Neighbors are fighting over a property line privacy fence

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  • Опубликовано: 28 дек 2024

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  • @jdpoll9699
    @jdpoll9699 4 года назад +998

    Put in a flood light and point it right at the camera.

  • @jcr1382
    @jcr1382 4 года назад +1407

    If my neighbour paid and put up a privacy fence, hell I’d buy them a gift.

    • @youngb1ood
      @youngb1ood 4 года назад +40

      Exactly

    • @potatooolatke
      @potatooolatke 3 года назад +21

      Same!

    • @NinnyPoo_theJoy
      @NinnyPoo_theJoy 3 года назад +24

      “You want a back massage with that? Your hands must be tired, please, put your feet up darling, what would you like for dinner??”

    • @avagrego3195
      @avagrego3195 3 года назад +18

      No wonder the neighbor is angry, Harris put the ugly side of the fence facing her neighbor - that would be illegal where I live.

    • @amiegee3134
      @amiegee3134 3 года назад +7

      I thought the exact same thing, I would thankful.

  • @Steveleanr
    @Steveleanr 4 года назад +672

    That poor lady, why are some people so rude and ignorant!! Leave her alone!!!!!

    • @exceptionaltalentspc4954
      @exceptionaltalentspc4954 4 года назад +17

      Some bullies look for easy targets and once they've found them they wont leave them alone until something tragic happens.

    • @MannoulaZ
      @MannoulaZ 3 года назад +1

      @PIPER DOUGHTERY law doesn’t work like that....

    • @judyfenske1429
      @judyfenske1429 2 года назад +1

      No, she needs to know what the rules are.

    • @daisyterry9508
      @daisyterry9508 2 года назад +2

      Why is code enforcement allowing themselves to be used as a WEAPON for a disgruntled neighbor⁉️ Doesn't code enforcement find the volume of calls excessive❓ It sounds like HARASSMENT to me!! The victim has lived peacefully for years, why now? Seems like there is some "property envy" going on ⁉️ 🤔🤢🤮

    • @MuffinMan0521
      @MuffinMan0521 2 года назад

      They are probably renters too lmao

  • @ivonnebarrientos4685
    @ivonnebarrientos4685 4 года назад +497

    I have this problem with my neighbors looking down into my patio from their second story window. I put up 3 10 foot rectangular umbrellas that till no view of their house whatsoever. Even heard her say “ she’s blocking me, I can’t see.” Why does she have to watch me while I’m in my yard? Cleaning,planting relaxing or playing with my dogs?

    • @ivonnebarrientos4685
      @ivonnebarrientos4685 4 года назад +4

      * Tilt

    • @mars9399
      @mars9399 3 года назад +47

      Disgusting neighbour, she needs a camera pointed in her direction to track how much time she spends stalking you

    • @SarahLiz30
      @SarahLiz30 3 года назад +38

      That's perverse. It just makes you hate people.

    • @oldmanballer5088
      @oldmanballer5088 3 года назад +45

      Yeah m back porch is about 4 ft higher than my neighbors so I can see into their backyard without even meaning too. So what we do is if their outside sunbathing or whatever we try to stay inside just so they don’t feel uncomfortable. But if they are just out or king in the garden or playing with their dogs I just say hello then try not to look at them. People just need to respect ch other and it’s easier to get along.

    • @jay-lm4we
      @jay-lm4we 3 года назад +12

      Maybe she fancies you and who could blame her, but it's still rude.

  • @citytrees1752
    @citytrees1752 4 года назад +427

    Tall fences make good neighbors.

    • @wendywilson1736
      @wendywilson1736 3 года назад +1

      Just wish ours had a 6 ft fence all 260 along his side of the line. He parked it right ON the property line. Our county has a setback code....Then we wouldn't have to see his junk, which he has started parking in front of the end of his fence in the front yard.🙄.

    • @deniseroberts7481
      @deniseroberts7481 3 года назад +8

      Seems to me the new neighbor has way too much time on their hands and needs to get a life and leave that poor woman alone !

    • @StrawberryFields4ever65
      @StrawberryFields4ever65 2 года назад +1

      Absolutely right!!!

  • @tecunumantonatiu4484
    @tecunumantonatiu4484 4 года назад +523

    This older lady's home Is Better kept than that Karen's home.
    Having a Karen as neighbor is the worse nightmare!!

    • @karendouglas1688
      @karendouglas1688 4 года назад +6

      It reminds me of the house on Disney's UP

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 3 года назад +9

      How do you actually know who the real “Karen” is from a 3 minute clip? 😂

    • @TheLockedTrashed
      @TheLockedTrashed 3 года назад +9

      Trust me having one karen is bad,but when you're in an eight person apartment and seven of them are all karens.
      Edit: Just found out my landlord is even worse than a karen so yeah.

    • @14isoldenough
      @14isoldenough 2 года назад +4

      @@thesun-N-moon8885 The one calling the city 15 times about the height of a fence is the Karen. Are you brain dead?

    • @davef.2811
      @davef.2811 2 года назад +2

      TecunUman, having a Karen that's a democrat is actually worse.

  • @tanyatoliver8398
    @tanyatoliver8398 4 года назад +170

    This woman is elderly. Leave her alone! Some people are so ignorant. She looks peaceful and does not bother anyone. No one has complained about her before. The stress she must be going through! God is with you honey. Just keep praying.

    • @youngb1ood
      @youngb1ood 4 года назад +2

      Why would people want to watch the elderly. They don’t look attractive. Are they trying to wait for a home invasion or something?

    • @Lopyswine
      @Lopyswine 2 года назад +6

      What does her age have to do with it?

  • @georganaromano6577
    @georganaromano6577 4 года назад +332

    Put in a very tall growing bush on your side of the fence that will block the camera's view. Shame on that disrespectful neighbor invading your privacy with a camera.

    • @Nanasews4
      @Nanasews4 4 года назад +16

      Yes...Arborvitaes , No there is no room for them to grow...and the neighbor will complain it is tearing up the drive. Go for a tall Privacy Screen , then add to the top, some type of decorate fabric like you use on patio umbrella. It is a screen, not a fence ,,no rules or regulations.

    • @carguy4658
      @carguy4658 4 года назад +9

      There is a sidewalk there, so perhaps a narrow trellises with cheap plastic vines on it.

