Fatherhood: How do you define it? | Fridays with Tab and Chance
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- Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
- In today's episode we talk about fatherhood. What it was like to grow up with a father and without one. Fatherhood can mean different things to each of us, lets get into it!
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Shout to chance for being vulnerable!
His fear of the camera and how he overcame that and now he sits on here every Friday and opens up for us to help us on our way! DOPE DAD! 👨🏾♥️
I love how Tab looks at Chance. True LOVE.
Goodaftern., Hi, I agree with U & the way Chance 🤓@ Tab as well. 😀💕💝 YeSs, that have True ❤️. 💯👍🏾
Back in the day we had a community of men who would step in, I wish this generation had these experiences
Same.
Definitely
I was just having that conversation yesterday.
Please do an episode with Chance's Mother, if possible, she deserves her flowers for raising Chance. Also can we get an episode with Tabitha's "Deddy"( how she pronounces it). That would just make alot of us smile, May GOD continue to shine upon you to keep spreading that Carolina Joy!!!
I love how how they've been married for years and still learn things about each other..it's so beautiful how their conversation flow and on camera at that..just inspiring.
I Love Tabitha and Chance.❤❤❤
I came to the comments just to say that!!! Lol
I love the way they look at each other❤
A. Chance didnt see a lot of fathers. It wasn't his world.
B. He couldn't miss where there was no deficit.
C. His family was his normal.
D. Life taught him what a father should be. His mother didn't focus on what he didn't have.
Perfectly summed up❤
My father passed on when I was 3yrs old but my step father was a big influence on me and taught me that a father is a man that takes you forward in life with wisdom strength and beauty to be absolute and divine.
He sounds like he was blessed to have a village 🙏🏾 . Our children need a village today 💖 Thank you all many blessings 😊
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 She gave Chance the same look that Choice gives her momma when Tab talk about her and Chance doing the nasty!!🤣🤣🤣
Chance testimonial on his journey of fatherhood is beautiful.
My life is the female version of what Chance went through, my father was not around and I never missed anything. My uncle and other family members gave me so much love I didn’t think I missed or needed anything else. It was my norm, bc it was what I saw around me growing up.
I’m so blessed to have a husband that doesn’t mind helping with house responsibilities and being hands on with the kids. He’s the only child like Chance and he doesn’t fool with many people like Chance 😂 Happy Father’s Day!
He didn't realize it, but he needed that apology from his dad.
My husband and I started watching Fri w Tab n Chance when we entered Therapy on 10/2022. I'm like you Tab my Dad is everything to me. I called him Cliffee, not Daddy. I lost my Dad on 4/13/2020 and my Mom on 4/19/2020. I miss them every day. The pain is always there but Fri w Tab and Chance get my mind off of them. I laugh so hard. Good show.
I was just like chance was. Growing up I don’t think I ever missed him because of all the love I had around me.
My father was present when my parents were married but once they got a divorce he wasn’t. I wish I never met him then maybe I wouldn’t miss him as much or be envious or jealous of others who have what I once had.
I’m an only child like Chance and when we are raised by our single mothers our natural instinct is to make her proud of us, listen, stay out of trouble, make good grades and succeed in life. Chance struggled with this topic but I admired his vulnerability and how Tab carefully navigated his experiences with his father. Regardless of the relationship with absent parents there should be some kind of communication between them so that we learn our family history and pass this information along to our children. We owe our ancestors the history behind our family life
Happy Father’s Day to Chance, Your Daddy and all the other Fathers and Father Figures!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
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The intro song is everythanggg! "Bring the beat in!!" Ayeee Fridays with Tab and Chaaaance 🎶🗣
I know exactly how Tabitha feels, because I am also a daddy's girl. And although my dad is no longer here, that special bond that he left with me, will never die! ❤
Chance, I so admire you, for your being real about being a father!
Hey Tab and Chance. I love, love Fridays with Tab and Chance!😊❤❤
Happy (Early) Father's Day to Chance, Tab's Daddy, and all Fathers that read this! 💐
That is so true, Tab you can’t miss something you never had.
I didn’t really have a relationship with my father coming up as a child.
Chance is a strong man and father!!!
I can totally relate to Chance growing up. I wasn't curious about my father until Middle school. The years after him passing away, I thought about him more. I really didn't think too much about him until later in life. I miss him more now.
I'm so sorry sis but I bet you had so much love from your mommy and family and I know you are the best mother in the world if you are a mom and if not when you do become a mom your going to be the best mother in the world sis I know your hurting but I know your father was hurting as well he missed out on knowing one of the smartest and gifted woman in the world keep your head to the sky sis
This notification, "Time for Tab & Chance", is the only one I pay attention to / look for. Really do appreciate you both and your sharing yourselves with all of us. Happy Fathers' Day Chance!
