"DIALOGUE" │ The Relationship Idol ft. Janette...ikz & Ezekiel Azonwu of P4CM plus more
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- Jessica Chinyelu sits down and DIALOGUE's with married couples, Matt and Janette..ikz Watson, Ezekiel and Kiyanna Azonwu and Rickie and Queen Smith on, "The Relationship Idol."
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Matt Watson: @truthtotheyouth
Janette...ikz: @iamgenetics
Ezekiel Azonwu: @wordsbyezekiel
Kiyanna Azonwu: @thisisglory
Rickie Smith: @rsmith903
Queen Smith: @queenk_smith
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Cinematography: Cordell D. Franklin
Dialogue Intro Song: Written by Jessica Chinyelu
Song Produced by: Giampiero Scuderi
I been saying this for awhile. So many young Christians are obsessed with courtship and marriage, they act like it is the total sum of the Christian experience.
EXACTLY!!!
Facts
When a man loves the Lord and his true desire is to serve God, he really endeavors to love on his wife thereby making submission to her husband easier
God gave you that man, its beautiful to see (You even admitted in your vows that you didn't believe that that person existed) Enjoy each other
I hope you all are well and happy. I pray that you are continually blessed
I live in Toronto Canada, I am freaking out because all the black women on the panel have natural hair. How beautiful.
pbg98pbgpbg98pbg I absolutely LOVE being natural!!! We can do sooo much more as naturals!!!
Imagine 4real!if that is uncommon to you then u gotta go back to who you were created like.
pbg98pbgpbg98pbg and they’ve got beautiful long black hair healthy hair they all look amazing wow
"It takes a patient man to peel back all those layers"
Janette is anointed and hilarious!
Now this is positive black RUclips!
I am muslim and I enjoyed the discussion.
God guide and bless y'all!
lamaryam Amen. god bless you
John 3:3 ❤🙏
I'm Christian. I declare God's Blessing on you too darling.
Please pray to God to tell you the true path. God bless you Maryam Mi
Allah is not God, only Jesus Christ is Lord and Saviour. Seek Him! I answered His call at the age of 24 having no Christian parents. I have no regret 7 years later. Jesus Christ loves you!
This gives me hope, there are still God men out there! I will wait patiently for the Lord for He knows my desires!
Ikr
Watching this for a second tome 5 yrs later and I’m hearing this with new ears. This video is such a tremendous blessing!
Who is still watching this in 2019 🔥❤❤❤👌
Had to rewatch
2020🤗
Eunice, I'm watching in 2020.❤
This is so needed to be told to young single women all over the world. One thing I've learnt submission is power under authority.
"He desires to love on his wife, it brings him pleasure to love on his wife"
Even more of a reason to love your husband Janette, he definitely loves you the way Christ loves the church (it especially came through during your courtship and your wedding)
I hope that your ability to be soft and to truly trust your husband grows as you become closer as man and wife enhances every aspect of your marriage and your love for each other. He gave you a patient man willing to take his time to love you truly and deeply.
Wow! This was so awesome, helpful, informative, and restoring all at the same time. I am 31and have decided to wait for God's timing and plan for my life concerning marriage and that road has not been easy at all. This video brought me back to the prayer that the Lord would be my contentment above anything else. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak...this video definitely strengthened the spirit. Thank you to everyone who was a part of making this video. It is truly appreciated and I pray that the Lord strengthens you all where you need it.
