Creating The Perfect Proposal For My Woman | (Ep. 113): The Love Of My Life Deserves The Best

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
  • NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️
    (EP. 113) HOW I PROPOSED TO MY FIANCÉ (EP. 113)
    What up family!
    Jalon proposed to Brittany! Jalon walked us through the twists, and the turns of how he did it and how it was almost spoiled just before popping the question! The fellas outlined the importance of the engagement ring and what it means to them.
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Комментарии • 105

  • @Kgang.
    @Kgang. 5 месяцев назад +153

    I remember when Jalon was the single one of the trio. Now he's a father and fiancé. Congrats🎉

    • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast
      @NiceAndNeatThePodcast  5 месяцев назад +5

      🥃🥃🥃

    • @marybutidk
      @marybutidk 4 месяца назад

      Yessss!!! Seeing all their growth has truly been amazing!! I love it ❤

  • @lano5398
    @lano5398 5 месяцев назад +26

    Man watching Jalon go from being a single man to now being a father & engaged is one of the most inspiring things ever. Especially, as a black man it can be difficult to find spaces or a community where link-minded black men can hold each other accountable. Tough living in this era and wanting a traditional lifestyle

  • @heychaena
    @heychaena 5 месяцев назад +43

    This made my heart smile!!! 🫶🏽
    3 Black men proudly sharing their life experiences. We don’t hear stories like this enough. This was so important! 👏 🥹 congratulations!!!
    PS I hollered when Jalon said the waitress was like “inside or out?” 💀💀

  • @coolzoom222
    @coolzoom222 4 месяца назад +5

    I love hearing this side of a proposal from the man. Usually, i feel like it’s mostly women talking about what the want, or what their reaction is. Jalon’s thoughtfulness, and care for his woman is so refreshing to see

  • @heyerikan
    @heyerikan 5 месяцев назад +36

    I clicked SO fast! Too excited to celebrate Jalon and Brittney! We been patiently waiting to cheer you all on!!

  • @WhoIsTheeMeister
    @WhoIsTheeMeister 5 месяцев назад +28

    I can see the evolution of this pod now!
    An episode with all of the wives after everyone is married.
    An episode with all the ladies after they’ve become mothers.
    The topics that will emerge as the children get older.
    The new blessings that marriage brings.
    The unexpected roles in the world God will lead y’all too….
    Like a breath of fresh air!
    Divine anointed Kings
    💝
    🏆

    • @heyerikan
      @heyerikan 5 месяцев назад +1

      We love the vision! I’m locked in all the way.

  • @heyerikan
    @heyerikan 5 месяцев назад +20

    Jalon’s Daddy?!? SIR! Omar’s reaction was me listening.

  • @AnnMarieCrew
    @AnnMarieCrew 5 месяцев назад +34

    Yes do NOT propose to a woman on a holiday, it takes away the significance of the moment from whatever the big holiday or accomplishment is already taking place (graduations included)

    • @nessaanurtures
      @nessaanurtures 5 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed! & it lacks intentionality to me.

  • @judahalexander2981
    @judahalexander2981 4 месяца назад +3

    That last part of “ be mindful of the people you have around you “

  • @meekocicero1010
    @meekocicero1010 5 месяцев назад +25

    Congrats Jaloooooon🎉🎉🎉 y’all setting the bar high & love is winning 🥂✨

  • @SistaNkem
    @SistaNkem 5 месяцев назад +13

    Listen Omar is TIRED. He said, that's really cute about the smile Jalon, but I cannot relate 😂😂😂 As a mom of 2, I definitely remember being right where he is! Omar my best advice is this - take the damn shower. One thing I found myself saying is this - just because the baby is crying, doesn't mean he's dying. Sometimes babies just cry, even after you've fed them, changed them, and held them. It can make you feel helpless sometimes, but guess what? A shower will make you feel better and give you the energy to get back in there! So might as well! You and Candice got this! Rooting for yall.

