Do We Need Mentors? | Fridays with Tab and Chance

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  • @ElbonyNC
    @ElbonyNC Год назад +151

    I had a coworker that got on my nerves asking me questions about stuff I felt as if she should already know sweet girl but I just wanted to clock in and clock out but I am a nice person and willing to help so I would answer her questions about the bible or about debt etc. She wanted to persue other things and put in a 2 week notice. She told me that she looked up to me and seen me as her mentor and thanked me for everything. That absolutely changed my life and I didn't know she seen me as such I thought she was just a naive 24 yr old blondey. It definitely changed my views on new people I meet and my willingness and want to answer people questions or concerns no matter how small I think it is.

    • @GoogleAccount00
      @GoogleAccount00 Год назад +6

      That's why you/we have to stop judging people and stop mistreating people who simply want to know more. Like, how can you even knock someone who wants to gain knowledge from you or better themselves? She could have been an angel in disguise, someone there to bless you; that's why it's important to be kind and be helpful to people. Glad you were able to gain that wisdom!

    • @ElbonyNC
      @ElbonyNC Год назад

      @@GoogleAccount00 Never knocked them down but definitely gained wisdom in the proccess thank you for your response

    • @godspoet1974
      @godspoet1974 Год назад +9

      I'm glad that you had a change of heart. People may get under your skin by asking questions, but keep in mind that there was a time when you just didn't know and someone helped you. We carry the fruit of the spirit so others can pluck it; that is how we grow and become a blessing to others. God bless you.

  • @ByTheShepards
    @ByTheShepards Год назад +2

    When I think of mentors in religion I think of discipleship, people who choose to walk alongside others and help them not exactly coaching them or having a relationship with God for them. Moreso for accountability and strengthening, especially for those who weren’t raised Christian.

  • @rasheawhite3644
    @rasheawhite3644 Год назад +47

    Everyone has mentors whether they realize it or not. Mentors are nothing more or less than those who influence our lives (actions, thoughts and decisions). Some mentors are just closer than others... if the truth be told.👍🏾💯

    • @mrsbrownsugarsweetz
      @mrsbrownsugarsweetz Год назад +2

      I don’t but I’m hopeful that I will get one eventually

    • @rasheawhite3644
      @rasheawhite3644 Год назад +2

      @@mrsbrownsugarsweetz Dear one. You have mentors. Think about all the people who helped influence and shaped your life through actions, words and decisions down through the years. The word mentor is thought about so deeply that we fail to realize how many people have mentored us over the years. Remember... some mentors are closer than others.👍🏾💯

  • @Jan-xp8yi
    @Jan-xp8yi Год назад +27

    We need more of those strong family connections again! Young people today are missing out on those experiences

    • @Jan-xp8yi
      @Jan-xp8yi Год назад +1

      Plus eating at home usually is so much healthier than eating out. People rely on fast food way too much!

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 Год назад

      💯 Exactly, Yes they are, it's sad to right?

    • @jonnellholley316
      @jonnellholley316 Год назад

      I tell my nieces and nephews all the time how blessed they are to have family👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 around them growing up!!! ❤

  • @Myeese
    @Myeese Год назад +54

    I love Tabitha and her Chance they are so humble

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 Год назад

      I ❤️them 2 as well. Yes they are.😎👍🏾😍🤗🥰😘

    • @SilaholicsAnonymous
      @SilaholicsAnonymous Год назад

      They are definitely not humble. Many use the word humble is the wrong context.
      The definition of humble is 1.having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance
      2.of low social, administrative, or political rank.
      This is most certainly not them.

  • @Backpack16
    @Backpack16 Год назад +3

    Chance, I understand, what you’re saying. If you mentor, young people, on education, loving oneself, and basic life skills, being a leader, not a follower. They can become successful, in all their endeavors

  • @toomuch8931
    @toomuch8931 Год назад +2

    “Faith comes by hearing and hearing through the Word of God.”

