Who cares if they're attracted to you again? Every case is different, but if they've taken the decision to walk away from you, there is a high chance that they had someone else lined up ( especially if a woman ) and so i can't see how trust can be built again. I wanted my ex back for several months after she ended things, but i realised that she had let me go because she basically thinks there is better out there for her. Why would i want to go back to somebody who thinks that about me. Have some self respect.
My experience is similar. As I see most woman decide the break up only when they know who will be next one,either you know about that there is or you don't know.
@@MultiRonnnI don't think I ever broke up with someone unless they were violent or an addict. Never because of another man I had lined up. You sound so cynical.
When you have kids it is very hard to make your ex wonder about what is going on. Kids act as messengers going back and forth between the 2 parents whether you want them to or not.
My ex called me after 3 months no contact....she suggested to meet me up on my place to "talk about us"....i realized that the message was clear and i accepted...our communication was very emotional and apologetic on my behalf....she wanted to announce me that she has moved on to a rebound relationship about a month....BUT....15 minutes after she left my place,she called me again to tell me that she wanted to spend the night with me!!!!!!!! Holy f@@k!!!!!!!!! It was an amazing night!!!! Dear Vincent,what my next steps should be????
The moment she comes back, know for sure that your respect is gone like that. Cause society will no longer value you as a Man of intergrety. And the lady as well. She gave her soul and body to someone else and yet wanting to come. Is highly dangerous.
sooo my ex got me locked up lol and put a restraining order on me and ever since i got out of jail cause i was already out on bond for another charge she still watching me on social media and still has me added which im confused i thought once a person says they hate you they do lol🤷🏽♂️
girl friend hurt much more, so i deleted she's number, after i moved on she's come back again 2 times after 5month, i not respond, after 8 months i contact him, now she's deleted my number, what will happen next, this is healthy love? She's come back again?
Great review Vincent resonates with my ex she friend zoned me which i didn't want went in to no contact she text me several times i replied but never txd them i don't chase i wish them well ive moved on no bitterness it's meant i say take care all.
My ex broke up with me a few months ago after me not staying friends as she wanted we stopped talking. But she’s text me Wednesday Thursday and Friday most recently to update me on some hospital texts and sending me her location?! She’s also used my gym membership today but that’s it nothing else since Friday. Any ideas on what’s going on?
Few things - 1 - how come she still has access to your gym membership? 2 - hospital texts? What was her situation ? 3 - if she is texting you shows interest, don't ignore her but keep cool with comns. If she has sent you a text with her location at hospital seems a bit odd maybe something has happened to them. Recommend you ask Vincent on this one
Sorry let me explain: 1) she’s had the membership since we were dating 2) sorry I meant hospital tests she said some were fine and there were some other ones which needed to be done - I told her hope it goes well. I’m a bit more cold in my texts because in the past being friendly has got me no where and I don’t want her to think we will just be friends. 3) the location was I assume she was visiting the city I was born in but not where I live. What I don’t get is if I’ve ever approached a conv of us getting back together she says there’s no future and she’s moving on, I go no contact and then she sends me those random texts but that’s it nothing else. I didn’t respond to the location as it was a bit meaningless
@No-hopes-given ah I see mate 1 - ok personally she shouldn't have access to this anymore. You guys are done. Cut that gym membership. 2 - good and I see what you mean. You don't want her to feel like your friends. Agreed no to friendship. 3- I feel like she is leaving you breadcrumbs. Good you didn't respond to her location. If you have tried to meet with her before and she's said no more than once then let her make the effort to arrange this. Keep focusing on you 🙂 Also best not to keep asking her to get back together. No amount of pleading will get her back. This has to be her decision. If she wants to meet up has to be effort on her side and you side. Best to not ask to get back together but if you meet up just focus on having a nice date. From my opinion stay strong and if she leaves breadcrumbs it is silly. @vincent bos what do u think?
Yeh agreed I don’t contact off my own back as I’ve said everything. I just don’t get the random texts from her why bother breadcrumbing unless she is confused
@No-hopes-given yeh definitely is confused. Most likely didn't expect you to fix up and not be begging her. If you walk away they come back if you chase they walk way.
I went no contact immediately and kept strong for 2 months and a week. I had a bad day and went on her LinkedIn. It's breaking no contact, how bad is this move?
Lol don’t worry mate I’ve had the same temptation most people don’t pay that much attention LinkedIn least you didn’t text her. Just avoid the temptation next time…I know easier said then done I’m there now it sucks a$$
@ronaldclaude1892 no I didn't message, but she definitely has pro. She just graduated and is job searching. Probably already got a job, but doubt she canceled pro, definitely someone who has the notifications on.
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Who cares if they're attracted to you again? Every case is different, but if they've taken the decision to walk away from you, there is a high chance that they had someone else lined up ( especially if a woman ) and so i can't see how trust can be built again. I wanted my ex back for several months after she ended things, but i realised that she had let me go because she basically thinks there is better out there for her. Why would i want to go back to somebody who thinks that about me. Have some self respect.
My experience is similar. As I see most woman decide the break up only when they know who will be next one,either you know about that there is or you don't know.
Indeed!
