Domicide: Losing Our Sense of Home in a Modern, Rootless World

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  • Опубликовано: 1 дек 2024

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  • @ladygracesparkles
    @ladygracesparkles Месяц назад +16

    I would like to live on an island surrounded only by like minded individuals. We could take care of each other and live in harmony in nature. I would be happy living in a supportive, kind, inspiring, healthy & loving environment where no narcissists exist whatsoever.

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +4

      That would definitely be nice for a while, as a holiday from the messy world when we're overwhelmed by it 😊. But I do feel that our sense of purpose requires us to be in the 'marketplace' of the world, growing from the friction of encountering others who don't share our views, and finding meaning in helping those who may be in need support or guidance. 💜 ~M

    • @heathergatfield667
      @heathergatfield667 Месяц назад +1

      Wouldnt that be nice. After all the narcissists I've dealt with & all the pain i have been through....i will be the 1st behind you. That would be a beautiful place. And i tell yah...i would be protecting those shorelines. There would definitely be NO narcissists sneaking on. Not a chance😂

    • @BMore_Vidblog
      @BMore_Vidblog 26 дней назад

      I have 'changed' so much since age 12, I'm not sure I could be a neighbor, or even like you. My maturation and seeking process has taken me all over the place. I might be like-minded this year, and disagree with you the next as I change based on experience.

  • @Jesboogiedn
    @Jesboogiedn Месяц назад +12

    I'm so grateful for this video.
    Along with the painful memories resurfacing doing inner child work, the suffering in this world is unbearable. I try to find ways to cope.
    However, talking to others is not one of those things.
    If not indifference than apathy is the feedback I get when bringing up societal issues.(I keep my personal issues to myself.)
    Thank you for letting me know that I'm not the crazy one and overly sensitive.
    One thing I've tried to do in order to make sense of it all is comparing my dark night of the soul to what's happening in the world.
    In the same way I experienced pain when facing my shadows the shadows of the world are surfacing and can no longer be ignored.
    For example, the issues in Israel and Palestine have been going on for decades but it's only now that the entire world is seeing it. That shadow is now in the light.
    I just pray to source that the world will heal and become a better place for generations to come.
    😢❤🙏🏻

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you for sharing your pain and your bravery in facing it.
      You're definitely not crazy for being sensitive to all of this. I find that the opposite of being sensitive is not bravery in the form of apathy or indifference, as we often encounter in others. It's not brave to refuse to pay attention, notice, feel, or acknowledge. Being a deep feeling person in a messy world is the most brave thing you can be.
      I like your comparison of this collective period as a dark night. Being so much more interconnected at a global scale thanks to technology like this has brought all kinds of shadows to the surface, and it'll be a messy period of working through them that will allow us to see the light on the other side of this collective spiritual and psychological growth spurt.
      Lots of love and stay strong 💜 ~M

    • @Jesboogiedn
      @Jesboogiedn Месяц назад +1

      @@LonerWolf I also want to thank you for the inner child meditation. I've been listening to it daily and it has helped me immensely especially when I have my emotional downpour of tears lol. 😊🙏🏻

    • @SisAnnMarieX
      @SisAnnMarieX Месяц назад +2

      I agree, after going through my inner child therapy, I always wanted to go home. I don’t belong here. At age 5 I knew I didn’t belong here or with my family. I sat on my family bedroom balcony looking up to the sky, begging them to take me back. This whole place is like a virtual reality program that I no longer want to be in. The more I work towards 5th dimension the challenges increase. The elders of 6 is trying to prevent me from going. It’s a tough road for love and peace ❤

  • @gabrielewilms3030
    @gabrielewilms3030 17 дней назад +1

    No battle! No fight! Just breath - relax 🧘 receive - be you - now - love ❤️ light 💡 smile 😊

  • @Memoni7
    @Memoni7 Месяц назад +6

    Resonates...I spent the day outdoors in nature. When I recenter, I find my home within..me.