  • @niles2467
    @niles2467 5 месяцев назад +5

    Whole time I’m over here cheesing like Jalon my homie. You go head black man!

  • @gedeonpoukouta6483
    @gedeonpoukouta6483 5 месяцев назад +27

    Hey yall I’m 22. I really appreciate yall giving me some game and insight about what it is to be a young black man who values committed relationships. I feel so privileged to be able to sit in on these conversations; I feel like yall are preparing me for a beautiful future with a woman. Love🙏🏿

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk 4 месяца назад +3

    6:50 this is a great conversation and we aren’t even 10mins in. The point Jalon just made about being in love is REAL!!

  • @LexCATL
    @LexCATL 5 месяцев назад +7

    I had to come from Spotify to tell y'all how refreshing it is to hear men speak like this. I know this podcast is men talk, but as a woman who wants marriage and family I tune in to learn certain characteristics and habits to look for in a man who also wants those things. Thank you gentlemen for being examples. Also, the part about being held accountable by the presence and example of the friends around you hits hard and lets me know I'm not necessarily wrong for considering a man's friends and relationship with his friends when deciding if we'd be a good fit!

  • @charlottef7650
    @charlottef7650 5 месяцев назад +8

    I love this episode bc we don’t often hear men talk about their proposal experience.

  • @ciaraclement3089
    @ciaraclement3089 5 месяцев назад +10

    Jalon walking through his big moment literally made me cry happy tears for them. Congratulations!! Omar the trenches are super tough, but it does get better over time ! With my youngest , the only way he would sleep is if he was sleeping on my chest and that was the only way I got sleep as well.

  • @unique.diamond5955
    @unique.diamond5955 5 месяцев назад +14

    LOVED the story time.. wish we could see the bts. Jalon dad got me cracking up ! My unpopular opinion on large weddings is that they start to feel more about your guest than the bride/groom so I agree that it’s not the best investment, but hey, if you got it then go for it !

  • @keyshasmith2550
    @keyshasmith2550 5 месяцев назад +10

    Come on Nice and Neat‼️‼️💪🏾 Jalon your Proposal and your WHY was soul warming!! My God, I wish more men especially our Black Men would watch this Podcast! It's almost therapeutic to see healthy relationships between men because it's rare.. Holding one another accountable to being a Man!! Supporting one another in growth! Yeah it's plenty of garbage 🗑️ to watch, and traumatic things going on.. This Podcast is a breath of fresh air 😊I pray that you guys continue to Live what you speak about 🙏🏾 Black is The Future 🖤 Be Blessed

  • @Tricyyyland
    @Tricyyyland 5 месяцев назад +10

    No the toddler stage is the trenches 🤣🤣.
    Ocean is so beautiful. I am glad y’all are able to split the time up.
    Congrats Jalon and Brittany !

  • @lnicshae7158
    @lnicshae7158 2 месяца назад +1

    Love this 💞 Jalon, you are a great storyteller! Congratulations to you and your wife to be!!!

  • @soleneptune9498
    @soleneptune9498 4 месяца назад +2

    Hearing about the romance these men put on for their women solidified that bridgerton quote “rakes make the best husbands”😂😂😂

  • @Intentionally_Rae
    @Intentionally_Rae 5 месяцев назад +5

    Alpha phi alpha is a non hazing organization 😂 lmao now Jalon, you know “dem da rules”

    • @heyerikan
      @heyerikan 5 месяцев назад +1

      Don’t you miss “Dem Da Rules”?

  • @ariesk
    @ariesk 2 месяца назад +3

    This was great start to finish!!🥃 I sent it to my friend.

    • @heyerikan
      @heyerikan 25 дней назад

      Right?! I’m on my 5th watch

  • @beatbybeti
    @beatbybeti 5 месяцев назад +7

    this podcast is soooo good. i hope the men are watching!

  • @47Sylvia1
    @47Sylvia1 5 месяцев назад +9

    Congratulations on your engagement. I love y’all podcast. I will be married this year for 39 years.