    • @kimmomarlow4125
      @kimmomarlow4125 3 года назад +6

      Bamboo!

    • @rockyroad7345
      @rockyroad7345 3 года назад +3

      Skyrocket junipers grow enormous and are evergreen. Good choice!

    • @scorpiowong6965
      @scorpiowong6965 3 года назад +1

      Exactly!! That's what I did.put up a huge palm 🌴👍, beautiful view for nosey neighbor.

  • @rubenmontano5589
    @rubenmontano5589 4 года назад +289

    She should put a toilet and a sink outside in her porch. Then she can claim the douche neighbor is invading her privacy because its her restroom

    • @stonejohnson9552
      @stonejohnson9552 4 года назад +9

      i was just going to say that hahahah

    • @matthewJ142
      @matthewJ142 4 года назад +7

      I love the way you think.

    • @mrbear1302
      @mrbear1302 4 года назад +16

      Outdoor shower would probably be easiest.

    • @findpurpose6300
      @findpurpose6300 3 года назад +1

      Why didn't she put a curtain?
      Problem solved.

    • @jedimojojojo1603
      @jedimojojojo1603 3 года назад +1

      Lol haha savage

  • @paulm2184
    @paulm2184 4 года назад +284

    The real crime is that you need to call the city to get permission to do what you want with your “property”.

    • @joeysfather2723
      @joeysfather2723 3 года назад +27

      Exactly, we're just given the illusion of "owning property "

    • @shannon9155
      @shannon9155 3 года назад +3

      When it comes to fences yes.

    • @rhoonah5849
      @rhoonah5849 3 года назад +27

      @@shannon9155 And why? Whose business is it how tall your fence is? You should be able to put up any height fence you want so long as it doesn't interfere with the migration patterns of birds or cause jetliners to divert to an unobstructed air space.

    • @mariannesouza8326
      @mariannesouza8326 3 года назад +6

      No, it’s there to protect both parties, because otherwise, people might build something over the property line.

    • @blackbutterfly3248
      @blackbutterfly3248 3 года назад +8

      You never really own your house...

  • @misshoneynevercame4832
    @misshoneynevercame4832 4 года назад +165

    In my country everyone has a fence. It's very common.
    The crazy neighbour is mad because now she has to buy a tv to watch people. I hate neighbours who look into your house all day.

    • @anyprax
      @anyprax 3 года назад +12

      I didn't even know it's actually a thing, looking into other peoples homes...
      I'd feel really awkward if I even made eye contact for a split second with someone that is inside his home lol.

    • @rufinaseme6173
      @rufinaseme6173 3 года назад +1

      My childhood home in another country had 10ft fence & so did everybody elses house. We didn't learn to climb trees as kids we learned to climb fences 😆

    • @Bookworm214-y3d
      @Bookworm214-y3d 2 месяца назад

      here i am dreaming of a neighbor who is interested enough in me to look in to my windows and tell everyone, i live a very interesting life and it feels wasted without ppl talking about it or not recognizing my talent or my decor. Wish i had those neighbors, i would remove all my walls so everyone can see =D

  • @mchapman132
    @mchapman132 3 года назад +161

    My weird neighbor in Florida kept moving the survey stakes on our property. We decided to put up a fence. When our surveyor started to measure, we realized nutty neighbor had moved the stakes so far over we had only 18 inches of property on that side of the house. We really had 23 feet. He kept chasing us off “his property “ when we’d walk down the side of our house.
    He was really pissed when we put the fence on the correct border.

    • @Tracie252
      @Tracie252 3 года назад +2

      Lol

    • @sophiahuber4756
      @sophiahuber4756 3 года назад +4

      Wow!!!

    • @BestMods168
      @BestMods168 3 года назад +15

      Tf is wrong with these people. 18 inches vs 23 feet

    • @mchapman132
      @mchapman132 3 года назад +3

      @@BestMods168 - he did have a serious head injury years earlier on a motorcycle. So………

    • @Knobby32
      @Knobby32 3 года назад +9

      That is crazy illegal to mess with survey markings

  • @UhtredOfBamburgh
    @UhtredOfBamburgh 4 года назад +149

    The charges they should be going for is harassment using a camera as the tool, not public filming laws. Peeping toms and stalking is illegal

    • @amiegee3134
      @amiegee3134 3 года назад +2

      I had a neighbor years ago that pointed a camera at my house, it's only illegal if the camera is pointed at a window and can see inside the house.

    • @andread8251
      @andread8251 3 года назад

      Hopefully the POS neighbor only put up a fake camera.

    • @retiredcolonel6492
      @retiredcolonel6492 3 года назад

      The laws need to be updated. Now it’s basically if I can see it, I can film it and with today’s technology even the poorest pervert can afford a camera.

    • @avagrego3195
      @avagrego3195 2 года назад

      Interesting calling her a peeping Tom.

    • @stuwest5862
      @stuwest5862 2 года назад

      It's not illegal to install a camera looking out your window regardless of where it is pointed, dumbass.

  • @randybang6952
    @randybang6952 3 года назад +108

    I had a property line problem with my people nextdoor. He had his farm equipment parked on what he called his property. One day the weeds were three feet tall my son was playing outside. I could hear him but couldn't see him. So I went looking for him calling his name . I found him in the tall weeds by the farm equipment. When the people came home I ask them if I could cut the weeds down for the safety of my son. He said go ahead. So I started early Saturday morning and the last stripe of weeds I cut I hit something steel with my lawn mower. I stopped and looked at what it was. I found the tee iron marking the property line. I got my tape measure and did some checking. I found out I just mowed my property not his. So I showed him the tee iron and told him to move his equipment off my property.

  • @MS-cg1mj
    @MS-cg1mj 4 года назад +99

    Somebody help the poor lady. Noisy neighbors.

    • @atlaslex
      @atlaslex 4 года назад +3

      Yeah. She sounds like a nightmare. Did they say she was noisy as well though? Maybe this woman could call in noise complaints?

  • @pingerlock3973
    @pingerlock3973 3 года назад +59

    No one should be able to to install a camera that invades your privacy in your property.
    There needs to be law addressing this type of voyeurism/ peeping Tom

    • @stuwest5862
      @stuwest5862 2 года назад +6

      The camera is installed inside their home. What you are suggesting is that it should be illegal for someone to look out their window and that is just stupid.

