FTM Summer Passing & Fashion Tips
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- Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
- Tips for passing this summer! I talk about fashion and how I plan on dealing with the swimming situation.
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Dear Tyler,
My name is Dominick and I am an in-the-closet FtM transgender. I would just like you to know that I watch your videos whenever I feel hopeless or alone. You help me remember that I am not alone in the world and that there is still hope for me in the future. My parents don't accept me for who I am (thus the "in-the-closet") and I don't feel safe coming out to my friends. Your videos always make me happy and I feel like I can survive anything after watching them.
You are my hero. Thank you.
-Dominick
Hi Dominick :) I know it's been 6 years and you're probably inactive, but if you do happen to see this, I hope life is going well for you! I remember seeing this comment maybe 2ish years ago and it's stuck with me for a while, I'm not sure why. Possibly because I relate to it. Anyways, I hope you're doing good!
@@maybe.yellow Hello! It’s been six long years but I’m doing really well. I’ve been out for almost two years now, on T for little over a month, and I have a top surgery consultation this December! I hope everything is going well with you too, thank you 🥰
@@dominickf9944 Congrats dude, I'm glad it worked out for you! good luck on top surgery, hopefully someday I'll be able to get that as well. Have a great day :)
That’s so cool I’m trans too and my names Dominic. I’m about to start testosterone soon. Im so happy to have this opportunity cause I know a lot of 13 year olds don’t get the chance to get gender affirming care and I’m just so happy 😀
I am not trans but I really respect trans people. I think you guys are amazing for what you're doing going out for what you want rebelling against society, and simply doing what makes you happy you guys are seriously so amazing.
um.. being trans is not "rebelling against society"
it's how we were born and we don't need other people validating us about our transition.
Well if its how you were born and how you want to be then that is fine with me
emee privette thank you so much.
So if I'm trans im rebelling against society? No I'm not GET YO FACTS GAY lmao I had to
Well thanks fellow human. I’m a trans guy btw 👌🚶♂️
Binding with a normal binder while swimming is very dangerous. I don't recommend it. It restricts movement and can cause damage to your chest. There are binders on the market that are specifically for use when swimming. They aren't great quality and cost can very, but the risk of hurting yourself or drowning outweighs most of the cons of the binder.
Jayce Montecinos bruh gc2b binders can be worn for swimming. The people who run the company say you can swim in them in the FAQ kind of thing on their site.
The Beckham ya but u need size up
I've worn gc2b a couple times for swimming and I've never had any problems with it. Yes it does restrict movement but it does that when dry too.
Underworks has an FTM swimsuit! I haven't bought it but it looks pretty cool?
hey guys, there are also binders made for swimming purposes! the price is around 40 bucks, which is p good if you ask me :p
where do you get that ?
Atte Nicholas Underworks has one!
rise against the panic! Thanks!
Atte Nicholas gc2b also has a few for around 35 bucks and from experience they work really well
Hannah Hicks cheers!
You, young man, are extraordinarily gorgeous - handsome, HOT. I mean, good crimeny, you're better looking than Brad Pitt. You could don the cover of any top fashion magazine and there is not a male celebrity drawing breath who could possibly be considered better looking. Okay, I HATE facial piercings but that's because your face is a raging masterpiece and your mouth is amazing. You're a raving stunner. I wish you all the very best that this life has to offer. You're adorable and so full of life and hope and promise - may you accomplish all of your dreams.
I got recommended this vid by a trans advice blog for passing in the summer and it's weird (and awesome/encouraging!) to see how far Ty has come in terms of video style and ofc also transition
Gosh you're so Handsome, unf. LEt's Marriage
okai we do
Christy Sanchez OMGGGGG
Christy Sanchez "let's marriage"?
I live in south Florida and go swimming, snorkeling, diving, boating, or fishing every week with my water-centered family and what I find works for me is a sport bra or swimming binder under a rash guard or shirt and board shorts. A tip that I don't really see anywhere but is pretty much a must for me is that after you get out of the water, your cloths will be wet and stick to you which shows your curves and the breast that shows even while binding while also making you cold from wind, so if you can't immediately change after going in the water or are going on a boat, bring a jacket and put it on after getting out of the water. This works as a towel and because you were wet is not as hot as you would expect.