  • @selinmalekian334
    @selinmalekian334 Год назад +23

    I love the way Tabitha looks at Chance when he's speaking.😍 Their love is so beautiful. You can clearly tell how much they've invested into their marriage. Love them!!♥♥

    • @Batirtze-b6x
      @Batirtze-b6x Месяц назад

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💢💢💢💢💢💢💢

  • @cheche5589
    @cheche5589 Год назад +2

    Mentor's show us choices for life and expand our views. So much of what I valued came from the actions of others that I admired and not so much their words. For example there was a man at the small church I attended as a kid who was our Vacation Bible school leader. He wore a beautiful suit,spoke and sang with a deep baritone voice and really rallied all of the kids to enjoy and celebrate the the Lord. Brother Hall was my first example of a black male hero. Years later I saw him in stained overalls working at our cities' bus depot and I admired the courage it took for him to lead when his day job wore him out. There are many silent mentors whose actions guide us. God bless them.

  • @jwall2888
    @jwall2888 Год назад +17

    Yes! Mentors and Coaches are important.

  • @marshabowens9253
    @marshabowens9253 Год назад +30

    My favorite couple on Fridays with Tab and Chance! ❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙

  • @sonjahawes6908
    @sonjahawes6908 Год назад +8

    Tabitha you a mentor of me I was a sick person I had all kind of problems medical high blood pressure cholesterol and everything else and you mentored me by making me think that I could get rid of all was that by throwing teaching I did it's been two years now and I got rid of everything they said I had and I want to thank you so much for giving me the courage to do that thank you thank you thank you

  • @Pareja7
    @Pareja7 Год назад +12

    Tab you are so my internet mentor. I got Tab Time on my desktop and play an ep to set me on a super positive and productive path for my day. That show is not just for kids. It's for adults too who would never burn their Kid Card cause they know how valuable it is to their contextual awareness in a world that seems to be in free fall. And I haven't missed watching "Fridays w/ Tab and Chance" because the vibe is so lovingly instructive. Even though last weeks show creeped me out a bit. I made sure I had my nigh lights way up that night. LOL!!!!

  • @eldersherryhanchett8141
    @eldersherryhanchett8141 Год назад +5

    Hello Tab& Chance, Mentorship to me, is having patients, for a person. I enjoy people, I’m a people person, that allows me, to utilize my gift from God! I’m chosen by God and not by man. The Bible says many are called and few are chosen. It’s so many people are not walking in their calling, that’s why they give up so easily! I love what I do it’s a passion for the love of God.

  • @marisolzamar8818
    @marisolzamar8818 Год назад +6

    I love when you put God front and center.That's your audience base.❤

  • @Sassysaash
    @Sassysaash Год назад +7

    Yes, mentors and coaches. I think so.
    Love yall! ❤

  • @Megan6772
    @Megan6772 Год назад +1

    I lost my mom when I was young and something I heard which I always remember is to take what you like & leave the rest. That's always helped me ❤

  • @eldersherryhanchett8141
    @eldersherryhanchett8141 Год назад +7

    That’s why y’all are loved! It’s the truth🙏🏽💜✝️💜

  • @bemazizi4863
    @bemazizi4863 Год назад +14

    Yes you both are definitely my RUclips mentors. God bless and I can never thank you enough for all that you do. Bless ❤

  • @tereng128
    @tereng128 Год назад +10

    I love these Tab and Chance Fridays 💚💚😂😂

  • @veronicacobb3036
    @veronicacobb3036 Год назад +1

    I've always gravitated towards the older people in my family (my parents first) especially in the work place for mentorship. They have so much knowledge, experience and wisdom. I don't ask people what I should do instead I ask people what have they done as well as what was the outcome.

  • @tanyafortson5145
    @tanyafortson5145 Год назад +3

    God will take you just as you are! Let him clean your heart ❤️ love ya'll Tab & Chance😊

  • @gimme6ft.
    @gimme6ft. Год назад +15

    We definitely need strong mentors and leaders

  • @leneeellis
    @leneeellis Год назад +13

    I love these open and honest conversations with you all. Love you guys❤

  • @godspoet1974
    @godspoet1974 Год назад

    Pastor Barlow is my pastor, and he definitely helped me understand and grow my relationship with God. And you are so right. No one can have a relationship with God for you just like no one can be saved for you. I love you both. Blessings ❤

  • @kishamccray5997
    @kishamccray5997 Год назад +2

    Yes it’s necessary to have mentors. I mentor people mental health back to healing.