    • @Lopyswine
      @Lopyswine 2 года назад +1

      The camera isn't invading someone's privacy.

    • @DonkeyFrog
      @DonkeyFrog 2 года назад +3

      There should be a law banning you from commenting on youtube.

    • @DarcMagikian
      @DarcMagikian 10 месяцев назад +7

      The camera is put up for the sole reason to harass the neighbor so yes there should be a law against it.

    • @karenstanley7802
      @karenstanley7802 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@stuwest5862 Shouldn't be aimed at the neighbors property. Aim down at your ground/driveway if you are worried about some breaking in. It could be below the top and the fence, and record anyone walking on that side of her house. Cities/Counties/States need to pass new laws regarding cameras and invasion of privacy laws.

  • @grjr
    @grjr 4 года назад +47

    For anyone who has this problem get yourself a green laser and shine it into the offending camera lens

    • @madelinewhitley14
      @madelinewhitley14 Год назад

      That's why I'd get hidden cameras.

    • @TheCaptainSplatter
      @TheCaptainSplatter 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@madelinewhitley14there are ways to find those

    • @smopuim
      @smopuim 3 месяца назад

      @@madelinewhitley14 Well you are stupid because any camera is protected by god

  • @Irishrebel092
    @Irishrebel092 4 года назад +57

    If I was a contractor and heard about this, I would offer to add a bathroom onto that side of the house free of charge.

    • @youngb1ood
      @youngb1ood 4 года назад +1

      👍

    • @BestMods168
      @BestMods168 3 года назад

      No you wouldn't. Contractors are leeches.

    • @commoncents456
      @commoncents456 3 года назад +2

      They make wallpaper that has bathroom designs. Put that on the inside of the window.
      Wait till the neighbor calls for the illegal bathroom

  • @kityumcashcokityumcashco5740
    @kityumcashcokityumcashco5740 4 года назад +60

    Cameras are illegal if they are pointed at the neighbors windows and invades their privacy. I would install my own cameras pointed right back. Neighbors from hell...harassing someone for no reason.

    • @JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet
      @JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet 3 года назад +10

      shes 76 almost 80 yrs old dont think she wants play those games....wants live in peace with few yrs left she has

    • @nickwebb9937
      @nickwebb9937 3 года назад +4

      @@JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet I don’t think she only has a few years left 76 people tend to live longer nowadays

  • @heatherbaker8596
    @heatherbaker8596 4 года назад +38

    If they spent some of that energy looking after there garden instead of harassing this poor woman they might find its time better spent

  • @immyownperson1375
    @immyownperson1375 3 года назад +52

    I thought they only targeted the younger ones, turns out even our elderly are susceptible to creeps like these😖

    • @melissachartres3219
      @melissachartres3219 2 года назад

      Creeps? In what way? Could you offer a little more insight into the creep part?

    • @casttheircrowns
      @casttheircrowns 7 месяцев назад

      even the elderly are susceptible to evil witches

  • @Bamcis100
    @Bamcis100 4 года назад +48

    Install cameras of your own into the sick neighbor's yard and post her comings and goings online.

    • @tecunumantonatiu4484
      @tecunumantonatiu4484 4 года назад +2

      This is a great advice!! She should do fight back with technology!!

    • @lindamiller8767
      @lindamiller8767 3 года назад

      I think camera's are everywhere anymore. I live in Pa and if you put up a fence, you have to move it 12" in on your property, so if I would put up a fence I would move it 12" in on my property, so you have 2 feet of space between the fences. So if you have a nasty neighbor, they would never cut it. I would probably have to cut it.

  • @codepwnedOG
    @codepwnedOG 4 года назад +70

    In most areas, you can install a spotlight and point it right at their window, or at least at enough angle that it will block that camera's view. Cheap solution to dickish behavior.

  • @BlazeIncZeroCool
    @BlazeIncZeroCool 4 года назад +50

    Savage move would be building a private outdoor shower so it is considered a bathroom and have the city force her to remove the camera.

    • @alanncsu3243
      @alanncsu3243 3 года назад +1

      Put an old toilet in the yard on the neighbor's side of the property - that'll give them plenty to argue about. :D

