@@winsome6705 That's not possible with many of them. They will target you and stalk you. If telling the authorities doesn't work then you have to resort to extreme violence to stop them--and they don't even mind too much, because of the possibility of you ending up in prison.
@devilsoffspring5519 I've been through it yes Ik the stages. In this instance I'm talking about my mother and she's as bad as my ex husband twisting my kids against me its disgusting. Hope ur ok
The further out of the narcissistic relationship one gets, the truth becomes more clear. During the relationship you were trapped in the narcissistic fog, where you are catering to the narcissist, and buying into their carefully framed narrative 100% and waiting on the narcissist hand and foot. But once the narcissistic fog lifts, you begin to see the truth, the entire truth. You go back and re-examine all the things they said and did, and realize all the lies and deception. Basically everything was a lie and you see that clearly after the narcissistic fog lifts. The person you fell for doesn’t even exist. So the narcissist has done all the work for us as far as downgrading our regard. Always remember who they really are, and forget about the person you fell for because that person doesn’t even exist. It was a fraud. Liars are to never be held in high regard. Whatever a narc says to me drips off like water from a duck’s back. A liar’s words will always be worthless to me. The further one gets from the narcissistic relationship, the easier it is to see all the lies and believe me almost everything was a lie.
Great to see you back, uploading new content on this channel! I am still learning how to wisely maneuver around narcs, it’s an ongoing process. Yet, I thought, I learned a lot, that I have everything figured, that I see through narcs, and I am “ bulletproof”, unbothered by their wicked ways, but that’s not true, it still bothers me. When I recently started new job, I was bullied by 100% of staff, except two cleaning ladies, this is no an exaggeration, I was treated with such hatred, that I got so sick, it took me 2 weeks to recover, and it wasn’t because it was a flu, I was feeling drained: physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, it is difficult to explain, also someone might think I am some sort of snowflake, no ! the reason why it was such bad experience, was because of an accumulation of negativity in one place, never in my life I worked in such hostile environment, and the reason why - it was because - manager was orchestrating everything, so the staff followed. When you are dealing with one bully - coworker, and boss is decent, that’s a different situation. Anyway, my point is that without self love, confidence and clear understanding that there is something profoundly evil going on in this modern society, it’s impossible to not to be derailed, impacted by it. I noticed that people’s hearts hardened so much, and minds are being highjacked by the evil spirits that it’s like dealing with a hive mind, just unbelievable, yet this is what is happening apparently across the world, from what I am reading, watching - people reporting very similar experience, regardless of where they come from. We can’t underestimate evil, these people - this hive mind collective mass - is out here to kill, steal and destroy, we must be mindful, wise…. frankly, I don’t have any advice, no contact? Often not possible….. no genuine, empathetic person can actually win when dealing with these demons, without some kind of strong mental, emotional, psychological support. It’s like Daniel in the lion’s den… so perhaps remembering that “ All things work for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose”
glad to see you back! your videos on healing from narcissistic abuse are very helpful. i have a couple narcissists in my life that i see very little who will sometimes throw passive aggressive digs or remarks out there and i really have very little if any respect for them after getting to know them so what they say may sting on the surface but deep down it does not bother me so much as i have already written them off as someone who doesn't mean anything to me.
Great advice -- except in marriage. What kind of marriage would it be to merely tolerate your mate? Actually, anyone you can only tolerate -- needs to not be in your life. But, this is a good coping tool!
I don't believe the negative words of a narcissist ,like I hate you, I never want to see you again to heart. When you've actually done nothing to them. It's like the insults of a toddler that's mad about not getting an ice cream cone. Only narcissists hold onto it forever. And bring it up forever to start drama. It's absolutely insane.
What are your strategies for dealing with the narcissists hurtful words?
Stay no contact
Kick 'em in the crotch? (because in all fairness, you aren't going to be able to reason with them)
@@winsome6705 That's not possible with many of them. They will target you and stalk you. If telling the authorities doesn't work then you have to resort to extreme violence to stop them--and they don't even mind too much, because of the possibility of you ending up in prison.
