Diabolical new twist to romance scams turns victims into “money mules"

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  • Опубликовано: 22 апр 2024
  • A yearlong CBS News investigation explores a troubling new twist on romance scams that challenges investigators. The victims, often blinded by love, are being turned into unwitting co-conspirators.
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Комментарии • 142

  • @maxinef6654
    @maxinef6654 11 дней назад +81

    What Gail really wanted to say is “how the hell you give money to someone you’re never met in person”. 😂😂

    • @Eastpointe
      @Eastpointe 11 дней назад +10

      Basically!

    • @margo3367
      @margo3367 10 дней назад +17

      Well, even then. If you met the guy and were just dating, would you give him a million bucks? I guess I’m too cynical, but a healthy dose of cynicism or skepticism protects you from these scam artists.

    • @DM-lc2cf
      @DM-lc2cf 10 дней назад +5

      @@margo3367 That is so true. I am skeptical of most things, but I was once in an abusive relationship, and looking back I was very venerable, and more easily manipulated by that person......So yes, being skeptical is a good defense, but it could still happen.

    • @margo3367
      @margo3367 10 дней назад +2

      @@DM-lc2cf You’re a little bit crazy when you’re in love, that’s true.

    • @DM-lc2cf
      @DM-lc2cf 10 дней назад +4

      @@margo3367 Hopefully educate people, before they "fall in love" on the internet....Knowledge can possibly prevent the heartache.

  • @ztomas1
    @ztomas1 10 дней назад +32

    Here's some hints - if the person uses bad grammar, asks "have you eaten today" or, "have you broken fast", asks for gift cards, tries to get you to talk on Whatsapp, these people are scammers....run away

    • @phangirl90
      @phangirl90 6 дней назад

      Also if they say they’re “working” in Syria or another part of Africa, they’re scammers.

    • @rumblefish9
      @rumblefish9 День назад +1

      If he calls you "Queen"

  • @lindaslattery8341
    @lindaslattery8341 10 дней назад +55

    STAY OFF OF DATING WEBSITES AND APPS!!!

    • @HighValueMaxedOutGigaSigmaMale
      @HighValueMaxedOutGigaSigmaMale 9 дней назад +3

      Damn why you gotta yell😱😨😰😓

    • @ladyjefeKAY
      @ladyjefeKAY 7 дней назад +2

      AND DATE IN PERSON!!! Not social media, dating apps just screams “ I’m desperate!”

    • @doingbettereveryday
      @doingbettereveryday 17 часов назад

      @@HighValueMaxedOutGigaSigmaMale SHES NOT YELLING! SHE IS SPEAKING STRONGLY AND ASSERTIVELY.

  • @bobbobertson7568
    @bobbobertson7568 10 дней назад +25

    I am not that desperate for another human being to stink up my bathroom or adversely affect my sleep

    • @user-hx7mi7ml8u
      @user-hx7mi7ml8u 10 дней назад +2

      Yeah, because you already do those things yourself…

    • @luvlabso130
      @luvlabso130 8 дней назад +1

      Oh dear😅

    • @TKOin2life
      @TKOin2life 8 дней назад +2

      You got that right.

  • @sonyadrake7843
    @sonyadrake7843 10 дней назад +24

    This was on Inside Edition and she gave the Scammer(s) $1.7M probably her Daughter and Granddaughter Inheritance.

  • @jolyfrye1871
    @jolyfrye1871 11 дней назад +43

    If u r on a dating sight, and someone asks u 4 money....Immediately 🚫 block them. Move on to someone who is financially stable. Dont ever B someone's crutch.

    • @paulyricca3881
      @paulyricca3881 11 дней назад +1

      👴🏻🥃 WHY CANT I BE YOUR CRUTCH WHY?

    • @paulyricca3881
      @paulyricca3881 11 дней назад +1

      🥃👴🏻WHY CANT I BE YOUR CRUTCH WHY?

    • @TwisterTornado
      @TwisterTornado 10 дней назад +2

      ​@@paulyricca3881 Right. Let's not act like there aren't plenty of men, happy to purchase female companionship. Even if that's a trophy wife.

    • @nghtwtchmn129
      @nghtwtchmn129 10 дней назад +3

      Frequently the scammers ask for someone ELSE. A relative who need surgery while their own bank account is somehow locked up, for example.

    • @ccmcaul8860
      @ccmcaul8860 10 дней назад +1

      DUH.

  • @nay0916
    @nay0916 10 дней назад +28

    I don't believe for one minute and this woman was murdered. I firmly think she took her own life. She got in way over her head, and these scammers been known to tell people to take their own lives.