People care if they feel like they lost their true soul mate. End of. Pleb
@@MultiRonnnI don't think I ever broke up with someone unless they were violent or an addict. Never because of another man I had lined up. You sound so cynical.
Sorry to say this, that's a b**** mindset to have
When you have kids it is very hard to make your ex wonder about what is going on.
Kids act as messengers going back and forth between the 2 parents whether you want them to or not.
My ex wanted to come back after a year!! Why would I go back to a life if misery?! Thanks but, no thanks!!
My ex called me after 3 months no contact....she suggested to meet me up on my place to "talk about us"....i realized that the message was clear and i accepted...our communication was very emotional and apologetic on my behalf....she wanted to announce me that she has moved on to a rebound relationship about a month....BUT....15 minutes after she left my place,she called me again to tell me that she wanted to spend the night with me!!!!!!!! Holy f@@k!!!!!!!!! It was an amazing night!!!! Dear Vincent,what my next steps should be????
Get rid of her for good.... she's a cheater.
she belongs to the streets
Giver alot of pain by being indeferent not agressive note
@@lxb88b Not at all.....I just mentioned my mistakes....with empathy and consciousness....
How does one treat a rental car?
The moment she comes back, know for sure that your respect is gone like that. Cause society will no longer value you as a Man of intergrety. And the lady as well. She gave her soul and body to someone else and yet wanting to come. Is highly dangerous.
Are you serious? Who cares about society? People make mistakes. Soul ties, dismantled because Jesus always gives us another chance.
Does this work for people in their 40's plus? I really feel like this type of behavior is so immature.
Every word of this video = 💯
sooo my ex got me locked up lol and put a restraining order on me and ever since i got out of jail cause i was already out on bond for another charge she still watching me on social media and still has me added which im confused i thought once a person says they hate you they do lol🤷🏽♂️
Whats so funny?
girl friend hurt much more, so i deleted she's number, after i moved on she's come back again 2 times after 5month, i not respond, after 8 months i contact him, now she's deleted my number, what will happen next, this is healthy love? She's come back again?
Great review Vincent resonates with my ex she friend zoned me which i didn't want went in to no contact she text me several times i replied but never txd them i don't chase i wish them well ive moved on no bitterness it's meant i say take care all.
Great advice. Thanks.
Im so over done with my x woman
I’m so done with my X
If she comes over to the corner where you sit crying: she'll hug you and you will blow your nose on her sleeve....😃 Bye! Bye!!
My ex broke up with me a few months ago after me not staying friends as she wanted we stopped talking. But she’s text me Wednesday Thursday and Friday most recently to update me on some hospital texts and sending me her location?! She’s also used my gym membership today but that’s it nothing else since Friday. Any ideas on what’s going on?
Few things -
1 - how come she still has access to your gym membership?
2 - hospital texts? What was her situation ?
3 - if she is texting you shows interest, don't ignore her but keep cool with comns. If she has sent you a text with her location at hospital seems a bit odd maybe something has happened to them. Recommend you ask Vincent on this one
Sorry let me explain:
1) she’s had the membership since we were dating
2) sorry I meant hospital tests she said some were fine and there were some other ones which needed to be done - I told her hope it goes well. I’m a bit more cold in my texts because in the past being friendly has got me no where and I don’t want her to think we will just be friends.
3) the location was I assume she was visiting the city I was born in but not where I live.
What I don’t get is if I’ve ever approached a conv of us getting back together she says there’s no future and she’s moving on, I go no contact and then she sends me those random texts but that’s it nothing else. I didn’t respond to the location as it was a bit meaningless
@No-hopes-given ah I see mate
1 - ok personally she shouldn't have access to this anymore. You guys are done. Cut that gym membership.
2 - good and I see what you mean. You don't want her to feel like your friends. Agreed no to friendship.
3- I feel like she is leaving you breadcrumbs. Good you didn't respond to her location. If you have tried to meet with her before and she's said no more than once then let her make the effort to arrange this. Keep focusing on you 🙂
Also best not to keep asking her to get back together. No amount of pleading will get her back. This has to be her decision. If she wants to meet up has to be effort on her side and you side. Best to not ask to get back together but if you meet up just focus on having a nice date.
From my opinion stay strong and if she leaves breadcrumbs it is silly. @vincent bos what do u think?
Yeh agreed I don’t contact off my own back as I’ve said everything. I just don’t get the random texts from her why bother breadcrumbing unless she is confused
@No-hopes-given yeh definitely is confused. Most likely didn't expect you to fix up and not be begging her. If you walk away they come back if you chase they walk way.
I went no contact immediately and kept strong for 2 months and a week. I had a bad day and went on her LinkedIn. It's breaking no contact, how bad is this move?
Lol don’t worry mate I’ve had the same temptation most people don’t pay that much attention LinkedIn least you didn’t text her. Just avoid the temptation next time…I know easier said then done I’m there now it sucks a$$
When you say you went to her LinkedIn, did you send a message?
@ronaldclaude1892 no I didn't message, but she definitely has pro. She just graduated and is job searching. Probably already got a job, but doubt she canceled pro, definitely someone who has the notifications on.
You didn’t break no contact but you have to stop spying just for your metal health and as to not get the breakup anxiety
I do not believe in eny of the I think nothing can do that for me
Vincent bos, vincent bos ! 😄