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As an INFJ i can relate but i like alone time in the great outdoors hunting etc I'm from a very rural and military background through most of my family i actually get on with people and help less fortunate people always been an outdoorsy person from childhood to this day but always help the people who are less fortunate tend to stand up for others could never stand backstabbers . I'm a very quiet guy always observing my surroundings taking everything in They say that the eyes are windows to the soul we love to suss people out before allowing them into our life . I've had people looking into my eyes ( but i don't stair at people it's a of a freaky thing to do ) most people say that my eyes are soulless My reply to them people is that my soul saw sense and left a long time ago But I've had some people see pain and lack of trust in people and an emptiness ( i have that for a very good reason life experiences But i don't let it dictate life to the extent of ruling life i don't let it stop me from being a decent person ) any way loved the video very fitting keep up the good work stay safe and well Godbless to you, myself and all the other good decent people wether INFJ's or not
How about this; the INFJ chameleon? I am an INFJ empath and i tend to mimic people with agendas from time to time. I started noticing it a few years ago. I use it as a defense mechanism.
@@loonregrettedit8135 just try to calm your mind down man, if you live in America sometimes certain activities can speed up the process, be smarter on how you treat your mind you can do it.
I like working with others and inspiring each other. If i wanna do music, i would like to have a band. My dad said he'll pay me some musicians to play with, but i also want the camaradrie that comes with having a band, not them being paid to be kind to me
I don't feel like the alpha too. I feel like I was Merlin mage to the king Arthur, or a paladin counselor of some king. Like I was guiding the "alpha" where I want he goes. I need the leader to make the bridge betwen me and the others and the alpha needs me to read the peoples and lead them effectively. We guide from the shadows.
It humors me how ppl pride themselves so much in calling others brainwashed sheep, being all anti government bc they can think for themselves as individuals & theyre all inquisitive and what not. And here we are... Just like that. When i said im all about my own identity, i actually meant that
I didn't know this existed!!I tried too hard to be an alpha,and i have some points of the "alpha" personality,but being too introverted and emotional has always made me question that. Think i just found more about myself now. Thank you🙂
Introspection is the true way to learn about yourself. These labels help guide us in understanding but they are limited. The variables from one person to another are too great to read a blanket statement and accept that as your true self. Let it help guide your introspection and seek balance.
I don't feel like the alpha too. I feel like I was Merlin mage to the king Arthur, or a paladin counselor of some king. Like I was guiding the "alpha" where I want he goes. I need the leader to make the bridge betwen me and the others and the alpha needs me to read the peoples and lead them effectively. We guide from the shadows.
I'm an INFJ-T, i must say that we are more of a Guide. We would like to help people not in a way that we would do it for them but making them do it by their own by guiding then in their decisions or paths also on something that they are facing so that they won't need us again. the problem is INFJs can be taken advantage of because we can't easily say no even if we do know we being taken for granted. also the thing that we want to be understood by others but the same the we don't want to be. we like people but also hates people. we love us but hate us. feels cool about being able to understand so many things but also become anxious and tired about it.
We see what other people can't see, cause and effect.. In other words, you reap what you sow, what goes around comes around, be careful of your choices in life... Due to the fact people can't see what we see, don't understand what we understand, they either, want to get away from us, they're intimidated or people that are simple-minded say we're nuts.. Once you become a mature INFJ, (if you're a mentally healthy INFJ, meaning addictions altered your mind), our (ESP)intuition is so strong you read people as they walk towards you..
I don't feel like the alpha too. I feel like I was Merlin mage to the king Arthur, or a paladin counselor of some king. Like I was guiding the "alpha" where I want he goes. I need the leader to make the bridge betwen me and the others and the alpha needs me to read the peoples and lead them effectively. We guide from the shadows.
Alpha's require Beta's and Delta's to form a pack, yet INFJ's are the Sigma as they can work with others, lead with authority and confidence, protect with their own lives but they prefer to not have others dependent upon them, if it does happen, however, the INFJ will pick up the mantle of Alpha without skipping a beat.
John King , yes I read somewhere that the INFJ would prefer not to be in the foreground but are able to pick up the mantle if that is what is needed at the time ,but will quickly move back when the need has been accomplished .
This is 100% true. I can say from experience I dont like being in front. Some people crave the power, the visibility. We don't care about such vain things. We want everybody onboard working towards the same goals and benefits. However, whenever needed, I'm confident enough to take on the challenge and privilege of leadership.
Im pretty bossy. but one that works from behind the action. It's like making strategies and let the pieces move. when needed to lead in front, I like to cover everything down to the very basics. Just don't expect me to spoonfeed you. I prefer letting them do things on their own and guide them on areas where it's only needed.
So about this stare. It's real. It's REALLY real. I'm a manager, INFJ - A, and my entire staff tells me I give this look, and I have no clue about it lol. But now that I'm aware, I'll work on that.
Infj-t do my fellow infjs also have a thing where theyre in a group of friends, a class, or just people in general when you start talking everyone just shuts up and listens to you. Ive been picking up on it more and more. I dont knoe if i should be weirded out or amazed.
I've always been the kid that asks questions and argues with the teacher. I cant help myself even though I get super embarrassed when the attention turns to me and I can feel the class getting annoyed. I need to know the answer to my questions, not just what will be on the test.
The reason why they turn their attention to us is because we make things look interesting. I recently found this out from an elderly lady who’s husband I cared for. She would watch me (at times it felt like an awkward stare when preparing supplies for sponge bath) so I just had to ask “ IS EVERYTHING OKAY ?” and she said “ I’M NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE OR ANYTHING. IT’S JUST INTERESTING THE WAY YOU DO THINGS. I COULD SHADOW YOU “ that was one of if not the best compliments I’ve ever had especially coming from an elderly woman.
As an INFJ I dislike formal leadership, but I find ways to smooth out confusion. I seek to make sense out of things for myself and for others, make order out of things, make the flow go easier, get people to stop fighting, enhance critical thinking in others and encourage cooperation. I'd rather sit in the corner and observe. ❤️
Ok, seems "INFJ-A" defines me BUT I AM and YOU ARE so much more than a label. Don't ever put yourself in a box. Find your purpose and enjoy the process! Be limitless!
Being an empath as well and intuitive INFJ!! We rarely let people read us! Mimick every peronality we are around! We use both hemispheres of our brain at the same time!!
Same here...becoz of that they are easily intimidated by me.. They thing i hate them or etc..but its something i do subconsciously ,i dont even want to scare them
We tend to read or listen between the lines that lead to the true meaning or motive from others which makes it easier to make a decision, which maybe viewed by the receiver as a positive or negative reply. As everything is viewed as either a threat or as a benefit for good. One thing I can't stand is people who or either fake (people who don't seek the truth or fact but reply on assumption) or laziness (people who feel the world owes them something as if they are entitled to why they don't deserve). I have been judged by some people as being harsh, but that is my way of wanting to do things the right way the first time as I view repeating anything is a big waste of time management.
