As always, thank you for holding my tender heart with such love!! I've absolutely loved experimenting with more poetic videos to reflect on my life. 🥹 Nothing inspires me more than seeing people on the internet unapologetically showing their humanness, in all our wonderful messiness and growth. I really hope this video helps at least one of you feel seen. If you’re going through a breakup, I’m sending you the biggest hug. I promise it gets better. Keep focusing on yourself. Lean into the cocoon. And one day you’ll just look up and kinda realise you made it through. ❤🩹
Through one video, you have literally changed the lives of thousands of people. It takes so much bravery to share such deep feelings. But when you do you change the world, and with love and deep admiration, the world will give back. Thank you Jade 🦋
It's videos like these which remind me why I subscribed to you in the first place: You're not afraid to be honest and be yourself and I love that about you. Just remember that you'll always have this little corner of the internet with your community of 936,000 people and no one can take that away from you. We're always here for you and we love you Jade. 💜
honestly, I will always stand by the fact that breakups are the beginning of your higher self. Im an so incredibly grateful for my breakup now, and at the time it was the worst ive ever felt in my life. This is so raw and authentic. Love you, Jade!!! 💌
Relationship issues are truly some of the hardest to deal with, accept and face. I like to think of myself as a fairly level-headed and self-aware person, but when it comes to relationships, all that sense of rationality goes out the window as emotions take over. This was a beautifully raw but inspiring video, thank you!
I bursted into tears when seeing the Marie Jo part. It happened again when hearing the Girl in Red song at the end, which Ive heard live before in Amsterdam. You’re a very pure person and I resonate with a lot of the things you’re saying and sharing. And for what it’s worth, this message comes from a man! Sending you all the love and compassion I am able to in this way. ❤ from NL
oh jade this was so beautiful, so moving, so emotional. i really, really needed this. you have no idea how much this will help people for so many years to come. here's to healing, here's to growth.
I also left a 3 year relationship and it was one of the darkest, scariest moments of my life. 1 year later, I'm still a bit scared and lost but also incredibly proud of how much more connected I am to myself, my desires, and my worth. And I know everything will be ok as long as I keep that connection. To anyone struggling, I just wanted to say that you're not alone and that there is hope. Great things are awaiting you, the universe is just preparing you for it! (and yeah it's hard and painful, but it will be worth it). Thank you Jade for sharing this with us, you cannot imagine how much it helps
Same here. It’s like on the one hand it hurts soooo much and was and still is so incredibly difficult. But then, you’ve never known yourself as well as you do now and have been able to fully discover and be yourself Much love
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I realized I’m just going through a breakup right now, but different. A breakup with my parents, an unhealthy relationship. So I’m about to start my cocoon phase and I’m glad for this amazing video of yours! Thank you! And I hope you can come to Brazil one day 🇧🇷 I must confess you’re my crush 🙈
I broke up with my ex a year ago. And it's hard, this last summer, facing all the places I went with him, alone. But it does get better. Thank you for talking about this❤
Despite being in my bedroom while I watched this, a ladybird landed on my iPad as I watched. If that doesn’t perfectly reflect the energy of this video then I don’t know what does. Thank you for this beautiful piece of work
damn. I'm pretty sure this comment will be lost among all others, but just in case you see it, thank you for making these kinds of videos. I'm not even living through a breakup but life has been pretty hectic lately, there are a lot of changes around me, and you can't understand how soothed I felt after watching this. Thank you for showing good but also bad moments of your life, and I send you ALL a lot of positivity and strength
your videos make me feel so seen and less alone, i think its so freaking cool you're so open about how messy 20s are. we're the same age and i feel so lucky your videos exist and that i get to watch them. thank you
I also want to say I'm so jealous of you being in this stage of your life, I went through it when I was your age too, I became a mild hippy after a break up and it felt like I was discovering the world anew ❤ I'm 29 now, studied physics and medicine since then and my view on life has changed but I look fondly at that time of so much opportunity
currently going through a serious friendship breakup that I initiated and i really hear you when you say that you DID make the right choice and that your intuition and your gut knows when people should no longer be in your life. thank you for such honest, beautiful, and kind content jade
Never comment but thank you for being so unapologetically raw in your videos, Jade. It is so rare to find that kind of honesty on the internet (sometimes in real life too). Watching you turn into a butterfly has been beautiful and inspiring and we are all so proud!
I don’t know what it is Jade, but there’s something about your storytelling that motivates me to try. I have been watching your content since I was in high school, and whenever I felt a sense of hopelessness, your videos have been an insta-fix for me. Thank you for bringing the much needed positivity to the digital world.
This video reminds me why I love your channel and it is because of YOU, the way you show your humanity, acceptance and your healing process. Every time i watch your videos i feel comforted and makes me think that friends that have you around are so lucky to know a soul like yours.
Not going through a breakup just a general blip now I’m 23 and deep in the capitalistic grind of 9-5, desperately trying to move in with my boyfriend and not fall apart from my friends who live all over the place now -- this video resonates and I feel like I needed to stumble across it despite not really watching you since I graduated 😅❤
Your message is so comforting. I am 25 and feel completely lost. Thank you for being you and inspiring us to be more of ourselves and be at peace with that.
This is such a brave video to make. I think the part where it got me me was the story of Mary Jo. It was sooo touching, almost mystical. Really love the way you created the chapters in this story too and how Tarot cards played a role in this whole story was fascinating. To rebirth! This was so wholesome to watch the progress of your breakup 🫂
not going through a breakup but stumbled on this video and can see the growth in a human, these "negative" things that happen to us that put us through a fire for long periods of time where we just want them to end and feel better are actually given to us to transform, like a caterpillar to a butterfly. it can be hard but it all makes sense later as long as we go with the flow of the waves, reminding myself of this today!
