How I Overcame My Social Anxiety and Became Confident? (300K Q&A)

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  • Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2024

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  • @MaxReisinger
    @MaxReisinger  3 года назад +103

    perspectopia.com - I've decided to extend the Perspectopia restock so that everyone has a chance to get something before we move onto the next collection! 💟🌍
    As a thank you for watching my videos, you can use the code: "OPTIMIST" for 10% off any order! (FREE shipping within the US/Discounted International shipping)
    If you're not looking to buy anything at the moment, feel free to check out the map that I created on the site - perspectopia.com/pages/map - every order gets put on the map!
    While you're here- feel free to join our discord community! We're approaching 6,000 members and would love to have you a part of the community- discord.gg/wt6zgVBSJX
    Thank you again for your continued support- it means everything to me!
    -Max (':

    • @hussainmohammed5892
      @hussainmohammed5892 3 года назад +1

      I just love you man

    • @MaxwellChan0
      @MaxwellChan0 3 года назад +1

      😄 amazing video! Kept me entertained the whole time! Hope your head is ok from the fridge 😂

    • @Lukeyborey
      @Lukeyborey 3 года назад +1

      I loved how honest you were about the struggle of making this video. It allows us as an audience to understand you to make mistakes and are not some machine who is constantly working and is learning to... not that you don't work hard. I just loved the video is all you need to know I guess 😅

    • @gh0strecn594
      @gh0strecn594 3 года назад

      Hi Max, I love your content and I think your a really great inspiration. I'm starting my own vlog and I was just curious about what editing software you use for your videos.

    • @MaxwellChan0
      @MaxwellChan0 3 года назад +1

      @@gh0strecn594 I think he uses premiere

  • @magnusfrederickson6231
    @magnusfrederickson6231 3 года назад +393

    Title “How I overcame social anxiety”
    Ten seconds in: “I’m gonna get off the main road so no one sees me”

  • @ava8393
    @ava8393 3 года назад +286

    dude i know this is probably obvious.... but you’ve matured SO MUCH since I first started watching you, it’s wild

  • @DaibooDimension
    @DaibooDimension 3 года назад +109

    11:35 "if your goals don't scare you they are not big enough "

  • @FordLauron
    @FordLauron 3 года назад +118

    When I heard Max said his screen time was 2-3 hours a day. I was like damn how? but then to 30 mins😶 while I'm over here on about 5-6 hours a day. I rlly should start doing that too. thanks for the tip.

    • @themanwithnoname2183
      @themanwithnoname2183 3 года назад +3

      Chief I got like 10 just today, but ironically enough roughly three of them have been spent watching his videos lmao

  • @faithchu5776
    @faithchu5776 3 года назад +66

    Love how i didn’t wake up when my alarm went off 3 times this morning but woke up when i got Max’s video notification 😂 it was worth it

    • @neptuneismissing
      @neptuneismissing 3 года назад +3

      I'm laughing so hard at this point

    • @burakbycl
      @burakbycl 3 года назад

      sjkdlssjflkjskdlfjkds iyiydiiii knk

  • @jervinroi9172
    @jervinroi9172 3 года назад +96

    Me having social anxiety and it notified me so i immediately clicked it😂

  • @jcarm185
    @jcarm185 3 года назад +33

    How could anyone hate this beautiful, loving, fun, and totally interesting person!?

  • @nnahdaaa
    @nnahdaaa 3 года назад +46

    honestly since i watched your video i feel motivated to be creative teen, to exploit the time for positive things, always optimistic, confident (especially I'm introvert too), ect. And I'm really like your perspective, this is make my mindset change better. Bottom line i would say thank you very much for always inspiring and share the positive vibes. Hopefully you can reach all your dream and more successful!

  • @jadeihej7046
    @jadeihej7046 3 года назад +45

    Ahhh, what a great start to the day other than morning runs lol, which u inspired me to do :)

  • @alltoounwell
    @alltoounwell 3 года назад +20

    it's crazy weird how we think so similarly and you are just too true and genuine for this world

  • @karlaicu9138
    @karlaicu9138 3 года назад +20

    your editing is unique, I like that.

