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How to spot a narcissist #5 (FINAL PART): Couples Therapy (Annie & Mau)

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  • Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024
  • The final part (part 5) of my analysis on Annie and Mau's couples therapy sessions, where I determine if one, both, or neither of them are narcissists.
    Thank you for watching, and goodbye for now!

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  • @tara_eliza
    @tara_eliza 24 дня назад +4

    It’s like watching my own therapy sessions with my ex-husband. This analysis is so validating and helpful- thank you.

  • @testing1-2three
    @testing1-2three 6 месяцев назад +48

    Ewww he’s smiling when his wife talks about her SA trauma.

    • @umadox41
      @umadox41 5 месяцев назад +9

      I just saw that. He's absolutely disgusting 🤮🤮🤮🤮. Annie when someone shows you who they are, believe them. I truly hope she found her self esteem and ran from him!

    • @user-rc2fj9nx1l
      @user-rc2fj9nx1l 2 месяца назад +5

      Yes, and he purposefully recreates it by also pushing her sexual boundaries with coercive sex, "swinging," "threesomes" etc.

    • @iadorenewyork1
      @iadorenewyork1 2 месяца назад +3

      I wondered if I saw a smile where there was none, like that is just how his mouth looks. But now that I see the comments here, I think he really was smiling. And that's kind of awful.

  • @geewilakers5229
    @geewilakers5229 6 месяцев назад +23

    One of the biggest mistakes of my life was believing that therapy would help my ex-fiancé (probably with borderline and/narcissistic personality disorder). His promise to go was just future faking and kept me thinking he could change. He did go a little but just learned strategies to improve the gaslighting and blame me for everything.

  • @alv134mommy
    @alv134mommy 2 месяца назад +15

    Annie, run, don’t look back…this man is damaged, by staying in this relationship you damage yourself…and also stand in the way of Mau ever possibly getting in touch with reality. He probably still wont develop empathy and will simply fill the void your absence creates in some other way. Despite what Mau has said, The grass is greener. Run!

  • @_Garlic_Queen
    @_Garlic_Queen 6 месяцев назад +24

    I know your analyses are very precise and well-researched, so that's why I can just go ahead and say it: this guy is THE WORST

  • @dustdove
    @dustdove 6 месяцев назад +11

    Absolutely so happy you make these. There’s another season of this couple

    • @1papya
      @1papya 2 месяца назад +1

      what do you mean?

  • @AlannaWilson-Duff
    @AlannaWilson-Duff Месяц назад +7

    It's so heartbreaking when Orna says she decides to "sacrifice Annie" in order to stay tuned in to Mau. Only in narcissistic abuse. If he had punched his wife in the face and she made the same decision to abandon the victim in order to try and keep the husband on side, the internet would ignite.

  • @xgsnapx
    @xgsnapx 6 месяцев назад +13

    I love your assessments. They’re well balanced and logical.

  • @Subliminalmessage78
    @Subliminalmessage78 Месяц назад +4

    He mentally checked out when his wife and the therapist were talking, stretching and yawning. Disgusting.

  • @evvence
    @evvence 4 месяца назад +10

    It is very telling how he dismisses his partner's feelings. It's as if he thinks "I didn't punch you, you just felt like I punched you." He cannot understand the emotional pain he causes because he lacks empathy. He believes that how his actions and words affect her are not his responsibility at all.

  • @advocacynaccountablity
    @advocacynaccountablity 2 месяца назад +10

    Mau is a fcking disaster. I'm glad you're covering this. Absolutely awful.

  • @andreeanasca8216
    @andreeanasca8216 Месяц назад +3

    amazing analysis, thank you! one thing I`d like to change about couples' therapists is to have them trained in recognizing narcissistic abuse and to screen for that in their sessions. While it might take a few sessions to figure it out, the therapist should end the counseling once fairly certain it is abuse and let the victim know and give them resources moving forward. Unfortunately, most couple`s therapists are unaware of the damage they can do to the victim with continuing couple's therapy with a narc and their victim. The trauma multiples as the victim is being gaslit not only by the partner, but the therapist as well. Hope they get the training they need.

  • @EmilyInternational
    @EmilyInternational 5 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you so much for taking the game to make these videos. They are SO helpful and enlightening. 👏🏼
    When my husband and I first watched Mau and Annie back when “Couples Therapy” debuted, we could easily see that he was a narcissist. But to have it broken down like this by you is truly awesome. You’re very gifted in your perception and application of HG Tudor’s system of understanding. THANK YOU!! 🤗

  • @amarbyrd2520
    @amarbyrd2520 2 месяца назад +12

    Orna needs to take some continuing ed with Dr. Ramani and learn about narcissism in partners. You NEVER give a narcissist the benefit of the doubt. All that does is retraumatize the other client.