Glory to God for this whole video because I am a young single man, in the military, no kids and a lot of what i see is like Ezekiel's niece had said in summary "Broken marriages".. Honestly realizing who Christ is and that we are nothing on our own without him and in the military I see a lot of these relationships without a Christ center/foundation painful to see because there is so much emptiness and its like nothing but hate or animosity toward spouses always arguing. But its because of the Christless relationship. I see other men are aren't faithful and the first beautiful woman that walks past they're looking like a dog with a steak hanging in its face and even worse, adultery. But i also have to say that i also have idolized the whole "if she aint bad, she ain't worth it" thing with idolizing the perfect (looking woman) in the past but with giving my life to Christ i strive to seek God first and focus alot on my relationship with Christ. But I also do want to be with someone. I have read in Corinthians about Paul talking about how it is better for you to be single because then you are fixed on pleasing the Lord. Though he also says that if you choose to marry there isn't anything wrong with that. But i definitely have a better understanding from listening and hearing you all that there is a whole lot more to marriage than just what it looks like on the outside. There is sacrifice and really understanding and knowing who you are in CHRIST FIRST and then knowing who you are as a married couple. I really like a lot from what Kiyanna had said about letting God's desires be our desires. So... lately for the past couple of months I have thought about the type of woman i would want and its that Proverbs 31 woman, a Godly woman, a woman with a Christ heart. I understand if it might be setting the bar high because we are not perfect. But I would want a woman who loves God as much as I do and seeks Him first. I have also been doing a lot of praying just honestly being patient and just trusting God in when He see's i'm ready for wife. Also really seeing all people as Jesus see's us. Looking at the inside and not the out. I would like advice on what helped you all, brothers and sisters in Christ, keep that focus on God and making sure Christ is at the center before while you all were single.
At the center of it all is Jesus.
I love that, the portrayal of your relationship or marriage can't be more important than the actual ministry of your marriage
Y'all should've let this go on for at least an hour 😊
This is excellent! I'm single and am quite a bit older than these couples-oh, she's 35, so maybe I'm not quite a bit older, just a little than at least one couple - :-). I know marriage will happen for me, only b/c God said it. However, I know I will have to get used to a lot and learn to not seek my own comfort. At 40, that's a difficult thing to conceptualize, because I'm used to doing me - LOL. So, it's great to hear these young people talk about the "realness" of marriage. I spent so much time idolizing relationships when I was younger. I needed God to show me that marriage is to fulfill His will for me. That's when I was able to say "God, it would make me sad, but if I'm supposed to be single for the rest of my life, I will, I don't want marriage unless it will advance Your Kingdom." I meant that. We really do tend to idolize the companionship, the sex, the "somebody's got my back," instead of placing God RIGHT at the top. Thank you young couples! This is still good learning for me! God CONTINUE to bless you all!! :-)
+Melody Laster I'll be 35 at the end of this year. I have been going through this paradigm shift myself. That marriage is to fulfill His will and to glorify him. Not to idolize the companionship, the sex and having a teammate. Those are not bad things, however they are secondary to what marriage is primarily is! Thank You!
Afrika Minus
AMEN lady! I will be praying that you will be able to make that shift smoothly and then be content until God moves. You know what? We really must remember that at no matter what age it happens, it will be perfect when we wait on God. Praise God!! He's awesome!!! Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings!
The relationship idol is such a huge struggle for me so it was really helpful / humbling to listen to your conversations, thank you so much, you're all such beautiful people, I pray that I can start applying these lessons to my life :)
Kate Dubillyew Same here girl
Hearing truth from young people is always so beautiful. Thank you ♥️
This is the first time I am seeing this program and I have to say I am blessed by this episode. I had never heard of the relationship idol before but the more I listened I knew exactly what you were taking about. I would have to say that I have been victim to the relationship idol at one time or another. I have seen a couple ans have wanted to have something like it and then begin to wonder "why am I still single?" When I already know the answer. The promise I made to wait until God has sent the one he has picked for me and in the mean time work on myself to make sure I am the woman that man deserves. Thank you for this.
triniredgal31 I'm sooo happy you were blessed by this episode of "DIALOGUE!" Waiting for God's best is always the right choice. Don't ever compare your life to other's. What God has for you is for YOU! No matter how great another's relationship may appear, the Lord will bless you with your own. Be content in this season my dear and work on being the BEST YOU! God bless you!
You are ONE with your spouse. Individuality no longer comes first. Marriages are KILLED by this daily. Love this.
I am not single. .I'm in a relationship with God..
So blessed to watch this..