  • @moriyama1768
    @moriyama1768 3 года назад +24

    YES! MAX REISINGER! LOVE! HAPPY! PERSPECTOPIA!

  • @weyouyou1749
    @weyouyou1749 3 года назад +22

    Let me just say it...., what most of us (and i know, i see you) think about this humanbeing........., he is BEAUTY!
    Inside and outside, like for real, love you man and love yourself, your content is amazing keep going💛

  • @sabrinamarques2475
    @sabrinamarques2475 3 года назад +46

    Somebody else studying English with this Channel?❤️🇧🇷

    • @raypontes1009
      @raypontes1009 3 года назад +1

      eu!!! Pensei que era a única kjdskk

    • @sabrinamarques2475
      @sabrinamarques2475 3 года назад +1

      @@raypontes1009 hahaha é nóiz então

    • @arilsillva
      @arilsillva 3 года назад +3

      Pensava que era o unico do Brasil kkkk

    • @sabrinamarques2475
      @sabrinamarques2475 3 года назад +2

      @@arilsillva kkkkkk os Brasileiros vão dominar o mundo 🤣🤣

    • @arilsillva
      @arilsillva 3 года назад

      @@sabrinamarques2475 kkkkkkk

  • @michaelearendil6843
    @michaelearendil6843 3 года назад +6

    Your online persona is friendly and approachable, but also very confident.

  • @reese2285
    @reese2285 3 года назад +75

    max hitting his head on the refrigerator is me

  • @marykth
    @marykth 3 года назад +24

    I'm a very awkward person to talk to like idk why.. but when it comes to group work for school then i have no choice but to interact

  • @bkycbeka9859
    @bkycbeka9859 3 года назад +12

    Hi! I'm from Russia! I watch you and learn English at the same time! You are very interesting and cool!

  • @prathamgokani
    @prathamgokani 3 года назад +8

    Awesome! Looking forward to working with the Perspectopia team! (:

  • @emirachelnatalie3397
    @emirachelnatalie3397 3 года назад +2

    videos like this always make me want to change my living style, like going out on little adventures, soaking up every moment in depth more, makes me want to start filimg little aesthetic videos if i do those things, makes me want to move to america, bascially wants me to do all these things that I never end up doing. I say I want to do them, and I never do, and it makes me kinda sad lmao.

  • @naomiperry5963
    @naomiperry5963 3 года назад +28

    bruh... 6:19 i legit thought your dog just evaporated XD.

  • @officialsebvon
    @officialsebvon 3 года назад +8

    22:26 Just do it mate! The first ones always the hardest, after that you get into a flow & it will become much easier 👌🏼 also that Nokia brick shirt is beaut 🔥

  • @roxanneoles5100
    @roxanneoles5100 3 года назад +5

    Your editing is amazing! I'm not sure how many people tell you that but its genuinely better than most youtubers I watch, even the biggest youtubers with professional editors

    • @MaxReisinger
      @MaxReisinger  3 года назад +2

      I really appreciate the kind words, thank you!

  • @weverthoncardoso5452
    @weverthoncardoso5452 3 года назад +5

    Hi, I'm from Brazil and your videos help me a lot to learn English. Thanks a lot ... and your videos are perfect

  • @Keesha21
    @Keesha21 3 года назад +19

    Exactly what i needed right now thank you

    • @Manas-zk2fi
      @Manas-zk2fi 3 года назад

      YESSS FOX

    • @player-ne6hs
      @player-ne6hs 3 года назад

      I don't understand what he says whole video😂

  • @andrewadaams
    @andrewadaams 3 года назад +4

    Knowing that I can fail is my biggest motivator. I feel like I would almost be lacking the drive to work for my goals if I knew I couldn't fail. Of course, that would be an example of failing so the idea of knowing you can't fail is its own paradox.

  • @ishouryaa
    @ishouryaa 3 года назад +26

    Hyped for STANFORD!!!!!!!!!

