Very interesting! There is something very similar in my culture, Apache tribe, that uses silence in conversations. It's said it is polite to remain quiet after speaking to allow the other person to absorb what was said, as well as let them reply in their own pace. It's done to avoid misunderstandings between people.
In also have this experience with indigenous people. They are comfortable with silence in conversation. It is baffling for a westerner. It takes an concious effort of attentive, generous listening to create space in dialogue. Indigenous people are of course not homogenous, but I have spent time with inuits in Greenland and Canada. They would project a quiet sense of respect when talking with me. Maybe it could be described as ‘generous dignity’, which I found very valuable. Interestingly, I have experienced they same attentive listening with buddhist monks in both Thailand, Japan and in the US. Your video reminded me of my own embarrassment of having the westerner’s need for chatter, in such encounters. It seems so effortless for them. PS I also remember clearly that indigenous people (also first nation people on the reservation that I stayed with), had a similar habit of not looking directly at me when talking. In the West, we tend to appreciate a strong look when meeting someone, wheras indigenous people (in my experience), will avoid such a direct, ‘confrontational’ attitude. Quite the opposite, they would appear disinterested and distant when I spoke. It takes confidence in both the silence and yourself to have a conversation with such people. It took time to get used to, but after some weeks, I too, would trust myself and that I would say, actually was of interest to others. I also learned to think before I spoke. I wish more had time to reflect on our wasting of meaningless, empty words, and instead conciously weigh our words more carefully before opening our mouths. Myself included.
It is my observation in my interactions with others, I have generally found there are people who listen to understand and people who hear to reply. The key, for me, has been the pause that naturally occurs between the end of one person's speaking and the beginning of another's. Your explanation of MA resonates with what I have observed but never quite defined. Thank you.
Silence is stigmatized in the West, but the Japanese mindset towards silence as a positive thing is beautiful. Thanks for such an in-depth and insightful video!
To me, the concept of the Japanese MA came through a deep sentiment I've felt in a specific situation of my life. Since then, it changed my perspective of living. Is a very powerful, subtle and simple concept. I've got only gratitude for the Japanese people and philosofy for have developted this idea.
Thank you for such a clear and intelligent discussion regarding the concept of ma. I was watching the films of Yasujirō Ozu, and trying to understand his use of framing and also his use of what film buffs, here in America, call "pillow shots", which I now realize is completely off the mark. Your insight into ma, caused me to appreciate Ozu and many other Japanese artists in a new way that brings more depth and meaning to the work, than I had ever realized before. I am a new subscriber to your excellent channel. In gratitude, Charlie
Brilliant! Thank you so much for explaining this concept of Silence. I Love it! Intuitive people naturally resonate with this concept. It is very Human and very God. Silence is what connects Humanity with Spirituality. It is the source of all knowledge and creativity. What an exciting topic. You’ve add Energy to my day. Thank you.
Ma is also important in martial-arts: Toma, chika ma, etc. It's also important in music. I've always been impressed by empty apartments - it's still full of potential space.
When Silence becomes Mandatory, as the confinement of COVID 19. Unfortunately, the opportunity to learn something new within that Silence was Not taken advantage of. As a result, the old behaviors return with more aggressive vengeance, making up for "lost" time. Silence can prolongate as a form of punishment: "The Silent Treatment". Silence is always there. Perhaps, it is the noise that is in between.
Thank you! I write haiku in English and I was looking for someone to explain this very important concept. Love the way you explained it. Namaste from India! ❤🙏
Thank you, I find your lectures illuminating. Please make more. Could you include some practical every day applications of these principles, for example if an agitated argument develops, how can the silence be used creatively to help restore peace? I can see you are a tallented interior designer by the room behind you. Perhaps you could also show how Wabi Sabi and Silence etc can be used in interior design? I am an artist who has been influenced by Chinese and Japanese traditional landscape paintings, and I can see how Wabi Sabi and areas of silence in a picture are important ingredients, part of it's 'story'. Much appreciated.