  • @AlexisTyonne
    @AlexisTyonne 5 месяцев назад +7

    Oh nah I would’ve told pops DEAD LAST

  • @_DeezyD
    @_DeezyD 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m mad I’m just now getting to watch this episode, but I have to send a shoutout and Congratulations to Jalon!! I was so excited listening to him tell his story. And it’s really motivating so see you all engaged/married! 🤞🏾

  • @alexisnichole9538
    @alexisnichole9538 5 месяцев назад +7

    It's O saying take the basinet in the bathroom and y'all both shower. He Know's something fasure because the basinet stay in the bathroom. Congrats Jalon!

  • @AmberlyN1
    @AmberlyN1 5 месяцев назад +9

    This was sooooo refreshing! Jalon congrats this whole story is beautiful 😭❤

  • @adyamarshae
    @adyamarshae 5 месяцев назад +5

    y’all. 😭😭 i’m listening to the podcast on apple podcasts and i just had to come and say y’all are hilarious. when jalon asked duke the question about the alphas i couldn’t help but laugh too. shoutout to the D9 orgs though, i’m a part of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Incorporated.💙💛🖤

  • @keyshasmith2550
    @keyshasmith2550 5 месяцев назад +2

    Awesome!!! Congratulations Jalon‼️You guys are very inspiring 🙏🏾💙 #blackmen. I share some of the episodes with my Daughter (who's 19) to help enlightened her on how MEN will operate when they Serious about the relationship. I just recently stumbled upon your Podcast and what a blessing 😊 Keep doing well!! God Bless you guys and your families

  • @jessilyng
    @jessilyng 5 месяцев назад +2

    Congratulations Jalon and fiancée Brittany! Seeing the growth is real. Love always win ❤️

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk 4 месяца назад +1

    25:39 I’m smiling ear to ear like this about me 😂 omg

  • @chefjaythetallone3939
    @chefjaythetallone3939 5 месяцев назад +3

    Bro I needed this. I’m planing mine and it’s soooooo hard.
    And I can relate to having a bad videographer. I planned a birthday shoot for my better half and he missed the mark too !!!!!!! Trying to get this proposal right

    • @heyerikan
      @heyerikan 5 месяцев назад

      Congratulations!

  • @brittanydanielle2596
    @brittanydanielle2596 5 месяцев назад +3

    Congratulations!! 🎉
    Can we get a podcast with the moms talking about PP? And the father’s POV as well.

  • @keerabilo7095
    @keerabilo7095 5 месяцев назад +3

    LMAO Jalon POPS part took me out.congrats to y all and i m so happy for y all 3

  • @Thegiftofkay
    @Thegiftofkay 5 месяцев назад +3

    This episode is so wholesome 🤍

  • @ashleyb7654
    @ashleyb7654 5 месяцев назад +1

    This was such a beautiful story ❤ congratulations!

  • @countessstevens63
    @countessstevens63 5 месяцев назад +1

    Aww this episode was so good! It went by so fast! Thank you guys for sharing

  • @Missjessicabenn
    @Missjessicabenn 5 месяцев назад

    Congratulations Jalon & Brittany!
    I am proud of all you guys, as a young woman i definitely learn from you all.
    Thank you ❤

  • @helenstylz9283
    @helenstylz9283 5 месяцев назад +3

    Congratulations Jalon and Brittany 🥳

  • @viviennebrown3255
    @viviennebrown3255 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love you three guys…keep it going

  • @monique.a.stewarttheauthor
    @monique.a.stewarttheauthor 5 месяцев назад +2

    LOVE THESE GUYS!!! Great episode!!!🤎🤎🤎

  • @rashayaboston
    @rashayaboston 5 месяцев назад +9

    I’m sorry but the daddy would’ve made me mad!

