She is actually a very beautiful girl. I think she is struggling, with loss, with just being herself and feeling loved! That pushes a person over the edge!
@lilianasaba986 Everyone is entitled to their own opinions but given her a good self of sence is What we all should want to do not say something rude like that
That’s not true . I work for a university where they have programs for after school kids . These kids come to the programs and act the worst. My bother was on drugs thank god he’s off that, but we weren’t exposed to those things. We were exposed to vacations. Arts and full time church and studying . My parents didn’t even smoked or drink not even a cuss world . My bother picked up his habit from friends . Like I said you can’t always blame parents
@@longbranch11207 well that’s not the case for this young lady. Her mother talks down to her as well .. and she didn’t mention anything else she’s done to help her child like therapy or church or anything. So in this case whatever you’re saying isn’t relevant or valid.
I get what your saying because from birth you can’t let up on these kids. You have to continually pour into them so they have a solid foundation in their confidence and self respect. But high school often is a whole other ball park. At a certain age the responsibility is on the children much as the parents.
Yea SHE was definitely mad emotional. But I think the cameras and ALL the extra crowd being right in front of you while on the show can make anyone emotional THEN AGAIN I could be wrong 🤷🏾♂️
@@DangBolaBrookiegzzz what?😂 they definitely edited it like crazy they were telling my mom and sister to say things that wasn’t even true! And im not taking up for my mom im saying my mom does do her job as a parent and uplift her, i even try to!
first problematic teen scenario I've seen in a while where seeing the mother and hearing her speak doesn't fill me with dread. I can say in good faith that she's trying her honest to god best to uplift her daughter but is just frustrated. I don't think her mother knew the depths of the damage and abandonment her daughter felt, I don't think the girl knows either but im confident they'll come out the other side with a stronger relationship one day. compared to some of the other mums we've seen, she's got a good chance of bringing peace to her house one day.
My younger cousin started acting out when she moved to GA. She was being bullied because of the friends she made. She inherited her friend's bullies. She was fighting & grades dropped. From all A's to failing. She switched to online school and came to live with me in NC. She began thriving again. Her mother then enrolled her into our local high school. Made new friends and was attending school events. Sometimes, it is the environment and always feeling under attack. These lash out and don't know how to act because they dont know how to process their feelings. She is now 24 and doing so very well. She has 2 jobs and is working on opening her own business.
@@missromiea the people around teens greatly influence the behaviour. As a mother, there are kids I don't want to be friends with my kids. Some parents play with their parenting role. If you talk to your kids and you are alert you will know about the kids in class.
I see in the mum's face she is a lovely lady trying her best real best i love her to be my best friend My daughter and mum live in peace and love and really enjoy each other's company
I loved this. As someone who used to struggle HARD with rejection & abandonment issues this made me want to ball my eyes out, lmao. Shes luck she has a mom who cares enough to make her feel seen, loved & heard. Not all of gets that sadly
I just love how the mom is willing to be corrected and take advise she loves her daughter so much and has been fighting for her but sometimes you just need a little help and guidance from a professional on how to tackle some situations.
I really think we need to stop normalizing “You gotta get out when you turn 18” because most children aren’t mentally or emotionally ready to be on their own. Unless you’ve given them the tools to be on their own and they show you their capable stop pushing them out into the world that they’re just not ready for.
It's appalling how some Moms don't know the importance of a father. What do you mean, why is she so upset over someone she doesn't know? That's ridiculous. He's the other person that made her. I hope Mom continues to help build her. The daughter needs it.
No matter how much a parent can love their child, parenting will never be easy, and I applaud the mom for trying her best. We get to breaking points and saying stuff we don't mean, but what counts is that we recognize it, apologize, and change. when a child's grade drops drastically, something is wrong and the mum tries what she thinks would help, but it doesn't, but she is still trying and that girl and mum are gonna be ok
I’m confused. I graduated high school at 17 and started college a couple of weeks after my 18th birthday. Babygirl is 17 in the 9th grade saying she’s only been held back 1 year. Wtf am I missing? The mathematics ain’t math- ing. Yes, they definitely need assistance. She’s off track.
😂😂😂 child look these kids including mines think they grown mines is on her way out the door to job corps for 2yrs she is 16 Me&her dad tried our best with her ! & my nephew is 18 in the 9th grade which is kind of boggling
@@peacefreedom4930 exactly she need to just pull her out atp. Enroll in a GED program and get self a lil Job. Pack it up she can’t mature in that adolescent environment next yr she 18 a sophomore her next scuffle she going to JAIL 🥴😭
I think I get it. My dad left me and my 3 brothers. A day that stands out, my birthday. I waited from 10 a.m. until 3 p.m. until mom came on the front porch and said; "while you were sitting outside I baked you a cake!" My brothers all pitched in and bought me 2 dolls, and mom got me an easy bake oven. Although the happiest moment but still the saddest. Dad never showed. I'm 59 and to this day I still feel abandoned and unloved by him. Although, he popped up in and out of my life that one day set the tone. I still cry. So, I get how she feels. I hope she finds the peace she needs to get through those teenage years. You're stronger than you think.
