My man you are EXTREMELY intelligent. The depth of knowledge you have is amazing. I've made alot of the mistakes you've described. My fiancee and I recently broke up. She ended it. I was an asshole who was selfish and didn't listen to her feelings. As well as always accusing her of cheating and insecure. In the day's since watching your videos I've been developing a more positive text interaction. In a few day's I'm gonna ask her out. It's amazing how losing the love of your life opens your eyes.
I’ve listened to many videos on this channel and it’s the most brilliant advice (not just on RUclips) but anywhere that I’ve ever heard. It all makes perfect sense but it isn’t a man’s natural response to a women he’s having issues with. That’s because he’s the issue. Great, great advice here. Profound and truly life altering.
My dude i know you've heard this who knows how many times, but thank you. Your videos are giving me the inspiration and much needed confidence to get my woman back 🙌🏼
This is the best video on getting your ex back! Thanks Dan! I also got the Flow e book. :) Thanks for sharing all this wisdom with us. Really appreciate it. This is much needed! You are playing the role of that elder bro that we never had! Thank you so much!
Hi Dan. My wife and I have recently split and we have a 2 year old son together. There was an incident last year where I got frustrated and lost my temper in our house and she had not been the same with me since. It was like we had been co-existing for the last 12 months. I found out that a couple of months ago she had cheated on me which she said was for "comfort and a shoulder to cry on" and it only started as the two of them chatting. She is not seeing that other man now. I am prepared to forgive her but at this moment I don't think she is prepared to forgive me or draw a line under everything. I have never directed my anger at my wife but the outbursts scare her. I am addressing it though. Another problem was that she thought I was selfish and never wanted to do anything with her or my son. She felt like I didn't love her and that she was living like a single person. I am also addressing that now because we go on 'family' days out. What course of action would you advise? I am sure words won't mean anything. Perhaps she has lost the respect for me?
Dan, I hae watched several of your videos, and they are helping me to understand, or at least be a bit more clear about, why my still girlfriend has change her attitude the last 3 months, she started snapping for things that a year ago she would only would told me to stop doing, or not to tell some thing on certain way. I guess it's because, as you said, I lost my masculine side, and started being emotionly sensitive. The thing is this, we had fought and talk about the topic too much, and we agreed into give ourselves space and not talk or see each other untill she felt more relaxed and cleared about this to decide wether or not we would be still together or if we break up, she has told me with tears on her eyes that she love me but this situation hurts so much ans that's why she was thinking that maybe we would be better if we break up. Also, she has hectic schedule at work and has a son, so she was under stress. It's been two weeks so far, and neither of us has said anything. You see, I think that if I contact her, again, I would came across as that I dind't get it, and needy, just because I didn't respect the agreement. We agreed on that like a month ago, but I still talked sometimes with her and saw her a couple of times, but we argue those times. So, we talked, and really took this space serious this time. I'm really struggling on deciding what to do now.
So I've made some progress, started getting better responses from her, however she is selectively ignoring when I ask to catch up or stuff. I'm not sure what it means when the other responses are good. I may be going too fast? When asking to hang out it's been just over 2 months since the break up
Dude i don't know but your example as a man mistakes have a big similarities on what mistakes i have done, i did almost all of that where we're in the point that she doesn't have any feeling and interest on me but im really passionate to gain her love back
She says she loves me but isn't in love with me anymore. How do I tackle this? Wants everything to stay the same just no intimacy (never said she's not attracted to me) 🤷
Hi dan, great vids m8! I am still hopeful for my wife and I but we have just started a separation in the same house (due to our daughter and getting the house sold, so it’s difficult as we only communicate by txt for now. Any tips as we have set a time frame of an initial separation of 2 months like this.
Yes, these 3 videos will really help you: ruclips.net/video/YKPwk9QmLn4/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html and this ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html
Hello Dear frnd..!! Thank you for your videos.. These video provide confidence and make me strong internaly.. I hv a situation whr we wr not being in distant relationship from the begning.... we wr in same college with each other, later on i hv to go other city & bcm in long distant relationship.. we had 5yrs healthy relationship.but aftr bcming apart from her city, in difrnt city, one day we had some fighting..and aftr tht i bcm more aggrasive to her.. and lastly she told me tht she want brk up (on 6th Nov)..and aftr 2 days she told me tht she strtd to like some other guy and they go for date too. I tried "no contact rule".. but faild & do contact her.. she told me why you stopd contacting me aftr fighting, though i know u cudnt stay apart with me without talking for more than hour..and i will never get person like you. Aftr tht i bcm emotional and talked her.. but she told tht she dont want to live with me more as she stred to like some other guy.. Aftr tht i again tried to strt "no cntct rule" but in between she wished my bday and aftr tht i talkd her.. by talking i came to know she was ill & had less money too.. i sent her money and ordrd online shopping few winter cloths for her.. She replied tht "y u take so much care of me"? I told coz from the begning only i take care of urs, thts y.. again from next day she stopped picking my calls ,but reply my texts late.. I bcm strong to strt no contct rule once again to her, I m continueing "no cntct rule" as 2nd attempt, since 29th Nov. Does it be effective now..? One thing i noticed tht whnever i broke "no cntc rule" she gave a quick responce to my msgs & talked with me in very gentle manner & in a way like she want continue talking, but i cut the phn by saying bye,. But from next day she again stopped replying on call We had 5yrs rlasnsp and were in same place, but being apart in difrnt city now, & I am cnfusd rgrding my long distance relsnsp brk up.. and i think if i still continue "no contact" then i will loose her, permanently.. Its difclt to contrl the pain as her family membrs planning for her marriage... She is now in a rebound relationship & i m in a distant relationship. So, I break my"no contct rule" at 28 days.. I will feel lucky if u guide me personaly.. blueocean2411@gmail.com Cud u plzz guide me...!!
If you're not in the same city and you want her back, you've got to get to the point where she is willing to meet up with you in person. In person, you can then re-attract her and hook up sexually, even if you both agree that it's the last time. Of course, it won't be because you will blow her mind. If you need more help, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html You will also get this program as a free bonus: www.themodernman.com/videos/ultimate-make-up-sex.html
Dan Bacon hello Dan.. I want to talk to you..how can i..? I hv just passd the university and to be frank, i m unable to pay ur fee... but i want to say that can u help me compltly.. coz wht ever u said in ur videos its all true & i m faceing the same.. and i m noticing tht, gradualy i m loosing her...she us now in a rebound relationship.. Its very painful to see tht i m watching my future through ur videos...but still not abl to make all the things good... I Just need you first.. Plzz help me Big Brother...plzzz...🙏 I will never forget ur favor.. My email id is: blueocean2411@gmail.com Thank you..