Glory to God!awesome
This was such a blessing to my life. I love the depth of their own personal relationship with Christ Jesus. They were so original in their own unique walk with Jesus. Thank you for you Testimony.
I just prayed that the Lord would help me to keep my focus on Jesus so intensely that He would have to pry me away from what I’m focused on doing for Him & the Kingdom in order for me to see the man He created for me. I want to be that focused & that satisfied with just Him. This has helped me to see within myself the ways I have idolized relationships. 🙌🏾♥️👑
This was GREAT and such a BLESSING ! I am a single christian and I learned alot. Thanks :)
I am just seeing this and I am truly blessed. Thank you. It is hard for my friends to understand that I am 33 and not concerned with marriage. Reality is a life without Jesus is a life without purpose, AND not everyone is meant to be married. While I do think of how things would look in a natural romantic relationship I have grown to understand that whatever God's will is for me is far better than what I could desire or gain for myself through myself.
This was such a blessing and just rich in confirmation of what Christ has been speaking to my heart to let go of all idols! Wow, I'm blown away by your transparency! Thank you for pointing us singles to Christ, with Love your sister in Christ!
Please do part 2
Sammy James we do hope to have a PART 2 of this segment by God's grace.
@@JessicaChinyelu still praying for one haha🙏
I hope you do this again. It's rare to find such humble advice. I love how they all kept it real.
From the bridal shower I recently went to, to this panel. My eyes are wide open to what a true oneness is really going to look like. Not looking so rosey anymore but with the correct one God chooses I'm sure all things can be worked through.
Janette 36:36 YESSSS!! :) so real. I love it. So much word inside these individuals. Thanks for sharing! Love you guys. God bless ❤️
This changed the way I look at relationships so much. Thank you guys SO much!!!!
Catherina Raymond we are sooo happy this blessed you and has changed your outlook on relationships! Thanks you for watching, subscribing and sharing! God bless you!
Catherina Raymond Exactly!!!
There needs to be an "absolutely love" button made especially for this video.
If submission is practiced to your spiritual head, it will not be so difficult to practice in marriage. Also remember the man must also submit to God. He is also suppose to treat his wife the way he would treat his own body Ephesians 5:22-33
Amen...also at that same chapter before those verses but at verse 21 SUBMITTING YOURSELVES ONE TO ANOTHER IN THE FEAR OF GOD...So it's not only a woman but the man also yet in the FEAR or Love of God because when both are submissive to God first, then you will to one another...Stay Blessed...
I am watching this video in Botswana, Africa and i have learnt so much from this video! God Bless you all!
36:35 Great encouragement for singles to not focus on this temporary human experience, but on the eternal forever in the presence of God, of which marriage is just a foreshadow.
This is so helpful I'm gonna cry. Absolutely needed to hear this.
Wow this is so encouraging. Right now ministry and God are the two most important things in my life. But after that is my boyfriend. We plan to get married soon, but we´re living together as of now. So, I constantly find myself struggling with the convictions of sex before marriage, and people of course say “you´re playing house”, but I know that this has encouraged me to tackle those convictions one at a time and do it in a way that shapes my relationship after God.
This DIALOGUE is extremely refreshing. I was married over 12 years and in studying Christ and His desire in marriage. I appreciate the accurate communication and REALNESS. I respect how the women were confident, however the humble behavior shined. Thank you for encouraging and recognizing God must be our desire. I am unsure if I'll marry again, but my focus is my purpose for God and accepting his plan for my life will be accomplished as I follow his guideline. I pray overflow of blessings in all of your lives, continue to encourage his people.
yolanda webster WOW!!! Woman of God thank you soooo much for sharing your testimony and your story. We thank God you were blessed. ONLY GOD WE CAN THANK FOR THIS. I pray the Lord shows you your purpose and it becomes more and more clear each day! I also pray that the tricks of the enemy will never allow you to think that you won't be married again. I believe you are a true treasure and you deserve the absolute BEST. God bless you sister.