@devilsoffspring5519 I've been through it yes Ik the stages. In this instance I'm talking about my mother and she's as bad as my ex husband twisting my kids against me its disgusting. Hope ur ok
The further out of the narcissistic relationship one gets, the truth becomes more clear. During the relationship you were trapped in the narcissistic fog, where you are catering to the narcissist, and buying into their carefully framed narrative 100% and waiting on the narcissist hand and foot. But once the narcissistic fog lifts, you begin to see the truth, the entire truth. You go back and re-examine all the things they said and did, and realize all the lies and deception. Basically everything was a lie and you see that clearly after the narcissistic fog lifts.
The person you fell for doesn’t even exist. So the narcissist has done all the work for us as far as downgrading our regard. Always remember who they really are, and forget about the person you fell for because that person doesn’t even exist. It was a fraud. Liars are to never be held in high regard. Whatever a narc says to me drips off like water from a duck’s back. A liar’s words will always be worthless to me. The further one gets from the narcissistic relationship, the easier it is to see all the lies and believe me almost everything was a lie.
That is a great tip! It's true. They have the emotional intelligence of a young child. We shouldn't take what they say or do so seriously. ❤
Great to see you back, uploading new content on this channel!
I am still learning how to wisely maneuver around narcs, it’s an ongoing process. Yet, I thought, I learned a lot, that I have everything figured, that I see through narcs, and I am “ bulletproof”, unbothered by their wicked ways, but that’s not true, it still bothers me.
When I recently started new job, I was bullied by 100% of staff, except two cleaning ladies, this is no an exaggeration, I was treated with such hatred, that I got so sick, it took me 2 weeks to recover, and it wasn’t because it was a flu, I was feeling drained: physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, it is difficult to explain, also someone might think I am some sort of snowflake, no ! the reason why it was such bad experience, was because of an accumulation of negativity in one place, never in my life I worked in such hostile environment, and the reason why - it was because - manager was orchestrating everything, so the staff followed. When you are dealing with one bully - coworker, and boss is decent, that’s a different situation.
Anyway, my point is that without self love, confidence and clear understanding that there is something profoundly evil going on in this modern society, it’s impossible to not to be derailed, impacted by it. I noticed that people’s hearts hardened so much, and minds are being highjacked by the evil spirits that it’s like dealing with a hive mind, just unbelievable, yet this is what is happening apparently across the world, from what I am reading, watching - people reporting very similar experience, regardless of where they come from.
We can’t underestimate evil, these people - this hive mind collective mass - is out here to kill, steal and destroy, we must be mindful, wise…. frankly, I don’t have any advice, no contact? Often not possible….. no genuine, empathetic person can actually win when dealing with these demons, without some kind of strong mental, emotional, psychological support. It’s like Daniel in the lion’s den… so perhaps remembering that “ All things work for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose”
glad to see you back! your videos on healing from narcissistic abuse are very helpful. i have a couple narcissists in my life that i see very little who will sometimes throw passive aggressive digs or remarks out there and i really have very little if any respect for them after getting to know them so what they say may sting on the surface but deep down it does not bother me so much as i have already written them off as someone who doesn't mean anything to me.
Your advice is so accurate and valuable - you deserve 100000x more views and likes! ❤
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Great advice -- except in marriage. What kind of marriage would it be to merely tolerate your mate? Actually, anyone you can only tolerate -- needs to not be in your life. But, this is a good coping tool!
You can't cope with a narcissist in marriage. It will only get worse. You have to leave and go no contact if you want peace. There is no coping.
I don't believe the negative words of a narcissist ,like I hate you, I never want to see you again to heart. When you've actually done nothing to them. It's like the insults of a toddler that's mad about not getting an ice cream cone. Only narcissists hold onto it forever. And bring it up forever to start drama. It's absolutely insane.