This is good. Solid tips. Dan, how should I change this for a long-distance relationship that failed? We were going to be in the same town in 2 months, but she broke up with me. The relationship started out as in-person, then went long-distance and that failed. Should I wait till we're back in the same town, or start reconnecting with her now even if we're still long-distance?
i can't find any videos about this...me and my girlfriend just broke up we are now just friends but we are kissing and we have had sex while we have ben just friends,but she says she needs time and aren't ready for a relationship how do i fix this? it is kinda like she uses me to get over me if that makes any sense
Yes, but not for now. I plan to make a lot of videos on this topic (so many guys need the help!) and then on the topic of relationships. I will then focus back on dating advice. In the meantime, here is a playlist of my dating advice videos: ruclips.net/video/UWLcofMmC9o/видео.html
I met my ex today. i talked to her and I said that I'm sorry for my mistakes. I became needy and jealous. so I apologize today and she told me I apologize late. she said it's been 3 which is not true. it's being 1 almost 2. I just couldn't talk to her in my state but now I'm ready. while talking to her she kept looking at my body. like every part you know. idk why. and she was like really open to me. she tild me everything going in her life. problems how she feel etc. what does it mean?? I could sensed that I we are going to get back if I focus on making her feel attracted to me.
Sounds like she was opening up to you. What would have worked is getting to a hug and then kiss, as explained in the video. If she is feeling a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, then proceed to making her feel like she is in love with you again. Physical contact always helps that along.
Dan Bacon i just didn't wanted her to see me as needy or that I need her. I felt that If I go for a hug I would push her away. she was crying for some reasons. I wanted to hug her. let her know I'm there but I just didn't wanted her to push het.
Nah, you need to be more ballsy than that. It's like when you're picking up women. If you hesitate, she shuts the gate. Women respect confidence. They respond to it by feeling attracted. It's a natural thing man. Hesitating never helps. You've got to make a move. If she said, "What are you doing?" just laugh and say, "Heyyy, it's just a hug" and tease her for being overly dramatic about a hug. She will then hug you. Gotta have confidence man.
Dan Bacon thank you. you're the best. you helped me a lot to actually have the balls to talk to her. I'm glad I found your videos. I would have done something stupid like being if it wasn't for you. i wont hesistate next time . youre the best, thank you
Hello Dan, what do I do if she has my number blocked and I unfriended me on social media? Is there still a chance? The reason being I made the mistake of asking for another chance after she informed me she lost feelings for me and wanted to just be friends. Thank you for all your work
You can get her to refriend you on social media and then unblock your phone. That's a strategy I only teach in my program though. If you're interested in learning how, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Hey dan i had 2.5 yrs relationship and as you explained in the video i was very controlling insecure and possessive she broke up with me and said that she didn't feel for me now and she left.. i begged and pleaded and she blocked me from everywhere. After 1.5month of no contact i sent her a text message today and she said that she didn't wanna meet me and blocked me from sms too, i called her and she didn't pick up.. what should i do now
In that case, you need to use other techniques first, before contacting her again. Those techniques are only taught in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Don't worry - you can get her back. You just have to be a bit creative about it now. You can do it. Many guys start out in your position and get their woman back.
I have watched all your youtube video's. After the lust period she started changing and i started getting insecure. She ended up breaking up with me and said dont try to contact me or i will block your number and hung up. I made the mistake of trying to post things on her facebook wall to get her to talk to me to work things out. She blocked me on Facebook.. I ended up drunk txting her a couple nights later. She had a guy friend msg me saying thnx for being insecure so i could move in on her. Then he started saying that i should just back off and give her time to chill.. After that I have almost stopped sending her txt because she has shut down any communication with me, but i wished her happy birthday 1 day and today i sent her a txt about a moment i had that reminded me of her. Its only been 5 days since the break up and since i txt her today to wish her happy birthday i am going to not txt her for a a few days and then try again and see what happens. I just dont know if i am wasting my time because she told me to never talk to her again and she has done that but i believe if i want her i should go get her.. Obviously I am working on myself in the meantime but this no contact with no closure to our relationship is a first for me and it feels like i am getting mind fuked. Oh the guy she had msg me is the guy i had a insecurity about. So yeah. The last txt i sent was alittle sexual but not to much. Trying to use txt to build that respect and attraction.
She breakups with me after 3 years of a relationship, This is exactly my situation, she was totally in love with me, but I was not focusing on her that much, so I went on a holiday she started dating someone else and doesn't want to do anything with me, sometimes she picked up my calls, but sometimes not, she's nice to me but doesn't wanna come back, and she's hidden her new relationship, and when I started to see something is going on, I was so needy and begging, and I think that makes my situation more works. So what do you think about my situation?
Hi Dan! I talk to my ex regularly and have met with her in person a couple of times now. We have a Good friendship going right now but she keeps bringing up that she doesnt want anything more than that. Even though she lets me flirt with her in person i still Feel like she doesnt respect me. I said some very hurtful things to her which i am positive was the reason she lost respect, attraction and love for me. Should i apologize for the things i said while making it seem like it is important for me to put these mistakes behind me? Will this make her Feel respect for me again?
Apologize, but don't make it seem important that you are trying to put the mistakes behind you. Women don't want to feel like you need their encouragement, approval or involvement on your journey of discovery as a man. She just wants you to sort yourself out and get on with being the kind of man that she can respect, feel attracted to and love. No need to tell her that you're trying to be that. Just be it. BTW: Kiss her!
@dan bacon I have made a lot of improvements while my ex is in a rebound. It's clear to me that she pretends to be happy and often shows signs that she misses me, but I feel she is being manipulated or feels like she can't betray the new person. Is contacting the rebound something you recommend? I have tried a lot of your advice to get her on the phone. She contacts me when she breaks up twice wtih him already. Give me a tip please. thank you in advance
thank you for your reply. i felt i was doing a good job, but can never get to a call. all i had was instagram to show her how i was improving and she just suddenly blocked me. i didn't harass her or anything. so i am really lost now and not in a clingy way...i feel really good but i dont' know.
My ex was in CA for the holiday she called me last night ans we talked for almost 2 hours on the phone last night. She was laughing so hard at all the things we talked about... we haven't talked that much in a year !! thanks Dan, I levelled up for sure.