Never comment at all but, it feels like a blessing we went through a breakup at the same time! It was so lovely healing (and continuing to heal) with you!! ❤🎉😊
I literally cried of joy while watching you going through this rebirth... It felt like you were right next to me telling these messages to my soul. I recently experienced a breakup too, and you showed me how much there is to discover about - just - us❤
Girllllll the myth of change explanation was so healing for me to hear, I started crying🥹 ty for sharing Jade! Here’s to us queer girlies needing some important cocoon time to grow🌱🦋
I'm glad you pressed post. This was so beautiful. I've never even been in love but I cried because LIFE and it somehow resonates. Wish you happiness and fulfillment in your days to come❤.
You are a ray of light for so many of us Jade, and I'm here to just tell you that we love you for what you are and what you've become or for what's waiting for you
Dear Jade, I'd really like to express my gratitude to you because your videos seem to find me at the perfect and most vulnerable times. A little over a month ago, I was feeling stuck. Like the future was being slammed into me and I had nowhere to run and nothing to protect myself with. Then, my childhood best friend reached out and asked if I wanted to spend a couple weeks at her house. That day, you uploaded a video of you traveling to Germany. In that video, you reminded me of the opportunities and the perspectives that can be gained from travel and leaving the well-knitted comfort zone, and you also explained a little about tarot cards. I'm not yet in my spiritual era, but that day I didn't feel like I could rely on my own emotions because I was overwhelmed and stuck in rumination. So, I went online and found a tarot reader website. It said that whatever opportunity is given to me will allow me to break free of the obstacle that lies ahead of me. I went to see my childhood best friend. And it was such an eye-opening two weeks. It was slow-paced - most of the days were spent reading, admiring the countryside, and appreciating the stars I couldn't see in the city, but for the first time in a long time, I felt happy. I'd gained wisdom on how others lived, I'd found a relationship that put the one I was mourning over into comparison, and I felt free and unafraid to take leaps and go further than I'd ever gone before. I'm in high school and I've felt for quite a while that my school isn't the best fit for me - due to reasons that I won't go into detail about - and just yesterday, I had the confidence to decide to go halfway across the world with my sister to attend a high school. This chapter of my life will be the most terrifying one yet, and I know it will be very strenuous, but I thank you for helping me find the confidence to take this chance and I trust that it'll be okay.
Hello Jade, I read your little message in the video description. As someone who has been struggling with the decision to action a breakup since January, reading it felt comforting and reassuring to me. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and growth with us through this video. I've been listening to All We Do by Oh Wonder the whole day trying to process everything. It was a delight to hear this song in your video. Thank you for your courage, I know that it took a lot of courage to post this video. Now, it's my turn to be brave too..
This was such a beautiful video I genuinely cried - the way you script and edit your videos, your story-telling style is so beautiful! I'm sure there is a message in this video for everyone whether it's about a break-up or listening to intuition and other topics like just being ones-true unapologetic self❤🌻🌻🌻
Jade, I love your journaling routine and that you show it! I've been journaling since I'm a little girl and I am convinced of its positive and healing effect on me -- you too, obviously. I believe that the world would be a better place if more people journaled... So thank you for sharing this habit and inspiring others with it! And also, I am deeply impressed by your self reflection and how you grow (plus, that you share so much of it with the public). That's truely amazing! I wish you all the best. Please continue to light up the internet and the people around you with your positivity and kindness! ❤ PS: I just realized how professional your videos have become. I mean, this film has a whole dramaturgy, especially with the music, wow!
While I'm still watching, there's a few things I'd like to say. I've been watching you since my early highschool career, desperatly looking for the best study tips, and look 8 years later here I am watching your healing journey post breakup as I am going through my healing journey of my FIRST love. How funny, it was 6 months ago too. Tarot cards have been my rock even though my peers don't understand it like I do. In some odd way it's always been accurate and helped me heal in ways unimaginable. Thank you for making this video. ❤
I've also just been through a breakup about 6 months ago😢! But it's so true that though it hurts immensely in the beginning, one day you just realise that you can feel joy again and living life is fun again :)!
This video, wowwww - I also went through a break up this year, after being together 5+ yrs, thru uni, everything. And also in the dullness and loneliness of ✨London✨ it was so so so hard but as you say; you know what’s supposed to happen for you and I knew that it was the right thing to happen- despite it being the most terrifying upheaval of my life in my adulthood to date. But, I grew and evolved and reconnected with so many other parts of my personality and friends and my life that never would’ve happened otherwise. I’ve been watching your videos for ages and seeing you go through this at the same time has been healing… just another path of life for us to explore :) x
Hey Jade, thanks for sharing your tender poetry with us. It feels really cringey to say, but thanks for growing out your armpit hail. It’s an act of self-ownership I increasingly want to hold in to as it feels so taboo and I don’t want to force myself to change, alter myself no matter in how small or insignificant a way. So thanks for being one example I can find
I moved to London after an 8 year long relationship ended. I was so lonely. But funnily enough the harshness of the city and fact that friendships are something you have to actively forge pushed me to go out and meet people. I joined a philosophy group on meet up, attended spoken word events and little by little, these beautiful friendships came into my life. Three years later I wouldn’t take back any of that time, because it lead me to new interests, people and experiences. If you’re in a breakup, give yourself the grace of a future you looking back and thinking, you’re doing so well. Breath, get fresh air, and lean on your close friendships even if it is over the phone. New, beautiful things will be coming your way.
