@@steveangle4808 Psalm 46:10 New International Version He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”
“Stop chasing it. If you feel like it’s not working out, if you feel like it brings a lot of confusion and resistance, that’s your answer right there… it’s time to let go.” I hollered when he said that… I really needed to hear that. Thank you God for bringing this video to my feed🥹🙏🏾
I keep trying to tell myself I am only in high school I have my entire life ahead of me- its just hard sometimes watching all my friends have someone and I've never had a talking stage. But I trust God I know He is preparing me for love, and when the time is right it will work out.
Don’t worry about it!! I never worried about it and did amazing things in hs. college was not like that I kinda got distracted w love story and romanticing toxic ppl. Here is this I learned. When you r in school focus on school when you r at work focus on work and when u r in relationship focus on relationship. If something meant to happen it will stop you from what you doing and occur ( like meeting a what you think a potential partner at school ) and when that happen great take a pause and ask god is that what he wants for you if not MOVE, block them, tell them u not interested etc don’t follow them or even open a door for temptation just don’t. I know we r curious individuals but trust me just relay on god. Not everything is worth pursuing some r made exactly for you and in the right timing and for that it’s is surly worth pursuing. God bless ❤
I’m a senior in high school, and i’ll tell you that i first started dating in my freshman year, and the relationships i were in brought me boundless pain. I deeply regret putting myself in those relationships because i ended up giving my all to the people i dated, and i didn’t get that in return. It could be that you’ve even been shielded from that type of pain, and that’s a blessing. So like you said, when the time is right it’ll work out. May God bless you
@@Tranquilitiii ya I have friend who betrayed me and I think my mom just emphasized the idea that school come first and relationship is second and I trusted my mom and followed it and ngl relationship in very young age does not sounds good and most likely u won’t end up w them so don’t waste ur time
Same here. I'm a sophomore in High School and so many of my friends are in relationships, and just most people in general at my school have someone. And even though I'm choosing to be patient and remain single until God is ready for me to be with the person he has for me I still kinda feel like the odd one out.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Do not believe those demonic lies. It’s all divination and witch craft. Pray, seek the Lords face and surrender. No sound and spirit filled leader/mentor would claim to be able to bring your ex back. It is all witch craft and divination.
The timing is right. I was confused about my love life and was daydreaming about my crushes but then I realized I was chasing and had to stop. I need to focus on myself/I am focusing on myself and spending time with friends and myself then one day the right person will come. I don't chase I attrack
If you are waiting for the right person to come along, you are just rolling the dice and crossing your fingers. I think you should think that over again. That's like breaking down in front of a repair shop and saying this must be the best repair shop in town.
@@Dancediva240 It's just like selling a product, except here you're selling yourself. The more contacts you make, the better chance on making a sale. Just like the old saying gos, If you want it done right, do it yourself. That's what I have found through life, nobody is going to do it for you, including God. So I have to do it myself. Another old saying I learned from a guy at work is. (If it is to be, it's up to me.) If you are going to waite for God to bring you a mate, you will be old and lonely like me. It's too bad I learned all this way to late in life now it's too late for me. Remember this one thing, God gave us. "FREE WILL" Enough said.
@@garybregel1572 I've exercised that free will enough to find someone. Never got me anywhere. With all my friends who found their partners, they didnt have to go hunting. They met them organically either through work, mutual friends or at a function of some sort. One is a big homebody who found his wife on social media from a neighbouring country. If you want it done right, do it yourself is a great way of thinking but unfortunately you're dealing with another human being here. And you can pull all the right moves, be on your best behaviour and be a literal saint and you still cannot make someone fall genuinely in love with you and wanna be with you. Comparing finding love to making contacts to make a sale might sound smart on paper, in real life it's more complicated than that. There really is a lot of luck and destiny involved which is out of your grasp. That doesnt mean dont make efforts to get to know ppl of course, but beyond that there really isnt much you can do, no matter how proactive you are in meeting ppl. When and if you watch MeetCutes, you can listen to some really strange and interesting ways these couples have found each other. These are real life stories and there have been couples who found each other at a traffic light, walking down a street, on a stoop in New York, anywhere basically.
I was just praying and crying about that :/ so this video came in the right time , I’m so worried and afraid thinking that I will give up , as soon as I told people that I want wait until marriage more far away they go. It’s so hard to be a Christian when the world values are changed. I feel frustrated daily, but I know I’m in the right way of obedience to my Father. Pray for me friends and I will pray for you all.