Exactly my siblings hated my dad and they told me i look liked him all the time and it affected me! I had low self esteem and i got on drugs it was hard i thought they hated me because I reminded them of him! but i pushed through the pain and im 57 and im good and my siblings are close
She is spoiled . Let her go to a 3rd world country and see how good she have it here free educations but she wants to sneak out and drink and smoke weed
Words are powerful, in the midst of anger, never say something so bad as I wish you were kidnapped and never came back because if it were to happen, you're gonna wish you never spoke that spell. Believe me, I struggle with saying bad things such as that to people who have done me terrible. 🤷🏾🤦🏾
The daughter is cute 🥰 I pray that she heals from what’s hurting her. I feel like something major may have happened in her life that she doesn’t feel secure enough to share with her mother. I really do hope things turn around for her, she is such a smart girl ❤.
I feel the mother's pain. I have that same daughter, and she is thirty with 4 children by three different men. I'm still helping her even though she calls me out of my name. I feel like she is bipolar and needs to be on medication. Hard to convince a grown woman to get help.
It’s so hard being a young person. It also appears to be difficult being a parent who is at their wits end. I hope we can get an update on them. In few months.
This Mother understands nothing about her daughter even though she said she understands. The child has been rejected by her Dad's family and he Mother at times.
@@shirleyrussell7089 I think the same thing. My sister is the same way with her kid bc she feeds and houses them that it makes her a good mom and it doesn’t. That child needs someone to stand for her
The daughter is the problem. I’m sick of parents getting blamed for their kids disrespectful behaviors. She has a mother that loves her and a nice place to live. The daughter wants to sneak out drink and smoke weed while having boys over while the mother is at work. The mother is not perfect and no parents are . Clearly the mother loves her child and is just overwhelmed with her behavior. My parent raised 11 kids and nobody was drinking and smoking at 17. And they said some awful things to us back then. I’m not really close to my parents but I’m thankful that they were hard on us .may this young lady fine her way
@ I’m sure you’re a mother that don’t take any accountability too… it starts w/ the parents. Look at how this mother talks to her daughter & the things that she says to her.. children don’t come out the womb being disrespectful, she learned it from some where…
@@therychperspectiveI know a hardworking caring and loving mother whoms daughter disrespects her so bad, I know this lady is a great mom because I can see it with my own eyes but the funny thing is the child's father ain't 💩 but that girl treats him like he's the greatest, I just can't figure that one out!🤷🏾♀️
Come on. I see a parent that has tried. That girl just want to do what she wants to do. I know kids that has been abused and mistreated this aint one of them.
Thank you. Finally. Somebody. ❗ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. She has to wake up ( daughter ) and get with the program. SHE smoking and drinking and being grown well like judge Star Jones say on Divorce Court show " what's good for the goose, is what's good for the gander" 🎯🎯🎯🎯👌🏾💯
Exactly, this is a rebellious teen and a scared mother. The daughter needed more accountability. If she’s going through something, they should have focused on that. Any potential trauma, since her behavior and grades changed suddenly. If that’s not the cause, they should hold her accountable. She’s been without a dad since 5. She’s just being defiant and her mom is scared where that behavior is going to lead her. Mom is trying her best and didn’t really get any support. The daughter will likely go back to same behavior just this time around she’ll have more excuses to throw at her mother. She needed the same accountability they tried to put on the mom. That little soft voice and nervous body language fooled them. She wasn’t talking all light and looking nervous when she’s sneaking out at night, inviting boys over, skipping school or fighting. He missed the mark in this one. It’s great that had a heartwarming moment. But they also needed a real moment that could actually help them. This wasn’t it.
That child shouldn't be getting high and sneaking out the house period. This child look up to her peers and you can tell she is a manipulator. She fighting for her friends and her dead father that never wanted her. She should be fighting for her only parent that's raising her and to pull her grades up. Her mom was telling her the truth she ruining her future with those grades. You can tell her mom been fighting hard for her and getting tired. That child was about to lie about her grades until they was exposed. She lied about sneaking out at 2 like she didn't know better. Her mom have to work to take care of her and she not going to school. That alone can get her mom locked up. Tell these children the truth.
Their story is greatly felt and I can sense that the Mother did her best. Did she fall short in some areas, yes but as a single Black mother, we do all we know how and can. When there's an opportunity to hold ourselves accountable of our short comings, we stand tall and do so. I'm having issues with my 18 y/o son. I may need to give the show a call but good job Momma!
Dear sweet Jesus I’m going through this right now with my 14 year old daughter with the fighting and suspensions and this baby looks just like mine. Thank God she’s not smoking and having boys over but I’m trying my best! I also feel at my wits end! I’ve taken her devices. She wants to watch Baddies and loves tik tok so I took her devices. I step in to help her with her homework while still trying to give my younger daughter attention and time too but thankfully she’s a straight A student. My husband is a captain pilot away all week working so I’m basically a single mother when he’s away. Taking her privileges away is helping so far. My daughter just really wants to be so popular and accepted by everyone and make people think she’s hardcore. SMH I feel like it’s a generation thing. Taking devices away from my daughter humbles her and I hate that but that truly humbles her down some! She goes to church with me, we pray and everything but every time she gets around other kids, it brings out the worst In her and she morphs into someone else all over again. 😢SMH God help us all please! ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽
There is no excuse for you to say all of these things to your daughter, I’m sorry! She is a child, the childrens behavior is a result of their environment. Mom please take some accountability!