Went through a breakup recently and your video came at exactly the right moment ❤️ Thank you for being so real, this is relatable and soothing at the same time... sending you big hugs and hope things will improve more and more for you 🫶🏼
I truly believe the universe sent me your channel a year ago because it knew how much healing and support your words would give me in difficult times. Jade, I can’t thank you enough for sharing all of this. just know you are seen and loved and you are also making people feel that way. sending love and compassion from brasil 💖
as somebody who has only ever been on the receiving end of a breakup, it's really beneficial to see the other side of things. i've always thought that my exes had no problem just cutting things off, moving on and forgetting i exist - but maybe there's more human-ness behind it
So beautiful to see you thriving and having fun with friends and finding happiness! It's all a journey, and it is wonderful to be able to share these moments and keep living. Hope you are doing well!
I was sobbing watching this, and there's so many people out there who needed to hear this. Thank you Jade for helping out so many of us. You content holds so much power and great energy and you know exactly what to do with it. I have watched your account grow from 80K and you've come such a long way. Sending a ton of love and well wishes your way.
Would you be open to doing a video on your spiritual journey? I’d love to get into tarot card but don’t know where to start. Also the meta meditation sounds really interesting and would love to hear more from you! Proud of you and love your videos xxx
girl, my god. thank you so much for sharing your journey and modelling such gentleness and willingness for growth. with you remotely every step of the way
Ugh Jade you’re so lovely. I wish I lived in the UK, you’d be a friend I’d love to have. Thank you for all of these beautiful sentiments in this video, many reminders I needed for myself ❤
This meant a lot to me - I'm still friends with my ex, mostly because we couldn't find a way not to be (we go to school together and have the same friends). Watching her be in a relationship with someone else is painful, but I trust that it will be okay one day.
Oh Jade, you have no idea how much I needed to hear your words. You're speaking about your breakup journey but I can relate so much to your words going through a burnout. I've had "the artists way" on a shelf for months now and you just gave me the motivation and strength to finally start it. Thank you, you have no idea how much you've done for a stranger ♥
Dear Jade, I really resonate with your growth and the lessons you’ve learned during that time. You‘ve also outdone yourself with this video, the story-telling and editing!! Love from Germany🤗
I am so proud of you for how far you've come! Watching your videos is like having an older sister by your side. Like, whatever might happen you've shown an exaample of how to live your best life and I can get through everything and always be unapologetically myself!❤
i needed this so, so much, i'm currently going through a best friend breakup and it's the worst (if any friends in the comment section has any advice lmk hahah), but this helps so much. thank you for your vulnerability and advice! that's so bad about your apartment though, i really hope that you can find a new one soon in London and you can still stay really close with mary jo. sending lots of love and light ✨💓
Jade I so relate to all of your feelings in this video. Despite going through the opposite of a breakup (I just got married) I've been going through a lot of similar things. In the past year and a bit, I have had a similar queer/ bisexual awakening and so has my wife who realized she is a trans woman in January and has been going through the process of transitioning. Within this year I have also finally finished my schooling, planned and had a wedding, and tragically lost a parent who I had a very complicated relationship with. Now I'm in this place of growth and figuring out who I am and what my life and relationships look like going forward. I feel super lucky to be growing with my wife instead of having to grow away from her but it has still involved huge reflections on what we both need and how to be with each other as our new selves. I also used to love tarot and all things witchy spirituality and have been feeling called back towards it lately, do you have any tarot resources you would recommend?
you forever inspire me to create and feel and try. in moments of doubt i always think of you. i feel so deeply and to find a like minded person who shares the love of deep thoughts is so refreshing and personal to me. you are teaching so many to be in touch with themselves and i truly believe your videos speak volumes on how beautiful life could be if we just appreciated.
I feel compelled to dump my thoughts whilst im really struggling at the moment. October marks a year since he broke up with me, he was already seeing someone behind my back so he’s been in a happy relationship with her since the day he left and I’ve spent the last year going to therapy, moving out alone to a different part of my city I’d never been to before, stating a new job, starting my masters degree and saying yes to things I’d never normally say yes to and going on some amazing adventures. I’ve really pushed myself into healing but as my contract with work comes to an end and I move back to my parents house for the first time in 3 years, I can’t help but feel like im back to square one and im bitter and jealous of everyone around me who are happily in love and thriving in their lives. Of course I’ve dated too this past year but the dating climate right now feels impossible to navigate and get anywhere with. If anyone can shed some glimmer of hope and light, please do as I’m feeling so beaten down. I’m so happy you’ve found peace Jade ❤ if your ex is meant to be then you will find your way back to each other. But for now, you are doing so well and you should never settle for anything less than you deserve.