    • @bilialeilan9038
      @bilialeilan9038 10 дней назад +5

      Clearly

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 9 дней назад +5

      Agreed. She finally realized that she had been living a lie from the very start and was also broke.

  • @ZoraDelaney
    @ZoraDelaney 10 дней назад +13

    Thirstiness, desperation for (romantic) validation, and GREED enable folks to lose common sense......

  • @EnronnSierra
    @EnronnSierra 11 дней назад +26

    Not even a Facetime call?

    • @JillWhitcomb1966
      @JillWhitcomb1966 10 дней назад +6

      Exactly. There is nothing wrong with meeting people from the Internet (I've done it dozens of times). But that is after hours upon hours of video phone calls to verify they are who they say they are.

  • @shamecamcfadden815
    @shamecamcfadden815 11 дней назад +30

    They need to take down all of these dating sites. Any time someone doesn’t meet with you in person when other people are around, they are not real. You have to be so careful in this wicked world. People do anything for money.

    • @U-TubeAddict
      @U-TubeAddict 10 дней назад

      These scammers are everywhere though. I get weekly fake profile connection requests on LinkedIn of all places

    • @tonyamade901
      @tonyamade901 10 дней назад +6

      Dating apps are filling the introduction gap that used to be filled by community and matchmakers in some cultures. Yes there are stories like this, but there are way more couples who’ve found success and met and married from an online connection. 🤷🏽‍♀️ If someone asks you for money, that’s your sign they are not for you. Period.💯🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @hydrangeas_lover
      @hydrangeas_lover 10 дней назад

      ​@@tonyamade901absolutely

  • @SNW8191
    @SNW8191 10 дней назад +11

    You have to meet people in person. They can fake video they can fake pictures. Meet in person in one week or move on. I was on Match and POF never got scammed because I don't talk to people who wont meet. Meet in person, in a public place within 1 week or block. If they won't meet they're scammers or catfish.

  • @sonyadrake7843
    @sonyadrake7843 10 дней назад +23

    I don't like having to pay for plastic bags for my purchased items, so there's no way in 🤬 you're getting ANY💰 from me EVER! 👿

    • @JillWhitcomb1966
      @JillWhitcomb1966 10 дней назад

      Good luck if you ever travel or move elsewhere then. In places like Hawaii, Canada, Spain, Wales, Scotland, England, Italy, Australia, and India.... if you don't bring your own shopping bags to the store, and you need a plastic bag, they will charge you 10 to 15 cents (or the equivalent) per bag. It's not just grocery stores, either. If you buy toilet paper in Canada, shoes in England, or a coffee pot in India....they will still charge you for that plastic bag if you need a bag.

    • @sonyadrake7843
      @sonyadrake7843 10 дней назад +2

      @@JillWhitcomb1966
      Thanks for the info., I'll be prepared for bringing my travel totes when vacationing in Hawaii 😏

  • @Javy_Valen_Tain
    @Javy_Valen_Tain 11 дней назад +15

    Falling in love has never been so dangerous!

  • @DM-lc2cf
    @DM-lc2cf 10 дней назад +14

    Not much different than the mind games that cults, abusive relationships etc use to manipulate people. Don't shame people, this can happen to just about anyone, particularly if they are at very venerable, sad, low time in their life.

    • @newchangenewlife
      @newchangenewlife 10 дней назад +6

      Thank you for saying this. People are quick to judge and talk about people in these situations, re-victimizing them and making them feel even worse. It's not as simple as they think.

  • @georgecuster527
    @georgecuster527 10 дней назад +13

    These stories always make me feel smart . Thanks CBS morning .

    • @nghtwtchmn129
      @nghtwtchmn129 10 дней назад

      Big time scammers typically target SMART people. Stupid people usually don't have much money.

    • @hydrangeas_lover
      @hydrangeas_lover 10 дней назад +2

      Lol same

    • @nghtwtchmn129
      @nghtwtchmn129 10 дней назад +2

      I sometimes watch those "People's Court"-type reality shows when I need a reminder that I'm not doing so badly in life.

  • @ccmcaul8860
    @ccmcaul8860 10 дней назад +7

    Honestly. How can ppl be this gullible? It's just difficult to wrap my head around. 1.5 million dollars??

    • @jjones3566
      @jjones3566 10 дней назад +3

      Pain and longing can make people very gullible. She was a widow.

  • @bilialeilan9038
    @bilialeilan9038 10 дней назад +17

    How in the hell can you give your life savings to someone you never met before? These dumb romance scams I will never understand. It is always the same demographic time after time.

    • @hydrangeas_lover
      @hydrangeas_lover 10 дней назад +4

      Yup. It is super prevalent in the UK for some reason.

