S1: I'm not seeing any point where OP made his disrespectful wife face any consequences for her choices. How does he even come back from losing all respect for her? He's making a mistake giving her another chance.
She mocked and disrespected your love, affection, devotion, and effort dedicated to her. She threw away what woman want, all to fit in with other women.
S1: You know, OP is literally the perfect man, but she just doesn't see it that way and doesn't even care... she's a POS. If OP really needs to show that he can act like a man, then he can just leave and never come back to the toxic relationship she has made and goes to find someone else who appreciates him.
I was raised similar like an encycopidia kid. Can say it takes a long time to unlearn once they get older, it took me a long time to unlearn it as a young adult.
S1: Without going NC with the most toxic people in her friend group, what use is this apology? He needs full disclosure on how long these sentiments have existed. And he should be the one taking the lead on finding a counsellor, not the wife.
S1: Once you feel the need to check this persons phone to see if they are cheating because of the broken trust, the damage has already been done and its not going to be the same again.
If the wife is bringing home the bacon and the husband is home most of the time he needs to do the majority of the house. She needs to value and respect his contribution, not mock him.
S1, she did not feel genuinely sorry, just sorry she got caught. She probably will get a new secret hp just to mock you with her friends and throw your lunch in the office.
Also: She might be cheating with a big-timer boss at her job. She is acting bitter and talking trash - to build an excuse to file for divorce, and go public with her affair partner at work, but.. She would have to pay OP alimony....She wants to be free with a man who eatns more money...😂
It's just going to be twice as bad next time. She just realized that as primary earner she will be paying you alimony and child support and backpedaled. But it's going to eat at her and she will escalate into cheating or domesticA. People never get better, they only get worse.
First off. She doesn't see you as a man how you thought she did is beyond me op. She never seen you as a man since you don't work n take care of the children n house. Either therapy or divorce.
For what, venting about his wife's behaviour? Or for having to face down the one of the inevitable Reddit Harpy subcultures where everything is always the man's fault?
S1: I'm not seeing any point where OP made his disrespectful wife face any consequences for her choices. How does he even come back from losing all respect for her? He's making a mistake giving her another chance.
thats why the wife dont respect him. he doesnt respect himself either
Thanks for saying this now I don’t have to waste 25 minutes of my time
Basically a SIMP, next time she will cheat bc he'll allow her back.
@@DSrDavis-tq9qp She didn't cheat. But she clearly doesn't feel much loyalty to OP, so I wouldn't put cheating past her in the future.
@@DrownedInExile I said next time she will bc he forgiven her once for the disrespect, she will look for the same consideration, by cheating
She mocked and disrespected your love, affection, devotion, and effort dedicated to her.
She threw away what woman want, all to fit in with other women.
Eh women say they want that stuff. When you give it to them it's never enough.
Story 1: She's just lovebombing OP. It won't last, she won't keep it up. She will fall back into her old patterns soon enough.
He has no self-respect at all, and he is all the things he believed he was. And she hates him lol what a stupid person op is. 😅
Good for him for finally taking a stand and being firm with his wife regarding their sons.
I'd sure like another update on story 1
Parents, the best thing you can do is teach your kids how to clean, cook, do laundry, make repairs.
You should also teach them to do those things for their own sake and not for the sake of others, lest they end up like OP in Story 1
The very idea of using someone for money while preparing for divorce is beyond disgusting.
S1: You know, OP is literally the perfect man, but she just doesn't see it that way and doesn't even care... she's a POS.
If OP really needs to show that he can act like a man, then he can just leave and never come back to the toxic relationship she has made and goes to find someone else who appreciates him.
I was raised similar like an encycopidia kid. Can say it takes a long time to unlearn once they get older, it took me a long time to unlearn it as a young adult.
S3: She stayed strictly for money, definition of a gold digger. Single mom, she's not getting remarried, just ran through.
If that's the primary themes you took from that story, you're hopeless.
@smallpseudonym2844 LoL. Yeah he was a POS, but which part did I lie about?
facts
plus she put her "happiness" above her kids
I think I saw an updated version of story 1 and he divorced her in the end.
S1: Without going NC with the most toxic people in her friend group, what use is this apology? He needs full disclosure on how long these sentiments have existed. And he should be the one taking the lead on finding a counsellor, not the wife.
S1: Once you feel the need to check this persons phone to see if they are cheating because of the broken trust, the damage has already been done and its not going to be the same again.
If the wife is bringing home the bacon and the husband is home most of the time he needs to do the majority of the house. She needs to value and respect his contribution, not mock him.
S1, she did not feel genuinely sorry, just sorry she got caught. She probably will get a new secret hp just to mock you with her friends and throw your lunch in the office.
24:30 LOL she really think somebody's going to marry her
Op wife is going to wonder why her kids go no contact when they are legally old enough to leave the house story2
Also: She might be cheating with a big-timer boss at her job.
She is acting bitter and talking trash - to build an excuse to file for divorce, and go public with her affair partner at work, but..
She would have to pay OP alimony....She wants to be free with a man who eatns more money...😂
It's just going to be twice as bad next time. She just realized that as primary earner she will be paying you alimony and child support and backpedaled. But it's going to eat at her and she will escalate into cheating or domesticA. People never get better, they only get worse.
she's been cheating for the longest time but op is blind
S1 just a wimpy doormat
Story 1: Simp chronicles
S1. Simp story
First off. She doesn't see you as a man how you thought she did is beyond me op. She never seen you as a man since you don't work n take care of the children n house. Either therapy or divorce.
He does work
S1 Dorrrrkkkk
S3 she would get half of 12000 that's not enough money leave when he has 200000 paid for her car and education she leaves yes she's a gold digger 😂😂
S3 Bwahahahaha!!!! Ask yourself WHY he did it, you are also a hypocrite and a gold digger.
Simp
S2: dude is a whiny guy
For what, venting about his wife's behaviour? Or for having to face down the one of the inevitable Reddit Harpy subcultures where everything is always the man's fault?