@@AyeshaQamar-jt3fsThis a Christian video. Please do not spread Muslamity on it. Please study the Christian Bible and realize what is right. God Bless You🤍
If you want to follow God in all aspects of your life, then the chances that you find your soulmate is very low. Unless you join every club and go to all your churchs events then you may have a chance. Getting out and meeting people is the answer.
Honestly you don’t even have to try, you could be going to store and meet your partner, like you don’t have to go out and look , cause when it’s your time, it would be orchestrated by the Lord
Thank you for this. Exactly what I needed to hear and clearly sent by God when I needed it most. You’re doing the Lords work! May God bless you abundantly!
I saw this video twice in a row yesterday and today and it's crazy because I've been yearning for a connection/relationship with someone, only to realise that if God didn't provide me with a relationship then it just means I'm not ready for one. This video helped so thank you
I always thought i dont care if im single or not but its beacause of fear about relationship , you know the negative side of it . I always say ill be single the rest of my life and ill be ok ... but not until yesterday that i realize , i needed someone or i want to feel this thing they called relationship and love . I cried out to God for the first time about this situation . I know im not ready , but seeing other people im very curios as well like i was it like that someone is right there for you , go on dates and stuff couples do . i know we can find this on our family like the support or help but its different if its another person , i hope you know what i mean . Ive watch a lot of love stories to fill that void and longing but i just got fed up and cried out to God yesterday ..... i also tried not to obsess with it but well i failed as i wil think about it a lot . WHAT A NICE TIMING . THANKYOU LORD
Yes is true i felt like that i was embarrassed ashamed becaue my ex made me feel unworthy and woukd always say negative things or put my self esteem down but thank god niw gid showed me i deserve someone and i deserve loyalty and a godly man Amen Alex
please don't. Jesus loves you and cares for you. He has died for you to have life. He is the Gardener you are searching for. Come to Jesus Christ of the Bible. He will give you rest.
God is the one true constant in your life. The way you feel will fade, circumstances change, life will keep moving from chapter to chapter. But you can trust in the love, faithfulness and constancy of the Lord Jesus in your life if you believe in Him and ask Him to be part of your life.
Yes exit that life that you have chased and start over w Jesus. I did not trust god once about something he constantly warned me and did feel idiot of not trusting him enough and now I have restarted over w Christ it’s hard regardless bc I feel like walking w Jesus is somewhat very slow paced but the reward is beyond measures while when we taking things our own it’s fast result but it end quickly if it’s not on Gods planning.
Yes exit that life that you have chased and start over w Jesus. I did not trust god once about something he constantly warned me and did feel idiot of not trusting him enough and now I have restarted over w Christ it’s hard regardless bc I feel like walking w Jesus is somewhat very slow paced but the reward is beyond measures while when we taking things our own it’s fast result but it end quickly if it’s not on Gods planning.
I'm learning right now how to just focus on myself while I'm in my single era at 26 yrs old. I know to myself that I'm not yet ready for love again, yet there are just times where I seek for love. But i keep reminding myself, to love myself first and enjoy this transformative season
I love the butterfly analogy. It's like who are you chasing. These heartbreaks can be ordained by God, because He wants to show us nothing can fulfill like Him. We get to our lowest point so we can finally walk in true "blind" faith. God will sit with us in our grief. I don't know what's going on but I praise You anyways. Why not chase and focus on God who will always be running after you?
I have been feeling down for a couple days because I'm craving that special relationship so much it hurts. Seeing others being in happy couples keeps reminding me of what I am missing and I'm starting to lose hope I will ever find the love that I'm craving. What is really sad is the fact that when I was a child, Christmas was my favorite time of the year but now it is just reminding me of how single I am and it is making me truly depressed.
Thankyou friend. This made me cry but i understood. Being a 22 year old girl, i thought i knew everything. But no, sometimes you need advice from an another person. It can change your point of view.
Thank You God for bringing this video to me. Alex, thank you so much for this. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. I love God and God loves me and I know that i will eventually find the one God has chosen for me. But the heartbreak is just so hard in the meantime. When you’ve built this connection with somebody, devoted and dedicated yourselves to them, and you come to break apart; not due to you as individuals but the reality and brutality of life. But Jesus is reassuring, and will console my heartbreak until I am ready
God bless you Alex, that word came like a balm! you know it came straight from God when it crossed the globe and arrived at the right time. Regards from Brazil 🇧🇷❤️🔥
God really wanted me to see this video, I’ve been venting to my friend about being single and wanting a relationship sooo badly, and god knew I needed to see this video
Woaaah its like literally god sent me this video. Its like i want to be loved and i wanna love but i really have to crack this great entrace exam and worry about my love life later. Like God telling me be patient its all gonaa come together for u. Just do ur best
You are right on time dude! I’ve been waiting for this answer by God when should I stop chasing love and relationship that full of resistance! I think this is the answer I am waiting for from God! Thank you!
