Dear Choach. I really like the way you are so straightforward. Where other coaches make cheating so very normal. It is like to some extent these coaches take advantage of the vulnarable people who are devasted giving them hope or assurance to get their exes back while they are in rebound relationships. Your way of coaching is although straightforward its healthy and also guiding people to see their own worth. Exes dont become worthy by simply rejecting you but worth is something innate. You are doing really good work.
After 5 months since my ex left me, I still don't know if she ever cheated. She was so good at hiding the truth about other men in her life while claiming to be the most loyal girl I'd ever meet. Smfh...
Just already solid to move on with my ex yesterday, until i saw my Facebook that she already unblocked me after 9 days. I was tempted to peek her wall and stories, I was heartbroken again seeing her happy without me, and seeing romantic reels and memes I know it's not already meant for me. Now i have to start all over again from the pain that was already slowly healed. And i thought i am not going to cry again. Well, i cried again. Thank you for this advice.
My ex doest have social media but her friend told me that when they started and sent her pics of them together. She said she didnt even respond to her because she was doing this essentially. 4 months later they posted their engagement pics. One minute they are dating and the next they are engaged and getting married 3 months later.
Do i still have a chance. So my ex broke up with me because of the stupidest thing i did, she felt hurt, angery and her trust was broken completely, i did not cheat on her though. This was in Thursdays. On Sunday i texted her uncle asking if he could give her the letter after 30 days of no contact for me but didnt reply. On Wednesday, i talk to her mom and i told her that i wanted to apologize for hurting her daughter feelings. Now today she block me on tiktok and facebook but hasnt block me on Snapchat yet. On Snapchat she posted a flower that her mom got her, she posted 2 rings that she bought herself and a song called You Broke Me First. She used to wear the ring that i got her alll the time before we broken up. Today I did not talk to her at all today or anyone. Im quite devastated and wanna know if i still have a chance winning her back ??? Should i ask to see in person ?? She works at the same company as me so i see her everyday
NO.! Don’t ask to see her in person and stop harassing her family. You got to get it together man, you’re obviously extremely anxious and you’re making all the mistakes I am talking about in my videos. I can’t give you a direct answer to your question because I don’t know all the details about the relationship, but one thing I can tell you is that you got to do a lot of work on yourself because if you don’t, and she comes back, you will ruin it again. You can email me - -paz@pazgoldman.com- or click this link to book a 1 on 1 call and I’ll help you resolve this. link.moderncrm.org/widget/bookings/talk2paz
@PazGoldmanOfficial What should i do ? My ADHD ex girlfriend broke up at Thursdays because of the mistake that i made. No i did not cheat on her at all. I pretended to be someone she knew from 2 years ago (fwb guy), i made a fake phone number and texted her, she was being loyal to me and block that numbers but instead of stopping i kept going and created a new one, asking her to have some "fun time" she didnt reply at all. I kept messaging but then i stop. She started checking who it actually was and found out it was me. Now I didn't do it to hurt her at all or break her trust, I did it because I wanted to let her see that and know "hey maybe the reason why he's mad and talk to me about it during work is because it bother him and I realized I always say no to the thing he wanted to try in bed" When she told me to come over and i went she then told me that she need to have a talk with me , she asked if i eas the one who did that and i stupidly denied it rsther than saying hey i really fucked up and im really sorry, it was a genuine mistake. She then told me that she wants to end the relationships and then she asked me again if it was me and i said yes. She relaizes that i have lie to her. She asked me ehy i did itand i tolf her my reasoning. I said why is it that i have to begging you to do these things and yet when you were with fwb guy he didnt even have to beg for it so how is it that fair for me. She then reply saying the old her was different and she wanted to try them but she didnt like them which is why she didn't wanna try them with me. She said i should just go find someone whos willing to do what i wanted. I reply saying are you sure you eant me to do that. She reply saying Yes and i asked her agaijn do you really want me to do that because i can Right now if you want me too. She said yes, i went to my phone and just text random number . As we eere changing the subject abit she then ask wait did you really texted" and i rely. Yes, i did i am just waiting for their responds. She looks dissapointed but i told her that im not actually gonna meet up because I know that it will hurt you a lot. I plead and begg asking her to give me a 2nd chance and would go couple counseling together. But she didn't change her mind at all. She said we both need to work on own problems first before we bring it to a new relationship. She also said that needs to see changes before she thinks about giving a 2nd chance. She follow me to the door and Right before i walked away she gave a hug and i told her that i dont deserve her hugs and she gave me the what the heck face . As i was walking