Story 1: Oh no… it’s the story where the boyfriend was sleeping with OP’s sister who he had known since she was like 11. Not only he is a cheater but he’s definitely a groomer. The parents are obviously so homophobic since they are considering an actual predator a "good guy"
Well if to them being gay is a sin then she was just saving the bf from that sin therefore not cheating but salvation. I also find it tragically funny when people declare themselves to be Christian but then don't follow the teachings of Jesus Christ of don't judge and love thy neighbor as thyself.
At the very least, I think if ABOY one’s gonna pick and choose what they follow from the Bible, they don’t get onto someone else about “committing a sin” when it’s they themselves would commit another; as if I remember correctly, every sin is just that, a sin, in gods eyes no matter how great or small. Kinda like beggars can’t be choosers I guess, you can’t tell someone what they’re doing is a sin against the Bible and god if you only _pick_ what rules you follow.
"not happy about how it happened, but at least it's a good guy" is insane, what father wants their kid to get with a cheat, one that was low down enough to betray a 9 year relationship with the person's sibling, that's messed up
Another comment made a point about the Ex-Scum knowing his sister when she was a kid... so, yeah. There are no morals in this family. OP needs to run fast and far.
He sounds like one of those fathers who will marry his underage daughter off to some 30 year old rather than admit their 'friend' groomed and assaulted her. In about 2 years he'll be the one wondering when he can tell her that she's needs to stop crying about how he cheated on her, forgive him because mistakes like that happens in marriage and go back home to him (taking her toddler with her).
Not just that, he's also a groomer! Mf knew her since she was 11 and immediately started having an affair after she turned 18. AND HE ALSO WANTED A POLY RELATIONSHIP... JFC
Omg I was waiting for a comment abt the 2nd story im like wtf! Girl let his parents raise the baby they just lost their son and ur being selfish, u would let some strangers who can’t have kids adopt them bc they have the resources, to me that’s fishy bc if their willing to adopt and pay for everything why didn’t they go thru an agency they didn’t know they was gonna meet you and they been knowing they couldn’t have kids
Story #1: Usually, I would say there's no place for violence in a relationship. But that the ex-BF had the nerve to suggest a polyamorous relationship after cheating with OP's sister? That is like calling 1-800 Collect An Ass Whooping. There is literally no earthly excuse for the ex to allow something like that to come out of his mouth.
Literally all religious people simply pick and choose which sins they are comfortable with and which ones they are not. Homosexuality? No-no, because they are bigots. Betraying your own family and adultery? A-OK. Just how Christians are.
It is fornication, NOT adultery. Still reprehensible . but adultery implies someone is breaking marriage vows. Sister is SLIME, but she aint married, and the AH BF is not married. He is scum for not being HONORABLE enough to break it off cleanly and completely with OP before falling into LUST with the AH sister.
Story 2: at first I was gonna say she was going through too much to handle it and give her a pass, but once she started sending her sister’s sexual pics she lost all sympathy I’m sorry that’s a few too many lines crossed over
ST1 Should have put in the note, you lot should realize how easier and happier everyone’s lives are now that I’m going, don’t be so dramatic and try to search for me. Parents and family: you need to get over it, accept the relationship and move on. Op: Ok. Cuts contact in order to move on Parents and family: How dare you cut contact. The sister crying and saying op did all this to hurt her, aw what’s the matter little princess acting like you didn’t do all this to hurt op when you decided to go after his boyfriend.
S1: "You know what I think is gross? He saw her grow up. He saw her grow up, and at some point, started stringing me along because he's too much of a coward to let me go." I'd also tell my sister: "If he can cheat on me, he'll cheat on you. I find it funny that you think the world is out to hurt you, when you actively hurt me. Nine years wasted because your greedy ass couldn't keep your legs close."
Considering that the ex-boyfriend suggested that all three of them enter into a polyamorous relationship, it definitely had the potential of dipping into some Alabama things.
I’m sorry but WTF is the second story??? This person accidentally caused the death of their sister, then pretended to be their dead sister on FB to the point of sending men explicit photos??? OP, if you’re reading this, you NEED to get yourself into INTENSE therapy. This is not normal or healthy for you mental well-being!!!!!!
Story 1: families like this confuse me. They clearly don’t like or care about OP yet they’re mad he moved out and cut contact?! Why? You don’t give a shit about him yet you want to keep him around?
Story 3: Miracle Baby, why do those words even exists?😑 It's up to the expecting mother to decide wherever they want to kept the baby, put it out for adoption or abort it. The family trying to force Op to kept the baby and let other family members to adopt the baby is so wrong.