Yes, you're absolutely right, I feel that, but sometimes it gets so hard to wait and hope that I feel really sad and drained of energy. .. Sometimes I want to cry. I know that God loves me but it's becomes unbearable at times to wait to wait and to wait. God, give me strength!..
The fact that I’m literally dealing with a situation like this and this pops up on my feed is God right there. His timing is indeed perfect and I need to let go and move on from the unnecessary confusion and let God take full control, I am not in control, my Savior Jesus Christ is and I need to preach that to myself right now. I don’t typically write in these, but why not. Thank you. 🙏 😇
I saw this video at the perfect time as I was struggling with my feelings. I think it was a sign from God to remind me to stop overthinking and be more patient😅
So true, we crave love and we have to stay still. The interesting thing is that I wasn’t chasing until someone made a move to come into my life. They just brought confusion and hurt. I learn that not having boundaries led me to feeling hurt. The boundary i needed to take was supposed to be motivated by telling myself “you don’t want to be a rebound. I know you are amazed by how nice their life could align with yours but it is not the right time for them to get to know you”
There is a Brazilian song that says: "for the world I have been rejected, however for you I was found and received as a guest, I have a place at the table, I enjoyed the banquet, l satisfied my hunger and thirst, now I can have enough, I can be fulfilled, because when I look at Your eyes, I know I can be satisfied.... satisfied..." Singer: Luma elpidio /song: Na Mesa We are loved for the one who loves First ❤
Thank you for this video. After years (yeah I can say that, even though I’m 19) I’m finally content with myself. I feel utter inner peace, hence God is with me! I had to realise that and it took time. There’s one thing that used to stress me out: no guy approached me, ever… I’ve never been in a talking stage, I’ve only obsessed over these guys and it led me nowhere. I always believed that I’m not worthy of attention and true love, because some might not like the way I look, the way I speak or think. I did not like myself either. Now I do! More precisely I finally understand what self love is. I’m cherishing the person I became and I’m certain that one day when I’m truly ready, God will show me my love, my other half, the man who was formed to be with me. Sorry that I wrote all of this down, but I needed it. Keep praying everyone, keep being grateful and always spread love, never hate. Soli Deo Gloria
Also great video really appreciate the part about obsession its real I have been guilty of this I literally prayed someone away for a season and God sent them away for a season. I just needed space we also weren't even dating we were just brother and sister in Christ I would see this person from time to time.
I feel so lost man, this video pretty much perfectly describes the situation I have been in. God blessed me with a godly woman but also took her from me way to fast, I literally gave her my all but in the end things just moved to fast I guess. I have been in a state of hopelesness for a week now and have prayed countless times but reality the whole situation just makes me feel suicidal
You have so much love and life to give! Don't deny someone wonderful you haven't met yet the love you both dream to share with each other! You'll crush their dream. You are meant to be here, please keep being here. Your existence matters. Ask God to show you how.
I will take this video as a sign because I really wonder why I don't have a loving relationship. I trust in God's plan for me. I will wait. I know that good is coming.
This video found me at just the right time, thank you so much 😍💕I wish to fully let go of all my attachment history, and leave it up to the universe. I will no longer force or chase, what is meant for me, will come to me.
Its so true. Even though i am content wirh my self and also spending time with lord praying and going to church ( after years of not going to church ) i have felt a little connected again. However i feel lonely sometimes and i crave for romantic love . Yes i am not pushing it through my actions as i am happy wirh myself i dont have any crushes talking stages maybe this video is the sign that i should be continuing on that as nowadays i was starting to get a little more upset over not having a partner . I will not seek for love anymore but will be love myself and love and cherish every relationship around me be it in friendship, as a daughter , as a sister , as a student and as a child of god. Thankyou for this video . God loves us.
You know this is crazy how this video popped up on my notifications because literally in my women's growth group at church last night our topic was ' is it good to wait ? For God'. And we talked about some of the people in the Bible who didn't have faith and didn't wait on what God had promised them and in return they ended up doing something bad because of that. It just hit me how I've been in all these toxic and bad relationships with men who didn't value me and hurt me because I wasn't just patient but I also wanted to love and be loved not realizing that it wasn't love I got from those men but mostly hurt. Now I am still, letting God and being patient that when it is his will that person will come. I never chased but I did accept a lot that I shouldn't have .
