No matter how good you treat a woman If you not a man she has feelings for, she will never appreciate your efforts, woman are loyal to their feelings they don't care about your sacrifice.
@@sibongisenikhumalo8198 Exactly! We all have some level of self-interest, and that's okay. It's important to recognize and balance our own needs with the needs of others. When we can find ways to make others happy while also feeling good about ourselves, that's a win-win!
@@GHOSTFX_TRADING it's a win win but in a long run the receiving party becomes prisoner to the giver and when the prisoner breaks free the giver hates the feeling of losing control hence the sex tape for posted. "Use me but don't abuse me" Erykah Badu said that.
Lady's don't fucken appreciate homies, the more attention you give her the more she take advantage to you, never give a shit about lady, just learn to fuck then and let them move on
In life we must pursue meaning not pleasure Jordan Peterson. Everyone else is self centered in some ways, you have to make a conscious decision. But you have to stop with the blame game. Everything that happens in our lives we allowed it, so we need to look at ourselves in the mirror
😂😂Yerr when you said the criminals are weak because they wait for you to go to sleep then come in it reminded me of this other mkhulu who used to be in the mk he said most of the criminals nowadays if you take their guns out of their hands they reveal what they truly are scared little boys we see them revealing themselves during mob justice
Yho! We need to start developing the younger generation to stop making these kinds of mistakes, but firstly we need to develop ourselves and fix our wrongs. yha! it hit home bro!
My thoughts too, it's easier to groom a child than to teach and old man how to live. We need to do better in this generation as we have identified many of the issues.
@@fifs4sa True but also gents encourage fathers not to abdicate their responsibilities fathers are abandoning their children at an alarming rate here in Mzansi😢
You hit the nail on the coffin🎯. We are easily manipulated, we fall for BS and we definitely put women on a pedestal. One thing I've learnt in my previous relationships is to never put a woman on a pedestal. I've been standing on this decision.
When i looked at the title of the video...i thought was going to disagree but watching the video...I totally agree with with most things you said ....Most men are weak when they are in front of a Woman ...especially if she's beautiful..i once intervene on a woman who was GBV ing or assaulting a older man on a taxi but most people on the taxi were on the women's side eventhou she was slapping the man 😮...that took me back , i was surprised by everyone's reaction...i was the only one who told the women she was wrong for slapping the old man . That situation showed me thr the level of simping in the country.
Are you assuming that Gcinile was a ‘weekend special’ to Grootman? The thing with men is that as soon as a women wears expensive things she’s a ‘bitch, slay queen…’ don’t forget that the same Gcinile has been with Groot for years and the guy kept cheating on Gcinile until she decided to move on, also they have a child so you can’t call that a weekend special. Refrain from calling people derogatory names simply bcoz they wear and go to places that a deemed expensive
Non sequitur fallacy. I wonder why you are getting likes defending degeneracy. No woman who values and respects her body, would allow a man to humiliate her like that. first of all, people take pictures to create memories. But having a sextape just reveals your nefarius personality. The title seems to suit her, as Grootman had to go to an extent of scamming other people to maintain her fancy life.
The fact that 'they' keep pushing the narrative that men r visual beings that means men r shallow and if that doesn't say weak idk what does. The very same narrative also pushes women to be shallow cos now we competing to look attractive for men.
Gents are not broken Broer, problem is the ideologies most gents possess and lack of real mentors broer. Tv got these gents in their feels and thinking gratification is purpose.
Real women are there. Sadly, they are a handful. This is why it's not easy locating them. The rest are garbage. All they care about is instant gratification. Who provides that? These simps with no morals. The quality of good women is at its lowest.
@@FictionHubZA They aren't in huge numbers. She could be at your workplace, gym, grocery store, malls etc. These women are grounded, desires a family of her own, dresses appropriately, submissive, cultured and in most cases are godly individuals.
Mfethu, most guys are grown by single mothers. If not, they're grown by fathers who were grown by single mothers. That's why masculinity is declining. Chain yabo baba is missing. Bring our fathers back! Nginiqcele bafana ba Mlotshwa
Big question who's gonna build those kids , if the head of the family is weak , and mostly kids raised by women or single parents .. They act on emotions mostly and do things based on how they feel ... But it's not women fault ...it's a system... I can go deeper....
