FlyLady's 31 Babysteps - Day 7 (Clothes for Tomorrow)
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- We have been babystepping for a week! Today we're adding another babystep to our Evening Routine.
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I've been doing this for 7 days and I have to say that getting dressed to shoes changed my life! I have been dealing with depression since I'm 14, and I never been happier. Getting dressed to shoes and using jewelry and perfume in the house really ment not being in bed all day unmotivated, and really getting ready for myself, being happy for myself, and enjoying being alive. Thank you Diane for being part of this journey with me.
With love, from Pelotas, Rio Grande do Sul, Brasil, a very happy flybaby and veterinary student 🥰
Yay, glad it's working for you, Patricia!
I think she may appeal to a lot of depressed people, she's very kind and positive
This is so simple. I've been amazed at how that shiny sink changes my day.
Sketchers slip on sneaker shoes with no laces are great for house shoes! They are lightweight, but have a rubber sole. Today was my first day "dressing to shoes". It made a big difference!
Love Skechers!
I know this was 3 years ago, but i finally have a pair! They are the best thing! I wear them for short walks, got other indoor shoes 😊
Diane you're not touchy feely, just very kind and motivating and positive, wonderful traits u have
Morning Diane (from a cloudy Grimsby UK) . I am baby step 6 but like to watch a dayvirctwo ahead so I can be prepared - go me! I have been shining my sink etc and having my time to breathe (sat in the garden at 9:30 last night with a cup of tea and loved the simple pleasure it brought) and I love the getting your outfit out the day before - it seems such a simple thing to do but it means I get up, showered and dressed in no time - means I can read my book for half an hour before work.
Thanks Diane, I love this series xx
Yay, well done, Mandy! 🎉
I recently decided to change from pants to dresses, ankle length are what I find most comfortable and I love wearing dresses! I also wear an apron,..I love aprons! I do feel fantastic when I get up, put on my dress and apron and I am ready for the day!
THANK YOU Diane for these. Your original 31 Day Babysteps videos are the best, I’m still coming back to them after first watching 4 years ago. Of all the Flylady steps, this is the one I struggle with the most. Getting dressed in the morning for SAHM life has become really difficult.. I’m trying really hard to find things I can be excited about wearing as well as being practical.
Another Ah Ha moment. Although I've been using the Flylady program many years, you just explained what I've seen Flylady refer to as Parkinson's Law- "work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion." That's why we kick into high gear when company is about to arrive. But let's use the timer instead to set the "time available for its completion" and have less stress and more time to appreciate the little things, like the scarf, earrings example you give. More taking care of self, which helps you truly "bless" your home and family. Less stress (cortisol release) leads to better health and more "peace" and calm in your self, your home and your family. Flylady says You set the tone in your home. Thanks for the Ah Ha moment😊
An aha moment for me was when I read the Flylady advising us to run our home like a five star hotel. I try to leave public bathrooms etc like I find them out of respect for the poor cleaning lady, and realised I wasn't affording myself the same courtesy.
This hasn’t been as hard as I thought it would be. I have found it is actually easier for me to decide the night before than when my brain is half awake in the mornings. Thank you!
And no running around like a headless chicken at ten to six...
Diane: You're a gem (as, of course, are Spark and Tweek). I wore earrings yesterday for the first time in I don't know how many years. I've been looking so spiffy these past few days I can hardly believe it's me. In the house, I've been cleaning up piles of junk that have been dragging me down for at least months if not years. You're my new best friend! Can't thank you enough for making these videos. I've also been doing your Moving in May program, but confess to feeling totally blah today and have done very little in the way of movement despite wanting desperately to lose 20lbs. Thanks for all you do.