I feel like INFJs are sometimes a Alpha and a Omega all together because we sometime lead by following behind the pack to observe others. In most cases Alpha males are extroverts, and INFJs are a mix depending on the mood and people around them. When INFJ lead they don’t want to be intrusive, they want to empower their followers through understanding and leaving them alone. I think when INFJ are more introvert they’re more the Sigma type, and when they’re more extrovert they’re more the Alpha type, but when they need to recharge they usually default back to Omega type.
As an INFJ-T, I never seek power, and it angers me when people do, some people. Perhaps I interpret thier motives impure or unsuitable for the job. I haven't had the opportunity to observe this, for a while, but when it does, I'll be looking at why.
Agreed! Also, Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till. Spread the word!
I think we work at at hundreds of times faster than most & this scares / confuses most people. As a manager I was as only as strong as the weakest member of my team. If it meant spending time to retrain them or guide them I made the time for them.
The last section on leadership was spot on. Being able to interpret others skills, strengths, and by extension weaknesses quickly, allows me guide team members to achieve their best, leading to the collective team success.
Definitely all related to - except I learned a few years ago to let people make mistakes or do things the way they can- but it still bugs me lmao I still keep my patience tho 😂
I feel that and I totally know what you mean, I recently had to quit a job because the other manager felt threatened, and he was trying to manipulate me to keep me in his little box of expectations - people still have their ways of doing things to get things done and mistakes are a part of life. and us allowing it even though it may not be exactly what we want. They're still doing their best to do what they can!
I definitely try to do all the work by myself because I want it done right the 1st time. No sense in having to go back and fix somebody else’s work lol
Incredibly accurate. But one thing that irritates an INFJ to no end is when they are asked how to proceed with something, then that person does NOT take the advice, which results in a new problem that needs help. Two rather than one. This may not lead to a door slam, but may result that person being "ghosted" for a few months.
I relate to everything. LOL. (long term thinking)..watching that part of the video then my mind started wandering to my future goals and what should I do this month to add in my plans.. You see, i plan to retire at 50.. from there, you can practically imagine what things i was thinking. LOL. I had to pause the vid because I lost track. haha. sareeee
Lol I find my mind always wondering off while I’m watching the video and I have to go back because my mind was somewhere else 😅😂 I definitely think long term too.
Don't get too caught up in these labels my friends. Our environment and personal growth path can easily change these things given enough time and effort. I typically find myself a balanced INFJ-A. Only the introversion stays relatively high for me. In any case, seeking balance is the key. For those too caught up in their own minds I suggest using various forms of meditation to master control over it.
Number 5 is super accurate. I think the whole 'alpha' thing really is about being so aware of the human condition that when other people are in odd-predicaments we're confident in seeing a solution and getting back on track. We don't suffer like how other MBTI's suffer, we can survive though a lot so we're ready for anything.
I am an INFJ but I don’t believe at all we are the alphas regardless of these true traits. True alphas go after anything with determination and are usually well known leaders with a strong personality and very extroverted. A true INFJ is usually hiding from the world even though they know how to desquise this preference and can have these traits I mention as well. I have never met before an INFJ that is even interested in being an alpha and if he or she ends up being one they would prefer not to be in that situation.
If i spoke up on ppl itd be like jon is the overcompensating douchebag. He has a strong title. He low key that he likes it up the ass. Sally here, shes charming & knows what works for her. She low key has never been put in her place & seeks out dominating types. George here, hes the loudest. The assholes of all assholes. Bc low key anything makes him tick & hes insecure as hell. Betty here channels her masculinity. She has the look part down too. She believes the more uncommon she looks, the more depth she has. Low key, shes still that scared little girl inside. Phillip here is known to be too sensitive. Some might say hes feminine. Phillip lowkey kills small animals in the barnyard. Alexa here, shes a a complete cunt. So much, you wonder if theres any vulnerability to her. Or if shes just fronting. Shes one of 12 siblings. Her being they youngest, the baby girl, the only girl. Dan here is the hippie. He actually truly dont give any fs. He hasnt washed his hair since a yr ago & smokes pot way too much. He doesnt even know what yr it is, let alone whos even president. Jenny is the choose me girl. The boys love her fall all the wrong reasons. She low key loves it. She supports anything against her own what couldve been a good will. Steve here has never got attention his whole life. So he gets lost in his job to fill his void instead. He has no clue shannon has been madly in love w/ him since they were kids. Cynthia here, shes completely clueless to how beautiful she is. So she just keeps to herself. Reading literature that takes her mind somewhere else. Shes too kind. Everyone bullys her. Bob here is a meat head. He makes a living off his looks. They dont know that he uses roids & his pics are old. Now hes hormonal & he has man tits. Leeann here was born into wealth & shes attractive. She keeps winning. Shes the loneliest most empty of a shell person ever & is too scared to even go out. Ppl use her a lot. Donald here is a fn lunatic. Hes like Leann but sleeps & spoons weapons to help him sleep at night. His sleeping medication is strong. Rich as hell ... but is bankrupt & everybody hates him. Besides his faithful minions. Stefanie here actually worked her way too the top on her own. She has no idea why ppl fear her. Shes really sincere. Tyler here has done every sneaky manuever there ever was. He still lives at home w/ his mom. Shes fallen ill & laying on her death bed. Brenda here truly think shes entitlted. Shes been poor her whole life & has never worked. Shes an addict. Kyle here has no sense of self. He tells ppl whatever he thinks they want to here. Kyle is really popular. Tracy here lies so much, she even fools her self. She has a lot of confidence. Shane here has all the ladies. Ppl cant figure out why. Hes broke as hell. He has a lot of sugar mommas. Renee is one of them. Renee here, shes a cougar. Shes been controlled her whole life, for once she wants control. She walks david around on a leash behind closed doors on the side. David lowkey is the city mayor. Danqthyn here is a mixture of a lot of things. Shes really consistent in her chamillion like ways. Thats unnerving.,,,,,,,,,, And what did we learn here today kids? There is no right one answer, that fits all.
I feel like you're generalizing. Some may not look for leadership, others do. Also, the classic drive for justice in whatever context neans we often end up in leadership roles accidentally - because we saw patterns and predicted things ahead of people, and because we tend to help others. I think you're judging by your own experiences, which is usual, but I don't think it's a true representation of INFJs.
