When my dog was sick with cancer I felt the same way--tied to staying by her side as much as possible, trying to encourage her to eat, even stressing about acting/sounding as cheerful as possible around her while my heart was breaking! She has been gone a few months and, while I can't say I miss the stress, I am a little lost without that kind of motivation. I'd be more lost except that last spring my daughter found a stray dog that (against my better judgment at the time) I ended up keeping. She has truly been my saving grace!
This is dixie from texas, coco was so sweet, i am in a rutt losing my mom recently, i cry everyday. Struggling without my mom. You are a good momma to fur babies. He knew you were taking good care of him.
Michele, it honestly felt like you were literally sitting across from me and gabbing - like a true visit from a friend! I enjoyed my chips & dip whilst you had your apples & Biscoff! You are so honest about dealing with Coco and the reality of senior dogs....the pros and cons! You did a great job of explaining it all....thanks! If I could give you a big hug, I would🥰
When my two senior dogs passed away I thought exactly the same thing, oh now I don’t have to rush home all the time. A year later I got two Labrador puppies 🐶 and I’m rushing home again - I’m a sucker ha ha
I totally understand! About a year and a half ago, we lost our dog of 16 years. My entire life I've had dogs, but she lived the longest, of any. We live in the country so we used to always have 2 dogs. But when her older "brother" passed away at 15, a few years earlier, we decided one was enough. I would like to get another, but my husband feels like you do, so for the first time in my life, there are no dogs in it. We do have a cat, and she's a sweetheart. Loves to be in one of our laps if she can be. But she's about 11, and so far, she seems to be doing fine. But you never know. And I can't even imagine my life with no pets. So I do understand your sadness! So glad you still have Sandy! Remember, there's no wrong way to grieve. And it's perfectly ok.and normal if you still feel sad!!
In 2015 I lost my soul mate cat, Salem, to congestive heart failure. The night we buried him, between my maple tree and lilac bush, he sent me a very special sign. Salem and I loved the song, Sky Full of Stars by Coldplay. That night, he sent two shooting stars. I’d never seen a shooting star before that night and he sent two. I’m so sorry for your aching heart. Cocoa is very missed by many. Rest easy, Cocoa.❤️💔
Hay there Michele, nice seeing you today!!!! We know all too well about living our lives around our dog....not being able to be out all day or go away for the weekend and we wouldn't of had it any other way....after loosing our Shepherd a few years back, we would love a nother pup but for all the same reasons you have mentioned...HUGS my friend!!!!
Hello Michele, I had a situation similar to you. My little guy also needed me to be with him. I would go out and hurry home because he couldn’t be alone long either. He eventually had a seizure which was heartbreaking and so very scary. He never really recovered he lost his sight and well I had to let him go.💔 very similar to what you went thru. I think. For quite a few years no vacations etc, just being there with my best friend. I would have done it forever. So I said all this to let you know I understand. Not only have you got a broken heart but now so many possibilities open up - it’s scary. Give yourself time, take it slow. I know cocoa would say “mom you’re going to be alright. Thank you for taking such good care of me. When you’re ready -go out and live for you now. I will see you again.” It will get easier Michele but it is a wound that will never fully heal. But you will be ok. MayGod be with you during this sad time.🤎 thank you for your wonderful channel. Cocoa is in your heart forever.
You were so devoted to Coco. It's no wonder you miss him and find yourself struggling to get used to all the changes. I'm glad Sandy is doing okay. Hang in there, Michele. Prayers and hugs coming your way.
Welcome back 🙏 😊❤ Puzzles are fun. Winter is depressing, and dear sweet Coco. I swore I could here my beagles collar in the night. And I'd put my hand down to pet her ❤❤❤❤ I understand that ❤❤
Michele, it hard to lose animal. we lose so many are self- Coco was so sweet. it took us awhile we haven't got another one yet. lost Sugar this summer. You will give Sandy all the love. we all see it. you love your animal's. bird's, chicken, you have kind heart. Bless you all ❤🐕🕊🐾🦜🐾🐔🐾🐓 🐾
Omg. Yes it is definitely CoCo. My dogs and cats before they went to the other side left me with different kinds of signs. I know for a fact they let you know they are still there. They are letting you know that they loved you. As far as getting another pet. It’s to soon. You have to have your grief. It’s ok.❤🙏😇🐕
Aweee so sorry coco was a great pup loved him barking around you he will be missed l know the feeling 😢 takes time big hugs for you and family one day at a time ❤❤❤
Greetings to you Michelle, it was nice seeing you. I love your honesty I understand exactly what you’re saying. I have a senior dog in my life is all about him right now. I’m very fortunate that I have a husband that helps but everything is planned around him and I’ve been doing this for at least five years or more now when it comes to the vets, the dog groomers everything has to be planned out his outings. I understand Michelle I totally get it but it’s well worth it that we share our lives with them. I wish you all the best that life has to offer you.