  • @tressamorgan1128
    @tressamorgan1128 Год назад +1

    Forget the mentorship I can see the love in the intro of this video. Y’all are an absolutely beautiful couple. I love to see Chance laughing at Tab ❤ Scoot over I’m joining the marriage.

  • @GinaGeeILuvu
    @GinaGeeILuvu Год назад +2

    I had a FB friend, just today, ask me if I was a counselor because she has learned so much from the context of my posts! This has lit a new fire under me to get my license to be a professional counselor because I do have the required education (a Master's degree in Psychology). It's like Tab and Chance were saying sometimes we can mentor others without even realizing we are mentoring them. 💖💖

  • @npersley
    @npersley Год назад +2

    I ❤y’all…My father was a Coach and a Science teacher but he was a caring person that like to mentor his kids and was like a father to them as much as he was to me and my brother

  • @contentat45able
    @contentat45able Год назад +1

    This is definitely timely to me. I was just listening to a video of Tyler Perry speaking at various places motivating folks. I realized that Steve Harvey and Tyler is that for me.

  • @katori3180
    @katori3180 Год назад +1

    Y’all are Speaking! Especially regarding the spiritual aspect, No one can Have a Relationship with God that’s based on the Salvation of Others, You Have to Know Him for Yourself ❤️ Relationship not Religionship

  • @bunnybeeyou8026
    @bunnybeeyou8026 Год назад +4

    I love his passion for the Kids❤❤ Also how Tab love her husbands Passion❤❤

  • @dyannwynn7021
    @dyannwynn7021 Год назад +6

    Enjoyed this season with Tab and Chance ❤ you all

  • @CarolynYouman59
    @CarolynYouman59 Год назад +5

    Greeting this beautiful FRIDAY! Happy to see both of you. You both are amazing helping to motivate and inspire people. Mentorship is powerful and especially important when you need guidance and new directions for new opportunities and new adventures in a new starting place in life.
    You are right every marriage is different but great marriages also have a head start by learning what a marriage partnership is all about before committing yourself to a oneness.
    I also feel that if your desire is to be married don’t just wait to get with the person start your development process by learning and getting a mentor before committing yourself to a relationship to manifest into marriage.

  • @toomuch8931
    @toomuch8931 Год назад

    Come on Chance!!! He is really breaking it down and I truly appreciate his guidance of mentorship! trying to show ppl the importance of an independent mindset!! Too much co-dependency going on today… don’t be a mimicker know your motives for seeking a mentor…because if you seek a mentor without having an identity you are setting yourself up for being a follower.

  • @lawandabritt3303
    @lawandabritt3303 Год назад +3

    We are always being observed by people that look like us, especially when you are successful

  • @kimpalmer5482
    @kimpalmer5482 Год назад

    So listening to this reminds me of something I feel like at times professionals in some positions think more about the money then the actual job. Like teachers truly don't get paid enough, but some teachers are like when the bell rings I'm done. However, others will stay after class, extend emails and just make sure the lesson that needs be learned is learned. But yall are correct mentorship is very important to make sure that if you take on the responsibility it's your responsibility to mentor.

  • @TheNikmarq123
    @TheNikmarq123 Год назад +1

    People can be mentors but not know it. They give an example. So you can work on a relationship and get advice. Lots of things to learn, like doing your share of housework regardless of what your parents did. Like listening. Like improving your communications skills. Like learning when to pick your battles. Like not instigating. Like showing respect. Like gratitude. Like dealing with abandonment issues. Take the advice but also do the work.

    • @pattroy9219
      @pattroy9219 Год назад

      Thanks for accepting the topic of mentorship and sharing the information to all the viewers, great for educational purposes 😀 😉 lovely family ❤️ 💙 💜 💖

  • @consuelabowser5
    @consuelabowser5 Год назад +2

    I love how God is using the both of you to inspire and motivate people all over the world. Love you Tab and Chance. ❤❤❤❤

  • @savaughndra
    @savaughndra Год назад +2

    I see my reflection in you two thank you for doing the work naturally

  • @lvluxegirl
    @lvluxegirl Год назад

    Yes mentors can be a great help Tfs ❤

  • @LatoijaJ
    @LatoijaJ Год назад

    You said a word!!! “PERFORMANCE!” ❤

  • @slimgoody1980
    @slimgoody1980 Месяц назад

    Just love watching this two souls loving on each other. So inspiring 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @mosue3200
    @mosue3200 Год назад

    Occasional advice is okay. Great conversation! Thank you Tab and Chance!