Thanks a lot for beautiful message❤❤i was never proposed by any guy in my 27yrs of life. And i felt bad that maybe no one likes me and I won't ever find love . I was in talking stage but i was not taken by that guy seriously. But i believe God has a plan for me and everyone if us. ❤❤Stay positive,stay hopeful guys and girls. Jesus loves you and its enough 😊....have patience ❣️
you’re right 🥲 no one i’ve talked to has ever wanted to be with me despite me giving it my all. i realized in the process i put up with a lot of shit cause i never thought i deserved better. a lot of it isn’t really in our hands. all we can do it trust that God is driving away ppl he knows aren’t right for us cause we deserve better
Its been 4 years since I had been in a relationship, and I'm feeling tired and wanting to give up already cause I really want to have a family. I'm 39 already and also have stable career, in the past 4 years I had no luck in finding someone I can connect with, there were trashy guys who just wanted a good time or just a situationship, or just stuck in the taking stage for 6 months then just finally ghosted me. Thanks for your message. Its like God has spoken to me.
Perfect timing 😂Let me stop obsessing over the idea of romantic love and worry about graduating
Lol same 😂
Haha I need to worry about this upcoming exam and yup same here
This was literally the perfect thing to pop up while I’m watching this video
Literally same haha 😅
same 😭💗💗
Even youtube knows im single....😭
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Don't worry. Have hope.
Keep well. God bless your souls👼🙌✨💫
I understand you too RUclips knows I'm single too I can relate to your message 🥺🥺
😂😂😂 🫂✌🏽
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The more we chase, the more it flies away!!!!
but stillness is the KEY!!!!
EVEN THE BIBLE SAYS:
BE STILL AND KNOW I AM GOD!
This the Truth! Thank You 🙏 when I was 20 I got anxious and chasing and attracted an ungrateful bastard. Suffered for years! 😢
@@kathleenwharton2139 amen ALL PRAISE TO THE MOST HIGH!!!
NO ONE IS RIGHTEOUS NO NOT ONE!!!
Where does it say that???
@@steveangle4808 Psalm 46:10
@@steveangle4808
Psalm 46:10
New International Version
He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”
“God knows who is for you”
-Can I get an Amen?!
Amen
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Amaen
Amen
AMEN
God is delivering messages in a weird way 😂 i mean the you tube algorithm
Right!?😅
Because a big big big mass of us is in the RUclips algorithm 😭😭
"maybe you're one heartbreak away from finding the love of your life." dude... 😭😭😭♥️
Nah facts bro the butter 🧈
🫂 as a young widowed mama who just tried again after years…oh lordy ❤ heal my heart and let me rest in your comfort. I am whole…
Bro the timing is carzy its like God is listing too me 😊
He hears you 🫶
god is there for u though u cant feel him physically ❤
Ikr samee😭
Congratulations, you figured out the RUclips algorithm
He is ❤🫶
“If they want you, they would.”
See i think this and he probably thinks this too so nothing will change
@@gabby-ue8sh" They can't steal the love you born to find " , if he was Made for you, in the end he will be yours😁
This video came in my screen at God's perfect timing. I absolutely love the butterfly analogy. It's so accurate.
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Same
“Stop chasing it. If you feel like it’s not working out, if you feel like it brings a lot of confusion and resistance, that’s your answer right there… it’s time to let go.”
I hollered when he said that… I really needed to hear that. Thank you God for bringing this video to my feed🥹🙏🏾
Yeah except it’s hard to let go.
I keep trying to tell myself I am only in high school I have my entire life ahead of me- its just hard sometimes watching all my friends have someone and I've never had a talking stage. But I trust God I know He is preparing me for love, and when the time is right it will work out.
Don’t worry about it!! I never worried about it and did amazing things in hs. college was not like that I kinda got distracted w love story and romanticing toxic ppl. Here is this I learned. When you r in school focus on school when you r at work focus on work and when u r in relationship focus on relationship. If something meant to happen it will stop you from what you doing and occur ( like meeting a what you think a potential partner at school ) and when that happen great take a pause and ask god is that what he wants for you if not MOVE, block them, tell them u not interested etc don’t follow them or even open a door for temptation just don’t. I know we r curious individuals but trust me just relay on god. Not everything is worth pursuing some r made exactly for you and in the right timing and for that it’s is surly worth pursuing. God bless ❤
I’m a senior in high school, and i’ll tell you that i first started dating in my freshman year, and the relationships i were in brought me boundless pain. I deeply regret putting myself in those relationships because i ended up giving my all to the people i dated, and i didn’t get that in return. It could be that you’ve even been shielded from that type of pain, and that’s a blessing. So like you said, when the time is right it’ll work out. May God bless you
@@Tranquilitiii ya I have friend who betrayed me and I think my mom just emphasized the idea that school come first and relationship is second and I trusted my mom and followed it and ngl relationship in very young age does not sounds good and most likely u won’t end up w them so don’t waste ur time
AMEN.. keep on believing In God, he will never fail 😊😊😊
Same here. I'm a sophomore in High School and so many of my friends are in relationships, and just most people in general at my school have someone. And even though I'm choosing to be patient and remain single until God is ready for me to be with the person he has for me I still kinda feel like the odd one out.