Thank you. Thank you for your honesty, for spreading kindness and love and happiness while still being vulnerable and allowing to feel the uncomfortable feelings. Thank you for wearing your heart on your sleeve. And most importantly, thank you for sharing your journey with all of us strangers. Sending so much love
I cried. I believe things happen at a moment for a reason, and even if you uploaded this video three days ago, I'm only seeing it now, and I know the impact would not have been the same if I had watched it a few days ago. I'm entering in a big new chapter of my life where everything is going to change. I've always shown excitement and joy to this change but deep down, I realize now, that I'm feeling unstable and scared. This video was hug, the most comforting hug I needed right now, so thank you Jade ❤🩹
I've never experienced a break up but this video still spoke to me in a way nothing else really has recently. thank you for being a beacon of humanity and goodness in your own life and in ours ❤ took notes haha
I was with my husband for 14 and a half years. I was lost,alone and unhappy for so long. It was verbally and mentally abusive for 9 of those years. We broke up in march 2024. I was supported well by my best friend,and found something in a special place. I met her baby brother ,and we fell in love. We celebrate 6 months since we met this wednesday,and on October 1st,it is 6 months since we got together. I met the man who was perfect for me. Hold Ur head up jade.u got this
i WISH i could've seen this when i was going through my breakup 2 years ago. this so accurately sums up everything you feel and tells you what you need to hear. its not easy, but you'll always come out the other end stronger. i hope anyone who reads this is healing and becoming a better version of themselves. i promise you'll be okay, even if it doesn't feel like it x
This is such a wonderful video. Such a transformation that you have been through and such amazingly beautiful gifts that have come into your life. You keep being you! You are amazing and beautiful and free. Embrace it!! ❤❤❤ love from Australia
as someone who also broke up with their ex of 3 and a half years, six months ago. omg. i was so afraid of leaving my abusive relationship because i was scared of hurting him even though he'd spent so long hurting me. i'm so much more content now but it's taken so long; i've done very similar things you've done in this video and am moving away from the place i've spent my entire life to a completely new town in less than 2 weeks. slowly but surely completing my rebirth journey. so much love jade, and anyone else who's been in a similar situation
Currently reading The Untethered Soul and it’s so interesting and challenging! I’m so happy you made such a beautiful new friend thanks to this book and your courage to step out of your comfort zone ❤
Thank you,mm my breakup was in April and I totally agree with your point on not doing, I am consciously making the time to just sit, walk around the park and just ponder and wonder without distractions, and I find so much peace in that
My ex-partner (2 years) and I broke up 2 weeks ago and it has genuinely been the hardest 2 weeks of my life. I decided last night to make a 6 month game plan for how to reclaim agency of my life, making a month-to-month checklist. This morning, your video popped up on my for you page... The universe listens and gives you things only when you are ready to receive them. Jade, thank you for making this video, I am certain it is speaking to a lot of lonely souls and helping them feel much needed compassion. Big love to all that need it today x
Jade, since your last year’s video about meditation retreat you’ve become a true inspiration to me. Since that time I’ve started looking up to you. Thank you for sharing all your struggles and your journey of overcoming it. That really inspires me to look at myself.
Wow jade, I always love your video's, but this one resonated so much with me. After my breakup (I broke up with him a year ago now) I totally overworked myself, not knowing I should have done less and be more :). With lots of burn out symptoms I started to talk to a coach, I changed how I filled in my time, and just as you described I started to feel little sparks of my new self (or in fact my old self which I lost in my relationship/overworking). I now I feel the rebirth in ways I could never have imagined.
Love the friendship you made with the spiritual elderly lady that’s so cool and also love how u didn’t beat yourself up for checking your ex’s ig, and honoured that u felt the normal pangs of jealousy but also reminded yourself that he wasn’t right for u. So mature so awesome to see your growth
I feel like i need to break up with myself. Ur so inspirational ever since highschool. I remember learning essay writing tips from a vid and studying tips was refreshing and helped me feel less alone. Thanks so much
This made me cry so much because it highly resonates with what I’m going through right now (so thank you so mucho for sharing and for making others like me feel not so alone). I just hope I am truly able to embrace uncertainty and to continue to grow 🐛🦋💕
There is something in this video that really heals me (I am at the beginning of a kind of similar process). I am happy to hear that you are better now. Thank you for put your heart and soul in there💜
How poetic that today, on the eve of my first date after breaking up with my ex of 4 years in November, this touching video finished with 'Oh Hannah', the song that began my last relationship. I'm with you about listening to the universe. Wish me luck today!
As always, thank you for holding my tender heart with such love!! I've absolutely loved experimenting with more poetic videos to reflect on my life. 🥹 Nothing inspires me more than seeing people on the internet unapologetically showing their humanness, in all our wonderful messiness and growth. I really hope this video helps at least one of you feel seen. If you’re going through a breakup, I’m sending you the biggest hug. I promise it gets better. Keep focusing on yourself. Lean into the cocoon. And one day you’ll just look up and kinda realise you made it through. ❤🩹
Sending you so much love dear❤
You are a huge inspiration for us!! ❤
Thank you so much for your braveness and vulnerability, it helps a lot. Sending love and courage❤
Thank you so much for this video Jade, I'm not going to a romantic breakup but I am healing and this video really felt like the hug I needed.
Through one video, you have literally changed the lives of thousands of people. It takes so much bravery to share such deep feelings. But when you do you change the world, and with love and deep admiration, the world will give back. Thank you Jade 🦋
It's videos like these which remind me why I subscribed to you in the first place: You're not afraid to be honest and be yourself and I love that about you. Just remember that you'll always have this little corner of the internet with your community of 936,000 people and no one can take that away from you. We're always here for you and we love you Jade. 💜
honestly, I will always stand by the fact that breakups are the beginning of your higher self. Im an so incredibly grateful for my breakup now, and at the time it was the worst ive ever felt in my life. This is so raw and authentic. Love you, Jade!!! 💌
It definitely was for me when I was in my mid 20s!😊
Relationship issues are truly some of the hardest to deal with, accept and face. I like to think of myself as a fairly level-headed and self-aware person, but when it comes to relationships, all that sense of rationality goes out the window as emotions take over. This was a beautifully raw but inspiring video, thank you!
this editing is insane. the artfulness is exquisite. thank you Jade
I bursted into tears when seeing the Marie Jo part. It happened again when hearing the Girl in Red song at the end, which Ive heard live before in Amsterdam. You’re a very pure person and I resonate with a lot of the things you’re saying and sharing. And for what it’s worth, this message comes from a man! Sending you all the love and compassion I am able to in this way. ❤ from NL
oh jade this was so beautiful, so moving, so emotional. i really, really needed this. you have no idea how much this will help people for so many years to come. here's to healing, here's to growth.