And there are no excuses for a 17 year to be sneaking out, drinking and smoking weed and having boys over . She is 17 she knows right from wrong the mother is overwhelmed
Love episodes like this because I can relate to this so much. This was me and my daughter as well. So many mothers can relate to this. As a mom I couldn't understand but just be patient with her. Talk to her calmly. I promise you she will come to you and talk to you how she feels!
Loving the mom… I resonate already, I have a 3yo and her dad is gone. I’m anxious about the day I have to deal with her grief and dig up my own. This episode put a little ease to that
@ i voted for my community! That matters and directly affects my life. U tried it tho miserable karen the presidential election isnt the only voting we do dummy
Karamo, this episode had me bawling in deep emotion. You know exactly which questions to ask. When you asked her to ask her mom if she wants her that triggered an emotional hurricane in me as this story is nearly identical to mine minus the fact that I am an adult. You are helping me navigate through my trauma. Thank you
Have she ever thought her daughter just need her MOM not a woman that tell what to do , not the woman who birth her but the woman she calls her mother, she needs a hug , she needs support from her. I don't care if she tried soft parenting or try old school stuff, she needs her mother ,she needs support and love . I know exactly how she feels because i went through that same boat.
So heartbreaking..beautiful girl she is feeling alone and lost and having to prove herself for respect and to be loved..prayers she gets it together ❤️
Kids have so many other distractions than we did growing up. What will say that had stayed the same and has been magnified in this day & time is the bullying in schools… It has to stop!!!
For her mom to say your shouldn’t be fighting or feeling the way she does about somebody she doesn’t know is CRAZY! That’s her dad regardless smh. That’s SO insensitive
I wish them the best to get a better mom & daughter relationship 💘. That daughter learn not to fight every time someone says something & get her grades back up to graduate 👏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
Mom....is not acting loving towards her tho...her annoyance with her is showing...thats a sweet baby who needs love and to feel safe...as parents we need to be open to learn and love too.
Talking about her dead father alone is enough to make her shut you out and invalidate anything you have to say, any parenting guidance discipline. Everything after that all that Mumbo jumbo about not making her feel this and that means nothing. Like she said her father that was just as much a part of her as the mother. She does not need the mother throwing that in her face. She deals with the grief and pain of that everyday. She’s probably fighting at school cause she wants to drag her mama ass but know she can’t.
This is edited so much. I wonder why they cut out the part where I mentioned we've done therapy and counseling for years? That I've been"soft parenting" for years and am NOW fed up? How the name calling is recent and it's me saying the devil reference and why. 🤔🤦🏾♀️
Don't sweat it mama. I got three. Some listen, some don't, but they all pay for the choices they make. I hope lil one comes to her senses. All of the best to you both.
Yes never put your children out to this cold wicked world. My daughter is 24 today and she wanted to leave home at 14 an ex friend of mine told me don’t push her into danger
Child please she wants to be grown she said my mom asked me to not smoke and she did still she snuck out a week prior and still continue the disrespectful behavior like as a parent & I have 3 I’m going through the same WE DO NOT HAVE TO ACCEPT SHIT FROM THEM ! I’m the adult go to school and be better than me ! Simple either do right by my rules or leave ! I’m not accommodating a child no you cannot leave at 17 at 2am ! No you cannot smoke in my home
Right, he be getting on my nerves sometimes. He never tries to correct the child's behavior, he always tries to make it seem they dealing with some type of mental problem. Then blame the parent like they not doing their job.
I feel like she’s facing peer pressure, trauma and the pressures of the things going on in her world. She’s young and she’s more focused on healing herself that she can’t focus in school.
I feel for her truthfully because at a certain point I was in her shoes and it was the worst because it leads to ptsd , anxiety & depression. I pray she’s able to find and create a balance between healing herself and bettering herself.
8:13 I think it’s unfair to say that. Yes, she shouldn’t be fighting. But if someone is antagonizing her, I would be able to understand WHY she would want to fight. YOU as her mother should teach her how to turn the other cheek, not tell her she should just do that. To ignore someone who antagonizes you is very hard to do.
13:13 😭😭😭 mom isn't easy but just do for her n take her girls shopping n do stuff with her inshallah she will grow up one day 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️ may allah make easy for your test n keep your daughter right path inshallah 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 pray about
If all of sudden your kid grades fall down down then smth is happening with them reminds me when I had my breaking point where I just did care abt grades and all and people noticed that I’ve gotten worst in grades hope that baby gets back up on her feet
Honestly Karamo is very intentional about which guest he brings out first. With the mom coming out, she consistently quieted her daughter when she was trying to speak her mind. Her mom might not be the root of her issues but she doesn’t seem to be helping too much either
Oh she's all sweet and innocent talking to Karamo but we didn't see the fighting video and the way the audience reacted tells me she's not as sweet and innocent as she's acting and Mom said she has been disrespecting her for a long time,Mom should be thankful she's almost 18 so she can get out and find out what life is really about...bad kids DON'T always have bad parents!