God knows I want someone to love. I'll patiently wait and work on myself
That's better advice than most people I've heard from.
The way I so needed this. 🥺 I've prayed so much for this to be his will, and this was my answer. Gods timing is so perfect.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him or her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Do not believe those demonic lies. It’s all divination and witch craft. Pray, seek the Lords face and surrender. No sound and spirit filled leader/mentor would claim to be able to bring your ex back. It is all witch craft and divination.
The fact that nobody talks about the book 'The Art of Self-Love' by Sabrina Windale speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
I seen this right as I was crying about my ex, thank you for this
Praying for u brother
@ thanks
The timing is right. I was confused about my love life and was daydreaming about my crushes but then I realized I was chasing and had to stop. I need to focus on myself/I am focusing on myself and spending time with friends and myself then one day the right person will come. I don't chase I attrack
How is daydreaming chasing?
If you are waiting for the right person to come along, you are just rolling the dice and crossing your fingers. I think you should think that over again. That's like breaking down in front of a repair shop and saying this must be the best repair shop in town.
@@garybregel1572 so what do you suggest then??
@@Dancediva240 It's just like selling a product, except here you're selling yourself. The more contacts you make, the better chance on making a sale. Just like the old saying gos, If you want it done right, do it yourself. That's what I have found through life, nobody is going to do it for you, including God. So I have to do it myself. Another old saying I learned from a guy at work is. (If it is to be, it's up to me.) If you are going to waite for God to bring you a mate, you will be old and lonely like me. It's too bad I learned all this way to late in life now it's too late for me. Remember this one thing, God gave us. "FREE WILL" Enough said.
@@garybregel1572 I've exercised that free will enough to find someone. Never got me anywhere. With all my friends who found their partners, they didnt have to go hunting. They met them organically either through work, mutual friends or at a function of some sort. One is a big homebody who found his wife on social media from a neighbouring country.
If you want it done right, do it yourself is a great way of thinking but unfortunately you're dealing with another human being here. And you can pull all the right moves, be on your best behaviour and be a literal saint and you still cannot make someone fall genuinely in love with you and wanna be with you.
Comparing finding love to making contacts to make a sale might sound smart on paper, in real life it's more complicated than that. There really is a lot of luck and destiny involved which is out of your grasp. That doesnt mean dont make efforts to get to know ppl of course, but beyond that there really isnt much you can do, no matter how proactive you are in meeting ppl.
When and if you watch MeetCutes, you can listen to some really strange and interesting ways these couples have found each other. These are real life stories and there have been couples who found each other at a traffic light, walking down a street, on a stoop in New York, anywhere basically.
I seen this right when I was talking about being lonely.
God works in crazy ways.
🙏🏾
Never alone, God always there.
Keep well. God bless your soul👼🙌✨💫
I was just praying and crying about that :/ so this video came in the right time , I’m so worried and afraid thinking that I will give up , as soon as I told people that I want wait until marriage more far away they go. It’s so hard to be a Christian when the world values are changed. I feel frustrated daily, but I know I’m in the right way of obedience to my Father. Pray for me friends and I will pray for you all.
I pray that you study ISLAM
.you will recieve all of your answers.
@@AyeshaQamar-jt3fsThis a Christian video. Please do not spread Muslamity on it. Please study the Christian Bible and realize what is right. God Bless You🤍
If you want to follow God in all aspects of your life, then the chances that you find your soulmate is very low. Unless you join every club and go to all your churchs events then you may have a chance. Getting out and meeting people is the answer.
I travel for years due work and I lived with a Muslim coworker, I respect Islam and I know a lot about the religion :)
" but if you isolate yourself you will always be alone " currently facing this dilemma rn lol
Honestly you don’t even have to try, you could be going to store and meet your partner, like you don’t have to go out and look , cause when it’s your time, it would be orchestrated by the Lord
Yeah, you have a very good point there.