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb Год назад

    Tab be gettn that in Da Jerk Doe!!!! 🤣
    #PissedmeOFF 😳, now I thought I wasn't gon finish the video because I kept rewinding that part!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rubyambus9422
    @rubyambus9422 Год назад

    Y'all so blessed I have to find words to communicate......the wisdom that has been down loaded and then you share it is amazing.....Come on Chance and Tab........then y'all are REAL black people remaining black 🖤
    Thank you God for Chance and Tab

  • @BlackNomadTV
    @BlackNomadTV Год назад +1

    Tab sounding like a homecoming at a HBCU. HAHAHA I WAS SINGING IN THE CONCERT...I MEAN KITCHEN AND MY FRIEND HAD TO CHECK ON ME😂😂😂😂

  • @kimbertl4199
    @kimbertl4199 Год назад

    Hi Tab & Chance,
    This was a very insightful conversation in regards to mentorship. I really enjoyed it.
    Tab the analogy you used... you can be in a garage but that doesn't make you a car. My pastor here in Riverside, CA, Bishop Ron M. Gibson has been using that for years. It made me smile😊. 💜 U 2 for just being yourself.

  • @nubi688
    @nubi688 Год назад +9

    Hi Tabitha and Chance! This was such a GREAT conversation and topic to be discussed!!! Thank You Both for SHARING this with us!!! ❤🙏🏾💯👏🏾God Bless the Both of You.

  • @janaehunt5678
    @janaehunt5678 Год назад +2

    Thank you for this episode. It may seem like religion came up incidentally but I’m glad you shared. Tab I feel your connection to the community felt and experience of going to church when you were younger and chance I feel you on finding a church that resonated with you. I loved the basketball talk. I am married to a coach with a heart for kids. It was good to hear this segment. Y’all be blessed! ❤

  • @ReeRee2016
    @ReeRee2016 Год назад

    Whoever did that HaHaHa in the beginning, My ear caught that👌🏽and took me back! They don't do that anymore in music.

  • @nicole_rn_scott
    @nicole_rn_scott Год назад +1

    I could listen to you two all day! Thanks for giving us something so beautiful to look forward to weekly. Such a blessing 🙏🏾❤️

  • @runteldat12
    @runteldat12 Год назад +4

    Thank you both for sharing, God bless you Tab and Chance

  • @nadirajames4267
    @nadirajames4267 Год назад +5

    Tabbbbbb you’re soooo funny I’m telling you such a beautiful couple just beautiful and yessssss with the mentors and Chance you’re absolutely right!!!!🫶🏾❤️👍🏾

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Год назад

    We need more mentoring especially with our children in school.

  • @sassyx2048
    @sassyx2048 Год назад

    These two always have that love energy sometimes I loose focus on thier love vibe❤. That's only a good thing as you continue to show people what real authentic love looks like
    On the mentorship I've never had mentors in my life but I have taken it upon myself to mentor others in every way I can.

  • @breedubs
    @breedubs Год назад +4

    I got so many great gems from this! Thanks as always ❤️

  • @65monalisa
    @65monalisa Год назад

    I feel it's necessary to because often times we need someone because we get off course especially with communication.

  • @michellement2158
    @michellement2158 Год назад +12

    Tab & Chance KEEP THESE VIDEOS COMING!!! Thank you so much!

  • @noviwhitfield3261
    @noviwhitfield3261 Год назад +7

    You two are made for each other 😂

  • @tavianpaige-yearby3344
    @tavianpaige-yearby3344 Год назад +1

    Hello Tab and Chance,
    I really enjoy your videos. Having or being a mentor is a gift.
    Not everyone can pour into others.
    Keep bringing us these very needed conversations!!!