Thank you for these videos. This is my 3rd attempt at FLYing. 2011, 2014, now 2017. I discovered FlyLady's sister's book, Hidden Treasures, and after reading it, I was inspired to give this a third try. Only this time, I am taking my time. Baby Steps. I started reading "Sink Reflections" again and am on track with your videos. One thing I have done for years, even before I ever heard about FlyLady, lay out my clothes for the next day. When I was a teenager in high school, I ironed my outfit every night for school the next day. This continued through my working years, about 16 years. I got lazy about this after I quit working to be a SAHM. I found myself living in my PJs quite often. I still laid out my husband's clothes for work every night. If we had plans to go somewhere the next day, I laid out clothes for myself, husband and kids...but on days when we had no plans to leave the house, there were no clothes planned out. I can honestly say, this has made a huge difference for me. Now, granted, I don't dress up with beautiful clothes like Lady Dianne. It's simple, sometimes a decent sweatsuit or jeans and a tshirt, but putting on those tennis shoes gives me energy. A bounce in my step instead of sliding my slippers along the hardwood floor making that sound that just reminds me of being lazy and slow moving like a sloth.
Oh, I hear you on the laying out of clothes, Melissa! I find I get so much more done these days (I work from home) and I have to treat my life like a job! LOL On the other hand, when I finished 'working', and change into my slippers, I know that I really can relax, with no guilt. That is a great feeling.
Diane, I have finagled this for one of my young students (age 9). I was giving him lessons at his house. I was turning up and he wasn't washed, or dressed, and I couldn't get him to wear his slippers (so cold feet). He wasn't working and his behaviour was deteriorating. He's now having his lessons in my classroom at my home and it's night and day. He had on a new pair of lace up sneakers and was feeling very smart. We also take a break in my garden (time to breathe) and we're doing movement prepositions so were racing "from" here "to" the "mini house", "around" the trees etc. When I take him home we find his Grandma who runs his home with a beautifully set table and her feet up on the couch with a magazine. Win win.
Gosh, that's wonderful to hear - go you!
"...a picture of Robert Downey jr" so funny, yep you're my new favorite RUclipsr!! Lol
I'm glad you agree about RDJr! LOL
Flylady Diane Denmark I knew I'd love your personality when I saw your 'Scotty' photo with the about his red shirt inside your control journal 😉
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LOVE THESE! As far as your video technique - it is just fine! This is REAL. Real person, real stuff. I am more interested in message from someone that truly wants to make a difference in people's lives.
Well said!
Also dressing can sometimes be changeling. Especially on a work day. One outfit for part of the day, then change to my work clothes, then after work change again.
This is second week in a row where I have planned out my daily clothes and jewelry for 7 days in a row. The first time I did this step I did 4 days worth. Liked that so much that I upped it to a full week. It's so nice waking up and not having to worry about what to wear. And I decided to reward myself, next week or two I'm going to go buy myself some new tops to wear!
Go you, Maggie! And a great reward - let's hope spring arrives soon!
Thank you for your videos Flylady Diane. Your lovely warm voice and manner are so encouraging.
It’s Saturday today.. this morning I woke up and decided I deserved to keep on my dressing gown abit longer instead of dressing to shoes right away.. big mistake 😂 The morning was chaotic as a result. It will be very useful to be prepared for Sunday morning without any excuses.
It really works. Nothing gets done while I'm in my nightie, or if it does, it happens glacially slowly. I also feel more prepared should someone call or need me when I'm washed and dressed with hair done!
I am so happy to have found you! I’m trying to not binge all of your videos. I’m shining my sink, love dressing everyday, excited to lay my clothes tomorrow. Thank you for making this easy to follow!
I am putting out my clothes for tomorrow for nearly 30 days - DH and my boss,
she has probably also remarked the change as now
she starts also to dress up nicer.
One point which I don't like is that I even
I get attention of flirt-type-of-men.
Well, I have to handle this.
But at work I have a better relationship with two women.
The prop. realized that I now love myself
and they like me now.
I realized this today.
My inward feelings do not yet match
with my outward appearance
but this will follow
I hope
Thanks, Diane.
idi
Now I understood: I have to do every day all the babysteps from day 1 on.
