This is why it’s so important to not need others for love and validation. Once you get to that point you don’t care if the guy comes or goes and you’re willing to walk away. You can see how words and actions aren’t aligning so much easier because your head is screwed on straight. Doesn’t mean you don’t make mistakes but you are quick to fix those and get your head straight again and walk away.
I enjoyed watching this video. This is true. When I don't reply to a message, it's because I am busy and If I get a double message or even a third one because they can't wait until I have the time to respond, it does make me feel like my "freedom and choices" are being restricted. It feels like my time is being demanded too much and that is very unattractive especially when I don't even know the person. When someone does this, the message that it sends to me is that they don't have better things to do and lack self-respect, expect too much of me to fill up some type of void they have and that is definitely something I am not interested in. Knowing this, I wouldn't put myself in a position where I demand someone's time and affection. It sounds embarrassing and I respect myself too much to have that type of behavior. I understand sometimes people's emotions are too high, but the key is to learn how to control them and enjoy your own company.
This is why it’s so important to not need others for love and validation. Once you get to that point you don’t care if the guy comes or goes and you’re willing to walk away. You can see how words and actions aren’t aligning so much easier because your head is screwed on straight. Doesn’t mean you don’t make mistakes but you are quick to fix those and get your head straight again and walk away.
It's broken mentality if we hunt people who doesn't want us. It's good if we give focus on people, who wants us.
Never ever beg someone for Love that’s bare minimum that they can offer!
We're not entitled to love. If someone gives it, good. If not, let it go.
This episode is a gem and it needs to be practiced all 2024 thank you can we be friends
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I enjoyed watching this video. This is true. When I don't reply to a message, it's because I am busy and If I get a double message or even a third one because they can't wait until I have the time to respond, it does make me feel like my "freedom and choices" are being restricted. It feels like my time is being demanded too much and that is very unattractive especially when I don't even know the person. When someone does this, the message that it sends to me is that they don't have better things to do and lack self-respect, expect too much of me to fill up some type of void they have and that is definitely something I am not interested in. Knowing this, I wouldn't put myself in a position where I demand someone's time and affection. It sounds embarrassing and I respect myself too much to have that type of behavior. I understand sometimes people's emotions are too high, but the key is to learn how to control them and enjoy your own company.
That means you are unkind ignoring people
Yes great explanation of self love and how to extinguish neediness. Meditation and affirmations at bedtime (theta brainwave state)
Wise moments with Father Alex. 🙌🏽 **classical piano music included.
Great video as usual!
always learning something new with alex its like being in a class i never got to elect
This came at the right time for me Alex. Thank you so much! ❤️
Yeah you were real passionate about how long it takes a dealer to come to you. I was like hey wait a minute lol.
thank u for educating us in developing our personality
Little HITLEY 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I definitely needed to hear this today! Thanks Alex❤
An awesome video❤ thank you master ALEX a huge respect for you !!🎉
Perfect video. Smart content, good examples, well explained ❤
Great podcast
Very true 😊
"...what they already think about you". Hmmm...
Lolol not Lucy
People are really dead in Spirit. Just look at the comment section... May God redeem y'all. Yes hallelujah!
you really play such a important role in my life and my transformation
I’ve watched you evolve over the years and I value and appreciate you for sharing these deep thoughts! 🫶❤
Thanks for your videos Alex you have helped thousands of women i am sure 🤍🩷