@@gabela112 100%... You and i start and we hold those around us, our brothers and friends accountable.. We start and hope it ripples into something bigger... No one taught us about money, responsibility, action, intention and building. These are all fundamentals of what it means to be a Man but no-one knows what it is to be a man anymore so we start teaching, start a podcast, coach a soccer team... My solution doesn't solve 90% of households but 1% is enough for an impact.
@@gabela112 you are spot on....the so called "weak men", were raised by single mothers, outside of marriage...Fathers are a source of identity,...identity is a source of validation, ...fatherless boys become weak men at a later stage....
Be careful not to be called or labelled misogynistic,as this is what the world has become. We have become afraid to speak out as men and do what is morally right as our ancestors did. Thank you for such powerful message.
I think we as man forget that woman are humans especially in the dating scene....they also have crushes so as a man you don't have to do too much for the right woman that's into you which i have to say they are rare.
I wish we could send this to our schools man, so much knowledge in just 14 minutes. It feels illegal to be exposed to such crucial information at such a young age.
The point flew right over your head...Frank was forced to wear the fur coat by the wife as she bought it to surprise him and deep down he knew it would draw attention but he did wear it anyways. So he got caught because he wanted to please the lady.
@@Moola93he got caught because the detective was there looking for criminals. If it wasn't the fur coat it was going to be the sitting arrangements. Either way he was fucked and that was his wife not just some skizer nje that he just met
"But I never lost no bitches chasing money, how real is that? Only time a woman made a man a millionaire Was when that man was a former billionaire, how trill is that?"- Royce Da 5'9
Yes I'm am woman and I agree with this man.. I'm thankful for my boyfriend because he is a Real man a man of integrity, respect, loyalty and power.. So I feel safe with him. You attract what you are.
I always tell my male friends who chase "Stocko" to always love themselves and make money so that they have the privilege of options of choosing the best women for them. Chasing girls and you're broke or scamming people for those girls will only get them hurt. Gents need to love themselves and work on themselves so they can the difference between Quality and Quantity. I am am not saying Grootman is right here for his threats but if he chose himself first he would be in a different situation. Gents really need to love themselves hey..
I never comment to RUclips posts, but I have to on this one. You just hit the nail on the head, Penson! This is the Gospel truth.... Men must invest in themselves, love themselves above all else! Amen to this!
Very truthful an interesting but unfortunately it won't stop it's been here since the beginning of time a generational curse that Adam past on when he commented the first crime for eve😂
One other thing I've picked up, as men (especially us young dudes in their 20s and 30s) we tend compete among ourselves for the sake of seeking recognition as a dominant male figure over others. It's like competing to be the guy with the most "toys". And by "toys" I mean all these materialistic things (Money, designer clothes, cars etc.) All these things we want to ultimately please women. Now this creates internal and unnecessary pressure. Then we force ourselves to remain strong even though internally we're hurting. It's only 1 out 10 gents who can spot this and when they address it, they're perceived as weaklings, stupid or clown. Currently in my early 20s, here I am constantly thinking if whether or not I'm spending my youthful days right all because my peers seem to be having more fun than I do. One would think I have a mindset of a 40 something year-old man whenever I approach certain situations based on my personal principles and discipline. Watching this made me realize how proud I should of my personal conduct. For instance, I'm currently renovating my parents' house bit by bit here and there. I'm temporarily keeping my heart and wallet locked from all ladies. Otherwise I'll die of unwanted stress of trying to fit in and please them. Thank you! 💙💙💙
Good ! Tell your fellow women to stop having unrealistic expectations if not demands from men. We are not ATMs nor were we born in banks for heaven's sake !! This generation of women is sickening. No wonder they are promiscuous and pride themselves in such godless behavior as they are " securing the bag ".
If you don't take accountability and blame external circumstances you lose your power. When you say it's all on me, then you take the power back because now you can do something about it
It's about time some guy stand up and say it!!! I hope people's sons are listening cause when we sisters speak about it they say we are snobbish,rude and haters. A very sad nation indeed.
"None entities" "nonsensical women"... the real talk... and I like how you have made a distinction for the ladies in our lives who actually do matter...