So today I did all babysteps from day 1 and this is a very good feeling and I like the results,
so that I started today with laying out my clothes for tomorrow
I hang out my clothes for tomorrow according to the weather prognosis
OMG! I made it to day 7! I'm so glad! Thanks Diane for your wonderful cheerleading. I'm an introvert just like you and I understand that you are more comfortable doing the videos. I don't think I am the only follower who can feel the "care" you put into your messages. Je vais maintenant choisir mes vêtements pour demain. Bye!
I must say that you have a very good eye for what you look good in. I love the colors you wear and the fit of them as well. very nice !
I personally don’t wear shoes in my house. So for me I interpret this as getting fully dressed to leave my house, whatever that looks like to me. Many days I’ve dressed in things that I wouldn’t leave the house in or stay without any makeup. For me this baby step means being intentional in dress, getting up and putting on something I would want others to see me in, put on makeup that is at least casual. Be ready for company or an impromptu trip out of this house. Be intentional. I know in my mind what shoes I’ll grab at the door but I’m ok keeping up with our culture that shoes aren’t worn inside the house.
Thank you for this comment. Shoes are just not acceptable in thre house in so many places!
Same. But I wear slippers.
You have no idea how much you are helping to save my sanity and my home....Thank you!
Thank you for babystepping with me! I'm so excited when others begin to see the changes!
I just have to say the getting dressed part is so true. I've been really lazy about it. After watching some of Stephanie's videos last week, I've been giving it a try. But this morning, I didn't have anything on the schedule. It was cold and rainy and I thought - I'll just where my comfy pajama bottoms and make sure I have a bra on today. Then I locked myself out of the house when I went to pick my kid up from school. Just proved it to myself today! GET DRESSED. Hahah.
Ha ha! Sorry you had to learn the hard way, WhirledP!
hi Giane i am new to this program and been watching now for a week. most of the time my sink is clean now and it feels good also my bed is made i am a hoarder so i have a long way to go. thank you for being a help
Well done, Jolande - you are doing great!
@@DianeinDenmark thanks to you . i have a long way to go but by wathing your video's im making steps and i even enjoy what i do now, i set the timer for 15 minutes and go into one of the awful rooms. those rooms are all full of stuf up to the cealing.
before i know the 15 minutes are gone and i dot want to stop,
but i am making progres and i am so happy with that.thank you so much
This is helpful. I have a basket for my 5 year old. I put her school uniform including shoes and socks and hair brush and accessories. She can then easily get dressed herself.
Hi Diane, I pressed play on this playlist for my evening routine today and I got as far as this video! These are great reminders of the Flylady system. I even added an extra job to my routine and cleaned out the cutlery drawer! As always, huge appreciation for all your videos.
Thank you so much, Edel!
Nicely put, Diane. These are ideas that keep us motivated because we know they will only last a short while...not all day. Thanks!
For some reason, this is the one I'm finding the hardest so far. I am an at home mom, and I've been decluttering my clothes this year, so I don't feel like I have nice outfits that I want to put together ahead of time 😑
So I will have to do like you say, push myself to do it for 3 or 4 days and see how it feels
I didn't think I would say this, but setting out my clothes for the next day helps me to like my clothes more. It's a little more than just throwing something on in the morning. I have been surprised by this baby step.
Hi FlyLady Diane,
We had so much fun with this step! Plus, a bit of decluttering.
We listened to it while having an afternoon snack.
I have a hard time believing my hubby wears all his clothes. He has a packed closet plus 2 clothes racks.
So I said, why don’t we pick out each other’s clothes for tomorrow! We went through his summer shirts. He has a system for wearing all of them. We found a T-shirt and 2 pairs of pants that went to trash. I pointed out that now he has more room in the closet.
When looking at my clothes, he discovered I have “less options” than he does. I told him that I’ve been decluttering over the years.