Yes, I understand. My 9 year old poodle has diabetes and we give him two insulin shots a day. We do whatever it takes to make him happy. We also follow his schedule. He rules the roost! But we let him because he brings us that much joy. Let yourself mourn as long as it takes. He was a part of you and your family. I have a different situation. I have aggressive breast cancer and will start chemo the first week of February. I want to be around for our little boy, as I am a part of his routine . Mourn, but be there for Sandra and the rest of your family. God bless.
So good to see you friend ❤ I have never tried Biscoff, but it looks delicious. That apple was very juicy 🍎 Yummy! I know it must be hard for Sandy to be without, but in time, she will be good again. I sure miss the lives...I know you need to feel better about it, but please know you are in my prayers.
How old is Sandy? We are in our seventies and we have one dog and one cat. In twenty nineteen, we had three dogs and two cats. Two of our dogs were seniors and they passed during the pandemic. We lost one of our cats to cancer. Our mini dachshund is 12. I know how hard it is. My husband says no more pets, after the ones we have, which makes me sad. It is hard, but as you say, it is very expensive to have senior pets.
Time heals all wounds. It will get better. If I were you I wouldn’t get another dog. At a certain age it’s just too much. I’m at that age an my husband and I will not be getting any more pets . When we lose Bandit and Peachy, they will be our last. Yes dear lady it was a sign. Take care❤❤
Michele I totally understand your anguish and pain losing cocoa. I too was taking care of my senior golden retriever his name was chase . Anyway it was so so taxing on me . He had arthritis in his hips he couldn’t walk barely at all so I would have to hold up his hind legs to go up 3 flights of stairs, we lived in an apartment at the time , he also lost control of his bowels . It was just so heartbreaking and so hard on him and me. I’m not complaining because he was worth everything I had to do for him it was just really hard , and like u I’m in my sixties. When I put him down it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do but I knew he was ready and so was I . I couldn’t see him suffer anymore . Michele he was my sidekick though for 14 years he has been by my side . Through everything together the good the bad and the ugly . I had to learn to live my life without him was and still is hard and it’s been 3 years . I wish u the best in your new way of life without him but he will always remain in your thoughts and heart . Also it was a definite sign from him because after I put chase down that night before I announced it on Facebook to friends and family and all of a sudden I get a message a picture of a golden retriever and the caption said . Don’t worry about me I’m happy and just wanted to wish u a good day . I swear to u Michele no one knew of his passing but me at that time so I know it was from chase . Anyway just want to say I love u and cocoa loves u too ❤
Michelle you need time to grieve, Coco is such a huge loss to your life. It’s ok to be in a rut as you say but be good to yourself you certainly deserve it. Lots of love from Ireland 🇮🇪
Hmmm never heard of Biscoff spread but I have had Biscoff cookies and they're yummy! Does it taste like peanut butter? Have you had Nutella Michele? I'll have to try it😘 I'm sorry you're so heartbroken Michele, it will take some time but your heart will find ways to cope❤️ Cocoa will always be with you✨🐾 Hugs for sweet Sandy❤️
Aww sweet Michele may everyday get easier for you. It takes time I still miss my beautiful dog Autumn Sky and it's been 12yrs. Blessings to all of you.
You’re doing great. You’re working through the emotions of losing Cocoa and at the same time looking towards the good things that are still ahead for your family. Y’all are gonna be just fine. ❤Hugs❤
Get a middle age dog i think sandy would get a long with another dog i know she misses cocoa but she will be ok think about it my mom didn't want another dog until my boys got us a dog
When my dog was sick with cancer I felt the same way--tied to staying by her side as much as possible, trying to encourage her to eat, even stressing about acting/sounding as cheerful as possible around her while my heart was breaking! She has been gone a few months and, while I can't say I miss the stress, I am a little lost without that kind of motivation. I'd be more lost except that last spring my daughter found a stray dog that (against my better judgment at the time) I ended up keeping. She has truly been my saving grace!
Thank you ❤
This is dixie from texas, coco was so sweet, i am in a rutt losing my mom recently, i cry everyday. Struggling without my mom. You are a good momma to fur babies. He knew you were taking good care of him.
Michele, it honestly felt like you were literally sitting across from me and gabbing - like a true visit from a friend! I enjoyed my chips & dip whilst you had your apples & Biscoff! You are so honest about dealing with Coco and the reality of senior dogs....the pros and cons! You did a great job of explaining it all....thanks! If I could give you a big hug, I would🥰
When my two senior dogs passed away I thought exactly the same thing, oh now I don’t have to rush home all the time. A year later I got two Labrador puppies 🐶 and I’m rushing home again - I’m a sucker ha ha
I’m so sorry Michelle. I know your heart is broken. I send you hugs sweet lady.