Brother, i have been thinking and in utter pain of how as brothers we give into our lust and pleasures truly. It’s heart wrenching, all this we truly lose our values and ye man. We appreciate you
So true bro, I was having a discussion with a friend the other time, and I was saying if we can expand the economy and create enough employment opportunities we can end the crime. He said, we won't because these criminals don't rob and kill us to buy food, they want the lifestyle, to impress women and have some "status". I had to sit and rethink, there's no correlation between between poverty and crime, case in point are countries poorer than SA in Africa and yet are rated as most peaceful. I had to concede on that argument.
That boy is absolutely embarrassing and needs to be jailed especially for the s*x tape. I feel no remorse for the girl either she knew what kind of guy she is with
''I feel no remorse for the girl either she knew what kind of guy she is with'' So, a sex tape got leaked and a portion of that is her fault? not the fact that he broke her TRUST? not the fact that it is absolutely wrong to AIR AN INTIMATE ACT without the consent of the other party? she was suppose to jump into the future and see what kind man he was? Listen, im all for accountability. but blaming ANY VICTIM for the actions of the PERSON THAT TOOK THEIR OWN AUTOMONY from them, is wrong. Its exactly how white people complain about how black/poc respond to the systemic racism that we still live in. Bruh, im literally still shocked and confused by the complete cognitive dissonance you have to say this '' needs to be jailed especially for the s*x tape. '' and then in the same breath say this: ''I feel no remorse for the girl either she knew what kind of guy she is with'' if your dad hit your mom today, you gonna turnaround and ask your mom, okay but what did you do to provoke him to hit you? you should have known the man you married?
@@zulu9357 call it what you want I don't care, she helped the guy scam people she's as much a criminal as he is. She enjoyed the fruits watered by people's tears caused by her and her ex
@@Jayye.-zc1sl broke her trust? Why trust a scammer who scammed poor people young and old and even after helping him? There's no victim here just a fool and a bigger fool
@TshepoMavimbela so the mathematics is that, the revenge porn that came out of this is nothing but a “consequence” for trusting a scammer? i think you’re talking about the two people and i’m talking about the actions & how much deeper this is than just “trusting a scammer”. so we’re not on the same page. but nonetheless. thanks for the exchange. have a lovely day further.
Wisdom right there, especially when touching that parent who strive and pray and spent each cent , and no appreciation from their son....sad ..i can attest as a parent...its a pain ! God help our boy children 😢😢
Brother I followed you, you will change the world but just take out the F word because the young ones things it's normal to include F word when we speak.
My brother thank you. The things we do for these women. I remember when I started working I used to buy my mom gifts especially on her birthday. The other year I scored a date with a yellow bone but it was on my mom birthday I spent R1000 for patrol and the lunch we had and this girl started flirting with our waiter. She demanded I give him a bigger tip for the amazing service. That was the last time I spoke to that girl
Grootman has always done things to impress girls since I've known of him. I stayed at the same Res as him in 2017 to 2018 and all the while he was scamming he would host parties and invite girls over. I'm not close to him but I feel he's addicted to the attention from women, I could be wrong but he's never been single throughout the time I've seen him and always has some girl whose into the fast money lifestyle.
Yo Penson! 💯 agree with you, what a generation of weak men 😂 you're right in using the word "pandemic". Yes, this phenomenon has always existed but for this generation it has scaled exponentially.
I subscribed vandag , because i genuinely like your approach to life. u are that grootman that always stands for the trutrh....i love the fact that you never mince your words. you are never biased.
The problem is that we've lost our ways.. Its Sad cause majita end up in this trap and not focusing on their Lives..I always tell Gents that IT Girls, Gold Diggers etc. Are only good for show but never invest in one.
@@sibongisenikhumalo8198slay queens and gold diggers are only good for one night stands or just as a snack but never invest your time in getting to know them
I agree with everything you said but you shouldn’t have focused on Gcinile as a “main example”. Grootman publicly cheated and humiliated that lady and she saw her worth and moved on. What did you want her to do?? To bekezela like our moms did. Being cheated on publicly is mad disrespect honestly.
Very true. Its the things we see on social media and tv, bad influence. Im glad we have people like Tate and you who are always looking out for young men and advising us.