He picked out a wrap skirt my mom made years ago. That should be fun when I do my physical therapy exercises, lol.
You are just so bright and cheery and wonderful I love your videos they are changing everything for me I’ve been keeping them on on my ear bud while I clean and you are so so motivating and encouraging and at the same time calming like how? Amazing I adore you Diane thank you for putting out so much content you are an earthen angel.
Thank you so much, Heather! 😊
Watch this for review. It is starting to kick in. I like that it becomes second nature after awhile...so I know what to do without thinking.
I absolutely love your videos. You have helped inspire and motivate me when no one and nothing else seemed to. Now a year later to the very day of this video, I have decided to change my life and daily routine. 4 degrees above 0 here in Massachusetts. I work at home and haven't been fully dressed to my shoes in the morning (unless I had to) for years, but today, I actually have shoes on. *grin*
Yay, look at you with your shoes on, Terry!
I love your outfits!
Hello flylady Diane! Honestly, having been a flylady since December 12th 2012, l really didn't think l needed this but your videos are so motivational that l just had to suscribe x even though l do these steps,( THEY WORK! for any unbelievers out there,) your lovely delivery is so uplifting you have totally made my day. Thankyou Jeanie Morgan-Kavanaugh in Plymouth UK
Thank you Diane! I've been doing this for 7 days now and I'm enjoying process! Dressing to shoes has reinvigorated my sense of fashion and I'm choosing to make more of an effort with jewellery and accessories. Greetings from New Zealand! 🙂
When I was working I did lay out my clothes and prepare the night before for the next day, since I’ve been retired I haven’t thought about doing that unless I have an appointment the next day. I need to change my mindset about prepping clothing, etc for the next day. Great reminder! This step is going to really make me think, I may need to write out a sticky note reminder for this one! ❤️
Let us know how you get on, Rosemary! 🖐😃
thanks, I put you on my gratitude list 2 days ago. I have been reading other habit books along with the flylady book and I can say that flylady routines builds all the important habits discussed in other books. Her program has keystone habits such as exercising, making the bed, and planning for the next day. These habits are said to be life changing.
I really need to read that again. It's on my kindle, I'll have to dig it out and recharge it! Thanks for the reminder!
It beats getting dressed in the dark! I had to do this just recently when my mother was in hospital and I was called to her bedside. it was hours before I noticed I had an item inside out. I've also gone out with identical shoes 1 from the black pair and 1 from the navy pair. If I'd been laying out my clothes the night before I KNOW neither of these would have happened. My mother laid out her clothes every night all her life and people always commented on how put-together she always looked 😉
I know I should have learned already, but I'm doing it now !!!
We should listen to our Mothers! ;-)
Haha, I have done the same thing with shoes! And inside out clothes, more than once!
Wonderful idea to decorate your hotspot. You are so smart.
I already started doing this along with Step 2 "dress to shoes".
Ty Diane. Great video😄😄😄
I can't upload a pic. I am dressing, cleaning my sink every day. Trying to keep it up every day.
thank you for these videos. listening to this today with a cup of Elderberry tea was my 5 minutes for me 😊🍵
+livininashoe Oh, how nice, Livininashoe! Cheers! ☕️
So I will start laying out my clothes but I don't get dressed up. I go to the gym twice a day so I dress in gym clothes but I still think getting dressed to shoes changes my day!
I'm going to need more clothes. I have a lot of half outfits.
I have been doing this all week!!! I do understand the FlyLady concept dressing to shoes...it is not my first go at this. But I trailed off years ago when I heard about shoes in the house. My family has Eastern European roots, (Ukraine, Belarus) and we too take off shoes entering the house and leave our shoes at the door. I even posted to Marlas video how that was such an struggle for me.
Hi! We don't wear outdoor shoes inside the house in Scandinavia. I wear a pair of light running shoes (clean) which never go outside.