There are swim binders ya know
not everybody can buy one
XigXag GFX yeah but they're for over a hundred dollars and not everyone can afford one
ayden vaughn no, no their not, there about 40 dollars
Weet Geen Naam You used every form of they're besides the correct one
XigXag gc2b binders are basically swim binders !! just dont put them back on after you take them off when they're wet. those are around $33 though :0
Jock straps help keep packers from floating away lol
Also, wearing a binder then a loose tank top works for me. Then again, I can't swim well so I don't go in the water. Wet binders probably aren't the best
i love you, bro. you're hilarious. :-) i actually just went swimming and used this awesome athletic stretchy venom (from spiderman) shirt that i got from walmart over my binder... totally worked... squeezed the hell outta me but it works. glad we're on the same page!
Dude I have followed Tyler for so long and I did not realise this was an old video. In the process of surviving summer.
I wish there were more ftm fashion videos out there! Love it!
Gosh you're soooo attractive
So I just started watching your vids, and I'm going to say. Thank you, you have given me a lot of amazing tips on how to pass, dress, ect; and I just really hope you can just kinda live your life and yeah...I'm kinda awkward with this but you probs get that I'm just trying to say thank you so much!
I like your background music. Pogo is amazing.
I managed to find a rash vest with a built in binder, can't wait to try it out at the pool and beach
I never would have thought of a rash guard! I've always just wore a binder under a tshirt. It might be different in other places but lots of guys here wear tshirts while swimming here. It's still not comfortable but it works. I can't wait until next summer though! I'm having top surgery (my partner got his this summer, and we only had time off enough for one of us to heal before our summer classes began). I can't wait to just swim without feeling so constricted. xD
I'm a waterpolo player and I struggled with swimming but I have found a couple of things that work for me:
- bandaids over chest nips and then a rash shirt/guard
- full piece (female) swimsuit compresses the chest and then you can put board shorts and a rash shirt/guard over it (no one sees it and it's more comfortable than binding)
- trunks or board shorts both work
I wear my packer in the pool. I use a cheap one because the chlorine will eventually kill it. I have packing high activity sports boxerbriefs under my swimshorts. I wear a compression shirt not a binder and while I am in the pool I do water strength training excercise before relaxing and hanging out. No one thinks anything of it. They just figure I'm winding down after a workout, but I also have a strong confidence and I think that makes a difference to how others react to me.
Love the button up on you!
Hey Ty, i was just wondering but do you know how to make a homemade binder? My mom is against me being a trans and I kind of wanted to flatten my chest before school....high school....if you don't that's alright but if you do could you put a video up with the steps and stuff? thanks. ily. you're a great inspiration.
Yes! I will definitely do that soon!
I made this comment 2 years ago and since then I've bought 2 binders, a packer, my mother uses he/him pronouns with me, and I've started gender therapy. It gets better guys ❤
Isaac B your last comment made me smile so much. and it gives me hope. I'm non binary and bisexual and not out to my family. I'm glad your mum is finally accepting her son. much love. 💛💛💛
Isaac B your last comment makes me so happy omg
FRANK IERO ❤️
Underworks sells binders that you can wear just for swimming. It zips in the back, and works great for me when I wear just a loose swim shirt underneath. It isn't too uncomfortable which is a huge plus. I'm a size 36C and it compresses great and with my speedo loose swim shirt it has me passing. Would highly recommend Underworks swimming binder, it works better then their other binders.
Hi i just started watching your youtube, your such an inspiration to me. You have been through a lot but in every video i have watched you have a brave face! The first video i watched made me cry. Your such an inspiration to me! Keep in doing You!
The best combo I've seen is actually a sports bra under a thick rash guard. The binder probably looks better but for comfort sake the sports bra under the rash guard makes your chest pretty flat without squeezing the life out of ya :) Of course I have a smaller chest, I suppose for bigger ones it might not work as well...
your hips are so narrow like??? how???