I totally understand that baby smh as parents we have to listen to our kids I been there and plus I was on the show and karamo was amazing me and my daughter have got our lives on track but you have to listen to your baby girl
Lets not act like some kids do what they want no matter how hard their parent tries!! That child doesn’t get mistreated, she does not listen and wants to act older than she is… thats it
Donna,17 is so lovelier gorgeous young lady I really hate to see her go through this but I hope she'll be all well and good in her future hopefully things will be better cause 2025 it's almost coming! 2:00
Her mom's lwk making 8:37 me mad here abt the fighting SHE LOOKS AT HER DAUGHTER'S REACTIONS to stuff the low grades the fighting nobody does ts for no reason!???
Its clear ...Mom is hardworking, so she's probably not around as much to spend that QUALITY TIME baby girl so desperately needs. I really pray that Mom is blessed in abundance to be able to spend that time with baby girl.
my mom doesn’t care for my dad who has been in jail my whole life (20 yrs.) i got into a lot of trouble and not once did my mom compare me to my dad, call me a devil child or anything. my dads side of the family says we have a curse. when i told her that she told me “ hell nah. you don’t have a curse and you don’t have bad blood, don’t listen to that shit.” my mom isn’t perfect and im actually scared of her but she never played with this part of my mental.
You can tell that girl is easily influenced. She’s not the top dog of her group. She’s probably fighting because of her friends. Change her environment and she’ll thrive
She is actually a very beautiful girl. I think she is struggling, with loss, with just being herself and feeling loved! That pushes a person over the edge!
@@pamalawilliams550 she is so pretty. Not sure of beauty
@lilianasaba986 Everyone is entitled to their own opinions but given her a good self of sence is What we all should want to do not say something rude like that
@@lilianasaba9846what? That’s weird for saying that. Everybody is beautiful
@@pamalawilliams550 : She's below average in looks. You people need to stop calling everyone beautiful.
@@lilianasaba9846 bitter and probably old no offence but it always older black woman hating on black teens
Just hug that baby. Mama don’t stop hugging her. Our daughters need us so much.
Our sons as well
❤❤❤
If your child grades suddenly drop like that something is wrong.
She wants to be grown and be an adult we need to stop blaming the parents for everything
That’s not true . I work for a university where they have programs for after school kids . These kids come to the programs and act the worst. My bother was on drugs thank god he’s off that, but we weren’t exposed to those things. We were exposed to vacations. Arts and full time church and studying . My parents didn’t even smoked or drink not even a cuss world . My bother picked up his habit from friends . Like I said you can’t always blame parents
@@longbranch11207 well that’s not the case for this young lady. Her mother talks down to her as well .. and she didn’t mention anything else she’s done to help her child like therapy or church or anything. So in this case whatever you’re saying isn’t relevant or valid.
@@leathelionI did but they cut that part out. We've done both counseling and therapy many times and my sister's husband is a pastor. We got Jesus.
I get what your saying because from birth you can’t let up on these kids. You have to continually pour into them so they have a solid foundation in their confidence and self respect. But high school often is a whole other ball park. At a certain age the responsibility is on the children much as the parents.
You don’t hear too many parents that actually want to hear their child out.
That's the Truth
Real. Mine could never.
When the daughter said “mom do you want me?” Instant tears came to my eyes 🙁 13:56
Word for real. Yea THAT was emotional. I know her mother really loves her deep down in her heart ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
LITERALLY!
Literally. Especially because I feel like I have family that doesn’t want me.
No tears but my eyes was watering LOL
The way her voice cracked 😢😢
Karamo be leaving us out of the juicyness fr😭😭😭
Word up. I wanted to see some of them fighting videos. His audience lucky 🤞🏾. Lol 🤣 😆🤣 😆🤣
Seriously
Trying to get us to see the live experience
Rightttt
@@sheilaondiba1727 they might have it on RUclips somewhere YT got EVERYTHING
that was her breaking point when he told her to ask “ mom do you want me.” you can tell she wasnt trying to cry in front of everyone.
Yea SHE was definitely mad emotional. But I think the cameras and ALL the extra crowd being right in front of you while on the show can make anyone emotional
THEN AGAIN I could be wrong 🤷🏾♂️
Poor baby girl hey,she's got low self esteem and anxiety. I pray they heal
@@hazzaplayz808 let’s not speak that into her life. Praying she doesn’t.
I love how Karamo always listens to the "child"... this show really heals my inner child...
Great point, I feel the same way
The mom’s energy towards her daughter speaks volumes & you wonder why she acts like that. Like uplift her, encourage her. Speak life into her
Speak🗣 life🌅 into her
@@therychperspective my mom definitely uplifts her my sister doesn’t like to hear it
@@arionnewinters63shut up tryna defend your mom while she's on tv like it's over.😊
They never get that part !
@@DangBolaBrookiegzzz what?😂 they definitely edited it like crazy they were telling my mom and sister to say things that wasn’t even true! And im not taking up for my mom im saying my mom does do her job as a parent and uplift her, i even try to!
first problematic teen scenario I've seen in a while where seeing the mother and hearing her speak doesn't fill me with dread. I can say in good faith that she's trying her honest to god best to uplift her daughter but is just frustrated. I don't think her mother knew the depths of the damage and abandonment her daughter felt, I don't think the girl knows either but im confident they'll come out the other side with a stronger relationship one day. compared to some of the other mums we've seen, she's got a good chance of bringing peace to her house one day.