away she told me to.text her when i got home and told me that she better see me at work. So i did what she asked me i texted her when i got home and told her that i made it safely , she then reply saying that she was happy that i made it safe. I asked her are we still gonna talk or just completely stop and she say that she doesnt know yet. I then text her thay i hope we get back together if not i asked a selfish request asking jer said t one last time like we used to but she hast said anything. I then send her apology of the things i have done. I then lookk for therapy (she suggested) and bbooked it. On friday i told her that im deleting all my social media and she reply sayin "do what you need to do, I hOpe therapy help you, have a nice weekend" On saturday moring i was up at 4 am i couldnt sleep because of the mistake that i caused , i then told hee that i would like her to come to my brother wedding and meet my parents if she is interested. Now its sunday she still hasnt responed yet. i know that she wanted no contact and i messed it up. The reason why i did this (not an excuse to justify my behavior) is because when we were dating in 2 months in, we had sex and went to showered. She then told me about her past of what she did with her friends with benefits guy. It really hurted me know whag she did, instead of saying anything i just stay silent. She knew thay it hurted me a lot after 30 minutes laters. The things that she did with him is what i wanted to do with her but every time i asked or initiate she would say no or maybe next time over and over. When i did that fake texting and pretend to be that guy it got to my head and imagines of what she did,whichi then caused me to kept going instead of stopping. What can i do win her back because i really loved her and still do. have been in in tears while working and regretting tjing, i just filll like she having it easier than me right now. She works ar where i work but not a t the same deparemnt but i do see her when i walk by i see her at her desk. what should i do to get her back ??? I rEally want her back
@PazGoldmanOfficial I have also been going to therapy and been getting books about how to overcome some of my issue but I don't know how I can show her that
Too much detail bro, you sound extremely anxious. Chill. Don’t bother her, work on your career, fitness and a dope hobby you enjoy. You’ll find people along your journey that will help you feel better. Therapy is good. Just work on yourself and you’ll be fine I promise :) if you need to chat, I’m here for you
@@jeremiahrod363 I know bro but I really fucked up man I really want her back, I caused her pain, she's angery and I broke her trust issue 😞 idk if there's any chance of reconciliation
Dear Choach. I really like the way you are so straightforward. Where other coaches make cheating so very normal. It is like to some extent these coaches take advantage of the vulnarable people who are devasted giving them hope or assurance to get their exes back while they are in rebound relationships. Your way of coaching is although straightforward its healthy and also guiding people to see their own worth. Exes dont become worthy by simply rejecting you but worth is something innate. You are doing really good work.
After 5 months since my ex left me, I still don't know if she ever cheated. She was so good at hiding the truth about other men in her life while claiming to be the most loyal girl I'd ever meet. Smfh...
Just already solid to move on with my ex yesterday, until i saw my Facebook that she already unblocked me after 9 days. I was tempted to peek her wall and stories, I was heartbroken again seeing her happy without me, and seeing romantic reels and memes I know it's not already meant for me. Now i have to start all over again from the pain that was already slowly healed. And i thought i am not going to cry again. Well, i cried again. Thank you for this advice.
Don’t be desperate
Seek God instead you won’t be disappointed
Thank you. Just having difficult time to process that she already left me.
My ex doest have social media but her friend told me that when they started and sent her pics of them together. She said she didnt even respond to her because she was doing this essentially. 4 months later they posted their engagement pics. One minute they are dating and the next they are engaged and getting married 3 months later.
The divorce is on the way.
It’s never going to last, and if it is, it’s going to be a very toxic relationship.
@@PazGoldmanOfficialFacts
Do i still have a chance. So my ex broke up with me because of the stupidest thing i did, she felt hurt, angery and her trust was broken completely, i did not cheat on her though. This was in Thursdays. On Sunday i texted her uncle asking if he could give her the letter after 30 days of no contact for me but didnt reply. On Wednesday, i talk to her mom and i told her that i wanted to apologize for hurting her daughter feelings. Now today she block me on tiktok and facebook but hasnt block me on Snapchat yet. On Snapchat she posted a flower that her mom got her, she posted 2 rings that she bought herself and a song called You Broke Me First. She used to wear the ring that i got her alll the time before we broken up. Today I did not talk to her at all today or anyone. Im quite devastated and wanna know if i still have a chance winning her back ??? Should i ask to see in person ??
She works at the same company as me so i see her everyday
NO.! Don’t ask to see her in person and stop harassing her family.
You got to get it together man, you’re obviously extremely anxious and you’re making all the mistakes I am talking about in my videos.