They have the Biscoff at my Costco. Not the crunchy one though. It’s smooth.
Prayers sent your way Michele for you and your family. 💗
I totally understand! About a year and a half ago, we lost our dog of 16 years. My entire life I've had dogs, but she lived the longest, of any. We live in the country so we used to always have 2 dogs. But when her older "brother" passed away at 15, a few years earlier, we decided one was enough. I would like to get another, but my husband feels like you do, so for the first time in my life, there are no dogs in it. We do have a cat, and she's a sweetheart. Loves to be in one of our laps if she can be. But she's about 11, and so far, she seems to be doing fine. But you never know. And I can't even imagine my life with no pets. So I do understand your sadness! So glad you still have Sandy! Remember, there's no wrong way to grieve. And it's perfectly ok.and normal if you still feel sad!!
In 2015 I lost my soul mate cat, Salem, to congestive heart failure. The night we buried him, between my maple tree and lilac bush, he sent me a very special sign. Salem and I loved the song, Sky Full of Stars by Coldplay. That night, he sent two shooting stars. I’d never seen a shooting star before that night and he sent two.
I’m so sorry for your aching heart. Cocoa is very missed by many. Rest easy, Cocoa.❤️💔
I love Biscoff spread, they sell it at Walmart 😍💛
Thanks!
Michele, I took your advice and just ordered the biscoff crunchy butter. Looking forward to tasting it.
Hay there Michele, nice seeing you today!!!! We know all too well about living our lives around our dog....not being able to be out all day or go away for the weekend and we wouldn't of had it any other way....after loosing our Shepherd a few years back, we would love a nother pup but for all the same reasons you have mentioned...HUGS my friend!!!!
Hello Michele, I had a situation similar to you. My little guy also needed me to be with him. I would go out and hurry home because he couldn’t be alone long either. He eventually had a seizure which was heartbreaking and so very scary. He never really recovered he lost his sight and well I had to let him go.💔 very similar to what you went thru. I think. For quite a few years no vacations etc, just being there with my best friend. I would have done it forever. So I said all this to let you know I understand. Not only have you got a broken heart but now so many possibilities open up - it’s scary. Give yourself time, take it slow. I know cocoa would say “mom you’re going to be alright. Thank you for taking such good care of me. When you’re ready -go out and live for you now. I will see you again.” It will get easier Michele but it is a wound that will never fully heal. But you will be ok. MayGod be with you during this sad time.🤎 thank you for your wonderful channel. Cocoa is in your heart forever.
You were so devoted to Coco. It's no wonder you miss him and find yourself struggling to get used to all the changes. I'm glad Sandy is doing okay. Hang in there, Michele. Prayers and hugs coming your way.
Welcome back 🙏 😊❤ Puzzles are fun. Winter is depressing, and dear sweet Coco. I swore I could here my beagles collar in the night. And I'd put my hand down to pet her ❤❤❤❤ I understand that ❤❤
Michele, it hard to lose animal. we lose so many are self- Coco was so sweet. it took us awhile we haven't got another one yet. lost Sugar this summer. You will give Sandy all the love. we all see it. you love your animal's. bird's, chicken, you have kind heart. Bless you all ❤🐕🕊🐾🦜🐾🐔🐾🐓 🐾
Omg. Yes it is definitely CoCo. My dogs and cats before they went to the other side left me with different kinds of signs. I know for a fact they let you know they are still there. They are letting you know that they loved you. As far as getting another pet. It’s to soon. You have to have your grief. It’s ok.❤🙏😇🐕
Absolutely understand..Coco was a beautiful fur baby..glad Sandy is doing ok
Aweee so sorry coco was a great pup loved him barking around you he will be missed l know the feeling 😢 takes time big hugs for you and family one day at a time ❤❤❤
They sell it at Walmart
Awe Michelle it is not that your in a rut, your grieving the loss of your family member Coco was with you for 16 years, give yourself time
Absolutely well said exactly ❤
Thank you so much ❤
WOW!!! Definitely a sign from Cocoa, I truly believe that. ❤
Greetings to you Michelle, it was nice seeing you. I love your honesty I understand exactly what you’re saying. I have a senior dog in my life is all about him right now. I’m very fortunate that I have a husband that helps but everything is planned around him and I’ve been doing this for at least five years or more now when it comes to the vets, the dog groomers everything has to be planned out his outings. I understand Michelle I totally get it but it’s well worth it that we share our lives with them. I wish you all the best that life has to offer you.
