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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @meganhobza
    @meganhobza 8 месяцев назад +6

    Hope you get a great therapist! It can be hit or miss. I tried quite a few before finding the person who really helped propel me forward. Well done finding your way back to making. Love the beret!

  • @ChantelleArts
    @ChantelleArts 8 месяцев назад +4

    I love those little stairs, what a good dog ☺☺

  • @KimBliss
    @KimBliss 8 месяцев назад +3

    Briiiiii. That beret! 😍😍😍😍 *chef's kisses forever*

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад

      thank you chef 🐀💕

  • @KittyClark-d3y
    @KittyClark-d3y 8 месяцев назад +4

    I moved from northern Illinois to southern Wisconsin and it took me like at least six months to figure out a grocery routine. You’re doing great! ❤

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +1

      haha oh that’s good to hear! I’ve got 3 more months to get it together

  • @LindsayHiller
    @LindsayHiller 8 месяцев назад +4

    I feel for you in your job search, Bri! It's brutal for creatives. I work as an admin assistant and want so badly to transition to a more creative career in something like editorial design or general graphic design, but your girl is over here with no connections 😂
    I was glad to see that you were feeling a bit better at the end. I have gone to therapy a couple of times in my life and I will say that if nothing else, having someone who can look at your life situation with no personal stake or connection to you outside of that session is oddly helpful. They have a more practical view of your experiences and can suggest different ways of thinking about it that you may not realize on your own because of your own emotional investment. I was very skeptical when I started my sessions too, but I don't know, my therapist is someone who is very kind, but also was not there to bullshit me and just coddle me and make me feel better, you know? I haven't done group therapy before but I hope it helps! If not, you could always try a private session too.

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +2

      It certainly seems like you need a connection to get ANY job these days. It makes me 😫🤢. I’m so glad therapy has helped you. I was hoping to find something similar to that - a practical third party perspective to reign me back in. Such a daunting task though to find someone you actually like

    • @LindsayHiller
      @LindsayHiller 8 месяцев назад

      @@briisokayThe intake process sucks because you have to explain your whole story over again haha. I had to do it a couple of times to find the right person but I think it was worth it 🙂

  • @TonyTulip
    @TonyTulip 8 месяцев назад +4

    All your videos are wonderful. I hope all the good things come your way. The 3D embroidery is super cool and I can't wait to see what you make next!

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад

      thank you so much 🥰

  • @ghoulgoil5029
    @ghoulgoil5029 8 месяцев назад +4

    Aww, you’re allowed to feel how you feel. I imagine moving to a different country has its challenges. It’s one hurdle at a time. I think you’re pretty brave! I love you videos. You are funny, honest, and extremely creative. You got this!

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +2

      you sweet creature, always hyping me up 🥲💕

  • @katelewis2199
    @katelewis2199 8 месяцев назад +2

    Hello ❤ thank you for another great video

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад

      well thank you for being here🪲

  • @aidafaramin8687
    @aidafaramin8687 11 дней назад

    Haha the tv license ‘warm’ letters are a classic. That is how they do it, even when you have to renew the letters are threatening 😅 if you need talking or advice I’d be happy to help too!

  • @aidafaramin8687
    @aidafaramin8687 11 дней назад

    Haha I lived in London for 20 years (19 when I moved) and I still am like a child when I see the foxes (and squirrels) but most people are so used to them that don’t find it special. I get excited when I see a dog on the street 😂 so imagine 🤣 It’s normal to need time to adapt, many people think that coming from the US or even a EU mainland country will be similar to the UK and easy, but it’s not. Even with things in common, there are still cultural differences and, as nice and rich as it is, it’s also a process. You’re doing great and in a year you’ll look back and feel very proud of what you’ve achieved - I still do after all these years. ❤

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  10 дней назад

      Aw thank you ❤️ I’m certain I would cringe at some things I said/used to think when we first got here. It just takes time to adapt.
      You’re so right about the critters.
      I see people lined up in the park sometimes to take photos of squirrels which makes me 🧐🤨 but I would do the same for a fox!