Im glad to hear that some men still are still thinking this way...as a man who spend my 30s juggling between women the cost of chasing women I would have build an enterprise...
I've been watching this channel for some time now. Yow I'm havin' a great time with these -+ 10 min clips & I've been lucky to catch em when I wake up at 04Am preparing for work. VERY INFORMATIVE , King!
No matter how good you treat a woman If you not a man she has feelings for, she will never appreciate your efforts, woman are loyal to their feelings they don't care about your sacrifice.
Ain't we all self centred? I mean a man does those things to feel good about himself, going to sleep feeling good that he made a lady happy
@@sibongisenikhumalo8198 Exactly! We all have some level of self-interest, and that's okay. It's important to recognize and balance our own needs with the needs of others. When we can find ways to make others happy while also feeling good about ourselves, that's a win-win!
@@GHOSTFX_TRADING it's a win win but in a long run the receiving party becomes prisoner to the giver and when the prisoner breaks free the giver hates the feeling of losing control hence the sex tape for posted.
"Use me but don't abuse me" Erykah Badu said that.
Lady's don't fucken appreciate homies, the more attention you give her the more she take advantage to you, never give a shit about lady, just learn to fuck then and let them move on
In life we must pursue meaning not pleasure Jordan Peterson. Everyone else is self centered in some ways, you have to make a conscious decision. But you have to stop with the blame game. Everything that happens in our lives we allowed it, so we need to look at ourselves in the mirror
Getting a loan just to fly a girl out is crazy work 😭🙆♂️
Gents do crazy things to impress women!
Asking for money from your mom (who’s struggling) just to buy girls drinks… we do crazy things!
😂😂Yerr when you said the criminals are weak because they wait for you to go to sleep then come in it reminded me of this other mkhulu who used to be in the mk he said most of the criminals nowadays if you take their guns out of their hands they reveal what they truly are scared little boys we see them revealing themselves during mob justice
Yohhh
That’s 100% true!
Mkhulu was spitting facts!
Human 🤷🏽♂️
That's why it is imperative to master stoicism as a man. Modern men want constant pleasure nowadays & it's sad.
You nailed it!
I'm a woman, and I feel content ukwaz ukuth there's still man outchea with common sense...Syabonga ❤.
True, may God bless him .. our dear brother telling the truth
Tsek
@@ronniewiseman7651 kahle s'xhwanguxhwangu
This video is so powerful brother! This message needs to be shared far and wide ,especially for us South African men. This is gold
I'm a young guy in my twenties this makes sense let's prioritize important things gents
Went hard on this one 🤝🏾 Focus on you gents, your value goes up overtime if you put in the work
This is so true
I have so much respect for men like you.
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Yho! We need to start developing the younger generation to stop making these kinds of mistakes, but firstly we need to develop ourselves and fix our wrongs. yha! it hit home bro!
My thoughts too, it's easier to groom a child than to teach and old man how to live. We need to do better in this generation as we have identified many of the issues.
@@fifs4sa That's so true but yet again it starts with us. We need to repair our selves first so that we do not teach the incorrect things.
@@fifs4sa True but also gents encourage fathers not to abdicate their responsibilities fathers are abandoning their children at an alarming rate here in Mzansi😢
Women make rules for the men they don't like but break rules for the men they want.
People be with who they want to be with, it's really that simple
You know the truth
"Aubheke nje ublima"
You didn't hear anything he said.
@@lihledlamini8723 typical female that never wants to hear the truth.
You hit the nail on the coffin🎯. We are easily manipulated, we fall for BS and we definitely put women on a pedestal. One thing I've learnt in my previous relationships is to never put a woman on a pedestal. I've been standing on this decision.
I love listen on speaker while doing house chores, my son keep saying " a bad word, that man is saying a bad word!"
When i looked at the title of the video...i thought was going to disagree but watching the video...I totally agree with with most things you said ....Most men are weak when they are in front of a Woman ...especially if she's beautiful..i once intervene on a woman who was GBV ing or assaulting a older man on a taxi but most people on the taxi were on the women's side eventhou she was slapping the man 😮...that took me back , i was surprised by everyone's reaction...i was the only one who told the women she was wrong for slapping the old man . That situation showed me thr the level of simping in the country.