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +2

      That's beautiful, I find the same. Nature has a way of putting things in perspective, reminding you there's something bigger and vaster than yourself and regulating your nervous system with its calming, full of stillness, ancient presence. ~M

  • @marksaka1802
    @marksaka1802 Месяц назад +3

    Mateo you did an excellent job putting together this video!!!
    I would say I'm experiencing Domicide "loss of face" ... It's been going on for a while now... So long that it's "normal" to me...
    There's no doubt that I'm a wonder a.k.a. lone wolf simply because I've moved so many times throughout my life and I didn't realize why until I came across your website and right around that same time I had my Natal chart read and it in fact said that I become restless when I'm in one place to long... I don't have any complaints at all because thru wondering I met my Soulmate and she to is a spiritual wander... We keep to ourselves yet if we run into neighbors we'll briefly chat but all and all we prefer to be alone...
    Thank you for this video and again I applaud you for doing an excellent job putting it in together!!!

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks Mark, video editing is a brave new world for me after all these years of writing 😄
      It's amazing how normalized this loss of face/space/place has become, so much so that we don't even see it anymore. It's like trying to explain water to a fish.
      It's beautiful to hear you've found a fellow wanderer on your journey. I feel the same about Aletheia, I feel privileged to have found someone who resonates and wants to share this journey as I am reminded everyday not everyone is so lucky. Being in a loving relationship eases the collective 'loss of place'.
      I appreciate the kind words 💜

  • @ztg73
    @ztg73 Месяц назад +5

    Stranger in a strange land, yes... Always felt alien and then scapegoat path as part of soul journey for awakening into individuation. I have no home except.... Myself. Thank you, as always, for deep soul resonant words and shares 💜 To waking up... ♾️

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      It's awesome you're on a path of individuation and awakening; I've learned to be okay with being a stranger in a strange land 😊. I think Marcus Aurelius said something like the object of life isn't to be on the side of the majority but to escape the ranks of the insane. 😄 ~M

    • @ztg73
      @ztg73 Месяц назад +1

      @@LonerWolf I love that 🤩

  • @margies.5271
    @margies.5271 Месяц назад +5

    Thank you for opening our minds and for inspiring us to connect to nature & to true spiritual awakening.

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +2

      No worries Margie. I feel the minds of all of you are already open and receptive, hopefully this content just points at different directions for you to explore 😊~M

  • @andreeailie9053
    @andreeailie9053 Месяц назад +1

    Thank You so much for this interesting 🧐🤔 video. So grateful 🥲 that you posted this video concerning this new concept - never heard of it , but somehow many have experience it in this life time

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад

      You're most welcome 💜. Generally this concept is used exclusively in terms of literal destruction of buildings and habitat, and yet I feel more and more of us are finding it translates into others areas of our life. ~M

  • @wbworkout
    @wbworkout Месяц назад +1

    I so undersrand this feeling and state of being.

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      It seems to be a thread that many of us here at LonerWolf share in common 💜 ~M

    • @wbworkout
      @wbworkout Месяц назад

      @@LonerWolf At times rhe weight is heavy especially now when my nation is so divides and my civil rights are in question. Where will I have to go next to escape the crazy mess we are in.Maybe not, we'll see in November. I still fear for the possible repercusions that coulod arise either way the election goes. I hear people talking about movijng to Canada. Another move might do me in. I have felt so disloczted so many times.When I finally feel settled, bamn - another move. Peace!

  • @MrPositive99
    @MrPositive99 Месяц назад +5

    This whole domicide resonates and i forget how much it affects me. After a mental health breakdown i lost a spiritual home then with my parents passing, a family home. I literally come from nowhere and belong nowhere. I am traveĺling around UK and Thailand looking to settle down somewhere.

    • @viennagirl9335
      @viennagirl9335 Месяц назад +3

      I hope you find a place to settle where you feel a sense of belonging in your community, I am very sorry for your loss of parents, and your illness. I wish you infinite peace, healing, and happiness always.

    • @katyjk6301
      @katyjk6301 Месяц назад +1

      I feel ya!

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      It's easy to overlook something that's become so prevalent and normalized. I'm sorry of your losses of home and place. May you find what you seek in your wandering, what's importing is that your searching and that's all you can do. ~M

  • @suegrise628
    @suegrise628 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for this Mateo. I always question myself and you made me feel like I’m okay.