Yes, I understand. My 9 year old poodle has diabetes and we give him two insulin shots a day. We do whatever it takes to make him happy. We also follow his schedule. He rules the roost! But we let him because he brings us that much joy. Let yourself mourn as long as it takes. He was a part of you and your family. I have a different situation. I have aggressive breast cancer and will start chemo the first week of February. I want to be around for our little boy, as I am a part of his routine . Mourn, but be there for Sandra and the rest of your family. God bless.
Hi Michelle and family. Hugs from Texas.
So good to see you friend ❤ I have never tried Biscoff, but it looks delicious. That apple was very juicy 🍎 Yummy!
I know it must be hard for Sandy to be without, but in time, she will be good again. I sure miss the lives...I know you need to feel better about it, but please know you are in my prayers.
🎉 so sorry for your dog
Prayers for you and your family
How old is Sandy?
We are in our seventies and we have one dog and one cat. In twenty nineteen, we had three dogs and two cats. Two of our dogs were seniors and they passed during the pandemic. We lost one of our cats to cancer. Our mini dachshund is 12. I know how hard it is. My husband says no more pets, after the ones we have, which makes me sad. It is hard, but
as you say, it is very expensive to have senior pets.
Sandy is 12
Sending prayers 😢thinking of Sandy😢 enjoy your memories. Story of Cocoa box gave me goose bumps
Time heals all wounds. It will get better. If I were you I wouldn’t get another dog. At a certain age it’s just too much. I’m at that age an my husband and I will not be getting any more pets . When we lose Bandit and Peachy, they will be our last. Yes dear lady it was a sign. Take care❤❤
Michele I totally understand your anguish and pain losing cocoa. I too was taking care of my senior golden retriever his name was chase . Anyway it was so so taxing on me . He had arthritis in his hips he couldn’t walk barely at all so I would have to hold up his hind legs to go up 3 flights of stairs, we lived in an apartment at the time , he also lost control of his bowels . It was just so heartbreaking and so hard on him and me. I’m not complaining because he was worth everything I had to do for him it was just really hard , and like u I’m in my sixties. When I put him down it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do but I knew he was ready and so was I . I couldn’t see him suffer anymore . Michele he was my sidekick though for 14 years he has been by my side . Through everything together the good the bad and the ugly . I had to learn to live my life without him was and still is hard and it’s been 3 years . I wish u the best in your new way of life without him but he will always remain in your thoughts and heart . Also it was a definite sign from him because after I put chase down that night before I announced it on Facebook to friends and family and all of a sudden I get a message a picture of a golden retriever and the caption said . Don’t worry about me I’m happy and just wanted to wish u a good day . I swear to u Michele no one knew of his passing but me at that time so I know it was from chase . Anyway just want to say I love u and cocoa loves u too ❤
the biscoff cookies are amazing as well
Michelle you need time to grieve, Coco is such a huge loss to your life. It’s ok to be in a rut as you say but be good to yourself you certainly deserve it. Lots of love from Ireland 🇮🇪
Hmmm never heard of Biscoff spread but I have had Biscoff cookies and they're yummy!
Does it taste like peanut butter?
Have you had Nutella Michele?
I'll have to try it😘
I'm sorry you're so heartbroken Michele, it will take some time but your heart will find ways to cope❤️
Cocoa will always be with you✨🐾
Hugs for sweet Sandy❤️
I think it tastes better then peanut butter 🥜
I feel your loss⚘
I am going to order that peanut butter great to see you❤
It is better then peanut butter 🥜 ❤
You answered my question, thank you this is dixie from texas, i get it.
Hi sandy I know how you feel i lost my son randy passed away after Christmas last year
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Our deceased pets never leave our hearts. We’ll see them again when we cross over. I know you are grieving. ❤️
You will be fine,Michele it takes time ❤
Aww sweet Michele may everyday get easier for you. It takes time I still miss my beautiful dog Autumn Sky and it's been 12yrs. Blessings to all of you.
Oh Michele yes, that was definitely a sign from your CoCo! Oh my goodness! Sending you so much love your way he was! 😇🙏🥰❤️
You’re doing great. You’re working through the emotions of losing Cocoa and at the same time looking towards the good things that are still ahead for your family. Y’all are gonna be just fine. ❤Hugs❤
Yes that's a good healthy snack! Blessings to you about Coco.
Michele, it's just going to take some time. We are here for you, to go shopping or just listen. We love you.
You're talking it through, thats' good Michelle
Blessings 💞💞
Sending you hugs and positive energy! Be well, my friend. 🙏🏻❤️🤗
Good video. It will take time 😊
Get a middle age dog i think sandy would get a long with another dog i know she misses cocoa but she will be ok think about it my mom didn't want another dog until my boys got us a dog
Do you think you will get another dog, this is dixie from texas.
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