Ur right im an infj and a leo but i hate being in limelight infact im the opposite im not very self confident but deep down im very confident and not a bit insecure which is typically an infj contradicting yourself!!!!! Im not a show off or big headed the opposite but im defo infj iv found only months ago iv got all the traits im nearly always right but dont boast i naturally know what's right and wrong without doubt i can often know what someone will do or say based on intuition and i only talk about relevant issues or only speak truth always i talk about interesting and quirky things that most others do not i imagine things and scenarios that no one else does!!!!! True infjs know what i mean but im tortured bothered about way i am sometimes its not easy being me
Yes i don't hide away cuz im shy or intimidated or any insecurities at all it's cuz i choose to infact often im outrageous and shock peeps quite often i do it on purpose sometimes cuz i like to shock peeps they don't expect it at all cuz im usually quite unless i find someone who talk about something that interests me
Lies. Infj is THE alpha. That quiet confidence associated with the average infj is someone afraid to perform horribly. A real infj is like a very alpha type person and they are not to be trifled with. We can make the intjs strategy fall under its own weight if we catch wind someone is screwing us. We will sell their child down the river, figuratively and literally if we allow our hatred to consume us enough. Infjs aren’t this rainbows and sunshine we are told we are. We can actually be the worst type as well. Hitler was infj for example.
As an INFJ-A, I don't like everyone being dependant on me, I'd rather teach them how to fly and then fade into the background until you need me. However, I also get the urge to "lead" when the current leader isn't the best... I hate seeing other people lead others astray. Will. Not. Stand. For. It. Anyone else?
Yeah, as an infj, i get a lot of comments like "you should interact often" or "speak up." I remember at school no one actually took me seriously and the smarter ones were very obvious that they were smart. But when we had a recitation and some debates, they were actually shocked. My adviser even have to tell other teachers to call me for recitation because I have good insights but just doesn't participate too much unless I'm called. Lol. I tend to have hope that at some way I could change the world behind the scenes. The people in general. Like the way they behave or think or feel. Maybe inspire them to do better. Infj stuffs
I used to never be able to fall asleep without listening to music because my mind would think too much. Having music at least makes me narrow the thinking to one topic at a time to help me fall asleep
You wouldn't believe where our mind's take us. It's more complex than you can imagine and even we INFJ'S can get lost there from time to time. It's our happy place where we can be anything we want to be.
INFJs seem to have most in common with the Sigma archetype. We don’t like to be bossed around and we don’t like the idea of bossing others around either. Instead of telling someone what to do INFJs and Sigmas would much rather share their insight with someone in the hopes that it might help them choose the path that is best for themselves. INFJs and Sigmas are more interested in the deeper meanings and implications of their thoughts and actions rather than how they might effect their social status. Sigmas can be even better leaders than Alphas because power only interests them insofar as what can be done with it.
I Been working since 2008.... No saving no House no car single Dad born without real mother and father...Senior high level of school..A lot of trouble mistake in life happen...But In my mind am proud to tell you that I am successful now...Did i am a INFJ?
Sudhansh Pandey T is an immature and self-conscious type and -A is a mature and self-confident type. Both INFJ-A and INFJ-T are INFJs and act like INFJs in every situation, but they will be slightly different from each other by comparison. Basically the infj a is more matured and is much more relaxed/understanding and emotionally stable
It's quite amazing how accurate you are. I know these things about myself innately, but would have real problems to articulate it like you do!! Thank you so much WWG1WGA 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
Agreed! Also, Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till. Spread the word!
Me too. I dont judge them tho, I just stare at them unconciously. Nothing comes in my mind while doing it and get accused of being intimidated. I cant help it. Im sorry. 😂
This a tricky question. To me, whoever is the most wise should guide the rest to the right decision. I also think that everyone has s o m e valuable information in them, and we all have different life-experiences, and different talents, so i think listening to other peoples input is vital to making the best decision for the group. So-over time, i think a person who seems wise enough, wellbalanced decisions, not too coloured by ego, or , other prejudice, or personal agendas, should naturally somehow emerge as a leader. a lot of people mistake arrogance for confidence though. And sometimes a leader needs to be able fight back, bite back if attacked, be able to incorporate ” the dark side” of psychology so to speak, which is something i have had to learn, and i think i have gotten better at. But it has come through a lot of encounters with ”not so nice people. ”
I Relate to every point. Wow. Thank you for your positive focus. I know I can lead but I always think in a "family I never had" kinda way... loving + firm SUPPORT to all, not "boss". The world is a big family. Create that . That's deeply idealistic i know but an unstoppable theme within my soul.. I just don't agree with or truly "get" the attachment to power differences actually. It's an uncomfortable barrier. Sad. Duality. "Authority" It's a dirty word::to me. I know all about burnout...all or nothing for sure...I've been reckless with my health in my past as a workaholic so..balance /support is crucial.... Much appreciated.
Hey could u please do a vedio about why infj always drawn to negatively while a lot of positive things are around them.....why we are always down when negative things happen?....
Thanks for the insight. Saw videos on alphas and sigma didn't fit their profile but this one fits accurately. People asked me how I make decisions and everything work out to a degree of success. I would say it's one of 3 things or all together at the same time. 1 I am crazy or 2 to ignorant to know better or 3 I believe it to be true. Thank you for explaining and other videos that I just processed stimuli different and intuition is what drives my decision and goal chievements
I worked in Cardiac ICU for over 10 years and then went on to get master's degree in nursing despite the fact that others actually told me I couldn't. I knew myself well enough to know that I could. "Power doesn't talk it acts."
No, not Alpha, Sigma is closer to the personality you are trying to describe. However,, after watching some of your videos, I know you are not an INFJ.
sometimes i overthinking the future. and i also think about wasn't it that's God's job not mine ? i just a human, why not just enjoy this beautiful current living life... God can see the future and so the Children of God
The perfectionistic part of this is NOT me. I have remarked more than once that I am grateful that I am not a perfectionist b/c perfection is an unattainable goal.
I felt that perceived "intimidating" look.. until my boss got used to me he used to be telling me what to do and would joke and look behind him like I was staring straight through him 😂
Every thing resonates I'm blown away! I mean to the T it's who I am completely. I'm a different person overbearing but unconditionally loving. Every video confirm
Know what really hurts me, it's when I am about to burst out crying and people assume I am angry. I must be honest but I don't think highly of myself. Reason why I did the test, is to see who I am and why I feel like a lost fart in a factory. I feel completely misunderstood. I truly just want the best for others and obviously myself. When others are happy, then I am happy. Thanks my friend. ❤🌹
Others see me as a leader although i don t intend to be one. I preffer respectful cooperation. But because of all tge traits mentioned in your video, which i admit to have and come to me very natural, both friends and enemies respect me and get insired. Most important, they do become better and independent so that i can move on and make progress. I foznd out about the mbti recently, i am 54 now and must admit it s correct. Also about other types. Additionally i must mention that even if i try no to show leadership skills, the others notice and give me the most responsible positions. And always come for advice.