  • @KingFred.
    @KingFred. 5 месяцев назад +5

    Love this podcast so muchhhhhhhhh ❤

  • @tavonsanders8298
    @tavonsanders8298 5 месяцев назад

    EXCELLENCE! Gentlemen! Well DONE! 🌎

  • @itsgolden4me343
    @itsgolden4me343 4 месяца назад +1

    Congratulations Jalon!

  • @WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen
    @WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen 5 месяцев назад

    Beautiful episode! Congrats!

  • @mickeyhayes7665
    @mickeyhayes7665 5 месяцев назад

    Congratulations!!! Congratulations Brittany!!!!! 🎉

  • @OptimisticKTV
    @OptimisticKTV Месяц назад +1

    So beautiful

  • @kathelinetabuteau5309
    @kathelinetabuteau5309 5 месяцев назад +1

    CONGRATULATIONS JALON!!!!

  • @JoeyDiggsJr.
    @JoeyDiggsJr. 5 месяцев назад +5

    We love Lonny!

  • @reniece
    @reniece 5 месяцев назад +1

    Y’all so dope .. congrats !!

  • @cranberriesservices2895
    @cranberriesservices2895 4 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful just beautiful 😘😍

  • @lovespells17
    @lovespells17 5 месяцев назад +2

    Congrat, Jalon!!

  • @tylertutt2873
    @tylertutt2873 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love this 🥺 The Websters! 🥃

  • @menaj2954
    @menaj2954 5 месяцев назад +1

    Congrats Jalon !!

  • @heyerikan
    @heyerikan 5 месяцев назад +3

    Shout out to Dami!!! #theRealMVP 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @Ifeoma999
    @Ifeoma999 5 месяцев назад +2

    Progratulations❣️ 👑⚖️👑❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🙌🏾

  • @Me-px7js
    @Me-px7js 5 месяцев назад

    Congrats Jason!

  • @WhoIsTheeMeister
    @WhoIsTheeMeister 5 месяцев назад +1

    That was on you because you knew he couldn’t hold water.

  • @Gingerdesiree_
    @Gingerdesiree_ 5 месяцев назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥 good company!

  • @nicolejagdeo7409
    @nicolejagdeo7409 5 месяцев назад +3

    Back in the day, girls were bred to be wives. Now a days, it is true that a man who Finds a Wife obtains Favor with the Lord, because in these days wives are hard to come by. We deserveeeeeee

  • @AvaBrooks-k5b
    @AvaBrooks-k5b 5 месяцев назад

    Congratulations

  • @BerryOptimystic
    @BerryOptimystic 5 месяцев назад

    Congrats Jalon 🎉✨

  • @stephaniealston625
    @stephaniealston625 5 месяцев назад +1

    Omggg!!! Congratulations!!!

  • @Fearlesslyme463
    @Fearlesslyme463 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ congrats 🎊 🍾

  • @jarzae
    @jarzae 5 месяцев назад +2

    Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @candidwithglee2670
    @candidwithglee2670 5 месяцев назад

    Congratulations to you both ❤ so elated for you that you found your forever ❤

  • @chantelleg5529
    @chantelleg5529 5 месяцев назад +3

    Duke is an alpha ? Where have I been ?

  • @Temwachii
    @Temwachii 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yessssssssssssssss

  • @AnnMarieCrew
    @AnnMarieCrew 5 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations🖤

  • @nasenncamatthews3472
    @nasenncamatthews3472 5 месяцев назад

    Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww-Cool Women Winningggggggggggggggggggggggg. Real Sweet - Rare Clever. 20 Daughters Coming-400 Years=700 Years=11000=Another Surpriseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

  • @jaygad4968
    @jaygad4968 5 месяцев назад +1

    @Nice And Neat Where do y’all get your fashion from?

  • @throughthelensofshonda
    @throughthelensofshonda 5 месяцев назад +1

    🫶🏽

  • @_lifewithken
    @_lifewithken 5 месяцев назад +3

    I love this! I love what Duke said.. most women truly just want to feel spoken for and covered. 🥹❤️
    Also.. #skeeewee Duke!! 🩷💚🖤💛