@@DianeinDenmark Thank you so much for replying back Diane!!! I have bought a pair of those as well, since posting this.They are specifically dedicated to the house only!!! I had been doing FlyLady daily, but then after the loss of a family member, we had a house full of people! Everything fell apart (well not everything, still shone my sink, dressed to (new) shoes, swished and swiped) and fell off the 31 baby steps. I am ready to get back on track! 🤗💞
Diane, Thanks for these 31 Babystep videos. I find seeing and hearing you going over the steps helps reinforce what I'm learning at flylady.net and in 'Sink Reflections'. Thanks for the encouragement.
Diane, I love watching your videos. One of the things I do love is that you look so well put together everyday! My problem is I work in an environment where we wear a medical uniform so it is the same thing day in and day out. I do keep my uniforms in a specific spot in the closet so I can just grab and go When it comes to Saturday I like to wear something comfy which I would have to say quite often doesn't include shoes. Saturday night would be the only evening I would put clothes out ready for church because I do realize it takes me forever to pick out an outfit.
This should be taught to every child to help them get ready for school. Very good idea.
i have not been doig this since i stay at home. need to do this.
My mum tough me about this my whole life! I never did it every day.. but when it was going to be a big/busy day I will always do that. I did BabyStep 1 today, I can wait to get to this day!
(The playlist it’s going in my phone while I do my chores of the day) 🤗
Fairly new subbie over here in America. I finally had to comment.I just LOVE your channel and have been doing your daily babysteps for this past week ! LOVE your style and look forward to seeing your outfit each day :) BUT that house is stunning ! I love that clean, white, fresh style and would love to see a tour. However, your suggestion for your hot spot clutter is the best. I think I shall run and find myself a photo of Robert Downey Jr and put it where I can enjoy him daily :) Best. Suggestion. Ever !
Hooray! And we can agree to share RD Jr., right? 😃
Hooray! And we can agree to share Robert D Jr, right? 😃
Hi Diane! round two in going through the babysteps, the first time I was flywashing, this time I am implementing them! :-) first week done! :-) take care
At the moment my timer is my baby whenever I get a chance I do it 😂
I've been doing this step for a while now, especially if I have a big day (tomorrow) or have to wake-up super early (not a morning person). I even go as far as putting a daily (it's like a sanitary napkin but much smaller) on my panties - I do that too when we travel. For the moment, I switched from my Walking on a Cloud sandals to my Crocs because I have plantar fasciitis and don't have a 3rd choice yet. BUT I decided to put socks to up them up (feels more dressed). The "shine your sink" is where my DH noticed the most. Thank you again! Nicole
+Flylady Diane Denmark Thank you so much for your videos. I so need them and don't want to spend the money for the program. The videos work best for me. Evie from Rialto, California.
+Evie Huerta Welcome to the Flylady gang, Evie! 🎉
Flylady Diane Denmark
I actually like the free Flylady Plus app better than the Flylady Messenger one.
Evie Huerta i can't find a "free" flylady app ... the app is free but it keeps asking me to pay a subscription to get the information 😢
I get the same message; but these videos are really keeping me on track. Thank you Flylady Diane!!
The Flylady Plus app is free! itunes.apple.com/us/app/flyladyplus/id1115477521?mt=8
This lipstick is perfect on you! It's looks like it was custom made just for you!
I have fallen off following my flylady steps for weeks now. I didn't reach day 7. what do I do. should I start again on day 1. I go out of town for a weekend every three weeks to take care of my parents. what do I do with these days. I tend to drop off these tasks when I am away from home. do you have any advise to keep on track? I want to get to day 31. I love your accent. thanks for your videos.
Hi Smee, no need to go back to day 1 but it might be a good idea to put your written routines (dress to shoes, dry out the sink etc) in a tiny notebook so you can also tick them off when you are away from home. We can take our routines anywhere with us! LOL I do my routines when I am on vacation, visiting family, etc.
I put on some makeup today. I like the Itsjudystime eye shadow palette. I may have over done the blush?