In Islam, we have this too. We need to talk peacefully, calmly and leave space so that the others can be confortable., although people nowadays they don't use this behaviour a lot,. Because they are not well educated sometimes.
@@kerim.peardon5551 When we compare cultures, it is not accurate to group “Asian” vs “Western” as each country has significant differences. If you like to explore more, you can refer to Hofstede Cultural Dimensiones ☺️
Thank you for sharing this. I am embracing silence and stillness.🙏☮️❤️
Wonderful! Thank you!
Very interesting! There is something very similar in my culture, Apache tribe, that uses silence in conversations. It's said it is polite to remain quiet after speaking to allow the other person to absorb what was said, as well as let them reply in their own pace. It's done to avoid misunderstandings between people.
Thank you Elizabeth, for sharing this. That’s really beautiful and let’s cherish this jewel in our intangible cultures.
In also have this experience with indigenous people. They are comfortable with silence in conversation. It is baffling for a westerner.
It takes an concious effort of attentive, generous listening to create space in dialogue. Indigenous people are of course not homogenous, but I have spent time with inuits in Greenland and Canada. They would project a quiet sense of respect when talking with me. Maybe it could be described as ‘generous dignity’, which I found very valuable. Interestingly, I have experienced they same attentive listening with buddhist monks in both Thailand, Japan and in the US. Your video reminded me of my own embarrassment of having the westerner’s need for chatter, in such encounters. It seems so effortless for them.
PS I also remember clearly that indigenous people (also first nation people on the reservation that I stayed with), had a similar habit of not looking directly at me when talking. In the West, we tend to appreciate a strong look when meeting someone, wheras indigenous people (in my experience), will avoid such a direct, ‘confrontational’ attitude. Quite the opposite, they would appear disinterested and distant when I spoke. It takes confidence in both the silence and yourself to have a conversation with such people. It took time to get used to, but after some weeks, I too, would trust myself and that I would say, actually was of interest to others. I also learned to think before I spoke. I wish more had time to reflect on our wasting of meaningless, empty words, and instead conciously weigh our words more carefully before opening our mouths. Myself included.
Love this! I’d love to learn more about Indigenous culture. You should make some videos 😊
It is my observation in my interactions with others, I have generally found there are people who listen to understand and people who hear to reply. The key, for me, has been the pause that naturally occurs between the end of one person's speaking and the beginning of another's. Your explanation of MA resonates with what I have observed but never quite defined. Thank you.
I think silence is a beautiful thing and sometimes people need a bit of silence like when their sad ❤
Silence is stigmatized in the West, but the Japanese mindset towards silence as a positive thing is beautiful. Thanks for such an in-depth and insightful video!
Silence is beautiful! My pleasure!
The art of silence is greater than the art of speaking.Thank you Azumi.
Yes! Thank you!
To me, the concept of the Japanese MA came through a deep sentiment I've felt in a specific situation of my life. Since then, it changed my perspective of living. Is a very powerful, subtle and simple concept. I've got only gratitude for the Japanese people and philosofy for have developted this idea.
Wonderful to hear that! Thank you!
Thank you
Muchas Gracias ... muy bonito ...
Gracias! 💖
The world is far to local silence is so special thank you xx
Thank you for such a clear and intelligent discussion regarding the concept of ma.
I was watching the films of Yasujirō Ozu, and trying to understand his use of framing and also his use of what film buffs, here in America, call "pillow shots", which I now realize is completely off the mark.
Your insight into ma, caused me to appreciate Ozu and many other Japanese artists in a new way that brings more depth and meaning to the work, than I had ever realized before.
I am a new subscriber to your excellent channel.
In gratitude, Charlie
Thank you, Charlie! Happy to hear that 🥰
Thank you for this Azumi.