  • @valeriejones3808
    @valeriejones3808 Год назад

    Chance is on point. If the coach was not concerend about our kids beyond the sports or activities we did not allow them to remain with that person. Life skills should also be included. Now we as parents must do our part too. We're mentoring and influencing people whether we believe it or not.

  • @DoseofDi
    @DoseofDi Год назад

    I have honestly never had a mentor & it’s for many reasons. My childhood was really bad & it took me some time to realize how it made me into someone I didn’t want to be.. I guess I’m my own mentor 😭 I had to unlearn a lot & check myself. I’m still working cuz you never stop but I’ve definitely changed for the better.

  • @frediquattlebaum9624
    @frediquattlebaum9624 Год назад

    Love all the subject matters. All about life, laughter, challenges; things to think about and family discussions where each person/family are.

  • @EllaineWritS
    @EllaineWritS Год назад

    Oh thank y'all. Love you❣️. I really needed this. Was good timing!

  • @kishasworld5148
    @kishasworld5148 Год назад +5

    Real conversations I love it 👏🏽

  • @arkasharobertson2740
    @arkasharobertson2740 Год назад +2

    Hello 👋🏽 Tabitha and Chance!!! Happy Friday!! Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ to you.

  • @mz.phatbaldkat7839
    @mz.phatbaldkat7839 Год назад +2

    👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾Heyyyy Tabitha & Chance. T.G.I.F. Happy St. Patrick’s Day to you both.☘️☘️☘️☘️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @theartofcrochetbychandra3079
    @theartofcrochetbychandra3079 Год назад +1

    A mentor in religion for me is someone who teaches how to give the word of God application. Like Tab said, it’s up to the person to put the word to work

  • @LifewithLisha123
    @LifewithLisha123 Год назад

    Very good!! ( In my Aunt Tab voice) :) I really really enjoyed this. Well heck I love all the Fridays with Tab & Chance. This one here was a mind changer/game changer for me. Knowing that we all have mentors whether we know it or not or whether the person mentoring knows it or not. We have to know that people are watching us so we have to move accordingly to be the best version of ourselves as we can. I love yall Aunt Tab & Uncle Chance! Keep these videos coming! :)

  • @godsconstruction
    @godsconstruction Год назад

    That's us 25 Years in , Excellent message but we be getting sleepy when it's time. To-do the things #GodsConstruction ☮️❤️💡

  • @scrickmore
    @scrickmore Год назад

    Many, many, many years ago I was hired by a company and soon realized there wasn’t much my new boss could teach me. Well, I was wrong….through his actions he taught me how not to treat people, how not to embarrass co-workers etc. I walked away from that position realizing I would never be like him if I ever had people reporting to me. Guess everyone can be a mentor, it’s what you do with what you’ve learned…..good and bad.

  • @qbear43
    @qbear43 Год назад +2

    I absolutely love you guys!! I feel like my marriage is similar to yours which makes you guys a mentor indirectly 😉 😊 thank you for that! ❤

  • @fareebug8439
    @fareebug8439 Год назад

    I adore you both! Really enjoyed the breakdown that first 12 minutes. Yes, yes yes! ❤
    You two are mentors indirectly to so many on here. Thanks from us. 🙏

  • @vernettarudd5895
    @vernettarudd5895 Год назад +1

    Tabitha you are sooo down to earth in every way. And that make you a mentor. I love y'all's Content thank you. ❤🥰💕💕💕🙋‍♀️

  • @jasminegrant3732
    @jasminegrant3732 Год назад

    First of all, Tab & Chance, y’all are mentors!! Don’t let anyone tell ya different! 3:14

  • @krsnaelbeyondspaceandtime6824
    @krsnaelbeyondspaceandtime6824 Год назад

    Wow that intro was so filled with love and joy , 👁💜y’all 🎉😊

  • @uwanaibanga9488
    @uwanaibanga9488 Год назад

    The way that I needed this conversation!! In this time, in this week, divine. I can see God blessing me with more opportunities from just the timing of all these convos being downloaded to me.
    Also would like to add that mentees know no age. I learn from people who’ve figured out life lessons for themselves younger than me AND older. Like Zendaya and China Anne McClain been teaching me since Disney.