I enjoyed the conversation and Chance's perspective was enlightening. His kids are blessed to have him as a father. Great job Chance! I know you will be a part of that same kind of village you were blessed with for other kids when the opportunity arises. Happy Father's Day!
Chance, you’re getting it right. Because I believe, you’re giving your children, what you didn’t have. Love, and understanding, wisdom and guidance
Happy Father's Day. God always has someone looking out. He's a father to the fatherless.
Gdaftern.@Jacqelineharris8850, YeSss, That's so True. God is a Father to the Fatherless.
I Thank my Daddy/our Father God 4 being my Father. He's the Best Father I've ever had. I never knew my biological father & just seen/got a picture of him some Yrs ago. He pass'd on when I was 4 yrs old. God knows!
Happy Father's Day Chance and all the men who play a role in any child's life. Enjoy your day!! Happy Heavenly Father's Day to my Dad and the special men that helped form my life your spirit lives on. Tab and Chance, keep bringing us "Fridays with Tab & Chance. I love it!!
My son asked me if he had a dad he was about 6 at the time 😮...I answered so quickly " of course"! Lol...he said well where is he?? I said to him " when your daddy grows up and matures to be a real good daddy he's gone come looking for you".. anyways fast forward to now my son is 13 and his dad did just that!! Grew up and came looking for his son to be a father and for all the years my son cried from missing out on fathers day dinners at school etc..because he just wouldn't go or let me take his space fir the events but I feel like all the laughs he shares with his dad now is sooo satisfying! I wish all the fathers who feel guilty for not being there would show up for the kids!! Deal with the guilt/shame with therapy but if the child is willing to meet you fathers out there I say go for it!! 😊
Everytime I watch these lovely video’s I Laugh, I cry laughing, and I love the stares you both give each other and the Black Love & Excellence! I love to see love and it’s amazing to see. Please Keep Growing & Glowing! Much Love From Detroit!❤
This was ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT and BEAUTIFUL!!! Thank you so much for sharing this.❤❤❤
Chance had a lot of puzzle pieces to make him who he is. There are puzzles that have different numbers of pieces. He had like a 200-piece puzzle where others had 20 pieces of puzzles because the men played a bigger role in their life. But both make great men
Happy Father’s Day to Chance and all of the fathers and father figures out there. *Congratulations Tab on 1M Subscribers.*
Uncle Chance reminded me that it does take a village to raise a child. Uncle Chance had a real village ❤of elders
Fridays! Fridays! Fridays! with Tab and Chance...
Tabitha, you blessed to have been raised with your father guiding and teaching you through life. You are truly a daddy's girl. I didn't have that luxury and to many of us; it is a luxury. It's not the norm. I can relate more to Chance, you can't miss something you never had. I met my dad later in life and I even got to know of him as person and a man. I still never met the father in him. I saw a father in others growing up and through life. My understanding of father finally came through my personal growth with God and the understanding of His word. I am a Father's girl too but it is to my Father in Heaven. I think for Chance to be the amazing father and husband is a testimony to a man wanting differently for himself and his children and wife. It's obviously you have to want to be different from your norm. It's a choice rather than making excuses to being what the stats say about your norm. I can relate. Thank you both for this conversation. It's a much needed topic in this day and time back then, but Chance is an excellent example than you can over the fatherless syndrome and still be a GREAT father. It is a CHOICE....Happy Father's Day today and every day after today Chance 💙🙏 I love you both... May God continue to bless you and keep you in good health and spirits.
Y’all made it to 1 million subscribers, CONGRATS ❤️❤️❤️
Yes Tab, Chance, mother did a good job keeping him happy. Thanks Tab, for letting him release is childhood.
I’m excited… I anticipate Fridays with uncle Chance and auntie Tab❤
Thank you Tab and Chance for taking the time out to have these important conversations ❤
This is a beautiful, poignant discussion! Appreciate you both for wanting to open dialogue on father (biological or not) roles and its impact❣
Love 💕 the intro song 🎶🎶🎶🤗 peace and blessings to both of you
Chance and I have a similar vantage point. I had a grandfather who was Father I came to know.
This was so good. You're a great father Chance and thank you for being vulnerable and helping us understand fathers in a whole. ❤️
I raised my Son’s , and always had guy’s to step in where a male’s influence was important for them!! I have been told that I have raised two great Men! I couldn’t have done this without their presence and their support!! ❤❤❤
Congrats on getting to 1M subscribers! Praying for continuous blessings. 🥰
I really enjoyed this talk. So much truth shared. Thank you
Amen , Chance, Happy Father’s Day, to all the Fathers!