  • @DevouredByADream
    @DevouredByADream 2 года назад +3

    My parents house is at the top of a small hill, maybe a 30° incline to the bottom of their backyard fence. They also have a large patio deck extending from the home.
    A new housing developed bought the land behind them and began developing and, sure enough, eventually someone bought the house built behind them.
    It was an older couple (man and woman) in their 60's who were retired.
    One day as they were moving in I was over visiting my mother, and the new neighbors spotted me (due to the slight incline they had a perfect view of my parents yard without even looking over the fence). The man yelled over that I looked strong and able, asked if I would like to earn $200 and help them move a few items into their home.
    I agreed and drove around to their street. Well...it wasn't a few items lol. They had me ride along with them to a storage unit and I basically ended up moving ALL of their heavy furniture into a U-Haul and then moving it into their home once we got back. The man didn't lift a finger and drank Scotch the entire time and blabbed endlessly about himself.
    He also said the work would take "no more than an hour" initally but it took nearly 5 hours.
    Once I finished he gave me $50 and claimed he was waiting on a check, and would give me the rest in 1 to 2 weeks.
    That was a bit irritating, but I agreed and left.
    Over the next 2 weeks my parents said the new neighbors were extremely chatty and friendly. My mom said that the new neighbors were ALWAYS in their backyard and seemed to be watching them.
    They would try to offer my mom stuff from their garden over the fence and if you got caught in a brief "hello" back to them, they would keep you out there for 30 minutes talking, especially the husband.
    After 2 weeks went by I went to their house and they wouldn't answer.
    So I left and came back a week later to visit my mom again and to also try the neighbors once more for my $150, only now when I returned the neighbors had built a 10 foot tall privacy fence so that neither we nor they could see each other from our respective backyards.
    Not only did they do that, they built a fence around their front yard so that nobody could even walk up to their front door to ring the bell.
    I drove around once more and entered the gate in the front to access their front door and doorbell.
    The man answered the door reeking of whiskey and was cussing me out. He slammed the door and his wife came back to the door a moment later and told me to "get the fuck off" of their property.
    I was stunned. I couldn't believe what was happening...but it gets worse.
    I ask for my money and they acted like they didn't even know who I was.
    This is after 2 weeks of chatting them up over the fence when I would visit my mom and the 5 hours I spent in their home and riding in a U-Haul with them.
    I was perplexed. Stunned. I began to walk back to my car and the husband came out to the front yard with a 9 mm hand gun and pointed it directly between my eyes and told me he would kill me, but he hadn't put a magazine in the firearm yet...so when he pulled the trigger nothing happened.
    I get back to my car and call the police.
    About an hour later the cops came round to our front yard and said the man was pretty irate but that he claimed I was an intruder. He also said he had no idea who I was and no clue what $150 I was talking about.
    They asked if I wanted to press chargers and I said no, I didn't want to make any issues for my parents.
    My mom's husband living there with her was a police officer at this time too, ironically.
    Fast forward about 6 months and we are all eating dinner one night on the patio. It's 4th of July weekend.
    We hear cursing and vulgar expletives coming from the neighbors side. Basically he was trying to ruin our peaceful family gathering by being a creep and being vulgar.
    He also had installed cameras facing into my parents back yard too by this time.
    So I had enough at this point and stood on the large dog house my grandpa made for our family dog and could see into their backyard.
    They made a really impressive outdoor lounge area, they had a garden, they had maybe 5 or 6 cameras on the house and fence pointing towards every angle of my parents house and monitors out there on their outdoor sun patio thing to watch them on.
    So they could see us but we couldn't see them.
    As soon as he saw my head pop up looking over...from our property....100% legal and within my rights to do...
    He shouted he was going to blow my head off.
    He drove around to our house and banged on the door.
    My step-dad answered with a shotgun pointed at his face, but I had no weapons.
    I told the guy I would beat his ass right then, but I don't know what happened...he had a come to Jesus moment and probably was crapping his pants and went from insane murderer to the nice, friendly, chatty neighbor we knew for 2 whole weeks that offered us veggies from his garden, etc.
    Within 2 minutes the police were on our front lawn and had him in handcuffs.
    He was like "is this about the $150? I'll pay him the money".
    Yeah...
    I declined the money and we let him go with no charges, wildly enough.
    During the whole fiasco his wife was yelling sexual and vulgar obscenities over the fence to my nieces and nephews who were there for the July 4th BBQ.
    People are truly fucking terrifying in this world. It takes a lot to earn my trust these days.

  • @higher_pwr8178
    @higher_pwr8178 3 года назад +65

    It appears the angry and troubled neighbor either has a connection in city hall or has played this game before.

    • @melanie83076
      @melanie83076 3 года назад +4

      But why play this game? What can you get out of it besides making everyone as miserable as this person seems to be.

  • @rhoonah5849
    @rhoonah5849 3 года назад +15

    My hold house had 6' privacy hedges along the back and my neighbor was always complaining about them being too high. The day I moved in he came over and started complaining about them to me and how the previous owner didn't take care of them, etc. He wanted them cut down to 4' and I was like "no, I like the privacy" and he started with the "why? Are we so gross to look at?" garbage. The guy was a jerk.

    • @EmmaDee
      @EmmaDee 3 года назад +3

      He asked WHY??? I would have been like WTF ARE YOU SO DAMN NOSIE.

    • @rhoonah5849
      @rhoonah5849 3 года назад +3

      @@EmmaDee He claimed that my hedges were preventing him from growing grass on this like 10; by 2' section next to his driveway. It was a bunch of crap.

  • @wizard3z868
    @wizard3z868 4 года назад +51

    most cameras today can pick up inferred light not visible to the eye just get one big enough and blind tht camera?

  • @jamiepeck8580
    @jamiepeck8580 4 года назад +29

    That neighbor is just a karen.poor woman I hope she gets peace from her nasty neighbors

  • @alanncsu3243
    @alanncsu3243 3 года назад +19

    A lot of new people moving in these days, and want to run the neighborhood like an unofficial HOA - in hopes of pushing people out who've been there for decades peacefully.

  • @mrskingkong1485
    @mrskingkong1485 3 года назад +17

    Wow poor lady being harassed when she should be able to enjoy her retirement years. Where is her family? Someone help this lady please. Hell I'll go help her where is this at??

  • @tannenbaum7594
    @tannenbaum7594 4 года назад +22

    Please, somebody help her ! She must have peace and privacy ! 🙏🏼🏠🙏🏼

  • @timfahey7127
    @timfahey7127 3 года назад +6

    Ma'am, I am sorry you have to deal with this. Your house(and you) is beautiful!

  • @shirleywilliams5124
    @shirleywilliams5124 4 года назад +34

    I know what you mean, been on our property in Georgia for 40 years, then come some dumb bratz inheriting there grandma's house . And it's been war since, the peace we used to have... . Is no more.... blessing to all who go thru this.. .

  • @Examineverything
    @Examineverything 2 года назад +10

    I went through something similar only I had to get a protective order against my neighbor who kept putting packages at my back door then tried to claim I was stealing them, but I recently had a small victory and won in a civil suit he brought against me. It sucks but I've learned to pick and choose my battles wisely, especially with neighbors

  • @chaimomma9198
    @chaimomma9198 4 года назад +36

    She’s mad because she watched you from the window like it was her own personal entertainment. When you tried to have privacy from her judgmental spying eyes she made it her new project. Instead of loving her neighbor she’s hating on you. That’s been my neighbor. Not recently thankfully! She used to knock on my door and check on my kids and let her dog in my yard to poop and spy around as much as she could. She liked to judge how we lived so she could find satisfaction in judging us. They didn’t approve of us homeschooling, now they homeschool and they lost their daycare.

    • @IsomerSoma
      @IsomerSoma 4 года назад

      Home schooling is more often than not terrible for your child. Even if you can provide sufficient education in math, science etc. the socialisation part where your child grows up among peers is so crucial. Its simply egotistical to homeschool.

    • @chaimomma9198
      @chaimomma9198 4 года назад +5

      @@IsomerSoma your an idiot. Have a nice day.

    • @IsomerSoma
      @IsomerSoma 4 года назад

      @@chaimomma9198 I dont think so. Most of the time homeschooling is bad for your child.