Hey Dan! I need some help! My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago for the first time after dating for 2 months. We got back 4 days later but we broke up again on Dec. 1st. She would send me one word text messages and said that I needed to be more entertaining. She wouldn't tell me that she actually wanted to leave me. She stopped spending time at my house. She's younger than 20 and I'm 22. She still texted me but the affection wasn't there. I thought about giving it some time but my mental state couldn't do it. I needed time and space to take a step back and realize what I needed to do to win her back. After the second breakup I did get desperate asking for her back and doing things I should not have done. I met up with her a week later and told her the things I need to improve on and what I'm improving on. She told me that it was a bunch of bullshit and that she didn't really have any feelings for me anymore. She contacted me a week later wanting her things back from my place. We met in person and she yelled out what do you want from me? I told her I need some time to get myself right. She said I can't wait forever. That was two weeks ago. She contacted me last night asking how I was doing. I lied and said I was great but also told her I'm improving myself and I think she's the one. in reality I think about her everyday and I feel like she's the one for me. Please help! What do you think I should do Dan??
How can I make her feel respect when she’s isn’t answering my phone calls or text ?? I haven’t talked to her for a month and I called her today she didn’t answer
Good question and that is exactly why I don't recommend the No Contact Rule. It doesn't work in most cases. You didn't call her for a month, she didn't call you and then, when you called, she didn't answer. It happens all the time. So, if you are in a situation now where she isn't willing to communicate, I have other techniques for you to use to bring her guard down and get her to open back up to talking to you on the phone and in person. If you are interested, I reveal those techniques in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
My ex works late Monday to Friday and for the next few weekends she has work to catch up on so it's almost impossible to get a meet up with her for the next few weeks and I really want her back by Valentine's day, what should I do?
I really messed up al be honest I was abusive to her she is scared to be around me and she says for me to talk to my counselor cause of my anger please help me
Hey Dan. Seriously considering getting the Ex back super system. Would you recommended for me considering the following? Me and my girl broke up 3 months ago. I tried to contact her several times. I'm now blocked on all social media. She one time unblocked me cuz she said she didn't want to have me blocked. But since then she has got a restraining order on me for a month. This is because two months after our break up she finally agreed to meeting up with me. but when we met up I panicked and I didn't leave her car when she asked me too. About two hours until I finally left the car and her anxiety was through the roof. I just wanted to talk to her but she kept saying she is done. I screwed up. During the over 2 year relationship we fell in love and both wanted to be with each other forever. I forgive her for everything. I understand I was most likely putting way too much pressure on her. I didn't act like myself, I think it's cuz this is the girl I want to marry so I got overwhelmed.
Yes, definitely. You absolutely have to use a different approach with her from now on, to get rid of her focus on the car incident. You have to change her perception of you. I explain exactly how to do that in my program and it's a very important part of the process (it's Step 3 of 7 of the ex back process). For more info, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Dan Bacon thank you for replying my man! And keep up the great work. Your doing big things! Does the 30 day money back include if she ends up refusing to talk to me no matter what? I can afford it, was just wondering Dan. Thanks for the link! Take care - - Spence
You're welcome man! About the guarantee: I have a very strict policy when it comes to the money back guarantee. See section 5 here: store.themodernman.com/terms_and_conditions.html Cheers, Dan
Dan Bacon I bought the program. Starting tonight! I have no doubts I'll learn from you. Hopefully I can get results. I love her more than anything. Cheers mate!
Dan, a few months ago, our life together was exactly like you said, boring, mundane, no sex, wouldnt even really kiss or hug me. I pushed her to make that decision, she stopped being in love and broke up. we own our home together, still live together. I have turned myself back into that guy she was in love with, she laughs, texts, totally interacts again, but still haven't turned her completely about. She is in California for Christmas the last two nights we spent texting for hours.. just talking about anything, but us as a couple. Do you see her coming around? how do I know that she respects me again? it seems 100% better but still broke apart sexually and not emotionally commited. New years eve is coming, am I wrong to ask her for a new years hug and a kiss? Or is it too soon? your videos have ttaught me so much, you have been right about everything. what now?? help.
This is exactly how my relationship went. It lasted 5 years and I completely lost her respect. I have tried leveling up as a man and I feel I am still not gaining her respect. How can I do this even more so?
she always choose to hangout with her best friend after backing off from me. and she said they both will be together forever and go wherever one of them go. what shall I do it get her choose me over her girl best friend?
Don't worry, you can get her back. I don't have RUclips videos about getting unblocked though. That is only taught in my program, along with all of my best techniques: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html About her having a new guy: Watch this ruclips.net/video/1bXsYo8fW2g/видео.html
Hi Dan - My ex has recently had a big operation and since moved in her new flat by herself (she was previously in shared) she has been away and recovering with family and away from me she has now moved into her new flat and all of a sudden she has been cold and dumped me. She says she doesn't like the fact I dont rememeber what i tell her , and the face that my ex is a friend and my last gf who treated ne badly commented on my insta post - How can i win her back?
Thanks dan got to step 2 not really hard when u think about it’s all basically u need to re connection to her as friends but don’t agree to be friends I always put if off when my ex’s ask me if we should just be friends... I finally got to move back with my ex’s but where just friends tho what should I do next Dan?? ... ps we had intercourses so ... hopefully that narrows it down
Hey I need your help. I asked our my crush and she said yes and she seemed very happy that I asked her out. However, for some reason she told me that she didn't wanna go out with me or start anything. I am not sure what happened and I am very confused. She also told me that she liked me since the day we first met. What should I do next? I would appreciate it very very much if you help me out here. Please! ☹
What if she is still in love with me? And she is physically attracted to me? At least I feel like she is. She said she doesn’t want to be with someone if it’s not with me. She is currently on tinder but I know it’s her friends trying to push her towards that. I did lose her trust in the relationship and hurt her. I didn’t sleep with another but I was sexting. I am very ashamed of it. Do I need to get her respect back? She says she needs time to better herself. Do I try to get her back or let her heal and leave her alone?
Only if you have prepared yourself to attract her in new and interesting ways. If you use the same old approach to attraction that got you dumped, she's not going to be impressed. Here are some videos that will help you: ruclips.net/video/iPuCD4vkdXo/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/gteM37nIvLM/видео.html
Hi! I am bi. How can I get my ex girlfriend back if she likes someone else (girl). It seems that she is happy with that girl and I think the girl is giving motives even if she is only telling me that her girl crush doesn't like her. What should I do? I really love her, I am trying to be strong.