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад

      Thanks awesome Sue. It's natural to question yourself when you're exploring the untrodden paths as it feels more risky but also more alive. 😊~M

  • @GirlWith9Lives
    @GirlWith9Lives Месяц назад +1

    Ugh yes… there is nowhere here in this modern world that feels like home… Or ever has. Destined to be a wanderer 🥀

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад

      It's only those who feel the pain of homelessness that go on this search and find something. 💜 ~M

  • @katyjk6301
    @katyjk6301 Месяц назад +2

    Yes, yes, yes…. Feeling so displaced because of too many changes, and upheavals, while still feeling so much love for people and earth….it is a painful heartache of a juxtaposition. I have lost family and familial home to life’s stuff and have just struggled to be okay with the changes. I generally just feel like an outcast and an alien.
    The few friends and remaining family keep reminding me that the love I radiate is what they love so much…. I am most grateful for that lifeline… and yet, honestly , sometimes it feels like a life preserver amidst a tsunami

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      It's true Katy, it can feel quite paradoxical to feel so much love for everyone and everything and yet at the same time feel do displaced in the messy world, like an outsider watching it all unfold and unable to find a place of resonance.
      It's the firey trail we must walk it seems as those who are sensitive to it all, and yet it's also the fire that shapes us into the wounded healers that preserve the light in the storm. I try to remind myself to maintain my focus on the scale I have control of, I can't take on a tsunami, but I can be a life preserver for someone who may find themselves in the waters, and that's good enough. 💜 ~M

    • @katyjk6301
      @katyjk6301 Месяц назад +1

      Thank you. 🙏 It always helps to have those friendly reframing reminders….

  • @nicholasthomas8254
    @nicholasthomas8254 Месяц назад +5

    If you want to find your True home... look inwards.
    Look past the body...
    Look past the mind...
    In that total silence where there is no this or that lies the home that we never truly left.
    😉

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +2

      Thanks Nicholas. For most of us, it's the remembering of this Original Home that keeps us feeling lost, forgetfully looking outwards where there's more light and more food for the mind to chew on the infinite amount of concepts and information that distract us away from this Inner Citadel, the Original Self. 💜 ~M

    • @jameswest8181
      @jameswest8181 Месяц назад +2

      Indeed , only to have a silent undisturbed place for some significant time, ok i think of the plight of poor palestine when i crave and hunger for space and peace and silence for myself , Your 100% in what you say in finding your true home , but to have that space to arrive at this , thinking of walking away from my place and living in the forest under a tarp may be the only way to do this as others dont understand or respect this fundamental need

  • @Xwrt532
    @Xwrt532 Месяц назад +1

    You know you are on the right path if it lonlely yet so true and peaceful within. And i think its because most ppl, through no fault of their own, wake up rather unfortunately to their lower selves. This sad reality has created a spiritual ecosystem of falsehood so if you awake any differently, expect to feel off.
    Having said that, no fear at all...use it as motivation to keep treading in The Light. Humanity and Creation will thank you for it.
    Peace & LIGHT!

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад

      I like to describe that feeling you're looking for as feeling alone, but not feeling lonely, that's how you know you're finding deeper communion and company with existence itself. Though there will always be times we're lonely, it's just human nature.
      I hope that the more of us who choose to serve in whatever way we can, the better the spiritual ecosystem can become 😊 ~M

  • @heidiarasi780
    @heidiarasi780 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your expirence on the subject of homelessness from within~ Perhaps our thoughts aren't true, and the feelings attached to them are not real~ Indeed, the thoughts are created by previous expirences in other life times and reinforced in this lifetime. It would be wise to set aside everything we think we know about ourselves, our
    dis ease and expirences for an open mind and a new expirence~ by the grace of letting lables go... it is necessary to observe and let go of the old ideas so that new ideas can come in and become. A selfish mind always believes it's right and will always take everything personal~ We must go through confusion to get to clarity,~ I appreciate all of it!

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +2

      Letting go and being comfortable with the unknown is very much what is necessary in these periods of transition. We're in an awkward place between worlds, a liminal space of letting go of the old but not knowing what form the new will take. Confusing to clarity is a great way to sum it all up. 😊~M

  • @gdacon3309
    @gdacon3309 Месяц назад +2

    ive been in this kind of world, its been 20 years, up and down hard along the journey, home that we seek is exist, i dont know how to proof it, and i dont know how to tell you, talking about it its like explain a taste of a food that i ate to somebody, i know what is home feels like,

    • @gdacon3309
      @gdacon3309 Месяц назад

      i think, no one could kill home, and i think it is the sign or the path along the way home can be broken,

  • @rene5600
    @rene5600 Месяц назад +1

    I am not only a spiritual wanderer but also in real life and live anywhere ,but will move on.

