Yeah, I won't pity OP's brother, he didn't protect OP, opting to side with his wife instead, and now he tries to force his kid into OP's care. He made his bed and now should lay in it instead of placing his responsibilities on others
I wish there was a way to get women like the last OP and her daughter in law out of their country to a safer place with more support. If they were in the US now, they could probably both quickly get new husbands who are better to them.
Story 1: entitled family strikes again 🙄. I've heard it before. They are very stupid if they think they can ask op for help after everything that happened. Story 2: Wtf its abuse YOU DON'T TAKE THAT LIGHTLY WHY IS OP BEING SHAMED!?
Story 1: considering the fact that OP even entertains the idea to help her nephew, I wouldn't say that she grew a spine. While nephew isn't to blame for what happened, he is also not her responsibility. He has an adult father (who can look into if his job also has some sort of paternity leave) and at least one set of grandparents (maybe two, if SIL's parents are still alive). And on reddit she wrote in comments that she theoretically could take care of two kids and that she may think about that if SIL gives up her paternity rights and OP gets full custody, and just no.
2 story i can relate with because im a Indian in india i don't know why but people take domestic violence ligthly. my dad beat my mom.My dad never work. I only have my mom who cares about me and my sister.
Story 1 To be honest, OP at fault too, she should have been went NC with her toxic family.... Instead she kept opening that door to allow all that drama in her life, so some of that is on her.
Story 1 Your a sad door mate by going back to a family hates you. Can you not see they hate you? Never go back to a family that hates you. Disown them there Nuts.
1st story. Don’t help them. They only want to use you. Nothing has changed, if she comes back they’ll kick you to the curb again. They don’t respect, value or even truly love you. The best thing you can do is move away, change your number & build your own family. 2nd story not all super heroes wear capes. the mom did the right thing by standing up for her dil & making her son take responsibility& deal with the consequences for what he did to her so just maybe he can learn from it and become a better person.Hopefully what she did will give someone else the courage to do the right thing when they see something similar & so on until one day doing the right thing will be the socially accepted norm & things like what her son did won’t be so common. She’s a hero in my book
![[Apple] Wealthy MIL stabs a fork at me during our dinner. “Get away from my son!”](/img/1.gif)
S1: NTA. "This isn't about you." Yes, it is considering it's OP's pregnancy. I pity OP's brother since he's stuck with a monster for a wife.
Yeah, I won't pity OP's brother, he didn't protect OP, opting to side with his wife instead, and now he tries to force his kid into OP's care. He made his bed and now should lay in it instead of placing his responsibilities on others
I wish there was a way to get women like the last OP and her daughter in law out of their country to a safer place with more support. If they were in the US now, they could probably both quickly get new husbands who are better to them.
They are better where they are and change the society there.
Actually it’s not normal in India for this to happen
Laws against domestic abuse are very strict.
It’s probably ops community that is so unsupportive
Story 1: entitled family strikes again 🙄. I've heard it before. They are very stupid if they think they can ask op for help after everything that happened.
Story 2: Wtf its abuse YOU DON'T TAKE THAT LIGHTLY WHY IS OP BEING SHAMED!?
backwards trash culture for story 2. that's why.
Story 1 they're. Op needs to go nc an stop being a spineless doormat. It's not her problem not her concern.
I'm Indian I know why
Story 1: considering the fact that OP even entertains the idea to help her nephew, I wouldn't say that she grew a spine. While nephew isn't to blame for what happened, he is also not her responsibility. He has an adult father (who can look into if his job also has some sort of paternity leave) and at least one set of grandparents (maybe two, if SIL's parents are still alive). And on reddit she wrote in comments that she theoretically could take care of two kids and that she may think about that if SIL gives up her paternity rights and OP gets full custody, and just no.
Story 1: I touched an open flame and burned myself, then I keept touching it but it kept burning me, why? I can't understand what's happening
It's sad how they can love the daughter in law more then there bio daughter
SIL is looking for a free baby sitter DON'T TELL HER THE NAMEof your child block the SIL
2 story i can relate with because im a Indian in india i don't know why but people take domestic violence ligthly. my dad beat my mom.My dad never work. I only have my mom who cares about me and my sister.
I'm sorry for what happened with you hang in there man you must be strong for your family ❤️❤️❤️
Story 1
To be honest, OP at fault too, she should have been went NC with her toxic family....
Instead she kept opening that door to allow all that drama in her life, so some of that is on her.
Story 1
The Brother is a Doormat and most likely going to get cheated on
Edit: Just got through the story, 😂 Not surprised at all
let me guess not his 😆
Yup she cheated and doormat gonna take care of other mans baby
Story 1 Your a sad door mate by going back to a family hates you. Can you not see they hate you? Never go back to a family that hates you. Disown them there Nuts.
First
❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
1st story. Don’t help them. They only want to use you. Nothing has changed, if she comes back they’ll kick you to the curb again. They don’t respect, value or even truly love you. The best thing you can do is move away, change your number & build your own family.
2nd story not all super heroes wear capes. the mom did the right thing by standing up for her dil & making her son take responsibility& deal with the consequences for what he did to her so just maybe he can learn from it and become a better person.Hopefully what she did will give someone else the courage to do the right thing when they see something similar & so on until one day doing the right thing will be the socially accepted norm & things like what her son did won’t be so common. She’s a hero in my book