Battle Of The Sexes: Are Women More Possessive In Relationships? (EP. 123)
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Battle Of The Sexes: Are Women More Possessive In Relationships? (EP. 123)
MENSCON LA AUGUST 15-18
www.mensconla....
SOCIAL HOURS RECAP
www.instagram....
NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️
Today’s episode was inspired by a fan question! We also dove into the thought process of one who controls or attempts to control their partner and some of the reasons why. We also talked about who is more territorial, men or women. Feel free to weigh in on this episode!
JOIN US PATREON‼️
www.patreon.co... (www.patreon.co...)
Thank you for joining us!
Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode and subscribe!
Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾
PROMOTE WITH US!
form.jotform.c... (form.jotform.c...)
CONTACT U
S!
niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com
@duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon
Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance
"Where control exists, love is absent."
"you cannot control if you are being transparent"
"all you askin is them to give you what you give to them"💯💯
Yesss to this conversation especially Duke mentioning that insecurity isn't always about the person it could be centered on a lack of trust around decision making, discernment etc.
Had me shouting on that part!!!!! 💯
I honestly used to think "that guy is scarce" too like Duke was talking about .. but honestly, since watching this podcast for over a year now, it has changed that belief in me to know that there are quality men out here and they're not scarce.. I clearly was just looking in the wrong places and even with that belief alone, there's no surprise that's what ima see/find/attract. So I no longer believe great men are scarce because of being exposed to more examples of it, it allowed that belief to change in me, and now allows me to see & attract a plethora of great men and I don't feel any rush to latch on to anyone right away, cuz it's not a scarcity thing to me anymore. So appreciation to yall for helping me shift my perspective and belief in ways that are beneficial 🙏🏾✨️
He said so you want to control how you die 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he replied the same way you want to goooo…… 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I laughed sooo HARDDDDD LOL 😝
There are so funny😂😂
@@keerabilo7095 yessss so funny lol 😂
My father raised me and it definitely helped me to not be territorial of men. I learned very young. I never put pressure on my now husband. This episode is very needed for women who feel they need control over their relationship. 💯👍🏾
Can you explain how your father raising you correlate with not being territorial with men ?
@@AngelaElikya He taught me how to treat a man, and being territorial was one thing he taught me under the umbrella of red flags.
I am not the woman who wrote in the question, but have a very similar experience. Thank you for keeping this a safe space and not ripping her to shreds for self sabotage. Appreciate the advice I wasn’t expecting to need today 🥃🥃🥃
This conversation was needed for sure “move out of a space of abundance and love/peace not fear/scarcity” GEMS 💎
This was the one!!! Okay Duke with the bar 🥃 🥃
Wow. This episode was eye opening. Control, manipulation, trust, peace. Thank you for sharing different perspectives without judgement but with realness. Sometimes people don’t realize they are being controlling or being controlled because it’s masked as love and care. I appreciate this podcast so much. Bless you all.
This episode unlocked a new door for me.
Boundaries , that’s it. Find a person who respects you behind your back. A Man who has boundaries with his “female friends”
“It’s gon crush me, it’s gonna kill her.” {Meanwhile, their partners at home watching this ep: 👀 🙄🙄🙄🙄}
😂😂😂
I’m sure none of them (men or women want to see their partners pass, but WTH is up w this extreme disproportionate display of inordinate self-importance smh 👀🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣🤣
Control = lack of vulnerability because in being vulnerable you have to tell your friend, partner, spouse about your boundaries/non- negotiables. In doing so if they fail to respect your boundaries you have to make a decision whether to move forward or not.
Being controlling, lacking vulnerability allows you to know how the movie ends.
Great Topic & Episode…That Last Part Hit Home For Me. My Father Is 60 Years Old And Is In Need Of A Kidney Transplant As He Fights For A Second Chance At Life. It’s Taken It’s Toll On Our Family, But Thank God For Unity, Love, Strength, Our Bond As A Family, And My Mom Who Has Been There Every Single Day Supporting Him As He Battles With This.
Timely. Just admitted to my partner I can be controlling at times, yall stepped on all my toes
Great episode like always knowledge with some funny part it's a perfect combo. I'm a nurse and i work sometimes with elderly patients and patients that have chronic diseases and some of them literally are fighting life because they want to be dead already...