  • @Unclejojo330
    @Unclejojo330 11 дней назад +16

    Sad that these people exist and prey off people 😢

    • @paulyricca3881
      @paulyricca3881 11 дней назад

      🦍⬅️ YOU?

    • @askew9976
      @askew9976 11 дней назад +5

      I was in it in real life. I knew it was happening, but it didn’t hurt too much right away.
      Small dollar amounts at a time, over a few years added up to double digit thousands. That’s the worst, it happens slowly…one day you wake up and realize…you’re “robbing Peter to pay Paul,” to survive. 😢And…you aren’t even in a relationship, it’s a situationship.
      I’m in therapy, learning to love myself and not get caught up in needing another persons attention.

    • @annamillar4794
      @annamillar4794 11 дней назад +1

      Question of the day. If its a money making scam how did you not make money on bobby Lees podcast 4 weeks ago? You make money when your humiliate me because its cruelty from a cruel loser who is ultimately ultimately ULTIMATELY jealous of me. It if its MONEY making scam, HOW DID YOU MAKE ZERO DOLLARS ON BOBBYS PODCAST LITERALLY A MONTH AGO? Lilleys the same model.

    • @paulyricca3881
      @paulyricca3881 11 дней назад +1

      @@askew9976👴🏻🥃 AWW SHUT UP.

  • @chiefrcker
    @chiefrcker 9 дней назад +3

    People are so stupid to send someone they never even met so much money, sometimes even their entire life savings. How can you not see the red flags? When someone you have never met asks you for money, that is the biggest red flag.

  • @dlight9849
    @dlight9849 10 дней назад +10

    Zero sympathy for people with zero common sense. Desperately seeking random strangers online for love and attention because you can't handle being by yourself speaks volumes about one's own self-esteem. The best thing people (who feel lonely) can do is volunteer to help others and/or seek God -- not seek a random man to make you happy.

  • @lmb4876
    @lmb4876 10 дней назад +15

    I am middle age…not lonely..not looking for love..have friends & read books..sorry, don’t need a man ( been there & done it once)

    • @MJ-fj9yv
      @MJ-fj9yv 9 дней назад

      So everyone should be like you?

    • @lmb4876
      @lmb4876 8 дней назад +2

      @@MJ-fj9yv Only if they want to be happy & not vulnerable to scams!

    • @cynthiahicks1909
      @cynthiahicks1909 8 дней назад +2

      I HEAR YA sister.

  • @JillWhitcomb1966
    @JillWhitcomb1966 10 дней назад +6

    Gayle, I love your dress! It looks amazing on you!

  • @MegTelevised
    @MegTelevised 8 дней назад +3

    I don’t even speed because I ain’t giving cops free money…

    • @ladyjefeKAY
      @ladyjefeKAY 7 дней назад

      I love this 😂🙌🏾

  • @ztomas1
    @ztomas1 10 дней назад +11

    These people are so desperate for companionship that they will believe anything

  • @BlackandBlessed100
    @BlackandBlessed100 10 дней назад +6

    Be careful dating
    Love yourself More❤️

  • @micheleboyle3547
    @micheleboyle3547 10 дней назад +9

    I don’t understand why the dating sites are not shut down…the government is getting rid of TikTok but not something that is much more evil….😈 and besides people can’t get it through their heads that giving money to strangers is not love…..😮

    • @U-TubeAddict
      @U-TubeAddict 10 дней назад

      Because they believe TikTok is related to China, these online dating sites are not

  • @Prettygirlvita
    @Prettygirlvita 10 дней назад +4

    This should be common sense

  • @riobrasilsambashowssambist1453
    @riobrasilsambashowssambist1453 10 дней назад +4

    If I haven't met after 1-2 weeks, delete

    • @bobbobertson7568
      @bobbobertson7568 10 дней назад +1

      Exactly. Even if theyre not a outright scammer they're wasting your time which IS worth something.

  • @svenlundergard1
    @svenlundergard1 9 дней назад +3

    There are more than "Online OR at a bar" choices to find a partner. Joining clubs, joining a gym, dance classes, volunteer organizations, lectures, church, Toastmasters, Lions, Elks, Hiking clubs, meetup clubs. The unfortunate truth though is NOT ENOUGH MEN ENGAGE IN THESE ACTIVITIES AND WOMEN ARE LEFT TO RESORT TO THESE ONLINE SITES. COMON GUYS, GET OUT THERE!! LOVE IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER!!