Thank you for this. Exactly what I needed to hear and clearly sent by God when I needed it most. You’re doing the Lords work! May God bless you abundantly!
I’m so tired of waiting, it feels like it’s never gonna happen
You don't know how much I needed it. Thank you God for sending me this video
amen 🙏
I thank him too ❤❤❤
I saw this video twice in a row yesterday and today and it's crazy because I've been yearning for a connection/relationship with someone, only to realise that if God didn't provide me with a relationship then it just means I'm not ready for one. This video helped so thank you
I always thought i dont care if im single or not but its beacause of fear about relationship , you know the negative side of it . I always say ill be single the rest of my life and ill be ok ... but not until yesterday that i realize , i needed someone or i want to feel this thing they called relationship and love . I cried out to God for the first time about this situation . I know im not ready , but seeing other people im very curios as well like i was it like that someone is right there for you , go on dates and stuff couples do . i know we can find this on our family like the support or help but its different if its another person , i hope you know what i mean . Ive watch a lot of love stories to fill that void and longing but i just got fed up and cried out to God yesterday ..... i also tried not to obsess with it but well i failed as i wil think about it a lot . WHAT A NICE TIMING . THANKYOU LORD
Im single too and I do pray for love. Sometimes I do feel that God's wants me to be lonely. He knows best
Yes is true i felt like that i was embarrassed ashamed becaue my ex made me feel unworthy and woukd always say negative things or put my self esteem down but thank god niw gid showed me i deserve someone and i deserve loyalty and a godly man Amen Alex
I chased and totally ashamed of myself. Ready to EXIT this life
please don't. Jesus loves you and cares for you. He has died for you to have life. He is the Gardener you are searching for. Come to Jesus Christ of the Bible. He will give you rest.
God is the one true constant in your life. The way you feel will fade, circumstances change, life will keep moving from chapter to chapter. But you can trust in the love, faithfulness and constancy of the Lord Jesus in your life if you believe in Him and ask Him to be part of your life.
Keep on living.
Yes exit that life that you have chased and start over w Jesus. I did not trust god once about something he constantly warned me and did feel idiot of not trusting him enough and now I have restarted over w Christ it’s hard regardless bc I feel like walking w Jesus is somewhat very slow paced but the reward is beyond measures while when we taking things our own it’s fast result but it end quickly if it’s not on Gods planning.
Yes exit that life that you have chased and start over w Jesus. I did not trust god once about something he constantly warned me and did feel idiot of not trusting him enough and now I have restarted over w Christ it’s hard regardless bc I feel like walking w Jesus is somewhat very slow paced but the reward is beyond measures while when we taking things our own it’s fast result but it end quickly if it’s not on Gods planning.
I genuinely believe God put this on my timeline dang. Specific words you said are things I’ve been saying… time to reframe my mind lol
The way every single topic you said matched to my exact situation is crazy, God is working through you!
I'm learning right now how to just focus on myself while I'm in my single era at 26 yrs old. I know to myself that I'm not yet ready for love again, yet there are just times where I seek for love. But i keep reminding myself, to love myself first and enjoy this transformative season
Facts. Been saying the same exact thing. "If they wanted to they would!!" 100%. Thanks for sharing this.
If your reading this be still and know he is God when the time is right the lord will make it happen
Thank you, i need listened. Sometimes it's hard acept the end of a conection, but only God know what is good for us. ❤❤
I don’t know who needs to hear this but recently God has taught me patience isn’t about waiting; it’s a process of transformation.
I needed this right now. I’ve been chasing love my whole life. 😢
I love the butterfly analogy. It's like who are you chasing. These heartbreaks can be ordained by God, because He wants to show us nothing can fulfill like Him. We get to our lowest point so we can finally walk in true "blind" faith. God will sit with us in our grief. I don't know what's going on but I praise You anyways. Why not chase and focus on God who will always be running after you?
Thank you,
You right,stop chasing!!.
What is meant for me will come at the right time 🙏🙏
Thank you, God. I saw this video on my recommendations and really needed it. May His will be done.
Same for me as well ❤
There’s a beauty in all of that! Praise the Lord! 🌤🥳
How does this young man have that much wisdom to talk about relationship 😮 and how you lead people to put in into God’s hand, much respect 🙌🏻
I have been feeling down for a couple days because I'm craving that special relationship so much it hurts. Seeing others being in happy couples keeps reminding me of what I am missing and I'm starting to lose hope I will ever find the love that I'm craving. What is really sad is the fact that when I was a child, Christmas was my favorite time of the year but now it is just reminding me of how single I am and it is making me truly depressed.