This conversation took a different turn 😂😅 talking about death towards the end LOL but I really enjoyed this conversation and learned so much from it! I pray I attend y’all’s next event 🎉❤
😂😂😂I love how secure they feel in their idea that their woman would be so distraught after they die, when that’s the furthest thing from the truth. They are projecting how men feel onto women. Men are devastated when the their woman dies because their caretaker is gone, but women are saddened when their man dies because their companion is gone. She still has children, friends, and family to care for and support. My great grandmother out lived 3 husbands and I asked her how, she told me “once physical intimacy leaves the relationship (which it always does) at that point it’s either a good cohabitation or a bad cohabitation”. My husbands grandmother just made 92, she spent 67 years with his grandfather, he passed about 5 years ago. The entire 24 years I’ve been with my husband I could always pop up at there house and she’d be home, now I have to call, because she’s always at her sister’s, her daughter’s, out of town, or shopping somewhere. I’ve also worked in assisted living homes and most of the women would say, although they lost the love of their life, they still live long fulfilling lives after, because they have other people to live for. I’m sure it hurts to lose a spouse, but it’s not like losing a child or a parent.
Great episode I believe there is a spectrum when it comes to insecurities. I love the openness on this show.
One of my fav episodes of the year, powerful messages all the way around!!
I will have to fly out to LA to attend one of the events. The video was amazing and I can tell everyone had a great time.
I really appreciate this interview the way u guys articulated the men perspective really opened my mind to a whole new perspective. Also I love how you guys answer the lady’s question was really insightful!!❤
This episode really came at a time when my partner and I were having a discussion about being controlled. And lately I’ve been feeling so caught up with my emotions and kids and being his partner that I haven’t been focus on myself. I’ve been trying to control him and his behavior because I was not able ( so I thought ) to do whatever I wanted to do just for me. This added some additional confirmation that I cannot control him I must allow him to do him and he is showing me he will support me in my own adventure of self. He told me he loves me and trust me and wants me to be happy! I need to let go of the past experience and lack of self control and worth so that I’m not pushing this man away. Not because he doesn’t love me but because I am trying to control him and everything because I’m afraid to say I want to be free to me be too!! I also want to be with you too sometimes! I want to feel free to go without feeling guilty you have the kids and I don’t! And him telling me go! I love you and our kids ( his step children) and I trust you and us! Get back to you and being happy we both need it and we will always be together, we will always make time and want to be with each other ❤. Peace and blessings y’all
Next event in South Florida 👀👀
Yessss
The Social Hour Event was amazing and aesthetically appealing! You just had to be there 🔥🔥…
I legit went through 20 ads in this one episode.
No lie just took me a couple of days to listen to this because life be lifing, but it is real real good y’all real extra good in the middle. like it don’t already be good?! lol but still!! This is one of my favorites
YA'LL are sweet but that whole talk of dying before your partner, the dynamic of that changes after you have children. So I believe that your ladies will be okay. You almost touched on it.
Whew chile… I’m about to throw my mfin phone the way yall preaching on this episode!! This is SOO real! You CANNOT CONTROL PEOPLE!
45:14 in this specific part yall are acting like some men don’t set a pattern that makes them untrustworthy. Why would a woman have to check herself and the decision she made?
Can you all promote your events more on RUclips. I’m always hear about things after the fact. Have you considered using the Community feature on RUclips?
Well bring this event to jersey the one you guys were talking about in the beginning
This was tooooo good
Come do an event in Houston!!
Now this was a fire episode
Great Episode! So many gems! Please do an event in NYC 😀
In my personal experience, when a woman is territorial in a relationship, the relationship usually does not last too long
Listen yall blessed my soul! I am healed ❤❤❤
When did we say yes to the wedding I'm a cake decorator a pastry cook. Energy is so important and what is a smile and why I don't smile at you
The game dropped! 🔥🔥
56:12 I wonder what the ladies would say lol
swag surfing is definitely a generation
ending might be a good episode
Great episode
There's manipulation, and there's a place and time for wisdom.
Im just saying and this is the location. This is the location
Can’t control people or tell them what to do. That person have to want to be kept.
1:00:42 😂 wild.. also, real.
Noah Lyles
Who I am here
Somebody quite and batchlor.
1:00:42 😂 wild.. also, real.