I also left a 3 year relationship and it was one of the darkest, scariest moments of my life. 1 year later, I'm still a bit scared and lost but also incredibly proud of how much more connected I am to myself, my desires, and my worth. And I know everything will be ok as long as I keep that connection. To anyone struggling, I just wanted to say that you're not alone and that there is hope. Great things are awaiting you, the universe is just preparing you for it! (and yeah it's hard and painful, but it will be worth it). Thank you Jade for sharing this with us, you cannot imagine how much it helps
Same here. It’s like on the one hand it hurts soooo much and was and still is so incredibly difficult. But then, you’ve never known yourself as well as you do now and have been able to fully discover and be yourself
Much love
I realized I’m just going through a breakup right now, but different. A breakup with my parents, an unhealthy relationship. So I’m about to start my cocoon phase and I’m glad for this amazing video of yours!
Thank you! And I hope you can come to Brazil one day 🇧🇷 I must confess you’re my crush 🙈
big hugs for you, i am experiencing something very similar and it is so scary and lonely but it shall pass one day
I see you! It’s so difficult when it comes to unhealthy relationships with your parents…
@@wangxiao2019 it is scary and lonely but you are NEVER alone in dealing with these things
I broke up with my ex a year ago. And it's hard, this last summer, facing all the places I went with him, alone. But it does get better. Thank you for talking about this❤
Thank you for this comment🤍 I beat myself up for still missing my ex a year after we broke up
Same, it’s been a year and it still hurts sometimes. But that’s okay, because it’s meant a lot and.
Despite being in my bedroom while I watched this, a ladybird landed on my iPad as I watched. If that doesn’t perfectly reflect the energy of this video then I don’t know what does. Thank you for this beautiful piece of work
Wow 🥺🥺🥺
OMG " make peace with the waiting" made me cry. I needed that centance
damn. I'm pretty sure this comment will be lost among all others, but just in case you see it, thank you for making these kinds of videos. I'm not even living through a breakup but life has been pretty hectic lately, there are a lot of changes around me, and you can't understand how soothed I felt after watching this. Thank you for showing good but also bad moments of your life, and I send you ALL a lot of positivity and strength
your videos make me feel so seen and less alone, i think its so freaking cool you're so open about how messy 20s are. we're the same age and i feel so lucky your videos exist and that i get to watch them. thank you
I also want to say I'm so jealous of you being in this stage of your life, I went through it when I was your age too, I became a mild hippy after a break up and it felt like I was discovering the world anew ❤ I'm 29 now, studied physics and medicine since then and my view on life has changed but I look fondly at that time of so much opportunity
currently going through a serious friendship breakup that I initiated and i really hear you when you say that you DID make the right choice and that your intuition and your gut knows when people should no longer be in your life. thank you for such honest, beautiful, and kind content jade
Never comment but thank you for being so unapologetically raw in your videos, Jade. It is so rare to find that kind of honesty on the internet (sometimes in real life too). Watching you turn into a butterfly has been beautiful and inspiring and we are all so proud!
I don’t know what it is Jade, but there’s something about your storytelling that motivates me to try. I have been watching your content since I was in high school, and whenever I felt a sense of hopelessness, your videos have been an insta-fix for me. Thank you for bringing the much needed positivity to the digital world.
tearing up watching this! proud of you and grateful for the inspiration and reminder to go deeper and sit with the moment again and again and again.
This video reminds me why I love your channel and it is because of YOU, the way you show your humanity, acceptance and your healing process. Every time i watch your videos i feel comforted and makes me think that friends that have you around are so lucky to know a soul like yours.
Not going through a breakup just a general blip now I’m 23 and deep in the capitalistic grind of 9-5, desperately trying to move in with my boyfriend and not fall apart from my friends who live all over the place now -- this video resonates and I feel like I needed to stumble across it despite not really watching you since I graduated 😅❤
Your message is so comforting. I am 25 and feel completely lost. Thank you for being you and inspiring us to be more of ourselves and be at peace with that.
This is such a brave video to make. I think the part where it got me me was the story of Mary Jo. It was sooo touching, almost mystical. Really love the way you created the chapters in this story too and how Tarot cards played a role in this whole story was fascinating. To rebirth! This was so wholesome to watch the progress of your breakup 🫂
not going through a breakup but stumbled on this video and can see the growth in a human, these "negative" things that happen to us that put us through a fire for long periods of time where we just want them to end and feel better are actually given to us to transform, like a caterpillar to a butterfly.
it can be hard but it all makes sense later as long as we go with the flow of the waves, reminding myself of this today!
Jade I'm so happy for your rebirth, for this new chapter. Hope you find a new home where you can continue growing
the editing of this video is so beautiful, tender and just so fitting for the whole situation. wow!
Never comment at all but, it feels like a blessing we went through a breakup at the same time! It was so lovely healing (and continuing to heal) with you!! ❤🎉😊
So proud of you, Jade. Much love! 💛
I literally cried of joy while watching you going through this rebirth... It felt like you were right next to me telling these messages to my soul. I recently experienced a breakup too, and you showed me how much there is to discover about - just - us❤
Girllllll the myth of change explanation was so healing for me to hear, I started crying🥹 ty for sharing Jade! Here’s to us queer girlies needing some important cocoon time to grow🌱🦋
Jade im sobbing at this ive been a silent viewer since GCSE days but i just wanted to say your growth is beautiful and inspiring
I'm glad you pressed post. This was so beautiful. I've never even been in love but I cried because LIFE and it somehow resonates. Wish you happiness and fulfillment in your days to come❤.