This really showed me that I'm not ready yet. Thank you so much for thus video ❤
Thank you for making such videos, Alex. The world needs to hear more of this
Thankyou friend. This made me cry but i understood. Being a 22 year old girl, i thought i knew everything. But no, sometimes you need advice from an another person. It can change your point of view.
Thank You God for bringing this video to me. Alex, thank you so much for this. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. I love God and God loves me and I know that i will eventually find the one God has chosen for me. But the heartbreak is just so hard in the meantime. When you’ve built this connection with somebody, devoted and dedicated yourselves to them, and you come to break apart; not due to you as individuals but the reality and brutality of life. But Jesus is reassuring, and will console my heartbreak until I am ready
Timing is unreal, thanks Jusus🙏
God bless you Alex, that word came like a balm! you know it came straight from God when it crossed the globe and arrived at the right time. Regards from Brazil 🇧🇷❤️🔥
Uma brasileira aqui!
I needed this video for than words can explain. Thank you and thank God for putting this video in my recommended.
These videos find me at the right time. ALWAYS.
perfect timing
thank u God!💗
Just wow, this is exactly what I've needed to hear for a long time, thank you for letting god speak thourgh you❤
perfect timing, this just opened my eyes.
God really wanted me to see this video, I’ve been venting to my friend about being single and wanting a relationship sooo badly, and god knew I needed to see this video
Great timing fr I’ve legit had so many around me start having people and it’s kinda crazy
Woaaah its like literally god sent me this video. Its like i want to be loved and i wanna love but i really have to crack this great entrace exam and worry about my love life later. Like God telling me be patient its all gonaa come together for u. Just do ur best
Corinthians 13 is about the importance of love. It is important and that's why we crave love so much.
You are right on time dude! I’ve been waiting for this answer by God when should I stop chasing love and relationship that full of resistance! I think this is the answer I am waiting for from God! Thank you!
Yes, you're absolutely right, I feel that, but sometimes it gets so hard to wait and hope that I feel really sad and drained of energy. .. Sometimes I want to cry. I know that God loves me but it's becomes unbearable at times to wait to wait and to wait. God, give me strength!..
Perfect timing per usual
Just want to say you're awesome and God uses you when I need it most! Bless you!
The fact that I’m literally dealing with a situation like this and this pops up on my feed is God right there. His timing is indeed perfect and I need to let go and move on from the unnecessary confusion and let God take full control, I am not in control, my Savior Jesus Christ is and I need to preach that to myself right now. I don’t typically write in these, but why not. Thank you. 🙏 😇
Thank you for your insights. From your heart to mine. This found me at the perfect time and confirms my own experience. Peace and love my brother.
Amen🙏✝️❤️
The timing of this video is insane bruh😳
I saw this video at the perfect time as I was struggling with my feelings. I think it was a sign from God to remind me to stop overthinking and be more patient😅
timing is crazy
Thank you...i needed this soo much!🥺🤍
God bless you greatly!🙏
My recommendations the past hour or so have just been videos like this, even the algorithm knows I'm lonely
You dont know how many people needed to hear this. God bless you!
So true, we crave love and we have to stay still. The interesting thing is that I wasn’t chasing until someone made a move to come into my life. They just brought confusion and hurt. I learn that not having boundaries led me to feeling hurt. The boundary i needed to take was supposed to be motivated by telling myself “you don’t want to be a rebound. I know you are amazed by how nice their life could align with yours but it is not the right time for them to get to know you”
Thanks for the Advice I will note that God bless you always !! ♡
There is a Brazilian song that says: "for the world I have been rejected, however for you I was found and received as a guest, I have a place at the table, I enjoyed the banquet, l satisfied my hunger and thirst, now I can have enough, I can be fulfilled, because when I look at Your eyes, I know I can be satisfied.... satisfied..." Singer: Luma elpidio /song: Na Mesa
We are loved for the one who loves First ❤
Thank you & God bless.
Thank you, I am going through a hard relationship recovery right now and need that.
Thank you, it's really important for me. The things you are talking about. Thank you, God, for you, boy❤
This words are really for me, am getting tired
But i will wait, because i trust God
Going to play this on loop until it sinks in. Every word is hitting.
Thank you for this video.
After years (yeah I can say that, even though I’m 19) I’m finally content with myself. I feel utter inner peace, hence God is with me! I had to realise that and it took time.
There’s one thing that used to stress me out: no guy approached me, ever… I’ve never been in a talking stage, I’ve only obsessed over these guys and it led me nowhere.