  • @samyzinapollo
    @samyzinapollo 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for the video, really. Today I am having a hard day, a lot o anxiety. And I started to realize a lot of issues that I have to deal with (like inside) and I panicked because in my mind I had to solve everything today.
    But in this video I realized that, I don't have to figure all of my life out in a day. So I decided to give time to myself and just keep trying to be the best version of my self.
    And also thanks for the journaling tip, I think this is really something that is going to help me go through life.

  • @Victorhco1
    @Victorhco1 3 года назад +3

    Brazil would be a nice place. We're waiting for you!

  • @meco
    @meco 3 года назад +4

    Look at ma boy crushing milestone after milestone 🤯
    Now you’re closer to 500k than 100k isn’t that insane

  • @lindafirth1562
    @lindafirth1562 3 года назад +1

    Max - you are "cooking on gas".......buzzing....oozing with ideas and positive energy.
    Great to see you so smiley (if just a bit tired too).
    I'd like to recommend "Talking to Strangers" by Malcolm Gladwell. "What we should know about the people we don't know"
    X

  • @dawn451
    @dawn451 3 года назад +12

    super video as usual, but ca we talk about your puppy ??? omg is so cute and his name !! I ALREADY LOVE YOU PONYO
    also you listen to John Mayer, can you stop being so perfect ??

  • @sanjobuenafe1461
    @sanjobuenafe1461 3 года назад +3

    I am a Filipino and so nice to hear that you want to visit Phippines🇵🇭❤️

  • @usshehewe
    @usshehewe 3 года назад +2

    Yea he seems fun to hang with. Genuine n Polite. Come to Malaysia one day!

  • @bhabatoshdas3073
    @bhabatoshdas3073 3 года назад

    Answer to the questions...10 year from now....what a lovely answer☺️☺️☺️

  • @ytakim49
    @ytakim49 3 года назад +5

    My friend and I have been talking about "what if Max chose us to accompany him on his visit to the Phillippines". I would not waste this opportunity like I usually does lol. I've been planning and saving for this, if ever lol. I'm all in for the experience.

  • @SGrg-jm8lv
    @SGrg-jm8lv 3 года назад +4

    The cuddling part is so satisfying

  • @Lukeyborey
    @Lukeyborey 3 года назад +3

    MAX!!!! I literally do the same thing with Instagram I delete it and only re-download it when I post a new video and want to let ppl know and catch up for a few minutes and then delete it again... just a thing we have in common I guess and I thought it was cool.

    • @ahmed5093
      @ahmed5093 3 года назад

      In which minute he talked about quitting social media please??

  • @RealandTrue
    @RealandTrue 3 года назад +1

    Who else is super excited to watch!! 🙌🙌

  • @SiscaSavanna
    @SiscaSavanna 3 года назад +5

    i love the thumbnail on this video 💟

  • @tudy6174
    @tudy6174 3 года назад +23

    i don't understand how such a beautiful guy like you has sociale anxiety and not being confident
    you are handsome

    • @I03-q1d
      @I03-q1d 3 года назад +21

      Social anxiety has nothing to do with being handsome or not.

    • @irlichchristian131
      @irlichchristian131 3 года назад +1

      @@I03-q1d purrr

    • @kimmici5676
      @kimmici5676 3 года назад +5

      @@I03-q1d exactly lol

    • @tudy6174
      @tudy6174 3 года назад +1

      @@I03-q1d yes, but why you wouldn't be confident when you look great
      i have not confidence and i am ugly

    • @simisolaagboola
      @simisolaagboola 3 года назад +3

      @@tudy6174 you are absolutely beautiful. Don't say that you're ugly :(

  • @margaxxii7054
    @margaxxii7054 3 года назад +1

    Your words have obviously impact to me! Im really having fun watching your vids 😭😭😭

  • @Dip..0110
    @Dip..0110 3 года назад +3

    I know when to come...it's MAX's upload!