You are a ray of light for so many of us Jade, and I'm here to just tell you that we love you for what you are and what you've become or for what's waiting for you
Dear Jade,
I'd really like to express my gratitude to you because your videos seem to find me at the perfect and most vulnerable times. A little over a month ago, I was feeling stuck. Like the future was being slammed into me and I had nowhere to run and nothing to protect myself with. Then, my childhood best friend reached out and asked if I wanted to spend a couple weeks at her house. That day, you uploaded a video of you traveling to Germany. In that video, you reminded me of the opportunities and the perspectives that can be gained from travel and leaving the well-knitted comfort zone, and you also explained a little about tarot cards. I'm not yet in my spiritual era, but that day I didn't feel like I could rely on my own emotions because I was overwhelmed and stuck in rumination. So, I went online and found a tarot reader website. It said that whatever opportunity is given to me will allow me to break free of the obstacle that lies ahead of me. I went to see my childhood best friend. And it was such an eye-opening two weeks. It was slow-paced - most of the days were spent reading, admiring the countryside, and appreciating the stars I couldn't see in the city, but for the first time in a long time, I felt happy. I'd gained wisdom on how others lived, I'd found a relationship that put the one I was mourning over into comparison, and I felt free and unafraid to take leaps and go further than I'd ever gone before. I'm in high school and I've felt for quite a while that my school isn't the best fit for me - due to reasons that I won't go into detail about - and just yesterday, I had the confidence to decide to go halfway across the world with my sister to attend a high school. This chapter of my life will be the most terrifying one yet, and I know it will be very strenuous, but I thank you for helping me find the confidence to take this chance and I trust that it'll be okay.
Hello Jade, I read your little message in the video description. As someone who has been struggling with the decision to action a breakup since January, reading it felt comforting and reassuring to me. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and growth with us through this video. I've been listening to All We Do by Oh Wonder the whole day trying to process everything. It was a delight to hear this song in your video. Thank you for your courage, I know that it took a lot of courage to post this video. Now, it's my turn to be brave too..
Good luck!!
This was such a beautiful video I genuinely cried - the way you script and edit your videos, your story-telling style is so beautiful! I'm sure there is a message in this video for everyone whether it's about a break-up or listening to intuition and other topics like just being ones-true unapologetic self❤🌻🌻🌻
dear jade, i love how you are just unapologetically yourself! i strive to do the same. thank you for sharing your experiences. xx
you put a smile on my face like no other. thank you for being the light that u are in this often daunting world. lots of love ❤
Jade, I love your journaling routine and that you show it! I've been journaling since I'm a little girl and I am convinced of its positive and healing effect on me -- you too, obviously. I believe that the world would be a better place if more people journaled... So thank you for sharing this habit and inspiring others with it! And also, I am deeply impressed by your self reflection and how you grow (plus, that you share so much of it with the public). That's truely amazing! I wish you all the best. Please continue to light up the internet and the people around you with your positivity and kindness! ❤ PS: I just realized how professional your videos have become. I mean, this film has a whole dramaturgy, especially with the music, wow!
one of the most beautiful videos on this platform 🧚🏼♀️
Thank you for sharing the good and the bad, it's genuinely so helpful!! ❤️❤️ take care 🫶
While I'm still watching, there's a few things I'd like to say. I've been watching you since my early highschool career, desperatly looking for the best study tips, and look 8 years later here I am watching your healing journey post breakup as I am going through my healing journey of my FIRST love. How funny, it was 6 months ago too. Tarot cards have been my rock even though my peers don't understand it like I do. In some odd way it's always been accurate and helped me heal in ways unimaginable. Thank you for making this video. ❤
I've also just been through a breakup about 6 months ago😢! But it's so true that though it hurts immensely in the beginning, one day you just realise that you can feel joy again and living life is fun again :)!
This video, wowwww - I also went through a break up this year, after being together 5+ yrs, thru uni, everything. And also in the dullness and loneliness of ✨London✨ it was so so so hard but as you say; you know what’s supposed to happen for you and I knew that it was the right thing to happen- despite it being the most terrifying upheaval of my life in my adulthood to date. But, I grew and evolved and reconnected with so many other parts of my personality and friends and my life that never would’ve happened otherwise. I’ve been watching your videos for ages and seeing you go through this at the same time has been healing… just another path of life for us to explore :) x
This video felt like a warm drink in cold weather ❤
Hey Jade, thanks for sharing your tender poetry with us. It feels really cringey to say, but thanks for growing out your armpit hail. It’s an act of self-ownership I increasingly want to hold in to as it feels so taboo and I don’t want to force myself to change, alter myself no matter in how small or insignificant a way. So thanks for being one example I can find
I moved to London after an 8 year long relationship ended. I was so lonely. But funnily enough the harshness of the city and fact that friendships are something you have to actively forge pushed me to go out and meet people. I joined a philosophy group on meet up, attended spoken word events and little by little, these beautiful friendships came into my life. Three years later I wouldn’t take back any of that time, because it lead me to new interests, people and experiences. If you’re in a breakup, give yourself the grace of a future you looking back and thinking, you’re doing so well. Breath, get fresh air, and lean on your close friendships even if it is over the phone. New, beautiful things will be coming your way.