  • @marshabowens9253
    @marshabowens9253 Год назад +1

    Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
    You’re absolutely correct Tab!

  • @Classynsassylaine
    @Classynsassylaine Год назад

    Chance and Tab are both great mentors, keep up the good work ❤❤❤❤

  • @shantelleholden9182
    @shantelleholden9182 Год назад

    Mentors guide, direct or influence others either directly or indirectly. Parents should be your first mentor.

  • @melissajohnson4922
    @melissajohnson4922 Год назад +1

    Fri-daaays with Tab and Chaaa-aaaa-aaaa-aaaaa-ance! 🎉

  • @lawandabritt3303
    @lawandabritt3303 Год назад

    Some mentors are just through observation. Professors at my HBCU, executives at work, leaders in your community. And overall successful people.

  • @shawnaw9750
    @shawnaw9750 Год назад +1

    You both are so much fun. I enjoyed every minute of this topic. 👍❤

  • @larhondas.maiten6404
    @larhondas.maiten6404 Год назад

    Chance was giving some good nuggets! 🎯

  • @MSKING-et8qu
    @MSKING-et8qu Год назад

    Love it. I dye my hair with Adore all the time because I love changing my hair color. I just dyed mines 2 weeks ago with but it didn't really show up bright indoors but I'm trying again with Kiss Simi perminit. I never lighten my hair first because again I like to change up my hair color. Keep trying girl and have fun with it.

  • @kawandacollectibles8921
    @kawandacollectibles8921 Год назад

    Heyyy love y’all..keep it coming. I’m loving it, a lot of good information and advice. Take care and be blessed 🌷

  • @clynnjohnson418
    @clynnjohnson418 Год назад

    Good show & information appreciated...thank you Tab & Chance!

  • @ramonaveatch4718
    @ramonaveatch4718 Год назад

    I love your shirts!! Where you get those?Love the videos too!! Just found these. Done watched like 5/6 episodes.

  • @liltbennet
    @liltbennet Год назад

    Tab and Chance, y'all better say that about church in the South every Sunday. It's an entire day of fellowship, sweating, eating and waking people up to go home! 😂

  • @laurahall1125
    @laurahall1125 Год назад

    This was very informative for me. Thank you Tabitha and Chance. 💜💜💜

  • @diamondoflightd.o.l.
    @diamondoflightd.o.l. Год назад

    Another great video. I honestly recorded a video earlier saying I would love this wonderful woman who I am inspired by to mentor me. it would be a dream come true for me. And amazingly you guys are speaking on this subject. Speak Source Creator God.Thank you to beautiful people who I'm inspired by.

  • @toomuch8931
    @toomuch8931 Год назад

    Break it down ya’ll God has bestowed wisdom on you two!!

  • @marisolzamar8818
    @marisolzamar8818 Год назад

    Yes, mentors are needed. Hard to find.

  • @dianaaponte1738
    @dianaaponte1738 Год назад +1

    Joyce Meyer would always say that quote “You can spend years in a garage doesn’t make you a car”

  • @Jesus.SaVeS77
    @Jesus.SaVeS77 Год назад

    Hey Gdm. Y'all, Tab/Chance.
    Drop the Beat! Fridayyzzz, Fridaayyzzz, Fridaayyzzz with TaB. & Chanceee, Badummp
    bummp bummp! 😀😂😂😘❤️this Fridaayz song & beat. 😍🤗🥰

  • @sandraharris-johnson6223
    @sandraharris-johnson6223 Год назад

    Love Chance’s ❤ for the kids.

  • @nonikaallen2030
    @nonikaallen2030 Год назад

    "YOU DIDN'T WANT IT?"🤣🤣🤣

  • @kissiesass4102
    @kissiesass4102 Год назад +1

    Sis your my mentor and you have changed my hold life from my hair to what I eat to how I dress and getting back to my dream of acting you inspire me to be a better me❤Love you to Chance!! 😂 I Lobe the whole family!!all y’all 😂

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Год назад +1

    We need spiritual leaders if you are believers in Christ 🙏🏾