I’ve already liked you because of your greeting at the end. Because you’re an expat like me. Because you’re doing GTD as well (found that one a year before FL) ... but Robert Downey Jr. as well?? 😂😂😂 you must be my long lost sister 😆 live long & prosper Diane!
Dressing fully is the hardest for me because I get overheated with any task.
Hi Diane in Denmark! This is babystepper Dianne in the USA! Thank you so much! After team driving a big truck with my husband I find myself now retired and home and thinking “where do I start first?” So you are helping me! Tell me where can we get one of the fly dolls you have? I’d like one at my window too if they’re still available! Thanks again!
Hi Dianne! I'm afraid it's impossible to get one of these dolls as they only had a limited amount...mine was a gift from Marla ("the Flylady") 🤗
Diane in Denmark oh well that’s life... lol! Thanks for the reply and all your encouragement!❤️
@@1956grits You are welcome, Dianne - have a wonderful day! 🖖😃
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Have my jacket set out from yesterday. All set to get dressed to shoes. Heading out to son.
I finding it hard to dress to shoes. I work shift work and I don't like having changing shoes all the time. Any ideas on what I can do different. Can't wear my work shoes around the house
It took me a little longer than I would have liked but I have my clothes and my DS’s uniform set out. I’m getting a head start for Friday and have everything in the wash pile for tomorrow morning.
Hi Diane, thanks for the inspiring video's you make. I am following Flylady for about 2 years now, never got really into it though. Now with your vid's my sink is shiny and I'm at least wearing trainers in the house instead of slippers. I'm still having trouble to the "getting fully dressed" topic when doing cleaning chores: I'm afraid to ruin my good clothes. Also laying out clothes for the next day is a challenge, as I am very bad at getting things out that actually fit together. I usually have to try 2 or 3 tops before I'm confident enough to go out. Any tips?
Hi Tiryana! Yes, lots of ideas but here are two to get you going. First, wear cleaning clothes or an apron if you are worried about making a mess...but make sure to change into your "normal" clothes when done. We are only cleaning for short times but consistently. No more marathon cleaning sessions which tire us out! And put together three or four outfits in advance, then you have a few to choose between in the morning. Hope that helps! 🖐
@@DianeinDenmark Thank you so much for your quick response and support, I'll surely work on that. I'm not sure about wearing an apron. I know my grandma always wore one in the house. Maybe that's why it feels old to me. Starting on my journal now.
Thank you so much for these videos!
Yes! *puts a picture of Benedict Cumberbatch in hot spot* (He's more my speed 😂) 🖖🏻
BC is everyone's speed!!! LOL
I layed out my clothes for today and my DH did a load of white laundry. Greetings
when do we make our bed. I am used to making it as soon as I get up.
Completely up to you! 👋😃 I make mine when I've had my shower/dressed to shoes.
love this thank you
It doesn't work out for me.
Every time I choose an out fit, I don't like to wear it the next day. Sometimes the weather changed or my idea of how i wanna look like. 😕
+Jenny Fischer Look out two or three outfits...then you'll always have one that fits! 😉
Diane in Denmark , thank you for your quick response!
I just tried to find one, now i'm going to put a second shirt, that might be a good way to go for it!
The sink is shiny the hot spot ok and the outfit is waiting for the new day😊.
Sleep well!
+Jenny Fischer Yay, well done, Jenny! 👍👍👍
same here! been trying this so many times.. migt try to doing it before evening routine soon...maybe it'll help
Jenny Fischer, the same thing happened to me but I gave myself permission to change clothes. I think doing this will help me weed out the clothes I really don’t like or feel good in!