Hey dan my now ex we were together for 3 years just left me and she moved to a different state and said I wasn't treating her well enough and being open enough any ideas?
Hey dan, Me and my ex broke up 2 days ago, we did via telephone and ended up just talking about each others day and had quite a good talk, the day after she asked why we never really called when we weren't together, she enjoyed it and so did I, later that day in the evening she texted me how I was doing and had a short conversation. I really want her back and I really want to call her, But I'm not sure whether she would want to aswell, so my question is should I just call her? Cheers!
You have nothing to lose by trying. Just make sure that when you do call her, you start the call off in a confident, easy-going manner. Let your natural charisma come through and charm her. You can do it. If you want to know the exact wording to say to get her to meet up with you and give you another chance, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Does this work even if she told me she is 100% over me and it doesn’t matter to her anymore and it’s too late to fix anything? We’ve been broken up for a month and 3 weeks now and I really want to get her back
Hey Mr. Bacon, could you please make a video about becoming someone who takes charge? I'm 22, I'm not exactly sure I understand what taking charge entails, please and thank you! :)
Hey man , been watching your videos for a while now and they have been great help . I want to know how I cant tell if of it works in terms of respect , attraction and love , like hints or things that I can see ?
Dan am really confused right now, how do i make her feel respect for me cus based on your previous videos i believe i can be categorised as an emotional wussy, now she's not even giving me a chance to see her or talk to her. Is there a way i can still get her back?
Hey Dan...my ex made me keep my word not to contact her again so I told her I would (after overtexting and e-mailing her for over a month). I asked her if she was seeing someone new and she said yes. Later she asked that I keep my word (and dignity) and let her go. So since I promised not to contact her again, all I can do is accept it and see if she ever contacts me? Is there an acceptable amount of time to wait and then reeinitiate contact with her or will this make her angry? A game plan you might suggest. Today is Valentine's day, ...so depressed.
These posts will help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-walk-away-from-your-ex-if-she-keeps-rejecting-you.html www.themodernman.com/blog/5-reasons-why-walking-away-after-a-break-up-doesnt-always-make-a-woman-come-running-back-to-you.html
I feel I have made huge strides forward, walking away will be a total defeat. Her words are encouraging. Saying she is glad I am still here in the home with her, that she likes how we are becoming friends again, and would just appreciate the space and time. That can mean 2 things. Space and time to just finally get over the relationship or space and time to heal us back together?? Hard to tell what a woman thinks. But walking away isn't an option right now. There is no other woman for me.
Hei, dan She is not emotionally attach to me any more, she started to date new guys talking with all the time. But we do still meet each other but not that way we used be. When we brock up i was very jealous about others guys we had fight for months. So what can i do.
ive been trying this and we end up having sex every time we hang out but she keeps spending the time away from me hating me after we are done hanging out. She still wont get back with me. This constant testing is overwhelming.
Dan!!! I did it! today, me and my ex kissed! I think I'll be able to reconcile our relationship much sooner than I thought, I couldn't have done it without your fucking advice man seriously, drop a reply when you got time and I'll tell you there story!! btw I'm the same commenter as 'Craig's phone' this is my new email
Awesome! :D Well done man! Finally!!! Yes, please tell me and everyone else what happened. (Try to avoid revealing all the secrets of the program though! Lol...).
What if I did a complete positive turn around, got motivated and got into Medical school as she always wanted (for myself), different approach to arguments, cool collective. She has been talking about getting back and we hang out as we are together but not completely, I can feel it. She keeps lingering and bringijng back the past and old negativity, when there's 0 need for it. After 6 month of her constantly forcefully keeping me at distance as soon as she feels we are getting close, I broke it off with her right before Christmas. I explained that I want to be with her, but Not with the person she's now. What's left for me? Just let it Go? After 4 years together?
Sounds like you were almost there, but she could still tell that you wanted her more than she wanted you. This may have come across if you subtly gave her the impression that you were making all those changes to impress her (i.e. she felt like you were selling yourself to her, which never works on a woman). These posts will help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/my-ex-pulls-me-in-by-showing-interest-and-then-pushes-me-away-by-saying-shes-not-ready.html www.themodernman.com/blog/she-is-scared-that-she-will-be-unhappy-again-if-we-get-back-together.html www.themodernman.com/blog/how-do-you-get-an-ex-back-without-seeming-like-youre-pressuring-her-into-it.html
Dan, my wife and I has separated after 13 years I talk down to her and made her feel unloved we are in apart for 3 months now and we hooked up recently but she said she still wants me to give her space but she insists she doesn't know what's wrong with her and that she doesn't deserve to be loved what do I do?
This is the third time I'm coming back to Dan Bacon's videos lol, this is the third time I lost the same girl, it happens every year at that time, this time we're living together and she tells me to leave the flat cause we are not together anymore, yet she allows me to touch her butt, boobs, but no kisses. And she tells me to go find a new flat for me, damn, I'm such a stupid guy, making the same mistakes by not respecting my woman
Dude I follow yours tips few days later she was begging to come back n telling she love me n can’t live without me
Awesome! Well done man! Enjoy! :D
Thank you the man
The love isn't dead, it's just disconnected. Thanks for that. I needed to hear it.
Emotional weakness is my problem
My man you are EXTREMELY intelligent. The depth of knowledge you have is amazing. I've made alot of the mistakes you've described. My fiancee and I recently broke up. She ended it. I was an asshole who was selfish and didn't listen to her feelings. As well as always accusing her of cheating and insecure. In the day's since watching your videos I've been developing a more positive text interaction. In a few day's I'm gonna ask her out. It's amazing how losing the love of your life opens your eyes.
You're a genius
Thanks!
Example number 2 was me in the entirety. I hate myself for this.
I’ve listened to many videos on this channel and it’s the most brilliant advice (not just on RUclips) but anywhere that I’ve ever heard. It all makes perfect sense but it isn’t a man’s natural response to a women he’s having issues with. That’s because he’s the issue. Great, great advice here. Profound and truly life altering.
My only question is this:
'' Dear Dan Bacon,
how the hell did you do to get all this knowledge, you're sooo f... Incredible dude''
My dude i know you've heard this who knows how many times, but thank you. Your videos are giving me the inspiration and much needed confidence to get my woman back 🙌🏼
Thank you Dan! This is gold!
This is the best video on getting your ex back! Thanks Dan! I also got the Flow e book. :)
Thanks for sharing all this wisdom with us. Really appreciate it. This is much needed!