S2: that is some insane self-destructive behavior. Absolutely disgusting on OP’s part. This is why therapy should be normalized, people without therapy do this crap
Story 3: Yeah, I don’t get why some comments are mad at OP when she did nothing wrong. The families are treating this baby more like a souvenir and putting it on a pedestal before it was even born. I don’t doubt they’d compare Seth and this child who never knew him. OP decided to give up her child to a family that not only wanted them but will never hold these memories over them. I wish the best for OP and her child both starting their new lives, even if it isn’t together.
3rd story: OP you could’ve moved away and given the baby to the parents and brother instead of making a mole hill into a mountain. I’m sure with enough time OP could’ve loved that baby and maybe even wanted to get involved with it if they wanted to, but they made a rushed (and tbh premature) decision to give it to strangers instead of family, also it seemed like OP was trying to trying her hardest to distract themselves from the situation instead of finding a good alternative to fix it, I know what happened to them was terrible and I’m sorry it happened to them but when you’re dealing with another persons life you can’t think that emotionally.
Sure the baby would’ve been set financially but OP unknowingly deprived the baby of getting to know their other parent (even though they passed) but I suppose these circumstances happen for a reason. I hope everyone involved finds some sort of peace
Op is selfish and pushing away her support system because *check notes* boyfriend's parents wants to adopt the baby and her parents want to be in the babies life. Op it's just making her life so convoluted for no reason, I guess grief and pregnancy hormones make people do stupid s***.
So after giving the kid to her parents, is she supposed to go NC forever. Or do You expect her to go home and be tortured by the sight of the kid. OP knows that she isn't in the position to be around the kid. What makes you so sure that in time "she would love the baby." OP has made arrangements for the baby. She feels that the couple will take good care and love the baby. OP didn't turn a mole hill into a mountain. She took the mountain.
@@lindah3803I don’t expect her to go no contact altogether but with time she could’ve recovered and have some ties with her child, and about the “turning a molehill into a mountain” comment I was referring to how OP cut off the family and brother who were willing to support her with the child but she chose to run away and give the child away anyhow. What happened to her was more than staggering on her mental health but again she’s still affecting others around her and causing unnecessary distress with both families
I don't think the parents understand Christianity, because how do you condone cheating and then judge your child for being LGBT... thats not how it works
every parents' threat of "stop this or else" should be answered with a defiant "Bring it. It's been a little boring lately. I could use the entertainment." I mean... are we gonna still pretend that people putting religion up front as justification for their acts are not instantly at fault? it's the 21st century, people... you're 300 years beyond outdated.
Unfortunately, when it comes to parents like this, they tend to forget that when they are making these threats, they are not talking to someone who they can tell to go to their room. A lot of parents have difficulty comprehending that their adult children are *adults.*
I’ve never ben the overly holy religious type I sin just as much as anyone else and still have my faith. but that being said to supposedly be strongly Christian and then support infidelity and betrayal like that that family is trash to the highest making.
Story 1 nta keep moving on and stay Nc with these selfish toxicity Story 2 yta wtf is wrong with your decision y'all need therapy seriously Story 3 nta but seriously talk to a therapist makes this decision more thoughtful
Story 1: Oh no… it’s the story where the boyfriend was sleeping with OP’s sister who he had known since she was like 11. Not only he is a cheater but he’s definitely a groomer. The parents are obviously so homophobic since they are considering an actual predator a "good guy"
The fact they accept a groomer over their gay son says it all.
if the parents are christian and actually didnt accept OP they atleast shouldve not approved of the sister and boyfriend cheating
Unfortunately, these kinds of so-called Christians seem to vastly outnumber the real ones.
Christians are selective about what they hate and don't hate
Well if to them being gay is a sin then she was just saving the bf from that sin therefore not cheating but salvation.
I also find it tragically funny when people declare themselves to be Christian but then don't follow the teachings of Jesus Christ of don't judge and love thy neighbor as thyself.
@@asherdalesexactly, people use anything to hide them being horrible people. These parents did not read the bible 🤣
At the very least, I think if ABOY one’s gonna pick and choose what they follow from the Bible, they don’t get onto someone else about “committing a sin” when it’s they themselves would commit another; as if I remember correctly, every sin is just that, a sin, in gods eyes no matter how great or small.
Kinda like beggars can’t be choosers I guess, you can’t tell someone what they’re doing is a sin against the Bible and god if you only _pick_ what rules you follow.
I am so tired of the it's LOVE excuse. Because it is an excuse, you can always walk away. Have some morals.
Give it time. The ex will definitely cheat on her.
"not happy about how it happened, but at least it's a good guy" is insane, what father wants their kid to get with a cheat, one that was low down enough to betray a 9 year relationship with the person's sibling, that's messed up
Another comment made a point about the Ex-Scum knowing his sister when she was a kid... so, yeah. There are no morals in this family. OP needs to run fast and far.