Putting on lazed up shoes dosn't do anything for me. But I totally get the essence of this tip though: it is all about getting ourself into a state where we feel ready to tackle the world. It has put words on a realization that has slowly dawned on my over several years: I don't work as well when I'm still in pyjamases, cause then I'll just be walking around in a Sunday morning slump the entire day. The thing that works for me is getting dressed in real clothing that I would be fine with running errands in (so no at-home loungewear clothing - and it has to include bra and socks as well), putting on my glasses and doing my hair (super important to shake off the slump) - and perhaps a bit of makeup and perfume if I feel like it, but that is not a must. Jewelry isn't eather. And shoes isn't as well. For all the other parts I can feel a major emptional change of state, but the shoes just dosn't do do anything for me in perticular. Socks for the winter and socks or floflops for the summer though :)
Yes, if my bra is on and my hair is done, the rest of me will be ready for anything too, I don't wear shoes in the house, but I am trying to break the habit of slobbing about. This morning I had to duck down the street, but I was dressed and hair done, all I had to do was slip on my shoes, amazing! ☺️
Today, my day 7 of the 31 babysteps in 2020 (this step I included in my evening routine since day 3 on. I felt like, that one I can incorporate easily AND I would need that step anyway. glad, it does work for me. one other steck checked ;-)
Diane, are we taking the 5 mins break and doing the hot spots daily? Like with each video are we then doing it daily? X
+Jemma Spanswick Yes, we are adding a babystep/building block to what we have already learned.
How can you clean so dressed up?
Hi Char! I use non-toxic products and am only cleaning for small amounts at a time (that's the advantage of the Flylady system). Feel free to wear an apron or cleaning clothes if you want.
Hello Diane, I don't know if you still comment on these old video's, but how can I addapt this babystep to my life situation? I pick my clothes the day itself, because if I lay them out for the next day, I often find that my mood has changed or the weather is not what was expected and then I don't want to wear the clothes that I picked the previous day. Help and ideas needed!
Simply set up three or four outfits and hang them in your wardrobe! Then you are ready for anything... 😁
Diane in Denmark good idea! I will try this! Thank you so much for replying 💕
You're welcome, hope it works for you!
I planned which clothes I will put on tomorrow as we will visit friends of ours
To be honest I'm such a slob that wearing shoes wouldn't stop me from getting into my bed if I felt the overwhelming urge for a nap!!
+Christina K LOL! I take a nap every day...for 20minutes on the couch with a blanket over me 😁
Christina K giggles
You always look so beautiful.
Also, on my days when I have messier things....... I may add a little " beauty" jewelry or something to feel " more FLY".
During the last weeks I prepared 4 to 6 clothings for the next day so that I had one for every day in the week.
But that resulted beeing to stressy for my. No I prepared clothes for tomorrow: my jeans skirt and a yellow t-shirt and for to go to church in the afternoon: my dark blue skirt and a green blouse. Thanks and good bye for now.
WOW thank you 🤩🤗😇🎶💖👌💓😇💞🎶♻️☯️💝👸
Aww thank you🤩💝🎶💖⚅👌😇
sorry for the name mistake Diane
Robert Downey Jr - LOL!!
Robert downey jr 🤣👏🏻
I definitely hope she will take my criticism into consideration and improve her videos. She gives good information, but she definitely needs help improving the quality of the videos. One or two are understandable, but by the 7th and 8th she should have stepped up her technique.
Obviously the flylady way has not sunk in your brain yet. One of the biggest things flylady preaches to all of her flybabies is, DON'T LET PERFECTIONISM RUN YOUR LIFE. Here you are letting your perfectionism focus on how perfect her video quality is instead of just simply thanking her for taking time out of her day, every day, for FREE, to encourage her fellow flybabies. For me personally, I wouldn't car if she had a massive booger hanging off the tip of her nose because I'm not focusing on her appearance and focusing on taking in her advice and help.
Massive booger?? What a sad thing to say!!!
I love it!!! It's kind of a video prose. You should have seen the actual flyladytv videos if you wanted to critique something 😆 And to be honest, something more professional would be less motivating for me. I feel like she's a normal person and not trying to be a celebrity. She's like my kind, funny, clever Aunt 😉