I’m Guilty of the stare😇😈 I try not too but I can’t help myself. It’s the little details, always analyzing my thoughts never rest. Would love to meet another INFJ one day.
I’m an INFJ (not mistype) and I’ll tell you this. INFJs don’t seek leadership, but we won’t mind taking over if we see others doing a poor job or not caring about those in positions under them. I’d rather be a Sigma (do my own thing and be alpha of myself and my own life). But if there is an abusive, narcissistic person in a leadership position who cares more about themself than the people under them, then I’ll gladly become alpha or leader to make sure it’s done better.
As an INFJ , speaking for myself, I Lead by example. Not by persuasion, or pushing my values on anybody . I’m only a leader within myself, I do , what works for me. Different situations calls for different ideas. I Allow others to think for themselves. A leader to myself , allowing others to be creative in their own thinking, People who come in contact with INFJ , get the wrong impression, of INFJ. Everybody has values In which they can share. I think everybody should be leaders , sharing their ideas. . As whole unit. always looking for improvements, Inventions, and plans, strategies does not stem from one leader , group or organizations. No leader is an island to himself. And includes Thoses who not leaders. But to be leader, one must be humble and kind, and not to be overwhelming,. But if one is an doubt, ask questions From your so called leader. But Leader should ask questions , when in doubt. That shows he doesn’t know everything, that’s being humble
It’s good to ask questions when in doubt. Whether your INFJ or other. To be a leader to others, would actually drain INFJ , he need time to recharge his battery, He needs his time and time to meditate, All people need their space and time, allow people to think for themselves Don’t be a handicapped wheel or crutches in peoples life’s by thinking for them, let them think and express themselves, so allowing Freewill and expression, . Just lead by example, so if they have questions, let them come to you, for answers or otherwise.
additional thought INFJ needs focus and concentration, not distraction and ghosting, it would not be wise , for INFJ not to be leader toward thoses who have negative view of him and her, it would draining or sap his energy , it would stripped him from his title, (THE LONE WOLF)
Review Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: one up manship, pecking order/ penis size of being 'The Alpha' is pubescent thinking in the overall arc of ones' psychological maturation towards Self Actualization.
This article is correct--except that Te is at least as 'alpha' in the colloquial sense as Ne (and also alpha has a specific meaning in cognitive typology; it's a quadra, and INFJ is a beta introvert). INFJ is Se inferior, Te PolR and Ne ignoring; it's unquestionably one of the least colloquially 'alpha' types. typevolution.com/2018/07/08/which-mbti-type-is-the-most-alpha/ Anyway, so you chose the pictures you chose for this video because...?
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As an INFJ i can relate but i like alone time in the great outdoors hunting etc I'm from a very rural and military background through most of my family i actually get on with people and help less fortunate people always been an outdoorsy person from childhood to this day but always help the people who are less fortunate tend to stand up for others could never stand backstabbers . I'm a very quiet guy always observing my surroundings taking everything in They say that the eyes are windows to the soul we love to suss people out before allowing them into our life . I've had people looking into my eyes ( but i don't stair at people it's a of a freaky thing to do ) most people say that my eyes are soulless My reply to them people is that my soul saw sense and left a long time ago But I've had some people see pain and lack of trust in people and an emptiness ( i have that for a very good reason life experiences But i don't let it dictate life to the extent of ruling life i don't let it stop me from being a decent person ) any way loved the video very fitting keep up the good work stay safe and well Godbless to you, myself and all the other good decent people wether INFJ's or not
How about this; the INFJ chameleon? I am an INFJ empath and i tend to mimic people with agendas from time to time. I started noticing it a few years ago. I use it as a defense mechanism.
@@Bobby-W. that a good thing to do and it works well
. . . A very fundamental misinterpretation
being stated here ... N O T ' A l p h a ' ...
' S I G M A ' - The opposite end of the
spectrum . . .
Namaste
As an INFJ-T I don't think I'm a leader or a follower. But, I want to be an inspirer.
Like Yoda
And thats why we are seen as the alpha
Lead by example and inspire... You don't need to be a boss to do it :)
i like to try but yet 😕
@@loonregrettedit8135 just try to calm your mind down man, if you live in America sometimes certain activities can speed up the process, be smarter on how you treat your mind you can do it.
Walk quietly but carry a big stick. INFJs don't like to be bossy though. We'd rather work "with" someone.
@Kountry Star Only when they aren't team players themselves
exactly
Ahhahaha with. Yes.
I like working with others and inspiring each other. If i wanna do music, i would like to have a band. My dad said he'll pay me some musicians to play with, but i also want the camaradrie that comes with having a band, not them being paid to be kind to me
I don't feel like the alpha too. I feel like I was Merlin mage to the king Arthur, or a paladin counselor of some king. Like I was guiding the "alpha" where I want he goes. I need the leader to make the bridge betwen me and the others and the alpha needs me to read the peoples and lead them effectively. We guide from the shadows.
As an INFJ A I've always felt like I was a natural leader . I dont seek leadership but I always end up being one
INFJ-A too
im an infj-a too
So true
Yes me too
I am an INFJ -A too
This is true. My mind never stops. It can slow down, but never stops. I do rather love dreaming about the future.
Id love to know about your mind
Same hehehe
Over think about truth and your third eye will fully open!?
Facts. #INFJGang
sometimes an hour rest ( my thing 😘😌)
1: independent
2: Decisiveness , attention to details
3: long term thinking , think ahead
4: penetrating soul searching Stares
5: Quiet nature , silent observation
6: high standards , perfection
7: Leadership
Infj are so attractive
You're a godsend ❤️
When everybody is having a conversation, and suddenly i start thinking. I go to a different world , u nailed that one.
Lol I got to try extra hard sometimes to stay in the present.
Damn straight we can't even sleep on time because of thinking 😂😂
It humors me how ppl pride themselves so much in calling others brainwashed sheep, being all anti government bc they can think for themselves as individuals & theyre all inquisitive and what not.
And here we are... Just like that. When i said im all about my own identity, i actually meant that
@@ahhwe-any7434 what?
same here / know exactly what you say i do the same thing
I'd say we're closer to what one would call "Sigma". It's basically the introverted (strong and silent) version of the "Alpha".
I didn't know this existed!!I tried too hard to be an alpha,and i have some points of the "alpha" personality,but being too introverted and emotional has always made me question that. Think i just found more about myself now.