You are playing the role of that elder bro that we never had! Thank you so much!
It's like you know what she said 🙌🏾
Thanks dude. I'm going through this right now and I need to win her over all over again. Thanks a tonne.
Dude you Litterally are the best! No contact does now work fellas!! Listen to him
How i didnt found this when she broke up with me...
pretty sure it would've worked
Omg you have solutions for all relationship related probs
How do you come out with all the solutions
Hi Dan. My wife and I have recently split and we have a 2 year old son together. There was an incident last year where I got frustrated and lost my temper in our house and she had not been the same with me since. It was like we had been co-existing for the last 12 months. I found out that a couple of months ago she had cheated on me which she said was for "comfort and a shoulder to cry on" and it only started as the two of them chatting. She is not seeing that other man now. I am prepared to forgive her but at this moment I don't think she is prepared to forgive me or draw a line under everything. I have never directed my anger at my wife but the outbursts scare her. I am addressing it though. Another problem was that she thought I was selfish and never wanted to do anything with her or my son. She felt like I didn't love her and that she was living like a single person. I am also addressing that now because we go on 'family' days out. What course of action would you advise? I am sure words won't mean anything. Perhaps she has lost the respect for me?
Dan, I hae watched several of your videos, and they are helping me to understand, or at least be a bit more clear about, why my still girlfriend has change her attitude the last 3 months, she started snapping for things that a year ago she would only would told me to stop doing, or not to tell some thing on certain way. I guess it's because, as you said, I lost my masculine side, and started being emotionly sensitive.
The thing is this, we had fought and talk about the topic too much, and we agreed into give ourselves space and not talk or see each other untill she felt more relaxed and cleared about this to decide wether or not we would be still together or if we break up, she has told me with tears on her eyes that she love me but this situation hurts so much ans that's why she was thinking that maybe we would be better if we break up. Also, she has hectic schedule at work and has a son, so she was under stress.
It's been two weeks so far, and neither of us has said anything. You see, I think that if I contact her, again, I would came across as that I dind't get it, and needy, just because I didn't respect the agreement. We agreed on that like a month ago, but I still talked sometimes with her and saw her a couple of times, but we argue those times. So, we talked, and really took this space serious this time.
I'm really struggling on deciding what to do now.
Dan my man!
Quito-Ecuador
2020
6 years later im back to this video.
This is golden.
So I've made some progress, started getting better responses from her, however she is selectively ignoring when I ask to catch up or stuff. I'm not sure what it means when the other responses are good. I may be going too fast? When asking to hang out it's been just over 2 months since the break up
Story lined up with me to the T
I’m 2 years late but thank you!! I’m going to try this and I have a good feeling about it
Dude i don't know but your example as a man mistakes have a big similarities on what mistakes i have done, i did almost all of that where we're in the point that she doesn't have any feeling and interest on me but im really passionate to gain her love back
thank u bro, u r great
Love you videos man they really give me hope
You are so correct
She says she loves me but isn't in love with me anymore. How do I tackle this? Wants everything to stay the same just no intimacy (never said she's not attracted to me) 🤷
Hi dan, great vids m8! I am still hopeful for my wife and I but we have just started a separation in the same house (due to our daughter and getting the house sold, so it’s difficult as we only communicate by txt for now. Any tips as we have set a time frame of an initial separation of 2 months like this.
Yes, these 3 videos will really help you: ruclips.net/video/YKPwk9QmLn4/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html and this ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html
Hello Dear frnd..!!
Thank you for your videos..
These video provide confidence and make me strong internaly..
I hv a situation whr we wr not being in distant relationship from the begning.... we wr in same college with each other, later on i hv to go other city & bcm in long distant relationship.. we had 5yrs healthy relationship.but aftr bcming apart from her city, in difrnt city, one day we had some fighting..and aftr tht i bcm more aggrasive to her.. and lastly she told me tht she want brk up (on 6th Nov)..and aftr 2 days she told me tht she strtd to like some other guy and they go for date too.
I tried "no contact rule".. but faild & do contact her.. she told me why you stopd contacting me aftr fighting, though i know u cudnt stay apart with me without talking for more than hour..and i will never get person like you.
Aftr tht i bcm emotional and talked her.. but she told tht she dont want to live with me more as she stred to like some other guy..
Aftr tht i again tried to strt "no cntct rule" but in between she wished my bday and aftr tht i talkd her.. by talking i came to know she was ill & had less money too.. i sent her money and ordrd online shopping few winter cloths for her..
She replied tht "y u take so much care of me"?
I told coz from the begning only i take care of urs, thts y..
again from next day she stopped picking my calls ,but reply my texts late..
I bcm strong to strt no contct rule once again to her,
I m continueing "no cntct rule" as 2nd attempt, since 29th Nov.
Does it be effective now..?
One thing i noticed tht whnever i broke "no cntc rule" she gave a quick responce to my msgs & talked with me in very gentle manner & in a way like she want continue talking, but i cut the phn by saying bye,. But from next day she again stopped replying on call
We had 5yrs rlasnsp and were in same place, but being apart in difrnt city now, & I am cnfusd rgrding my long distance relsnsp brk up.. and i think if i still continue "no contact" then i will loose her, permanently..
Its difclt to contrl the pain as her family membrs planning for her marriage...
She is now in a rebound relationship & i m in a distant relationship. So, I break my"no contct rule" at 28 days..
I will feel lucky if u guide me personaly..
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Cud u plzz guide me...!!
If you're not in the same city and you want her back, you've got to get to the point where she is willing to meet up with you in person. In person, you can then re-attract her and hook up sexually, even if you both agree that it's the last time. Of course, it won't be because you will blow her mind. If you need more help, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html You will also get this program as a free bonus: www.themodernman.com/videos/ultimate-make-up-sex.html
Dan Bacon hello Dan..
I want to talk to you..how can i..?
I hv just passd the university and to be frank, i m unable to pay ur fee... but i want to say that can u help me compltly.. coz wht ever u said in ur videos its all true & i m faceing the same.. and i m noticing tht, gradualy i m loosing her...she us now in a rebound relationship..
Its very painful to see tht i m watching my future through ur videos...but still not abl to make all the things good...
I Just need you first..
Plzz help me Big Brother...plzzz...🙏
I will never forget ur favor..
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Thank you..
This is good. Solid tips. Dan, how should I change this for a long-distance relationship that failed?