Yes for real. Bless you ❤️🙏🏾 Amen
My younger cousin started acting out when she moved to GA. She was being bullied because of the friends she made. She inherited her friend's bullies. She was fighting & grades dropped. From all A's to failing. She switched to online school and came to live with me in NC. She began thriving again. Her mother then enrolled her into our local high school. Made new friends and was attending school events. Sometimes, it is the environment and always feeling under attack. These lash out and don't know how to act because they dont know how to process their feelings. She is now 24 and doing so very well. She has 2 jobs and is working on opening her own business.
@@missromiea the people around teens greatly influence the behaviour. As a mother, there are kids I don't want to be friends with my kids. Some parents play with their parenting role. If you talk to your kids and you are alert you will know about the kids in class.
Thanks for sharing that amazing story 👏🏾 I pray all is well with you and your family ❤️🙏🏾
This is the good kind of “gossip” that everyone needs. That one person who talks great things behind your back and is so proud of you ❤
Karamo is looking cool and casual with today’s fit😝😝
Right I said that too he got that s* on!!
All the time !
I don’t like it
Karamo gives me therapy from home , love you Karamo ❤
Word, he been to your house before?
I see in the mum's face she is a lovely lady trying her best real best i love her to be my best friend My daughter and mum live in peace and love and really enjoy each other's company
She is a beautiful young lady. I feel bad for this family🙏🏾❤️
Yea but JUST cause SHE beautiful, don't mean SHE ain't bad ❗❗❗💯
I loved this. As someone who used to struggle HARD with rejection & abandonment issues this made me want to ball my eyes out, lmao. Shes luck she has a mom who cares enough to make her feel seen, loved & heard. Not all of gets that sadly
Right 👍🏾✅👏🏾👌🏾
I just love how the mom is willing to be corrected and take advise she loves her daughter so much and has been fighting for her but sometimes you just need a little help and guidance from a professional on how to tackle some situations.
I really think we need to stop normalizing “You gotta get out when you turn 18” because most children aren’t mentally or emotionally ready to be on their own. Unless you’ve given them the tools to be on their own and they show you their capable stop pushing them out into the world that they’re just not ready for.
The daughter eyes are so sincere and sad
Karamo, thank you for healing people!
I'm healed 🙇🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙇🏾♂️
It's appalling how some Moms don't know the importance of a father. What do you mean, why is she so upset over someone she doesn't know? That's ridiculous. He's the other person that made her. I hope Mom continues to help build her. The daughter needs it.
No matter how much a parent can love their child, parenting will never be easy, and I applaud the mom for trying her best. We get to breaking points and saying stuff we don't mean, but what counts is that we recognize it, apologize, and change. when a child's grade drops drastically, something is wrong and the mum tries what she thinks would help, but it doesn't, but she is still trying and that girl and mum are gonna be ok
I’m confused. I graduated high school at 17 and started college a couple of weeks after my 18th birthday. Babygirl is 17 in the 9th grade saying she’s only been held back 1 year. Wtf am I missing? The mathematics ain’t math- ing. Yes, they definitely need assistance. She’s off track.
@@peacefreedom4930 my sister didn’t get held back 1 year, your math is right.
😂😂😂 child look these kids including mines think they grown mines is on her way out the door to job corps for 2yrs she is 16 Me&her dad tried our best with her ! & my nephew is 18 in the 9th grade which is kind of boggling
@@peacefreedom4930 probably started late too
Right thats 3 yrs behind 😮
@@peacefreedom4930 exactly she need to just pull her out atp. Enroll in a GED program and get self a lil Job. Pack it up she can’t mature in that adolescent environment next yr she 18 a sophomore her next scuffle she going to JAIL 🥴😭
I think I get it. My dad left me and my 3 brothers. A day that stands out, my birthday. I waited from 10 a.m. until 3 p.m. until mom came on the front porch and said; "while you were sitting outside I baked you a cake!" My brothers all pitched in and bought me 2 dolls, and mom got me an easy bake oven. Although the happiest moment but still the saddest. Dad never showed. I'm 59 and to this day I still feel abandoned and unloved by him. Although, he popped up in and out of my life that one day set the tone. I still cry. So, I get how she feels. I hope she finds the peace she needs to get through those teenage years. You're stronger than you think.
Exactly my siblings hated my dad and they told me i look liked him all the time and it affected me! I had low self esteem and i got on drugs it was hard i thought they hated me because I reminded them of him! but i pushed through the pain and im 57 and im good and my siblings are close
Peace and prosperity 🙏🏾
I feel sorry for her 😢. She is beautiful and she needs a help and love ❤. Not easy for them growing up in America.
She is spoiled . Let her go to a 3rd world country and see how good she have it here free educations but she wants to sneak out and drink and smoke weed
TRUE. But like her mother told her " SHE has to care ". NOBODY gonna be able to do it but herself ( the daughter )
Words are powerful, in the midst of anger, never say something so bad as I wish you were kidnapped and never came back because if it were to happen, you're gonna wish you never spoke that spell. Believe me, I struggle with saying bad things such as that to people who have done me terrible. 🤷🏾🤦🏾
Lift up your daughter I went through much abuse that young lady needs you you're all she has I pray the best for her blessing smally❤❤❤❤❤
The daughter is cute 🥰 I pray that she heals from what’s hurting her. I feel like something major may have happened in her life that she doesn’t feel secure enough to share with her mother. I really do hope things turn around for her, she is such a smart girl ❤.