  • @crownedbee5840
    @crownedbee5840 28 дней назад

    Just watched this I think you are so honest and made me laugh about being good at things,yes you are fantastic at story telling love your travel vlogs some great door of opportunity will open keep expecting it🤗

  • @aylasaurus
    @aylasaurus 8 месяцев назад +2

    I've been loving the vlogs but I'm also very excited for art videos to come back! The beret is SO cute, your work always inspires me so much to make all the whimsical things! Dealing with mental health is rough as it is, I can only imagine how hard it is with such a huge life change -- I think you're doing great and I admire your honesty about your feelings. Rooting for you!! 🍄🌻

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +1

      you’re the sweetest ever on this earth 🍓

    • @aylasaurus
      @aylasaurus 8 месяцев назад

      @@briisokay 🧡🧡

  • @jasminepennington8709
    @jasminepennington8709 8 месяцев назад +1

    that hat is sooo pretty! also i love your hair in a braid!

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +1

      eee thank you 🥰

  • @ubiquitousLeees
    @ubiquitousLeees 7 месяцев назад +3

    You’re doing great. ❤

  • @carollackhansingh2732
    @carollackhansingh2732 Месяц назад +1

    You are such a strong and beautiful person! You are very sensitive just like myself but you are doing really great moving to a new place to start your life and among the Brits who are tough. Each day would get better and your bloggers are giving you great advice 😊Love you Bri ❤hang in there and continue smiling 🎉

  • @LaceyCulwell
    @LaceyCulwell 8 месяцев назад +1

    “The men found me and they did NOT like me.” There’s some sort of compliment in there lol. Also jealousy over the cutest dog ever.

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +4

      lol we’re here for the girls and the pups

  • @alicjamasiukiewicz7919
    @alicjamasiukiewicz7919 8 месяцев назад +4

    You are so brave! You are going one step at a time and I admire that. Make foxes be your happy animals! In my place they are „pests” but I celebrate everytime I see them ❤

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +2

      Ha! I’m sure they do go around causing mischief, but they look so magical. I check the window hoping to spot one about 10 times a day lol 🤤

    • @alicjamasiukiewicz7919
      @alicjamasiukiewicz7919 8 месяцев назад

      @@briisokay I’m jealous! I don’t see them as often but…! Once a fox was following me and my dogs during a walk. He kept save distance but I think he was very curious about us, maybe because one of my dogs looks like a fox, she just has a thinner tail. Anyway thank you for your video and being so vulnerable with us. You are one of my favorite RUclipsrs and I wish you full time RUclips job above all else :)

  • @firsttankcrews
    @firsttankcrews 13 дней назад

    Congratulations on your blog. I have just found your channel and am most impressed by how you have coped with the whole scale upheaval of your life. Obviously I have not had the chance see all of your work or the upshot of your work with the mental health advisor. Many of us, however suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder due to the lack of sunlight in the winter, takin Odie for a walk will help but so can buying a indoor light unit which provides you with the benefit of sunshine. Looking forward to watching more your vlogs.

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  13 дней назад

      Hi there ! Thanks so much. I will hopefully be better prepared for winter this year. Got my vitamin d pills, dimming lights, and a new winter coat for Odie 😅

    • @firsttankcrews
      @firsttankcrews 13 дней назад

      Well done you - right on top of the game. Odie is gorgeous and, being a dachshund, will be a perfect companion

  • @DonnaMatthews-m1m
    @DonnaMatthews-m1m 13 дней назад

    I came here for the Cotswold vid as we are visiting next yr and now I am knee deep in your move and 3 hours in! You are lovely. Hi from Australia x

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  13 дней назад

      oh hi! thanks so much ❤️ you will love the Cotswolds

  • @johnwarr7552
    @johnwarr7552 19 дней назад

    Oddly, if you take care, Waitrose are worth the occasional visit as SOMETIMES you can get a good deal.