We were going to be in the same town in 2 months, but she broke up with me. The relationship started out as in-person, then went long-distance and that failed. Should I wait till we're back in the same town, or start reconnecting with her now even if we're still long-distance?
i can't find any videos about this...me and my girlfriend just broke up we are now just friends but we are kissing and we have had sex while we have ben just friends,but she says she needs time and aren't ready for a relationship how do i fix this? it is kinda like she uses me to get over me if that makes any sense
Hey... good video, one question, are you going to do more videos on dating advice?
Yes, but not for now. I plan to make a lot of videos on this topic (so many guys need the help!) and then on the topic of relationships. I will then focus back on dating advice. In the meantime, here is a playlist of my dating advice videos: ruclips.net/video/UWLcofMmC9o/видео.html
I met my ex today. i talked to her and I said that I'm sorry for my mistakes. I became needy and jealous. so I apologize today and she told me I apologize late. she said it's been 3 which is not true. it's being 1 almost 2. I just couldn't talk to her in my state but now I'm ready. while talking to her she kept looking at my body. like every part you know. idk why. and she was like really open to me. she tild me everything going in her life. problems how she feel etc. what does it mean?? I could sensed that I we are going to get back if I focus on making her feel attracted to me.
Sounds like she was opening up to you. What would have worked is getting to a hug and then kiss, as explained in the video. If she is feeling a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, then proceed to making her feel like she is in love with you again. Physical contact always helps that along.
Dan Bacon i just didn't wanted her to see me as needy or that I need her. I felt that If I go for a hug I would push her away. she was crying for some reasons. I wanted to hug her. let her know I'm there but I just didn't wanted her to push het.
Nah, you need to be more ballsy than that. It's like when you're picking up women. If you hesitate, she shuts the gate. Women respect confidence. They respond to it by feeling attracted. It's a natural thing man. Hesitating never helps. You've got to make a move. If she said, "What are you doing?" just laugh and say, "Heyyy, it's just a hug" and tease her for being overly dramatic about a hug. She will then hug you. Gotta have confidence man.
Dan Bacon thank you. you're the best. you helped me a lot to actually have the balls to talk to her. I'm glad I found your videos. I would have done something stupid like being if it wasn't for you. i wont hesistate next time . youre the best, thank you
should you ever ask her if you can kiss her? see what she says?
Hello Dan, what do I do if she has my number blocked and I unfriended me on social media? Is there still a chance? The reason being I made the mistake of asking for another chance after she informed me she lost feelings for me and wanted to just be friends. Thank you for all your work
You can get her to refriend you on social media and then unblock your phone. That's a strategy I only teach in my program though. If you're interested in learning how, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Hey dan i had 2.5 yrs relationship and as you explained in the video i was very controlling insecure and possessive she broke up with me and said that she didn't feel for me now and she left.. i begged and pleaded and she blocked me from everywhere. After 1.5month of no contact i sent her a text message today and she said that she didn't wanna meet me and blocked me from sms too, i called her and she didn't pick up.. what should i do now
In that case, you need to use other techniques first, before contacting her again. Those techniques are only taught in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Don't worry - you can get her back. You just have to be a bit creative about it now. You can do it. Many guys start out in your position and get their woman back.
Super info 👌
Thank you
Hi Dan I have some question how can contact you thanks your video
I have watched all your youtube video's. After the lust period she started changing and i started getting insecure. She ended up breaking up with me and said dont try to contact me or i will block your number and hung up. I made the mistake of trying to post things on her facebook wall to get her to talk to me to work things out. She blocked me on Facebook.. I ended up drunk txting her a couple nights later. She had a guy friend msg me saying thnx for being insecure so i could move in on her. Then he started saying that i should just back off and give her time to chill.. After that I have almost stopped sending her txt because she has shut down any communication with me, but i wished her happy birthday 1 day and today i sent her a txt about a moment i had that reminded me of her. Its only been 5 days since the break up and since i txt her today to wish her happy birthday i am going to not txt her for a a few days and then try again and see what happens. I just dont know if i am wasting my time because she told me to never talk to her again and she has done that but i believe if i want her i should go get her.. Obviously I am working on myself in the meantime but this no contact with no closure to our relationship is a first for me and it feels like i am getting mind fuked. Oh the guy she had msg me is the guy i had a insecurity about. So yeah. The last txt i sent was alittle sexual but not to much. Trying to use txt to build that respect and attraction.
She breakups with me after 3 years of a relationship, This is exactly my situation, she was totally in love with me, but I was not focusing on her that much, so I went on a holiday she started dating someone else and doesn't want to do anything with me, sometimes she picked up my calls, but sometimes not, she's nice to me but doesn't wanna come back, and she's hidden her new relationship, and when I started to see something is going on, I was so needy and begging, and I think that makes my situation more works. So what do you think about my situation?
Hi Dan!
I talk to my ex regularly and have met with her in person a couple of times now. We have a Good friendship going right now but she keeps bringing up that she doesnt want anything more than that. Even though she lets me flirt with her in person i still Feel like she doesnt respect me. I said some very hurtful things to her which i am positive was the reason she lost respect, attraction and love for me. Should i apologize for the things i said while making it seem like it is important for me to put these mistakes behind me? Will this make her Feel respect for me again?
Apologize, but don't make it seem important that you are trying to put the mistakes behind you. Women don't want to feel like you need their encouragement, approval or involvement on your journey of discovery as a man. She just wants you to sort yourself out and get on with being the kind of man that she can respect, feel attracted to and love. No need to tell her that you're trying to be that. Just be it. BTW: Kiss her!
@dan bacon I have made a lot of improvements while my ex is in a rebound. It's clear to me that she pretends to be happy and often shows signs that she misses me, but I feel she is being manipulated or feels like she can't betray the new person. Is contacting the rebound something you recommend? I have tried a lot of your advice to get her on the phone. She contacts me when she breaks up twice wtih him already. Give me a tip please. thank you in advance
Don't contact the rebound guy. Do this instead: ruclips.net/video/1bXsYo8fW2g/видео.html
thank you for your reply. i felt i was doing a good job, but can never get to a call. all i had was instagram to show her how i was improving and she just suddenly blocked me. i didn't harass her or anything. so i am really lost now and not in a clingy way...i feel really good but i dont' know.
I wish you would do a session on couples that live together. No contact is not an option.
This will help you: ruclips.net/video/MMIY68d_KCM/видео.html
My ex was in CA for the holiday she called me last night ans we talked for almost 2 hours on the phone last night. She was laughing so hard at all the things we talked about... we haven't talked that much in a year !! thanks Dan, I levelled up for sure.