  • @aarshghotra475
    @aarshghotra475 3 года назад +1

    The amount of cuteness in this video is overwhelming 🥺

  • @alessandramerida321
    @alessandramerida321 3 года назад +1

    listening to Max and doing school work at once is great y'all should try it :))

  • @aastha_riya27
    @aastha_riya27 3 года назад +1

    Oh my God! The moment u said India...I got real goosebumps!
    It's gonna be insane...always welcome here!😉

  • @meriameoujamaa3497
    @meriameoujamaa3497 3 года назад +1

    Your videos always give me a shot of inspiration and good energy :)
    I hope North Africa will be a part of your world tour !

  • @Mokhtar22278
    @Mokhtar22278 3 года назад +8

    Ohhhh, you're dog is extremely gorgeous

  • @fredsamoluk21
    @fredsamoluk21 3 года назад +1

    Ohh imagine him looking back on these videos when he's 50. It would probably be so fun to see yourself as a teenager!

  • @sophiathephirst
    @sophiathephirst 3 года назад +9

    I really thought that you drove to the airport to have a cool spot to film haha

  • @luxio8895
    @luxio8895 3 года назад +1

    I have social anxiety, it's awful!!!
    Glad you overcame it!!

  • @noahjohnson5360
    @noahjohnson5360 3 года назад +1

    It feels like just yesterday I was watching your 200k video, keep climbing

  • @LisaLisa-on8gk
    @LisaLisa-on8gk 3 года назад

    The fan meet up is so cool! If you come to Europe, you should definitely come to Germany! You would love it here!

  • @Rachel.Karalnik
    @Rachel.Karalnik 3 года назад +1

    commenting for the doggo 🥺❤️ but great video as always 🙌🏻 I’d have to say this has to be one of your best because of how comfortable you were in front of the camera

  • @tonyserra2787
    @tonyserra2787 3 года назад

    It's easy to like you because you're always giving, positive, and genuine. I agree with you on the teacher subject, the teacher can make or break the experience. I'm a huge introvert, so I can relate. You're such a magnificent soul Max, truly beautiful in the area of heart and mind. Thank you for you. And lastly, I think your dog knows how to aperate like Harry Potter!

  • @simphyy
    @simphyy 3 года назад +1

    ohh max thanks a loyt for the video . Aprreciate your efforts that you are posting videos and making us + in this time cuz you have many other priorities. But sadly will save this video and see after completing my lectures on eudiometry. Have to study so that i can watch the video.
    See u in perspectopia!!!

  • @ayseaslan4142
    @ayseaslan4142 3 года назад +1

    At the end of a tired day at Max , this video sounded like medicine . Thanks ❤️❤️

  • @jannybravo6557
    @jannybravo6557 3 года назад

    Happy 300K plus subscribers. I'm happy I'm one these 300K subscribers and it's getting bigger and bigger. I pray that you gonna reach 1M. I'm your avid fan from The Philippines.❤️

  • @bigspreee309
    @bigspreee309 3 года назад +1

    Yo bro, ur really entertaining. You really deserve over a million subs. Even if we never met, I really like ur vibe, and ur a cool guy. U prolly work really hard to satisfy ur academics, ur business and utube, and for that, I really respect u. I pray God brings many more blessings and surround u with people who will push u forward. I hope we meet one day, that would be sick. Have a gud year!!

  • @Fairplayer43
    @Fairplayer43 Год назад

    Be careful about the "law of attraction" line of thinking. Like you, i realized I was doing it unbeknownst to me. One thing is troubling about it though. As you attract subconsciously what your positive wants or needs may be. You can as well attract any evil desire that may cross your way. Be careful. Keep your heart in check. I like that you reflect on your actions as well as journaling them. Is a great tool to keep yourself and your desires honestly good. 😊

  • @pierrevaillancourt1803
    @pierrevaillancourt1803 3 года назад +2

    John Mayer! Nice! Respect. Play many of his songs in my band. Good video even if I got 8 ads lol

    • @MaxReisinger
      @MaxReisinger  3 года назад +1

      That's awesome! (sorry about the ads- there should have only been 3 for the whole 25 minutes!)