  • @mald379
    @mald379 Месяц назад +1

    I laughed because I just moved to london and we own the same chair, desk and the table, same colors and all 😂 I am lucky to have my old remote job though because job market, especially creative, is BRUTAL. i tried for four months, landed only one interview. Now people dont even open my portfolio, and without knowing anyone here its really tough.

  • @geoffmelvin6012
    @geoffmelvin6012 4 месяца назад +2

    Ugly? You're lovely, you've got a lovely boat and lovely bottle...Youre old man is a lucky chap

  • @Nerdy4Life
    @Nerdy4Life 6 месяцев назад +3

    Would strongly recommend a vitamin D supplement for winter time in the UK. Those short winter days can be a real tough even when you are used to them. :/

    • @stephaniebrown422
      @stephaniebrown422 Месяц назад +1

      Same for Canada lol A Vitamin D supplement is definitely needed lol

  • @geoffmelvin6012
    @geoffmelvin6012 4 месяца назад

    Oh no, keep these going...They're very good

  • @eva9996
    @eva9996 8 месяцев назад

    hey bri! from my experience most charity shops have a small home decor / homewares section. so the best strategy is to simply pop into each charity shop and have look. plus its fun to treasure hunt ☺

  • @SandraBeaumont-oh2hp
    @SandraBeaumont-oh2hp 4 месяца назад

    Sainsbury's is pretty good. Use the large stores if you want housewares, the smaller ones like Tesco Local only sell groceries and are for those people who have forgotten something on their weekly/monthly shops. Brits usually shop for the week/month. There is also The Co Op, Aldi, Lidl, you know about Waitrose the most expensive of all, they're the food arm of John Lewis department stores, Tesco, Asda which is part of Walmart or was part of Walmart, Marks and Spencer (M&S) for clothing and food. Most of our stores are mixed as in they sell food, clothing and housewares under the same roof. Something not done in The States.
    The equivalent to Home Depot here is called B&Q, there is also Wickes.
    how you getting on with our electrical system in houses? Found somewhere to dry your hair? 🙂 We use ring mains in this country and the voltage is 240 volts. Evrything is fused.
    Bulbs we use two types a bayonet fitting and screw caps.
    British Heart Foundation collect 2nd hand furniture and stuff only in their larger shops though. There are things here called 'Car Boot Sales' something akin to a very large yard sale except from car boots, vans and trucks at larger venues. Some will have public transport running close by but youwill need avehicle to obviously transport anything you buy unless you negotiate.

  • @sandrabeaumont3111
    @sandrabeaumont3111 4 месяца назад

    Just a headup on some London Parks. Some have herds of Fallow deer roaming in them so just be aware with Odie.They can be aggressive during the rutt.

  • @craftyclaira
    @craftyclaira Месяц назад

    I lived in France for a while and your learning curve reminds me of that! Also in France the chocolate and custard twist croissant is called a 'pain au suisse' - my favourite too! Well done. You're doing great btw😊

  • @harveycolven6540
    @harveycolven6540 13 дней назад

    Just wanted to add that im a man and have seen about 5 vlogs now and have enjoyed every one. Its interesting to see the process of moving to a new country, what you visit first etc. Also not ugly but dont want to seem creepy by saying youre pretty. Would like to know if tea tastes different from a kettle vs microwaved

  • @victoriaoliver4324
    @victoriaoliver4324 7 месяцев назад

    Your videos are fantastic, and i really feel for you on how stressful this huge move must be. I couldn't do it!. Welcome to the UK, spring is just round the corner, and it will get better!.

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you! Yes can’t wait for spring days 🌷

  • @nicoleonus
    @nicoleonus 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi lovely, have you looked at social media groups or online resources for American Expats in London/UK? They have lots of advice on getting jobs, housing etc and just general advice on adjusting to a very different way of life. Sending you lots of good vibes.

