“We prayed for you every day and didn’t reach out because we thought you were adopted” - A guess so easily refutable by them simply checking up on her without revealing themselves. Yet they didn’t even try to look for OP. They didn’t even think about her. The dad is a POS. Honestly amazed nobody in the comments have pointed that out
All of the comments about story 2 are weird. Why were her friends so stupid as to pressure her to drink more? I feel terrible for her, betrayed by her "friends" and taken advantage of by one of their ex-boyfriends. If she literally couldn't move when she was back home and the most consent she gave was "I like", then she was SA'd. She was in no right state of mind to continue consenting, and that's the most important part. What a terrible situation Edit: before anyone tries to argue with me, OP stated in their post that this was confirmed via security cameras. Hopefully the girlfriend gets better friends...
I really think drinking alcohol is one of the worst things humanity has ever invented. I specify drinking alcohol because I do like having clean tools for when doc needs to fix me up, and also when I need to clean a surface that's been stained some way.
Story 1 - Funerals are for the ones left alive, not for the departed. And even though you’d never met her (maybe BECAUSE you’d never met her), her dying caused feelings to happen. You had every right to be there. If nobody knew who you were, and it caused a fuss, that’s the family’s fault. It’s especially the parents’ fault. The only communication you’d gotten from your bio-family until then was the fact that they gave you up (and therefore didn’t want you in their lives). You obeyed that command until your own emotional needs dictated that you attend. If your presence there holds up a mirror to the ugliness of their souls… that’s between them and God.
Sounds more to me like she was raped while impaired, and her friends convinced her that next morning that she wanted it too. Based on the way OP described her coming back, she was way too drunk to defend herself or even form the word "No".
Don't forget, fellas - In vino veritas. Whatever people do when drunk is what they want to do when they are sober, but won't commit to because of inhibition. Once the inhibition is gone, they will become the more authentic versions of themselves. She wanted to cheat, she had these thoughts and entertained them, and finally got her way, and now the inhibition is back, causing her to go full on damage control in an attempt to avoid responsibility.
so what you're saying is for example if you happened to be dead ass drunk and some dude decided to buttfukk you it means that's what you secretly wanted? gtfo 🤣
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Story 2: Regardless of what ends up happening with OP, Gf needs to drop her lush friends.
“We prayed for you every day and didn’t reach out because we thought you were adopted” - A guess so easily refutable by them simply checking up on her without revealing themselves. Yet they didn’t even try to look for OP. They didn’t even think about her. The dad is a POS. Honestly amazed nobody in the comments have pointed that out
Story 1 makes me happy. Someone in my family was a foster house. The system is really hard.
All of the comments about story 2 are weird. Why were her friends so stupid as to pressure her to drink more? I feel terrible for her, betrayed by her "friends" and taken advantage of by one of their ex-boyfriends.
If she literally couldn't move when she was back home and the most consent she gave was "I like", then she was SA'd. She was in no right state of mind to continue consenting, and that's the most important part. What a terrible situation
Edit: before anyone tries to argue with me, OP stated in their post that this was confirmed via security cameras. Hopefully the girlfriend gets better friends...
I really think drinking alcohol is one of the worst things humanity has ever invented. I specify drinking alcohol because I do like having clean tools for when doc needs to fix me up, and also when I need to clean a surface that's been stained some way.
Tbh the 2nd story is still suspicious,since it could be something way before this.
Story 1 - Funerals are for the ones left alive, not for the departed. And even though you’d never met her (maybe BECAUSE you’d never met her), her dying caused feelings to happen. You had every right to be there. If nobody knew who you were, and it caused a fuss, that’s the family’s fault. It’s especially the parents’ fault.
The only communication you’d gotten from your bio-family until then was the fact that they gave you up (and therefore didn’t want you in their lives). You obeyed that command until your own emotional needs dictated that you attend. If your presence there holds up a mirror to the ugliness of their souls… that’s between them and God.
Story 1 Great story. Story 2 She's a Cheater she knew what she was doing. She Never loved you.
Sounds more to me like she was raped while impaired, and her friends convinced her that next morning that she wanted it too. Based on the way OP described her coming back, she was way too drunk to defend herself or even form the word "No".
Don't forget, fellas - In vino veritas. Whatever people do when drunk is what they want to do when they are sober, but won't commit to because of inhibition. Once the inhibition is gone, they will become the more authentic versions of themselves. She wanted to cheat, she had these thoughts and entertained them, and finally got her way, and now the inhibition is back, causing her to go full on damage control in an attempt to avoid responsibility.
It's pretty clear that she was raped. Your argument basically is that if a man fucked a random passed out woman, then that wouldn't be rape.
so what you're saying is for example if you happened to be dead ass drunk and some dude decided to buttfukk you it means that's what you secretly wanted? gtfo 🤣