    • @chaimomma9198
      @chaimomma9198 4 года назад +6

      @@IsomerSoma right. You think. Your lacking in understanding and have your flawed assumptions. “Most of the time” means your making the same ass umptions. Seems the entire country is having to “homeschool” in various forms. The fact that the archaic assumption of socializing is the basis for your accusations means you assume homeschooling is all the same. We socialized a lot more before Covid with clubs, co-ops and a schedule that allowed for more time socializing. Public school kids have so much piled on them they have little time for actual socializing. In fact our public school co-op Principal even shares the belief that regular public schools are lacking in real socializing and learning in schools haven’t changed since the Industrial Age. Seems you need to update your opinions.

    • @mars9399
      @mars9399 3 года назад +4

      @@IsomerSoma i was bullied so much in school i stopped socialising with people now...I can't even make friends in real life. I wish I was homeschooled then had some socialising in Sunday school .

  • @natasjadelange1062
    @natasjadelange1062 4 года назад +39

    In South Africa 99% of property is fenced. My friend just ignore this woman. God bless

    • @tammyrawdon3587
      @tammyrawdon3587 3 месяца назад

      🙄k, just don't think about pink elephants🤦‍♀️

  • @Townie7177
    @Townie7177 3 года назад +19

    Like a shame on them for bugging a 76 year old woman and then making her pay and repay for damn fence. Like what is the point and since when can your fence only be four feet? This is the definition of a Karen

  • @nostalgia815
    @nostalgia815 3 года назад +23

    wow that neighbour must live one miserable life. Also I'm so glad it is illegal in Ireland to film anywhere but your own property

  • @community1949
    @community1949 3 года назад +13

    What exactly is wrong with that fence - I am on my 3rd privacy fence. Her neighbor just is angry because now she can't look directly into this lady's yard & house. Most nice neighborhoods let foliage and bushes grow up to give them a sense of privacy and seclusion and what is wrong with that anyway. There is a certain type of person now who resents someone else seeking privacy and I don't understand that. Get a life and stop staring into a person's home - give this little lady a break.

  • @jimmyhamm9737
    @jimmyhamm9737 4 года назад +30

    The fence looks great by the way ; I would have no complaints if i were her neigbor. I would have one the same way.

    • @misscleo378
      @misscleo378 3 года назад +5

      The fence looks terrible on the nasty neighbor’s side, maybe that’s why she’s upset. But the older woman has every right to privacy. She has a beautiful home and maintains is very well. Nothing worse than living next to bad neighbors.

    • @clinthowe7629
      @clinthowe7629 3 года назад +1

      @@misscleo378 exactly! I just posted a comment about this, it seems nobody else noticed this. Most city property fences like this have the nice looking side facing out. I don’t deny her a right to privacy but have some consideration for others too. The neighbor could put up a fence to hide that eyesore too, its not necessary to be a dick to the old woman, why don’t people talk things out? I bet most issues can be resolved in conversation if people are willing to cooperate a little.

  • @shannon9155
    @shannon9155 3 года назад +16

    I understand this poor lady. I live up in Carmel (VWC) in a house for almost 18 years. In May of 2017 I got new neighbors that moved in and they brought with them their twice convicted violent felon 24 year old son who was living on house arrest with them. All they did was party and ya-hoo and smoke dope! I went bananas! It got real ugly but the son eventually moved out! Total loser and loser parents! Enablers!

  • @auntiem873
    @auntiem873 4 года назад +13

    Cover the windows with one way film. Tiny the windows with the Metallic side out and let the camera pick up glare.
    The only downside is at night. If the curtains are open and the lights are on, she would be visible.

  • @hasonpoy
    @hasonpoy 4 года назад +12

    Point a laser into the camera at night (ensures that the laser is hitting the lens). This will obscure the image from the camera.

  • @tempgirl00711
    @tempgirl00711 4 года назад +3

    Can I say fckn harassment from the city got dam. This poor woman contacted the city, got approval for fence, and moved forward with it. Next the same city turns around and sends a nastygram about the very fence they already friggin approved! Can a beotch get her own friggin privacy! Dam all she wants is privacy in her own home!!!

  • @danni1993
    @danni1993 2 года назад +1

    I'm so happy I live on my farm. NO neighbors in sight, lots of stars, no traffic, and I get to fall asleep with coyotes howling every night.
    The BEST life ever. 🥰

  • @ddmck1972
    @ddmck1972 4 года назад +28

    Every neighborhood has to have at least one shitty neighbor that has nothing better to do with their life. You put up this privacy fence because you got tired of her spying on you, and she decided to get even because she now has to find something else to occupy her time, like maybe getting a job!

    • @ladyploveroflife5014
      @ladyploveroflife5014 2 года назад +1

      👆🏽…👍🏽 totally agree

    • @ah-rr1lk
      @ah-rr1lk 2 года назад

      All my neighbors are awesome. The ones behind me have a stupid dog and they could do more to make it quite. The other two are awesome and one is helping me build my fence. The meth heads down the street are all nice and keep to themselves. Pretty comfortable here lol.

  • @karendouglas1688
    @karendouglas1688 4 года назад +4

    Any one have an update on this poor lady?

  • @muttBunch
    @muttBunch 4 года назад +14

    There needs to be a nationwide bill passed for this in regards to residential properties. People take advantage of it and do it on purpose. What I would recommend is installing windowed mirror tint on all the windows on that side of the house. You’ll still be able to see out, but they won’t see in. An extra benefit to the mirror tint, if the sun hits that side of the house at all, which I sure hope it does, it will reflect and wash that camera right out rendering it temporarily dead. If it damages the camera, the home owner would not be liable because you allowed anywhere to install any tint on any house EVERYWHERE :)

    • @muttBunch
      @muttBunch 4 года назад +1

      Ed Carrithers rather have you as a neighbor. I wouldn’t mind hearing that :/

    • @agentdsmith
      @agentdsmith 4 года назад +2

      The mirrored tint isn't a bad idea but it won't work if the window is opened for fresh air

    • @mars9399
      @mars9399 3 года назад

      @@agentdsmith I guess she will have to put up with letting in fresh air from the opposite side of the house. Not that great if she needed to air out a bathroom or something.