It's not simping, women are hardly held accountable for their actions
I think its simping just double standards if the old man slapped the women x will erupt
I wish this video was long.
I become frustrated when men beg women even when it's the same women who wronged them.
This 💯 💯 💯 💯!!!
Are you assuming that Gcinile was a ‘weekend special’ to Grootman? The thing with men is that as soon as a women wears expensive things she’s a ‘bitch, slay queen…’ don’t forget that the same Gcinile has been with Groot for years and the guy kept cheating on Gcinile until she decided to move on, also they have a child so you can’t call that a weekend special. Refrain from calling people derogatory names simply bcoz they wear and go to places that a deemed expensive
you don't listen
Non sequitur fallacy. I wonder why you are getting likes defending degeneracy. No woman who values and respects her body, would allow a man to humiliate her like that. first of all, people take pictures to create memories. But having a sextape just reveals your nefarius personality. The title seems to suit her, as Grootman had to go to an extent of scamming other people to maintain her fancy life.
It is not about women,...its about self identity, how you define who you are,...we are using things and women to validate us.....
The fact that 'they' keep pushing the narrative that men r visual beings that means men r shallow and if that doesn't say weak idk what does. The very same narrative also pushes women to be shallow cos now we competing to look attractive for men.
I wish all men can watch this 🙏🏾thank you Pen
Same sister's becomes state witness against this gent😂 somehow got me in stitches 😂
Yet she was so happy when showing off baby reveal from the sky in the chopper 😂😂😂.
Yoooh 😮, isono lesi...maybe the parents and siblings were not taken care of as brother says ! Sick world !
But that's always the case. They will gladly burn the table and watch you struggle to eat just to spite you.
It’s crazy the things we do for women. Crazy!!!!!
Gents are not broken Broer, problem is the ideologies most gents possess and lack of real mentors broer. Tv got these gents in their feels and thinking gratification is purpose.
💯You’re so right. Ngabe sizoyakha nobani imizi uma kunje. Obaba bama-Insta Stories 🙆🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Angithi makuza thina amadoda esintu nithi " he's too traditional and strict ".
Angazi bangaki Abantu besifazane abahlehla Kimi mangabe bethola ukuthi angiphuzi, angihambi ebusuku futhi angikho Kuma social media.
Mina ngikhonza uThixo bese ngijaha umnotho ozoletha ingcebo yezingane zami ezizayo engingakabi nazo.
I almost scrolled down. I'm glad I didn't. This is a great conversation.
Thank you!!! 🙏🏽
Inciteful content. Makes me as a man think deep.
Please. Let’s process.
Bro your spelling 😅changes everything
inciteful...🤣🤣...point still valid though.
Error from my side. But you know what I meant.
That's all that matters.
I'll rather be a "seShimane" to them weekend special ladies. Real men, get yourself a real women... Siyabonga buth'omdala for your words.
What determines real?
@@sibongisenikhumalo8198good question
Where do I find real women?
Real women are there. Sadly, they are a handful. This is why it's not easy locating them.
The rest are garbage. All they care about is instant gratification. Who provides that? These simps with no morals.
The quality of good women is at its lowest.
@@FictionHubZA They aren't in huge numbers. She could be at your workplace, gym, grocery store, malls etc.
These women are grounded, desires a family of her own, dresses appropriately, submissive, cultured and in most cases are godly individuals.
Mfethu, most guys are grown by single mothers. If not, they're grown by fathers who were grown by single mothers. That's why masculinity is declining. Chain yabo baba is missing. Bring our fathers back! Nginiqcele bafana ba Mlotshwa
Preach brother preach !!!
Build strong children, Don't repair Weak Men...
Don’t waste your time on weak men!
Big question who's gonna build those kids , if the head of the family is weak , and mostly kids raised by women or single parents .. They act on emotions mostly and do things based on how they feel ... But it's not women fault ...it's a system... I can go deeper....
@@gabela112 100%... You and i start and we hold those around us, our brothers and friends accountable.. We start and hope it ripples into something bigger... No one taught us about money, responsibility, action, intention and building. These are all fundamentals of what it means to be a Man but no-one knows what it is to be a man anymore so we start teaching, start a podcast, coach a soccer team... My solution doesn't solve 90% of households but 1% is enough for an impact.