  • @alexwalker3422
    @alexwalker3422 7 месяцев назад

    This channel is called Bri Is Okay for a reason.
    You are going to be just fine. You have Patrick. You have Odie. Of course Bri is okay!

  • @mushroom.mustang
    @mushroom.mustang 8 месяцев назад +2

    my stoopid american brain can only think about how fun it would be to have a therapist w an english accent 💀💀

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +2

      read me to filth with your fancy english

  • @timcowell2626
    @timcowell2626 Месяц назад

    We're in the North West and though we haven't actually seen any foxes locally one our dogs always knows where they've had a poo... if you know what I mean 😂
    Oh, and for info... Girl Gone London is also a Floridian living in London.

  • @craftyclaira
    @craftyclaira Месяц назад

    Have you thought of going to a resumé coach/ consultant? I've heard they can work magic because not withstanding perhaps an American slant to your CV also they can help pitch it correctly to different markets/ sectors that maybe your not familiar with. It really can help tremendously. Good luck!

  • @geoffmelvin6012
    @geoffmelvin6012 4 месяца назад

    I dont think anyone is mad at you - You are far too nice, sensitive and intelligent to cause any serious anger

  • @lydiajkdr
    @lydiajkdr Месяц назад

    Hello! I just discovered your channel and been binge watching. I just want to say that I can 1000% relate to what you said re not having charisma, skills, being an extrovert and not having lots of friends and want to work in the creative space. I also feel like I am not god at anything in particular I just have small basic interests... If you can call it that. I wish there were some friednship space for people like us to meet and not feel pressured to act like we think we're supposed to act. I'm about to watch your 6 month update so I hope you have had some luck in finding a job. BTW I find you so intelligent and funny.

  • @bobjpgr3683
    @bobjpgr3683 8 месяцев назад +1

    I’m sorry for the bullying. I hope things will get better for you. Erin

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад

      Did you bully me Erin

    • @bobjpgr3683
      @bobjpgr3683 8 месяцев назад

      @@briisokay No. I meant, I’m sorry that you got bullied.

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +1

      I’m kidding! lol Erin would never

    • @bobjpgr3683
      @bobjpgr3683 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@briisokay I thought you were kidding. 😀 My husband is from London. Hopefully, we will go live there one day, but I know it will be a challenge for both us.

  • @ajames8237
    @ajames8237 Месяц назад +1

    I couldn’t live a city, too much going on. You might feel better in a market town environment.

  • @AaronFisher
    @AaronFisher 8 месяцев назад +4

    I don't know about London, but British Heart Foundation charity shops normally do a lot of furniture etc. if you find a bigger store.
    Also, TV licensing is the bane of every Brit, it's such an old and antiquated idea. Worth having a quick read up on the rules on that one and then your rights should they turn nasty (you have lots of rights and they have very little).

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +1

      Maybe that’s it, I need to find bigger stores? I keep striking out with small shops nearby. We read up on the tv license and I think we’re good since we don’t stream any live tv. But confusing none the less 😅

    • @Thetasigmaalpha
      @Thetasigmaalpha 4 месяца назад

      The BBC licence fee pays for quite a lot BBC Radio The tv stations the BBC news channels. Several festivals the Proms without adds.All for 157.90 a year. Many people moan at this and are willing to pay far more for satellite/ streaming services they interact with far less. People’s habits have changed but the beeb still tries to fill their needs.

  • @debramoss4089
    @debramoss4089 Месяц назад

    I've heard other utubers talk about an online platform called Better Health. I do not know if that would help FYI I have enjoyed your vlogs...

  • @SandraBeaumont-oh2hp
    @SandraBeaumont-oh2hp 4 месяца назад

    Is that peanut butter and jelly you're making there? How do youlike blackberry/currant jam/jelly?

  • @ReadyAimFilm
    @ReadyAimFilm 8 месяцев назад

    As one of your longtime male viewers let me just say “Rabble! Rabble rabble!”