Well you deserve to buy a Father's Day gift for yourself for once. I love watching you guys.
My dad has never been an active father in my life. I have tried to be there for him financially in ways that'd I shouldn't have. I truly feel my kind and generous nature is being taken for grated.
Chance cracks me up. "They was doing some work....." "They came here on the lust......bus"🤣😂 I'm a Daddy's girl also Tab!!! Love Love Love my Daddy💜💜💜
Thanks for providing this segment. Chance my son is 20 years old and although my ex-husband missed out on raising him, other male figures encouraged him. They were there for his basketball games and so forth. My son doesn’t appear to have hate in his heart or anything like that, but it was extremely hurtful for me to watch. I believe my son’s experience will drive him to be a great father as you are when that time comes. Have a Happy Father’s Day!
Happy Father’s Day….Thank you sooooo much CHANCE…. for sharing YOUR story with us all… Blessings to you both!!!
AWWW❤ I love how he tells his daughters they contributed to the existence of Quest‼💙
Happy Father’s Day Chance. And to all the fathers that are reading this❤
Really great episode Tab and Chance. I especially appreciate the mention of you telling your two daughters that they should be proud that they contributed to the way their younger brother is coming up. As the eldest myself I have definitely struggles with feeling like the guinea pig child. Like all the mistakes were made on me, but I'm so glad my brother and sister (who are 12 and 13 years my junior) are where they are in life. That was a much better perspective on the matter.
I appreciate these Fridays with Tab and Chance. I appreciate your thoughtful and thought provoking conversations. It’s not easy to be truly open and honest, but I sense that you both are, and it’s also apparent that you’ve both thought about these life issues that you tackle each week. Thank you!
Hearing tab and chance completely different experience with "fathers" actually explains A LOT about my own. Always Present but NOT PRESENT at the same time.... Hard working, and here, but not loving, patient or present in mine or his grandchildren's lives, so still feel a void🤔
HAPPY FABULOUS💖FRIDAY YALL
Thank you, Tab and Chance! I like when Chance said "speak life into me." POWERFUL! That's what it all boils down to, imo, in those critical moments from a father or father figure!
Hallelujah, I saw God all up in your story chance.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You came here on the lust bus!!!!!!!!!!!! This had me rolling!!!!!!!
Never brought a Father’s Day gift.. hit home. I haven’t either 😢 Happy Father’s Day Chance!
My Daddy was present but he definitely didn't Father us he was like one if the Kids. I loved him but I wish he was more active in our lives. I'm grateful for the time we shared and was the last to talk to him before he passed❤. I thank God My Sons are Great Father's to their Sons. I feel Chance deeply and I take my hat off to him bc he is A GREAT HUSBAND AND FATHER.
I have a unique situations because I can identify w/both Tab and Chance a little because I had a great dad who taught me things like how to cut the yard, change at tire, and the importance of family. He was very loving and giving to me and my siblings but then he died of a stroke when I was 13 years-old and I never got to buy him a Father's Day gift with my own money. Of course, when I was little my mom would buy him things from all of us and we would make him cards and things but I never got to go shopping and get him that perfect shirt or tool or whatever that showed him just how much I appreciated him. It is something I think about every Father's Day! Rest in Heaven Daddy!💖💖
Chance, thank you for sharing your story with us. My father was also not present and I get very uncomfortable talking about it. Thanks for having the courage to share with us, and Tab thank you for guiding the conversation. You guys are AWESOME!
The intro 🙌🏾🔥🔥
Great questions Tab! 👏👏 Thank you for sharing Chance and Happy Father's Day! 🌟 Awesomeness conversation Tab and Chance! 🙌
Loved this. As always. My biological dad stepped on out when I was 2. Thankfully my mom met my step daddy when I was 3 and he's been in my life ever since then. He was 18 yo, just graduated from HS and my momma was 25yo with 3 babies under 6yo and divorced. He became an instant daddy and it's been 52 yrs now. He struggled off and on with drugs and alcohol. But he was a good provider and very loving. I love my daddy so much. He was the best thing that happened to me and my brother and sister.
Thank you both for your realness and just sharing your positive vibes. You're both an inspiration and the world need more of this! Happy Father's Day to all the fathers/uncles/men who act in the role of a father.
Love y'all Tab and Chance ❤❤❤
Completely agree with Chance about not missing my father and actually wanting a big sis. I figured this is how my family is and I was so loved I didn't miss him or really notice.
I'm a father's girl as well I'm the only girl out of six boys and and my three best friends didnt have a father but he was a father to them as well we're in our early fifties now my Father is gone home😢 now my mommy as well he was the best thing the smartest man on earth no one on this earth couldn't no way walk a mile in my father's shoes love you Tab and Chance
Chance the most important thing for you is that you are a father to your children. You have moved into this wonderful reality and you are doing a great job. Dwelling on past relationships can be important in a way, (put downs unnecessary) but the
the present, and the future is what should be celebrated. Have a great Father’s Day!