Oh my gosh, this was beautiful... These guys share so many of my own perspectives...even in this stage of my life. I'm learning to enjoy my singleness and being satisfied in my relationship with Christ. At then of the day, if ALL I have is God, then I would have gotten EVERYTHING.
Thank you so much to all who has listened to the voice of God and post this video...This has bless me greatly! Be bless people of God.
Thoroughly enjoyed the discussion.
So I've watched this & took away a lot & I'm gonna watch again in another week or so, so I can take something else from it that I may have missed. Very awesome guys.
I love how Kiyanna said she was an individual before she got with him and she didn't lose that in the marriage by seeing what he did and adapting his quirks as if it were hers. That's awesome. And the recap in the end is what we all needed ❤!
"one of us has to die..." 🤣
why is this video so awesome? thank you Jessica for being obedient and allowing the Lord to lead you in creating this wonderful ministry. i loved each and every one of the couples and their amazing, right on time advice. as a young woman seeking after God's own heart i learned so much pertaining to relationships, but at the same time i got the reaffirmation that ultimately the same thing remains, and that truth is all i need is God. hope to see part 2 in the future and the other amazing things you have coming our way.
Alexandria Bennett we thank God you were blessed by this episode of "DIALOGUE!" I pray the Lord continues to pour more and more of HIS truth into you by the power of the Holy Spirit! Part 2 will be filmed soon as well as many other great episodes the Lord has placed in my spirit! God bless you!
This has BLESSED me. Thanks for posting. Can't wait for the event this month! :)
The KG Lifestyle OMG, I remember you from months ago! We NEED to connect and even get you on the show soon. Sooo happy you were blessed and thank you for tuning in. God bless you sis! Can't wait to finally meet you!
Yes ma'am! I can't wait to meet you as well! Definitely open to being on the show! :)
When two people are striving to become like christ and put God first in there relationship it will stand on a solid foundation.
Like my godmother says keep gleaning the fields and you'll find your Boaz.
Right here, right now this was LIFE-GIVING!! ♥️ So much wisdom found within you all...
Words cannot even explain how much I love this video and the Dialogue on The relationship Idol. Great Job guys! God bless.
Janette is 35?!? She looks Amazing for her age:)
Check out the latest episode of DIALOGUE featuring Janette...ikz and Ezekiel of P4CM alongside their spouses and Life Coach and Mentor Queen Smith alongside her husband Rickie Smith. We got deep into our generations craze over relationships.
Sounds great!
This was truly a blessing for me! I've been married going on 3 years in October and this past year has been trying. But I'm learning what marriage is really about. And God's grace and mercy continues to keep me.
God bless you guys am learning.... So much
YES! when is part 2 coming?! =)
It is a pleasure to see these young people confessing their faith and a relationship with Christ being the head.
I love the honesty and the desire to follow Gods original plan
Praise the Lord for these Spirit filled relationships!
I love that my son who is 19 and really really wants a girlfriend can be encouraged by this panel to live for Christ and wait.
So much wisdom poured out in so little time.
You guys are great! May God give u more wisdom to share wt us!
The last thing she said about the woman at the well was the deepest thing said in the while dialogue. That teared me up.
I strongly believe that a major contributor towards a great interview is the kind of questions and engagement the interviewer asks. Well done to Jessica Chinyelu for conducting a great interview so we could get great responses from all three couples.
.Pamela Ndovela, first off thank you for your kind words. I greatly appreciate those words and I do not take them lightly. I also want to thank you for taking the time to watch, subscribe and share this episode of DIALOGUE. The show would not have been as great without GOD and HIM giving these couples the wisdom to pour out onto others. God bless you sis and thank you again!
I loved this show. So real, open and inspiring. Great couples, God fearing and I pray the Lord watches over your homes in Jesus' name
May God bless ALL of you for this wonderful message. So many of us have been screaming this, but the world we live in does not accept this truth. This is God speaking to a lost world. Marriage is supposed to be blessed, and a blessing to those who choose it. Without God as the foundation, we set ourselves up for so much pain. Sexual chemistry, financial chemistry, like personalities, vanity and pride, who's cute, who's fine, who has their own business, etc, etc, has NOTHING to do with God's will and intent, if we leave Him out of it. I love this video.