Possibly cause of the T.
the way I watched this video probably 50 times when I was like 15. this is legendary
the aztec print shorts... the lobster print button up... the floral batman hat... fashion god
I'm on surf team, and I spend most of my time at the beach/ pool. At my house I just go topless and I made my own binder out of a pair of tights. It is easier to swim in and put under a rash guard because it only goes down to the chest.
you could also get a tight surf shirt as mentioned, and put a loose one top and of course board shorts :)
Hi, you're pretty handsome but I like how your voice turned to this really nice voice
Look at this baby!!!
I cant find an awesome binder to save my life!!! Your lucky dude!
Have you tried UnderWorks.. I really like their binders.. There is also a Dutch company called TransVormers which is more expensive but looks good...
Helped a lot thank you x
*replays the beginning 1 second*
;)
Surfer dude impression was great
Why am I just finding your videos now? I'm a gay guy but you are so handsome! Subbed! :)
oh wow hi lol
kevin when did you get here?
If you're a gay guy, why put a "but"? Not trying to be rude, it's just he IS a guy.
You can actually buy waterproof binders if you look hard enough
Where, why say you can find one and not link????
+Imjustapancake I wasn't being one? I'm honestly dying to find them.
I haven't swam since I was 10 and now being 17 I just went in my binder and a loose rash guard and yes it does stick and show stuff but rash guards dry easy so as long as you don't care what.people think or stay under water as much as possible than your good.
Swim with a t shirt on ! It is comfy and it kina works (watch out if the shirt is see trough or not and dark collors work)
Omg, look at bb ty 🥺
since im in swim at school i have the professional swim suit (it compresses well and you can wear other swim wear over it if you arent swiming competivly)
I think I just fell in love with your face
Thaat dexterrr postterrrrr
"so that's fun, pretty trill"
Is anyone else weirded out by the fact he was 17 in this?
my swimsuit is black swim Trunks, the most flattening bikini top I can find with a really loose shirt over the top...
For swimming u should wear a binder but then just a normal swim shirt and of course swim shorts. Ok I do it all the time and I pass
HOLY CRAP I DIDNT EVEN RECOGNIZE HIM. I had to check to make sure I clicked the right video ohmygod
Ah dexter
any wetsuit top thing is fine, you can even just get ones from eBay it will still be ok
Where'd you get that button up? Also love your channel (:
thanks im going on holiday with my friend and im goimg swimming for the first time since i came out
Get a binder one size up to your normal
i am from Louisiana and of course my Southern Belle ways.....i thought it was a crawfish. lol the only thing that indicates it's not one, and that it is indeed lobster, is the shape of the claws.
I just got a moister-wick athletic tee and put that over my binder. It's exactly what my bro does too. And then board shorts of course. Works perfectly and was $8 at Walmart.
For me, I have packing briefs (stitch up the front fly of a pair of boxer briefs and you're set) that I wear under my swim trunks and everything is in place and doesn't look offensive or weird.
I'm ftm and starting to try to pass more and wear a female one
piece and male trunks over it when going to the pool. Hope this helps
swim binder about 40 bucks but totally worth it if you can get one
Hi Ty. My name is Alee. Heres a little summary about myself. And I'm from a semi small town deep down in the Mexico-Texas border called Edinburg. I am 22 years old and all my life I wanted to be a boy. For numerous reasons but the most important one was to love a woman and for it to be ok with society. I recently, and although it might seem very strange , came across the ftms of RUclips. I thought that only men could transition to be a woman. Now that I know that it can be possible I want to transition myself. As far as Ivan remember I've felt like a boy. When I went to high school I came out as a lesbian because it was very known around and accepted among my friends and acquaintances. So far I've had an ok life. But recently I've come across thoughts of being a mother. Yeah, it's crazy huh? Idk I feel like I want to have someone of my own before I start my transition. I don't, WHATSOEVER, want to have sex with a man but I do want a baby. Do you have any thoughts or maybe words of wisdom for me? I am completely serious about this issue and idk why I have this urge to talk about it with someone. But I feel like none of my friends would understand. Do you think you can help me? I can tell yore a very open minded and smart man. And I would really appreciate someone who is transitioning to give me some feedback on these thoughts.