    • @alanaldpal950
      @alanaldpal950 2 года назад

      OK “Karen muttBunch”. You want a federal law governing local land ordinances? Crap like this should be handled on the local level.

    • @KingsdaleNorth
      @KingsdaleNorth Год назад

      ​​@@agentdsmithrivacy window screens are very affordable. She doesn't need insects in the house.
      Jus Sayin'

  • @SSArt98
    @SSArt98 4 года назад +7

    I've got a nasty neighbor that is doing all the above but minus the fence.
    *_She cut my phone & internet line/service a few years ago after I quit mowing her lawn for free for the last 7 years!_*
    (The line was touching the peak of her dilapidated garage and she said it was damaging the shingle! (Not shingles but shingle!) This utility service line has been this way for 33 years that I've lived here!) (The service pole has been there for 80+ years providing not only me but many with the internet, cable, and or phone service!)
    Anyway, after ATT charge her for the repairs it got real bad here and she's NOT stopped her antics!
    1. _Putting bright lights in her window facing out towards my bathroom and bedroom windows!_ (fluorescent lights and spotlights!)
    (The Police made her remove them immediately! Good for me right, no.)
    2. _She then had 2 very bright security lights put up ion which they are directed to my back porch and backdoor!_ (I can read a book at night, work in the yard, etc...)
    3. _She had installed a high dollar security system with 2 of the 4 cameras pointed 100% at my back door and yard!_
    4. _She put a dildo in her kitchen window for all to see but only the resident in the next house had a good view, me._
    5. _She ran out her door one night and poured water on my tiki torch while we were cooking, it was WAY on my property!_
    (We were having a cookout when a friend's young 5-year-old daughter seen it and asked us what it was!)
    6. So much more she has done to make my life miserable!
    So, I feel miserable for this lady in this report and hope she and I can get some type of help for these harassing crazy people & their antics and more!
    *_I will admit after she had provoked, interrupted, and disturbed my life, I set her up one day in which I have video of it which, I'm not proud of nor what I called her but I couldn't take her insanity anymore._* (The video has made me nearly $400.00 on YT though!) (Still, the small amount of money isn't worth the mental anguish she's caused!)
    I'm a great neighbor, I don't bother anyone, I've always helped. I've never been in trouble with the law and have busted my butt all my life and all this along with this year, it is breaking me!
    *_Truth, Peace, Freedom & L♥ve2ALL™_*
    *James*

    • @Meela234
      @Meela234 4 года назад

      @x xx Coward

    • @lizbits9339
      @lizbits9339 4 года назад +1

      I’ve been through something similar. I had a neighbor use the old law still on the books called “adverse possession”. It’s where a neighbor uses your property for five years and then they can claim it (CA). It turned out it was two attorneys who were my neighbors who planned this knowing the law. I knew a friend who knew an attorney who took me on pro bono. Long story short....we won, he had them disbarred and of course they moved. I had another neighbor move my fence five feet over my line when I was out of town. I won that one also. It is truly unbelievable how spiteful and mean people can be. First thing I did when I’ve bought homes after that was to walk the property line. I’m really distressed that people have such spite inside them.

  • @KM-pp4je
    @KM-pp4je 3 года назад +4

    Why in the world would anyone want a LOWER fence? The neighbor is nuts. The fence provides privacy for both properties.

  • @3ppcli
    @3ppcli 11 месяцев назад +2

    My closest neighbor is five miles away. Aw peace and tranquility.

  • @thetruth-zh5ki
    @thetruth-zh5ki 3 года назад +4

    Sad some people are truly miserable I hope you get some peace and justice seeing you lived in your home for such a long time ❤

  • @TractorMan104
    @TractorMan104 7 месяцев назад +1

    In Florida she would be told to turn the fence panels around, they are backwards, I've seen it happen.

  • @matefamily7883
    @matefamily7883 4 года назад +14

    Seriously the city needs to tell this woman who’s complaining that they will fine her and start charging her for every complaint.

  • @carle5538
    @carle5538 2 года назад +2

    The City should be supporting and defending this poor lady. They are not much help. She is being harassed.

  • @jrichieander6832
    @jrichieander6832 3 года назад +6

    People like that is why I will have me a house out in the country

    • @lindamiller8767
      @lindamiller8767 3 года назад +1

      I know! I just want to be left alone. Neighbors want to know all your business.

  • @GabGotti3
    @GabGotti3 3 года назад +1

    I’ve been watching neighbor fights the last hour. Hilarious 🤣

  • @daviddiehl197
    @daviddiehl197 4 года назад +6

    Building code is 42" back to the property setback. After that it can raise to 60".
    Going to check it t out, actually live near it.

    • @bkitteh6295
      @bkitteh6295 3 года назад

      @david diehl @david diehl Were you able to help? While watching, this all I could think was "Ms. Harris needs some allies!" Thanks 🙏

    • @daviddiehl197
      @daviddiehl197 3 года назад

      @@bkitteh6295 I know the area but couldn't find the house.

    • @bkitteh6295
      @bkitteh6295 3 года назад +1

      @@daviddiehl197 Oh, too bad, but it was great of you to try. One day you'll just be driving around and look over, and there it'll be. Until then, thanks again for trying to help this sweet elderly lady out. 😷🖐

    • @jazztocountry1047
      @jazztocountry1047 3 года назад

      In my area it's 36" on the front yard and 72" on the side and back yard.

  • @descarroll2039
    @descarroll2039 2 года назад +2

    If my neighbour built and paid for a fence I'd say "Thank you ".....The camera situation is completely over the top tho.......

  • @Jess24Lynn7
    @Jess24Lynn7 3 года назад +13

    We had this issue and my dad put up a fence and they fought it.. turns out their whole driveway was on our lot.. my dad said sign the paper saying I can build the fence or loose your driveway and side entrance.. they signed and my dad had it up in 2 weeks.

    • @justmeiniowa
      @justmeiniowa 3 года назад +1

      The only problem with that is if someone slips and breaks their leg on that driveway it is your Dad that will get sued since it's his property. Something to think about !

    • @Jess24Lynn7
      @Jess24Lynn7 3 года назад +1

      @@justmeiniowa you can actually pay to have the land surveyed and changed for a small fee. We got a fence. They got a driveway. No liability on us after that.