@@bernettemabasa3759clean a room with a drop of water
@@gabela112 you are spot on....the so called "weak men", were raised by single mothers, outside of marriage...Fathers are a source of identity,...identity is a source of validation, ...fatherless boys become weak men at a later stage....
Is that a nose piercing and nail polish, I see??
"Men are weak"😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Gazi you are the problem.
Be careful not to be called or labelled misogynistic,as this is what the world has become. We have become afraid to speak out as men and do what is morally right as our ancestors did. Thank you for such powerful message.
This is real talk
Amen
I think we as man forget that woman are humans especially in the dating scene....they also have crushes so as a man you don't have to do too much for the right woman that's into you which i have to say they are rare.
True that brother 🎯🤝
This is gospel, we are leaving in a sick sad world! Times have changed
Deep talk,been saying about guys spoiling random huns and leaving their families not taken care of and women were mad at me
New subscriber. This is the kind of content we need.
I wish we could send this to our schools man, so much knowledge in just 14 minutes. It feels illegal to be exposed to such crucial information at such a young age.
1 min in and I’m already agreeing w you🤧🤧🤧, South African men’s minds have been poisoned with Lust
I love this ❤️ cook my brother cook and I hope this weak man with money are watching
Frank Lucas was the one who wore a $100,000 fur coat with a matching $10,000 hat. That drew attention from the Feds
yes......and the fur coat was from the lady he was smashing at the time
The point flew right over your head...Frank was forced to wear the fur coat by the wife as she bought it to surprise him and deep down he knew it would draw attention but he did wear it anyways. So he got caught because he wanted to please the lady.
@@Moola93he got caught because the detective was there looking for criminals. If it wasn't the fur coat it was going to be the sitting arrangements. Either way he was fucked and that was his wife not just some skizer nje that he just met
every single thing you said is so VALID!!!
"But I never lost no bitches chasing money, how real is that?
Only time a woman made a man a millionaire
Was when that man was a former billionaire, how trill is that?"- Royce Da 5'9
"Women have been the down fall of men ever since pussy was discovered" - Royce da 59
But guess what, he is married 😂
Yes I'm am woman and I agree with this man.. I'm thankful for my boyfriend because he is a Real man a man of integrity, respect, loyalty and power.. So I feel safe with him. You attract what you are.
This is powerful,, finally a true G speaking facts 👏💯🔥🔥💯
I always share your thoughts with my son and encourage him to listen to you.As a mom I appreciate you
This is what I’m constantly instilling on my little brothers, self love in a generation of weak men!
I always tell my male friends who chase "Stocko" to always love themselves and make money so that they have the privilege of options of choosing the best women for them. Chasing girls and you're broke or scamming people for those girls will only get them hurt. Gents need to love themselves and work on themselves so they can the difference between Quality and Quantity. I am am not saying Grootman is right here for his threats but if he chose himself first he would be in a different situation. Gents really need to love themselves hey..
That doesn't make sense, focus on myself and look for a woman later, how?
Tell them to seek the kingdom of God First
100% mfo, it’s time we fix this culture of weakness. Thank you for the message 👏🏾
I never comment to RUclips posts, but I have to on this one. You just hit the nail on the head, Penson!
This is the Gospel truth.... Men must invest in themselves, love themselves above all else! Amen to this!
Very truthful an interesting but unfortunately it won't stop it's been here since the beginning of time a generational curse that Adam past on when he commented the first crime for eve😂
That's why in other countries they force women to respect gents and also force gents to be gentle towards women. Let's respect one another.
you are the @Shadhaya of South Africa. Powerful
One other thing I've picked up, as men (especially us young dudes in their 20s and 30s) we tend compete among ourselves for the sake of seeking recognition as a dominant male figure over others. It's like competing to be the guy with the most "toys". And by "toys" I mean all these materialistic things (Money, designer clothes, cars etc.)
All these things we want to ultimately please women. Now this creates internal and unnecessary pressure. Then we force ourselves to remain strong even though internally we're hurting.