I’m sorry the dramatic gasp at 4:04 was not needed 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pray the young get better. I feel the Mun. Sometimes we as parents get overwhelmed and sanity eludes us
I feel the mother's pain. I have that same daughter, and she is thirty with 4 children by three different men. I'm still helping her even though she calls me out of my name. I feel like she is bipolar and needs to be on medication. Hard to convince a grown woman to get help.
Hmm so sad
It’s so hard being a young person. It also appears to be difficult being a parent who is at their wits end. I hope we can get an update on them. In few months.
This Mother understands nothing about her daughter even though she said she understands. The child has been rejected by her Dad's family and he Mother at times.
I THINK the mother understands. I think she loves her daughter JUST different people show it in different ways 🤷🏾♂️
@@shirleyrussell7089 I think the same thing. My sister is the same way with her kid bc she feeds and houses them that it makes her a good mom and it doesn’t. That child needs someone to stand for her
Some of these parents be the problem
Thank you!!
The daughter is the problem. I’m sick of parents getting blamed for their kids disrespectful behaviors. She has a mother that loves her and a nice place to live. The daughter wants to sneak out drink and smoke weed while having boys over while the mother is at work. The mother is not perfect and no parents are . Clearly the mother loves her child and is just overwhelmed with her behavior. My parent raised 11 kids and nobody was drinking and smoking at 17. And they said some awful things to us back then. I’m not really close to my parents but I’m thankful that they were hard on us .may this young lady fine her way
@ I’m sure you’re a mother that don’t take any accountability too… it starts w/ the parents. Look at how this mother talks to her daughter & the things that she says to her.. children don’t come out the womb being disrespectful, she learned it from some where…
TRUE but not 🚫 in THIS case ❗❗❗❗💯
@@therychperspectiveI know a hardworking caring and loving mother whoms daughter disrespects her so bad, I know this lady is a great mom because I can see it with my own eyes but the funny thing is the child's father ain't 💩 but that girl treats him like he's the greatest, I just can't figure that one out!🤷🏾♀️
This show is the best!!! I really be in tears after Karamo bring out his guests emotions and provide helpful insight
There's some work that needs to be done but they can get through it if they both want it!!!!! Prayerfully this is the first step to healing ✨️
I AGREE with you roxi 👌🏾
I’ve been waiting patiently my Monday episode
Haha. FACTS 🎯💯👌🏾
She is hurting in some way, Mama! Help her, hear her, and love this baby girl.
Come on. I see a parent that has tried. That girl just want to do what she wants to do. I know kids that has been abused and mistreated this aint one of them.
Thank you. Finally. Somebody. ❗ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. She has to wake up ( daughter ) and get with the program. SHE smoking and drinking and being grown well like judge Star Jones say on Divorce Court show " what's good for the goose, is what's good for the gander" 🎯🎯🎯🎯👌🏾💯
Exactly, this is a rebellious teen and a scared mother. The daughter needed more accountability. If she’s going through something, they should have focused on that. Any potential trauma, since her behavior and grades changed suddenly. If that’s not the cause, they should hold her accountable. She’s been without a dad since 5. She’s just being defiant and her mom is scared where that behavior is going to lead her. Mom is trying her best and didn’t really get any support. The daughter will likely go back to same behavior just this time around she’ll have more excuses to throw at her mother. She needed the same accountability they tried to put on the mom. That little soft voice and nervous body language fooled them. She wasn’t talking all light and looking nervous when she’s sneaking out at night, inviting boys over, skipping school or fighting. He missed the mark in this one. It’s great that had a heartwarming moment. But they also needed a real moment that could actually help them. This wasn’t it.
Her body language is giving innocent...but definitely far from it
@@ashjohnson2406 loved EVERY single word of your comment 👌🏾👏🏾✅👍🏾
@@ms.sevenohfo straight FACTS
That child shouldn't be getting high and sneaking out the house period. This child look up to her peers and you can tell she is a manipulator. She fighting for her friends and her dead father that never wanted her. She should be fighting for her only parent that's raising her and to pull her grades up. Her mom was telling her the truth she ruining her future with those grades. You can tell her mom been fighting hard for her and getting tired. That child was about to lie about her grades until they was exposed. She lied about sneaking out at 2 like she didn't know better. Her mom have to work to take care of her and she not going to school. That alone can get her mom locked up. Tell these children the truth.
She is so beautiful
Their story is greatly felt and I can sense that the Mother did her best. Did she fall short in some areas, yes but as a single Black mother, we do all we know how and can. When there's an opportunity to hold ourselves accountable of our short comings, we stand tall and do so. I'm having issues with my 18 y/o son. I may need to give the show a call but good job Momma!
I still can’t get over Karamo and Mario Lopez’s short!!! 😂😂❤❤
That mom is amazing. ❤ I can feel her being genuine.