  • @jenanization
    @jenanization 5 месяцев назад

    You can go to a private doctor and pay for treatment, you don’t have to wait for an NHS appointment.

  • @InconSteveHable
    @InconSteveHable 7 месяцев назад +3

    You spoke to a stranger in London?! wow how very cosmopolitan of you (joking (kind of lol))....... Londoners do have a bad reputation throughout the rest of the UK for being standoffish, walking with heads down and avoiding eye contact as much as possible, don't worry if you ever travel up to the North (oop narth as the locals say) you'll meet much friendlier folks...
    The standard greeting you may hear is "Alright or Alreet", this isn't actually a question as to how you are, just a basic greeting meaning hello (I don't expect you to hear it much in London though) and no answer other than heya/hiya or alright is expected in return.
    Don't worry about the trolls on your channel, some people will be "d@$%'s" just because they have nothing better to do, just live by the English adage "Keep calm and carry on".
    You only need to have a TV license if you watch any BBC channel or BBC show recorded live, and any TV shows or Live events as they are happening, if you are watching cable TV, You Tube video's things like that you don't need a TV licence, as an Example if you watched the Superbowl live as it was happening you would need a TV license, however if you watched a You Tube video of the Superbowl an hour after it had finished theres no need for a license.
    Therapists are a difficult question to answer, generally all your health issues primarily go through your General Practitioner (GP), the GP will listen to your issue and then if needed will refer you to a specialist that can help you with that issue (this is where the wait times that everyone complains about come into effect) for non emergency referrals you could be waiting weeks but more likely months before getting seen by anyone, and if it's for mental health you may be better off trying to find a local support group or consider paying out of pocket for private therapy sessions.
    I hope everything goes well on the job hunting front, and if you do have difficulty finding work, but need to do something that will get you out of the house and socialising with human's (i don't know why you would want to though lol), then you could consider volunteering with a local "charity" (Thrift Store?) shop, they often need volunteers and it would look good on your resume (Curriculum Vitae (CV) as we say in the UK) for any prospective employer in the future.

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  7 месяцев назад +1

      You keep reading my mind! I was just talking today about the “you alright” phrase. We keep hearing it and just figured it was the equivalent of “hi how are you” in the US. I have been answering I’m good thank you. 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😅

  • @sandrabeaumont3111
    @sandrabeaumont3111 4 месяца назад

    Bri, have you checked your healthcare?Depending onwhat your partner is paying ie: tax and National Insurance. You may have to pay a NHS surcharge to use it. Not that they'll refuse you you'll have to find a GP Surgery, what we cal a Doctor's Office. And a Dentist..

  • @starlord8973
    @starlord8973 7 дней назад

    How Does your BOYFRIEND enjoy the UK Work Life Balance

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  7 дней назад

      His workday is about the same but he gets way more vacation days here which is lovely

  • @sandrabeaumont3111
    @sandrabeaumont3111 4 месяца назад

    Hey girl, what you're feeling is homesick. It gets easier. I don't know what you're looking for workwise. with your art experience I'd of thought you'd be a boon to a school,find out about teaching assistants. Play to your strengths. As for you saying you're useless at small talk,you're doing great on these vlogs. Pay no attention to the 'haters' we all have those assholes to turn a deaf ear on.

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  4 месяца назад

      thank you for this! ❤️ I am looking into art assistant/tech roles

  • @alfredopasta218
    @alfredopasta218 8 месяцев назад

    Every little step is still progress! If this was me I would know absolutely nothing about how to basically start life in a new country. I'm glad you can enjoy some of the little things and best of luck with the current searches. ☺️
    The beret is so pretty omg. A witch hat would be really cool too. 🍄🌿🧹

    • @briisokay
      @briisokay  8 месяцев назад +1

      Ooo a witch hat with those mushrooms would be reallyyy cool ✍🏻. Thank you always for the encouragement❤️