Thank you🙂
@@AnaLu07 We live and learn. Embrace your authentic self! ;)
Introspection is the true way to learn about yourself. These labels help guide us in understanding but they are limited. The variables from one person to another are too great to read a blanket statement and accept that as your true self. Let it help guide your introspection and seek balance.
I agree, alpha are more flexing and extroverted, sigma are both, but meek and amibvert or more introverted
I don't feel like the alpha too. I feel like I was Merlin mage to the king Arthur, or a paladin counselor of some king. Like I was guiding the "alpha" where I want he goes. I need the leader to make the bridge betwen me and the others and the alpha needs me to read the peoples and lead them effectively. We guide from the shadows.
I'm an INFJ-T, i must say that we are more of a Guide. We would like to help people not in a way that we would do it for them but making them do it by their own by guiding then in their decisions or paths also on something that they are facing so that they won't need us again.
the problem is INFJs can be taken advantage of because we can't easily say no even if we do know we being taken for granted.
also the thing that we want to be understood by others but the same the we don't want to be. we like people but also hates people. we love us but hate us. feels cool about being able to understand so many things but also become anxious and tired about it.
We see what other people can't see, cause and effect..
In other words, you reap what you sow, what goes around comes around, be careful of your choices in life...
Due to the fact people can't see what we see, don't understand what we understand, they either, want to get away from us, they're intimidated or people that are simple-minded say we're nuts..
Once you become a mature INFJ, (if you're a mentally healthy INFJ, meaning addictions altered your mind), our (ESP)intuition is so strong you read people as they walk towards you..
I don't feel like the alpha too. I feel like I was Merlin mage to the king Arthur, or a paladin counselor of some king. Like I was guiding the "alpha" where I want he goes. I need the leader to make the bridge betwen me and the others and the alpha needs me to read the peoples and lead them effectively. We guide from the shadows.
Well said🙏🏻 infj-t myself 🤚🏻
I'm INFJT too. I don't want to lead but guide
The best leaders guide!
Alpha's require Beta's and Delta's to form a pack, yet INFJ's are the Sigma as they can work with others, lead with authority and confidence, protect with their own lives but they prefer to not have others dependent upon them, if it does happen, however, the INFJ will pick up the mantle of Alpha without skipping a beat.
John King , yes I read somewhere that the INFJ would prefer not to be in the foreground but are able to pick up the mantle if that is what is needed at the time ,but will quickly move back when the need has been accomplished .
You elaborated beautifully and accurately. Yes, indeed.
This is 100% true. I can say from experience I dont like being in front. Some people crave the power, the visibility. We don't care about such vain things. We want everybody onboard working towards the same goals and benefits. However, whenever needed, I'm confident enough to take on the challenge and privilege of leadership.
Im pretty bossy. but one that works from behind the action. It's like making strategies and let the pieces move. when needed to lead in front, I like to cover everything down to the very basics. Just don't expect me to spoonfeed you. I prefer letting them do things on their own and guide them on areas where it's only needed.
@@dimpledimple5545 only you who uses "I" as the main subject. The others prefer to eventually use "they" / "we" / "The INFJ".
A happy personality with a sad soul
That's what we are
Due to disappointing humanity (complicit, unintelligent [failed] empaths), and Cluster-B/narcissits/ ESFJ and ESTJ.
Sad soul? Maybe the infj-t but the infj-a doesn't brood.
So about this stare. It's real. It's REALLY real. I'm a manager, INFJ - A, and my entire staff tells me I give this look, and I have no clue about it lol. But now that I'm aware, I'll work on that.
I also get this 😆
I get that a lot 😅
can confirm
Infj-t do my fellow infjs also have a thing where theyre in a group of friends, a class, or just people in general when you start talking everyone just shuts up and listens to you. Ive been picking up on it more and more. I dont knoe if i should be weirded out or amazed.
Haha same here.
Ikr it keeps on happening to me but sometimes it makes me feel like I said something weird or something that just doesn't make any sense
Exactlyyy
I've always been the kid that asks questions and argues with the teacher. I cant help myself even though I get super embarrassed when the attention turns to me and I can feel the class getting annoyed. I need to know the answer to my questions, not just what will be on the test.
The reason why they turn their attention to us is because we make things look interesting. I recently found this out from an elderly lady who’s husband I cared for. She would watch me (at times it felt like an awkward stare when preparing supplies for sponge bath) so I just had to ask
“ IS EVERYTHING OKAY ?”
and she said
“ I’M NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE OR ANYTHING. IT’S JUST INTERESTING THE WAY YOU DO THINGS. I COULD SHADOW YOU “
that was one of if not the best compliments I’ve ever had especially coming from an elderly woman.
As an INFJ I dislike formal leadership, but I find ways to smooth out confusion. I seek to make sense out of things for myself and for others, make order out of things, make the flow go easier, get people to stop fighting, enhance critical thinking in others and encourage cooperation. I'd rather sit in the corner and observe. ❤️
Ok, seems "INFJ-A" defines me BUT I AM and YOU ARE so much more than a label. Don't ever put yourself in a box. Find your purpose and enjoy the process! Be limitless!
Agreed, but finding out what box you may be in can help you out of it.
Being an empath as well and intuitive INFJ!! We rarely let people read us! Mimick every peronality we are around! We use both hemispheres of our brain at the same time!!
This channel has become my emotional support system as an INFJ, while I am always there for others. Thank you so much for your videos. 🙏🏼✨
Ok this was ON POINT!!!! Especially the part about being a perfectionist and holding not only myself but others at high standards.
Very much so!
Penetrating soul searching stare. 😂 I do that all the time. And some ppl will loose their confidence.
They better tighten it up then
Same here...becoz of that they are easily intimidated by me.. They thing i hate them or etc..but its something i do subconsciously ,i dont even want to scare them
😂 😂 😂
Don't know about alpha, infj are more likely true sigma
How many times have I waited for someone to leave the office or a room in general, just so that I can redo a task we were doing together... To many!
Totally relatable 🤣
Even in my house 😂😂
Too many...
We tend to read or listen between the lines that lead to the true meaning or motive from others which makes it easier to make a decision, which maybe viewed by the receiver as a positive or negative reply. As everything is viewed as either a threat or as a benefit for good. One thing I can't stand is people who or either fake (people who don't seek the truth or fact but reply on assumption) or laziness (people who feel the world owes them something as if they are entitled to why they don't deserve). I have been judged by some people as being harsh, but that is my way of wanting to do things the right way the first time as I view repeating anything is a big waste of time management.
I feel like INFJs are sometimes a Alpha and a Omega all together because we sometime lead by following behind the pack to observe others. In most cases Alpha males are extroverts, and INFJs are a mix depending on the mood and people around them. When INFJ lead they don’t want to be intrusive, they want to empower their followers through understanding and leaving them alone. I think when INFJ are more introvert they’re more the Sigma type, and when they’re more extrovert they’re more the Alpha type, but when they need to recharge they usually default back to Omega type.