Love on your baby, mama! I feel like she is dealing with so much loss and it's heartbreaking. Keep lifting her up ❤❤❤
she has so much pain in her eyes... donna, i hope you realize how amazing you are.
Dear sweet Jesus I’m going through this right now with my 14 year old daughter with the fighting and suspensions and this baby looks just like mine. Thank God she’s not smoking and having boys over but I’m trying my best! I also feel at my wits end! I’ve taken her devices. She wants to watch Baddies and loves tik tok so I took her devices. I step in to help her with her homework while still trying to give my younger daughter attention and time too but thankfully she’s a straight A student. My husband is a captain pilot away all week working so I’m basically a single mother when he’s away. Taking her privileges away is helping so far. My daughter just really wants to be so popular and accepted by everyone and make people think she’s hardcore. SMH I feel like it’s a generation thing. Taking devices away from my daughter humbles her and I hate that but that truly humbles her down some! She goes to church with me, we pray and everything but every time she gets around other kids, it brings out the worst In her and she morphs into someone else all over again. 😢SMH God help us all please! ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽
Wishing YOU, your daughter and the rest of your family ALL the best ❤️🙏🏾❤️❤️🙏🏾
Sending prayers your way ❤🙏
@@hazzaplayz808 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️💪🏾💯
There is no excuse for you to say all of these things to your daughter, I’m sorry! She is a child, the childrens behavior is a result of their environment. Mom please take some accountability!
And there are no excuses for a 17 year to be sneaking out, drinking and smoking weed and having boys over . She is 17 she knows right from wrong the mother is overwhelmed
@@longbranch11207 still no excuse to tell your own daughter she was a mistake! & if you think that’s cool than that’s a problem!
2 sides to EVERY story tho .........
@@longbranch11207FACTS 👌🏾✅👏🏾👍🏾
@@sharifsalaam3385 we just heard both sides tho
I just have to say thank you karamo. The way you handle all these different topics giving me a blueprint on how to handle them in my life
Karamo you are just the best. Surprise me with a call. I watch your show and keep learning and learning always. All the way from Zambia
Love episodes like this because I can relate to this so much. This was me and my daughter as well. So many mothers can relate to this. As a mom I couldn't understand but just be patient with her. Talk to her calmly. I promise you she will come to you and talk to you how she feels!
This show heals my inner child
went to comment FIRST then 11 other comments popped up !! danggg okay , well we all here den
KARAMO GANG 🎤🎙️🎤❤️
You can't be hardheaded and sensitive. You have to pick one. These kids don't want adults to say anything to them anymore.
I’m so glad that I only heard great things about my dad and how he loved me. He died when I’m was six going on seven.
Loving the mom… I resonate already, I have a 3yo and her dad is gone. I’m anxious about the day I have to deal with her grief and dig up my own. This episode put a little ease to that
Friendly reminder to vote!!!!!!
Why
KAMALA 🗣️🗣️🗣️❗💯👍🏾
Trump ❤
Friendly reminder electoral votes matter , not yours! Focus on being independent with your community and stop depending on others!
@ i voted for my community! That matters and directly affects my life. U tried it tho miserable karen the presidential election isnt the only voting we do dummy
Karamo, this episode had me bawling in deep emotion. You know exactly which questions to ask. When you asked her to ask her mom if she wants her that triggered an emotional hurricane in me as this story is nearly identical to mine minus the fact that I am an adult. You are helping me navigate through my trauma. Thank you
Have she ever thought her daughter just need her MOM not a woman that tell what to do , not the woman who birth her but the woman she calls her mother, she needs a hug , she needs support from her. I don't care if she tried soft parenting or try old school stuff, she needs her mother ,she needs support and love . I know exactly how she feels because i went through that same boat.
So heartbreaking..beautiful girl she is feeling alone and lost and having to prove herself for respect and to be loved..prayers she gets it together ❤️
Kids have so many other distractions than we did growing up.
What will say that had stayed the same and has been magnified in this day & time is the bullying in schools…
It has to stop!!!
Omg she is so precious.. i feel so bad for her. She's got a lot going on but you can tell she's a very nsweet girl
This girl have a baby face an beautiful to forever young
For her mom to say your shouldn’t be fighting or feeling the way she does about somebody she doesn’t know is CRAZY! That’s her dad regardless smh. That’s SO insensitive
I wish them the best to get a better mom & daughter relationship 💘. That daughter learn not to fight every time someone says something & get her grades back up to graduate 👏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
Mom....is not acting loving towards her tho...her annoyance with her is showing...thats a sweet baby who needs love and to feel safe...as parents we need to be open to learn and love too.
If you fight everybody who disrespects you, you will always let ppl control you.
I like them. The girl is respectful no matter what
Talking about her dead father alone is enough to make her shut you out and invalidate anything you have to say, any parenting guidance discipline. Everything after that all that Mumbo jumbo about not making her feel this and that means nothing. Like she said her father that was just as much a part of her as the mother. She does not need the mother throwing that in her face. She deals with the grief and pain of that everyday. She’s probably fighting at school cause she wants to drag her mama ass but know she can’t.
