Female ENFP and I met the love of my life INTJ. We were just friends for 9 months and then it hit me what an amazing man he is. We’ve been dating for 3 weeks and it’s incredible: we are so determined to make our love take us to marriage. Today I helped me let me in. He told me about his deepest fears and we both cried. I was holding his heart. It was so beautiful. I love that he deems me trustworthy. I will be loyal to him till I die. He’s my hero and best friend. INTJ are best for ENFP.
Can I ask for some relationship advice in general away from the types : how do you get after only 3 weeks to talk about marriage or to decide that you BOTH are determined to go there together , doesn't that make the guy especially want to run ?
INTJ here, yes I’m very warm and I despise small talk, and ENFPs are smart and knwo how to engage in a conversation and keep you interested. ENFPs are attractive for being easy to talk to and share anything they have with you, and that’s amazing. Especially past experiences and that’s something I like.
@@belindahb Thank you!!! Check out my INTJ Playlist, I love already created lots of videos trying to help INTJs! ruclips.net/p/PLhm1ooCnBB9IFRvO19ljavlA0AwoMy3WK
The more you talk, more curious I am as an INTJ, you get us like no other personality, and it's wholesome and true, no lies just be honest truth. That is so cool, to know somebody like you is out there, bravo 🦉💜💚🧐🤔
I totally agreeeeee!!! I had this girl really really really really pretty, and we started talking and we bonded so good, and then she took the test and she was ENFP.. so, it's the perfect match indeed. It's sad she lives in another country though
I’m an INTJ female and your 2nd point spoke to my soul haha. Men have quickly given up on pursuing me because I put up barriers and probably look cold, unapproachable etc. so I cannot blame them. However, I recently found out that one guy that has been in and out of my life for 6 years, who has managed to defy all odds and bust down any barrier that I have put up before him, is an ENFP 🥳🥳🤣🤣
Very good point about INTJs needing a sound board. I find that a lot of the things I say are half-baked thoughts that I'm still working through, and it really helps to have someone to bounce the ideas off of. getting some external input is always helpful. I think this is related to the Te function primarily.
I am an ENFP, INTJ is very interesting. They look cool at first, but then when you know them more and more they become more talkative and fun. But INTJ is really reserve , they like to discuss about facts and data. And is like every time will discuss on something,they just like to search on internet for facts to Prove it 😂. Is like need verification code to proceed to the next step. It's is hard to know the inner feeling of INTJ as they don't show up to the people that they doesn't trust. But I will feel very proud and honour , if the INTJ tell me more about it. Thats accurate, ENFP is quite naive and would like to try for new things, even the probability to success is low, as everything is possible!
I like this comment. Thanks for sharing your experience with the INTJs. It seems like you know them quite well. Have you checked my video about "How to spot an INTJ?" ruclips.net/video/jcAlWDBBuB0/видео.html
We don't like being vulnerable because it almost always leads to pain and being betrayed. We tend to seek truth and not happiness because more than any of the other types, we know how cruel and harsh this world is.
OMG all spot on! I always get people to open up by telling them something important and personal about myself. I love listening to my INTJ's thoughts and I told him that. He said he seldom shares these thoughts to anyone else.
I'm an ENFP guy and a very good friend of mine is an INTJ. He has told me that he really enjoys listening to me and finds interesting what I'm saying and the way I'm saying it.He has stated that he admires my beliefs and passions. Another friend of mine is dating an INTJ girl and he introduced her to me, and after some minutes talking she started feeling at ease with me and even found me cool as well and we exchange a lot of philosophy and random chit chats. INTJ are cool people and I always get along with em.I've never dated one to be honest, but as friends at least they're wonderful.
Wow great experiences. It’s a fulfilling relationship for both parties, the intj and the ENFP. The INTJ helps the ENFP and makes their lives better as well. Check o it this video: ruclips.net/video/Hq3cCYv0LmA/видео.html
I love ExFP and NPs ,they entertain and educate me . ENFJs are cool . I love every MBTI type for who they are. But for me the interaction had to serve education or entertainment , or I prefer my own company , not out of being selfish . It is out of maximizing the use of our time . That is a sort of respect . INTJ-A
Just one: show interest in something. I, and I think many other INTJs would agree, is that we are actually quite open. But we don't choose to interact when we don't see any point in it. So it has to be either other person's interest or that of our own. In an INTJ isn't interested in something then that's that. End of story.
Is it a INTJ thing to want to watch this as opposition research? 😄 If I can learn to block the ENFP's magical abilities. :) #1- agree #2 - id love that, agree #3 - sharing information would be such a draw. New data is juicy :). #4 - Why are you telling people this? No one is supposed to know that we are lovable goofballs. We are all "Evil Geniuses" right everyone!? 😆 I wonder if on some level INTJ's push the cliché about INTJ's themselves because the cliché provides some cover to who we really are. #5 - Correct again. People who I feel like are actually listening gain a ton of approval points. I wouldn't say romantically but they can quickly earn a warm place in my heart.