I can’t give you a direct answer to your question because I don’t know all the details about the relationship, but one thing I can tell you is that you got to do a lot of work on yourself because if you don’t, and she comes back, you will ruin it again.
You can email me - -paz@pazgoldman.com- or click this link to book a 1 on 1 call and I’ll help you resolve this.
link.moderncrm.org/widget/bookings/talk2paz
@PazGoldmanOfficial What should i do ? My ADHD ex girlfriend broke up at Thursdays because of the mistake that i made. No i did not cheat on her at all. I pretended to be someone she knew from 2 years ago (fwb guy), i made a fake phone number and texted her, she was being loyal to me and block that numbers but instead of stopping i kept going and created a new one, asking her to have some "fun time" she didnt reply at all. I kept messaging but then i stop. She started checking who it actually was and found out it was me. Now I didn't do it to hurt her at all or break her trust, I did it because I wanted to let her see that and know "hey maybe the reason why he's mad and talk to me about it during work is because it bother him and I realized I always say no to the thing he wanted to try in bed"
When she told me to come over and i went she then told me that she need to have a talk with me , she asked if i eas the one who did that and i stupidly denied it rsther than saying hey i really fucked up and im really sorry, it was a genuine mistake. She then told me that she wants to end the relationships and then she asked me again if it was me and i said yes. She relaizes that i have lie to her. She asked me ehy i did itand i tolf her my reasoning. I said why is it that i have to begging you to do these things and yet when you were with fwb guy he didnt even have to beg for it so how is it that fair for me. She then reply saying the old her was different and she wanted to try them but she didnt like them which is why she didn't wanna try them with me. She said i should just go find someone whos willing to do what i wanted. I reply saying are you sure you eant me to do that. She reply saying Yes and i asked her agaijn do you really want me to do that because i can Right now if you want me too. She said yes, i went to my phone and just text random number . As we eere changing the subject abit she then ask wait did you really texted" and i rely. Yes, i did i am just waiting for their responds. She looks dissapointed but i told her that im not actually gonna meet up because I know that it will hurt you a lot. I plead and begg asking her to give me a 2nd chance and would go couple counseling together. But she didn't change her mind at all. She said we both need to work on own problems first before we bring it to a new relationship. She also said that needs to see changes before she thinks about giving a 2nd chance. She follow me to the door and Right before i walked away she gave a hug and i told her that i dont deserve her hugs and she gave me the what the heck face . As i was walking away she told me to.text her when i got home and told me that she better see me at work. So i did what she asked me i texted her when i got home and told her that i made it safely , she then reply saying that she was happy that i made it safe. I asked her are we still gonna talk or just completely stop and she say that she doesnt know yet. I then text her thay i hope we get back together if not i asked a selfish request asking jer said t one last time like we used to but she hast said anything. I then send her apology of the things i have done. I then lookk for therapy (she suggested) and bbooked it. On friday i told her that im deleting all my social media and she reply sayin "do what you need to do, I hOpe therapy help you, have a nice weekend"
On saturday moring i was up at 4 am i couldnt sleep because of the mistake that i caused , i then told hee that i would like her to come to my brother wedding and meet my parents if she is interested. Now its sunday she still hasnt responed yet. i know that she wanted no contact and i messed it up.
The reason why i did this (not an excuse to justify my behavior) is because when we were dating in 2 months in, we had sex and went to showered. She then told me about her past of what she did with her friends with benefits guy. It really hurted me know whag she did, instead of saying anything i just stay silent. She knew thay it hurted me a lot after 30 minutes laters. The things that she did with him is what i wanted to do with her but every time i asked or initiate she would say no or maybe next time over and over.
When i did that fake texting and pretend to be that guy it got to my head and imagines of what she did,whichi then caused me to kept going instead of stopping.
What can i do win her back because i really loved her and still do. have been in in tears while working and regretting tjing, i just filll like she having it easier than me right now. She works ar where i work but not a t the same deparemnt but i do see her when i walk by i see her at her desk.
what should i do to get her back ??? I rEally want her back
@PazGoldmanOfficial I have also been going to therapy and been getting books about how to overcome some of my issue but I don't know how I can show her that
Too much detail bro, you sound extremely anxious. Chill. Don’t bother her, work on your career, fitness and a dope hobby you enjoy. You’ll find people along your journey that will help you feel better. Therapy is good. Just work on yourself and you’ll be fine I promise :) if you need to chat, I’m here for you
@@jeremiahrod363 I know bro but I really fucked up man I really want her back, I caused her pain, she's angery and I broke her trust issue 😞 idk if there's any chance of reconciliation