I always believed that I’m not worthy of attention and true love, because some might not like the way I look, the way I speak or think. I did not like myself either. Now I do! More precisely I finally understand what self love is. I’m cherishing the person I became and I’m certain that one day when I’m truly ready, God will show me my love, my other half, the man who was formed to be with me.
Sorry that I wrote all of this down, but I needed it.
Keep praying everyone, keep being grateful and always spread love, never hate.
Soli Deo Gloria
Thank you🙏😊
I am really proud of you,while reading tears came to my eyes, love the way you expressed yourself, Praying for you and everybody❤
This is so timely
This is such perfect timing!!!! THANK YOU!!!!
Ok I just got my answer now. Exactly what I'm thinking about right now. Thank you God for my answer 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭
Also great video really appreciate the part about obsession its real I have been guilty of this I literally prayed someone away for a season and God sent them away for a season. I just needed space we also weren't even dating we were just brother and sister in Christ I would see this person from time to time.
I really needed to hear this. I think universe loves me. Thankyou 🤍✨
I feel so lost man, this video pretty much perfectly describes the situation I have been in. God blessed me with a godly woman but also took her from me way to fast, I literally gave her my all but in the end things just moved to fast I guess. I have been in a state of hopelesness for a week now and have prayed countless times but reality the whole situation just makes me feel suicidal
You have so much love and life to give! Don't deny someone wonderful you haven't met yet the love you both dream to share with each other! You'll crush their dream. You are meant to be here, please keep being here. Your existence matters. Ask God to show you how.
I will take this video as a sign because I really wonder why I don't have a loving relationship. I trust in God's plan for me. I will wait. I know that good is coming.
God bless you Alex!!! I'm sorry for whoever hurt you, but I'm so so encouraged by your faith and understanding in the tenderness of the Father!
This video found me at just the right time, thank you so much 😍💕I wish to fully let go of all my attachment history, and leave it up to the universe. I will no longer force or chase, what is meant for me, will come to me.
You are very welcome:)
Don’t tell me to be patient, I have been patient. God blessed you my brother 🙏
Its so true. Even though i am content wirh my self and also spending time with lord praying and going to church ( after years of not going to church ) i have felt a little connected again. However i feel lonely sometimes and i crave for romantic love . Yes i am not pushing it through my actions as i am happy wirh myself i dont have any crushes talking stages maybe this video is the sign that i should be continuing on that as nowadays i was starting to get a little more upset over not having a partner . I will not seek for love anymore but will be love myself and love and cherish every relationship around me be it in friendship, as a daughter , as a sister , as a student and as a child of god. Thankyou for this video . God loves us.
You know this is crazy how this video popped up on my notifications because literally in my women's growth group at church last night our topic was ' is it good to wait ? For God'. And we talked about some of the people in the Bible who didn't have faith and didn't wait on what God had promised them and in return they ended up doing something bad because of that. It just hit me how I've been in all these toxic and bad relationships with men who didn't value me and hurt me because I wasn't just patient but I also wanted to love and be loved not realizing that it wasn't love I got from those men but mostly hurt. Now I am still, letting God and being patient that when it is his will that person will come. I never chased but I did accept a lot that I shouldn't have .
I was already crying because of him
Is that a sign ? Thank you so much
On timing thank you. Amen, I will be still and know that you are God!
such a perfect timing, thank you ❤
thank you so much this gave me a bit of hope 🥺 i really needed this
Thanks a lot for beautiful message❤❤i was never proposed by any guy in my 27yrs of life. And i felt bad that maybe no one likes me and I won't ever find love . I was in talking stage but i was not taken by that guy seriously. But i believe God has a plan for me and everyone if us. ❤❤Stay positive,stay hopeful guys and girls. Jesus loves you and its enough 😊....have patience ❣️
you’re right 🥲 no one i’ve talked to has ever wanted to be with me despite me giving it my all. i realized in the process i put up with a lot of shit cause i never thought i deserved better. a lot of it isn’t really in our hands. all we can do it trust that God is driving away ppl he knows aren’t right for us cause we deserve better
Perfect timing! Amen! God bless!
Its been 4 years since I had been in a relationship, and I'm feeling tired and wanting to give up already cause I really want to have a family. I'm 39 already and also have stable career, in the past 4 years I had no luck in finding someone I can connect with, there were trashy guys who just wanted a good time or just a situationship, or just stuck in the taking stage for 6 months then just finally ghosted me. Thanks for your message. Its like God has spoken to me.
Been hurting and your videos has helped, Thank you and Praise God