It's only 1 out 10 gents who can spot this and when they address it, they're perceived as weaklings, stupid or clown. Currently in my early 20s, here I am constantly thinking if whether or not I'm spending my youthful days right all because my peers seem to be having more fun than I do. One would think I have a mindset of a 40 something year-old man whenever I approach certain situations based on my personal principles and discipline. Watching this made me realize how proud I should of my personal conduct. For instance, I'm currently renovating my parents' house bit by bit here and there. I'm temporarily keeping my heart and wallet locked from all ladies. Otherwise I'll die of unwanted stress of trying to fit in and please them. Thank you!
💙💙💙
Very powerful and inspiring 🙏🙏🙏
What a preacher. Young man here. Glad to come across you bruv. Subscribed.👊
You've never hear the saying "be a women of your word" for a reason...
What a man!!!🔥 We need men like you to remind men to be MEN.
Good ! Tell your fellow women to stop having unrealistic expectations if not demands from men. We are not ATMs nor were we born in banks for heaven's sake !!
This generation of women is sickening. No wonder they are promiscuous and pride themselves in such godless behavior as they are " securing the bag ".
It’s funny how I sometimes click on your videos with the mindset to fight your captions but you win me over at the end😂😂😂😂😂. You’re a G
Big bro i feel what you're saying but would you say external influences and lack of proper role models also play a part in this whole thing
If you don't take accountability and blame external circumstances you lose your power. When you say it's all on me, then you take the power back because now you can do something about it
Too much wisdom coming from you brother..🥹
So sad....
We need to try hard and commit to raise strong sons and daughters who value themselves
Very powerful message from this episode, proving a point to women when you don't even have anything 😢
It's about time some guy stand up and say it!!! I hope people's sons are listening cause when we sisters speak about it they say we are snobbish,rude and haters. A very sad nation indeed.
And just like that, subscribed!
Some Woman will be mad when they see this video,real talk man🔥😩
"None entities" "nonsensical women"... the real talk... and I like how you have made a distinction for the ladies in our lives who actually do matter...
Home boy is cooking
The stove is forever on with Penson!
Brother, i have been thinking and in utter pain of how as brothers we give into our lust and pleasures truly. It’s heart wrenching, all this we truly lose our values and ye man. We appreciate you
So true bro, I was having a discussion with a friend the other time, and I was saying if we can expand the economy and create enough employment opportunities we can end the crime. He said, we won't because these criminals don't rob and kill us to buy food, they want the lifestyle, to impress women and have some "status". I had to sit and rethink, there's no correlation between between poverty and crime, case in point are countries poorer than SA in Africa and yet are rated as most peaceful. I had to concede on that argument.
Point is I agree with you, they don't rob us to buy bread or pack of potatoes but for women.
Well said brother. Well said
I liked the video before i listened n bothers me is the caption of the video mara ke ithi ndi mamele....
Please listen 🙏
Clicked on the video ngespeed sika Usain Bolt. Click bait yakwabani!😂😂😂. Worth a listen for the gents though.
@@siphokazidepa My apologies for the click bait 🙈
That boy is absolutely embarrassing and needs to be jailed especially for the s*x tape.
I feel no remorse for the girl either she knew what kind of guy she is with
But that's double standards,
''I feel no remorse for the girl either she knew what kind of guy she is with''
So, a sex tape got leaked and a portion of that is her fault?
not the fact that he broke her TRUST?
not the fact that it is absolutely wrong to AIR AN INTIMATE ACT without the consent of the other party?
she was suppose to jump into the future and see what kind man he was?
Listen, im all for accountability.
but blaming ANY VICTIM for the actions of the PERSON THAT TOOK THEIR OWN AUTOMONY from them, is wrong.
Its exactly how white people complain about how black/poc respond to the systemic racism that we still live in.
Bruh, im literally still shocked and confused by the complete cognitive dissonance you have to say this
'' needs to be jailed especially for the s*x tape. ''
and then in the same breath say this:
''I feel no remorse for the girl either she knew what kind of guy she is with''
if your dad hit your mom today, you gonna turnaround and ask your mom, okay but what did you do to provoke him to hit you? you should have known the man you married?