He sounds like one of those fathers who will marry his underage daughter off to some 30 year old rather than admit their 'friend' groomed and assaulted her.
In about 2 years he'll be the one wondering when he can tell her that she's needs to stop crying about how he cheated on her, forgive him because mistakes like that happens in marriage and go back home to him (taking her toddler with her).
Not just that, he's also a groomer! Mf knew her since she was 11 and immediately started having an affair after she turned 18.
AND HE ALSO WANTED A POLY RELATIONSHIP... JFC
What the hell is the second story. I am questioning my sanity here.
Omg I was waiting for a comment abt the 2nd story im like wtf! Girl let his parents raise the baby they just lost their son and ur being selfish, u would let some strangers who can’t have kids adopt them bc they have the resources, to me that’s fishy bc if their willing to adopt and pay for everything why didn’t they go thru an agency they didn’t know they was gonna meet you and they been knowing they couldn’t have kids
@@MswhatsittoyaThat's story 3, fool
Story #1: Usually, I would say there's no place for violence in a relationship. But that the ex-BF had the nerve to suggest a polyamorous relationship after cheating with OP's sister? That is like calling 1-800 Collect An Ass Whooping. There is literally no earthly excuse for the ex to allow something like that to come out of his mouth.
Imagine having the gall to ask your boyfriend/girlfriend to become a Poly with their sibling. Someone read too much smut fiction.
So they’re just gonna overlook the sin of adultery?
they pick and choose what they like and dislike
Certain religious people tend to overlook stuff when it could affect their family
Literally all religious people simply pick and choose which sins they are comfortable with and which ones they are not. Homosexuality? No-no, because they are bigots. Betraying your own family and adultery? A-OK. Just how Christians are.
It is fornication, NOT adultery. Still reprehensible . but adultery implies someone is breaking marriage vows. Sister is SLIME, but she aint married, and the AH BF is not married. He is scum for not being HONORABLE enough to break it off cleanly and completely with OP before falling into LUST with the AH sister.
@@marystarr3025 regardless they still cheated which is against the bible
Story 2: at first I was gonna say she was going through too much to handle it and give her a pass, but once she started sending her sister’s sexual pics she lost all sympathy I’m sorry that’s a few too many lines crossed over
Yeah she's just weird, and it was probably her photos.
ST1
Should have put in the note, you lot should realize how easier and happier everyone’s lives are now that I’m going, don’t be so dramatic and try to search for me.
Parents and family: you need to get over it, accept the relationship and move on.
Op: Ok.
Cuts contact in order to move on
Parents and family: How dare you cut contact.
The sister crying and saying op did all this to hurt her, aw what’s the matter little princess acting like you didn’t do all this to hurt op when you decided to go after his boyfriend.
S1: "You know what I think is gross? He saw her grow up. He saw her grow up, and at some point, started stringing me along because he's too much of a coward to let me go."
I'd also tell my sister: "If he can cheat on me, he'll cheat on you. I find it funny that you think the world is out to hurt you, when you actively hurt me. Nine years wasted because your greedy ass couldn't keep your legs close."
The way the title is structured made me think this was an Alabama story
Me too. How can his sister cheat on him. EW
Considering that the ex-boyfriend suggested that all three of them enter into a polyamorous relationship, it definitely had the potential of dipping into some Alabama things.
I’m sorry but WTF is the second story??? This person accidentally caused the death of their sister, then pretended to be their dead sister on FB to the point of sending men explicit photos??? OP, if you’re reading this, you NEED to get yourself into INTENSE therapy. This is not normal or healthy for you mental well-being!!!!!!
You comment that twice btw but i agree
@@nekorei2023 Okay, thanks!
Your boyfriend of 9 years? Holy shit, dude
Thumbnail: “My sister cheated on me” Ermm wut
Story 2 she could have said the worst thing my sister did was not leave me with the parents she is awful and still doing it
Story 1: families like this confuse me. They clearly don’t like or care about OP yet they’re mad he moved out and cut contact?! Why? You don’t give a shit about him yet you want to keep him around?
all of this is so much justification for being childfree. and thinking sterilization should be easier.
what?
Story 3: Miracle Baby, why do those words even exists?😑 It's up to the expecting mother to decide wherever they want to kept the baby, put it out for adoption or abort it.
The family trying to force Op to kept the baby and let other family members to adopt the baby is so wrong.
S2: that is some insane self-destructive behavior. Absolutely disgusting on OP’s part. This is why therapy should be normalized, people without therapy do this crap
Story 3: Yeah, I don’t get why some comments are mad at OP when she did nothing wrong.