    • @pierrevaillancourt1803
      @pierrevaillancourt1803 3 года назад

      @@MaxReisinger no worries. Do you have a favourite Mayer song? Mine is Perfectly Lonely

  • @embersremembers
    @embersremembers 3 года назад

    i aspire to be secure in my actions and words as you are! growing up, and even now, i've always had the feeling that what i was doing was wrong in some way, which is personally where my social anxiety stems from :/

  • @Luke-zv8wh
    @Luke-zv8wh 3 года назад +2

    thankyou Max very calming from Indonesia:)

  • @sofiaderen6858
    @sofiaderen6858 3 года назад +1

    Hi, Max! You're doing way too cooler then ever! Thank u for your video, just pretty awesome, useful and motivating🙏

  • @divjotsandhu1013
    @divjotsandhu1013 3 года назад +3

    0:33 i see you truly have a great taste in music
    It's international baby by niko b

  • @MeganChan
    @MeganChan 3 года назад +1

    So proud of u max, and it's been so amazing seeing how far you've come. Definitely relate to the feeling special thing. Coming off as arrogant or even unintentionally being that way is one of my worst fears too

  • @Andamente
    @Andamente 3 года назад +2

    You are amazin man ! Thank you for you content, keep it up :D

  • @Lukeyborey
    @Lukeyborey 3 года назад +6

    Max, I gotta know your opinion on the Netflix documentary "The Social Dilemma" I just watched it in school and want to know your opinion on whether society is in fact under transnational corporations influence and that society is heading for inevitable destruction due to algorithms getting smarter and smarter and trying to keep us on their platforms. I personally think we all just have to better regulate the time we spend online and fact check sources to avoid one-sided articles that come in our feed as an attempt by the algorithm to keep us on the platform by reassuring us that we are right. Does that make sense? I guess what I really want to know is how you feel you play in the grand scheme of this because as a RUclipsr you rely on algorithms to reach a wider audience. However, I feel you bring a positive influence to people so I think I just answered my own question... 😅 honestly I just want to know your takeaway from the documentary because it is extremely powerful and I want to know your "optimistic" perspective of the situation. Because children are become increasingly exposed to these tools which has caused suicide rates to increase due to the detrimental effects of social media on teenagers' mental health. I personally look around in High School and see countless teens spending time on Snapchat wasting their time away on their phones. I think I am writing this paragraph more for myself at this point... haha 😅 but if you read this I would much like to hear your take away on the situation. 🙏🙏🙏 great video as always and cheers to an optimistic way of living dude. PS. your editing skills have definitely influenced mine as I strive to find my niche in my content. I see you have found yours. This is a messy paragraph at this point. Hope you see this some day and I would just like to know your takeaways on the documentary.

    • @rockyboy7016
      @rockyboy7016 3 года назад +1

      Hey Bish finally I've got you

  • @jaseemshan2602
    @jaseemshan2602 3 года назад +6

    Max, we need
    A day in the life videos....
    Pls...

  • @Captainkittenz
    @Captainkittenz 3 года назад +14

    Max going into the refrigerator is me at 3 A.M when I want food

  • @lilacisolation2381
    @lilacisolation2381 3 года назад

    Just went on youtube and immediately had to smile because i saw that you posted a new video:’) thanks for saving my day!! You give me so much energy i need that right now

  • @Paul-ym4sg
    @Paul-ym4sg 3 года назад +5

    Love from France

  • @DaveBalbutin
    @DaveBalbutin 3 года назад +1

    Woooaahhh thank you fo answering all the questions

  • @richaa23
    @richaa23 3 года назад +1

    You're amazing guyyy.. U will achieve all the things in you're life that u dream of.. #bright future for u ahead 🌈

  • @hybridZyphrus6961
    @hybridZyphrus6961 3 года назад +2

    Hello max welcome to india whenever you come , I will try to meet you .
    love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @aren4313
    @aren4313 3 года назад +4

    Your the best youtuber ever

  • @karma-iv9ti
    @karma-iv9ti 3 года назад

    you are too pure and perfect for this world max ;(

  • @edrianjuezan2724
    @edrianjuezan2724 3 года назад +14

    I retired of being lazy because of this guyyy. Hehe

  • @exage9742
    @exage9742 3 года назад +5

    I'll sleep peacefully tonight with some life knowledge again.