1) Very True, I can be a good Listener if im very intrigured on certain topics, and Personally if im talking to someone and It seems as if they are not Interested it Kills my entire mood to even talk. 2) It feels Heart-Warming when an ENFP opens up themself (Personally speaking) Its like a strong magical spell 😂😂 and they always interest me deeply 😂😂 3) Its True that are we very curious people 😂😂 In general i just like to do Random researches on things that interests me especially in the moment 😂😂, there is a possibility my curiosity might bother me If i cant find a solution 4) We love the Playfullness and Fun in general 😂😂 5) Its as if the ENFP is "setting Up the INTJ to be a Better person" 😂😂
I'm an INTJ and have problems open up, even with the guy I like. And this is because of he is "friends dependent", he talks everything with them even the time I told him I like him. Then gossips start and I don't like being the center of attention, I wish he was a little more reserved, I have a lot of doubts about this. What if we date and I do or said something 'wrong', he have many friends that can make my life miserable and even know were I live, I have nobody 🤔🤔 But I want to give him an opportunity, I looks to be good on the surface but I find hard to trust him.
How much time do I need to give an INTJ before deciding to move on in the initial phases of dating? I heard INTJs need to retreat sometimes in dating. I am torn between waiting and moving on haha
Hi everyone!! If you're enjoying this video, I'm sure you'd like to check out my video called "How to spot an INTJ in real life and on social media". Here it is: ruclips.net/video/jcAlWDBBuB0/видео.html
Female ENFP and I met the love of my life INTJ. We were just friends for 9 months and then it hit me what an amazing man he is. We’ve been dating for 3 weeks and it’s incredible: we are so determined to make our love take us to marriage. Today I helped me let me in. He told me about his deepest fears and we both cried. I was holding his heart. It was so beautiful. I love that he deems me trustworthy. I will be loyal to him till I die. He’s my hero and best friend. INTJ are best for ENFP.
Can I ask for some relationship advice in general away from the types : how do you get after only 3 weeks to talk about marriage or to decide that you BOTH are determined to go there together , doesn't that make the guy especially want to run ?
@@malakashraf2801 Theyve known eachother for 9 months.
9 months is relatively lesser time for an INTJ. Anyways all the very best.
Totally agree with all points. INTJ here who luckily has several ENFPs in my life.
Hey Maneli, thank you for your feedback 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻✨
I cant relate T.T
ENFP nation right here !
INTJ here, yes I’m very warm and I despise small talk, and ENFPs are smart and knwo how to engage in a conversation and keep you interested. ENFPs are attractive for being easy to talk to and share anything they have with you, and that’s amazing. Especially past experiences and that’s something I like.
It sounds like you agree with my 5 points! ☺️ thanks for your feedback!
I watched your video about ENFPs as well, great job, you get to the point and you explain things in a clear easy way. I enjoyed that a lot.
@@belindahb Thank you!!! Check out my INTJ Playlist, I love already created lots of videos trying to help INTJs!
ruclips.net/p/PLhm1ooCnBB9IFRvO19ljavlA0AwoMy3WK
The more you talk, more curious I am as an INTJ, you get us like no other personality, and it's wholesome and true, no lies just be honest truth. That is so cool, to know somebody like you is out there, bravo 🦉💜💚🧐🤔
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I totally agreeeeee!!! I had this girl really really really really pretty, and we started talking and we bonded so good, and then she took the test and she was ENFP.. so, it's the perfect match indeed. It's sad she lives in another country though
I’m an INTJ female and your 2nd point spoke to my soul haha. Men have quickly given up on pursuing me because I put up barriers and probably look cold, unapproachable etc. so I cannot blame them. However, I recently found out that one guy that has been in and out of my life for 6 years, who has managed to defy all odds and bust down any barrier that I have put up before him, is an ENFP 🥳🥳🤣🤣
Yeiiiiiihhhhh 🎉🎉😊
Hey, Infjs do the same 🤺😬😴💫
Very good point about INTJs needing a sound board. I find that a lot of the things I say are half-baked thoughts that I'm still working through, and it really helps to have someone to bounce the ideas off of. getting some external input is always helpful. I think this is related to the Te function primarily.
Very interesting point! Or should I ask, Is it a point or is it a half-baked thought? 🤪😂
@@Mindimalist I'm not sure which it is, let's just say ut's a 3/4 baked thought 🤣
I am an ENFP, INTJ is very interesting. They look cool at first, but then when you know them more and more they become more talkative and fun. But INTJ is really reserve , they like to discuss about facts and data. And is like every time will discuss on something,they just like to search on internet for facts to Prove it 😂. Is like need verification code to proceed to the next step. It's is hard to know the inner feeling of INTJ as they don't show up to the people that they doesn't trust. But I will feel very proud and honour , if the INTJ tell me more about it. Thats accurate, ENFP is quite naive and would like to try for new things, even the probability to success is low, as everything is possible!
I like this comment. Thanks for sharing your experience with the INTJs.
It seems like you know them quite well. Have you checked my video about "How to spot an INTJ?" ruclips.net/video/jcAlWDBBuB0/видео.html
We don't like being vulnerable because it almost always leads to pain and being betrayed. We tend to seek truth and not happiness because more than any of the other types, we know how cruel and harsh this world is.