Happy Fathers Day Chance and all the great fathers .
This had me emotional 🥲 and sad for Chance because like Tab I’m a daddy’s girl. I can’t imagine not knowing or the feeling of not having a father around . I’m grateful, always .
My father was a good provider but very quiet, as my husband. Thank you both for sharing your wisdom, joy, and relationship experiences with us. You both are inspirational and encouraging. Continued blessings.
Happy Father’s Day we love and appreciate all y’all do and the example (positive) y’all demonstrate to our children families and in the community
😂😂😂😂 @Chance "the lust bus" 😂😂😂😂
Salute Team Brown
Happy Father's Day Chance. Love you two so much!!!! Keep helping us.
Tabitha and Chance you are so right it doesn’t take blood too be a daddy too anyone’s child. My husband has helped raise my two children he stepped up when their dad stepped down. With that being said he has help alone side me our children. Both turned out Amazing and graduated school and college and for him stepping up to the plate I’m forever grateful.. His children and grandchildren think he hung the stars and the moon!
👋🏾 Thank you for being transparent. I can relate to @Tabitha Brown's husband, Chance, being fatherless. It's true what he says. You never miss what you never had.
How can you not love these beautiful people?
Congratulations Tab & Chance.❤
I've always felt the same way as Chance. People always asked me if I missed my Dad - you cannot miss what you don't know. I never felt less - I had an amazing mother.
I can totally relate to Chance. U can’t miss something that you never had. It was normal to me as well. Ppl think I’m crazy to not yearn for that father figure. I just don’t.
This subject is so touchy for multiple reasons and as an adult not having that connection since childhood i can resonate with chance on not missing something you never experienced. My father was always around but not present at all, he was more of a dictator, shoved religion down my throat excessively when he finally got saved, treated me like the stepchild ( im the oldest) and til this day we don't have a connection, even when i initiate conversation its seems abnormal. There's also another man i knew as my uncle who always looked out for me for years he passed in 2012 a month before i gave birth to my daughter and his daughter found me in 2018 saying she believes im her sister. I questioned my mom, she denied it aggressively and cut me off, i also heard it from other family members but i still have no answer 😞🙏🏾
My dad passed away last year. This is will be my first Father's Day without him here.
Tab you are my fav and you asked some great questions… and Chance I love your authentic, blunt personality…
I grew up where my father was hit and miss mostly miss! He would tell us to pack our bags he’s on his way but instead he would bypass our house to go around the corner to drink and gamble…never come never call until the next time when he did it all over again and then out of 10 of those times he might follow through once!
It gives a child a feeling of not being good enough, unworthy of time nor the truth.
Then I turned around and basically married and had children with a man with similar behavior as my father. But with some favorable differences; He was a good provider, great protector and he is not a violent man. However for the most part he was just physically present, self absorbed, emotionally deficient and mentally unstable and it has really affected our sons…
A father in the home is not necessarily best.
A father in the home who understands or works toward understanding his role and the impact he has on the overall household health, then puts in consistent effort to exude what is needed on his part, IS best.
Happy Fathers Day!
My Favorite Queen and King, The Browns ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Chance You are Amazing My Nephew died not knowing his dad and was in therapy for years because of my sister, Proud of 😢 Chance Happy Father’s Day!!!!!
I agree with Chance. I didn’t ever miss not having a father. I didn’t start wondering about what a father meant until I was grown. I also grew up living with my mom, grandma and uncle. And like Chance, I’ve always wanted a big brother.
You know we love you guys, deeply appreciate you from sharing with the world about The Importance of Community and it doesn't have to be family.. Stay blessed, keep shining and let's go! 👪👪👪👪👪👪
I understand Chance. I never longed for a daddy either because I didn’t know what it was like to have a dad. Can’t miss or long for what you never had.
I get it.. my dad was not around until I was 22yrs old my mom died when I was 12.. I’m used to not having parents and I don’t have any feelings towards my dad. So I don’t call and check on him because it’s not something that cross my mind also when I’m going through things or need something I don’t call him because I forget and it doesn’t come to mind to call him.
We need more of this Tab-beautiful to watch👌🏾!
I understand him so deeply. I’ve never met my father or seen him for that matter. But it wasn’t something that bothered my as a kid.
I feel the same way Chance feels
My dad was not in my life but I didn’t miss him because I had so much love growing up, I never asked about him either, or missed him. I have no hard feelings towards him because I didn’t think about him. I had a good mother and family.
Happy Father’s Day!❤️🎉🎉