    • @MegTelevised
      @MegTelevised 8 дней назад +1

      I’m a Toastmaster❤

    • @mindfullymellow2323
      @mindfullymellow2323 8 дней назад

      The truth is many middle aged+ men are used to having a woman run his life - making a home, running his social life, making his appointments for him…list goes on. When wife dies or bails (gray divorce), he’s like a lost lamb unsure of what to do next. Men typically don’t have support systems like women do.

    • @SarahRenz59
      @SarahRenz59 4 дня назад +1

      @@MegTelevised I'm a former Toastmaster who's thinking of returning as I can always stand to brush up my communication skills. Even if you don't find romance at clubs and activities, you can at least make some friends and stay busy, which helps stave off the loneliness.

  • @mindfulbynature3418
    @mindfulbynature3418 9 дней назад +4

    It’s also done on FACEBOOK BIGTIME!

  • @margo3367
    @margo3367 10 дней назад +3

    I thought she didn’t talk to him on the phone. Just text messages.

  • @askew9976
    @askew9976 11 дней назад +12

    “Everybody’s so creative.”

  • @sly5346
    @sly5346 11 дней назад +7

    How do you mix up those accents??

  • @pejisan
    @pejisan 8 дней назад +2

    hard to grasp so much naïveté

  • @ronbaker6000
    @ronbaker6000 9 дней назад +3

    My mom is going thru a scam right now. Does anyone who's been thru it have advice?

    • @Miriamalfie
      @Miriamalfie День назад

      Awful, I fell for this same thing and they preyed on me heavily I reported to the right authorities, I reported to Novacyber.

    • @Miriamalfie
      @Miriamalfie День назад

      On Instagram

    • @Miriamalfie
      @Miriamalfie День назад

      They deal with such cases

  • @Media56109
    @Media56109 9 дней назад +1

    "Intelligent Westerners" ? Life lesson

  • @riobrasilsambashowssambist1453
    @riobrasilsambashowssambist1453 10 дней назад +2

    all the AI doesn't matter if you know the script. No "woo-ing" ok n Gayle. The frame-up has happened to me so many times that I got used to the script. I tried to turn it around and pretend that I was trying to get cash from him, that I was one of the scammers working in his group (Ghana) and he totally snapped like you'd expect a misogynist criminal to react. Like a huge tantrum.

  • @mathewmclean9128
    @mathewmclean9128 День назад

    Power to the scammers. Keep up the Great work!

  • @geneortiz5297
    @geneortiz5297 7 дней назад

    I was almost duped by 2 scammers 11 years ago. One said he sent me a package of Victoria's Secret lingerie. Blocked him after that. The other said he will fly to Malaysia to claim money from a petroleum company his late father used to work for. I smelled SCAM and blocked him as well. These people are evil. Pure evil.

  • @Beth-zg6gb
    @Beth-zg6gb 4 дня назад

    Unfortunately, I don’t think that it takes much “lurking in” these days. Folks get so desperately lonely, and innocently take others at face value. We tend to judge others by how decent and trustworthy we are ourselves, leaving the door open for bad actors to pry on good people.

  • @user-zk2se5pw2h
    @user-zk2se5pw2h 8 дней назад +1

    She claims shes a " Nursing Student " from GHANA 🇬🇭
    ERICA BOATENG is her name !

  • @teresa.tells.it.like.it.is.2
    @teresa.tells.it.like.it.is.2 7 дней назад +1

    Have a Trust set up with a co-trustee so that there is SOME oversight of your money or investments. Or have someone else check large withdrawals/transfers with you to make sure there is no scamming.

  • @mildredpierce4506
    @mildredpierce4506 5 дней назад +1

    Why does this channel keep saying old things are new? Victims being made into money mules is not a new thing.
    A Canadian woman is in a Hong Kong prison right now because she got involved in a romance scammer, and she ended up an unwitting drug mule. The scammers sent her to Hong Kong, where she end up being arrested. She was not aware that. She was smuggling drugs. It was cocaine, and it had been made into buttons, and they were on the clothing that the scammer had given her.

  • @theadrenalizedartist6843
    @theadrenalizedartist6843 2 дня назад

    At this point, I think we all need to socialize more in person instead of online because none of this is worth it. It’s not worth someone being found deceased. It’s not worth people losing all their life savings.

  • @teresa.tells.it.like.it.is.2
    @teresa.tells.it.like.it.is.2 7 дней назад

    Widows need to take financial and heart classes to survive.

  • @samudramanthan8645
    @samudramanthan8645 10 минут назад

    Bucket lists are so empowering and authentic! I love walking in my truth, embracing my courageous journey of unprecedented loving kindness and bravery! Have you been to that new hidden gem? The food is to die for! Black Lives Matter!

  • @redwoods7370
    @redwoods7370 3 дня назад

    If he calls you his queen, run away fast.