OMG all spot on! I always get people to open up by telling them something important and personal about myself. I love listening to my INTJ's thoughts and I told him that. He said he seldom shares these thoughts to anyone else.
I'm INTJ , yes it's all true
Glad to hear!!! I love the confirmation, because in the end I’m just an (very observant) enfp 😇😃
I'm an ENFP guy and a very good friend of mine is an INTJ. He has told me that he really enjoys listening to me and finds interesting what I'm saying and the way I'm saying it.He has stated that he admires my beliefs and passions.
Another friend of mine is dating an INTJ girl and he introduced her to me, and after some minutes talking she started feeling at ease with me and even found me cool as well and we exchange a lot of philosophy and random chit chats.
INTJ are cool people and I always get along with em.I've never dated one to be honest, but as friends at least they're wonderful.
Wow great experiences. It’s a fulfilling relationship for both parties, the intj and the ENFP. The INTJ helps the ENFP and makes their lives better as well. Check o it this video: ruclips.net/video/Hq3cCYv0LmA/видео.html
I love ExFP and NPs ,they entertain and educate me .
ENFJs are cool .
I love every MBTI type for who they are. But for me the interaction had to serve education or entertainment , or I prefer my own company , not out of being selfish . It is out of maximizing the use of our time . That is a sort of respect .
INTJ-A
i love my intj bestie
Cool MBTI duo!!! 😎
Me, an INTJ watching it to be sure I don't open up next time. Also, it would be much better with a list in description ☹️
Sorry I do that sometimes, but as an enfp it’s tough to function as other types who would list time stamps.
Just one: show interest in something. I, and I think many other INTJs would agree, is that we are actually quite open. But we don't choose to interact when we don't see any point in it. So it has to be either other person's interest or that of our own. In an INTJ isn't interested in something then that's that. End of story.
Ooooh there's so much for me to catch up on!
Haha awww welcome back! I missed you in the comments!!!
Love ur vids 💖 never stop pls 😘
💗💗💗💗😘😘😘
Your background environment open up me/intj
😂 not sure what you mean but it sounds funny though
Great video! I love the background :) Where is it?
Thanks darling 🤍 It’s Costa Rica! 🌴
I'm an ENFP and just met an INTJ girl I really felt I vibed with. Now to consider when/how to ask her out.
Is it a INTJ thing to want to watch this as opposition research? 😄 If I can learn to block the ENFP's magical abilities. :)
#1- agree
#2 - id love that, agree
#3 - sharing information would be such a draw. New data is juicy :).
#4 - Why are you telling people this? No one is supposed to know that we are lovable goofballs. We are all "Evil Geniuses" right everyone!? 😆 I wonder if on some level INTJ's push the cliché about INTJ's themselves because the cliché provides some cover to who we really are.
#5 - Correct again. People who I feel like are actually listening gain a ton of approval points. I wouldn't say romantically but they can quickly earn a warm place in my heart.
Oops! Sorry for revealing the secrets. I didn’t know they were secrets though!! 😅
1) Very True, I can be a good Listener if im very intrigured on certain topics, and Personally if im talking to someone and It seems as if they are not Interested it Kills my entire mood to even talk.
2) It feels Heart-Warming when an ENFP opens up themself (Personally speaking) Its like a strong magical spell 😂😂 and they always interest me deeply 😂😂
3) Its True that are we very curious people 😂😂 In general i just like to do Random researches on things that interests me especially in the moment 😂😂, there is a possibility my curiosity might bother me If i cant find a solution
4) We love the Playfullness and Fun in general 😂😂
5) Its as if the ENFP is "setting Up the INTJ to be a Better person" 😂😂
you can talk about enfps and istps?
I'm an INTJ and have problems open up, even with the guy I like. And this is because of he is "friends dependent", he talks everything with them even the time I told him I like him. Then gossips start and I don't like being the center of attention, I wish he was a little more reserved, I have a lot of doubts about this. What if we date and I do or said something 'wrong', he have many friends that can make my life miserable and even know were I live, I have nobody 🤔🤔
But I want to give him an opportunity, I looks to be good on the surface but I find hard to trust him.
Me, an INTJ, noting how to defend myself from the bubbly and cute assault on my mental wall: ;)
How do I get my ENFP wife of 28 years to open up. Signed desperate INTJ
Hi, can INTJs ghost you or will they tell you when they’re done with you?
Ghosting can be a INTJ thing indeed. Unless they mature.
How much time do I need to give an INTJ before deciding to move on in the initial phases of dating? I heard INTJs need to retreat sometimes in dating. I am torn between waiting and moving on haha
@@SR-vf7bz What if she didn’t give me any warnings? We were just supposed to go on another date before she disappeared.
@@SR-vf7bz Are you an INTJ?
@@SR-vf7bz this video has got me confused
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Hi everyone!! If you're enjoying this video, I'm sure you'd like to check out my video called "How to spot an INTJ in real life and on social media". Here it is: ruclips.net/video/jcAlWDBBuB0/видео.html