@@zulu9357 call it what you want I don't care, she helped the guy scam people she's as much a criminal as he is. She enjoyed the fruits watered by people's tears caused by her and her ex
@@Jayye.-zc1sl broke her trust? Why trust a scammer who scammed poor people young and old and even after helping him? There's no victim here just a fool and a bigger fool
@TshepoMavimbela so the mathematics is that, the revenge porn that came out of this is nothing but a “consequence” for trusting a scammer? i think you’re talking about the two people and i’m talking about the actions & how much deeper this is than just “trusting a scammer”. so we’re not on the same page.
but nonetheless. thanks for the exchange. have a lovely day further.
Im glad im not the only one seeing this
Preach my brother 🔥🔥🔥
Wisdom right there, especially when touching that parent who strive and pray and spent each cent , and no appreciation from their son....sad ..i can attest as a parent...its a pain ! God help our boy children 😢😢
Brother I followed you, you will change the world but just take out the F word because the young ones things it's normal to include F word when we speak.
he doesn’t control what other people say bruv
Lol ama Kati and weekend special killed me😂😂😂
My brother thank you. The things we do for these women. I remember when I started working I used to buy my mom gifts especially on her birthday. The other year I scored a date with a yellow bone but it was on my mom birthday I spent R1000 for patrol and the lunch we had and this girl started flirting with our waiter. She demanded I give him a bigger tip for the amazing service. That was the last time I spoke to that girl
Grootman has always done things to impress girls since I've known of him. I stayed at the same Res as him in 2017 to 2018 and all the while he was scamming he would host parties and invite girls over. I'm not close to him but I feel he's addicted to the attention from women, I could be wrong but he's never been single throughout the time I've seen him and always has some girl whose into the fast money lifestyle.
Nna Ke tshaba banana👩 hunny💔😩
Yo Penson! 💯 agree with you, what a generation of weak men 😂 you're right in using the word "pandemic". Yes, this phenomenon has always existed but for this generation it has scaled exponentially.
You are cooking bro.....I've been saying....we are loosing it
Thank you so much!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🔥
Facts! I've seen dudes use rent money for Slay Queens
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U got me reflecting on some of my habits. This is powerful
I subscribed vandag , because i genuinely like your approach to life. u are that grootman that always stands for the trutrh....i love the fact that you never mince your words. you are never biased.
The problem is that we've lost our ways.. Its Sad cause majita end up in this trap and not focusing on their Lives..I always tell Gents that IT Girls, Gold Diggers etc. Are only good for show but never invest in one.
What ways are you talking about?
@@sibongisenikhumalo8198slay queens and gold diggers are only good for one night stands or just as a snack but never invest your time in getting to know them
I agree with everything you said but you shouldn’t have focused on Gcinile as a “main example”. Grootman publicly cheated and humiliated that lady and she saw her worth and moved on. What did you want her to do?? To bekezela like our moms did. Being cheated on publicly is mad disrespect honestly.
💯 Nazoke....shaye khona mbhemi
This guy is on point....todays man wear panties,long live the spirit of our fathers long live
You ain’t tell a damn lie…
As a 20 year old I heard you king respect am never gonna ask a fish how to cash it powerful thanks
Dankie mfowethu, sikuvile budah yam! 💪
Very true. Its the things we see on social media and tv, bad influence. Im glad we have people like Tate and you who are always looking out for young men and advising us.
Uyindoda mlotshwa🤝 keep on growing us as mens more brother!!
Im glad to hear that some men still are still thinking this way...as a man who spend my 30s juggling between women the cost of chasing women I would have build an enterprise...
💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Powerful words l hope as Amajita we will listen and act on our weaknesses ✊🏾
Thank you for the wisdom you have opened alot of eyes
2min~ I think Frankil yena himself WORE that expensive fur coat & got caught.
It was a Chinchilla(sic)!
Got caught due to showing off!
This message won't make it to those who need to hear it. But truth was spoken.
Women must learn to be accountable
I've been watching this channel for some time now. Yow I'm havin' a great time with these -+ 10 min clips & I've been lucky to catch em when I wake up at 04Am preparing for work. VERY INFORMATIVE , King!
What King wears nail polish???
Thanks Pen needed this motivation and lecture. Keep these realty check videos coming. 💯🔥
True, true, true and true.