    • @terramarini6880
      @terramarini6880 2 года назад +2

      @@Jess24Lynn7 The minute they found out the land was theirs, no permission was needed... 2 weeks to remove your trespass or I do it and send you the bill. I would have given them nothing. With me it's play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Please tell me the neighbors at least paid for the land they harassed away from your parents.

  • @David-q7w9m
    @David-q7w9m 7 месяцев назад +1

    Put up strong lite that shines directly on the camera lens next door.

  • @lulu-iz7bv
    @lulu-iz7bv 4 года назад +33

    The neighbor "doesn't feel safe?" That tells you all you need to know about that woman. You can probably guess a whole lot of demographic information about her. The poor old lady should be left in peace.

    • @glennwatson3313
      @glennwatson3313 3 года назад +3

      The woman who does not feel safe is named Lakesha. So she might not be the demographic you imply she is.

    • @robm1303
      @robm1303 3 года назад +2

      @@glennwatson3313 We all know that is definitely not a White name 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 3 года назад

      The neighbor who doesn’t feel safe is Lakesha. That could tell some people you didn’t listen to learn only to respond with race baiting. Can one guess a whole lot of demographic information about you as well? We all need to learn to live in peace. 💛💯

    • @TurtleMyrtle12
      @TurtleMyrtle12 3 года назад

      Looks like "lulu" guessed it all wrong. HAHAH

  • @tecunumantonatiu4484
    @tecunumantonatiu4484 4 года назад +9

    Neighbors from Hell!! Why they can't live in Peace and let it be!!

  • @ron6892
    @ron6892 4 года назад +6

    Usually the one putting up the privacy fence is the one being wronged

  • @captinbeyond
    @captinbeyond 2 года назад +2

    If you read the ordinance she was in non-compliance from the front of her house to the street. She' should have gotten a permit and that would have prevented this confusion. The person who built it should have known the laws, but either didn't know or built it anyway. Most cities don't allow you to put any kind of privacy fence that extends past the front of your house.

  • @janearkell5185
    @janearkell5185 3 года назад +3

    This lady needs to buy herself a mirror the size of her window and have it installed with the mirror facing out. She can put a nice picture on the back of the mirror - OR there are very good quality window clings that offer privacy while you can still look out, the sunshine is reflected outwards in mirror fashion which really helps in keeping your house cooler. Good luck to you Ruby - we here in Canada have similar problems with jerks on a mission.

  • @debradoucet8847
    @debradoucet8847 8 месяцев назад +1

    So sad 😢😢

  • @mikenkk1
    @mikenkk1 3 года назад +13

    Around here we need to have the nice side of the fence facing out, this lady's fence looks backwards to me.

    • @avagrego3195
      @avagrego3195 3 года назад +3

      Same here.

    • @LaneCorbett
      @LaneCorbett 2 года назад +2

      Never understood that you should be able to have the attractive side of the fence facing your land

    • @dghgator
      @dghgator 2 года назад +1

      I feel for the elderly neighbor but this is probably what caused most of the problem. If you want the fence you should have to look at the ugly side or choose a design that doesn't have an ugly side.

    • @travisrobinson9313
      @travisrobinson9313 7 месяцев назад

      The neighbors can paint the "ugly side" if the so choose to so what's the problem???

    • @karenstanley7802
      @karenstanley7802 6 месяцев назад

      Where I live, if you pay for the fence, you get the nice side.

  • @tooge47
    @tooge47 8 месяцев назад +2

    why I live on the very rear of 38 heavily wooded acres..................

  • @gerardogonzalez8076
    @gerardogonzalez8076 4 года назад +7

    While I think neighbor reaction to the fence is excessive, I think the issue is that the fence was built with the unfinished side of the fence looking at neighbors property.
    If I don’t remember wrong, the finished side of a fence, should be facing outside not inside.

    • @lindamiller8767
      @lindamiller8767 3 года назад +4

      I think you are right. The unfinished side should be facing your property. The neighbor could plant shrubbery.

    • @lauracrabb7169
      @lauracrabb7169 3 года назад +2

      The neighbor may have made a stink when the work was being done and refused to let anyone stand on her property to work. This the smooth side is on the wrong side.

  • @sharontussinger2406
    @sharontussinger2406 Год назад +1

    The city needs to change the law about privacy regarding this situation where the camera isn't for surveillance surveillance for crime but obviously into someone's windows!

  • @tiggersdad6878
    @tiggersdad6878 3 года назад +5

    In many places the "finished" side must face the neighbor if you erect the fence. This lady's fence is the opposite.

    • @terramarini6880
      @terramarini6880 2 года назад

      That's not a law, it's a suggestion for maintaining good neighbor relations if you want that, it's the nice thing to do but you don't have to.

    • @tiggersdad6878
      @tiggersdad6878 2 года назад

      @@terramarini6880 In some places it IS in the ordinance. Where I lived in Florida, the county had such a provision.

  • @stevelopez372
    @stevelopez372 8 месяцев назад +1

    Nothing like a city confused about their own regulations. Lol.

  • @Bamcis100
    @Bamcis100 4 года назад +22

    Start a "my safety" gofundme page to fund the planting of a very tall arborvitae hedge.

  • @semperfidelis1142
    @semperfidelis1142 Год назад +1

    I think I have a solution, a high powered laser pointer can damage a camera. Sooo, need I say more (just make sure you are out of the cameras line of sight)? Another option, at least for night time, is set up a reflective mirror, it will bounce the IR light back at the camera and blind it.

  • @thorodinson6031
    @thorodinson6031 4 года назад +3

    You point a Laser pointer into the camera lens. It will no longer function as a camera

  • @Mama_Bear_of_4
    @Mama_Bear_of_4 2 года назад +1

    I had a similar issue where a new neighbor decided it was ok to just look in my house whenever he wanted. I put up a fence (within code), and he put up a couple camera's. Well, he really got pissed with my next step. There is a product called Wndow privacy film. It is a very thin vinyl that you put on the inside of your window. You can still see out with no problem at all, but anyone trying to look in, only get a mirror effect. Bought it, and it was super easy to install. He tried to complain that my windows were now a danger, because it was "blinding" when light hit it (which is completely untrue as it does not reflect light). But, police told him I was not violating any laws or codes, and the window tints were perfectly fine to use. They also told him that there is a "Peeping Tom" law, and if they get one more complaint from any of his neighbors, they will becoming back, and not just to talk. Yup, apparently I was not the only neighbor her was doing this to. It is kind of funny, because I suggested the window tint to all surrounding neighbors, and now when you drive down my street you see a bunch of houses that look like they have mirrors for windows, and boy was he really pissed about that, lol. This all happened about 3 years ago, and he just placed his house on the market. Thank goodness, cannot wait for him to be gone. But, I am leaving my window tint up, as it really is great. I get all the light coming in, without worrying about weirdos looking in.