Can somebody fall back in love with the same person?
She lost respect for me because I overreacted. She said that was it.
Hey Dan! I need some help! My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago for the first time after dating for 2 months. We got back 4 days later but we broke up again on Dec. 1st. She would send me one word text messages and said that I needed to be more entertaining. She wouldn't tell me that she actually wanted to leave me. She stopped spending time at my house. She's younger than 20 and I'm 22. She still texted me but the affection wasn't there. I thought about giving it some time but my mental state couldn't do it. I needed time and space to take a step back and realize what I needed to do to win her back. After the second breakup I did get desperate asking for her back and doing things I should not have done. I met up with her a week later and told her the things I need to improve on and what I'm improving on. She told me that it was a bunch of bullshit and that she didn't really have any feelings for me anymore. She contacted me a week later wanting her things back from my place. We met in person and she yelled out what do you want from me? I told her I need some time to get myself right. She said I can't wait forever. That was two weeks ago. She contacted me last night asking how I was doing. I lied and said I was great but also told her I'm improving myself and I think she's the one. in reality I think about her everyday and I feel like she's the one for me. Please help! What do you think I should do Dan??
Am trying but don't know what or how to get her back please help me please she blocked me on all social media
How can I make her feel respect when she’s isn’t answering my phone calls or text ?? I haven’t talked to her for a month and I called her today she didn’t answer
Good question and that is exactly why I don't recommend the No Contact Rule. It doesn't work in most cases. You didn't call her for a month, she didn't call you and then, when you called, she didn't answer. It happens all the time. So, if you are in a situation now where she isn't willing to communicate, I have other techniques for you to use to bring her guard down and get her to open back up to talking to you on the phone and in person. If you are interested, I reveal those techniques in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Man this is what is happening with me n i guess it's not that late so i have the chance to make for it
My ex works late Monday to Friday and for the next few weekends she has work to catch up on so it's almost impossible to get a meet up with her for the next few weeks and I really want her back by Valentine's day, what should I do?
I really messed up al be honest I was abusive to her she is scared to be around me and she says for me to talk to my counselor cause of my anger please help me
Hey Dan. Seriously considering getting the Ex back super system. Would you recommended for me considering the following?
Me and my girl broke up 3 months ago. I tried to contact her several times. I'm now blocked on all social media. She one time unblocked me cuz she said she didn't want to have me blocked. But since then she has got a restraining order on me for a month. This is because two months after our break up she finally agreed to meeting up with me. but when we met up I panicked and I didn't leave her car when she asked me too. About two hours until I finally left the car and her anxiety was through the roof. I just wanted to talk to her but she kept saying she is done. I screwed up. During the over 2 year relationship we fell in love and both wanted to be with each other forever. I forgive her for everything. I understand I was most likely putting way too much pressure on her. I didn't act like myself, I think it's cuz this is the girl I want to marry so I got overwhelmed.
Yes, definitely. You absolutely have to use a different approach with her from now on, to get rid of her focus on the car incident. You have to change her perception of you. I explain exactly how to do that in my program and it's a very important part of the process (it's Step 3 of 7 of the ex back process). For more info, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Dan Bacon thank you for replying my man! And keep up the great work. Your doing big things! Does the 30 day money back include if she ends up refusing to talk to me no matter what? I can afford it, was just wondering Dan. Thanks for the link! Take care - - Spence
You're welcome man! About the guarantee: I have a very strict policy when it comes to the money back guarantee. See section 5 here: store.themodernman.com/terms_and_conditions.html Cheers, Dan
Dan Bacon I bought the program. Starting tonight! I have no doubts I'll learn from you. Hopefully I can get results. I love her more than anything. Cheers mate!
Dan, a few months ago, our life together was exactly like you said, boring, mundane, no sex, wouldnt even really kiss or hug me. I pushed her to make that decision, she stopped being in love and broke up. we own our home together, still live together. I have turned myself back into that guy she was in love with, she laughs, texts, totally interacts again, but still haven't turned her completely about. She is in California for Christmas the last two nights we spent texting for hours.. just talking about anything, but us as a couple. Do you see her coming around? how do I know that she respects me again? it seems 100% better but still broke apart sexually and not emotionally commited. New years eve is coming, am I wrong to ask her for a new years hug and a kiss? Or is it too soon? your videos have ttaught me so much, you have been right about everything. what now?? help.
going to purchase your program...... thanks Dan
This is exactly how my relationship went. It lasted 5 years and I completely lost her respect. I have tried leveling up as a man and I feel I am still not gaining her respect. How can I do this even more so?
she always choose to hangout with her best friend after backing off from me. and she said they both will be together forever and go wherever one of them go. what shall I do it get her choose me over her girl best friend?
How can i get in touch with you.
Dan HOW TO GET AN EX THAT FULLY BLOCKED ME ON ALL MEDIA AND MY NUMBER, she lives 5 min away with a new bf HELP!!! Her job is also 5 min away.???
Dan Bacon help!!! Everything you said is what happened to me. Except she's fully blocked me Everywhere. She has someone new. Help.
Don't worry, you can get her back. I don't have RUclips videos about getting unblocked though. That is only taught in my program, along with all of my best techniques: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html About her having a new guy: Watch this ruclips.net/video/1bXsYo8fW2g/видео.html
Hi Dan - My ex has recently had a big operation and since moved in her new flat by herself (she was previously in shared) she has been away and recovering with family and away from me she has now moved into her new flat and all of a sudden she has been cold and dumped me. She says she doesn't like the fact I dont rememeber what i tell her , and the face that my ex is a friend and my last gf who treated ne badly commented on my insta post - How can i win her back?
Thanks dan got to step 2 not really hard when u think about it’s all basically u need to re connection to her as friends but don’t agree to be friends I always put if off when my ex’s ask me if we should just be friends... I finally got to move back with my ex’s but where just friends tho what should I do next Dan?? ... ps we had intercourses so ... hopefully that narrows it down
I lost on all 3 counts !
Hey I need your help. I asked our my crush and she said yes and she seemed very happy that I asked her out. However, for some reason she told me that she didn't wanna go out with me or start anything. I am not sure what happened and I am very confused. She also told me that she liked me since the day we first met. What should I do next? I would appreciate it very very much if you help me out here. Please! ☹
What if she is still in love with me? And she is physically attracted to me? At least I feel like she is. She said she doesn’t want to be with someone if it’s not with me. She is currently on tinder but I know it’s her friends trying to push her towards that. I did lose her trust in the relationship and hurt her. I didn’t sleep with another but I was sexting. I am very ashamed of it. Do I need to get her respect back? She says she needs time to better herself. Do I try to get her back or let her heal and leave her alone?