    • @alv134mommy
      @alv134mommy 2 месяца назад +8

      I interpreted Orna technique as giving Mau Just enough rope to hang himself, like she recognizes that he’s a narcissist, and the only option is for Annie to leave him, so she’s giving him opportunity after opportunity after opportunity to not show her any respect or empathy, because until Annie can see this for herself. She’s just gonna stay in this crazy relationship.

  • @carolmizelle1317
    @carolmizelle1317 2 месяца назад +8

    If he is a narcissist? If? are you kidding? lol

  • @iadorenewyork1
    @iadorenewyork1 2 месяца назад +3

    This man is definitely a narcissist. He has considerable hostility. He curses and says "F you!" a few times -- quite intimidating. Even when treated nicely, he doesn't appreciate it. If I were her, after 20+ years, she might consider leaving him.

  • @katherinewillis6014
    @katherinewillis6014 3 месяца назад +1

    Up to date on all your videos! Cant wait to see what you do next.

  • @candicesimmons3630
    @candicesimmons3630 24 дня назад

    Omg so funny I watched this guy for two minutes and was like Narc Alert Narc Alert. That was only yesterday!

  • @reneerose620
    @reneerose620 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for this video. I learn alot from them.

  • @helstonew05
    @helstonew05 6 дней назад +1

    He’s absolutely a narcissist.

  • @TheMinnieSalon
    @TheMinnieSalon 5 месяцев назад +4

    We want more love is blind analysis please!!!!!

  • @ITT2023
    @ITT2023 Месяц назад +1

    very good analysis, thank you

  • @ayesha_jane
    @ayesha_jane 2 месяца назад +1

    Your videos are so thorough and riveting! Can you do one covering Stephen Bear? Would love to see his deranged tactics being broken down. 🃏

  • @PrincessKarrah
    @PrincessKarrah 6 месяцев назад +2

    Love your videos and would love to see you do a video on Teressa Guidice from the real housewives of New Jersey

  • @Star-dj1kw
    @Star-dj1kw 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤ excellent analysis

  • @captainman2clever351
    @captainman2clever351 2 месяца назад +2

    He is being very upfront
    He has said, and is honest
    So she should leave or accept
    If I were the counsellor this is
    where my focus would turn
    It's clear he doesn't care, so unsure of why counsellor is going there with the why it's important to not dismiss

  • @coteian
    @coteian 29 дней назад

    which season of couples therapy is it? lovely review

  • @Mom_Luvs_Tech
    @Mom_Luvs_Tech 4 месяца назад

    Do you analyze video recorded interactions in a private setting with 2 party consent?

  • @TNT00002
    @TNT00002 2 месяца назад +1

    This is all too familiar. Quite scary

  • @IntelligentFlame
    @IntelligentFlame 15 дней назад

    Mau will never allow either of these women to bring a topic to fruition. If he can just keep the narrative and goalposts constantly moving, he doesn't have to say anything of susbtance.

  • @Green_Godess
    @Green_Godess 2 месяца назад

    2.19...very few people woukd stay with someone who was constantly abusing them....err what now? Thay sounds like a wildly inaccurate and sweeping statement. My perception of DV and emotional abuse is that some people never leave.

  • @taoofmau7316
    @taoofmau7316 5 месяцев назад +1

    Okay just finished and thought I like comment and subscribe, yet, giving you the benefit of the doubt there appears to be some rather large holes in your theorizing, even accepting for the limited data set. Supposing that you are in fact trying to offer a genuine interpretation to benefit others from your expertise, then presumably you’d be somewhat interested or curious about the out of register conclusions. I am not calling you a charlatan as with the Honda guy, but it’s a little hard to square the clearly competent thinker with the specious bias, one of them has to give if the diagnosis is to remain unqualified. I am certain of few things, though confident that this is unlikely to motivate either introspection or temperance, fully anticipating how the mere lack of acceptance is as you put it “a red flag”. While well produced and mostly evenly paced, it’s reflective of a particular brand of conclusions making. Go to a endocrine if you want to find out your issues are hormone related, an osteopath if you chi is out of alignment or a narcissist whisperer to discover, that there is gambling in this establishment. In any event, your accent is nice.

    • @kamirahcarter6433
      @kamirahcarter6433 3 месяца назад +12

      Mau is that you bro??

    • @taoofmau7316
      @taoofmau7316 3 месяца назад +1

      @@kamirahcarter6433 what gave it away

    • @ihavethots1261
      @ihavethots1261 3 месяца назад +1

      you cannot be this obnoxious to him, he didn't marry you

    • @taoofmau7316
      @taoofmau7316 2 месяца назад

      @@ihavethots1261 I was unaware I was being obnoxious. I just thought I was fairly criticizing his analysis.

    • @amarbyrd2520
      @amarbyrd2520 2 месяца назад

      @@taoofmau7316 One of the hallmarks of narcissism is the lack of self-awareness you're exhibiting here -- just based on your own quotes. "I was unaware I was being obnoxious." You're so obnoxious you set people's teeth on edge.