As an INFJ-T, I never seek power, and it angers me when people do, some people.
Perhaps I interpret thier motives impure or unsuitable for the job. I haven't had the opportunity to observe this, for a while, but when it does, I'll be looking at why.
I am the same
infj-t i don't seek power and like you bossy people anger me mainly when they push me to act like them/i am me and i don't force people to be like me
@@melanie.l6282 Yes. :)
@@awakenthechosen if he's a healthy INFJ, then that friend obtaining power would be a blessing to humanity.
Agreed!
Also, Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
Spread the word!
I think we work at at hundreds of times faster than most & this scares / confuses most people. As a manager I was as only as strong as the weakest member of my team. If it meant spending time to retrain them or guide them I made the time for them.
Remember everyone. Mel Gibson was shunned in Hollywood for speaking his prophetic truth
No... I'm pretty sure it was because of his racist rant his ex publicized.. 😆🤣
The last section on leadership was spot on. Being able to interpret others skills, strengths, and by extension weaknesses quickly, allows me guide team members to achieve their best, leading to the collective team success.
Hi I am an INFJ-A! Every Detail in this video is so relatable!
Definitely all related to - except I learned a few years ago to let people make mistakes or do things the way they can- but it still bugs me lmao I still keep my patience tho 😂
I feel that and I totally know what you mean, I recently had to quit a job because the other manager felt threatened, and he was trying to manipulate me to keep me in his little box of expectations - people still have their ways of doing things to get things done and mistakes are a part of life. and us allowing it even though it may not be exactly what we want. They're still doing their best to do what they can!
Can I just say confidence + quite does not equal timidity for most people. Confidence + quite computes as arrogance to most. Trust me I know.
I definitely try to do all the work by myself because I want it done right the 1st time. No sense in having to go back and fix somebody else’s work lol
Incredibly accurate.
But one thing that irritates an INFJ to no end is when they are asked how to proceed with something, then that person does NOT take the advice, which results in a new problem that needs help. Two rather than one.
This may not lead to a door slam, but may result that person being "ghosted" for a few months.
I relate to everything. LOL. (long term thinking)..watching that part of the video then my mind started wandering to my future goals and what should I do this month to add in my plans.. You see, i plan to retire at 50.. from there, you can practically imagine what things i was thinking. LOL. I had to pause the vid because I lost track. haha. sareeee
Lol I find my mind always wondering off while I’m watching the video and I have to go back because my mind was somewhere else 😅😂 I definitely think long term too.
Don't get too caught up in these labels my friends. Our environment and personal growth path can easily change these things given enough time and effort. I typically find myself a balanced INFJ-A. Only the introversion stays relatively high for me. In any case, seeking balance is the key. For those too caught up in their own minds I suggest using various forms of meditation to master control over it.
Again, brilliant video. Thank you :)
Number 5 is super accurate.
I think the whole 'alpha' thing really is about being so aware of the human condition that when other people are in odd-predicaments we're confident in seeing a solution and getting back on track. We don't suffer like how other MBTI's suffer, we can survive though a lot so we're ready for anything.
I am an INFJ but I don’t believe at all we are the alphas regardless of these true traits.
True alphas go after anything with determination and are usually well known leaders with a strong personality and very extroverted.
A true INFJ is usually hiding from the world even though they know how to desquise this preference and can have these traits I mention as well.
I have never met before an INFJ that is even interested in being an alpha and if he or she ends up being one they would prefer not to be in that situation.
If i spoke up on ppl itd be like jon is the overcompensating douchebag. He has a strong title. He low key that he likes it up the ass. Sally here, shes charming & knows what works for her. She low key has never been put in her place & seeks out dominating types. George here, hes the loudest. The assholes of all assholes. Bc low key anything makes him tick & hes insecure as hell. Betty here channels her masculinity. She has the look part down too. She believes the more uncommon she looks, the more depth she has. Low key, shes still that scared little girl inside. Phillip here is known to be too sensitive. Some might say hes feminine. Phillip lowkey kills small animals in the barnyard. Alexa here, shes a a complete cunt. So much, you wonder if theres any vulnerability to her. Or if shes just fronting. Shes one of 12 siblings. Her being they youngest, the baby girl, the only girl. Dan here is the hippie. He actually truly dont give any fs. He hasnt washed his hair since a yr ago & smokes pot way too much. He doesnt even know what yr it is, let alone whos even president. Jenny is the choose me girl. The boys love her fall all the wrong reasons. She low key loves it. She supports anything against her own what couldve been a good will. Steve here has never got attention his whole life. So he gets lost in his job to fill his void instead. He has no clue shannon has been madly in love w/ him since they were kids. Cynthia here, shes completely clueless to how beautiful she is. So she just keeps to herself. Reading literature that takes her mind somewhere else. Shes too kind. Everyone bullys her. Bob here is a meat head. He makes a living off his looks. They dont know that he uses roids & his pics are old. Now hes hormonal & he has man tits. Leeann here was born into wealth & shes attractive. She keeps winning. Shes the loneliest most empty of a shell person ever & is too scared to even go out. Ppl use her a lot. Donald here is a fn lunatic. Hes like Leann but sleeps & spoons weapons to help him sleep at night. His sleeping medication is strong. Rich as hell ... but is bankrupt & everybody hates him. Besides his faithful minions. Stefanie here actually worked her way too the top on her own. She has no idea why ppl fear her. Shes really sincere. Tyler here has done every sneaky manuever there ever was. He still lives at home w/ his mom. Shes fallen ill & laying on her death bed. Brenda here truly think shes entitlted. Shes been poor her whole life & has never worked. Shes an addict. Kyle here has no sense of self. He tells ppl whatever he thinks they want to here. Kyle is really popular. Tracy here lies so much, she even fools her self. She has a lot of confidence. Shane here has all the ladies. Ppl cant figure out why. Hes broke as hell. He has a lot of sugar mommas. Renee is one of them. Renee here, shes a cougar. Shes been controlled her whole life, for once she wants control. She walks david around on a leash behind closed doors on the side. David lowkey is the city mayor. Danqthyn here is a mixture of a lot of things. Shes really consistent in her chamillion like ways. Thats unnerving.,,,,,,,,,,
And what did we learn here today kids? There is no right one answer, that fits all.
I feel like you're generalizing. Some may not look for leadership, others do. Also, the classic drive for justice in whatever context neans we often end up in leadership roles accidentally - because we saw patterns and predicted things ahead of people, and because we tend to help others.