I've been idolizing relationships and this has gave me so much insight..thanks alot
Wow! So inspiring..I needed this! God bless you guys
Meagan Bonany So happy that you enjoyed sis! God bless you!
A stripped down, honest look at real relationships with its highs and lows. It requires work and sacrifice and compromise which requires both husband and wife wanting to serve each other more than their need to be selfish.
Wow God is so great. This Dialogue has spoken so much to me in my life as a woman and for my relationship. The only one to get the Glory in anything that I do should be God. God reveals purpose and I love the fact that in the video you addressed a man who is actively looking and be lead by God to his purpose. Even thouhh he might to be there yet He does idolise the 'stage' but rather seeks to glorify the Father.
Thank you so much for sharing.
Nadine Nutakor my sister! Thanks again for watching and super happy you were blessed! I love sitting with others to discuss diverse topics and this was by far one of my favorites. We have to be careful not to idolize being in a relationship or relationships PERIOD! Our focus should ALWAYS be the Lord. God bless you sis!
Excellent conversation!!! For anyone who wants REAL BIBLICAL TALK on relationships, this is a great resource!
Wow, what a great discussion on marriage and the dynamics of this marvelous union which brings two people together. Having been married for twenty years, I saw things during the discussion where I could have done things differently and I saw things were no matter what I did or did not do the relationship idol took hold of my marriage. I love the institution of marriage and would gladly do it again with the right person. However, the dynamics of finding a great partner has changed and I've begun to stop looking for her. I believe when I have developed myself further, the right mate will place herself in my space and sphere based on God's direction to her. Thank you all for encouraging even those of us who have become single again. God bless all marriages!!
What a wonderful video, such a blessing. I know this video will be fruitful in my life, many times over! God Loves you all and God Bless you all.
I have no words to describe how grateful I am for this video, I mean we have fallen into this relationship ministry trap so much we are gradually losing sight of who Christ is to us. Thank yo so much for this!
Just found this at 30... Surely there is a God and there is hope for me💓.
This was such a blessing I really needed to hear this I wish they would more have more stuff like this the world needs to hear this I’m so encouraged to continue on the path that I on everything that was said is what I’ve thought and it’s great to see the realness of marriage 🙌🏾🙌🏾👐🏾👐🏾👏🏾
I love all the pc4m people. They always keep it real!! Im always encouraged when I watch their stuff.
What an amazing influence for this generation
I truly thank God for this program and P4CM!!! So encouraging and uplifting. It is also WONDERFUL to see people TRULY SPEAKING THE WORD OF GOD!! Love it!!!!!!!!
Alrightly then, apparently I have been under a rock. I'm so glad I found this. This is so very helpful and encouraging. Time to share, dialogue and be transparent with one another...very helpful.
Nya G thanks for watching sis and God bless you!
Sure thing. I've shared on Facebook. Praise God for this. Please, please keep these insightful clips coming.
As I was watching this amazing dialogue,I was thinking about the ramifications of sin. Sin has broken down the important unity of the family, so that we have single parent homes. It has disfigured the true beauty and purpose for sex, so people are getting the faux version of it outside the parameters of a marriage. In this generation Godly people are not getting married as young as they used to because of (many, many things) a huge shift in our culture all due to sin. God is faithful and He uses all for our good, but we live in a fallen world. Being single , 30 and desiring marriage I have struggled with all the ideas surrounding marriage (the advice, the conviction, etc) so I have so much more to say, but I'll leave it there!
This was such a blessing!!!! PLEAAAASSSEEEE do another segment
GOOD STUFF... WHERE WAS I ALL THIS YEARS... I LOVE THIS..
This was just epic to listen to. I just loved the wisdom that came out of this but more so the process of God being glorified. Wowww. Lovedddddd it.