    • @rene5600
      @rene5600 Месяц назад

      And would not to be different . As i am different even in being different .

    • @rene5600
      @rene5600 Месяц назад

      Not for sale .indeed.

    • @rene5600
      @rene5600 Месяц назад +1

      Being lone does not mean alone or even lonely .it is being on your own and content with. Connected with but not them . Great .

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад

      Thanks Rene, I like how you describe lone-ness as distinct from alone and lonely. It's very much an internal state uninfluenced by the externally changing landscape. 😊~M

  • @Rainbowglo.108
    @Rainbowglo.108 Месяц назад +1

    Could the constraints caused by the idea of the 'traditional family' be a form of domicide? Traditionally, if you present as 'other' you are exiled. What do you think?

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      That's a great point, I do feel that the modern concept of 'traditional family' is itself a line in the sand that doesn't hold any more reality that past definitions of family. I'm finding this especially true as our own family grows and we realize how poorly equipped a nuclear family is to navigate the introduction of new members. ~M

  • @primalsoul369
    @primalsoul369 Месяц назад +2

    If we came from Divine Source how are we not still Divine Source? (Rhetorical question). It’s like saying a baby once born has no biological link to its Mother and Father. We are all the Divine Source manifesting and experiencing ‘itself’ as Divine individuated ‘parts’ and as divine individuated parts ‘we’ manifest and represent the Divine Source. You are your God. Your God is You. It’s only the ego-centric part of persona that thinks it’s a victim to domicide. In every moment the (spiritual choice exists) to be the creator of one’s live (relationship with) and not a victim to it; if not, then Wetiko will continue to gorge itself thus fading the luminosity & expanding the shadows of egoic ‘longing’ yearning for the Divine Spark (home) and wholeness that is already within. Peace and Love. 💜🙏

    • @karishort1891
      @karishort1891 Месяц назад

      Beautifully said ❣️

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      It's an interesting point of view but it comes with several issues. The main problem is that for God/Divine to be present within experience, the "I/You" that is the experiencing ego-centric part of us has to disappear. So "You are your God. Your God is You" is a dangerous oxymoron (if the God is present, the 'I' cannot be), because it leads to ego-inflation. When spirit visits us and we don't recognize it for what it is, we have a tendency to appropriate it for our own needs without reverence for its origin. Instead of transcending the ego, the human ego is grotesquely inflated and enlarged. This is basically spiritual bypassing and you see it a lot in new age circles of individuals identifying (as opposed to acknowledging) with their archetypal parts; "I am a Goddess" etc. I hope that helps. ~M

  • @TatianaMasko
    @TatianaMasko Месяц назад +1

    I think simply said … is we haven’t sold our soul 🙏

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      That's a succinct way of putting it Tatiana 😄💜 ~M

    • @TatianaMasko
      @TatianaMasko Месяц назад +1

      Hey Mateo From where I see things. It’s becoming rather painful and funny Sense of humour is paramount… How’s things with Bub. 🙏👆🙏

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      Sometimes all you can do is laugh at the absurdity 😄. Bubs is well 💜, he made his healthy arrival late last week which we'll announce in the next email 😁. A sense of humour is definitely helping navigate the sleep deprivation and endless poos 💩😷. ~M

    • @TatianaMasko
      @TatianaMasko Месяц назад +1

      @@LonerWolf 🤣😂 about poos I had 5 kids and no Huggies lol
      Then they smile at you … what happens then .. hey ? lol
      One for the 3 of you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @LonerWolf
      @LonerWolf  Месяц назад +1

      I have a new found respect for all parents, 5 kids sounds crazy to me lol. It's a whole new dimension of growth, it's like a strange form of Stockholm syndrome where they bring you so much work and yet so much joy simultaneously so you don't mind the work. If there ever was a Path of Service this is it... 😄 💜 ~M