girlfriend used to drink water
This is awesome. I have been raving since 97 and have been to many raves alone and have so much fun meeting people.
This was my first EDC and I’m also an introvert and it was amazing. I explored by myself for a while and it was lonely but this woman stopped me and sensed my frustration and gave me the best most calming hug ever. We exchanged maybe two words and went our opposite ways. The community is amazing. I can’t wait for next year. 💕💕💕
Gym g, come hang with me and my crew next time🔥🔮🤙🏽
introverts aren’t shy, they just need alone time to recharge. they’re just as social as extroverts
So proud of you bro! Glad you did it! See ya there next year!
You rock dude so happy for you that you had courage to go and you had a great time!! Dont miss out on life people☝️
There is a difference from being shy and being and introvert. Introverts aren’t necessarily shy, they just don’t enjoy socializing. Shy people are afraid of socializing. An introvert can be good at socializing, but just not like it.
Mark Bounty you’re absolutely wrong. introverts can be social and enjoy talking to people. you’re thinking about someone who is asocial. being introverted means you gain energy from being alone rather than with people.
True! I had this extrovert friend who's shy on reciting and performing.
An Intro,ambi,extrovert can be shy. Not only introverts.
*What an absolute madlad*
This man has achieved something more than I ever have
I’m an introvert and I go to festivals/raves by myself all the time. Some of the best times I’ve had in my entire life. Going by yourself forces you to interact and meet other people and that’s something that an introvert is not very good at. But trust me when you’re by yourself it’s really not as bad as it seems. Whoever thinks it’s weird or judges it has obviously never tried before so they really shouldn’t even be speaking on it.
Meet many guys? ;)
So true Katie 👍🏾🎛🎚🎛🔊
Dude I’m going solo next year too! This year I chickened out last minute and went with a group, but sometimes I feel like we get TOO attached to sticking within our own groups that we don’t try to extend ourselves to others. I did it here and there this year but I want to engage people more in 2020.
did you end up going alone for any of them?
Porter robinson is amazing ive teared up at all his sets
Everyone is hating on him for being a sadboi and that this is a tribute to his ex. Getting out of a 3 year relationship is tough, and for him to go to a festival on his own(which he usually went to with his ex) is an amazing first step to jump out of his comfort zone and move on. Good job man, loved this video
nice timing of the video man!
I feel on the music thing man. Sometimes that one song just comes on, and you just gotta cry. Keep moving forward man! PLUR
Proud of u fellow introvert!.... Introverts unite! ... Alone at our homes 🤙🏽🙌🏽
Takes courage to do what Victor did. As an introvert, I honestly don't think I could have done this myself.
I support this 100%! I'm also an introvert and have gone alone to multiple concerts and festivals now, best time ever! The plus side of being an introvert is that you're feeling the positive vibes 100 times stronger than many people and it can be so overwhelming it brings you to tears ❤️ Go, man, go out and be happy ❤️❤️
I felt this. Good for getting out of your comfort zone man. Proud of you!
Why is this published now? This was EDC LV 2018.
i realized that because porter didn't perform this year
2017* 2018 didnt have porter, just virtual self
Right!! Haha I don’t understand why it’s so late
My exact thoughts especially once I saw Kinetic Field
Aww... I can relate so much to this... being happy that it's an experience you'll never forget, and yet being sad because there's no one there to share it with (by that I mean like friends, not the crowd of strangers around you)
I actually did something like this earlier this year - went to see Endgame by myself, and it truly was a bittersweet experience - I was happy because I was doing something on my own, but also sad because there was no one there to gush about the movie
I think you are not an intorvert but I think you are relating to his heart(break up 😥) I'm introverted and I really like going to cinema alone and choose whatever I want to see.
Love this 💖
someone give this man a hug
This video is such a mood .-.
you should do introverts doing hiking together
I just cried watching this, edc was the most amazing experience.
That’s festival looks dope!!!!
I went to a concert by myself and it was so awkward 😂 everyone had someone to talk to and I was just sitting there likeeeee
Havent been to a concert before so this would be absolute hell for me
Aw its really inspiring you pushed through, though! Even though you were upset you got to go back and enjoy the concert. :)
You’ll be good just keep putting yourself out as much as possible.
PLUR
The real edm community welcomes all.
Great vid V. Stay strong brother.
Video is old AF! This is not 2019 EDC!
Kevin P yea when i first saw the stage designs i realised it was 2017’s edc
I thought so. Illenium wasnt at cosmic meadows this year, He was at circuit grounds 😂
TRUEEE!😂😂 OMG SO FAKE
Awesome!!
Buzzfeed should do more videos like this. Very relatable to so many
literrally me when i try to make new friends than my current
New friends: Yeah were not coming.
Why does everyone confuse introverts with loner? Introverts have less energy, not no energy. We are less sociable not completely unsociable.
Happy that he didn’t let his sadness stop him and stuck it out. ❤️
Good on you for going on your own to something you love ❤️ it will get easier!
I am an introvert. I travel quite a bit for my job. It's so hard sometimes because it gets super lonely when you are to shy to meet people. Totally related to your vid. Great job.
An introvert goes to Eurovision, now that I want to see
EDC is such an amazing experience I went this weekend and I went solo this Friday and it was such a great event such good vibes. Best place on earth. PLUR 💕
love this!! I went solo to EDC this year also and had the best time
Im an introvert as well. Managed to fly to electric love festival by myself 3 years ago, also slept in the camping area which was even harder than chilling in a hotel afterwards but everything was totally worth it!! highly recommend if you are into EDM !
Porter Robinson was there! My inspiration, and idol. Perfectly done shelter.
awww i loved this
Brave brave man...wish I could be so adventurous. Go Victor
Cute video but being an introvert doesn’t always has to be shy! Sometimes people (like me) are not shy, but calm and being with the right people make me an extrovert 😇 (but I am 50/50 I would say)
OK😐
Im an introvert and I couldn't pass up the opportunity to go to see Beyonce last year at the Global Citizen Festival. Everyone was suddenly busy so i went by myself. Thought it was gonna be hell but it was great!!!
I love this guy.
I’m an introvert and honestly I wouldn’t have been able to do that alone. Good for you!!!
So what if he’s not over his ex and used this as a therapy session? The point is he put himself out there despite the challenges he knew he would face. And so what if got emotional... he’s human. People need to be more accepting of expressing themselves - it’s healthy. Sending you positive vibes, bro. Breakups are never easy 💜
Surprised this was just posted since this is the 2018 edc
2017
Edc was amazing this year, sad that you had to enjoy this alone but I’m glad you had a great time! See you next year under the electric sky!!
This guy is so brave
Yall this is my worst fear
_meets two girls who sang to every song with him_
_have a good time with them_
_suddenly...._
*_two girls left the chat_*
Video is kind of sad but from one introvert to another I'm proud of you man .....good job now I need to go out this weekend...
this was the cutest, I was on the brink of tears all the way through oh god