Went through a breakup recently and your video came at exactly the right moment ❤️ Thank you for being so real, this is relatable and soothing at the same time... sending you big hugs and hope things will improve more and more for you 🫶🏼
Jade, this is a masterpiece. YOU are a masterpiece. Thank you for being such a radiant and wonderful soul 🫶🏻
I truly believe the universe sent me your channel a year ago because it knew how much healing and support your words would give me in difficult times. Jade, I can’t thank you enough for sharing all of this. just know you are seen and loved and you are also making people feel that way. sending love and compassion from brasil 💖
as somebody who has only ever been on the receiving end of a breakup, it's really beneficial to see the other side of things. i've always thought that my exes had no problem just cutting things off, moving on and forgetting i exist - but maybe there's more human-ness behind it
Love this, Jade!!! I feel like you've created a new book, "How to Heal from a Breakup! " !!! All the best, Jade - you are very blessed ❤
So beautiful to see you thriving and having fun with friends and finding happiness! It's all a journey, and it is wonderful to be able to share these moments and keep living. Hope you are doing well!
I was sobbing watching this, and there's so many people out there who needed to hear this. Thank you Jade for helping out so many of us. You content holds so much power and great energy and you know exactly what to do with it. I have watched your account grow from 80K and you've come such a long way. Sending a ton of love and well wishes your way.
You might not see this. But I feel validated and accepted that tarot provided some form of healing. I resonated with this so much. God bless you Jade!
Crying. This is so beautiful 🥺🥺
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 this means the world, I admire u dearly friend
Would you be open to doing a video on your spiritual journey? I’d love to get into tarot card but don’t know where to start. Also the meta meditation sounds really interesting and would love to hear more from you! Proud of you and love your videos xxx
girl, my god. thank you so much for sharing your journey and modelling such gentleness and willingness for growth. with you remotely every step of the way
the timing of this is insane you don’t understand how much i needed to hear this thank u
I have always thought of myself as a butterfly so I'm glad the butterfly metaphor resonated with you too!
Ugh Jade you’re so lovely. I wish I lived in the UK, you’d be a friend I’d love to have. Thank you for all of these beautiful sentiments in this video, many reminders I needed for myself ❤
This meant a lot to me - I'm still friends with my ex, mostly because we couldn't find a way not to be (we go to school together and have the same friends). Watching her be in a relationship with someone else is painful, but I trust that it will be okay one day.
Omg !! I came to work and my coworker just gifted me this book today ! Now I know is meant to be ❤❤❤
Oh Jade, you have no idea how much I needed to hear your words. You're speaking about your breakup journey but I can relate so much to your words going through a burnout. I've had "the artists way" on a shelf for months now and you just gave me the motivation and strength to finally start it.
Thank you, you have no idea how much you've done for a stranger ♥
Dear Jade,
I really resonate with your growth and the lessons you’ve learned during that time. You‘ve also outdone yourself with this video, the story-telling and editing!!
Love from Germany🤗
I am so proud of you for how far you've come! Watching your videos is like having an older sister by your side. Like, whatever might happen you've shown an exaample of how to live your best life and I can get through everything and always be unapologetically myself!❤
i needed this so, so much, i'm currently going through a best friend breakup and it's the worst (if any friends in the comment section has any advice lmk hahah), but this helps so much. thank you for your vulnerability and advice! that's so bad about your apartment though, i really hope that you can find a new one soon in London and you can still stay really close with mary jo. sending lots of love and light ✨💓
Jade I so relate to all of your feelings in this video. Despite going through the opposite of a breakup (I just got married) I've been going through a lot of similar things. In the past year and a bit, I have had a similar queer/ bisexual awakening and so has my wife who realized she is a trans woman in January and has been going through the process of transitioning. Within this year I have also finally finished my schooling, planned and had a wedding, and tragically lost a parent who I had a very complicated relationship with.
Now I'm in this place of growth and figuring out who I am and what my life and relationships look like going forward. I feel super lucky to be growing with my wife instead of having to grow away from her but it has still involved huge reflections on what we both need and how to be with each other as our new selves.
I also used to love tarot and all things witchy spirituality and have been feeling called back towards it lately, do you have any tarot resources you would recommend?
you forever inspire me to create and feel and try. in moments of doubt i always think of you. i feel so deeply and to find a like minded person who shares the love of deep thoughts is so refreshing and personal to me. you are teaching so many to be in touch with themselves and i truly believe your videos speak volumes on how beautiful life could be if we just appreciated.
I feel compelled to dump my thoughts whilst im really struggling at the moment. October marks a year since he broke up with me, he was already seeing someone behind my back so he’s been in a happy relationship with her since the day he left and I’ve spent the last year going to therapy, moving out alone to a different part of my city I’d never been to before, stating a new job, starting my masters degree and saying yes to things I’d never normally say yes to and going on some amazing adventures. I’ve really pushed myself into healing but as my contract with work comes to an end and I move back to my parents house for the first time in 3 years, I can’t help but feel like im back to square one and im bitter and jealous of everyone around me who are happily in love and thriving in their lives. Of course I’ve dated too this past year but the dating climate right now feels impossible to navigate and get anywhere with. If anyone can shed some glimmer of hope and light, please do as I’m feeling so beaten down.
I’m so happy you’ve found peace Jade ❤ if your ex is meant to be then you will find your way back to each other. But for now, you are doing so well and you should never settle for anything less than you deserve.