  • @alluringintrovert2036
    @alluringintrovert2036 2 дня назад

    Its sad how lonely people are out here. So sad.

  • @lflood84
    @lflood84 5 дней назад

    Where can I watch this full investigation? It says it’s a year long.

  • @UncleDavesKitchen
    @UncleDavesKitchen День назад

    I wonder if the daughter did this to her mother to get her money, then killed her. Now playing up as a victim mourning her mother's mysterious death.

  • @UrNameIsToby
    @UrNameIsToby 11 дней назад +3

    They look amazing in that dress😍😍🍼🍼
    Ty, Gayle

    • @UrNameIsToby
      @UrNameIsToby 11 дней назад +2

      I only wish she knew her abdomen is something to be appreciated as opposed to trying to cover it up

    • @paulyricca3881
      @paulyricca3881 11 дней назад +1

      @@UrNameIsToby
      🥃👴🏻 SOOO HOWS YO MOTHER DOIN?

    • @paulyricca3881
      @paulyricca3881 11 дней назад +2

      @@UrNameIsToby
      🥃👴🏻 VOTE FOR NIKKI SIXX IN 24.

  • @AngelaDubs-zi4vg
    @AngelaDubs-zi4vg 4 дня назад

    Awful. This has happened to me also. Its awful. No its fear we are scared

  • @bradleyfranke2300
    @bradleyfranke2300 11 дней назад +4

    make me angry for fake (SCAMMERS) want romance you why? GHANA and other city want MONEY for food, cloth or whatever I hope victims want file sue to DOJ and FBI or whatever arrest scammers go up to 15 years scammers in prison need help not money. you must pay billion-tillion dollars back to victims family. Please apps protect

    • @krimsonedit3272
      @krimsonedit3272 11 дней назад +5

      Or people can stop sending folks they never met money

    • @paulyricca3881
      @paulyricca3881 11 дней назад

      @@krimsonedit3272
      👨🏻‍🦰IM EATING A HAMBURGER 🍔
      🥃👴🏻 I WANT A SALAMI ON RYE WID A KOSHER PICKLE ON THE SIDE.

    • @lindaslattery8341
      @lindaslattery8341 10 дней назад

      @@paulyricca3881🤡

  • @leemarvin5738
    @leemarvin5738 2 дня назад

    They're all scammers...

  • @TKOin2life
    @TKOin2life 8 дней назад

    I just can't wrap my mind around giving my savings to anyone for anything. Desperation is a brain eating disease. Please just get a pet and some hobbies.

  • @christopherwanamaker828
    @christopherwanamaker828 7 дней назад

    Here's an idea shutdown all dating online platforms and force all Americans to go to public places to meet people the old fashioned way and this would no longer happen, problem solved! Also I have my own RUclips Channel under my Full-Name with the same profile picture as this post. I currently have 45 videos covering 25 different topic areas and my newest post is a "Scammer Warning Signs Awareness" video covering about 15 different types of major scams going on currently in America and the many different signs on how to not fall for them!

  • @valeriebolton2607
    @valeriebolton2607 10 дней назад

    There us a lit if lonely people in the world. Sad.

  • @gumby7919
    @gumby7919 10 дней назад

    Seems like it is easy

    • @TwisterTornado
      @TwisterTornado 10 дней назад

      It was always easy to exploit people.
      You're just supposed to know better.

  • @luvlabso130
    @luvlabso130 8 дней назад

    Cbs is trash

  • @bobbobertson7568
    @bobbobertson7568 10 дней назад +2

    She must not have earned most or all of that $$ otherwise she would've valued it and not given it away so freely to an avatar she met on the interwebs. Men never let your wife manage the finances, even if you're dead

  • @Juggernaut-fg2up
    @Juggernaut-fg2up 11 дней назад +2

    I do not feel sorry for them at all, it's their own dumb fault

  • @robertmzee1027
    @robertmzee1027 7 дней назад

    Its always women 😂😂. They too slow

  • @annamillar4794
    @annamillar4794 11 дней назад

    Literally. No it doesn't.

  • @khan-fk8fe
    @khan-fk8fe 5 дней назад

    A bit of research should give you all the warning you need. There is agency h£lping a lot of p£ople having these issues to g£t their ass£ts b@ck. Apex chargeback are clearly underrated.

  • @annamillar4794
    @annamillar4794 11 дней назад

    No it doesn't

  • @khan-fk8fe
    @khan-fk8fe 5 дней назад

    A bit of research should give you all the warning you need. There is agency h£lping a lot of p£ople having these issues to g£t their ass£ts b@ck. Apex chargeback are clearly underrated.