  • @mikeperry6266
    @mikeperry6266 2 года назад +4

    At 2:30 take a look at how shitty that fence looks from the neighbor's side. EVERYWHERE I've lived, the code calls for the "better" side of the fence to face the neighbor. Is that not a code violation? Shouldn't that fence be disassembled and rebuilt with all the posts and support pieces facing Ruby Ballard Harris for her to have to look at?

  • @retiredcolonel6492
    @retiredcolonel6492 3 года назад +1

    There’s window covering that you can apply that will allow you to look out but stop someone from looking in. You can find it at hardware stores and it’s not too expensive.

  • @deannayoung5311
    @deannayoung5311 3 года назад +4

    Oh momma I'm so sorry this is happening! 💞 I wish I was your other neighbor...
    I'd be helping you all I could,
    I'd put up privacy screens
    That come out"
    but not over the fence!
    Long as you cant see the side of there home at all...plain and simple!
    Then billed up a very lovely an nice sitting area on the other side of the home! Forget about these people
    Sue them for harassment if they continue to spread false statements
    To the city council...
    God bless you sweety 🙏🙏🙏

  • @AmyC28713
    @AmyC28713 2 года назад +2

    `That camera is non functional - no blue light. And it is behind glass which means if it does work at night.... (big IF) the infrared beam would blind it out when it bounces off the glass.
    Edit 6 days later: Can someone buy a roll of mirrored window tint for Grandma's breakfast room windows - if that's the concern, then Lakeisha can look at her self in the mirrored reflection.

  • @ShipperChick
    @ShipperChick 3 года назад +3

    Just leave this poor woman alone! Her home is beautiful and clean. I can’t understand why people have to be so nasty. 😕👎🏻

  • @SoberIrishman
    @SoberIrishman 2 года назад

    Same with my home, been here 21 years, girl next door moved in her bf 2 years ago and it has been a living hell.
    He cracked doors of both my cars, obnoxious dog...driveway always full of projects and his trucks...and now cameras filming my property.
    I put up a fence, it is ridiculous what people get away with.
    It does cause someone health issues, it has me. Stress and heart strain and they couldn't care any less.
    Calling a property lawyer this week.

  • @serenitysealed485
    @serenitysealed485 3 года назад +3

    Sounds like my neighbor whom likes to creates problems.

  • @lothean2099
    @lothean2099 3 месяца назад +1

    She can randomly put a cheap laser with widespread aimed at her fence. Will knock out that camera. Or an infrared light at night.

  • @ThomasWLalor
    @ThomasWLalor 4 года назад +3

    Purchase a green or blue/violet light laser (Ebay). "Paint" the camera lens multiple times. Repeat as needed to discourage invasion of privacy. [From personal experience, I know it works, to limit prying eyes from a nasty neighbor.]

  • @threeleggedman
    @threeleggedman 7 месяцев назад +1

    It's an apartment building on the left. The landlord can help this lady by hiking the rent.

  • @ralphholiman7401
    @ralphholiman7401 4 года назад +4

    Tall fences usually make the best neighbors.

  • @dianebushby2510
    @dianebushby2510 2 года назад +2

    Why would you be concerned about neighbour putting up a fence...every country that i have lived in you are allowed to put up a fence or wall! I couldnt live with my neighbour being able to see if my house every day!

  • @Jemalacane0
    @Jemalacane0 4 года назад +3

    The fence should be 20 feet tall.

  • @abacab87
    @abacab87 Год назад +1

    The fence is really ugly on the neighbors side. In michigan you are required to put the "ugly" side on the side of the people who built it. The fence builder also did a terrible job on the ugly side.

  • @MrSubmariner13
    @MrSubmariner13 3 года назад +3

    If I lived near this nice lady I would volunteer to install an extremely bright flood light to shine at that camera 24/7. Make it solar powered so no extra expense on her utility bill.

  • @yeshacroe9354
    @yeshacroe9354 3 года назад +2

    Actually fences shouldnt be that short. Its called a fence which means no one can just hop on it and no one could see you from outside.

  • @precious2612
    @precious2612 3 года назад +3

    That’s so weird like why would u be wanting to look in sombody house for and she said they was staring at her eat? That’s so weird.

  • @kairehoward1958
    @kairehoward1958 3 года назад +2

    Had/have a similar situation with the Karen’s next door. They put a ring doorbell camera on top of their garage to watch me leave in and out of my house. So I put up a mesh privacy fence 15 feet in the air . The next day they removed their camera from eye view .

  • @varunkatyal4654
    @varunkatyal4654 3 года назад +3

    Earlier my neighbour were good but now these new fellows came they are destroying my property again and again

    • @mars9399
      @mars9399 3 года назад

      What are they doing?

    • @varunkatyal4654
      @varunkatyal4654 3 года назад +1

      Like braking tiles from the edge of mi house outer wall dumping there garbage on my roof throwing pint on my walls and most importantly messing with my car while it's parked

  • @reginafromtexas2314
    @reginafromtexas2314 3 года назад +2

    I would put an awning over the window that slants down toward the fence. Or just use window blinds since there really isn't anything to see out of the window except the side of the fence. Sucks to have a neighbor like that!

  • @beealert911
    @beealert911 4 года назад +3

    Tall shrubs. I don’t think most cities have restrictions on the height of tress.

    • @PLMannequin
      @PLMannequin 5 месяцев назад

      Speaking from bad-neighbor-experience, trees/shrubs can be easily vandalized. And these types of crazy neighbors will do it.

  • @savannahvick5266
    @savannahvick5266 3 года назад +2

    This woman put up this fence to prevent her neighbor from staring at her. The neighbor needs to stop harassing her. End of story.