Dan, should I randomly
Go visit de house or job?
Only if you have prepared yourself to attract her in new and interesting ways. If you use the same old approach to attraction that got you dumped, she's not going to be impressed. Here are some videos that will help you: ruclips.net/video/iPuCD4vkdXo/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/gteM37nIvLM/видео.html
Hi! I am bi. How can I get my ex girlfriend back if she likes someone else (girl). It seems that she is happy with that girl and I think the girl is giving motives even if she is only telling me that her girl crush doesn't like her. What should I do? I really love her, I am trying to be strong.
Hey dan my now ex we were together for 3 years just left me and she moved to a different state and said I wasn't treating her well enough and being open enough any ideas?
Hey dan,
Me and my ex broke up 2 days ago, we did via telephone and ended up just talking about each others day and had quite a good talk, the day after she asked why we never really called when we weren't together, she enjoyed it and so did I, later that day in the evening she texted me how I was doing and had a short conversation. I really want her back and I really want to call her, But I'm not sure whether she would want to aswell, so my question is should I just call her?
Cheers!
You have nothing to lose by trying. Just make sure that when you do call her, you start the call off in a confident, easy-going manner. Let your natural charisma come through and charm her. You can do it. If you want to know the exact wording to say to get her to meet up with you and give you another chance, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Does this work even if she told me she is 100% over me and it doesn’t matter to her anymore and it’s too late to fix anything? We’ve been broken up for a month and 3 weeks now and I really want to get her back
For sure. Watch this new video to understand why and how: ruclips.net/video/Dnn1cGxdB7A/видео.html
Hey Mr. Bacon, could you please make a video about becoming someone who takes charge? I'm 22, I'm not exactly sure I understand what taking charge entails, please and thank you! :)
Here's a video that will help you: ruclips.net/video/HHSamPlVsXs/видео.html
Hey man , been watching your videos for a while now and they have been great help . I want to know how I cant tell if of it works in terms of respect , attraction and love , like hints or things that I can see ?
Dan am really confused right now, how do i make her feel respect for me cus based on your previous videos i believe i can be categorised as an emotional wussy, now she's not even giving me a chance to see her or talk to her. Is there a way i can still get her back?
What if you're not emotionally strong and never can be.
IT WORKS!!! THANK U WTF
How do you vet women? I really need something indepth.
This will help you: ruclips.net/video/cmtLYZSP1tc/видео.html
Dan Bacon Thank you.
Hey Dan...my ex made me keep my word not to contact her again so I told her I would (after overtexting and e-mailing her for over a month). I asked her if she was seeing someone new and she said yes. Later she asked that I keep my word (and dignity) and let her go. So since I promised not to contact her again, all I can do is accept it and see if she ever contacts me? Is there an acceptable amount of time to wait and then reeinitiate contact with her or will this make her angry? A game plan you might suggest. Today is Valentine's day, ...so depressed.
How do you know when it is time to walk away?
These posts will help you:
www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-walk-away-from-your-ex-if-she-keeps-rejecting-you.html
www.themodernman.com/blog/5-reasons-why-walking-away-after-a-break-up-doesnt-always-make-a-woman-come-running-back-to-you.html
Thanks a lot Dan!
I feel I have made huge strides forward, walking away will be a total defeat. Her words are encouraging. Saying she is glad I am still here in the home with her, that she likes how we are becoming friends again, and would just appreciate the space and time. That can mean 2 things. Space and time to just finally get over the relationship or space and time to heal us back together?? Hard to tell what a woman thinks. But walking away isn't an option right now. There is no other woman for me.
Hei, dan
She is not emotionally attach to me any more, she started to date new guys talking with all the time. But we do still meet each other but not that way we used be. When we brock up i was very jealous about others guys we had fight for months. So what can i do.
that exactly what happened
ive been trying this and we end up having sex every time we hang out but she keeps spending the time away from me hating me after we are done hanging out. She still wont get back with me. This constant testing is overwhelming.
Hey Dan my wife of 20 years wants me to find my own place
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Dan!!!
I did it! today, me and my ex kissed! I think I'll be able to reconcile our relationship much sooner than I thought, I couldn't have done it without your fucking advice man seriously, drop a reply when you got time and I'll tell you there story!!
btw I'm the same commenter as 'Craig's phone' this is my new email
Awesome! :D Well done man! Finally!!! Yes, please tell me and everyone else what happened. (Try to avoid revealing all the secrets of the program though! Lol...).
What if I did a complete positive turn around, got motivated and got into Medical school as she always wanted (for myself), different approach to arguments, cool collective. She has been talking about getting back and we hang out as we are together but not completely, I can feel it. She keeps lingering and bringijng back the past and old negativity, when there's 0 need for it.
After 6 month of her constantly forcefully keeping me at distance as soon as she feels we are getting close, I broke it off with her right before Christmas. I explained that I want to be with her, but Not with the person she's now.
What's left for me? Just let it Go? After 4 years together?
Sounds like you were almost there, but she could still tell that you wanted her more than she wanted you. This may have come across if you subtly gave her the impression that you were making all those changes to impress her (i.e. she felt like you were selling yourself to her, which never works on a woman). These posts will help you:
www.themodernman.com/blog/my-ex-pulls-me-in-by-showing-interest-and-then-pushes-me-away-by-saying-shes-not-ready.html
www.themodernman.com/blog/she-is-scared-that-she-will-be-unhappy-again-if-we-get-back-together.html
www.themodernman.com/blog/how-do-you-get-an-ex-back-without-seeming-like-youre-pressuring-her-into-it.html
Dan, my wife and I has separated after 13 years I talk down to her and made her feel unloved we are in apart for 3 months now and we hooked up recently but she said she still wants me to give her space but she insists she doesn't know what's wrong with her and that she doesn't deserve to be loved what do I do?
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This is the third time I'm coming back to Dan Bacon's videos lol, this is the third time I lost the same girl, it happens every year at that time, this time we're living together and she tells me to leave the flat cause we are not together anymore, yet she allows me to touch her butt, boobs, but no kisses. And she tells me to go find a new flat for me, damn, I'm such a stupid guy, making the same mistakes by not respecting my woman