The families are treating this baby more like a souvenir and putting it on a pedestal before it was even born. I don’t doubt they’d compare Seth and this child who never knew him.
OP decided to give up her child to a family that not only wanted them but will never hold these memories over them.
I wish the best for OP and her child both starting their new lives, even if it isn’t together.
3rd story: OP you could’ve moved away and given the baby to the parents and brother instead of making a mole hill into a mountain. I’m sure with enough time OP could’ve loved that baby and maybe even wanted to get involved with it if they wanted to, but they made a rushed (and tbh premature) decision to give it to strangers instead of family, also it seemed like OP was trying to trying her hardest to distract themselves from the situation instead of finding a good alternative to fix it, I know what happened to them was terrible and I’m sorry it happened to them but when you’re dealing with another persons life you can’t think that emotionally.
Sure the baby would’ve been set financially but OP unknowingly deprived the baby of getting to know their other parent (even though they passed) but I suppose these circumstances happen for a reason. I hope everyone involved finds some sort of peace
Op is selfish and pushing away her support system because *check notes* boyfriend's parents wants to adopt the baby and her parents want to be in the babies life. Op it's just making her life so convoluted for no reason, I guess grief and pregnancy hormones make people do stupid s***.
So after giving the kid to her parents, is she supposed to go NC forever. Or do You expect her to go home and be tortured by the sight of the kid.
OP knows that she isn't in the position to be around the kid.
What makes you so sure that in time "she would love the baby."
OP has made arrangements for the baby. She feels that the couple will take good care and love the baby.
OP didn't turn a mole hill into a mountain.
She took the mountain.
@@lindah3803I don’t expect her to go no contact altogether but with time she could’ve recovered and have some ties with her child, and about the “turning a molehill into a mountain” comment I was referring to how OP cut off the family and brother who were willing to support her with the child but she chose to run away and give the child away anyhow. What happened to her was more than staggering on her mental health but again she’s still affecting others around her and causing unnecessary distress with both families
@@user-dd3kk1th4xstill how is she wrong for cutting them off? they're fuckin toxic as hell and would've hold that shit over her head
I don't think the parents understand Christianity, because how do you condone cheating and then judge your child for being LGBT... thats not how it works
every parents' threat of "stop this or else" should be answered with a defiant "Bring it. It's been a little boring lately. I could use the entertainment."
I mean... are we gonna still pretend that people putting religion up front as justification for their acts are not instantly at fault?
it's the 21st century, people... you're 300 years beyond outdated.
Unfortunately, when it comes to parents like this, they tend to forget that when they are making these threats, they are not talking to someone who they can tell to go to their room. A lot of parents have difficulty comprehending that their adult children are *adults.*
The funny part is that they forget who can cut them off easily over who can't.
11:05 why would you drive 80mph in snow, and then risk hyperthermia with cold and then heat, after a flipping drug binge?!
I’ve never ben the overly holy religious type I sin just as much as anyone else and still have my faith. but that being said to supposedly be strongly Christian and then support infidelity and betrayal like that that family is trash to the highest making.
Open adoption.....
Taking away their last link ti their son is so awful 💔💔😭
Why do you to family meeting when you know they will be there
Story 1 nta keep moving on and stay Nc with these selfish toxicity
Story 2 yta wtf is wrong with your decision y'all need therapy seriously
Story 3 nta but seriously talk to a therapist makes this decision more thoughtful
OP in story 3 is disgusting.
how?
Ok force birther
Yeah shes pretty gross.
QrincessQri is disgusting.
Why did she let other people adopt the child? Just give the baby to their grandparents and go NC
PLEASE STOP MAKING THE STORY 99 PERCENT COMMENTS ONE PERCENT STORY
uhm you do know a reddit story is but so long right? why is it an issue he adds some of the comments? just still past the damn comments
@@HeoBaby24 yeah when I do I end up skipping the update
@@HeoBaby24 who cares about “jimclaxatron456” telling a pregnant woman to do push ups
@@krazykrazy8513 okay? So? What's the issues then? Bro only puts like 5 comments. Either you listen or just don't and skip
@@HeoBaby24 5 too many WHO CARE
Wow. This is screwed up
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No one picks up the wrong phone and doesn't realize it's not the right one. Fake story.
Story may be fake, but the wrong phone thing is absolutely possible, especially when people have similar phone cases
You don't know what you're talking about.
He literally said that they have the exact same phone case.
Dude, I literally mistake mine and my buddies phone all the time. We both have androids with reddish leather cases.
No you have your own phone setup and things in certain places. You can't pick a different phone up from yours and not immediately know it's not mine.
gay
Same sex relationship.... gross
It’s 2024 who cares
Anime pfp…..gay
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