This blessed me beyond belief its as if God spoke through each and every one of them to me, God knew I needed to hear all of this and he lead me straight to this video. GOD IS SO AWSOME
Neicy Bobby I'm truly thankful this blessed you! We thank God HE was able to speak to you through each one of us. Thanks for watching, subscribing and sharing! God bless you sis!
Transparency and Accountability and more TRANSPARENCY and Accountability THROUGH THE POWER OF GOD/JESUS/HOLY SPIRIT...🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾😢😢😊😊
it is 2019 and I am here this is so powerful and helpful. Thank you and God bless you.
This was good! That last statement Queen made about the woman at the well was right on point.
Can't wait to hear what God has shared with you guys to pour into us at the conference!
Love u! Jessica, doing U looks great on U! Ttyl
Chanel Dionne Thanks sooo much for watching my love! You know Queen is always making those powerful statements! The conference is going to be BEYOND AMAZING! The Spirit of the Lord God Almighty has released many angels to be with us on that evening! I love you sooo much Chanel and thanks for all of your support! I'm soooo happy you could SEE that I'm really just doing and being em! It's such a FREEING EXPERIENCE and loving every bit of me so I can just shed more love to others!God bless you sis!! I can't wait to have you on the show to DIALOGUE about your book!
This is awesome. Thank you for this
that beautiful lady with the black shirt spoke my mind yesssssss!!!!!
Thank soo much for organising this talk. Matt and Janette always inspires me. God richly bless you all for your good works. am happy about how you are all helping to increase the population of people to be going to heaven.
Amazing. Definitely something that is every helpful to married and unmarried.
Tamia Jewell thanks so much sis for watching! God bless you!
I AM SO GLAD YALL ADRESSED IT! I feel like so many Christian women allow this to consume them when God created us for so much more. I was thinking about making my next video on this topic so thank you!
Interesting talk, especially from young people-in-ministry perspective. As an older woman who has come up from the ranks from family dysfunction & social misfunction to a now functioning woman; while in the throes of developing aspects of forgiveness, listening to this has put me in retrospect to the many flaws and ills that have plagued me and the men I didn't purposely choose - so much time wasted. Perhaps now, even in my sixties, I can have a more conscious guiding light toward a loving partner - if it's the creators will.
I'm just smh right now, because of the insight that was shared! Truly blessed! I ask God's blessing on you, your show, and guest for sharing!!! I will watch again after I post this comment for information that I may have missed😊
Kristen McWeen thanks sooo much for watching and sharing sis! I also want to thank you for speaking blessings over this show and the people who are on the show! I pray the Lord grants you more wisdom and knowledge as you watch and also revelation for your life! God bless you!
This is some awesome information for couples. All facebook followers need to post this information to bless those couples struggling in their relationships.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I don't have words to describe how much this conversation has fed my soul. On behalf of the body of Christ let me just say we need you to continue what you're doing. Just to see all of you intelligently, with passion and humor is a balm to my pain. I pray that God would continue to be a light onto your marriage with Him first and each other second. God bless you all. Thank you.
This was a lesson learned for me 😍😍😍! God first before all things ....
"Do I look like a doctor?" Ummm. . . . YES. Why not!
This was such a HUGE blessing to me! THANK YOU FOR SHARING SUCH GEMS WITH US! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
great dialogue to listen to.And I thank Janette for that last spoken word. Wait on the Lord with a man or without one
I love these couples, and trust me I am way.....older than they are, and it is not because they are in my ethic group, but it's because the Light of Christ shines on them. Letting you young people know that marriage gets better and better, which includes all the ups and downs, as long as Christ is the center, you will be bless and it will be HE who will complete the work in you all.
Yassssss Janette keeps it SO REAL!! Thanks for this video. Definitely serves!
Was worth the 40mins so lovely such godly content what a refresher of the day if I got anything out of this I got that Jesus is our ultimate purpose and having a mate man or woman in marriage it's never going to be successful without Christ in the equation