  • @OlesyaSlobodyanyuk
    @OlesyaSlobodyanyuk 3 года назад

    Wow, well, the last shot with the fridge really made me laugh) Haha, first of all you have a very cute dog! It was interesting that you remove apps from your phone so that they do not distract. I also love that you change shots a lot, so it's awesome. I also want to invite you here to Ukraine) Also congratulations on your 3000 subscribers!!!

  • @dcprincec1689
    @dcprincec1689 2 года назад

    i would love to see you here in the Philippines 💖💖its like a dream come true to see whom i watch on youtube to see in personal i always get inspirations on your video love yah keep going your on the right path see you in the Philippines 💓💓

  • @jaforahmed3236
    @jaforahmed3236 3 года назад +2

    Oh brother I don't understand your language but I think it's very beautiful

  • @barackobama7832
    @barackobama7832 3 года назад +5

    Max makes me gain 1,000 brain cells every video

  • @karencovar7557
    @karencovar7557 3 года назад

    I absolutely love your videos! They motivate me to have “discipline or regret” 👍🏻

  • @rashak7024
    @rashak7024 3 года назад +1

    i just clicked on the video but i feel like it's going to be amazing already

  • @ShouryaMallick
    @ShouryaMallick 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Max, this video You made , it really made my Day , i've been Waiting for a q&a for a long time. All the very best for your future !🥳 this video really helped me a Lot , and maybe this year , I would start my own RUclips channel.

  • @ninoquinones7891
    @ninoquinones7891 3 года назад

    Bro !you inspired me lot
    Everytime I watched your videos it gives lot a spark of motivation to achieve my goals in life and be who I am different aspects of my life.👊🇵🇭

  • @pamsobbran4847
    @pamsobbran4847 3 года назад

    Hey Max, I just want you to know that you’re a great person and that i have always watched your videos. I started watching your videos two years ago and after that I always felt so much better. Hope I can meet you one day, Love u, Pam

  • @charlieold
    @charlieold 3 года назад

    Congrats on 300k Max! You deserve it more than anyone on this platform!

  • @yaoli3811
    @yaoli3811 3 года назад

    Hi Max, I'm sure you have a large number of audience in China as well ❤ It's just that we have to use a vpn to go on RUclips, so we appear as viewers based in Japan, Singapore or Hong Kong, you get the idea. Anyways, keep up the good work, cheers

  • @julissamelendez5759
    @julissamelendez5759 3 года назад

    You inspire me a lot. Much love from Nicaragua. Cuídate.

  • @sarikayeole4349
    @sarikayeole4349 3 года назад +1

    Love from INDIA Max!!
    P.s. my first youtube comment just for u mate.

  • @PatrickArgentina
    @PatrickArgentina 3 года назад +1

    The security guys at the parking lot when Max arrives at 6:00 am to watch the sunrise 👀 🤨

  • @jadeihej7046
    @jadeihej7046 3 года назад +2

    Love the editing as always

  • @johnmarkmorgan
    @johnmarkmorgan 3 года назад

    22:27 please make an ‘asking strangers questions’ video! 🤩

  • @PatrickArgentina
    @PatrickArgentina 3 года назад

    Max I am so inspired by your positivity!!!

  • @jfp1981
    @jfp1981 3 года назад +4

    this is me peer pressuring you to ask questions to strangers lol 👍🏼

  • @jbfrxncisco
    @jbfrxncisco 3 года назад +4

    20:52 24:37 I’m Cryingggg!😭❤️🇵🇭

  • @who9873
    @who9873 3 года назад

    Tbh,I feel really happy that I hv found yur channel. Yu rlly rlly inspire me and I have finally decided with my friend to start something which I have always dreamt of. If that "dream" becomes a reality I'll surely let you know.
    Thanks Max,you rlly helped me out a lot and are helping through yur vids
    P.s- I hope that you get into Stanford😉