I think you're judging by your own experiences, which is usual, but I don't think it's a true representation of INFJs.
Ur right im an infj and a leo but i hate being in limelight infact im the opposite im not very self confident but deep down im very confident and not a bit insecure which is typically an infj contradicting yourself!!!!! Im not a show off or big headed the opposite but im defo infj iv found only months ago iv got all the traits im nearly always right but dont boast i naturally know what's right and wrong without doubt i can often know what someone will do or say based on intuition and i only talk about relevant issues or only speak truth always i talk about interesting and quirky things that most others do not i imagine things and scenarios that no one else does!!!!! True infjs know what i mean but im tortured bothered about way i am sometimes its not easy being me
Yes i don't hide away cuz im shy or intimidated or any insecurities at all it's cuz i choose to infact often im outrageous and shock peeps quite often i do it on purpose sometimes cuz i like to shock peeps they don't expect it at all cuz im usually quite unless i find someone who talk about something that interests me
Lies. Infj is THE alpha. That quiet confidence associated with the average infj is someone afraid to perform horribly. A real infj is like a very alpha type person and they are not to be trifled with. We can make the intjs strategy fall under its own weight if we catch wind someone is screwing us. We will sell their child down the river, figuratively and literally if we allow our hatred to consume us enough. Infjs aren’t this rainbows and sunshine we are told we are. We can actually be the worst type as well. Hitler was infj for example.
I become super stressed, everything gets super expensive.
As an INFJ-A, I don't like everyone being dependant on me, I'd rather teach them how to fly and then fade into the background until you need me. However, I also get the urge to "lead" when the current leader isn't the best... I hate seeing other people lead others astray. Will. Not. Stand. For. It. Anyone else?
Yeah, as an infj, i get a lot of comments like "you should interact often" or "speak up." I remember at school no one actually took me seriously and the smarter ones were very obvious that they were smart. But when we had a recitation and some debates, they were actually shocked. My adviser even have to tell other teachers to call me for recitation because I have good insights but just doesn't participate too much unless I'm called. Lol.
I tend to have hope that at some way I could change the world behind the scenes. The people in general. Like the way they behave or think or feel. Maybe inspire them to do better. Infj stuffs
I used to never be able to fall asleep without listening to music because my mind would think too much. Having music at least makes me narrow the thinking to one topic at a time to help me fall asleep
You wouldn't believe where our mind's take us. It's more complex than you can imagine and even we INFJ'S can get lost there from time to time. It's our happy place where we can be anything we want to be.
INFJs seem to have most in common with the Sigma archetype. We don’t like to be bossed around and we don’t like the idea of bossing others around either. Instead of telling someone what to do INFJs and Sigmas would much rather share their insight with someone in the hopes that it might help them choose the path that is best for themselves. INFJs and Sigmas are more interested in the deeper meanings and implications of their thoughts and actions rather than how they might effect their social status. Sigmas can be even better leaders than Alphas because power only interests them insofar as what can be done with it.
I Been working since 2008.... No saving no House no car single Dad born without real mother and father...Senior high level of school..A lot of trouble mistake in life happen...But In my mind am proud to tell you that I am successful now...Did i am a INFJ?
Sometimes I just want to switch off my brain and get some rest!
Infj A here....nicely presented....
Me...infj T.
@@silentsky2546 ohh nice to meet u🙌🙂🙂
@@silentsky2546 that makes 2 of us.
@@silentsky2546 i am also injf-t but what is the difference between infj A and infj t
Sudhansh Pandey T is an immature and self-conscious type and -A is a mature and self-confident type. Both INFJ-A and INFJ-T are INFJs and act like INFJs in every situation, but they will be slightly different from each other by comparison. Basically the infj a is more matured and is much more relaxed/understanding and emotionally stable
Absolutely 💯 agreed 🤝. Being stern to bring out the best in people through inspiration. 🙏 💘
Want to add that I'm ONLY quiet when it isn't someone I know very well. Once I become really comfortable with someone I never shut up.
It's quite amazing how accurate you are. I know these things about myself innately, but would have real problems to articulate it like you do!! Thank you so much WWG1WGA 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
Such great timing of this video. Powerful times to be upgrading the internal systems and this was a helpful confirmation. 🖤
Agreed!
Also, Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
Spread the word!
As an INFJ, leadership comes naturally to me.
Creepy AF. I really am a weird one. This sounds like my whole life in flashback.
100% correct .I
NFJ is a successful leader behind the screen expecting nothing in return. but gratification.
I always wondered why I stare at people lol
Me too. I dont judge them tho, I just stare at them unconciously. Nothing comes in my mind while doing it and get accused of being intimidated. I cant help it. Im sorry. 😂
Fair point, well made. Probably designed to be leaders, but we don't cheat to get there, we're hardwired to do so.
I get it Man, with a lot détails, informative, Thank you for sharing
This a tricky question. To me, whoever is the most wise should guide the rest to the right decision. I also think that everyone has s o m e valuable information in them, and we all have different life-experiences, and different talents, so i think listening to other peoples input is vital to making the best decision for the group. So-over time, i think a person who seems wise enough, wellbalanced decisions, not too coloured by ego, or , other prejudice, or personal agendas, should naturally somehow emerge as a leader.
a lot of people mistake arrogance for confidence though.
And sometimes a leader needs to be able fight back, bite back if attacked, be able to incorporate ” the dark side” of psychology so to speak, which is something i have had to learn, and i think i have gotten better at. But it has come through a lot of encounters with ”not so nice people. ”
I can trip a man with this stare half a block away or I can keep him from falling on a slippery floor/ice.
I Relate to every point. Wow. Thank you for your positive focus. I know I can lead but I always think in a "family I never had" kinda way... loving + firm SUPPORT to all, not "boss". The world is a big family. Create that . That's deeply idealistic i know but an unstoppable theme within my soul.. I just don't agree with or truly "get" the attachment to power differences actually. It's an uncomfortable barrier. Sad. Duality. "Authority" It's a dirty word::to me. I know all about burnout...all or nothing for sure...I've been reckless with my health in my past as a workaholic so..balance /support is crucial.... Much appreciated.
Im going to be one of those famous INFJ people.. thanks for seeing me and understanding me..
Hey could u please do a vedio about why infj always drawn to negatively while a lot of positive things are around them.....why we are always down when negative things happen?....
I Will put that on our list. Stay tuned. Subscribe and hit the bell so you get notified when that one will be up.
@@OnTrack101 ya already done🙌👏
Because we are helpers, even against are better judgement.