Bravo! Beautiful! Homages! 🧚🏻♂️🧚🏻♂️🧚🏻♂️ JAR
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Brilliant! Thank you so much for explaining this concept of Silence. I Love it! Intuitive people naturally resonate with this concept. It is very Human and very God. Silence is what connects Humanity with Spirituality. It is the source of all knowledge and creativity. What an exciting topic. You’ve add Energy to my day. Thank you.
Thank you for your comment!! Happy to hear!
Thank you!
Thank you Azuma.
I've read there's a saying; "Iwanu ga hana" - not speaking is the flower
Always liked it, and found it to be graceful
Thank you for sharing that!!
@@JapaneseSalon Have you heard it before?
Yes!
My wife is Japanese, and it took me many years to feel comfortable with 'ma'. After 15 years together, I still struggle with this from time to time.
this is the best youtube channel.
i could listen to you talk forever
Thank you!
Thank you for your explanation and your videos. I like your silence, your energy, vibrations. Thank you, Azumi
Welcome! Great to hear!
Thank you . I love japanese philosophies
thank you so much for the information!
excellent. Thank you :)
I find your videos short, yet informative. Thank you!
In between = "bardo" in tibetan language, the most powerful moment for liberation, enlightenment.
This is so true. I love these videos, thank you for sharing it for everyone.
Thank you so much 😊
Ma is also important in martial-arts: Toma, chika ma, etc. It's also important in music. I've always been impressed by empty apartments - it's still full of potential space.
Interesting madam Azumi... I like Japanese ZEN tradition. I feel happy to see this video. Thank you
Thank you so much for this post.
I really appreciate this knowledge, thank you
Thank you 😊
Thank you I enjoy these minutes a lot!
I like it a lot. Thanks so much for sharing the philosophy from Japan
I am not sure why, but this was very moving for me. Thank you!
When Silence becomes Mandatory, as the confinement of COVID 19. Unfortunately, the opportunity to learn something new within that Silence was Not taken advantage of. As a result, the old behaviors return with more aggressive vengeance, making up for "lost" time. Silence can prolongate as a form of punishment: "The Silent Treatment". Silence is always there. Perhaps, it is the noise that is in between.
Thank you!
I write haiku in English and I was looking for someone to explain this very important concept. Love the way you explained it.
Namaste from India! ❤🙏
Plz do a vedio for japanese minimalism and living in a small space
Thank you so much for making these videos. They're so lovely and full of wisdom. 🌻
Welcome!
Thank you! Wonderful 😃
Thank you for making this.
Thank you so much, Azumi-san for all your words and space-in-between. Could you please explain the difference between Jiriki and Tariki. Thank you
Welcome! Noted for your request!
Thank you, I find your lectures illuminating. Please make more. Could you include some practical every day applications of these principles, for example if an agitated argument develops, how can the silence be used creatively to help restore peace? I can see you are a tallented interior designer by the room behind you. Perhaps you could also show how Wabi Sabi and Silence etc can be used in interior design? I am an artist who has been influenced by Chinese and Japanese traditional landscape paintings, and I can see how Wabi Sabi and areas of silence in a picture are important ingredients, part of it's 'story'. Much appreciated.
Thank you for your comments and also your requests. Nice idea! Look forward to talking about it!
In Islam, we have this too. We need to talk peacefully, calmly and leave space so that the others can be confortable., although people nowadays they don't use this behaviour a lot,. Because they are not well educated sometimes.
Thank you for sharing!
Sometime one wishes to say so many things, that the only way to say everything is by staying silent
I've heard it said that Asian cultures are introvert-oriented and Western cultures are extrovert-oriented.
Introverts love silence, lol.
@@kerim.peardon5551 When we compare cultures, it is not accurate to group “Asian” vs “Western” as each country has significant differences. If you like to explore more, you can refer to Hofstede Cultural Dimensiones ☺️
墨絵の余白?
Where do u live?
A pregnant silence of MA
Shush