It’s been too long since I watched a video from this channel. I’m so glad to have had this video pop up on my feed
Thank you. Thank you for your honesty, for spreading kindness and love and happiness while still being vulnerable and allowing to feel the uncomfortable feelings. Thank you for wearing your heart on your sleeve. And most importantly, thank you for sharing your journey with all of us strangers. Sending so much love
This video was so 🥺. It was beautifully written and filmed and wow it was so poetic. Loved it Jade.
Thank you for making this video. The caterpillar metaphor brought me tears.
I cried. I believe things happen at a moment for a reason, and even if you uploaded this video three days ago, I'm only seeing it now, and I know the impact would not have been the same if I had watched it a few days ago.
I'm entering in a big new chapter of my life where everything is going to change. I've always shown excitement and joy to this change but deep down, I realize now, that I'm feeling unstable and scared. This video was hug, the most comforting hug I needed right now, so thank you Jade ❤🩹
So lovely to hear about your encounter with Mary Jo! The Untethered Soul is a wonderful book.
I've never experienced a break up but this video still spoke to me in a way nothing else really has recently. thank you for being a beacon of humanity and goodness in your own life and in ours ❤ took notes haha
Such a beautiful video!! The part with the older woman ahhhh thats so so cute and warms my heart
omg this video is just amazing. i’m in absolute awe, cried 3 times😭❤️
I was with my husband for 14 and a half years. I was lost,alone and unhappy for so long. It was verbally and mentally abusive for 9 of those years. We broke up in march 2024. I was supported well by my best friend,and found something in a special place. I met her baby brother ,and we fell in love. We celebrate 6 months since we met this wednesday,and on October 1st,it is 6 months since we got together. I met the man who was perfect for me. Hold Ur head up jade.u got this
i WISH i could've seen this when i was going through my breakup 2 years ago. this so accurately sums up everything you feel and tells you what you need to hear. its not easy, but you'll always come out the other end stronger. i hope anyone who reads this is healing and becoming a better version of themselves. i promise you'll be okay, even if it doesn't feel like it x
This is such a wonderful video. Such a transformation that you have been through and such amazingly beautiful gifts that have come into your life. You keep being you! You are amazing and beautiful and free. Embrace it!! ❤❤❤ love from Australia
Seeing you happy again brings me so much joy I swear🥺
as someone who also broke up with their ex of 3 and a half years, six months ago. omg. i was so afraid of leaving my abusive relationship because i was scared of hurting him even though he'd spent so long hurting me. i'm so much more content now but it's taken so long; i've done very similar things you've done in this video and am moving away from the place i've spent my entire life to a completely new town in less than 2 weeks. slowly but surely completing my rebirth journey. so much love jade, and anyone else who's been in a similar situation
Currently reading The Untethered Soul and it’s so interesting and challenging! I’m so happy you made such a beautiful new friend thanks to this book and your courage to step out of your comfort zone ❤
such a beautiful video, jade. going through a breakup right now too. it's been 4 months and it's been so hard but i also learned so much about myself.
this was so lovely. feeling hopeful
Thank you,mm my breakup was in April and I totally agree with your point on not doing, I am consciously making the time to just sit, walk around the park and just ponder and wonder without distractions, and I find so much peace in that
My ex-partner (2 years) and I broke up 2 weeks ago and it has genuinely been the hardest 2 weeks of my life. I decided last night to make a 6 month game plan for how to reclaim agency of my life, making a month-to-month checklist. This morning, your video popped up on my for you page...
The universe listens and gives you things only when you are ready to receive them. Jade, thank you for making this video, I am certain it is speaking to a lot of lonely souls and helping them feel much needed compassion. Big love to all that need it today x
Thank you for your vulnerability! I am two weeks post breakup and I am starting to see the little signs that this is what I was meant to do.
Jade, since your last year’s video about meditation retreat you’ve become a true inspiration to me. Since that time I’ve started looking up to you. Thank you for sharing all your struggles and your journey of overcoming it. That really inspires me to look at myself.
Wow jade, I always love your video's, but this one resonated so much with me. After my breakup (I broke up with him a year ago now) I totally overworked myself, not knowing I should have done less and be more :). With lots of burn out symptoms I started to talk to a coach, I changed how I filled in my time, and just as you described I started to feel little sparks of my new self (or in fact my old self which I lost in my relationship/overworking). I now I feel the rebirth in ways I could never have imagined.
Love the friendship you made with the spiritual elderly lady that’s so cool and also love how u didn’t beat yourself up for checking your ex’s ig, and honoured that u felt the normal pangs of jealousy but also reminded yourself that he wasn’t right for u. So mature so awesome to see your growth
I feel like i need to break up with myself. Ur so inspirational ever since highschool. I remember learning essay writing tips from a vid and studying tips was refreshing and helped me feel less alone. Thanks so much
Jade, I love you so much, You changed my whole life from rock to a brand new rising and flying bird. Thank you so much.
omg your videos never stop getting sweeter. i love it so much
This made me cry so much because it highly resonates with what I’m going through right now (so thank you so mucho for sharing and for making others like me feel not so alone). I just hope I am truly able to embrace uncertainty and to continue to grow 🐛🦋💕
It brought tears in my eyes when you told about that lady reading to you. I can feel how much that meant ❤
i burst into tears at the end of the video. ly sm thankss❤
There is something in this video that really heals me (I am at the beginning of a kind of similar process). I am happy to hear that you are better now. Thank you for put your heart and soul in there💜
How poetic that today, on the eve of my first date after breaking up with my ex of 4 years in November, this touching video finished with 'Oh Hannah', the song that began my last relationship. I'm with you about listening to the universe. Wish me luck today!