That's actually a super normal biological response to getting over puberty. A maternal instinct is triggered that causes the want for motherhood so it's really not weird at all! It doesn't make your being trans any less valid. I think that if you want to parent a biological child, you should do it! And then transition. If that's what you think would be the best for you or make you the happiest :)
I used think that so ur not alone. I thought I was stuck or that things like this was make believe like in movies. .
I love going commando, haha me too 😂
You have great clothes
Lobsters pouring salt on them selfs
For binding while swimming: Try checking out the brand Underworks because they (as far as I know) do have swim binders. DON'T HOLD ME TO THIS
I live in england and I have to deal with having PE twice a week, so what I do is I wear a sportsbra that's a size smaller than I need then I wear a t-shirt and I am fine. And I am kind of lucky cos I don't live anywhere near a beach or swimming pool so I haven't had to deal with that yet
You looked so good without beard😍
You still look good though
brooo where did you find that lobster shirt? it's amazing
Where do you live, and how old were you when you got T? Because I can't get the shit until I'm 18... And it disappoints me a lot and you're 17 and you got T when you were 16 or so...
Jai he was 17
“Dude I like want to swim and all, but like I have boobs” 😂 I feel this in the depths of my soul 😂😂😂😂
personally I would have gone to ardenes or sports check & got a sports tank top.... it's made out of the same material as a sports braw.... it's not I promise!
the one from ardenes covers my braw so it should cover ur binder.... or just wear t shirts although that feels weird in water so the sports tank top would be better & yes I have used mine as a bathing suit it works great😀
ps looken good dude
U r goals i need to work out yo build muscle
Thank you :)
Heheh. I'm glad that I don't swim. Like, ever. :) I used to live by a lake, but I never actually learned how to swim.
I can't swim either, absolutely hate swimming in general! I'm going on holiday with some family & there are a few pools & they are annoyed I don't want to swim in them ×)
My plan is that I just don't go swimming til I have top surgery. I didn't say it's a good plan tho
Swimming binder.
Nice video bro! And where did u got the boardshort from in 2:22.
Guys, I have a huge concern!
You shouldn't get your binders wet, it ruins your binders and it's really unhealthy for you.
thROW BACK
i know this is superrr random but.. you are so freakin cute! ♡
My mom knows that I'm ftm she won't let me get a binder and she contacted the camp and made sure I get put in a girls cabin like how awkward is that gonna be
I have to go swimming with my family on Thurs and not excited
I hate prints BUT prints really flatter your masculinity! ;)
Heck we have the same names.
Also, thank you for making this video, it helps alot as for I am trans and struggle.
I wear just a tshirt and swim trunks . because i live across from a beach :p
0:22 I’m used to the now Ty, so when I saw this I didn’t think he was the same person, and at that time stamp I though “Who do you think you are, Ty?! Pfsh”
I love your beanie! Where'd you get it?
i just wear a swimshirt and a sport bra (without the push-up thing inside)
pEte wenTz
the "rash guard" he's wearing is actually a wetsuit top.
James Sheridan Ohhhhh I was wondering what he meant by rash guard! never heard of it ×)
I can't have binders. but i am to look and sound like you
wooahh I just watched an old video and the voice difference is maaaaad
i've recently been in a supermarket in canada and there were lobsters in an aquarium which had a label attached to their wrist wich literally said "I love salt"... :DD poor little things
Where did you get that shirt? I've been looking for those kinds of shirts everywhere!
Ok, I have a serious question Ty, this is the first of your videos I've ever seen but you pass so well! How did you lower your voice to be so natural sounding? Like not a fat guy pooping voice, an actual male voice? It's beautiful~
Sorry this is a bit late but he's on T and has been for a while so that's the T that's deepened his voice :)
Ohhh, yeah that makes sense... I thought they were pre everything thanks
leah keith no problem :)
KT TAPE FOR SWIMMING
What pogo song is playing in the background ?
What song do you have playing in the background?
Yo, where do ya get your clothes? and whats the best design? I'm just coming out but i haven't told my mother yet but i grew up with two older brothers so wearing guy clothes comes natural to me. But design and style wise i'm not the best at.
Can you swim in a compression vest ? I'm pre op pre T
Lobsters poring salt on themselves?! :( That's pretty sick.
You're adorable!