@@hugmc
The "curse" of problem solving; first you must know the problem and know it well
Thanks for the insight. Saw videos on alphas and sigma didn't fit their profile but this one fits accurately. People asked me how I make decisions and everything work out to a degree of success. I would say it's one of 3 things or all together at the same time. 1 I am crazy or 2 to ignorant to know better or 3 I believe it to be true. Thank you for explaining and other videos that I just processed stimuli different and intuition is what drives my decision and goal chievements
So accurate and powerful!
We're the true alpha! We just so smooth with it. But women know when we show up ! It's on!
Well I'm infj and also a Leo so
Me too!!! Betcha we're the coolest of the infjs 😹
Same 😊
Me, as well! Leo the Lion!
I am an infj.This video makes me cry.💖
i admire Ghandi a non violent leader of a very complex country/ as a peaceful person myself he is my hero
Resonate with all as a female infj in the construction industry
I worked in Cardiac ICU for over 10 years and then went on to get master's degree in nursing despite the fact that others actually told me I couldn't. I knew myself well enough to know that I could. "Power doesn't talk it acts."
I'm here to feel understood.
This habbit of micro management makes infj's exceptional mechanical engineering. Especially automotive sports. We love finding ways of going faster.
My friends call it..."I WILL CUT YOU STARE" LOL
No, not Alpha, Sigma is closer to the personality you are trying to describe.
However,, after watching some of your videos, I know you are not an INFJ.
INTJ/INXJ here...We are sigma, like the INFJ.
@@mastermindrational1907 Intjs and Infjs are true sigmas
sometimes i overthinking the future.
and i also think about wasn't it that's God's job not mine ?
i just a human, why not just enjoy this beautiful current living life...
God can see the future and so the Children of God
The perfectionistic part of this is NOT me. I have remarked more than once that I am grateful that I am not a perfectionist b/c perfection is an unattainable goal.
we’re the sigmas of mbti
I felt that perceived "intimidating" look.. until my boss got used to me he used to be telling me what to do and would joke and look behind him like I was staring straight through him 😂
This is 1000% correct, I couldn't agree more.
Every thing resonates I'm blown away! I mean to the T it's who I am completely. I'm a different person overbearing but unconditionally loving. Every video confirm
Know what really hurts me, it's when I am about to burst out crying and people assume I am angry.
I must be honest but I don't think highly of myself. Reason why I did the test, is to see who I am and why I feel like a lost fart in a factory. I feel completely misunderstood. I truly just want the best for others and obviously myself. When others are happy, then I am happy.
Thanks my friend. ❤🌹
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This hits home, girl. When I'm upset and about to cry people tell me I look menacing and scary... Like, wtf. Not helping lol
@A. Digger same here. I hate toxic narc people.
Your channel is awesome. Please keep it up. You are so talented! We need you!
My family has told me to smile at women if I want them to like me but I have no control over it. I've always been one to have a plain stare.
Women are terrified of me if I'm turned on, they start shaking and run away. Any advice?
The same for me i dont know:)
Im an infj…but im extremely indecisive … what’s wrong
I think an INFJ is only decisive once he has found his Ikigai. Until then, he/she is very indecisive because the laser focus ability is not in effect.
Ray B yeah i guess u make sense 🌚thanks for telling me sir 😁✌️💙
Others see me as a leader although i don t intend to be one. I preffer respectful cooperation. But because of all tge traits mentioned in your video, which i admit to have and come to me very natural, both friends and enemies respect me and get insired. Most important, they do become better and independent so that i can move on and make progress. I foznd out about the mbti recently, i am 54 now and must admit it s correct. Also about other types.
Additionally i must mention that even if i try no to show leadership skills, the others notice and give me the most responsible positions. And always come for advice.
Lever considered myself as an alpha, you just explained and told my why I am .tky
100 % accurate. Love it.
I love seeing comments because it makes me feel that there are a lot of people like me
I’m Guilty of the stare😇😈 I try not too but I can’t help myself. It’s the little details, always analyzing my thoughts never rest. Would love to meet another INFJ one day.
I’m an INFJ (not mistype) and I’ll tell you this. INFJs don’t seek leadership, but we won’t mind taking over if we see others doing a poor job or not caring about those in positions under them. I’d rather be a Sigma (do my own thing and be alpha of myself and my own life). But if there is an abusive, narcissistic person in a leadership position who cares more about themself than the people under them, then I’ll gladly become alpha or leader to make sure it’s done better.
I can relate to almost everything in the video. Thanks for sharing!
As an INFJ , speaking for myself, I Lead by example. Not by persuasion, or pushing my values on anybody . I’m only a leader within myself,
I do , what works for me. Different situations calls for different ideas. I Allow others to think for themselves. A leader to myself , allowing others to be creative in their own thinking, People who come in contact with INFJ , get the wrong impression, of INFJ. Everybody has values
In which they can share. I think everybody should be leaders , sharing their ideas. . As whole unit. always looking for improvements,
Inventions, and plans, strategies does not stem from one leader , group or organizations. No leader is an island to himself. And includes
Thoses who not leaders. But to be leader, one must be humble and kind, and not to be overwhelming,. But if one is an doubt, ask questions
From your so called leader. But Leader should ask questions , when in doubt. That shows he doesn’t know everything, that’s being humble
It’s good to ask questions when in doubt. Whether your INFJ or other. To be a leader to others, would actually drain INFJ , he need time to recharge his battery, He needs his time and time to meditate, All people need their space and time, allow people to think for themselves
Don’t be a handicapped wheel or crutches in peoples life’s by thinking for them, let them think and express themselves, so allowing
Freewill and expression, . Just lead by example, so if they have questions, let them come to you, for answers or otherwise.
additional thought INFJ needs focus and concentration, not distraction and ghosting, it would not be wise , for INFJ not to be leader toward
thoses who have negative view of him and her, it would draining or sap his energy , it would stripped him from his title, (THE LONE WOLF)
I have all of these but the introverted part. 😊
The fact that these comments vibrates so much of infj vibes even the use of punctuations.
(I'm sorry for any grammatical errors.)
Review Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: one up manship, pecking order/ penis size of being 'The Alpha' is pubescent thinking in the overall arc of ones' psychological maturation towards Self Actualization.
I always wondered why I end up being the leader. If you tell people they think you're conceited. It just happens naturally.
Thank for contributing!
It's Funny how you speak of a Risk Manager as that is what I am. People ask me how I know things I delve into my own mental archives.
This article is correct--except that Te is at least as 'alpha' in the colloquial sense as Ne (and also alpha has a specific meaning in cognitive typology; it's a quadra, and INFJ is a beta introvert). INFJ is Se inferior, Te PolR and Ne ignoring; it's unquestionably one of the least colloquially 'alpha' types. typevolution.com/2018/07/08/which-mbti-type-is-the-most-alpha/ Anyway, so you chose the pictures you chose for this video because...?
I love these infj videos