Me rushing over here…
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This is edited so much. I wonder why they cut out the part where I mentioned we've done therapy and counseling for years? That I've been"soft parenting" for years and am NOW fed up? How the name calling is recent and it's me saying the devil reference and why. 🤔🤦🏾♀️
It might be in the full episode
Don't sweat it mama. I got three. Some listen, some don't, but they all pay for the choices they make. I hope lil one comes to her senses. All of the best to you both.
I don’t think the full episodes are ever uploaded
The soft parents part wasnt cut out? N obviously the therapy isn’t working so
@@wyssaddi obviously... That's why we went there.... For help cause what I was trying, want working....
Yes never put your children out to this cold wicked world. My daughter is 24 today and she wanted to leave home at 14 an ex friend of mine told me don’t push her into danger
Child please she wants to be grown she said my mom asked me to not smoke and she did still she snuck out a week prior and still continue the disrespectful behavior like as a parent & I have 3 I’m going through the same WE DO NOT HAVE TO ACCEPT SHIT FROM THEM ! I’m the adult go to school and be better than me ! Simple either do right by my rules or leave ! I’m not accommodating a child no you cannot leave at 17 at 2am ! No you cannot smoke in my home
Right, he be getting on my nerves sometimes. He never tries to correct the child's behavior, he always tries to make it seem they dealing with some type of mental problem. Then blame the parent like they not doing their job.
I feel like she’s facing peer pressure, trauma and the pressures of the things going on in her world. She’s young and she’s more focused on healing herself that she can’t focus in school.
I feel for her truthfully because at a certain point I was in her shoes and it was the worst because it leads to ptsd , anxiety & depression. I pray she’s able to find and create a balance between healing herself and bettering herself.
8:13 I think it’s unfair to say that. Yes, she shouldn’t be fighting. But if someone is antagonizing her, I would be able to understand WHY she would want to fight. YOU as her mother should teach her how to turn the other cheek, not tell her she should just do that. To ignore someone who antagonizes you is very hard to do.
13:13 😭😭😭 mom isn't easy but just do for her n take her girls shopping n do stuff with her inshallah she will grow up one day 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️ may allah make easy for your test n keep your daughter right path inshallah 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 pray about
If all of sudden your kid grades fall down down then smth is happening with them reminds me when I had my breaking point where I just did care abt grades and all and people noticed that I’ve gotten worst in grades hope that baby gets back up on her feet
She so beautiful I pray she can calm down and find peace I know how you can mess your life up at a young age and it’s never worth it
Real talk episodes ❤ it. We need this.
You can tell she's broken somewhere but you can also sense a very calm loving energy from her.
Honestly Karamo is very intentional about which guest he brings out first. With the mom coming out, she consistently quieted her daughter when she was trying to speak her mind. Her mom might not be the root of her issues but she doesn’t seem to be helping too much either
Oh she's all sweet and innocent talking to Karamo but we didn't see the fighting video and the way the audience reacted tells me she's not as sweet and innocent as she's acting and Mom said she has been disrespecting her for a long time,Mom should be thankful she's almost 18 so she can get out and find out what life is really about...bad kids DON'T always have bad parents!
I don't know why this episode reminded me of that south park episode when Cartman went onto Murray show acting like he was a bad child..😂
I totally understand that baby smh as parents we have to listen to our kids I been there and plus I was on the show and karamo was amazing me and my daughter have got our lives on track but you have to listen to your baby girl
She is such a beautiful girl! I hope she starts doing better and I totally get why she would fight someone over talking mess about her dead father.
Lets not act like some kids do what they want no matter how hard their parent tries!! That child doesn’t get mistreated, she does not listen and wants to act older than she is… thats it
Hoe is you dumb? She jsut said she has abandonment issues and identity issues. You need to rewatch that video
@@bre04-o5d that’s clearly not all you can see all in her face that she’s struggling internally
She may need a fresh start at a new school. Sometimes it’s the environment that we are in she may move and really like it!
Love you karamo ❤
Donna,17 is so lovelier gorgeous young lady I really hate to see her go through this but I hope she'll be all well and good in her future hopefully things will be better cause 2025 it's almost coming! 2:00
This was great ! I’m so happy they got help and mom did what she was supposed to do.
That did it for me,, 14:07 made me cry❤
Something happened to her that she’s not saying
Her mom's lwk making 8:37 me mad here abt the fighting SHE LOOKS AT HER DAUGHTER'S REACTIONS to stuff the low grades the fighting nobody does ts for no reason!???
Its clear ...Mom is hardworking, so she's probably not around as much to spend that QUALITY TIME baby girl so desperately needs. I really pray that Mom is blessed in abundance to be able to spend that time with baby girl.
Oh baby girl🤗🙏🏽💜 i hope u can feel the love around you
my mom doesn’t care for my dad who has been in jail my whole life (20 yrs.) i got into a lot of trouble and not once did my mom compare me to my dad, call me a devil child or anything. my dads side of the family says we have a curse. when i told her that she told me “ hell nah. you don’t have a curse and you don’t have bad blood, don’t listen to that shit.” my mom isn’t perfect and im actually scared of her but she never played with this part of my mental.
She has a good mom. She better cherish her.
I cried when she pulled her closer to her after the break 😢
You can tell that girl is easily influenced. She’s not the top dog of her group. She’s probably fighting because of her friends. Change her environment and she’ll thrive